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My guest today is Paul Oyer, a professor of economics at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. Heâs also the author of An Economist Goes to the Game: How to Throw Away $580 Million and Other Surprising Insights from the Economics of Sports.
Paul and I start with the most insane statistic I have come across in my entire life. Then we blow through a number of topics, including gambling, the NIL, the effects of conference realignment within college athletics, public financing of private stadiums, why coaches get huge buyouts, and most importantly, why I was serving a huge need by reselling a boatload of UF football tickets when I was in undergrad. This was a fun conversation on the future of sports related to a number of topics with a bright mind and I hope you enjoy the episode.
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My guest today is Francesca Gino, a professor at Harvard Business School focused on why people make the decisions they do at work, and how leaders and employees have more productive, creative and fulfilling lives.
Harvard is well-known for their case studies being used by colleges and companies all over the world, and when I saw she wrote a case study on Steve Kerr, I had to get her on the podcast. Our conversation today starts with lessons learned from studying and talking to Coach Kerr. Then we shift to the topic of her best selling book, Rebel Talent: Why it Pays to Break Rules in Work and Life. She was one of the most impressive people Iâve talked to before, and if I havenât convinced you to listen yet, know she had just finished a session teaching an NBA staff on various topics.
My co-host today is Oliver Winterbone, Director of Coaches and Executives at Wasserman, one of the premiere talent management companies in the world. He previously worked for the Oklahoma City Thunder and University of Florida Menâs Basketball program in various roles. The Athletic named him to their NBA 40 under 40 list earlier this year.
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My guest today is Daniel Coyle, best-selling author of The Talent Code, The Culture Code, and his newest book that was released this week, The Culture Playbook: 60 Highly Effective Actions to Help Your Group Succeed.
In this episode, Daniel shares insights heâs learned about how to build a strong culture, what some best practices are around hiring and team building, and what heâs learned from consulting with the Cleveland Guardians.
My co-host today is Oliver Winterbone, Director of Coaches and Executives at Wasserman, one of the premiere talent management companies in the world. He previously worked for the Oklahoma City Thunder and University of Florida Menâs Basketball program in various roles. The Athletic named him to their NBA 40 under 40 list earlier this year.
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Todayâs episode features a conversation between Jeff Seder and Meb Faber on The Meb Faber Show podcast. In my last episode with Seth Stephens-Davidowitz, we touched on the incredible story of Jeff Seder and how utilizing data led him to go all-in on American Pharoah and later tell his employer, âSell your horse, donât sell this horse.â Wise words considering the horse would go on to become the first Triple Crown winner in 37 years.
Meb was kind enough to allow me to release the episode on my feed here for you to listen to.
That being said, if you enjoy the episode and want to repay the favor to Meb, or are looking for a podcast on investing and whatâs going on in the economy, whether itâs the freakonomics of weed, what in the world is going on in the housing market, or hearing about the impact of the Russia/Ukraine war on geopolitics, be sure to check out and subscribe to The Meb Faber Show. And if you want to test it out, he released an episode yesterday with some of the best clips from this year.
Now enjoy this conversation between Meb Faber & Jeff Seder.
Other episodes from The Meb Faber Show Iâd recommend:
Gio Valiante
Richard Thaler
Dan Ariely
Leonard Mlodinow
Dan Cooper
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My guest today is Seth Stephens-Davidowitz, author of Don't Trust Your Gut: Using Data to Get What You Really Want in Life.
Iâm not sure if thereâs someone whose work is more fascinating to me than Seth. His first book, Everybody Lies, looked at how our Google searches reveal our true selves with topics like racism, child abuse,
This book looks at what the data says on how to live a better life. We touch on parenting, finding a spouse, being a sports fan, what sport your child should play if they want the best chance to get a college scholarship, and how much of an athleteâs success is nature vs. nurture. His work is as fun as it is insightful and Iâm sure youâll love this episode. Note this does contain some mature content towards the end of the episode.
Resources:
Jeff Sederâs appearance on The Meb Faber Show
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Todayâs episode features a conversation my good friend Preston Greene recently had with world champion cyclist, Shane Perkins. Preston is the strength coach for the University of Florida menâs basketball team and one of the most well respected strength coaches in all of college athletics. Shane is a professional track cyclist who won the Bronze Medal in the 2012 London Olympic games and also won 2 world championships.
In this episode, Shane talks about how he trained his mind and mentally prepared to perform, the importance of being coachable as an athlete, and what separated the great coaches from the others in his eyes. He also touches on how to handle success, managing who is in your inner circle, and the importance of patience, persistence and hard work.
