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  • In this week's episode, we conclude our three part series on the heart and Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos. We reflect on Scripture as a personal love story, how it speaks to our areas of weakness, and the awesome reality of Jesus desiring to love and heal us there. The Lord meets us where we are and He is always seeking to bring our hearts closer to His. He speaks directly to each one of us with an invitation to be loved and to love. This invitation of love requires a response not only in big moments but in the ordinary moments of each day.

    Heather’s One Thing - Her friends Laura and Brandon

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Farkle Classic Dice Game

    Michelle’s One Thing - Nazareth Organics (especially the Sleep Balm)

    Michelle’s Other One Thing - The Florida State vs UNC game

    Other Resources Mentioned:

    “Dilexit Nos”: A brief guide for busy readers Dilexit Nos audio version

    Journal Questions:

    How do I experience spiritual amnesia and forget the ways the Lord loves me? When have I experienced the tender love of the Lord in places of poverty and isolation in my heart? Where in my life do I need to hear the sweet sound of the Lord’s heartbeats? What does Jesus want to convey to me through that sound? What parts of Christ’s Body, the Church, do I fail to love?

    Discussion Questions:

    How has the Lord being present to your heart brought you healing and communion? How has the barrage of tragedy and hardship from the news and social media hardened your heart toward human suffering? Where are the lukewarm places of your heart? What conversations can you have, actions can you take, or apologies can you make to love your neighbor like Christ?

    Quotes to Ponder:

    The pierced heart of Christ embodies all God’s declarations of love present in the Scriptures. That love is no mere matter of words; rather, the open side of his Son is a source of life for those whom he loves, the fount that quenches the thirst of his people. (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 101)

    Saint Augustine opened the way to devotion to the Sacred Heart as the locus of our personal encounter with the Lord. For Augustine, Christ’s wounded side is not only the source of grace and the sacraments, but also the symbol of our intimate union with Christ, the setting of an encounter of love. There we find the source of the most precious wisdom of all, which is knowledge of him. In effect, Augustine writes that John, the beloved disciple, reclining on Jesus’ bosom at the Last Supper, drew near to the secret place of wisdom. (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 103)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “I led them with cords of human kindness, with bands of love. I was to them like those who lift infants to their cheeks. I bent down to them and fed them.” (Hosea 11:4)

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Leanne Bowen

    01:33 - Intro

    02:26 - Welcome

    05:10 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote

    06:26 - This is a Love Story

    08:17 - Thirsting for God

    10:30 - God Will Never Forget You

    12:29 - Being Loved in Our Weaknesses

    17:38 - Deeply and Individually Loved

    19:42 - A Lament and a Request

    22:42 - Loving Like Jesus

    25:01 - Repairing

    29:26 - Final Thoughts

    30:36 - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we continue our three part series on Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos. We reflect on our ache to be loved, how Jesus heals in close proximity to us, and the “science of the caress”. We also talk about how Jesus is a man who comes and finds us wherever we are and longs to open up a new place for us in relationship with Him. Will we allow our hearts to beat again with love?

    Heather’s One Thing - Thai Peanut Chicken Stir Fry

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Abuses in the Religious Life and the Path to Healing by Dom Dysmas de Lassus

    Michelle’s One Thing(s) - Fr. Mark Mary’s podcast: Rosary in a Year and Vanilla Caramel Nut Butter

    Other Resources Mentioned:

    “Dilexit Nos”: A brief guide for busy readers and Dilexit Nos audio version

    Journal Questions:

    Do I perceive Jesus’ presence in my life as being up close to me, or at a distance? How have I encountered Jesus as the Lover? How do I project my scars onto Jesus? Who in my community or in the Church is hardest for me to love right now? How can I love them better? Where do I have a belief that Jesus is indifferent to me?

    Discussion Questions:

    How have you experienced the ache to be cherished? How can you bring communion where there is polarity and discord? What happens in you when you consider the Sacred Heart of Jesus? When have you blindly trusted in Jesus and His Love and Providence for you? How did He prove Himself trustworthy?

    Quotes to Ponder:

    “The heart of Christ, as the symbol of the deepest and most personal source of his love for us, is the very core of the initial preaching of the Gospel. It stands at the origin of our faith, as the wellspring that refreshes and enlivens our Christian beliefs.” (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 32)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “Take heart, daughter!” (Matthew 9:22)

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Florecita Design

    01:19 - Intro

    02:12 - Welcome

    02:43 - Actions Reflect Our Heart

    04:09 - The Science of Caress

    05:37 - The Humanity of Christ

    08:26 - Aching to Be Loved

    10:11 - The Holy Spirit and Community

    14:03 - The Human Heart

    17:08 - Vulnerability and Secure Love

    20:00 - Our Image of God

    23:08 - One Things

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  • In this week's episode, we begin a three part series on Pope Francis’ recent encyclical Dilexit Nos (on the human and divine love of the Heart of Jesus Christ). We discuss how God, as the Divine initiator, loved us first and continuously calls us deeper into His most Sacred Heart. We also reflect on the meaning of our hearts, being captivated by Jesus’ love, and the beauty of allowing Him to set our hearts aflame.

