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  • You Were Born For This Time

    Season 10 | Episode 7

    Are you stepping into your holy assignment or settling? In this episode, Pastor Oneka McClellan is sharing why you were born royal.

    So Good Moments:

    Why you should never settle for any label less than “God’s Daughter.”Practical ways to fight for peace. Why serving helps you grow.Why you are on a holy assignment in this time and era. How worship can become a weapon of warfare…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What stood out to you about this episode? Has there ever been a time when you had to fight for peace? What are some practical ways you renew your mind with truth? How has serving helped you grow? What worship song helps you when you’re fighting a battle?

    Resources:

    Oneka’s Book: Born Royal

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  • Are you savoring small moments of joy in your day? In this episode, you will hear how to make space for joy and gratitude in your life.

    So Good Moments:

    How comparison robs you of joy.Practical ways to add gratitude into your daily routine. Why joy isn’t something you achieve, but something you grow. How joy is connected to a generous spirit. How to be a thermostat, not a thermometer…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What stood out to you in this episode?What is one small thing that brings you joy every day? How do you incorporate gratitude into your daily or weekly routine? How does comparison rob us of our joy? What is a 10/10 in your life right now?

    Resources:

    Joy’s 10/10: Lush Coffee Face Scrub

    Kate’s 10/10: Anthropologie’s Wedding Line

    Charlotte’s New Bible Study: Ribology

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  • Is it possible to have joy through hard seasons? In this episode, Charlotte Gambill shares how to never lose the joy of your salvation.

    So Good Moments:

    How the Holy Spirit plants seeds of joy in difficult seasons.Why joy is so much more than a feeling.How to sow seeds in barren seasons that will reap a harvest for your future.How to shift your day by starting it with gratitude.Why we should never lose sight of the joy of our salvation…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What part of this episode stood out to you the most? Do you give yourself permission to express joy, or do you find yourself withholding it? In what ways can you sow seeds for your future during a barren season? What gratitude practices do you have in your life? What do you remember most about the joy of your salvation?

    Resources:

    Charlotte’s New Bible Study: Ribology

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  • Are you making room for the Word of God in your life? In this special episode, you will hear Pastor Julie’s “Amazing” message.

    So Good Moments:

    Why character determines what you carry into the next season. How our worship becomes a weapon of warfare. Why making room for God increases our capacity.How some miracles require a process and participation. How to give the people in your life a gift that outlasts you…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What was your favorite part of Pastor Julie’s message? In what ways do you need to make more room for God in your life? What is one thing that needs to go (in order to make more room for God)? How do you think God wants you to participate in the miracle He wants to bring?What are some things you’ve lost in the last season that God wants to bring back?

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  • How did Jesus care for His soul when He was on Earth? In this episode, Deb Fileta shares the 6 rhythms He practiced (that you should too).

    So Good Moments:

    What it really means to nourish your body. How Jesus protected His calling and how you can too. The various ways we self-neglect and blame it on spiritual warfare. Why you should live at 85% and not 100%.One 5-minute practice that will help you savor life and cultivate gratitude. Questions to ask yourself when you need to tune in to your inner world.

    Discussion Questions:

    What was your favorite part of this episode? What rhythm do you need to practice the most? What is one thing you like to savor? What is one thing that nourishes your body and fills your soul? Are you living at 85%, or are you maxed out? What needs to change?

    Resources:

    Deb Fileta’s Resources and Books

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  • Are you ignoring the warning signs of burnout? In this episode, Deb Fileta shares how you can stay full so you can fulfill your calling.

    So Good Moments:

    The question everyone should ask themselves regularly. The three types of people who are most prone to burnout. Why it’s important to get to the root of why you are so busy or overextended.The difference between self-care and soul care. Why Deb calls herself an “evangelist in disguise.”

    Discussion Questions:

    What was your favorite part of this episode? On a scale of 0-10, how full do you feel? Did you relate to any of the three types of people who are most prone to burnout? What stands out to you about the difference between self-care and soul care? What replenishes you when you feel stressed?

