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What if you could be a great co-parent without pretending to be friends?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down one of the biggest misconceptions about healthy co-parenting: the idea that you have to be friends with your ex. Spoiler: you donât. In fact, forcing a friendship that doesnât feel safe or authentic can leave you exhausted, resentful, and second-guessing your boundaries.
I share what healthy co-parenting actually looks like (hint: itâs not curated for Instagram), how to define your role without compromising yourself, and why emotional neutrality is the real gold standardânot forced closeness.
Resources Mentioned:
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
What I Discuss:
Do you actually need to be friends with your ex?
The pressure to perform peace and the rise of curated co-parenting
Why friendship is optional (and functional is enough)
What social media doesnât show you about co-parenting dynamics
How to define success as a co-parent without overextending yourself
Boundaries, guilt, and knowing when youâre doing too much
Why emotional neutrality, not closeness, is the goal in co-parenting
Key Takeaways:
âYou donât have to be friends with your ex to be a great co-parent.â â Amber Shaw
âEmotional neutrality is the goalânot forced closeness.â â Amber Shaw
âJust because it looks peaceful on Instagram doesnât mean itâs healthy in real life.â â Amber Shaw
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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What if success isnât what makes you powerful but the freedom to finally feel satisfied?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, Iâm joined by Alanna Kaivalya, Ph.D., spiritual teacher and author of The Way of the Satisfied Woman: Reclaiming Feminine Power.
Alanna shares her perspective on why todayâs women are burned out, emotionally depleted, and carrying an invisible weight of expectations. We talk about the lies women are sold in marriage, motherhood, and the workplace and how to begin untangling from them so you can live on your terms. This episode is a must-listen for any woman ready to soften, heal, and reclaim her power.
Resources Mentioned:
Alannaâs book: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/book
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Alanna-Kaivalya/author/B00GU54W3A?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_8&qid=1730677121&sr=1-8&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true
Alannaâs Starter Kit: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/empowerme
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/
What We Discuss:
Alannaâs story and why her message is so timely for divorced moms
The number one myth women are sold in marriage
What patriarchy gets wrong about feminine energy
Why the supermom narrative is destroying womenâs health
Navigating masculine vs. feminine energy after divorce
Redefining success through the lens of satisfaction
How to tell if youâre operating from the masculine
Practical ways to reconnect with your feminine energy
Boundaries, self-care, and the power of saying "no"
Key Takeaways:
âWeâve been taught to man up to survive, but our real strength is in softening.â â Alanna Kaivalya
âSaying no is one of the most radical things a woman can do.â â Alanna Kaivalya
Find more from Alanna Kaivalya:
Website: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheSatisfiedWoman
Blog: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/blog
Podcast: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/podcasts/the-satisfied-woman
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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What if Motherâs Day didnât feel like a celebration but something you had to emotionally prepare for?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I get real about what itâs like to navigate Motherâs Day as a divorced mom. Whether youâre not with your kids this year, not being celebrated the way you used to be, or just feeling off, this oneâs for you.
I talk about the identity shifts, the unmet expectations, and the quiet grief that can creep in on a day thatâs supposed to be joyful. I also share tangible ways to take your power back. From starting new traditions to planning solo time to asking for what you need (instead of waiting to be recognized), this episode is your reminder that you deserve to be celebrated even if youâre the one doing the celebrating.
Resources Mentioned:
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
What I Discuss:
Why Motherâs Day can feel complicated after divorce
Identity shifts, loneliness, and grieving what used to be
When youâre not with your kids and it feels heavy
Why youâre allowed to want acknowledgment (and how to ask for it)
Planning something for yourselfâeven if itâs small
Reclaiming the day and redefining celebration
Key Takeaways:
âYou deserve to be celebrated even if youâre the one doing the celebrating.â â Amber Shaw
âMotherâs Day can be beautiful and complicated at the same time.â â Amber Shaw
âYouâre allowed to ask for what you need. You donât have to wait to be recognized.â â Amber Shaw
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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What if the parenting plan you're handed is the very thing that's keeping you stuck?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, Iâm joined by Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach, mediator, and founder of The Ugly Truth of Divorce. Samantha shares how her own eight-year legal battle, toxic co-parenting dynamic, and expensive missteps led her to create a business helping women avoid the same fate. From diapers to diplomas, she now helps moms draft rock-solid parenting plans that reduce stress, prevent courtroom chaos, and give them their power back.