    Heather’s One Thing - Man and Woman and the Order of Creation Conference at Franciscan University (view the livestream here)

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Tomato Basil Soup

    Michelle’s One Thing - The book Sons in the Son by Fr. Innocent Montgomery, CFR, and Fr. Angelus Montgomery, CFR ( Sign up here to get the consecration reflections)

    Other Resources Mentioned:

    “Dilexit Nos”: A brief guide for busy readers Dilexit Nos audio version

    Journal Questions:

    Who am I, really? What am I looking for? What direction do I want to give to my life? Why and for what purpose am I in the world? How do I want to look back on my life once it ends? What meaning do I want to give to all my experiences? Who do I want to be for others? Who am I for God?

    Discussion Questions:

    How do you belittle or dismiss the movements of your own heart? When do you feel distanced from your heart in this season? How can you minimize the distance you have from your heart this week? How do you self-protect instead of making a self-gift? What direction do you want to give to your life? Why and for what purpose are you in the world?

    Quotes to Ponder:

    “The heart is also the locus of sincerity, where deceit and disguise have no place. It usually indicates our true intentions, what we really think, believe and desire, the “secrets” that we tell no one: in a word, the naked truth about ourselves. It is the part of us that is neither appearance or illusion, but is instead authentic, real, entirely “who we are”.” (Pope Francis, “Dilexit Nos”, Paragraph 5)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “He loved us first.” (1 John 4:19)

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Reform Wellness

    01:39 - Intro

    02:31 - Announcement and Welcome

    05:04 - About the Encyclical

    06:53 - The Importance of the Heart

    11:16 - The Heart as the Locus of Sincerity

    14:54 - Our Heart is Meant for Love

    18:46 - Being Captivated by Jesus’ Love

    24:20 - The Sacred Heart Aflame with Love

    25:51 - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we continue our discussion on communion and focus on the practical aspects of living out in community. We reflect on the four main pillars of building a community: intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organically. We also talk about community as a journey and that we learn to love others by experiencing the love of God ourselves. This experience brings communion within us, which bears fruit, and then we are then able to give that love away to others.

    Heather’s One Thing - Friends of the Bridegroom

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - What Vegetable are You? Quiz

    Michelle’s One Thing - Monk Manual

    Announcement:

    Check out our new Small Group Resource page!

    Journal Questions:

    How can I express more mercy and curiosity within my community? Who in my local community can I extend an invitation to? Is there variety in my family’s community (vocations, ages, stages of life, etc)? For those not currently in an Abiding Together small group: Consider praying about starting an Abiding Together small group or study group. What fears or concerns do I have about starting a group?

    Discussion Questions:

    When do you feel more tempted to speak out harshly instead of conversing gently with those you’re in conflict with? What repeating strains and roadblocks have you observed in your relationships over the years? What do you think God may be teaching you through those strains? Throughout the episode, we covered four different aspects of community (intentionality, vulnerability, proximity, and organic engagement). Which of these aspects is hardest for you within your relationships? How can you initiate moments of organic community in your current season? Set a goal for yourself this week and check back in with each next time you connect.

    Quotes to Ponder:

    "God is love and in himself he lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in his own image .... God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation, and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion." (CCC 2331)

    “The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community.” (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “And fear came upon every soul; and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common; and they sold their possessions and goods and distributed them to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they partook of food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.” (Acts 2:43-47)



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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Nazareth Organics

    01:31 - Intro

    02:23 - Welcome and Recap

    03:23 - Judgement vs Curiosity

    06:36 - Bearing Fruit in Community

    08:43 - Jesus as a Model of Community

    11:05 - Aspects of Community

    18:28 - Good Community Takes Time to Build

    19:17 - Abiding Together Small Group Resources

    22:22 - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we talk about the theology of communion. Our desire for communion with others is very good and comes from God Himself. In fact, our ache for community is an ache for eternity. God desires to bring us into an eternal communion with Him and the community here on earth points towards this in a small way. We discuss what happens when we experience a broken community, the challenges faced in building community, and how community changes throughout the seasons of life.

    Heather’s One Thing - My art on the “They That Hope” podcast mug (add photos to website)

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Best Ever Crock Pot Roast Recipe

    Michelle’s One Thing - Every Sacred Sunday Mass Journal

    Announcement:

    Order your Abiding Together shirt in our shop today!

    Journal Questions:

    How have I been wounded within community? How have I been healed through community? In what ways are my friendships free, total, faithful, and fruitful? In what ways are my friendships not free, total, faithful, and fruitful? What kind of friend do I need to tend to my heart? What kind of friend am I to my friends’ hearts? How have I withheld belonging from others?