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My guest today is David Shaw, head coach of the Stanford football team. In this episode, he talks about what itâs been like to coach players like Andrew Luck and Christian McCaffrey at an elite academic institution like Stanford and lessons heâs learned working with guys like Brian Billick and Jon Gruden. Coach Shaw has been pursued by NFL teams and shares advice on how he thinks about his professional career, what makes him happy in life, and what one NFL GM said was the reason he pursued him.
We donât discuss it in the episode, but last year ESPN did a segment on his brotherâs battle against a rare, aggressive skin cancer, and the hail mary blood marrow transplant Coach Shaw was able to provide his him, which saved his life. Itâs one of the most moving stories Iâve seen and I urge you to check the link in the show notes to watch and consider becoming a borrow marrow donor by going to bethematch.org.
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My guest today is Dr. Michele Gelfand, a Distinguished University Professor at the University of Maryland, College Park. Dr. Gelfand is a cultural psychologist and uses field, experimental, computational, and neuroscience methods to understand the evolution of culture--as well as its multilevel consequences for human groups. Sheâs also the author of Rule Makers, Rule Breakers: How Tight and Loose Cultures Wire the World, which is the focus of our conversation today.
Coaches at all levels talk about building and creating the kind of culture that can produce wins, but what does that really mean? There is no one better to talk to about that than Michele. In this episode, she explains the framework she uses in the book to understand the difference between tight and loose cultures. She covers how social norms dictate whether a culture leans either tight or loose and the advantages and disadvantages of each. The episode is full of examples of companies and how they fit along this spectrum, including United Airlines, Uber, and her current work with the U.S. Navy.
Resources Mentioned:Where to contact her: Twitter | LinkedIn | Website
Her Harvard Business Review paper on the Amazon/Whole Foods acquisition
Show Notes:(2:21) - How she became a cultural psychologist
(3:38) - What led her to write Rule Makers, Rule Breakers: How Tight and Loose Cultures Wire the World
(7:00) - How social norms help define cultures
(9:00) - The strengths and weaknesses of both tight and loose cultures
(12:20) - Advice for coaches on self-diagnosing where they fit on the tight-loose spectrum
(17:10) - Examples of organizations and where they fit within this framework
(24:30) - How to use this framework when hiring or looking to decide what organization is the best fit for you
(27:00) - How to handle your culture leaning too far to either end of the tight-loose spectrum
(29:30) - Her work with the U.S. Navy and how they are trying to implement some looseness within their culture
(37:30) - Parenting advice based on the tight-loose framework
(41:30) - End of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
You Gotta Have Wa by Robert Whiting
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast?
Carol Dweck
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year?
Meditation
4. Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong?
Get to the task when negotiating. Her research shows that you actually need to get to know the person first so you signal that you respect them and gain their trust.
5. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this?
Continue to search for your passion
6. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it?
Trying to get her paper on this topic published in Science. She got through it by having fun and saying sheâd wear a costume if the paper was approved to be published
Favorite Quotes:âAll cultures have both tight and loose elements, but we could think about cultures in terms of their default. Do they lean tight or loose on this continuum?â
âWhat we know from our research is that groups that get too extreme, either too tight or too loose, actually are really dysfunctional and that applies to nations, to organizations, and I would imagine also to sports teams. And for different reasons. When you have a lot of super tight rules, people feel uncomfortable questioning them. They feel like theyâre walking on eggshells. Then we have less chance for catching mistakes and being willing to express them. And on the flip side, when you have too much looseness, itâs total chaos. I think back to the definition of social norms. Then we have no ability to coordinate and itâs a mess, andâŚwe need some degree of both in any social system.â
âSo I think thatâs a really important thing, this kind of tension between freedom and rules and constraints. And I think that the best, most healthy systems are able to be able to adapt to the context and deploy tight and loose when necessary.â
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My guest today is Becky Burleigh, the head soccer coach at the University of Florida. Sheâs also the co-founder of What Drives Winning, which unites the top minds in sports. In 25 years at Florida, she has led UF to a NCAA Championship, two NCAA College Cup appearances, 14 Southeastern Conference titles and 22 NCAA Championships berths. She has 507 total wins, putting her third all-time in Division-1 soccer.
In this episode, we discuss what it was like to get the UF soccer program started in 1995 and winning a national title a few years later with stars like Abby Wombach. We talk about how she focuses on not just developing the player but developing the athlete as a person. Then we dive into how meeting Brett Ledbetter led her to team up with him and start What Drives Winning. There arenât many coaches who are better to listen to from if you want to learn about how to help your players become better people.