Resources Mentioned:
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket
What We Discuss:
Red flags, parallel parenting, and recognizing high-conflict dynamics
Radical acceptance and letting go of courtroom warfare
Why parenting plans should be created before hiring an attorney
What every plan should include (but usually doesnât)
Getting the most value out of your attorney relationship
Financial inequality, extracurriculars, and when to go back to court
When to let go of toxic money and create your own abundance
How starting her business changed her life (and income)
Using your story to build something that matters
Why pivoting is normal and necessary
Key Takeaways:
âYour parenting plan is a business contract. Itâs not about feelings, itâs about clarity.â â Samantha Boss
âThe courtroom is not the place to heal your emotional wounds.â â Samantha Boss
âYou donât have to win in court to win in life after divorce.â â Samantha Boss
Find more from Samantha Boss:
Website: www.samanthaboss.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theuglytruthofdivorce/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theuglytruthofdivorce
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TUTODwithsamboss
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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What if the time you spend alone could be the thing that changes everything?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I share why every divorced mom needs a solo tripânot just as a luxury, but as a radical act of self-healing and personal power. I open up about my own post-divorce journey from emotional dependence and overdoing to discovering the peace, strength, and confidence that came from intentionally choosing to be alone.
Resources Mentioned:
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
What I Discuss:
Why I stayed at my ex-husbandâs beach house for my solo trip
My post-divorce struggle with being alone
How emotional dependence and numbing showed up in my life
Learning to love being alone and setting new dating standards
The magic of solo vacations: freedom, presence, and total reset
Why moms say they "canât leave the kids" (and whatâs really behind that)
Tips for planning a stress-free solo getaway
What to do when youâre there: rest, reflect, talk to strangers, unplug
Key Takeaways:
âBeing alone wasnât the hard partâfacing myself was.â
âSolo travel wasnât selfish. It was the most healing thing Iâve ever done.â
âYou donât need permission to rest. You just need to choose yourself.â
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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What if your divorce was never meant to break you but to build the version of you that you were always meant to become?
Today, Iâm joined by Rochelle Moffitt, founder of the Tickled Pink Agency, who shares her story of going from a stay-at-home mom with no income to building a thriving, soul-led personal branding agency. We talk about what it really takes to start your own business after divorce, especially when youâre starting from scratch, facing financial stress, and second-guessing whether you have what it takes.
If youâre wondering how to build something of your own while raising kids, navigating co-parenting, or juggling all the things, this episode is for you.
Resources Mentioned:
Join my signature coaching program, ReNewU, for divorced moms who want to create an online coaching business and make $2,000 - $5,000 per month (even if you have no idea where to start!): https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu
What We Discuss:
Starting messy, ditching perfection, and choosing speed
Turning dyslexia into a business superpower
How Rochelle built a business around motherhood and flexibility
Simple branding tips for early-stage entrepreneurs
Why done is better than perfect (especially when you're a new entrepreneur)
How to balance business with being a single mom
Rochelleâs secret to managing time and avoiding burnout
The mindset shift from business owner to CEO
SOPs, delegation, and getting out of your own way
Revenue streams, retainer clients, and real money talk
Why mentorship and community are non-negotiable
Key Takeaways:
âI didn't have a choice. I had to figure it outâand fast.â â Rochelle Moffitt
âPerfection was never the goal. Momentum was.â â Rochelle Moffitt
âYour story is the brand. The business grows from there.â â Rochelle Moffitt
Find more from Rochelle Moffitt:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rochellemoffitt/
Website: tickledpink.agency
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rochelle.was.here/
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Thinking about hiring a coach, but not sure who to trust?
Today, Iâm breaking down five red flags to avoid and five green flags to look for when youâre choosing a coach, especially if youâve been burned in the past or youâre afraid of wasting money. I know how overwhelming it can feel to invest in a coach when you're still rebuilding your life after divorce. But I also know the power of the right coach at the right time and how much it can accelerate your healing, your growth, and your business.
