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Episode #970
Ever looked around at your lifeâgood income, solid marriage, maybe even some investment winsâand still felt totally disconnected?
You're not alone.
A lot of high-performing men find themselves here. On paper, life checks all the boxes... but something feels off. That quiet frustration grows, and before long, youâre stuck in your head, spinning your wheels, and silently wondering, âIs this it?â
In this episode, Arthur Magoulianiti shares his raw and real journey from engineer to successful property investor to personal growth junkieâonly to find himself lost and lacking purpose.
He opens up about the internal struggle he faced, the toll it took on his marriage, and the powerful transformation that finally pulled him out of the fog.Youâll hear:
What âbeing lostâ really feels like (and why logic alone wonât fix it)
Why consuming more books, podcasts, and motivation might be making it worse
The surprising moment Arthur realized how much he had been judging himself
How men unknowingly carry emotional weight that drains them
What actually works when you're ready to reconnect with purpose, power, and passion
In this episode, youâll learn how the feeling of being "stuck" isnât a personal flawâitâs a sign that youâve outgrown where you are. Arthurâs story and lessons provide a roadmap for any man ready to shift from confusion to clarity, from burnout to energized purpose.
Ready to Turn Things Around?
Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Manâs Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It.Iâm buying the book for youâjust cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage.
Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?
Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scalesYouâll walk away knowing exactly where things went off trackâand how to bring it all back.
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Episode #969
Why do high-achieving men so often feel stuck, numb, or just... off?
They've got the job, the house, the familyâand yet inside, itâs like somethingâs broken.
Thatâs exactly what we unpack in this episode.
In this episode, Tim Matthews and Arthur Magulianiti pull back the curtain on the Alpha Resetâa powerful in-person experience thatâs helped thousands of men stop spinning in their heads and start leading from a place of strength and authenticity.
Youâll hear what really happens behind closed doors during the Reset, and why men say itâs the first time theyâve truly felt alive in years.
We talk masks, emotional suppression, suicidal thoughts, the burden men silently carry, and what it means to stop proving and start leadingâfrom the heart, not just the head.
From emotional breakthroughs to the quiet confidence that returns when a man drops the BS and owns who he isâthis is a raw, unfiltered look at the journey so many guys are craving but rarely talk about.
Want That Look From Your Wife Again?
Watch this free training to find out exactly whatâs missingâand how to fix it.No fluff. Just a clear path to bring back the love, respect, and intimacy.
đ Go to thepowerfulman.com/scales and hit play.
Start leading again
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Episode #968
Ever have a song take you back to a moment in your lifeâinstantly?
Thatâs not just nostalgia. Itâs your nervous system responding to sound.
In this episode, I sit down with Levi Goins, the man we call the âranch wizardâ at TPMâbut today, weâre tapping into one of his true gifts: the healing power of personalized music.
Leviâs been quietly changing lives behind the scenes using custom music therapy tracks. Weâre talking about music thatâs actually designed to anchor you into the man you want to beâwhether thatâs the calm leader walking through your front door or the powerful father fully present with his kids.
We get into how sound affects your emotional state, how to create music that becomes a personal trigger for peace, presence, or energyâand why even guys with zero musical talent (like me) can do this.
This isnât about learning an instrument. Itâs about creating something that sticks with you, wherever you go, and gets you back to your best.
You donât need a playlist. You need a personal soundtrack.
Ready to Turn Things Around?
Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Manâs Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It.Iâm buying the book for youâjust cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage.
Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?
Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scalesYouâll walk away knowing exactly where things went off trackâand how to bring it all back.
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Episode #967
Ever feel like your body just doesnât bounce back like it used to?
Youâre not aloneâand itâs not just about getting older. In this episode, Iâm joined once again by Dr. Phil Batterson, PhD in exercise physiology, to talk about something most guys overlook: recovery.
We dive into why your body might feel stiff, tired, or inflamed⊠even when youâre âdoing all the right things.â The truth? Most men are overtraining and under-recovering. And thatâs exactly why their results suck.
We break down how to build a fitness routine that actually fits your life, how stress is crushing your gains, and why things like sleep, breathwork, and protein matter way more than your fancy supplements or ice baths.
In this episode, you'll learn what an effective weekly plan looks like for the average high-performing man, why three days a week might be all you need, and how to structure recovery to actually feel better, not worse.