Show Notes:(1:35) - Why she started DJâing
(3:30) - Early years growing up in Tarpon Springs, FL
(6:00) - Starting the UF soccer program at the age of 26
(10:10) - Importance of having her parents support in her career
(11:14) - When she decided to have a personal Board of Directors
(13:10) - Winning a national title in the third year at UF
(14:45) - Coaching Abby Wombach
(16:10) - Striving to win another national title
(17:17) - Focusing on personal development as much as player development
(19:30) - Meeting Brett Ledbetter and then launching What Drives Winning
(23:52) - What sheâs learned from former UF & current Chicago Bulls head coach, Billy Donovan
(25:30) - What sheâs learned from Cal Berkley head coach, Jack Clark
(26:00) - The future of What Drives Winning
(27:40) - Her typical schedule and balancing coaching and What Drives Winning
(29:58) - Evolving as a coach over time
(31:15) - The three team values: courage, team-first, and growth
(34:15) - What she would tell herself if she could go back to her first day coaching at Florida
(34:40) - Focusing on personal growth
(35:45) - What sheâs learned from Dr. Jim Loehr
(37:00) - Lessons for other coaches based on her starting and finishing a season in 2020 amid COVID
(40:15) - Favorite moment(s) of her career: alumni weekends
(41:20) - End of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
The Power of Full Engagement: Managing Energy, Not Time, Is the Key to High Performance and Personal Renewal by Jim Loehr
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast?
Nick Saban
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year?
Everything!
4. Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong?
Coaching is easy
5. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this?
âComparison is the thief of joy.â
6. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it?
When one of her players took her own life after graduating from UF.
Favorite Quotes:âHere at the University of Florida, itâs always got to be in the conversation, right? I mean, people donât come to Florida to not compete for national championships. So, I think every year the goal is the same if youâre an athlete at Florida, pretty much in every sport. I think the bigger question is just like, what are we doing and how are we developing in terms of that path to get there?â
âAnd that quote is, âWho are you becoming as a result of the chase?â And I think thatâs a really important question because weâre all going to strive really hard for our goals. But in the end, sometimes weâre going to hit them and sometimes weâre not, but who we are becoming is a constant.
âI feel like everybody has to run their own race when it comes to your career and what youâre doing. And as soon as you start to look at something someone else has, then what youâre doing becomes diminished.â
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My guest today is Anson Dorrance, UNC Womenâs Soccer Head Coach. He has won 22 National Championships and is the first coach in NCAA history to win 20 championships coaching a single sport. That is correct - 22 national titles. And as impressive as that is, his approach to coaching, competitiveness, and character development of his girls is even more impressive.
In this episode, we discuss why he doesnât think you can teach leadership, why he thinks itâs so important to take personal ownership of your own outcome and learn to handle adversity, and how recruiting has evolved over the years. He also talks about his relationship with coaches outside of womenâs soccer, including Dean Smith, Pete Carroll, and Terry Liskevych.
Show Notes:(1:25) - Why he doesnât believe you can teach leadership
(10:40) - The impact the helicopter parent has on children now
(15:20) - How recruiting has been effected by this change
(22:55) - His core values for his program
(24:25) - His focus on competitiveness and the competitive cauldron
(31:25) - How he became good friends with Pete Carroll
(40:39) - The importance of personal development
(46:30) - The core values he has for the program and how heâs matured as a coach over his career
(56:50) - How he approaches character development and winning
(1:01:25) - End of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
The Man Watching: Anson Dorrance and the University of North Carolina Women's Soccer Dynasty
Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
This is Water by David Foster Wallace
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast?
Marcelo Bielsa - Manager of Leeds United
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year?
Construct a strategy to fit his roster this coming year, which has no seniors left
4. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this?
Be a continuous learner and pick a mentor that is in an environment similar to yours
5. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it?
He was sued by a former player and her parent and was really criticized by the media.
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My guest today is Travis Wyckoff, founder of Kingdom Coaching, a consulting business for coaches to help provide the tools, strategies, and skills you need to transform how you lead yourself, lead others, and win in all areas. He also hosts the podcast called Coaching DNA, which I was recently a guest on. Previously, he coached college baseball for 11 years and spent six years leading on a church staff.
In this episode, we discuss the transition from coaching college baseball to starting Kingdom Coaching. He explains the different ways he works with coaches, whether it is one-on-one coaching, staff coaching, Tribe Membership, or cohorts. We spend a lot of time around leadership, a topic he is incredibly passionate about. After his time spent working with some of the top coaches, like Tim Corbin and Anson Dorrance, he distills a great leader down to character, emotional intelligence, clarity, psychological makeup.