Resources Mentioned:
Join my signature coaching program, ReNewU, for divorced moms who want to create an online coaching business and make $2,000 - $5,000 per month (even if you have no idea where to start!): https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu
What I Discuss:
01:00 How coaching changed my life and helped launch my first business
03:00 Red flags to avoid when hiring a coach
15:00 Green flags to look for when hiring a coach
21:00 How ReNewU is built around these green flags
Key Takeaways:
âThe right coach wonât pressure youâtheyâll empower you.â
âYouâre not just buying a programâyouâre investing in a partnership that should feel safe, supportive, and strategic.â
âIf a coach talks more about themselves than your goals, thatâs your sign to walk away.â
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Ever wondered what would happen if you stopped surviving your divorce and started owning it?
Today, Iâm joined by Meagan Norris, a former attorney turned divorce coach, who helps women stop surviving their divorce and start leading it. Meagan shares how she went from stay-at-home mom with zero income to building a thriving coaching business after walking away from both her marriage and her former career. But more importantly, she explains how you can become the CEO of your divorce.
We talk about what it really means to take ownership of your healing, your mindset, and your future even when your entire life feels like itâs been flipped upside down. Meagan offers powerful insights on emotional resilience, money fears, nervous system regulation, and how to navigate divorce on your terms. We also dive into what it looks like to make empowered legal and financial decisions without getting stuck in fear, bitterness, or outside opinions.
Resources Mentioned:
Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars
What We Discuss:
What it means to be the CEO of your divorce
Why we overwork, overdrink, and overdate after divorce
From stay-at-home mom to life coach: Meaganâs story
The power of making one decisive choice at a time
How she navigated her divorce without a lawyer
How to make money decisions from your vision, not your fear
The truth about financial settlements vs. peace of mind
Key Takeaways:
âYou are the CEO of your divorceâstart leading it like you own it.â â Meagan Norris
âYou donât need to have it all figured out. You just need to make the next clear, empowered choice.â â Meagan Norris
âPeace of mind is more valuable than any financial settlement.â â Meagan Norris
Find more from Meagan Norris:
Website: https://www.meagannorris.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meagannorriscoaching/
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Feel like choosing a niche is the one thing holding you back from starting your coaching business?
Today, I walk you through the exact framework I teach inside my program, ReNewU, to help women finally stop overthinking and start taking action on picking their niche. Because letâs be honestâtrying to figure out your âI helpâ statement can feel totally paralyzing. What if you pick the wrong one? What if itâs too specificâor not specific enough? What if youâre not even qualified to coach in that area? And what if someone else is already doing it?
Thatâs why today, Iâm giving you the truth about what a niche actually is (and what it isnât), the most common mindset traps that keep women stuck, and a simple 3-question formula to help you uncover your perfect coaching niche based on your real-life experience. Iâm also breaking down the biggest mistakes I see new coaches makeâand how to avoid them.
If youâre ready to build a coaching business that actually feels aligned (without spinning in circles trying to figure out your niche), this episode is for you.
Resources Mentioned:
Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars
What I Discuss:
Why choosing a niche paralyzes new coaches
What your niche really is (hint: itâs not your title)
The 3 core questions that will help you choose your niche
Why your experience matters more than a credential
Why your niche doesnât need to be unique
The mistake that makes your message too broad
The danger of waiting until you feel "ready"
Why clarity only comes from action
How to refine your niche as you go
Key Takeaways:
âYour niche is simply the problem you help solve. Thatâs it.â
âYou donât need a perfect plan to startâyou just need to start.â
âClarity and confidence donât come first. They come from taking action.â
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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What if the very thing you think is protecting you is actually the thing holding you back?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Coach Keren Eldad to talk about breaking free from perfectionism, the gilded cages we build for ourselves, and what it really looks like to find freedom and fulfillment on the other side of divorce. Keren shares her own powerful story of walking away from a high-achieving, picture-perfect life that looked amazing on the outside but was slowly breaking her down on the inside.
We dive into what it means to be a recovering perfectionist, how trauma and control show up in success-driven women, and why being fulfilled is not the same as being successful. Keren opens up about her abusive marriage, losing everything (including all her belongings in a fire), and rebuilding a life that actually feels good instead of just looking good. We also talk about entrepreneurship, money fears after divorce, and the courage it takes to be honest with yourself and start over from scratch.
