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What if the way you're choosing potential dates is actually what's keeping you from finding someone? You could be prioritizing something that scripture warns us not to care too much about, and it could keep you from the spouse that you need. In this episode, Megan and Steven launch into a spirited, unfiltered conversation about the idol that most singles are secretly worshipping--even if they don't realize it themselves.
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Resources and Sales:
#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration
These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
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This is the second in a two-part series about identifying values, and this time Megan and Steven are talking all about how you can ascertain what someone else's values are early on in a dating relationship. They'd like to make a special shoutout to Killer Whales for making this episode possible.
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Resources and Sales:
#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration
These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
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What are your values, and why do they matter to your dating journey? The Synchrony Approach revolves around identifying and utilizing your values to match you with great dating partners. In this episode, Megan and Steven break down what your values are and why they matter to your relationships. There's more on this to come, so stay tuned for part 2!
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Resources and Sales:
#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration
These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact: If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
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If the phrase "break up" makes you feel a bit squeamish, you probably need to listen to this episode. Healthy dating sometimes involves moving on when a relationship is no longer working, and very few of us are taught how to do it well. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss reasons why you may need to consider breaking off a relationship and how to do it in an Apostolic way. Spoiler: ghosting someone is never the answer!
Resources and Sales:
#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration
These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact:
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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So, you met someone interesting--great! You're now in the "talking" phase, which is exciting, but also full of potential pitfalls and presents a real opportunity to slip unwittingly into a dreaded 'situationship.' In order to make this connection progress to a fulfilling relationship, you need to take some steps to make this period of time count, and move out of it quickly. In this episode, Megan and Steven discuss how to make the "talking" phase short and sweet, and when you should consider ending it.
Resources and Sales:
#Synchpin Registration: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration
These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact:
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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Humans look for signals, patterns, premonitions, and signs in everything, and sometimes we use those patterns to confirm what we want--not what God wants for us. In this episode Megan and Steven share their raw testimonies of how misreading 'signs' from the Lord led them down dark paths in their dating relationships, and how leaning on the Word led them back to Godly dating and ultimately, to each other.
Resources and Sales:
#Synchpin Registration:
https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration
These pins are exclusively for Apostolic Singles to use to recognize other singles in public spaces and create better connections. Register and pay shipping and we will mail you your own pin! Synchrony Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact:
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!
Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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If you're single in an Apostolic social space, it can be nearly impossible to know who around you is available for a dating relationship. We're making that easier! In this episode, Megan and Steven introduce Synchrony Pins (aka Synchpins), a wearable accessory that is EXCLUSIVELY for Apostolic Singles. Get yours for free at UPCI General Conference by visiting the Kaffe117 Booth, or register to have one shipped to you for just the average US-based shipping cost.
Community Members: You don't have to pay for shipping! See the Community space to give us your address and we'll mail you one absolutely free.
Get Your Synchpin Here:
https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/synchpin-registration
Resources and Sales:
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact:
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!
Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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"Follow your heart!" "Plenty of fish in the sea!" "When you meet him/her, you'll KNOW."
Apostolic singles hear these phrases all the time, but are any of them actually advice worth following? In this episode Megan and Steven look at the advice Synchrony Singles said they hear all the time and give you their (painfully) honest opinions about it. Buckle in!Resources and Sales:
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact:
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!
Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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Lots of research has shown that, on average, women trend toward partnerships with older men, and men trend toward partnerships with younger women. Do those trends hold up for our community of Apostolic Singles? In this episode Megan and Steven dive into the data on Synchrony respondents' age preferences, and discuss what that tells us about how we're seeking out dating partners.
View a PDF of the charts from this episode: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ptnQ_img5YUXr-lurpNCujo_cnWO3vdS/view?usp=drive_link
"Age Limits: Men and Women's Youngest and Oldest Considered and Actual Sex Partners," Antfolk, Jan. 2017. Evol Psychol. via the National Library of Medicine: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10367477/
Resources and Sales:
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact:
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!
Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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We often talk about confidence as if it's an inborn quality--something that you either have or you don't. But confidence can be built, and in this episode Megan and Steven cover three key tips for cultivating the skill of confidence and bringing it into new dating interactions. Also, they tell some of their own very embarrassing stories along the way!
Resources and Sales:
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!
Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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In this laid back, introspective episode, Megan and Steven share some upcoming changes to their work and home life and how they're making more space for Synchrony and using their values to chart the course.
Resources and Sales:
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!
Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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With dating apps, we have hundreds or thousands of available singles at our fingertips, but we still feel more disconnected, hopeless, and lonely than ever before. Why? In this episode, Megan and Steven unpack the Paradox of Choice, our higher-than-ever dating expectations, and why you should maybe consider “settling.”