    Discussion Questions:

    How has your need and capacity for community changed over the years? How can you extend belonging to people in your community? What lies isolate you from entering into friendship? How is God inviting you to cultivate and receive community?

    Quotes to Ponder:

    "God is love and in himself he lives a mystery of personal loving communion. Creating the human race in his own image .... God inscribed in the humanity of man and woman the vocation, and thus the capacity and responsibility, of love and communion." (CCC 2331)

    “The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community.” (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “And fear came upon every soul; and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common; and they sold their possessions and goods and distributed them to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they partook of food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.” (Acts 2:43-47)

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - CORDA

    01:23 - Intro

    02:15 - Announcement

    02:42 - Welcome

    04:23 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quotes

    05:47 - Initial Thoughts

    08:41 - The Desire for Communion is Good

    13:39 - Community Takes Work

    16:36 - Learning How to Love

    18:04 - Identifying the Lies

    24:34 - Understanding the Wounds of Others

    29:00 - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we model what it looks like to pray Lectio Divina, which is a divine reading of Sacred Scripture. We begin by sharing the different ways we spend time in Sacred Scripture, how it has impacted our lives, and model how to pray Lectio Divina. We invite you to follow along and join us as we spend time reading and reflecting on John 15:5-8. Sacred Scripture is the voice of God and what He has said is alive forever and relevant to our lives in all situations. We encourage you to journey with us as we deepen our relationship with God through His word.

    Heather’s One Thing - Franciscan University’s Austria Study Abroad Program and Guadalupe Pilgrimage

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - FOCUS film Radiating Joy: The Michelle Duppong Story (trailer here)

    Michelle’s One Thing - Praying for anyone affected by hurricane Helene Catholic Charities, Samaritan's Purse, Change Lives Now

    Other Resources Mentioned:

    Steps for Lectio Divina and The Art and Practice of Lectio Divina

    Announcement:

    We are so excited to announce that we will have new Abiding Together shirts in our shop next week! Follow us on social media for all the latest updates!

    Journal Questions:

    When do I encounter the Scriptures throughout my day? Do I incorporate Lectio Divina into my prayer routine? What obstacles prevent me from entering into Lectio Divina? How can I begin to incorporate Lectio Divina more frequently into my prayer?

    Discussion Questions:

    How have you been nourished by the Word of God? Have you struggled to hear the voice of God in the past? When do you hear the voice of God in this season of your life? What stuck out to you during the Lectio Divina within the episode?

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit; because apart from me you can do nothing. Whoever does not abide in me is thrown away like a branch and withers; such branches are gathered, thrown into the fire and burned. If you abide in me and my words abide in you, ask for whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. My Father is glorified by this, that you bear much fruit, and become my disciples.” (John 15:5-8)

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Emmaus Road Publishing

    01:09 - Intro

    02:01 - Welcome

    07:23 - Sacred Scripture in Our Lives

    12:45 - How to Pray Lectio Divina

    15:37 - First Reading

    17:59 - Second Reading

    19:23 - Third Reading

    21:01 - Reflections

    28:23 - One Things

    32:06 - Announcement

  • In this week's episode, we reflect on suffering and love. We all have deep and tender places in our hearts where we suffer. Sometimes we feel alone in these sorrows and because of this, turn inwards into our pain. But the reality is, we are never alone in our suffering; God is always with us. We also reflect on fear in suffering, suffering in isolation vs suffering in communion, and how to allow God’s light to shine into these sorrowful places.

    Heather’s One Thing - The Liturgy of the Hours subscription and Providential Co. (especially this Sacred Heart candle)

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Magnificat (particularly a recent excerpt from Spe Salvi paragraphs 37-40)

    Michelle’s One Thing - “Home: A Blessed Conversations Study on the Virtues of Mary” from Blessed is She and all the women in her small group (use link or code MICHELLE10 for 10% off)

    Announcement: Friends, we are excited to announce our 2024 Advent Study will be the book Encountering Emmanuel by Heather Khym!

    Journal Questions:

    What suffering am I running from? Take some time to identify your current fears. How can you let these fears bring you into an encounter with Love Himself? Do I have a friend I can invite into my suffering? How can I be present to her suffering as well? How has Jesus transformed injury into compassion in my life?

    Discussion Questions:

    Are you suffering in communion or in isolation? How can you suffer more like Jesus in this season? What habits in your spiritual toolbox protect your heart in moments of suffering and desolation? How can you love well when your heart is broken?

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to throw away; a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8)

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Laura-Anne

    01:28 - Intro

    02:20 - Welcome

    06:57 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote

    09:02 - Fear in Suffering

    12:13 - Suffering in Communion

    19:28 - Choosing to Love

    27:41 - Transformation in Freedom

    29:23 - Prayer

    34:20 - Advent Study Announcement

    36:13 - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we look back and remember both the glorious and luminous moments in our lives. We share how allowing the Holy Spirit to overshadow us has brought forth an overflowing of grace and restoration in our lives. We also reflect on how God desires to restore our voices in places where we are afraid and have become silent. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own glorious and luminous mysteries.