Where to connect with Travis: Website | Twitter | Podcast or email him at [email protected]
Resources Discussed:Coaching DNA Podcast with Rodney Hobbs
End of Episode Questions:1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
InSideOut Coaching: How Sports Can Transform Lives by Joe Ehrmann
Behind the Bench: Inside the Minds of Hockey's Greatest Coaches by Craig Custance
Super Thinking: The Big Book of Mental Models by Gabriel Weinberg and Lauren McCann
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast?
Dabo Swinney
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year?
Be more present with others
4. Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong?
Be yourself â no, be the best version of yourself
5. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this?
Be a continuous learner
6. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it?
One season while coaching was really hard with poor pitching and tough to handle as the team went through it. He overcame it via grit.
Favorite Quote:âJohn Maxwell talks a ton about: your leadership ability will determine the lid on, in my case the people I'm working with, it'll determine the lid of your program. So if your leadership is growing, if you're a really excellent leader, your program is going to rise. If not, you will put the lid on your program based on what your leadership capacity is.â
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My guest today is Ethan Kross, one of the worldâs leading experts on controlling the conscious mind. Heâs currently a professor at the University of Michigan, where he founded the Emotion & Self Control Laboratory. Heâs also the author of Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It, which is the focus of our conversation today.
In this episode, we learn about what coaches can do to help reframe the negative self-talk we have with ourselves and help our players do the same. Ethan walks us through examples of how he would handle different situations, including coaching a player who is reluctant to take advice, helping a player deal with negative self talk when enduring a slump, or why he would encourage players to have routines like tennis great Rafael Nadal.
From time to time I am going to have others co-host episodes with me and today Iâm joined by Oliver Winterbone. Oliver is the Director of Coaches and Executives at Wasserman, one of the premiere talent management companies in the world. He previously spent five seasons in the front office of the Oklahoma City Thunder in various roles, most recently as Director of Player Development. Before that he worked for the University of Florida Basketball program from 2010-14 which is when we got to know each other.
Show Notes:(1:28) - Episode begins with a story of Rick Ankiel
(6:12) - Ethan gives an overview of topics he covers in the book and what âchatterâ is
(10:30) - Ethan explains the three buckets of tools to help coaches handle negative self-talk or help players handle negative-self talk
(12:59) - Ethan explains how to use distanced self-talk
(16:09) - Best practices to coach a player experiencing anxiety while playing
(19:55) - The benefits of rituals
(24:55) - How rituals performed as a group help shrink the sense of self and make us feel part of something bigger than ourselves
(25:25) - How coaches should advise players to use rituals for their advantage
(28:20) - Why itâs important to have a chatter âBoard of Advisorsâ and choose who you go to for help and support carefully
(32:20) - How coaches can help address both the emotion and cognitive parts of someoneâs problem
(35:15) - How social media contributes to our negative self-talk and advice on handling the upside and downside of social media
(45:30) - How to give unsolicited advice or coach a player who isnât receptive to listening to you
(48:38) - How âtouchâ helps us work through difficult times
(54:55) - How experiencing the emotion of âaweâ can help us handle chatter and feel part of something bigger
(58:00) - How to learn to treat ourselves kinder (mentions Tim Ferrissâ podcast with Jim Loehr)
(1:01:25) - Advice for parents to encourage positive behaviors around chater
(1:05:31) - End of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast?
Jim Harbaugh
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year?
Spend more time with his children
4. Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong?
Vent about your problems
5. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this?
Be cognizant of the power of the mind can have on performance
6. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it?
He received a threatening letter about work he published. He used his chatter toolbox to overcome it
Favorite Quotes:âWe don't want to rid ourselves of negativity. What we want to do is prevent the negative thoughts from morphing into the chatter, into the negative cycle of thinking and feeling that's unproductive and never ends.â
âRituals, we often do them with, especially in the sports context, with other other players and coaches, and they have a broader meaning, right? There's this strength, this significance. It's not about just me. It's about all of us together and when it's about the team, not just me, that makes our own concerns feel a little bit smaller. So there's a shrinking of the self that occurs when we engage in these kinds of collective rituals that are very prevalent in sports.â
âAnd so what I tell people is to be really deliberate about who you choose to go to for chatter support. Like, I think really carefully about this in my own life. There are lots of people who I love very much and who love me who I don't go to for help because I know they're just going to make it worse or they're not going to help. And so there are other people that I consistently go to for support and they help. So I like to think of this as youâre building a board of advisors for help in different domains that you might need it.â
âWhen an athlete engages in a structured ritual, that gives them a sense of control. They're putting things in a particular place, they're creating order. And that provides us with a sense of order that can be alleviating.â
âLook, negative self-talk on its own isn't a bad thing. Like, it's, I think, a good thing to be able to review your life and review the negative things so you can learn from them.â
âYou know, you'll see LeBron James, there was a an incident ten years ago (âThe Decisionâ) where he's facing a really tough decision. He says, âAll right, I don't want to make an emotional decision, LeBron James got to do what is best for LeBron James.â Or you see Tiger Woods coaching himself through a difficult stroke using his name. And so a lot of people stumble on this technique, I think without really understanding how it works. We've now I figured out how it works and it's something that we can coach other people to use.â
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My guest today is Coby Karl, head coach for the South Bay Lakers of the NBA G League. He played professionally in the NBA for multiple teams, including for Phil Jackson and the Lakers, and overseas.
