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Whether you’ve been to a house party or not, we’ve got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It’s always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you’ve never been, welcome to the world of House Parties!
When you arrive at a house party, remember to greet your host, introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Attending a house party may be one of the most exclusive party invites; someone is inviting you over to their home or someone is taking responsibility to get the rental- treat it better than you would treat your own home.
Remember, a house party is just that, a private event. Only the cool kids get invited! You could also host your own and invite your friends.
Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!
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Please tell Karina She’s not the only one who celebrated birthday spankings at summer camp with “Order of the Broom”
Find out how close to your birthday is a good time to get a birthday spanking! We also discuss other birthday spanking traditions around the world!
These podcasters seem to celebrate their birthdays together quite often. Join in to listen about some intense feelings regarding a particular birthday or two.
And as always, listen in on advice!
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Bonnie is a bundle of energy!
She’s a little,
a passionate roleplayer,
an enthusiastic spanko,
and a foundational member of one of the premiere spanking parties in the US.You’re going to love getting to know Bonnie! In this conclusion of our interview, Bonnie tells us about some of her adventures as a little, how she discovered a new community after retiring from Crimson Moon, and about starting over. Bonnie even breaks into song!
A great song by one of her friends! Be sure to check it out on SoundCloud!Don’t forget to listen to part one, also. Bonnie has so much energy, it couldn’t be contained in just one episode!
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When you began your spanko journey - did you reach out to people and were disappointed because it felt like everyone else was having all the fun and no one engaged with you? Do you still feel this way?
Join the SpankoPodcast Podcasters and hear some tips about what doesn’t work for them and most importantly about what works for building life-long spanking relationships.
If you have a clue, or if you have successful friendships, you know, kindness and politeness go a long way. Also, you know, respecting others’ boundaries.
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Bonnie is a bundle of energy!
She’s a little,
a passionate roleplayer,
an enthusiastic spanko,
and a foundational member of one of the premiere spanking parties in the US.You’re going to love getting to know Bonnie! In this first part of our interview, you’ll hear about some of her first spanking adventures, receive some of her spanko wisdom, some great advice for newbies and spanko veterans alike, and hear about some history of the scene!
But wait, there’s lots more to come! Stay tuned for part two. Bonnie has so much energy it couldn’t be contained in just one episode!
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What is Judicial Spanking?
We sat down (gingerly) with a few participants from a Judicial Spanking event at Lone Star. Hear from Head Guard (Johnny Lake), some of the audience (us), and multiple prisoners (Naughty Naomi, Alaska John, b_butt_t, and Dave)!
Did they like it? Was it embarrassing? What was it like being a prisoner? They answer all these questions and much more as they walk us through all the details about this Judicial Spanking event!
You won't want to miss this episode, or your next chance to receive a Judicial Spanking!
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Shaylah elegantly gives us extremely articulate advice for tops who are disciplinarians; beyond the “funishment” mindset, punishments for real-life offenses. **Swoon** scold-y spankings with controlled, loving, aggression - stern and firm.
Definitely check out this episode if discipline is your thing. It doesn’t matter if you’re new or experienced with spanking, she provides great information!
What was Shaylah’s first foray into spanking? What has she learned about consent since then? We hope our listeners practice consent and if you need a reminder, here is a link to one of the many episodes where we discuss Consent.
Shaylah is a girl, she is a brat, she is a writer, she is trans, and she identifies as a spanking facilitator - all the brats now have a new term of defense!
Now, don’t feel bad if you’re not ready to be the spanker or spankee of trans women. However, please be respectful of their identities. Don’t be an asshole, or you’ll have allies to answer to!
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We wanted to discuss incorporating some other kinks with spanking, and bondage felt like a natural place to begin. And we couldn’t think of more fun people to discuss this topic with than Bondage expert Cinched and Spanking model MinxGrrl!
Together, this power couple is exploring combining some different kinks with spanking in their own video productions. We were lucky enough to catch up with them at Lone Star 2022 and spend some time discussing their interests and learning where to begin with bondage and how it can enhance a spanking scene.
Don’t worry, spanking purists, this isn’t a bondage-only episode! MinxGrrl shares some stories about what it’s like working with RealSpankings, how she’s able to convince a Rope Top to come to a Spanking Party in Texas, and much, much more.
We had a great time getting to know this adorable couple, and we hope you do, too!
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The Spanko!Podcast turns Three!
And to celebrate this, we are joined by our biggest fan, Sarah, aka Birdie.
(Seriously, she’s heard our podcast more than we have… and we edit.)Sarah shares with us how she discovered us and her interest in spanking, how helpful it was to have listened to our Podcast before attending spanking events, and how fortunate she feels to have veteran spankos with which to discuss her spanking needs.
We’re so glad to have become a part of her journey and helped her grow as a spanko. For example: it took us, Spanko Bottoms, years to realize, “I don’t need a punishment spanking; sometimes I just want attention and a stress relief spanking.” She learns so much faster than some of us!