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  • How can you become resilient and fruitful after you’ve been crushed? In this episode, Christine Caine shares the keys to a flourishing life.

    So Good Moments:

    Why olive trees are a picture of how we can be resilient and fruitful in every season. How God uses the seasons we feel crushed or pressed. Why peacemaking is an essential part of our Christian faith. The reason being nice is one of the most spiritual things you can do. Why we shouldn’t make every offense a “10.” How to flip the script on the “If onlys” in your life.

    Discussion Questions:

    What stood out to you about this conversation? What is one new thing you learned about olive trees and how they relate to our spiritual lives? What is a good thing God has pruned from your life so you can bear more fruit? How have you been able to reframe your seasons of being pressed or crushed? Just for fun—olives on pizza—yes or no?

    Resources:

    A21

    Flourishing: Lessons From The Olive Tree

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  • Scorekeeping is good for games but bad for relationships. In this episode, you will hear how to follow Jesus’ example and show others grace.

    So Good Moments:

    How Jesus used a different kind of math.How the upside-down way of the kingdom changes lives.Why keeping track is better than keeping score. How the Apostle Peter encountered Jesus’ grace. What you can do to bring out the best in others. A better way to compete…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    How did Jesus use “a different kind of math?”What is the difference between keeping track and keeping score?How would you feel if you were Peter and encountered God’s grace in such a tangible way? Who has shown you grace in your life? Just for fun—what’s your favorite board game?

    Resources:

    Do What Jesus Did Message

    Jesus The High Road Leader Resources & Groups

    Pastor Ryan’s Latest Message

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  • Jesus was interruptible—are you? In this episode, you will hear why high-road leaders embrace interruptions and put people above agenda.

    So Good Moments:

    How Jesus made space for divine interruptions in Scripture. Why ministry is often opportunities dressed up as interruptions. Practical ways to create margin for God to move in your day.Why parents should lean into their children’s “interruptions.” The difference between a “Here I am” leader and a “There you are” leader.What’s really happening when God wants us to stop what we are doing…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    Do you consider yourself interruptible like Jesus? In what way could you improve? When have you experienced a ministry opportunity that was dressed up as an interruption? What stood out to you about being a “There you are” kind of leader? What is one practical way you could schedule more margin in your day or week?What is one thing about you that only a close friend would know?

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    Do What Jesus Did Message

    Jesus The High Road Leader Resources & Groups

    Pastor Ryan’s Latest Message

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  • Are you following Jesus’ example and taking the high road? In this episode, Dr. John Maxwell shares principles from his new book.

    So Good Moments:

    How to value all people–especially those who are different from you. The difference between the high, middle, and low road. Why the fruit of gratitude is a generous spirit. The difference between keeping score and keeping track. Why we have an eagle and a hippo inside of all of us. Why John changed WWJD to DWJD…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What stood out to you about this episode? What are some of the characteristics of someone who takes the high road versus someone who takes the middle or low road? How did Jesus lead the way as a high-road leader? What are some ways you can “keep track” instead of keeping score? What is the byproduct when we build walls?

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    Do What Jesus Did Message

    Jesus The High Road Leader Book Clubs

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  • Are you ignoring the warning signs of loneliness? In this episode, you will hear how you can lean into life-giving friendships.

    So Good Moments:

    The warning sign of loneliness and why you can’t ignore it.Staggering statistics on loneliness in our country.How we can shift our priorities to value connection and community.Why it’s important to dig through the dirt in our relationships.The barriers to community that we’ve gotten used to. How we can do relationships the Jesus way…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    Did you identify with any of the signs of loneliness? Which one rang a bell?What are some of your personal barriers that make it difficult to lean into deeper friendships?How have you seen the diamonds in your relationships after you’ve dug through the dirt?Who does community and relationships really well, and what can you learn from them? What step will you take this week to value community and connection over convenience and comfort?