This oneâs for the guy whoâs grinding in business, trying to be there for his familyâand still wants to feel like an athlete without burning out.
You donât need to do more. You just need to do it smarter.
đ Ready to Turn Things Around?
Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Manâs Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It.Iâm buying the book for youâjust cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage.
Want That Look From Your Wife Again?
Watch this free training to find out exactly whatâs missingâand how to fix it.No fluff. Just a clear path to bring back the love, respect, and intimacy.
đ Go to thepowerfulman.com/scales and hit play.
Start leading again.
Want to connect with Dr. Phil Batterson?
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đ± Instagram: @drphilbatterson
đïž Podcast: Critical Oxygen â for those of you who like a deep dive into performance and physiology.Hungry for more?
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Episode #966
What if the biggest threat to your health isnât your diet or your workout routineâbut the shape of your cardiovascular system?
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Phil Batterson, a VOâ Max and cardio health expert, who also happens to be the guy that recently tortured me with a fitness test. And by tortured, I mean he showed me where I was really at.
We dig into what VOâ Max actually means in plain Englishâand why it's one of the most powerful predictors of how long you'll live. Seriously.
This isnât about becoming an elite athlete. It's about being able to chase your kids around the yard, keep up with your wife in bed, and not get winded during pickup basketball.
Dr. Phil shares why most guys are training wrong for their goals, how you can get way better results in way less time, and why individualized testing beats generic workout plans every single time.
In this episode, you'll hear how I got tested, what surprised me most, and what every man should be doing right now to take back control of their health.
You donât need to be perfect. You just need to know where you areâand start.
đ Ready to Turn Things Around?
Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Manâs Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It.Iâm buying the book for youâjust cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage.
If you're tired of wondering where the spark went...
This is your first step to getting it back. Watch the free video here: thepowerfulman.com/scalesYou owe it to yourself to at least see whatâs possible.
Want to reach out to Dr. Phil directly?
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Episode #965
Feel like youâre just going through the motionsâwith no real direction?
If youâre waking up each day wondering, âIs this it?â, youâre not alone. A lot of guys struggle with setting a clear vision for their lives and marriages. And when you donât have one, you end up drifting... reacting instead of leading.
In this episode, Chris and I talk about why so many men avoid setting a personal and relational visionâand how to actually get started (even if you feel stuck or overwhelmed).
We break it down into a practical process that helps you define what you do want by first identifying what you donât. From sex to shared goals, from where you live to how you connectâitâs all on the table.
We also share real stories from the Alpha Reset and how just six weeks after setting a vision, one manâs entire life shiftedâincluding his marriage and where he lived.
This isnât some fluffy âmanifest your dream lifeâ stuffâitâs a grounded, actionable approach to leading with clarity and creating the life and relationship you actually want.
You donât have to figure it out alone. We made this free training for guys who want real change. Start here: thepowerfulman.com/scales
Because once you see the truth, you can't unsee itâand thatâs where things shift.
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Episode #964
When was the last time you actually had fun with your wife?
Not a âget dinner and talk about the kidsâ kind of night.
Not a âwatch TV and pass out on the couchâ evening.
Actual, flirtatious, playful, canât-wait-to-get-you-alone kind of fun.In this episode, Chris and I talk about something we donât hear enoughâfun. Specifically, how a lot of men have traded playfulness for predictability... and how itâs killing the spark in their marriage.
We unpack what it really means to become the Chief Fun Officer (CFO) in your relationshipânot just with your kids, but with your wife and especially in the bedroom.
Youâll will get some creative (and hilarious) ideas for dates, flirting, and reigniting bedroom passion that feels more like play than performance.
This isnât about being silly. Itâs about being present and playfulâthe way you were when your relationship first started. Because when youâre having fun, she gets to feel desired, seen, and safe⊠and everything changes.
Itâs not about working harderâitâs about knowing what to work on.
Check out the free video that breaks it all down: thepowerfulman.com/scalesClarity changes everythingâand it starts with this.
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Episode #963
What if the fear of rocking the boat is exactly what's sinking your relationship?
Too many men are quietly stuckâavoiding tough conversations, tiptoeing around decisions, and hoping things somehow justâŠget better. But that hesitation? Itâs costing you your peace, your leadership, and the connection you crave with your wife.
