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We dive into the 2016 masterpiece Moonlight, written and directed by Barry Jenkins, based on the play In Moonlight Black Boys Look Blue by Tarell Alvin McCraney. Moonlight explores the journey of a young African-American man, Chiron, as he navigates his identity, sexuality, and the complexities of growing up, with each chapter of his life portrayed by a different actor. The film is split into three parts: childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, each deeply exploring themes of self-acceptance, vulnerability, and the societal pressures surrounding masculinity.
Trigger Warning:
This episode discusses themes of trauma, violence, homophobia, and identity struggles that may be triggering for some listeners.Hosts:
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & Intimacy Coach specializing in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Our guest today is Jeremy Crittenden (https://jeremycrittenden.com), an actor and comedian based in New York. Follow him on Instagram at @Jcritty and on TikTok at @hijcritty
Important voices to learn from:Aaron Johnson
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holistic_resistance/
The Cut Project: https://www.cutproject.org/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cut.project/
Dark and Tender film: https://www.instagram.com/dark.and.tender.film/
Resmaa Menakem
My Grandmother’s Hands: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/34146782-my-grandmother-s-hand
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/resmaamenakem/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/resmaa
Adrienne Maree Brown
Website: https://adriennemareebrown.net/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriennemareebrown/
Raoul Peck
Exterminate All the Brutes (HBO Mini-series): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQ4r3Qdrqmo
Based on the book by Sven Lindquist: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/909011._Exterminate_All_the_Brutes_
Raoul Peck
Exterminate All the Brutes (HBO Mini-series): Wikipedia
Explore Your Relationship Patterns:
Take Jason’s Hidden Relationship Patterns Quiz: Uncover subconscious patterns that influence how you show up in your relationships. Get started with the quiz at hiddenpatterns.somarelating.ca. You'll receive a personalized e-book with insights and practical tips to improve your relationships.
Transform Your Relationships:
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships.
It’s only $59 and you can use promo code CINEMA25 to get 25% off. Go to: http://www.somarelating.ca
Topics Discussed:[00:00] – Introduction of the podcast, hosts, and the hidden relationship patterns quiz.
[02:39] – Opening Reaction to the Moonlight Trailer
[03:44] – Relationship to the film:hosts share their deep admiration for Moonlight and the empathy it generates.
[08:26] – Disclaimer on speaking to the African American experience: hosts acknowledge their position as white Canadians and direct listeners to voices discussing the African American experience.
[10:49] – Complexity of identity and class in the film: reflection on the film’s layers, including identity, class, and orientation.
[13:55] – Discussion of Chiron’s emotional isolation and the significance of the community around him.
[16:33] – Exploration of the use of classical music in the film, blending it with hip-hop influences.
[17:19] –Introduction of key characters, including Juan, Teresa, and Paula, and reflection on their performances.
[20:30] –Examination of the developing relationship between Chiron and Kevin, focused on care and tenderness.
[21:46] –Discussion of the absence of mentorship and the challenges of parenting amidst addiction.
[23:47]–The beach scene and vulnerability: discussion of Juan teaching Chiron how to navigate the challenges of life through the metaphor of the ocean.
[26:47] – Chiron’s vulnerability and masking: Chiron’s emotional armor and the societal pressures he faces to mask vulnerability.
[28:04] – Reflection on the absence of a mentor figure in Chiron's life and its impact.
33:39 – The role of scapegoating:introduction to René Girard’s concept of scapegoating and how it plays out in the film.
35:16 – Discussion of Chiron’s response to bullying and his journey into emotional isolation.
[37:47] –Chiron’s violent retaliation against his bully as a response to his inner turmoil.
[41:56] –Kevin and Chiron reconnect at the diner, and the vulnerability they share is explored.
[44:59] –Safety, healing, and vulnerability:the emotional safety Chiron finds with Kevin, contrasting with his earlier experiences.
[53:48] –Jeremy’s experience with code-switching:Jeremy shares his personal experience of navigating different identities for survival.
[59:25] –Scapegoating and social systems: discussion of how scapegoating operates in both personal and societal systems.
[1:08:58] –Reflection on Chiron’s transformation and the unmasking of his vulnerability.