In this episode, we discuss what it was like to grow up the son of former NBA Head Coach George Karl and the lessons he learned being around the game at a young age. Then we dive into his transition from a player to a coach with the Knicks G-League team and now the Lakers G-League team. He touches on his coaching philosophy, favoring simplicity versus complexity, and how heâs tried to give his players space to grow. We talk about his eagerness to learn and lessons heâs taken from people like Phil Jackson, Kobe Bryant and Ryan Holiday.
Coby is going to be releasing his own podcast soon called The Curious Leader, which will kick off with guests like Phil Jackson and Metta World Peace (Ron Artest), so be sure to go subscribe to listen to those episodes when they release in early February.
Show Notes:(1:43) - Episode begins with growing up the son of a coach and being a ball boy for the Seattle Sonics
(5:00) - How he handles the stress of the job
(7:15) - The benefits of coaching in the NBA G-League
(8:55) - What made him want to pursue coaching as a profession after his playing career
(11:05) - The transition from player to coach
(16:20) - Why he tries to keep things simple for his players
(21:30) - What he focuses on to develop guys like Alex Caruso, Thomas Bryant, etc.
(24:40) - What led him to start a podcast (The Curious Leader)
(27:50) - How time playing for and spent with Phil Jackson made him introspective
(29:18) - Must listen story about him sneaking into the Chicago Bulls locker room to watch Michael Jordan during the NBA Finals when he was a ball boy for the Seattle Sonics
(30:35) - Best memorabilia he has from his playing career and being a ball boy
(33:05) - Coaching lessons taken from Phil Jackson
(40:50) - What made him so curious to reach out to connect with people like Ryan Holiday
(43:20) - Lessons learned from playing with Kobe Bryant and spending time with him after they both retired
(48:50) - Why he wants to focus on holding players accountable
(52:50) - What he would tell himself if he could go back to his first day of coaching
(54:20) - Having to handle his 2020 season cut short and the 2021 season not happening
(58:45) - End of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
The Alchemist
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast?
Barack Obama
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year?
Clarity and the ability to communicate that clarity to players
4. Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong?
n/a
5. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this?
Be a head coach at whatever level you can be
6. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it?
Two moments: The first was getting cut by the Lakers the day before his second season with the team. The second was a losing streak for an entire month during the G-League season last year. He overcame it by continually showing up and leaning on his staff.
Favorite Quotes:âI don't know if I ever told this story, but I was a ball boy in the (NBA) Finals during that time and I was a ball boy in the home locker room, which they have different sets. So you don't like ⌠go in the visitors locker room unless you're invited. And I snuck in and I was sitting there, like, just trying to like act like no one knew who I wasâŚand like literally I was just staring at Mike (Michael Jordan). And like Michael had like this unbelievable focus, right? It was like I wasn't even there. It's like he was in his own space, and you know, the more I've learned on the mental side of it is like he did, he was in his own space. He was in his comfortable zone and he wasn't focused on, like, I couldn't get him out of that. And I think that goes too high performance, ability to maintain focus, and to coach Jackson's ability to train that.â
âThe one thing that I provide for them (his players) is simplicity so they can figure out who they are within a team structure.â
âI've been on that pursuit for my whole life, like how do I become a better human, you know, and that was why I reached out to Ryan Holiday because his stuff with stoicism, The Daily Stoic, The Daily Dad, have really impacted my life.â
âYou know, I think as a teammate, I noticed immediately he was vicious, just absolutely vicious. And that's who he was, that's how he lived, it was 100% focus. I think watching The Muse that he came out with, you can see there's just this, almost like an animal, animalistic drive to just compete, get better, find a way. Like, you go read his book, which I've readâŚhe talks about studying animals and studying the black mamba. I think for me when I was younger, I was like this is ridiculousâŚbut as I've gotten older, Iâm like wow, this stuff does apply there. There's a lot of, I mean, we are animals at the core.â
âOnce you can trust me, or I can trust you to hold you accountable at a really, really difficult, uncomfortable level, then then we can start growing together. We can start being more than the sum of our parts.â
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My guest today is Bret Burchard, co-founder of the mindset development company ChampionShift and co-author of âCatching Confetti: Developing the Mindset of a Champion." For the last 10 seasons, he has worked with the Phoenix Suns in various roles, most recently as a development coach and the head coach of their G League team.