Resources Mentioned:
Gilded by Keren Eldad: https://breakfreewithgilded.com/
Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars
Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket
What We Discuss:
The beauty of whatâs possible after divorce
Writing her book "Gilded" and the metaphor of the golden cage
The cost of perfectionism and where it stems from
Keren's rock bottom moment and her journey out of it
How Keren launched her coaching business after divorce
Perfectionism, suicidal ideation, and mental health
Success vs. fulfillment and why chasing more never ends
Learning to scale with joy and integrity
How to break out of scarcity after divorce
Money management, shame, and financial empowerment
The most damaging belief high-achieving women hold
Key Takeaways:
âPerfectionism isnât protectionâitâs a cage, and most women donât even realize theyâre in it.â - Keren Eldad
âSuccess without fulfillment is the ultimate failure. And I had to learn that the hard way.â - Keren Eldad
Find more from Keren Eldad:
Website: https://kereneldad.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachkeren/
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Feel like you're not qualified to coach anyone because you're still figuring it out yourself?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down the truth about imposter syndrome and why it's the #1 thing holding so many women back from starting their coaching business. If you've ever thought, "Who am I to help someone else?" or "What if no one takes me seriously?" this episode is your permission slip to finally get out of your head and into action.
Resources Mentioned:
Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars
What I Discuss:
Why imposter syndrome is keeping so many women stuck
What qualifies you to coach (even if you feel unqualified)
Why your lived experience is your superpower
How to take action before you feel "ready"
Crafting your first coaching offer
Attracting clients without a website or big following
How confidence is built through imperfect action
Key Takeaways:
âImposter syndrome is just fear in disguiseâitâs not truth, and itâs not a reason to stay stuck.â
âYou donât need a degree to help someoneâyou need heart, experience, and the courage to show up.â
âConfidence doesnât come first. Action comes first. Confidence is what you build along the way.â
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Have you ever felt like staying silent was the safest optionâeven when it was eating you alive?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with attorney, author, and trauma survivor Alreen Haeggquist for a deeply moving and eye-opening conversation about what it truly takes to transform pain into power.
From growing up in an abusive home to building a life of healing, advocacy, and impact, Alreen shares her journey of reclaiming her voice, her worth, and her life. We dive into how unprocessed trauma can show up in relationships, parenting, and work, and how to begin the healing journey even if you donât know where to start. This episode is an empowering reminder that your past doesnât get to define youâunless you let it.
Resources Mentioned:
Fired Up: Fueling Triumph from Trauma: https://www.alreen.com/book/
Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/
What We Discuss:
How trauma from childhood impacts adulthood, relationships, and parenting
Reclaiming your voice and power after abuse or emotional silencing
The role of therapy, journaling, and inner child work in the healing process
Breaking the cycle of shame and learning how to speak your truth
Using your personal story as fuel for helping and empowering others
Navigating the emotional layers of healing after divorce or trauma
Learning that your past doesn't define youâand how to rewrite your story
Key Takeaways:
âYou get to write your own ending. Your past doesnât get to define your future unless you let it.â
âThe moment I stopped hiding was the moment I started healing.â
Find more from Alreen Haeggquist:
Website: https://www.alreen.com/
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Feel like you donât have the time or energy to start a coaching business after divorce?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, Iâm diving into one of the most common questions I get from divorced moms: How the hell do I build a business while working full-time, single momming it, and managing everything else life throws my way? And trust meâI get it. When I launched my first business, I was in the thick of my own divorce, raising kids solo, and working a demanding 9-to-5. But I figured out how to do it without losing my damn mind, and now Iâm sharing that exact strategy with you.
If youâve ever dreamed of turning your story and experience into a purpose-driven coaching business, this episode breaks down how to do it in just 3-5 hours a week. Youâll learn how to attract clients (even with zero followers), build an offer that sells, and start making money without quitting your job. Plus, Iâm sharing real talk about the mindset traps to avoid and the biggest mistakes new coaches make when theyâre first starting out.
Resources Mentioned:
Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
What I/We Discuss:
Why starting your coaching business as a side hustle gives you an advantage
How to create a 3-5 hour work week as a new coach
The 3 biggest mistakes new coaches make (and how to avoid them)
How to find time in your week without burning out
Key Takeaways:
"The second you decide to start your business, you are all in. It doesnât have to be full-time to be real."
"You donât need more timeâyou need a strategy."