[1:11:53] –Final thoughts on the film: the tenderness of the final scene, highlighting Chiron's desire to be seen and held.
Additional Resources:
IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4975722/
Wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moonlight_(2016_film)
Jason’s somatic coach, Bettina Rothe: https://www.bettinarothe.com/Rene Girard and Scapegoating
Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ren%C3%A9_Girard
Mimetic Theory: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mimetic_theory
CBC did an incredible series on Girard’s Scapegoat:
https://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/the-scapegoat-the-ideas-of-ren%C3%A9-girard-part-1-1.3474195The Scapegoat, Part 1: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/the-scapegoat-the-ideas-of-ren%C3%A9-girard-part-1-1.3474195
The Scapegoat, Part 2: http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/the-scapegoat-the-ideas-of-ren%C3%A9-girard-part-2-1.3474463
The Scapegoat, Part 3: http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/the-scapegoat-the-ideas-of-ren%C3%A9-girard-part-3-1.3483382
The Scapegoat, Part 4: http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/the-scapegoat-the-ideas-of-ren%C3%A9-girard-part-4-1.3483817
The Scapegoat, Part 5: http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/the-scapegoat-the-ideas-of-ren%C3%A9-girard-part-5-1.3494516
About the Podcast
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
Produced by: Jason Goode
Editing and Mixing by: Taqi
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):
https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet
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In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley dive into Laurel Parmet’s The Starling Girl (2023), a coming-of-age drama about Jem Starling (played by Eliza Scanlen), a 17-year-old navigating her place in a repressive Christian fundamentalist community. The film takes a bold look at sexuality, autonomy, and the clash between religious doctrine and personal desires, especially when Jem becomes entangled in a secret relationship with her youth pastor, Owen (Louis Pullman).
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of consent, sexual awakening, and spiritual repression that may be triggering or sensitive for some listeners.
Hosts:
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Explore Your Relationship Patterns:
Take Jason’s Hidden Relationship Patterns Quiz: Uncover subconscious patterns that influence how you show up in your relationships. Get started with the quiz at hiddenpatterns.somarelating.ca. You'll receive a personalized e-book with insights and practical tips to improve your relationships.
Transform Your Relationships:
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships.
It’s only $59 and you can use promo code CINEMA25 to get 25% off. Go to: http://www.somarelating.caTopics Discussed:
[00:17] Introduction to the film and its exploration of the tension between faith, sexuality, and self-discovery.
[03:00] Ashley and Jason’s initial reactions to the film’s nuanced portrayal of characters and themes.
[10:00] The role of religion and purity culture in shaping Jem's identity and sexual experiences.
[17:30] The chemistry between Jem and Owen and the dynamics of power and consent in their relationship.
[25:00] The impact of the church environment on Jem's sense of autonomy and her body.
[35:00] Exploring the spiritual and emotional isolation created by rigid religious structures.
[45:00] The conversation about consent, the confusion around sexuality, and the dangers of religious purity standards.
[55:00] The film's ending: Jem’s path toward reclaiming her agency and stepping into her own future.
[1:05:00] A reflection on how The Starling Girl challenges the portrayal of fundamentalist communities in film and its empathy for the characters.
Additional Resources:
Hellbound? (Documentary) by Kevin Miller
Find it on IMDb: Hellbound?
Purchase it here: Hellbound? DVDShameless by Rev. Nadia Bolz-Weber
Jason recommends this book as an insightful exploration of sexuality and spirituality. Learn more: Shameless by Rev. Nadia Bolz-WeberThe Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: a foundational framework for understanding giving, receiving, and consent. Watch her videos on YouTube: Betty Martin's YouTube Channel
The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin: an excellent resource for those exploring their sexuality in more depth. It offers insight into how shame and repression, often rooted in religious or societal frameworks, affect our sexual development and self-awareness. Find it HERE: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/174777.The_Erotic_Mind
About the Podcast:
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects related to sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking discussions.