    Glorious - something you see the Lord redeeming and restoring (it can be in process)

    Luminous - something the Lord brought to light, an area or pruning, longing, and an ache

    Heather’s One Thing - The song Hell or High Water by Amanda Cook

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - All moms whose kids went away to the first day of school

    Michelle’s One Thing - Spindrift half lemon & half tea and this Ice Maker

    Journal Questions:

    What were the glorious mysteries (something you see the Lord restoring) of my summer? What were the luminous mysteries (something the Lord brought to light, an area of pruning, an ache) of my summer? How is God restoring your voice in this season? How have I forgotten that the Gospel is costly?

    Discussion Questions:

    What have you been carrying by your own power, instead of by the Holy Spirit’s overshadowing? “You do not need a new plan, you need a new posture.” What new posture is the Lord inviting you to? What parts of your life need the gentle, healing touch of Jesus? How has God responded to the aches and longings of your life right now?

    Quote to Ponder:

    "Dear friends, what an immense joy to have Mary Immaculate as our Mother! Every time we experience our frailty and the promptings of evil, we may turn to her and our hearts receive light and comfort. Even in the trials of life, in the storms that cause faith and hope to vacillate, let us recall that we are her children and that our existence is deeply rooted in the infinite grace of God. Although the Church is exposed to the negative influences of the world, she always finds in Mary the star to guide her so that she may follow the route pointed out to her by Christ.” (Angelus, December 8, 2009)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6)

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Ascension

    01:12 - Intro

    02:05 - Welcome

    03:36 - Guiding Quote

    04:44 - Glorious

    15:22 - Luminous

    24:32 - Scripture Verse

    24:52 - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we look back over the past year and remember both the joyful and sorrowful moments in our lives. We discuss the importance of regularly bringing our attention to what God is doing in our lives and reflecting on the opportunities we have to deepen our surrender to God’s provision. Today, join us in reflecting on your recent faith journey to discover the beautiful ways God has been shaping your soul through your own joyful and sorrowful mysteries.

    Joyful - an area of delight or gratitude where you have felt the tangible presence of the Lord

    Sorrowful - a hurt or an obstacle we’ve noticed

    Heather’s One Thing - Big Apple Catholic’s new shop! Especially the Holy Spirit crew neck

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - A quote from St. Catherine of Siena “He will provide the way and the means, such as you could never have imagined. Leave it all to Him, let go of yourself, lose yourself on the Cross, and you will find yourself entirely.”

    Michelle’s One Thing - LifeTeen Summer Camp and Camp Chosatonga

    Other Resources Mentioned:

    The Women Doctors of the Church Podcast Series

    Announcement:

    New Abiding Together merch is coming soon! Subscribe to our weekly email newsletter to receive updates.

    Journal Questions:

    What were the joyful mysteries (delights, tangible gratitude) of my summer? How are you waiting on the Lord’s Providence? What were the sorrowful mysteries (hurts, obstacles) of my summer? Where in my life do I believe that if “it feels bad, it is bad?”

    Discussion Questions:

    Who walked with you throughout this summer? How have you tangibly experienced Christ’s presence in the midst of sorrow? Where have you experienced healing from the Lord this summer? What changes are you sensing (internally or externally) with the start of fall?

    Quote to Ponder:

    “Looking at Mary, how can we, her children, fail to let the aspiration to beauty, goodness and purity of heart be aroused in us? Her heavenly candor draws us to God, helping us to overcome the temptation to live a mediocre life composed of compromises with evil, and directs us decisively towards the authentic good that is the source of joy.” (Angelus, December 8, 2005 Pope Benedict)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6)

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Called to Communicate

    01:28 - Intro

    02:21 - Welcome

    06:37 - Guiding Quote

    07:40 - Joy

    15:36 - Sorrow

    30:05 - One Things

    33:02 - Announcement

  • In this bonus episode, Heather is joined by Fr. Dave Pivonka, TOR live at the National Eucharistic Congress (NEC) for a special Abiding Together and They that Hope podcast mashup. They reflect on their experiences at the NEC and share how they hope God will transform the lives of not only those in attendance, but also those at home. Heather and Fr. Dave also discuss finding Jesus in our daily lives and the importance of feasting on God instead of earthly things. This episode is a production of Franciscan University and OSV. Special thanks to MAX Studios for recording and hosting the live podcast stage.

    Heather’s Highlight from the NEC - Adoration with Floriani

    Heather’s One Thing - Receiving a copy of her new book: Encountering Emmanuel (A Guided Advent Journal for Prayer and Meditation)

    Fr. Dave’s Highlight from the NEC - His time spent with the young people at the Congress

    Fr. Dave’s One Thing - Deep friendships



    Other Resources Mentioned:

    Msgr. James Shea’s Full Speech at the National Eucharistic Congress

    Announcement:

    Season 15 begins September 2024 - join our email list to receive updates!