Do you know how to communicate your needs as a bottom… without being an obnoxious brat? Have you learned to set boundaries as a Top in your spanking relationships? We’re happy to have an outlet to share some insights from our own developmental adventures and silly antics along the way. But, in our experience, we are still learning and growing ourselves!
Thank you for joining us over the past 3 years! There’s lots more to come. We appreciate all your support along this journey!
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Our friends, BetterOffKinky and WoodLover, who both identify as Switches within the scene join us to discuss Switching. You may remember WoodLover from our Long Distance Relationships episode, and BetterOffKinky from our Topping and Miss Chris episodes. They both discuss their history in the scene and how they each discovered why Switch was the right role for them.
Why pick just one side of spanking play when you can have both? What goes into defining yourself as a switch? Is it the same with every relationship or dynamic? How hard is it to switch in the same scene? Are there different challenges being a female switch than being a male switch? They answer these questions and many more!
If you’ve ever wanted to learn more about being a Switch, we couldn’t ask for better friends to help you out with this topic!
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“How many straps do you get out of a cow?”
We sat down with Jeff from Kink Works, a vendor of quality straps and paddles at Lone Star 2022, to discuss his implements, his process, his wood fetish, and how he recognized us at last year’s party just by Eric’s voice!
This maker shares some of the behind-the-scenes of what it takes to turn a passion for making implements into a full-time career. He discusses a bit about local lumber shops, the leather process, and a lot of his own personal passions and kinks. Shocking, we know!
What are some of the favorite woods to work with for a maker of these highly-polished, and vicious, beauties? The answers may not be what you’d expect.
Never fear, he sold us some of the highest quality implements we’ve played with, and we even came home with more this year!
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The podcast crew at Lone Star 2022 got a chance to interview realistic erotica author JJ Rose. Today, March 31st the sequel to his book, Weekend Plans, releases: Switching Plans. If you ever read a choose-your-own-adventure book, a spanking story, or even simply enjoy reading, please support him and check out this exciting new release.
Get to know JJ Rose as we interview him and he answers all the questions the podcasters throw at him.
If you’re in the Atlanta area you might have heard of GASP - he’s the party organizer. Hopefully we’ll all get a chance to attend the National spanking event that’s in the works.
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What goes into a good role play spanking scene? Do you have to be a good actor to role play? What if you don’t have a bunch of costumes? We sat down with GoodApple before his Role Play class at the LoneStar Spanking Party to answer these questions and more.
This gregarious, southern gentleman, who identifies as a switch, has some of the most creative ideas for scenes we’ve come across. He’s an artist, an actor, a romantic, a spankophile, and his passion exudes in everything he does!
We discuss the scene in Arkansas, the romance of Fifty Shades of Grey, different fantasies, communicating with your partner, some of our own fantasies, and much more.
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Meet Jack Crawford: a man of many fantasies!
The prolific author from ‘LSF Publications’ shares his interests and inspirations with our podcast hosts at Lone Star 2022.
Together, we discuss the array of imaginative spanking situations his characters find themselves in:
from Modern adults being spanked by relatives,
to the American Civil War-period,
to Old-Fashioned Westerns,
to Science Fiction,
to Pirates,
to George Washington,
to Spanking Pay-Per-View,
to stories for Littles… that involves the Mafia!With stories spanning all kinds of themes, eras, and aspects of the spanking interest, everyone can find a story of interest by this fun and imaginative author.
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Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities. And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.
Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault!
Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.
Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits. Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes.Consent isn’t always sexy - negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary. We talk about some of the go-to questions before you negotiate a scene with someone new. Have others we don’t cover here? Let us know!
Some of the Spanko!Podcast spankees have had less than pleasant scenes this past year, and we want everyone to learn these important topics with spanking so everyone can have a good time!
You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.
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We the spankos in the United States have established spanking parties! Imagine living in the UK where their spanking activities must remain underground, lest, heaven forbid, the media finds out and reports our spanking kink as “salacious.”
Get to know the world-famous Sarah Gregory (that’s Sarah with an ‘H’) and John Osborne (aka AAA, or Triple-A if you prefer). This spanking-power-couple shares some amazing details with us. Sarah shares with us her true calling, some history, and her passion for giving people a safe space to enjoy and practice their spanking kink. John, a British lad who grew up with robed school masters and was encouraged to take Latin (gag), shares the true terror of being disciplined the British way - disciplina scholastica.
Have you come out to your parents as a spanko? Sarah and John have! How did these two famed spanko producers get into producing spanking content? And it's truly delightful when you hear Sarah’s entrepreneur story! These topics and so much more await!
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Join us as we talk about our recent Spankation!
Including historic spankings, impromptu spankings in the woods, spankings overlooking the ocean, what kind of mischief we get into with period costumes and historic settings, and what happens when whale watching gets canceled.
Enjoy us recounting tales of saloons, cudgels, old dictionaries, bedtime stories, mouth soapings, and oh so many spankings! This is a vacation you won’t want to miss!