Produced by: Jason Goode
Editing and Mixing by: Taqi
Music from: #Uppbeat – "Ultraviolet"
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In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley are joined by special guest Garland Jarmon, a sex and intimacy coach from Seattle, Washington, to dive into the surreal and provocative world of Yorgos Lanthimos’ Poor Things (2023). Starring Emma Stone, Mark Ruffalo, and Willem Dafoe, this bold film follows Bella Baxter’s extraordinary journey of self-discovery, autonomy, and embodiment after her unconventional resurrection by a brilliant yet unorthodox scientist.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of sexuality, autonomy, and body experimentation, which may be sensitive for some listeners.
Hosts
Jason Goode is Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Our guest is Garland Jarmon, a Sex and Intimacy Coach, based in Seattle. Visit his website at spiritualeros.com. Garland helps individuals explore their bodies and sexuality through somatic education, free from shame, guilt, and judgment.
Explore Your Relationship Patterns
Take Jason’s Hidden Relationship Patterns Quiz: http://hiddenpatterns.somarelating.ca
This free quiz helps you uncover the subconscious patterns influencing your relationships. Along with the quiz, you’ll receive a personalized e-book that offers insights and practical tips to improve how you show up in your relationships.Transform Your Relationships
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships. It’s only $59 and you can use promo code CINEMA25 to get 25% off. www.somarelating.ca
Topics Discussed
[00:17] Welcome and introductions. Exploring the intersection of sex, embodiment, and film.
[01:05] Film overview: Poor Things as a tale of evolution, freedom, and self-discovery.
[10:00] The use of lenses and cinematography to reflect Bella’s inner world.
[24:45] Bella’s sexual awakening and the significance of “happiness.”
[35:00] Experiments in Lisbon: Pleasure, freedom, and sensory discovery.
[45:00] Bella’s loss of innocence in Alexandria: Seeing suffering and evil for the first time.
[50:00] Paris and the brothel: Bella’s exploration of boundaries and consent.
[56:45] Wisdom through experience: The impact of Madam Swinney’s teachings.
[1:05:00] The return to London: Bella’s confrontation with Godwin, Felicity, and her past.
[1:13:44] The confrontation with Alfie: Power, consent, and self-possession.
[1:20:00] The ending: Bella as a triumphant, embodied figure stepping into her power.Additional Resources
The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: https://bettymartin.org/
A foundational framework for understanding giving, receiving, and consent. She has many resourceful videos on her YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BettyMartinDive deep into the Wheel of Consent at the School of Consent: https://www.schoolofconsent.org/
Jaiya's Erotic Blueprint – Discover your erotic blueprint and learn about the healing power of pleasure.
About the Podcast
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
Produced by Jason Goode
Editing and Mixing by Taqi
Music from #Uppbeat
https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet
License code: D1XMKMHAULTCPFSCSupport the Podcast
Please rate, review, and follow the show on your favorite podcast platform. Share with anyone who loves movies and meaningful discussions about sexuality and embodiment!
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In this episode of Sex, Bodies and Cinema, we explore Lance Young’s 1997 film, Bliss, starring Craig Sheffer, Sheryl Lee, and Terence Stamp. The story follows a married couple seeking therapy to address intimacy challenges, ultimately diving into themes of trauma, healing, and embodiment. With Terence Stamp’s enigmatic Balthazar as their guide, the couple confronts hidden parts of themselves and their relationship.
Trigger Warning: This film contains themes of sexual trauma. Please take care when listening to this episode and consider whether these topics may be difficult for you.
Hosts
Jason Goode is Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Explore Your Relationship PatternsTake Jason’s Hidden Relationship Patterns Quiz: http://hiddenpatterns.somarelating.ca
This free quiz helps you uncover the subconscious patterns influencing your relationships. Along with the quiz, you’ll receive a personalized e-book that offers insights and practical tips to improve how you show up in your relationships.Transform Your Relationships
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships. It’s only $59 and you can use promo code CINEMA25 to get 25% off. More info at somarelating.ca
Produced by Jason Goode
Editing and Mixing by Taqi
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):
https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet
License code: UJYTD91BKNNODTSA
Key Topics Discussed[0:00] Opening Thoughts: Reflecting on the film’s 90s marketing and its actual depth, tackling themes of love, vulnerability, and healing.
