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We give self-talk its own category and unreined license to belittle and badger. Under labels like inner critic, perfectionism, and people-pleasing, these self-directed lies appear safe.
But maybe weāve normalized lying to ourselves about who we are and what weāre worth. Perhaps weāve underestimated the impact of repeating self-condemnation and sharp comparisons, of setting inhuman standards of perfection, of marking our success (or lack of) with effort and efficiency rather than character and surrender.
And we feel scarceness, smallness, purposelessness, and discontentment in place of actual happiness.
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Set out to reflect Jesus like a mirror and you come face-to-face with your list of what you lack. Your squabbles and squeamish fears, your flat-out insecurity and sneaky pride. The features youād change. The less-thans and not-likes and labels confirming your unworth.
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Itās not too late to join the #ReflectJesus challenge! Grab the challenge prompts HERE and Iāll pop into your inbox the rest of the month with daily prayers to help you and I reflect Jesus like a mirror.
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I find what works on a mountain also applies to our relationships with our Enneagram opposites and how we approach an election.
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David finds himself in a spot many of us do today, sandwiched between the ugly and awful repercussions of a severed relationship with God and the invitation to find oasis in the here-and-now as we wait for full glory.
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With-ness. Could there be a word that sits closer to the tender heart of God? It strikes me while praying for North Carolina, Chaing Mai, and Florida how Godās promise to join us as we gather in His name (Matthew 18:20) reveals His desire 1) to be with us and 2) for us to be together.
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Samaritanās Purse (choose hurricane relief, any other specific need, or simply where itās most needed).
Health and Hunger Coalition (located in Boone, NC and providing hard-to-reach neighbors with food).
Within Reach Global (bringing compassion and the gospel to Chaing Mai, Thailand). -
A reflection is a mirror image. It captures the slightest tilt of the head, a shift in posture, merriment in the eye, or sorrow squeezing eyebrows together. Itās not static, but fluid, transcribing in real-time every stray hair and sigh, every question etched in a facial expression. The fullness of emotion, the details of dress, the way we slump or stand tallāa mirror will tell it truthful.
If weāre to mirror Jesus back to a hurting world, weāve got to fall in sync with His breath, His heartbeat, His tears and tender expressions. Weāve got to memorize the features of His face, the veins in His nail-scarred hands, and the inflections of His voice.
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I canāt say enough good things about Jennifer Dukes Leeās guided journal, Stuff Iād Only Tell God.
Read more on Matthew 5:7 HERE.
Check out my dear friend Jennifer Sakataās newly released podcast, Living the Grace Life.
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What if I were a bit more like her? Noticed details and demeanor, presence and absence? Gave others a glimpse of how we each matter to God?
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Discover your Enneagram number, what we love about you, how your Enneagram strengths help you love your neighbors well, and how to best love your neighbors with different numbers HERE!
Around the Clock Mom by Sarah Butterfield.To get a short, doable tip in your inbox every week to help you get to know your neighbors, sign up here.
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When weāre walled on every side by insurmountable, when the odds arenāt in our favor, when thereās no action or inaction thatās risk-free, what do we do? Because sometimes it appears there isnāt a way out.
Maybe youāve been there, or thatās where you are today: pinched between bad and also bad. You need an immediate and miraculous rescue.
Letās turn for a moment, from the story youāre living to one described in the book of 1 Samuel. Here we find faith that takes a little different angle than Even If Faith (even if You donāt answer the way I hope, I still trust You, God) or Nevertheless Faith (in the middle of the very worst, nevertheless I choose to believe that Youāre good). This is a story of Maybe He Will Faith.
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When we feel welcome, we come back. Kids know this instinctively. As adults, we might have to unravel what weāve learned about hospitality because weāve somehow begun caring more about keeping our house clean than putting our guests at ease. Our efforts, though good-intentioned, may sabotage what we truly want: for others to feel at home in our home.
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When we feel welcome, we come back. Kids know this instinctively. As adults, we might have to unravel what weāve learned about hospitality because weāve somehow begun caring more about keeping our house clean than putting our guests at ease. Our efforts, though good-intentioned, may sabotage what we truly want: for others to feel at home in our home.
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Are you longing for soul rest too? Grace that holds? Peace that lasts? Letās name it together.
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Consider this: What if the multi-faceted masterpiece of your God-given strengths and life experiences helps you reflect Jesus in a way that literally no one else can?
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As I remember my dadās calm presence in the passenger seat, I think of Jennifer Dukes Leeās nudge to see Jesus as a driverās ed coach rather than a chauffeur.
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As I hold the decisions I want to delay and the ones Iām tempted to rush in open hands, hereās whatās helping me tune in to Godās voice right now.
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When Iām tempted to make assumptions about something thatās likely not about me, I ask myself a question: Is my reaction opening my heart or closing me off?
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Itās been one year since the biggest, littlest miracle happened. As I stand on this side, thankful for now, and also knowing not a single tomorrow is guaranteed, I think of you.
Maybe youāre begging for it to all make sense. You might be white-knuckling a prayer because time is short and youāre scared. Or youāre looking backwards, grieving something you couldnāt fix.
Sometimes our knees find the floor because Godās nearness overwhelms us, and sometimes itās because weāre desperate to find Him. The latter are the moments we want to believe God knows best and actually cares. Because we need reassurance that His heart is wholly, irrevocably good.
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The rest of the (in)courage guest post I read. Life Changing Stories devotional. To get a short, doable tip in your inbox every week to help you get to know your neighbors, sign up here. Read the written version of this episode HERE. -
I was the kid my parents would regularly remind to stand up straighter. Because Iād slouch. If that was you too, you know how you sometimes feel like you never outgrew the label of insecure adolescent.
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Iāll walk you through the key habits in my current morning routine, not to tell you what to include in yours, but to show you how to use a framework that can flex with the time you have available on any given day. Hereās what Iām believing for you: hunger to know God more fully and grace for what it looks like in your actual life.
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Breath prayers to combat anxiety. The worship songs I love best. To get a short, doable tip in your inbox every week to help you get to know your neighbors, sign up here. Read the written version of this episode HERE. -
Ever feel like youāre on the operating table? Like all your wound-tight knots and woundedness are under scrutiny?
Thatās where I was just the other dayāasking a brave question in my journal then heading outside to work through it with God while I walked.
When you find yourself turning well wishes for the weekend into āleave me alone,ā assuming genuine questions indicate annoyance and obligation, and taking gentle correction as confirmation you canāt do anything right, youāve got to get to the bottom of it.
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The very spots that deplete us of our rightness and self-sufficiency open us up to truth that frees and a God who redeems. The fractures sting, but they deflate pride, make more room for God inside. They help us get out of our own way so God can have His perfect way in us.
Iāve been one to pray itās behind me soon. Figured out fast. Healed fully and speedily.
But thatās often not Godās way. He sees whatās beneath confident exteriors and denials of help. Knows where words have wedged then splintered. Where weāre rehashing the past or fearing the future.
Sometimes He lets us break so He can repair the breach, not in a quick-fix way but with patient, gentle care that heals through to the bone. He also nudges us toward each other as we mature in our faith.
Why? Because we seek reassurance that weāre not alone. We long to be held while weāre lending each other courage to try again, truth to combat false narratives weāve adopted, and trust that God is more than able to make impossible things happen.
Hereās the thing: we get to prop up each otherās arms and encourage discouraged hearts and stand in solidarity. Our very presence becomes an anchor, tethering each other to hope that runs in abundance.
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