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33-year-old Bri was convinced something was wrong with her. She hadn't been intimate with her husband in over two years, and their once passionate relationship had dwindled to a series of weekly arguments and frustrations on both sides. She was convinced she had low libido because she was too young to have lost interest in sex—what else could it be?
After following Janna for several years, Bri and her husband decided to enroll in Doing It Together to finally understand what had gone wrong with their sexual relationship. Through the program, they learned how to break old patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting and expressing themselves. Bri shares what she discovered about effective communication, compassion, and empowerment—along with the importance of putting her needs first and speaking her mind.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
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Jason describes himself as an adventurous thrill-seeker, always in search of a rush. When he discovered the internet in college and the types of images and videos that could be accessed secretly and anonymously, it led him down a dark path marked by decades of manipulation, lying, and gaslighting as he tried to protect his secret behaviours.
His marriage suffered as a result, but he was unable to recognize the damage his actions were causing to his wife. He believed he knew the "right way" for intimacy to look, so that became the path they tried to follow. This only left him feeling more frustrated and her feeling more broken.
It wasn't until they discovered Doing It Together that they both realized this wasn't just a "her" problem to fix. Once they understood the root issues, they were able to address them together and begin healing.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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As a young girl trying to understand sex and sexuality, Kelly experienced a lot of shame from her parents and the small-town culture she grew up in. Without any sex education, she and her friends had to figure things out on their own, trying their best to support each other along the way.
Now, as a mother raising two daughters, Kelly still sees the same shame directed at young women and the sexualized way they are often viewed. These messages had a significant impact on Kelly’s own intimate life with her husband. It wasn’t until she heard other women share their stories on this podcast that she finally understood why she felt so disconnected from the experience.
Kelly is now happy to join the many others who have shared their stories in this space. She talks about what she and her husband have learned about true sexual intimacy and what she is teaching her children to help remove shame from the conversation.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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Zack had always thought of himself as respectful towards women—until he confronted the reality of how his daily consumption of porn, starting at age 12, affected his relationship with his wife. For over 20 years, this habit was a part of his life, and though he never intended to objectify anyone, he learned that it deeply harmed his ability to connect emotionally and intimately with his wife.
Through the Doing It Together program, Zack took a hard look at his behaviors and realized just how much his actions were impacting his relationship. Now, free from this pattern, he and his wife have experienced a dramatic transformation in their shared intimacy. His wife now feels completely safe and valued in their connection, something Zack hadn’t fully understood was missing before. Zack’s story shows how personal reflection and growth can bring profound healing, not just for ourselves, but for our marriages as well.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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Janna is joined by Danielle, the creator, host, and executive producer of the Sex Ed with DB podcast. Danielle's current series, Rom-Com V🤮m, is a rewatch podcast focused on 90s and early 2000s rom-coms. In it, she unpacks the toxic lessons these films teach about sex and attempts to rewrite the script.
In this episode, Janna and Danielle dive into several iconic sex scenes from movies and TV, analyzing the messages they convey—both positive and negative. They explore how these scenes create unrealistic expectations, particularly the pressure women often face to perform like fictional characters in scripted moments. Tune in to learn how to dissect what you're watching and recognize the cultural pressures these scenes perpetuate.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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In this week’s episode, Janna sits down with Zoe, who shares her deeply personal journey through 30 years of struggles with intimacy in her marriage. For years, what was meant to be a natural part of life became a chore—a cycle of guilt, resentment, and exhaustion that left her feeling broken. Even after the kids moved out, Zoe thought the situation would improve, but it didn’t. When her husband expressed his dissatisfaction, Zoe blamed herself, unsure how to break free from the pattern that had trapped her for decades.
But everything changed when Zoe found this podcast. In the episodes, she discovered she wasn’t alone. Other women were struggling with the same issues, and hearing their stories opened up new possibilities for her and her marriage. Today, Zoe feels a sense of freedom she never thought possible. Tune in to hear her story and learn how breaking the cycle is not only possible—it's transformative. If you’ve been feeling stuck, this episode could be the first step toward reclaiming your intimacy, joy, and connection.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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In this empowering solo episode of Doing It Together, host Janna Denton-Howes delves into the transformative power of self-advocacy for women. Janna, a seasoned relationship coach and sex educator, shares her insights on overcoming cultural barriers to embrace true pleasure and connection. Discover the essential stages of self-advocacy, the roadblocks you might face, and the importance of understanding your unique needs.