In this episode, we discuss his coaching experience with the Phoenix Suns and what piqued his interested to dive head first into the mental performance aspect of coaching and player development. He gives some background on his book and course that he started this year, both of which are designed to help coaches improve their mental game. We dig into some of the different mindsets he believes top performers have and how you can both develop them yourself and instill them within your players. For any coach who wants to improve their mental game, this episode is a must listen.
Show Notes:(1:21) - What led him into coaching
(3:00) - What it was like to be part of Taylor Universityâs âSilent Nightâ
(4:45) - What piqued his interest in the mental performance side of coaching
(7:30) - An overview of his book
(9:12) - The issue with people attaching their identity to performance
(16:00) - The mindsets he discusses in his book
(20:22) - Some of the mindsets coaches have embraced the most
(23:10) - Best practices for goal setting
(27:29) - Helping players navigate their fears and vulnerabilities
(30:55) - How to encourage competition without comparison
(34:22) - Overview of his course
(41:35) - His mentor and Dad embracing the ideas in his book
(41:35) - Where to go to learn more: Website | Book
(43:15) - End of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
The Art of Learning: An Inner Journey to Optimal Performance by Josh Waitzkin
The Rise of Superman: Decoding the Science of Ultimate Human Performance by Steven Kotler
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast?
Chris McAlister
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year?
Improve in communicating with players about your vision
4. Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong?
You have to play with a chip on your shoulder
5. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this?
Be more concerned with who youâre becoming than what you achieve.
6. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it?
Tying his success as a coach to identity with the Suns in his second year as the Head Coach with the G-League team
Favorite Quotes:âAll suffering reveals the center of your identity.â
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My guest today is Dana Cavalea, who spent 12 years with the New York Yankees, many of which were as the Director of Strength and Conditioning & Performance Enhancement. He won the 2009 World Series and was named the top strength coach voted by his peers during the same season. He is also the author of Habits of A Champion.
During the episode, we discuss what it was like to be called by Yankees GM Brian Cashman at the age of 23 to be promoted to the Head Strength Coach, why certain players have the right mental make-up and routine to succeed over time, how he helped young players work through failure, and what Mariano Rivera said the secret was to his success. He also touches on how GM Brian Cashman handled the team meeting during the 2009 season after they lost 10 straight games, which turned the season around, and what other lessons he learned from guys like Derek Jeter, Alex Rodriguez, and Andy Pettite.
Show Notes
(1:40) âEpisode begins with how he was hired to be the head strength coach for the New York Yankees when he was 23 years old
(3:00)âââHow he built trust with the players at such a young age
(4:30)âââHow players handle failure in baseball
(6:15)âââLessons from Joe Torre
(7:45)âââHow he helped young players handling failure for the first time in their lives
(9:55)âââLessons learned from Andy Pettite
(11:00)âââWhy some players were driven because of their rough upbringing
(13:05)âââWhy Derek Jeter didnât think everyone deserved equal treatment
(15:50)âââMariano Riveraâs routine
(22:10)âââHow Yankees GM Brian Cashman handled a meeting during 2009 when the team was in the middle of a 10-game losing streak
(24:45)âââEnd of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:
1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast? John Calipari
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year? Take his health and fitness to another level
4. Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong? You canât be great at everything; you have to figure out what youâre great at and excel in that area.
5. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this? Just because youâre young doesnât mean you donât know anything, but just because youâre young and you think you know everything doesnât mean you do.
6. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it? He and Joe Girardi had philosophical differences on training and his contract wasnât renewed after his final season as a result but he knew there would be something else for him afterwards.
Favorite Quotes:
âWhat makes him (Mariano Rivera) tick is he isnât worrying about public applause and heâs not worried about public opinion. He just focuses on what it is that he was hired to do. And that was to pitch and get hitters out.â
âWhen you work under a guy like Joe Torre, itâs like having a grandfather /mob-boss as your manager.â
âYou can have a difficult conversation with a player, but you always have to make that player leave feeling good about themselves, and thatâs what Joe (Torre) did a great job of.â
âIf you show up with the intent of being successful and being competitive, you have a great chance of being successful because youâre competitive.â
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My guest today is Craig Custance, who is The Athleticâs editor-in-chief for the NHL and the author of Behind the Bench: Inside the Minds of Hockeyâs Greatest Coaches, where he explains his 18 month journey to meet with nine of the top hockey coaches in the world to interview them about their philosophies while watching the most important game of their coaching career.