In this episode, Chris Hansen and I get real about whatâs actually holding men back. We dig into how fear shows up in marriage, how indecision slowly erodes intimacy, and why taking back leadership doesnât mean being a jerkâit means showing up.
Youâll hear stories from real coaching conversations where men were scared to set boundaries, afraid to commit to change, or just stuck in that familiar âmessy middle.â We break down the identity traps, the ego plays, and the excuses that keep men stuckâand what to do instead.
Whether you're feeling stuck in your marriage, your career, or your own headâthis one's for you. It's time to stop sitting on the fence and start stepping into the man you know you're capable of being.
She used to look at you like you were her world. Want that again? It starts here â thepowerfulman.com/scales
You canât fake connectionâbut you can rebuild it, stronger than before.
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Episode #962
Whenâs the last time your wife gave you that lookâthe one that says, âI want youâ?
If itâs been a minute, youâre not alone. A lot of married guys find themselves in that same spot⊠and yeah, it probably means your Sexual Market Value (SMV) isnât where it used to be.
In this episode, Coach Chris and I unpack what SMV actually means for men in long-term relationships. And no, itâs not just about being in shape or dressing sharp. Itâs about the way you carry yourself, how much self-respect you have, and whether youâre still showing up like the man she was once drawn to.
We also get into the difference between real confidence and just going through the motions. A lot of men donât even realize how far theyâve drifted until they either catch a glimpse in the mirrorâor hear some hard truth from another man. If youâve been thinking, âIâm doing everything I should⊠so why does she seem checked out?ââthis conversation might hit close to home.
Youâll hear how to start rebuilding that quiet, steady confidence that naturally draws people inâespecially your wife. Weâre not talking gimmicks or trying to be someone youâre not. Just simple, real-world actions that help you feel solid in your own skin again. And it all starts with self-respectânot chasing approval.
So if youâve been feeling kind of invisible at home, and youâre ready to start leading with presence and purpose againâyeah, this oneâs for you.
Click play. Watch the free training.
See if it hits home. No pressureâjust clarity: thepowerfulman.com/scalesSometimes all it takes is one perspective shift to change everything.
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Episode #961
Ever feel like you're tiptoeing around in your own house?
Youâre doing everything you can to keep things calmâavoiding conflict, keeping quiet, trying not to rock the boat. But deep down, itâs eating at you. And here's the tough part: that silence? It might be making things worse.
In this episode, Iâm talking with Coach Chris Hansen from our Navigate program about something a lot of guys wrestle withâsetting and holding boundaries in their relationships. We get into why it's so damn hard, and how avoiding it usually just leads to more resentment, distance, and disconnect at home.
This isnât some high-level theory talk. We get into real stuffâactual examples of what setting a boundary really looks like, and how to do it without blowing everything up.
We talk about why your wife might not be taking your boundaries seriouslyâand how to shift that. We also get into the difference between a boundary, a want, and an agreement. (Hint: mixing those up? It causes way more problems than you think.)
One of the biggest takeaways? Most guys are accidentally teaching their wives to ignore themâand itâs not because theyâre weak or passive. It's just a pattern they've never noticed. But one honest convo (the kind we usually avoid) can change a lot.
We wrap it up by looking at what actually creates respect and connectionâand no, itâs not raising your voice. Vulnerability, done right, changes everything. When you start showing up differently, the whole dynamic starts to shift.
So if youâre sick of feeling like your needs donât matter, or like youâre always coming in lastâthis oneâs worth a listen. Youâll walk away with some clear tools to start leading your relationship with more clarity, confidence, and calm.
What if you could get it back? The respect. The love. The intimacy. Watch this: thepowerfulman.com/scales
Itâs not out of reachâitâs just been out of focus.
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Episode #960
Ever catch yourself staring in the mirror thinking, âThis canât be it⊠right?â
That quiet pull, like thereâs gotta be more to lifeâbut youâre not even sure what âmoreâ means anymore?Yeah. Youâre not the only one.
In this episode, we get into what a lot of people call a midlife crisisâbut we see it differently. We call it a midlife awakening.