    Resources:
    Amazing

    Pastor Julie’s Message on Loneliness

    Groups & Classes

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  • How do you examine the fruit of your relationships? In this episode, Pastor Julie answers questions from the next generation.

    So Good Moments:

    How to examine the fruit and foundation of your friendships.What it looks like to grow with God while dating and married. How to pre-decide what you want your dating season to look like. How to initiate (and receive) difficult conversations. Why your circle of friends should be close, but not closed. How to combat loneliness…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What stood out to you about examining the fruit and root of your friendships? What is one thing you learned about difficult conversations?Pastor Julie mentioned the importance of pre-deciding certain things as you enter into dating. What are some things you think are important to pre-decide?Do you struggle asking for help or are you comfortable being vulnerable? Have you ever had a date gone wrong? What did you learn from it?

    Resources:

    Single, Dating, Engaged, Married Book

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  • How do you adjust when your routine changes? In this episode, some of our campus pastors share how to make the most of every season.

    So Good Moments:

    How Pastor Julie plans out the next day before she goes to bed.What to do when you don’t reach your goals.Why it’s important to create moments and memories with your people.How to maximize seasons that require a lot of time in the car.Why it’s more important to work on your direction instead of perfection.The benefits of reading fiction books…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What was your biggest takeaway from this episode? What do you do to make the most of your time in the car? What is one of your non-negotiables for your physical health, spiritual life, or mental health?What goals are you aiming for this year? Are they small and attainable or unrealistic?What book are you reading right now?

    Resources:

    Luke Study by Lisa Harper

    Mark of The Lion Books by Francine Rivers

    Switch on Your Brain by Caroline Leaf

    Understanding Spiritual Gifts by Sam Storm

    Garden City by John Mark Comer

    Atomic Habits by James Clear

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  • Are your insecurities keeping you stuck? In this episode, Donna Pisani shares how to embrace the tension of confidence and humility.

    So Good Moments:

    The truth about the passage of Scripture that says women should be quiet and submissive. How Donna overcame the lie that she wasn’t smart. How to master the art of listening and ask good questions. Why grit is more important than talent. The importance of discovering your own kind of smart.Encouragement if you are going through a hard time…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What is something new you learned about the passage in 1 Timothy? Donna talked about how everyone has an insecurity (hers was that she wasn’t smart). What is one insecurity you’ve had to overcome with God’s truth? What are some ways we can master the art of listening? Why is grit more important than talent? Donna talked about finding your own kind of smart and being confident in that. What is your own kind of smart? (Consider what comes naturally to you, what you enjoy, what you feel God’s grace for, where you have a creative touch, or what other people have said about you.)

    Resources:

    Donna’s Book: Entrusted to Lead

    You’re Not Listening Book

    Grit Book

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  • Are you entitled or entrusted? In this episode, Donna Pisani shares how you can step into your calling with confidence and humility.

    So Good Moments:

    How Jesus empowered women in Scripture.How Donna learned to lead with confidence and humility.Why it’s important to know your ‘why.’The women in the Bible who pioneered our legacy.Why it’s vital to understand context in the Bible…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What was one thing Donna said that resonated with you? What did you learn about being entrusted versus being entitled?Which woman from Scripture inspires you the most and why?What is one way Jesus empowered women? Just for fun, what is one thing you look forward to most about summer?

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  • Ever been hurt in Church? In this throwback episode, we’re diving into the messiness and beauty of biblical community.

    So Good Moments:

    The difference between Church hurt and spiritual abuse.The importance of creating a space for people to feel safe, seen, and heard. Why we shouldn’t diminish, discount, or deny hurt.The 3 stages of biblical community.3 practices for dealing with Church hurt. How to forgive what you can’t (and shouldn’t) forget…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What did you learn about the difference between Church hurt and Spiritual abuse?Pastor Julie shared the three stages of community. Why do you think it’s important to embrace the tension stage? How have you had to honor the stages of forgiveness in your life?What is one “do” and one “don’t” that stood out to you?In what way can you be a reconstructor for others and for the Church?