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Do you feel like you're still figuring out who you are after divorce?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I chat with Lisa Miller to talk about what comes after divorceâhealing, rebuilding confidence, and creating a life that feels truly aligned. Lisa shares her journey from uncertainty to empowerment, breaking down the steps she took to regain self-trust, navigate post-divorce challenges, and turn her personal growth into a thriving coaching career. If youâre ready to step into your next chapter with confidence and purpose, this episode is for you
Resources mentioned:
Lisaâs Happy Hour Community: https://www.mamasguidetodivorce.com/
Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/
What We Discuss:
Healing and rebuilding confidence after divorce
Overcoming self-doubt and stepping into your power
Turning personal growth into a meaningful career
Creating financial independence and freedom
Navigating guilt and judgment after divorce
How to stop people-pleasing and set healthy boundaries
The importance of self-love and daily self-care practices
Finding community and support in your post-divorce journey
Key Takeaways:
"Your divorce isnât the end of your storyâitâs the beginning of your next chapter."
"The most powerful thing you can do after divorce is invest in yourselfâyour healing, your growth, and your future."
Find more from Lisa Miller:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisamiller.coach/
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Are you relying on alimony or child support to stay financially afloat after divorce?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I dive into why depending on alimony and child support is a trap. While these payments can be helpful, theyâre not a long-term financial plan. What happens if the checks stop coming? If your ex loses his job? If your security depends on someone else, you are not truly free.
I walk you through the mindset shift you need, why financial independence equals power, and how to start making money on your own terms. Whether itâs starting a business, freelancing, or re-entering the workforce, you have options.
Resources Mentioned:
Download 100 Niche Ideas for Divorced Moms: https://products.ambershaw.com/100niches
Save your FREE seat on Divorced to Dollars: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
What I Discuss:
Why alimony and child support arenât guaranteed long-term
The mindset shift needed to take control of your financial future
How to start building your own income and financial security
Key Takeaways:
"Relying on your ex keeps you stuck. Financial freedom means options."
"Alimony and child support should be a bonus, not a plan."
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Do you ever feel like joy, confidence, and feeling good in your body are just out of reach, especially after divorce?
In this episode of The Wellness Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Jennifer Joy Jimenez to talk about how to silence the inner critic, reconnect with your body, and embrace joy at any stage of life. Jennifer shares her powerful journey from body dysmorphia and burnout to discovering conscious danceâa movement practice that unlocked her confidence and transformed her life.
We also dive into the impact of cultural standards on women's confidence, the healing effects of dance, and simple daily practices to reclaim self-trust and joy. Whether you struggle with self-doubt, perfectionism, or feeling disconnected from yourself, this episode will inspire you to move, breathe, and listen to your inner voice in a whole new way.
Resources Mentioned:
Free Transcendence Dance Class: bti.com/freeclass
Brave Thinking Institute: BraveThinkingInstitute.com
Claim Your Free Vibrant Healthy Woman Strategy Session: https://www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/health-wellbeing/offer/vhw/register/v
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/
What We Discuss:
How cultural standards impact women's confidence
The healing effects of dance and movement
Simple daily practices to reclaim self-trust and joy
Overcoming self-doubt and perfectionism
Reconnecting with your body through conscious movement
Key Takeaways:
"You can change everything on the outside, but true confidence comes from shifting your energy and listening to the voice within."
"Your body is wired for joyâwhen you move with love instead of criticism, you unlock a whole new level of self-trust."
Find more from Jennifer Joy Jimenez:
About Jennifer Joy Jimenez: https://www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/faculty/jennifer-jimenez
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/btihealth/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VibrantHealthyLivingGlobal
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Staring at your tax forms with dread after divorce?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down the tax implications of divorce that no one warns you about. I explain how your filing status changes immediately after your divorce is finalized, who gets to claim the kids on taxes, and the different tax treatments for alimony and child support. I also share some hidden costs of divorce you might not be thinking about, including potential tax penalties on splitting assets like retirement accounts and capital gains taxes on selling your marital home.
As someone who's been through this myself, I understand how overwhelming financial stability can feel post-divorce, which is why I'm giving you practical advice on how to stay ahead of the gameâfrom hiring your own CPA (especially if your ex handled the taxes before) to adjusting your withholdings to avoid surprises next year.