    Journal Questions:

    How have I experienced Eucharistic revival this year? Have you allowed the stress of your duties and burdens take your eyes off Christ in this season? How can I shift my gaze from my inner world to Christ?

    Discussion Questions:

    How has Christ encountered you personally when you felt lost in the crowd? What obstacles cause you to miss Him when He’s right in front of you? How can you put yourself back into the reality that God is sovereign and in control?

    Quote to Ponder:

    “The One whom the Father has sent into our hearts, the Spirit of his Son, is truly God. Consubstantial with the Father and the Son, the Spirit is inseparable from them, in both the inner life of the Trinity and his gift of love for the world. In adoring the Holy Trinity, life-giving, consubstantial, and indivisible, the Church's faith also professes the distinction of persons. When the Father sends his Word, he always sends his Breath. In their joint mission, the Son and the Holy Spirit are distinct but inseparable. To be sure, it is Christ who is seen, the visible image of the invisible God, but it is the Spirit who reveals him.” (CCC 689)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “When he was at table with them, he took the bread and blessed, and broke it, and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened and they recognized him; and he vanished out of their sight. They said to each other, “Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the scriptures?” (Luke 24:30-32)

  • In this week's episode, we conclude our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe. We chat about the resurrection, what it means to be restored and reconciled, and making space for childlike wonder. We hope you’ve enjoyed this book study with us and will see you again this Fall!

    Everyone’s One Thing - The “Abiding” Women’s Conference in Louisiana

    Journal Questions:

    Where do I need to ask God for mercy in my life right now? Where is my heart hard? How can I allow time and space for playfulness, joy, and childlike wonder? Where am I dying and need Christ to bring life and make things new?



    Discussion Questions:

    When have you experienced mercy? Who is someone that you need to offer mercy to? What do you experience when God has you in a process or journey? Are you able to be patient or are you filled with unrest and anxiety? In what ways do you live life in gray? In what ways do you live life in technicolor?



    Quote to Ponder:

    “We are not on earth to guard a museum, but to cultivate a flowering garden of life.” - Pope John XXIII

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “Therefore we have been buried with him by baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in the newness of life. For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his.” - Romans 6:4-5

    Timestamps:

    (00:00) - Introduction

    (01:37) - Welcome

    (03:00) - Aslan Gives His Life for Edmund

    (07:27) - The Process and Pain of Restoration

    (11:16) - Communion in Suffering

    (15:17) - Resurrection

    (19:32) - Living in Technicolor

    (23:53) - The Final Battle

    (24:25) - Returning to the Wardrobe

    (27:42) - Childlike Faith

    (29:08) - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we continue with our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe (chapters 9-12). We discuss themes like the false narrative of the enemy, the dynamic of stoney hearts that God wants to restore and turn to flesh, true living of the paschal mystery, and the power of God’s resurrection power in our lives. We hope you enjoy this episode!

    Heather’s One Thing - The Abiding Together small groups! We love you!

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Fire Within- Fr. Thomas Dubay

    Michelle’s One Thing - The movie “Gifted”

    Journal Questions:

    Instead of being child-like, we can be childish with God. What is the difference between these two dynamics that I can see in my own life? The enemy makes empty promises. What is one empty promise that he has made to me? What is one promise of God and His faithfulness that I have seen at work in my life? “Battle looks like surrender.” What is one battle that I need to move into a disposition of surrender to God?

    Discussion Questions:

    What is one of the false narratives that the enemy has been telling in your life? What do you think the Father wants to say about that false narrative? What area of your heart do you feel has been turned to stone or has been hardened? Why? “Hurting people, hurt people.” How have you experienced this concept and how can we offer a response of healing? Where have you settled for the dry bread from the enemy instead of the banquet that God is offering you?



    Quote to Ponder:

    "Aslan is on the move” - (Mr. Beaver) C.S. Lewis - The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe



    Scripture for Lectio:

    “A new heart I will give you, and a new spirit I will put within you; and I will remove from your body the heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.” -Ezekiel 36:26



    Timestamps:

    (00:00) - Introduction

    (01:36) - Welcome

    (03:42) - Edmund’s Narrative

    (10:48) - The Winter in Our Hearts

    (13:16) - Father Christmas vs the White Witch

    (15:15) - The Gifts of Father Christmas

    (20:03) - The Empty Promises of Turkish Delight

    (23:02) - The Thawing of Winter into Spring

    (27:09) - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we continue our book study on the Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe Chapters 5-8. We reflect deeper on the story and how it relates to our spiritual lives. Themes such as the battle of light and darkness, jealousy and making others feel small, the power of the name of Jesus, surrender vs control and how the story of Narnia is an echo of what our hearts long for in Christ.