[15:30] The Role of Somatic Healing: How somatic approaches, like those portrayed in the film, can address sexual trauma and enhance relationships.
[28:45] Therapeutic Boundaries: Discussing ethical dilemmas in sexual healing, privacy, and client-therapist dynamics.
[35:10] Cultural Stigma Around Sexuality: Exploring the differences between society’s tolerance for violence versus sexuality in media, and the challenges this creates for films like Bliss.
[42:00] The Journey of Ecstasy and Embodiment: Unpacking quotes like, “Ecstasy heals the unconscious” and the portrayal of orgasm as a gateway to healing.
[51:00] Gender Dynamics and Power: Analyzing the film’s pivotal scene where Maria reclaims her power, and the complexities of consent and agency in relationships.
[1:02:00] Trauma in Relationships: How suppressed memories can surface during intimate connections, and the courage it takes to address these dynamics within partnerships.
[1:10:00] Narrative Power of Cinema: Discussing the unique ability of narrative films like Bliss to portray complex healing journeys, contrasting with educational content or documentaries.
Additional Resources
Learn more about Somatic Sex Educators:somaticsexeducators.com
Discover the work of Sexological Bodyworkers:sexologicalbodyworkers.org
Understanding Movie Ratings: Motion Picture Association Film Rating System
What is a Sex Surrogate? Learn More
Support Resources for Sexual Trauma Survivors
Canada
Ending Violence Canada: A comprehensive directory of sexual assault centers, crisis lines, and support services.
Visit Ending Violence CanadaKids Help Phone: 24/7 confidential support for youth and adults. Call 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868.
Visit Kids Help PhoneThe Canadian Centre for Abuse Awareness: https://www.abusehurts.ca. This Canadian organization offers programs and services to prevent and heal abuse.
Ending Violence Association of British Columbia (EVA BC): https://endingviolence.org. EVA BC provides resources and support for survivors of sexual assault in British Columbia.
VictimLink BC: 1-800-563-0808. This is a toll-free, confidential, multilingual telephone service available across British Columbia and the Yukon 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It provides information and referral services to all victims of crime and immediate crisis support to victims of family and sexual violence.
United States
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Offers a 24/7 National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) and a live chat feature.
Visit RAINNNational Domestic Violence Hotline: Provides support for abuse survivors. Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788.
Visit the HotlineUnited Kingdom
SurvivorsUK: Support for male survivors of sexual abuse. Chat online or call 020 3598 3898.
Visit SurvivorsUKNSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children): Support for children and families. Call 0808 800 5000.
Visit NSPCCAustralia
1800RESPECT: 24/7 counseling for people impacted by sexual assault and domestic violence. Call 1800 737 732.
Visit 1800RESPECTInternational
1in6: Support for men and their loved ones who have experienced sexual abuse.
Visit 1in6Child Helpline International: A global network of child helplines.
Visit Child Helpline InternationalAdditional Resources
Therapist Directories:
Psychology Today Therapist Finder (Worldwide)
Books and Educational Materials:
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma by Staci Haines
Online Communities and Support Groups:
Pandora’s Project: Online resources and forums for survivors of sexual violence.
Visit Pandora's ProjectAfter Silence: A forum for survivors to share their experiences in a supportive environment.
Visit After Silence
About the PodcastSex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
Produced by Jason Goode
Editing and Mixing by Taqi
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):
https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet
License code: UJYTD91BKNNODTSASupport the Podcast
Please rate, review, and follow the show on your favorite podcast platform. Share with anyone who loves movies and meaningful discussions about sexuality and embodiment!
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Welcome to Sex, Bodies and Cinema—the podcast that boldly navigates the intersection of film, sexuality, and the human experience. Jason Goode and Ashley Rose do a dive deep into films that challenge the taboo surrounding bodies and desire. With backgrounds in film directing and acting, they channel their knowledge as practicing somatic sex educators to illuminate the narratives and themes behind each film they explore. Join them as they dissect a different movie each episode, unpacking its context, creators, and (eventually) its plot twists—all while sparking conversation about what it means to truly embody ourselves.
HostsJason Goode is Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website atashleylizabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Music from #Uppbeat
https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet
License code: HZFQCZVAX6DDLL9N