Craig explains the different ways the coaches were able to connect with their players, some of the different motivational tactics, how they grew as coaches during their career, and how they all were risk takers who embraced lifelong learning.
Show Notes:(1:10)âââHow he developed the idea for the book
(4:30)âââWhat themes he saw between the coaches he followed
(8:10)âââBob Hartleyâs path from a factory worker to hockey coach
(13:10)âââMike Sullivan and John Tortorella
(19:40)âââMike Babcockâs coaching philosophy
(23:30)âââThe coachesâ concise and direct communication with players
(28:52)âââKen Hitchcockâs evolution as a coach
(32:30)âââRon Wilsonâs philosophy, which differs from most coaches in the book
(35:25)âââClaude Julienâs motivational tactics
(41:00)âââJoel Quenneville using other coaches and players to speak to the team
(46:00)âââDan Byslmaâs use of a motto for the team
(48:30)âââHow speaking with these coaches impacted him personally
(54:40) âBest practices for coaches to develop good relationships with the media
(58:25)âââEnd of episode questions
âEnd of Episode Questions1. Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear
2. Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast?
John Cooper, Tampa Bay Lightning Head Coach
3. Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year?
Drink less to improve overall health.
4. Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong?
Everything in moderation is fine.
5. What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this?
Figure out what you want to do and reverse engineer your path to get there.
6. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it?
When ESPN laid off over 300 people in May, 2017, he was lucky enough to not be laid off, but it was eye-opening.
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My guest today is Nick Nurse, the 2019 NBA Champion head coach of the Toronto Raptors and author of Rapture: Fifteen Teams, Four Countries, One NBA Championship, and How to Find a Way to Win - Damn Near Anywhere. He has one of the more unique coaching backgrounds of any professional head coach, with stops as a player-coach and owner-coach in England, 11 years in Europe, and multiple stints in the NBA G-League.
In this episode he explains how his non-traditional path of coaching in England and the D-League helped him prepare to coach in the NBA, and why he prioritized being a head coach instead of working at the highest level possible early in his career, why he's become a life-long learner and pursuing a doctorate degree.
To learn more about the Nick Nurse Foundation, click here.
Books Recommended by Coach Nurse:Win Forever: Live, Work and Play Like A Champion
Freedom in the Huddle: The Creative Edge in Coaching Psychology by Darrell Mudra
Sacred Hoops: SPIRITUAL LESSONS OF A HARDWOOD WARRIOR by Phil Jackson
Show Notes:(1:23) - Episode begins with Coach Nurseâs time as a player-coach in England
(2:56) - Why he focused on being a head coach early in his career
(5:05) - What led him to be so open to experimenting as a coach
(8:05) - Why itâs so important to empower players
(9:10) - Importance of knowing players have motivations besides just the team
(10:55) - What he learned studying Phil Jackson in his career
(13:58) - What he learned meeting with coaches from other sports, including Joe Maddon
(15:40) - His focus on learning off the court throughout his career
(20:08) - Why he started his foundation
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My guest today is Dr. Vikram Mansharamani, who is currently a lecturer at Harvard University and advises several Fortune 500 CEOs. He has a Ph.D., two Masters degrees from MIT, and a Bachelors degree from Yale University.
In this episode, we discuss his new book, Think for Yourself: Restoring Common Sense in an Age of Experts and Artificial Intelligence. He explains when to rely on experts for help, the importance of focus in today's age, the downside of being constantly overwhelmed with options, and why being a generalist or taking a generalist approach to problem solving may be favorable to relying on experts. He also touches on some of the interesting stories from his book, including how Phil Jackson applied these principles during his coaching career and why President Abraham Lincoln built his cabinet with people who all disagreed with each other.