Steve and Mark, two of our Alpha Reset coaches, join me for a real conversation about what it actually looks like to hit that wall⊠and then move through it. These guys have walked with a lot of men through some serious turning points, and they donât sugarcoat it.
We dig into:
The silent weight a lot of men carry around without even realizing it
Why reading all the self-help books in the world wonât move the needle unless youâre willing to get uncomfortable
What it means when your âlittle boyâ shows up in your marriageâand why your wife feels it even if you donât
How most men are chasing a âdream lifeâ theyâve never actually defined
And yeah⊠we even talk about a guy who had a realization about his own ashes that completely changed where he chose to liveâwhile he was still alive
This oneâs not about fixing yourself. Itâs about waking up to whatâs realâand maybe starting to live like you mean it.
So if youâve been saying âlivinâ the dreamâ with an eye roll and a tired laugh⊠might be time to find out what your real dream actually looks like.
Itâs free. Itâs simple. And it might just shift everything for you. Watch it here: thepowerfulman.com/scales
Youâve got nothing to loseâexcept the frustration thatâs been weighing you down.
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Episode #959
Ever feel like you're doing everything ârightâ but still not getting what you wantâfrom your wife, your business, or even yourself?
In this episode, I sit down with Gary, known in The Powerful Man community as the Gentle Warrior. He opens up about how he went from being the classic ânice guyââquiet, accommodating, but secretly frustratedâto a man who leads his life with purpose, clarity, and confidence.
This isnât a story about a perfect turnaround. Itâs about doing the real, messy work. Gary gets honest about the anger and shame he didnât even know he was carrying, how he woke up to the truth of a marriage built on obligation, and why ending it was the most loving thing he could do for them both.
But the most powerful shift? He stopped trying to earn loveâand started showing up as a man who already knows his worth. And thatâs when everything changed.
We talk about what itâs like to be seen and respected by other men, how community accelerates growth, and why volunteering at the Alpha Reset hit him harder than his own Reset did. Youâll also hear the unexpected way he met the love of his lifeâwhen he wasnât even looking.
In this episode, youâll get a front-row seat to what it really looks like when a man stops hiding, owns his story, and finally takes the leadânot just in his relationship, but in every area of his life.
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Episode #958
What happens when two of our top coaches stop coachingâand step into the Alpha Reset as participants?
Thatâs exactly what Mike and Neil did.
In this episode, they open up about the resistance that came up before the Reset, what it took to drop the ego, and what it really means to lead from the frontânot just for others, but for themselves.
Mike shares the moment he FaceTimed his wife right after it ended. She just stared at him, smiling.
âYou look different,â she said.
âI like this Mike.â
That moment? That was the result. Right there.Neilâs story is quieterâbut just as powerful. He didnât come home and give a big speech. He didnât have to. His son just felt it. The calm. The shift. The safety. No words needed.
In this episode, youâll hear:
What it looks like when high-level coaches stop leading and start doing the deeper work
Why emotional safety is a game-changerâfor your marriage and your kids
The real reason so many men blame their wives (hint: itâs not about her)
How showing up differently creates a ripple effect across your entire home
This isnât about theory. Itâs about doing the workâespecially when no oneâs watching.
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Episode #967
What happens when a man hits his limit... and decides not to fold?
In this episode, I sit down with Eric and Westonâtwo guys who went through the Alpha Reset and came out the other side different men. Now? Theyâre giving back and helping other men do the same.
We get into what brought them to The Powerful Man, how their marriages shifted, and what they really discovered about themselves along the way.
Weston opens up about how hard it was to actually connect with his wifeâeven though the love was there. And Eric? He was ready to walk away from 25 years of marriage, hoping a new car or a bigger paycheck would fix the emptiness. (Spoiler: it didnât.)
Hereâs what youâll hear in this one:
What finally got these guys to stop pretending everything was fine
The internal tug-of-war a lot of Christian men feel in marriage
Why being truly seen by other men changes everything
What itâs like to walk into a Reset one guy... and leave someone else entirely
How volunteering after the Reset brought even more clarity and growth
Truth is, most men are silently struggling, thinking they're alone. Theyâre not.
This episode dives into what happens when you drop the guilt, shame, and angerâand finally lead from a place of honesty and strength. Youâll see why so many men say the Alpha Reset was the turning point. Not just for them, but for everything.
