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  • In this episode Anniki and Lisa discuss what happens to your relationship after you have kids. Why is it that we often get locked into the same arguments and are there any strategies to break free? Why do some new mothers resent their partner when they try to help and then hate them when they don’t? They also discuss the joys of Lidl and why it's often Anniki's friends want to talk about. There’s also an interview with US author- Jancee Dunn, who wrote the brilliant book, 'How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids'. She offers up lots of advice on practical things you can do to improve your relationship including some tips she picked up from FBI hostage negotiators. Finally, The Hotbed will be appearing at this year's Camp Bestival so hear details of that too! Keep your eyes on our Instagram account - @thehotbedcollective - for details of a prize draw to win a copy of Jancee's book.


    Resources:


    Jancee Dunn’s book:

    https://www.amazon.co.uk/Hate-Your-Husband-After-Kids/dp/1784754773/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=jancee+dunn&qid=1554576013&s=gateway&sr=8-1-spell

     

    More info on how to communicate more effectively with your other half:

    https://www.hprc-online.org/articles/performance-strategies-basic-training-for-couples-communication

     

    Counselling info:

    https://www.relate.org.uk

     

    Camp Bestival line up and tickets:

    https://www.campbestival.net

     

     


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  • When you’re in a relationship, how long between shags is too long? Anniki Sommerville discusses sex droughts and the ‘maintenance shag’ with beauty journalist Sali Hughes. They offer up tips on how to make sex a fun and easy part of living together, why it’s unfair to decide that you’re just not going to have sex with your partner any more, and what to do when you’re living through a sex drought. Recorded at Soho Studios. Produced by Alex Graham. Thanks to Acast, and to our episode sponsor Mooncup.


    To read Sali Hughes's article about the Maintenance Shag, click here.

    To find out more about the Mooncup, click here, and you can use the code 'MooncupHotbed' to get 10% off until 20/12/18

    To fill out our survey about female sexual pleasure, click here.

    To donate items to Sali Hughes's Beauty Banks (which help fight hygiene poverty), click here.


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