Resources Mentioned:
TurboTax
Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) for retirement account transfers
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
What I Discuss:
How your filing status changes after divorce (single vs. head of household)
Tax implications for claiming children as dependents
Alimony and child support tax considerations
Hidden tax costs: retirement accounts, home sales, and capital gains
Why your tax refund might shrink (or disappear) after divorce
Practical steps to prepare for your first post-divorce tax season
Key Takeaways:
"If your ex was handling all of the taxes before, please get a CPA and have them review everything."
"Remember divorce isn't the end. It's your fucking launch pad, girl."
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Feeling totally invisible in your marriage, even though divorce was the last thing you wanted?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I chat with Gina Conover, a coach who helps women heal from divorces they never saw coming after years of feeling unseen in their marriages. We dig into that painful mind-twist many women faceâfeeling like a ghost in their own relationship while still desperately wanting to make it work. Gina breaks down her concept of "the orbiting effect," where we end up circling our partners like satellites, losing ourselves completely in a desperate attempt to be noticed.
Gina shares some game-changing strategies for breaking free, including a simple technique to flip those obsessive questions into statements that actually help you process emotions (instead of spinning in circles). We talk about rebuilding trust in yourself, how to know when you're actually ready to date again (hint: being okay alone is key!), and creating a healthy co-parenting situationâeven with someone who made you feel invisible for years.
Resources Mentioned:
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket
What We Discuss:
Why women struggle to let go of painful marriages
Understanding "the orbiting effect" and how it keeps you stuck
The emotional toll of invisibility in a relationship
How anxious attachment manifests after divorce
Rebuilding trust in yourself and learning to be okay alone
Navigating co-parenting while still healing
Key Takeaways:
"If I need them to step in and make me feel okay versus I'm okay on my own and I want to share my life with someone."
"It's okay that it's hard. It's okay that you're hurting. It's okay that you're heartbroken and feel betrayed."
Find more from Gina Conover:
Website: confidentlydivorced.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidently_divorced/
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Feeling overwhelmed by emotional and physical clutter after your divorce?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down how to use the spring season as a catalyst for renewal in your post-divorce life. I share my proven two-step approach to spring cleaning both your mental and physical spaces, starting with clearing emotional clutter through a simple brain dump exercise that helps you separate fact from fiction in your thought patterns. I then explore how to reclaim your physical space through intentional changesâfrom redoing entire rooms to simple updates like changing bedsheets and pillows that can transform how you feel in your home.
Resources Mentioned:
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche
What I Discuss:
How to identify and reframe limiting thoughts that keep you up at night
Why decluttering unexpected spaces can be surprisingly therapeutic
Budget-friendly ways to make your space feel like yours again
The power of putting away sentimental items until you're ready to address them
Setting up a manageable decluttering schedule
Key Takeaways:
"Sometimes the biggest transformations really just start with opening up one door, opening up one cabinet, or moving one picture frame."
"You get to choose what you keep and what you leave behind."
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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Curious about finding empowerment after a major life change (a.k.a. divorce)?
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Julia Haart, fashion entrepreneur and star of Netflix's "My Unorthodox Life." Julia shares her incredible journey from leaving her ultra-orthodox religious community to becoming a powerhouse in the fashion industry and now as the founder of BODY by Julia Haart. We dive deep into confidence, spirituality after divorce, and her innovative approach to women's fashion that prioritizes both comfort and beauty.
Resources Mentioned:
BODY by Julia Haart: https://www.instagram.com/bodybyjuliahaart/
Brazen by Julia Haart: https://brazenbook.com/
My Unorthodox Life: https://www.netflix.com/title/81175724
Save your seat for the 1K Blueprint Workshop: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/1k-blueprint-workshop
Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket
What We Discuss:
The surprising definition of confidence that changed Julia Haart's life
How spirituality became Julia's lifeline after divorce
The manifesting mistake most women make without realizing it
Why your shapewear shouldn't make you cringe when undressing
Creating a family business that thrives through crisis
The simple first step to breaking free from feeling trapped
Key Takeaways:
"If something doesn't make sense to you, it's probably because it's senseless and it needs to be changed."
"Confidence is faith in yourself."
Find more from Julia Haart:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliahaart/
Find more from Amber:
Instagram: @msambershaw
Website: ambershaw.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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