    Heather’s One Thing - Evangelization Ministry of Catholic Christian Outreach

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The women from the “Undone” retreat

    Michelle’s One Thing - The book “Just Mercy” by Bryan Stevenson

    Journal Questions:

    Who can I go to who will speak wisdom into my life? Like Edmund, are there any places in my life that I feel fear when I think about God? What parts of my heart have been turned to stone and need the warmth of God’s hand to bring them back to life?

    Discussion Questions:

    What is one truth about God that you can see in your story? Where do you need to grow into your royal identity as a daughter of God? Discuss the truth about how the name of Jesus contains His presence. How could this change how you pray? “He isn’t safe, but He’s good.” How have you experienced the truth of this quote?

    Quote to Ponder:

    “"Safe?" said Mr. Beaver ..."Who said anything about safe? Course he isn't safe. But he's good. He's the King, I tell you.”” - (Mr. Beaver) C.S. Lewis - The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe

    Scripture for Lectio:

    "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death' or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away. He who was seated on the throne said, "I am making everything new!" Then he said, "Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true. He said to me: "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children." - Revelation 21:4-7

    Timestamps:

    (00:00) - Introduction

    (01:36) - Welcome

    (03:48) - Discovering the Truth

    (08:33) - The Professor

    (14:14) - Going Back into the Wardrobe

    (15:22) - The Power of Aslan

    (23:54) - Safety and Goodness

    (29:56) - One Things

  • In this week's episode, we begin our book study on The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe (Chapters 1-4). We dive into the themes of this chapter such as innocence, faith, temptation, sin, and shared adventure. We hope you will continue to join us on the journey into this wonderful story, which we hope will help us reflect more deeply on our relationship with Christ, our own story of faith and redemption, and the invitation to adventure with God.

    Heather’s One Thing - Her Into the Deep Playlist

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - The song “Pieces” (the live version) by Amanda Cook

    Michelle’s One Thing - The song “Electricity” by Ellie and Drew Holcomb



    Other Resources Mentioned:

    Audiobook on YouTube

    Journal Questions:

    How has the enemy spoken things in my life that bring about shame? What are the parts of Edmund that I see in myself? What parts of Lucy do I see? What is my Turkish delight (sin or temptation) that keeps me bound? Where are the places I hide from the Lord and others?

    Discussion Questions:

    What stood out to you in the reading for this week? Where in my life has the enemy taken a place and I need "Christmas" to come? Discuss the difference of femininity between Lucy and the witch. How have different examples of femininity affected your life? When we numb our heart and our identity, we numb our wonder and our inheritance. How have you seen this truth in your life? Where are the places and spaces that you can find wonder that leads to God?



    Quote to Ponder:

    "And what wonderful adventures we shall have, now that we are all in it together." - (Lucy) C.S. Lewis

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3)

    Timestamps:

    (00:00) - Introduction

    (01:39) - Welcome

    (4:00) - History of Narnia

    (9:48) - Lucy in the Beginning

    (16:37) - Edmund in the Beginning

    (22:38) - Winter vs Christmas

    (26:00) - Living like Lucy and Learning from Edmund

    (30:21) - Final Reflections

    (33:13) - One Things

    (36:54) - Photo Challenge

  • In this week's episode, we conclude season 14 by reflecting on what we have learned in our lives this past season. We chat about surrendering control and allowing the Holy Spirit to move in power, the need to be grateful for what we already have and the importance of being present in the present moment. We also share personal experiences of transformation and deep intimacy we have found with God, even in the midst of suffering. Thank you for an amazing season, we are truly honored to be on this journey with you. God bless!

    Heather’s One Thing - Her recent Healing Pilgrimage to France through Franciscan University (check out their website to join future pilgrimages) and Michelle’s Sweatshirt

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - You :)

    Michelle’s One Thing - Her Summer Reading List, Word on Fire’s children’s books, and the book Between Brothers by Sarah Metts

    Announcements:

    Join us July 8-29 2024 as we re-release our book study on The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by CS Lewis.

    Season 15 begins September 2024 - join our email list to receive updates!

    Journal Questions:

    Which episode, conversation, or theme resonated with me most this season? What miracles have I been managing lately? What has the process of transformation looked like in my life? How do I partner with fear in my life? What freedom and goodness does the Lord offer me in those areas?

    Discussion Questions:

    What does it look like to move through the power of the Holy Spirit? What is God asking you to get rid of and let go of before you move into the next season of life? What graces are you grateful for in this season of your life? How will you cultivate intimacy with the Lord and community with others throughout the summer?