Janna also introduces her new program, Wanting It More Foundations, designed to empower women to enjoy a fulfilling sex life. Join the conversation and learn how to advocate for yourself and foster deeper intimacy.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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Too often, societal pressures push women into roles where productivity and selflessness overshadow the importance of personal joy and connection. Instead of being encouraged to embrace their desires and fully experience their bodies, many women find themselves burdened by guilt, expectation, and a sense of duty to provide for others. This episode uncovers how these ingrained beliefs create barriers to genuine enjoyment in the bedroom, and lead women to feel a low desire for sex.
Janna shares practical steps for rediscovering joy in life, helping women reconnect with their bodies and desires. By breaking free from the notion of how they "should" act in bed, listeners can learn to cultivate a fulfilling sexual experience rooted in authenticity and self-love.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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I have some very exciting news! After years of requests from thousands of women, I'm finally ready to launch a DIY video and journaling program specifically designed for women. This course is your first gentle step toward gaining clarity about your feelings toward sex.
Wanting It More Foundations aims to empower women through reflection and observation. You'll experience freedom and relief as you discover your true self and understand your needs.
You don’t need to involve your partner in this process. The course is designed for you to work at your own pace, featuring simple journaling prompts, exercises, and a moderated discussion forum where you can interact with other women if you choose.
Since this is the inaugural round, I’m offering a very special bonus. This will be the only session of the WIM Foundations course I'll be teaching live in, giving you the opportunity to ask questions and participate in discussions with me. Plus, I’m offering a one-time-only price of $200 USD (the regular price is $300 USD).
Visit jannadentonhowes.com/waitlist to be notified when this special round opens for registration.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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Janna is joined by licensed professional counselor Dr. Jake Porter to explore the complex dynamics of shame and secrecy surrounding pornography and sex addiction in relationships. They discuss the role of denial and defense mechanisms while emphasizing the value of the therapeutic disclosure process. Listeners will receive advice on where to seek help and how to navigate the healing journey.
Dr. Porter shares insights on the importance of being honest with your partner and the potential damage caused by withholding information. He explains why addressing the root causes of addiction—rather than simply stopping the behavior—is essential for the health of the relationship. Finally, he discusses the rewards of this transformative journey, highlighting how embracing vulnerability can lead to personal growth and enrich your relationship.
Find all of Dr Jake Porter's resources here: https://drjakeporter.com/
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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Janna has an eye-opening conversation with Dr. Ashley Southard, a licensed marriage and family therapist of 22 years, about her work helping overfunctioning women in love with underfunctioning partners.
They discuss what this dynamic looks like for both women and men, why women tend to take on the emotional labour for both partners, and what women can do to self-restore inside or outside of the relationship.
Find all of Dr. Ashley's resources here: http://drashleysouthard.com/resources
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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We are re-airing this episode in which Janna gathers with real couples who have completed the Doing It Together program and asks, “In what beneficial ways has the program impacted your life or marriage that you didn't expect?”. You'll hear from both men and women on what they learned and how they are applying this new knowledge to strengthen themselves, their marriages, and their intimate relationship with one another.
This recording is from the last round before the name change, so that is why you’ll hear some people refer to the program with the old name- Wanting It More or WIM for short.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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Janna answers the most common questions she's asked by both men and women about her Doing It Together program. If you're considering joining the next round, this is a great short episode to listen to.
To hear the wrap-up call with husbands and wives from last round, listen to Ep. 62.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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With the next round of Doing It Together approaching, we’re excited to introduce Janna’s team and share their personal stories and insights. Melissa and Justin, both alumni of the program, discuss their experiences of taking the program, what participants can expect from the 8-week course, and their dedication to changing the narrative around low libido in women and the realities of sex in marriage.
Melissa and Justin share how Janna’s approach to sex and intimacy has profoundly impacted their lives and marriages. They offer a glimpse into what participants can expect from the Doing It Together program and coaching calls, and explain their passion for helping couples create fulfilling intimate experiences.
You can listen to Justin and Melissa's personal stories by listening to these previous episodes:
Justin's Story in Episode 82
Melissa's Story in Episode 4
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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Sandra shares her incredible journey of transforming painful sexual experiences into a space of safety and pleasure. She recalls how, in the early days of her marriage, she and her husband were deeply connected and satisfied with their intimate life. However, after the traumatic birth of her fifth child, Sandra suffered a severe pelvic injury that left her in constant pain and made traditional intercourse nearly impossible. This created a fear of sex and a sense of rejection for her husband.