Show Notes:
(1:40) âEpisode begins with what led Vikram to write this book
(3:26)âââWhy information overload led us to blindly rely on experts
(4:50)âââHow Phil Jackson applied some of these ideas when coaching the Chicago Bulls
(9:10)âââWhy we force specialization on young people when itâs not always best
(11:05)âââPresident Lincolnâs âTeam of Rivalsâ
(14:48)âââWhy using a pre-mortem is helpful
(17:40)âââHiring based on generalists or specialists (and background on why General Electric developed more CEOs than any other company by developing generalists)
(20:30)âââDeciding whether or not to specialize within your own career
(23:30)âââWhat to consider when getting an opinion from someone
(26:03)âââWhat to consider when asking experts for their opinion
(34:25)âââEncouraging disciplined disobedience within your organization
(40:15)âââEnd of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:
1.Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
The Age of Surveillance Capitalism: The Fight for a Human Future at the New Frontier of Power Shoshana Zuboff Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln by Doris Kearns Goodwin Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast? Nassim Taleb (listen to Nassim Taleb discuss how probabilistically thought about COVID as it grew in China on this podcast here) Whatâs one area youâre looking to improve in over the next year? Learn more about artificial intelligence and machine learning Whatâs popular advice you hear people say that you think is wrong? Specialize, specialize, specialize! What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this? Own your career and think about it in a longer-term perspective and think of each role as a tour of duty. Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it? He lost his job right before one of his children got sick and realized he didnât have healthcare insurance. He overcame it by taking a step back, slowing down and thinking about the situation and being more calibrated that both highs and lows arenât long lasting.Favorite Quotes:
âItâs hard to remain mission-oriented when youâre constantly being managed by influences outside of you.â
âSeek out disconfirming evidence rather than confirming evidence.â
âIf you want to know where someone stands on an issue, look at where they sit.â
âIf youâre facing an uncertain, dynamic future, then I find itâs really critical to bring multiple perspectives together; you need to triangulate. And the reason you need to do that is each perspective is limited, biased, and incomplete.â
âGeneralists naturally develop an appreciation for what they donât know; specialists naturally develop an appreciation for what they do know.â
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My guest today is Nancy Lieberman, who is one of the most decorated basketball players of all time. Nancy was a two-time national player of the year at Old Dominion, where she also won two national championships. She was also both a WNBA coach & general manager before being hired as the coach of the Texas Legends in the NBA D-League, making her the first woman to coach a menâs basketball team. She later became the second woman to be an NBA assistant coach when the Sacramento Kings hired her in 2015. She was inducted into the Basketball Hall of Fame in 1996.
In this episode, we discuss what led her to take the train from Queens to Rucker Park to play basketball at 11 years old, what it was like to be the youngest male or female to ever make the U.S. Olympic basketball team, the impact of her life-long friendship with Muhammad Ali, and why Pat Riley said she changed the way he viewed players. Most importantly, we discuss what she is doing with her foundation to help young people who are less fortunate.
Click here to learn more about Nancy Lieberman Charities, and you can donate here to help children in a variety of ways, including providing backpacks with school supplies for one year, a tablet, basketball camp scholarship, contribute to a college scholarship and more.
Show Notes:
(1:30) â Episode begins with Nancy playing at Rucker Park at the age of 11
(6:35) â How she and Muhammad Ali developed a life-long relationship
(18:10) â How she goes through life with no fear
(20:25) â How she changed Pat Rileyâs perspective on players
(26:35) â Background on her foundation
Favorite Quotes:
âI donât know any other way but to grind and to give the best of who I am. I may not do everything perfectly correct, but Iâm going to give you the best of who I am and Iâm not going to be afraid.â
âTo be a winner, you have to make other people around you better.â
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My guest today is Ben Cohen, the sports reporter for the Wall Street Journal and author of The Hot Hand: The Mystery and Science of Streaks.
The book is a fantastic read on humansâ ability to get in the âzoneâ and our ability, or lack of ability, to decipher patterns from data. He also explains how the hot hand applies to areas of life besides sports, including artists, scientists, and directors, and how even Shakespeare experienced a hot streak when he was living during the plague, very similar to the situation we are living in now. This is a wide-ranging conversation around cognitive biases, streaks, and our limitations to see patterns and I couldnât recommend the book more.
Show Notes
(1:15) âBen explains what the hot hand is
(3:22)âââWhy humans are evolutionarily made to be bad at deciphering patterns
(4:40)âââWhat led to the hot hand being proven true after 40 years of studies showing otherwise
(14:45)âââWhy Spotify and Apple were forced to handle customers not believing in their âshuffle modeâ since we are so bad at deciphering patterns
(19:15)âââThe difference between the hot hand and the gamblerâs fallacy
(24:10)âââHow Shakespeare experienced the hot hand when living through the plague
(26:33)âââThereâs no way to determine when youâll experience the hot hand
(32:15)âââEnd of episode questions
End of Episode Questions:
1.Whatâs 1 book every coach should read?
Moneyball: The Art of Winning an Unfair Game by Michael Lewis Who is one person youâd want to hear as a guest on this podcast? Jason Gay What advice do you have for young coaches who are listening to this? Take advantage of your own perspective Whatâs the darkest moment you experienced professionally and how did you overcome it? After there was an issue with how an article he wrote was shared, Twitter was relentlessly harassing him about it. - Montre plus