    Quote to Ponder:

    “Faith walks simply, childlike, between the darkness of human life and the hope of what is to come.” (Catherine Doherty)



    Scripture for Lectio:

    “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” (Colossians 3:15)

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  • In this week's episode, we welcome Sarah Kroger, a GMA Dove Award®-nominated artist, songwriter, and worship leader to the podcast to speak into the beauty of worship. Sarah shares her story of becoming a worship leader, how she creates music based on the joys and sorrows from her personal life, and her passion for collaborating with others and the Holy Spirit. We also chat about spiritual dryness, cultivating peace and persisting in faith while in seasons of darkness, and the fruit that comes about from suffering. Check out Sarah’s new album, A New Reality, here!

    Heather’s One Thing - Pinwheel recipe and the upcoming Restore the Glory Podcast series on our four identities

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - CORDA (especially the Valor and Grace candle)

    Michelle’s One Thing - The book Aslan’s Breath: Seeing the Holy Spirit in Narnia by Matthew Dickerson and her priest friends and the gift of their fatherhood

    Sarah’s One Thing - The book The Night is Normal by Dr. Alicia Britt Chole and Sourdough bread!



    Other Resources Mentioned:

    Check out Sarah’s website and Listen to her new album, A New Reality, on Spotify

    Journal Questions:

    What parts of my life or my faith scare me? How can I find God in those scary parts? When have I experienced a dying of my childhood faith? When have I experienced a resurrection of that death? Whose suffering has borne fruit in my life? How can I submit my will to God to more closely work in partnership with Him?

    Discussion Questions:

    How has your practice of faith evolved throughout different seasons? How are you using your gifts to glorify God? How are you withholding my gifts? How can you invite the Holy Spirit into your own gifts and projects? What’s your next right step in following the inspiration of the Holy Spirit?

    Quote to Ponder:

    “I raise a hallelujah, in the presence of my enemies. I raise a hallelujah, louder than my unbelief. I raise a hallelujah, my weapon is a melody.” (Raise A Hallelujah by Jonathan and Melissa Helser)



    Scripture for Lectio:

    “But the hour is coming and is now here when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father seeks such as these to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” (John 4:23-24)

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  • In this week's episode, we welcome Brya Hanan, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, to share how we can learn to engage as an adult with the young parts of ourselves. Brya shares her story, the trauma she experienced as a child, and how it affected not only her self-perception but also how she related to others. She reflects on her healing journey and shares practical ways you can begin your healing journey. We also chat about how our unmet needs as a child can affect us as adults, how to have compassion for ourselves in our brokenness, and why healing ourselves allows us to love those around us much more fully.

    Heather’s One Thing - Her parents

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Lentil Curry and Naan Bread

    Michelle’s One Thing - Her husband, Chris, and his loving support

    Brya’s One Thing - Barre Classes!

    Other Resources Mentioned:

    Buy Brya’s book here Check out Brya’s website and Instagram Restore the Glory Podcast Episode 99: Parts Work with Brya Hanan

    Journal Questions:

    Where do I sense deep divides within myself? How do I care for others as a way of avoiding care for myself? What would it look like for me to befriend my inner child? What are my defense mechanisms? Is it time to seek out therapy?

    Discussion Questions:

    What “templates” of wounds and experiences do you find yourself living through? In your healing journey, when have you experienced things getting worse before they got better? What made the change for the better? What does your inner child need to hear today? When do you feel dysregulated? When do you feel well-regulated?

    Quotes to Ponder:

    “Remember, you are held safe. You are loved. You are protected. You are in communion with God and with those whom God has sent you. What is of God will last. It belongs to the eternal life. Choose it, and it will be yours.” (Henri J.M. Nouwen, The Inner Voice of Love)

    “The history of every human being passes through the threshold of a woman’s motherhood.” (Saint Pope JPII)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    A large crowd followed and pressed around him. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years. She had suffered a great deal under the care of many doctors and had spent all she had, yet instead of getting better she grew worse. When she heard about Jesus, she came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, because she thought, “If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.” Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering. At once Jesus realized that power had gone out from him. He turned around in the crowd and asked, “Who touched my clothes?” “You see the people crowding against you,” his disciples answered, “and yet you can ask, ‘Who touched me?’ ” But Jesus kept looking around to see who had done it. Then the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came and fell at his feet and, trembling with fear, told him the whole truth. He said to her, “Daughter, your faith has healed you.Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.” (Mark 5: 24- 34)

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  • In this week's episode, we welcome Dr. Mary Healy, author, and professor of Scripture at Sacred Heart Major Seminary, to talk about living life in the power of the Holy Spirit. Dr. Healy shares how her life was radically transformed through an encounter with the Holy Spirit and reflects on the beauty of allowing the Holy Spirit to work in her life. We also chat practically about how to live life day by day in the power of the Holy Spirit, how to learn to hear and respond to the voice of the Holy Spirit, and how we can prepare our hearts for Pentecost.

    Heather’s One Thing - Wild Goose Series on the Holy Spirit

    Heather’s Other One Thing - Peter and Debbie Herbeck (check out Renewal Ministries and Be Love Revolution)

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Springtime!