    Resources:
    Message: It's Okay to Doubt Jesus
    Practical Resources for Processing Doubt

    The Peacemaker by Ken Sande

    Church Hurt by Jerome Gay Jr.

    Love Like You’ve Never Been Hurt by Jentezen Franklin

    How to See Beauty in the Church After You’ve Been Hurt

    How to Find a Christian Counselor

    TikTok Theology Series

    Good and Beautiful and Kind by Rich Villodas

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  • How well do you handle pressure? In this episode, Holly Wagner shares how to stay prayerful, grateful, and watchful when the pressure’s on.

    So Good Moments:

    How to stay prayerful during seasons of pressure.Practical ways to cultivate gratitude even when you don’t feel like it.Holly’s pressure-filled season and how God brought her through.What Holly learned from testing for her black belt.How to do a u-turn when you start to feel bitter.Why it’s important to stay alert…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    In what way could you relate to Holly’s season of pressure? How do you stay prayerful during pressure-filled seasons? What helps you practice gratitude in your life? Why is it important to stay alert when we are in a season of high pressure?What’s on your summer reading list?

    Resources:

    Holly’s Books

    Holly’s Fun Summer Read: The Echo of Old Books

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  • Where can you find Jesus in the Old Testament, Passover, or the Seder? In this episode, you'll hear about the beautiful thread from Genesis to Revelation and how ancient practices can be pathways to God.

    So Good Moments:

    Peter’s profound encounter with Jesus during the Seder meal. Why it’s so meaningful that Jesus washed the disciples’ feet during Passover. How the 4 cups symbolize Jesus in the Seder Passover. Why Matzah bread represents Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross. How elements of Seder shed light on communion.How Jesus revealed Himself as the Messiah during the Last Supper…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What did you learn from today’s episode? When Jesus washed the disciples' feet, it was an act of humility and servanthood. How does that inspire you to live your life today?The Seder features 4 promises, which are about being delivered from slavery and redeeming God’s people. How does that remind you of His promises in your life?Jesus revealed Himself as Messiah during the Seder, which initiated the first communion. How does this add to your understanding of communion?Sheri uses the empty chair at Seder as an opportunity to pray for those who don't yet know God. Do you have a person in your life who still needs to find Jesus? How can you remind yourself to pray for them on a regular basis?

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  • Is it possible to encounter God through ancient rituals? In this episode, you will hear how Sheri Bautz went from dismissing Christians to becoming one—and you will hear how Sheri discovers Jesus in her Jewish traditions.

    So Good Moments:

    Why Sheri Bautz is a “true-blue Jew.” How she went from dismissing Christians to becoming a Christian Jew. How Sheri’s Christian husband Frank won over her Jewish parents. Sheri’s advice for sharing the Gospel with people of the Jewish faith. Why Christians should celebrate Passover and its ancient traditions. Why Moses was not a good Jew…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What stood out the most to you about this episode? What’s something you learned about Jewish traditions? Sheri mentioned how God redeemed a lonely season for her. How has God been there for you in a lonely season?What did you take away from Sheri’s advice for sharing Jesus with Jews? How does this episode change the way you look at the Passover?

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  • How do you hear God’s voice in your everyday life? In this episode, you will hear how ordinary places can become sacred spaces.

    So Good Moments:

    3 main ways that God speaks to us. Why the wilderness is so significant in the Bible. How “turning aside” can turn ordinary moments into extraordinary ones. How to have a burning bush moment. Pastor Julie’s encounters with God…and more!

    Discussion Questions:

    What was your favorite part of this episode? How have you experienced God speaking?What has been your wilderness season, and how did God use it? What’s one way you can turn aside to get closer to God? What are some ordinary places that became sacred spaces in your life?

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