References:
PDF Summary of The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5df3bc9a62ff3e45ae9d2b06/t/5e384fcdf7bd6b4910e2cc17/1580748751460/Paradox+of+Choice.Schwartz.EBS.pdf
Barry Schwartz’s Response to criticisms: “Is the Famous ‘Paradox of Choice’ a Myth?” PBS
https://www.pbs.org/newshour/economy/is-the-famous-paradox-of-choic
Resources and Sales:
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free). https://the-synchrony-project.mykajab...
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here: https://the-synchrony-project.mykajabi.com/opt-in-d5ca0b81-abe1-4190-88ec-cb038489ca6a
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!
Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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Long-distance dating has it's challenges, but it also has some perks! In this episode, Megan and Steven talk about the pros and cons of dating from far away, with some insight for how it worked in their own relationship.
Sales and Promotions
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free).
Download the FREE 10 Min Connection Guide Here!
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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Stop what you're doing and send this to your pastor or Singles ministry leader! In this episode, Steven and Megan answer 14 frequently-asked questions from church leaders about The Synchrony Project and how it can work for their Saints. We need this to reach ministers in all Apostolic organizations! Thanks in advance for sharing.
Sales and Promotions
LAST CALL: During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free).
Download the FREE 10 Min Connection Guide Here!
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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It's unavoidable, even though we'd all love to avoid it. Is there a way to experience rejection that's actually beneficial and not harmful? In this episode, Megan and Steven talk about how to respond to rejection in dating with grace and an eye toward your own growth. Along the way, they throw around a surprising number of sports metaphors.
Sales and Promotions
Want to understand and remove the dating barriers that prevent your connections? Check out the course here. (Synchrony Community Members, check the Community forum to access the course for free).
Download the FREE 10 Min Connection Guide Here!
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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In this episode, Megan and Steven celebrate the anniversary of the first Synchrony consultation, way back in July of 2023. They discuss their challenges, high points, and hopes for the Project, and look back on some of the key influences that made the first year of The Synchrony Project a success!
A special thanks to:
Adam and Karissa King of Dear Young Married CoupleDavid and Jessica Tanderup of The Good Questions Show and Kaffe117Greg Hackathorn of The Hacka Podcast Aniessa Ford of the Almost Apostolic PodcastAngie Williams of Divine ConnectionAnd so many others!
Sales and Promotions
Download the FREE 10 Min Connection Guide Here!
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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Conferences, camps, and rallies aren't great places to make dating connections, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make the most of the social opportunity! In this episode, Megan and Steven teach you how you can connect with someone new in less than 10 minutes.
Download the 10 Min Connection Guide Here!
Sales and Promotions
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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Are men actually more "visual" than women, or is that a trope we've been using to justify an unhealthy focus on physical appearance? In this episode Megan and Steven dive into that with a reasonable amount of research and an unreasonable amount of coffee.
Articles and Resources
Male more than female infants imitate propulsive motion - PubMed 2011
Vision contributes to sex differences in spatial cognition and activity interests (2022)
Sex Differences in Response to Visual Sexual Stimuli: A Review - PMC (2007)
Sales and Promotions
Save 15% on your coffee order with our friends at Kaffe117 when you put the code "Synchrony" into the checkout, or use the following link: https://kaffe117.com/discount/Synchrony
During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.
Contact
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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In this (rather unhinged) episode, Megan and Steven sit down with longtime friend and longer-time gamer Edward Cruz, who also happens to be a Hyphen Young Adult Ministry Leader. Together they navigate a complex gauntlet of questions around dating as a 'nerd,' videogames and relationships, and how to be truly yourself with potential dating partners. It's wild, it's unpolished, it's DEFINITELY over-caffeinated, so buckle in.
During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected]. Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation!
Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
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If you were in Church in the 90's or early 2000's, you may have experienced some elements of 'purity culture' as it swept through American Christianity. In this episode, Megan and Steven share their own experiences with this phenomenon, and their thoughts on how we reckon with it in our current dating culture and move forward.
During the months of June and July, any single Apostolic man who notes you as their referrer in their Synchrony Survey will provide you with one entry in a drawing to win $1,000 as part of Operation 50/50. To sweeten the deal, you can offer your male loved ones a $75 off coupon on their Consultation Fee, using the code "SUMMER_24." Offer (and giveaway entry period) ends July 31, 2024.
If you want to join the conversation about this topic and give your thoughts, reach out on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or at [email protected].
Interested in working with an Apostolic Matchmaker? Sign up below for your consultation! Sign Up for Matchmaking @ https://synchronyproject.com
Links and resources:
Harvard School of Public Health: Race/Socioeconomic Impacts on Age of Menstruation
Statistics on Births Outside of Marriage CDC
UCSF: What Drives Earlier Menstruation?
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