    Michelle’s One Thing - Camp Chosatonga (for boys) and Camp Kahdalia (for girls) and Mission on the Mountain

    Dr. Mary Healy’s One Thing - Blessed Elena Guerra

    Journal Questions:

    When did the love of God first become real to me? Have you ever experienced “white knuckle” Christianity? How can I live my life in the power of the Holy Spirit? What areas of my life are hardest to surrender to the Holy Spirit? Where in my life have I rationed the Holy Spirit? Where am I blocking the Holy Spirit?

    Discussion Questions:

    When do you feel like your failures are too much for God? What has your experience been with the Holy Spirit? Who in your life is filled with the fire of the Holy Spirit? What sacrifices have I had to make to surrender more fully to God?



    Quote to Ponder:

    “I would sacrifice myself a thousand times if I had the lives . . . I will go and I will do as the Holy Spirit inspires me” (Catherine of Sienna)

    Scripture for Lectio:

    “When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place. And suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. Divided tongues, as of fire, appeared among them, and a tongue rested on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages, as the Spirit gave them ability.” (Acts 2:1-4)

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  • In this week's episode, we continue our conversation about leading with our God-given authority, particularly in our spiritual or biological motherhood. We talk about how God has blessed us with the Sacraments, Scripture, and prayer to fight spiritual battles. We reflect on the importance of rooting our identity in Christ, how Our Lady modeled feminine leadership, and practical ways to do spiritual warfare. We also discuss generational bondage, repairing trust, and the power of an apology given and received.

    Heather’s One Thing - Her Battle Cry playlist and her friendship with Michelle and Sister Miriam and the way they have helped her through dark seasons in life

    Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Having Heather visit and The Litany of the Waiting Woman

    Michelle’s One Thing - Bee Still a Catholic Jewelry Company

    Other Resources Mentioned:

    Priscilla Shirer’s talk on the Armor of God and the schemes of the devil Sr. Miriam and Fr. John Burn’s talks on forgiveness (Healing Through Forgiveness and Seeking Healing Through Forgiveness) Sr. Miriam’s Forgiveness Meditation Renouncing Lies and Announcing Truth – 7 Deadly Wounds Scripture Verses on Identity

    Journal Questions:

    What areas does the enemy often attack me in this area? What are my frequent sins? What are the deeper longs behind my frequent sins? Am I tempted to under-spiritualize or over-spiritualize the sufferings, temptations, and attacks in my life? When did I last go to confession? When am I planning to go next? What battles have I inherited from my family? How can I take responsibility for those battles?

    Discussion Questions:

    How can you apply the invitation to worship rather than worry in your current season? What are the prayers and tools God has given you out of love to help you on this journey? Who has been entrusted to you? How can you pray for them and do battle? Where in my life can I invite Christ’s Precious Blood into my life and family? What are some of Jesus’ promises in response to the attacks you face?

    Quote to Ponder:

    “Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication.” (Ephesians 6:10-18)



    Scripture for Lectio:

    “Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them” (Deuteronomy 4:9)

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  • In this week's episode, we reflect on leading with our God-given authority rather than worldly influence. We discuss the importance of remembering our identity in Christ and how true authority is a display of intimacy that has been rooted in a real tangible love. We share the ways we may have been wounded by authority figures in our past, why these wounds can distort our perception of authority, and how to heal from these wounds so that we can lead others into the light of Christ.

    Heather’s One Thing - Chicken Khao Soi (Thai Coconut Curry Noodle Soup) from My Kitchen Little

    Sister Miriam’s On Thing - The book Litanies of the Heart by Dr Gerry Crete

    Michelle’s One Thing - Beatify: Lullabies with the Saints (an album of Catholic lullabies) from Beatify with Josh Blakesley and Kelly Lombardi

    Other Resources Mentioned:

    The Restore the Glory Podcast series on Parts Work (Parts Work (Part 1) w/ Gerry Crete; Parts Work (Part 2) w/ Brya Hanan; Parts Work (Part 3) w/ Bishop Andrew Miller)

    Journal Questions:

    How have I abdicated my God-given authority? When do I perceive surrender to be a form of defeat? How has authority been misused in my life? How is God inviting me to stay with Him in faithfulness and obedience? Where do I need to be both honoring and honest?

    Discussion Questions:

    How often do you think God is holding out on you? How do I lose sight of God-given authority by seeking out worldly influence? What accountability do I need to choose surrendered, God-given authority over worldly influence? When have you felt safe under God’s authority? How do you need to grow and mature to better lead and serve others?

    Quote to Ponder:

    “The fourth commandment opens the second table of the Decalogue. It shows us the order of charity. God has willed that, after him, we should honor our parents to whom we owe life and who have handed on to us the knowledge of God. We are obliged to honor and respect all those whom God, for our good, has vested with his authority.” (CCC 2197)



    Scripture for Lectio:

    “Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.” (Deuteronomy 4:9)



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