But everything changed with Janna’s program. Sandra and her husband discovered a whole new world of intimacy they had never explored before. Sandra dives into the details of their transformed experiences, their new intentions for their time together, and how they've achieved a satisfying, pain-free, and mindful connection. Hear how they’ve turned their challenges into a fulfilling and therapeutic journey.
Previous Episodes Mentioned:
Justin in Episode 82
Sandra in Episode 74
Justin & Sandra in Episode 104
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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Janna chats with Michael Kaufman, the author of The Time Has Come: Why Men Must Join the Gender Equality Revolution. Michael, a renowned advisor, activist, and keynote speaker, shares his insights on how traditional male roles in the bedroom and beyond often don’t benefit women. They dive into why it's crucial for men to confront their own privilege and engage in open dialogues about gender equality.
Michael also discusses the rapid shifts in societal roles for both men and women. By listening to women's voices and addressing their own defensiveness, men can better contribute to a more equitable world. Tune in to hear Michael's innovative approaches for transforming men's lives and fostering positive change for a more equitable society.
REFERENCES:
Janna's Program: Doing It Together
Michael Kaufman: https://michaelkaufman.com/the-time-has-come/
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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Janna speaks with Ericka about the use of alcohol and how it can become a crutch in intimate situations. Ericka started drinking in high school, initially finding that alcohol eased her anxiety and helped her feel more relaxed before sexual encounters. However, this pattern led to risky situations and a troubling reliance on alcohol to numb out her fears and concerns about sexual performance. The result was a disconnection from her true feelings and intuition.
Now four years sober, Ericka has created a valuable resource kit for women navigating intimacy and sobriety, available at sobrietycurious.com. She’s seen many women in online sobriety groups struggle with the question, "What do I do about sex now that I’m not drinking?" Listen as Ericka shares her journey to a healthier, more authentic way of rediscovering intimacy and self-worth without the haze of alcohol.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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We are rebroadcasting one of Janna's favorite episodes: her fascinating conversation with Dr. Tina Schermer Seller, a licensed therapist who specializes in sex and gender issues. Dr. Schermer Seller is the author of one of Janna's favorite and most recommended books, Sex, God, & the Conservative Church – Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy.
In this episode, Dr. Schermer Seller discusses her research on the Christian conservative church and the rise of abstinence-only education and purity culture in the early 1980s. Her findings reveal that this shift has had significant negative effects on both women and men, impacting their ability to form meaningful and healthy sexual relationships.
Whether you come from a religious background or not, this discussion will help you understand the global influence of this narrative on our lives and how we can begin the healing process.
Find out more about Dr. Tina Schermer Seller and her books here: https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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We are rebroadcasting our very popular episode with betrayal trauma expert Michelle Mays. Partner betrayal is SO complex compared to other forms of trauma. The lying, manipulation, scapegoating and gaslighting create a cycle of shame of wanting to simultaneously connect and disconnect from a cheating partner.
Michelle shares her own betrayal story and outlines the rationalization, minimization and justification used by cheating partners to make their behaviour ok. She also speaks to the vital importance of restoring the relationship with oneself after experiencing partner betrayal.
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
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We're re-airing one of our most popular episodes (Ep. 27) with Mandy Röscher, a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist based in Brisbane, Australia who specializes in chronic pelvic pain conditions. Painful experiences in the bedroom are unfortunately extremely common for women. Mandy share her extensive knowledge and training with us to shed some light on this rarely-discussed issue.
We tackle the common myths about pelvic pain, explaining how these misconceptions can make the experience even worse for those who suffer from it. Mandy stresses the importance of feeling safe both physically and emotionally while healing, pointing out that recovery is about more than just treating the body. She also breaks down the phrase "it's all in your head," clarifying that while pelvic pain has psychological aspects, it doesn't mean the pain isn't real. She shares her insights on the natural variety of female vulvas, based on her experience with hundreds of cases, to reassure everyone that there's no "normal" down there. Finally, Mandy dives into the different types of pelvic pain and what each one feels like, giving us a thorough understanding of this complex issue.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
The Centers for Vulvovaginal Disorders: https://vulvodynia.com/publications
Brisbane Pelvic Physiotherapy: https://www.brisbanepelvicphysio.com.au/
Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open.
The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025. Join the waitlist.
Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. Visit now.
Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your rating and review to help the podcast reach more couples.
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