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Episode #956
Why do so many men struggle in silence when it comes to mental health? And more importantly, what can we do about it?
In this episode, I sit down with Sean Stiller, a psychotherapist with over 16 years of experience, to tackle the tough conversations around suicide, depression, and hopelessnessâtopics that impact more men than we often realize. Sean breaks down the common misconceptions surrounding mental health, the warning signs to watch for, and, most importantly, how to shift from feeling hopeless to finding real hope.
We also dive into:
âïž Why high-achieving men often struggle with depression
âïž How our beliefs and identity can unknowingly trap us in pain
âïž The subtle (but powerful) mindset shift that changes everything
âïž Practical steps to help yourselfâor someone you loveâthrough dark timesIf you've ever felt stuck, lost, or like you're carrying the weight of the world alone, this episode is for you. You're not alone, and there is a way forward.
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Episode #955
Ever feel like you're walking on eggshells in your marriage? You want your wife to feel emotionally safe, but you also donât want to lose yourself in the process. So, how do you strike the right balance?
In this episode, weâre breaking down what emotional safety really means for women and how you can create it without becoming someone youâre not. Weâll talk about how to clear the past so old arguments stop coming up, how to communicate in a way that actually lands, and how to stay grounded when things get tough.
Weâre also tackling a big question: how do you lead at home, at work, and with friends without feeling completely drained? If youâve ever struggled to set boundaries or find time for yourself, this oneâs for you. And for the guys looking to keep date nights fresh, weâve got some creative ideas to keep things fun and connected.
If youâve been feeling stuck in your marriageâor just want to step up as a stronger, more confident leaderâthis episode will give you real, actionable steps to make an immediate impact.
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Episode #954
Why is it so hard for men to express their emotions in relationships?
In this episode, I sit down with Chris to tackle the challenge of male vulnerability and emotional connection. We dive into real questions from men struggling to open up, rebuild trust, and navigate past mistakes without losing their sense of masculinity.
We explore why society conditions men to suppress their emotions and how to break free from that pattern. You'll hear about a powerful way to reconnect with your emotions that doesnât make you feel weak. We also get into what it really takes to rebuild trust after hurting your partner, and how leading emotionally can actually make you more attractive in your marriage.
If youâve ever felt stuck when it comes to emotional connection, this episode is for you.
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Episode #953
Most men donât even realize theyâre living in quiet desperationâuntil they finally break free. When your marriage feels off, your business is harder, your energy is lower, and youâre just grinding through the motions, itâs easy to think this is just ânormal.â But what if itâs not?
In this revisit episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive deep into why so many high-achieving men struggleânot just in marriage, but in life. They reveal how the same tools that restore relationships also transform businesses, health, and personal fulfillment.
Youâll discover:
Why anxiety quietly erodes your business and decision-making. How regaining confidence in your marriage spills over into every area of life. The hidden habits keeping you stuckâand how to break free. What successful men do differently to create lasting change.If youâve ever felt like youâre just âgetting byâ instead of thriving, this episode is for you. Take actionâbecause this is about more than your marriage.
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Episode #952
What happens when men truly support each otherâwithout ego, without judgment, and with real accountability? In this revisit episode, Doug Holt sits down with Chris Hartig and Matt, two men whoâve walked the path of transformation through The Powerful Man movement.
They share their raw experiences of growth, blind spots, and the power of having a brotherhood that pushes you to be better. Whether itâs business, marriage, or personal leadership, this conversation will challenge you to ask: Whoâs in your corner?
Take a moment to reflectâare you leading, or just getting by?
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Episode #951
When was the last time you got truly curious about your wife? Not just about what sheâs doing, but who sheâs becoming?
In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM advisor Chris tackle a common challenge: emotional distance in marriage. Many men unknowingly stop seeing their wives as evolving individuals, leading to stagnation in communication and intimacy.
We answer real questions from TPM listeners, including:
How to give your wife space without triggering her fear of abandonment Simple ways to break through emotional walls and spark meaningful conversations The importance of reinforcing emotional safety (hint: you need to say it more than once) Easy, actionable strategies to keep curiosity alive in your marriageIf your relationship feels a little off, this episode is for you. Tune in and start reconnecting today.
đ Listen now and take action.
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