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John feels stuck and frustrated. He often sees attractive women he wants to talk to at bars and coffee shops, but he always freezes up and says nothing. (Sound familiar?) Heâs about to break free of his approach anxietyâand you can, too! In this live coaching session, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the hidden mental roadblocks that stop men from talking to women. Plus, Connell shares simple, proven fixes that you can use today. Get ready to approach women confidently and authentically (no weird pickup moves needed!)
Youâre About to Learn:
07:55: The 2 âFear Factorsâ that Stop You from Approaching Womenâand How to Fix Them
11:30: 5 Ways to Destroy Approach Anxiety TODAY
17:42: What Strangers Really Think of Men Who Approach
37:21: The 1 Simple Shift that Makes Her Happy You Talked to Her
45:03: How to Stop Making Excuses and Start Taking Action
54:36: What NOT to Say When You Approach in the Day (or Else Youâll Seem Creepy!)
If youâve ever felt too scared to say hello to a beautiful woman, this episode will give you the mindset and tools to finally take action. Listen now!
WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL AND START CONFIDENTLY MEETING AND DATING WONDERFUL WOMEN:
http://www.DatingTransformation.com -
Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, youâre making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you donât even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identifyâand fixâthe hidden dating mistakes men make. Youâll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connellâs dating advice column.)
Youâre about to learn:
2:30: What to NEVER do when talking to a woman youâve just met
6:39: A simple first-date fix that turns women on
16:40: Why men feel more dating anxiety than ever
22:00: Practical ways to build self-esteem and confidence
25:50: How to give authentic compliments that women love
33:00: The single biggest dating mistake youâre making
39:10: Great topics to talk about that spark connection
47:30: How to turn fear and doubt into fun and excitement
59:17: Lisaâs no. 1 dating tip that every man must know
Are you ready to become an even better man? Listen now!
FOR GREAT READS AND PRACTICAL TIPS TO BE A BETTER MAN:
http://GoodMenProject.com
CHECK OUT THE GOOD MEN PROJECTâS DATING SUBSTACK:
http://gmpdating.substack.com
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Quotes
"Meaningful compliments celebrate deeper attributes beyond appearance."- Lisa Hickey
"Building modern relationships requires the courage to take the next step after a good interaction."- Lisa Hickey
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation -
Have you ever had things start great with a woman only for her to suddenly pull away and say, âIâm not looking to date right nowâ? The truth is, thatâs probably her polite way of saying, âIâm just not interested in you.â In this episode, renowned London-based dating coach Johnny Cassell reveals 3 hidden reasons why women lose interestâand how to keep them attracted to you for the long haul.
Youâre About to Learn:
02:20: Why You Must First âDate Yourselfâ to Attract a Wonderful Girlfriend
18:55: How NOT To Go from a âWild Tiger to Tubby Housecatâ in Her Eyes
19:53: How to Escape the âYawn Zoneâ When You Talk to Women
20:12: Johnnyâs Amazing Drill to Flirt at Starbucks And ALSO Get a Free Coffee!
22:44: How Connell Approached and Instantly Attracted His Future Girlfriend
30:19: The Right Way to Approach a Large Group of Women at a Barâand the Wrong Way
44:44: Johnnyâs Secret to Talking to Women of Intimidating Beauty
1:01:00: The One Action You Should Take this Week to Improve Your Love Life
Listen now to attractâand keepâthat incredible womanâs interest!
LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHNNY CASSELL OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HIM:
http://www.johnnycassell.com
FOLLOW JOHNNY ON INSTAGRAM:
@âLondonDatingCoach
TO BOOK A FREE 1-1 CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:
http://www.datingtransformation.com -
You think a date went well, only to get that frustrating text: âYouâre a nice guy, but I just didnât feel a connection...â The Friend Zone can be brutal. Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this from experience. âI didnât just live in the Friend Zone,â he says. âI owned real estate there.â But he also knows the way out. Now heâs sharing the 7 Friend Zone Destroyers simple, tested moves that you can make to spark attraction on your next date!
Youâre about to learn:
8:24: Friend Zone Destroyer #1: Send Her Flirty Messages Before the Date
10:34: Friend Zone Destroyer #2: Share an Authentic Personal Story
14:27: Friend Zone Destroyer #3: How to Give Her a Sexy Compliment
16:53: Friend Zone Destroyer #4: Find Emotional Commonalities
18:31: Friend Zone Destroyer #5: Touch Her the Right Way (NOT the Weird Way!)
21:41: Friend Zone Destroyer #6: How to Help Her Feel Connected to You
24:05: Friend Zone Destroyer #7: Three Smooth First-Kiss Moves
28:52: Bonus: Connellâs Favorite First-Date Game that Women LOVE to Play
Stop hearing âLetâs just be friendsâ and start hearing âLetâs go out again!â Listen now.
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http://www.DatingTransformation.com
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Are you exhausted by dating apps? Tired of first dates with people who arenât right for you? What if someone hand-picked incredible women for you to meetâwomen who are just your type? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes elite matchmaker Amy Andersen, founder of Linx Dating, to break down the world of high-end matchmaking. Amy shares the key advantages of working with what she calls âyour own personal cheerleaderâ and offers expert first-date tips to help you make a great impression.
Connell and Amy Discuss:
04:45: Why Dating Apps Take So Much Timeâand How Matchmaking Saves You Countless Hours
08:22: Why a Personalized Approach to Finding Love Can Work Better than DIY Dating
17:45: âThey Got Married on their Second Date!â Amyâs Jaw-Dropping Success Story
28:57: Essential Doâs and Donâts of Hiring a Matchmaker
33:11: How to Be Interesting and Attractive on the First Date
44:01: The Power of Authenticity and Vulnerability in Sparking Real Romantic Connections
If you want an easier way to meet incredible women, this episode is a must-listen.
LEARN MORE ABOUT MATCHMAKING AND LINX DATING:
http://www.Linxdating.com
FOLLOW AMY ANDERSEN ON INSTAGRAM:
@âms.linxdating
BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU FIND A GREAT GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.DatingTransformation.com -
Do you ever struggle with what to say to womenâeither in person or when trying to craft the perfect text? Dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 7 Best Banter Topics so you can keep conversations flirty and free-flowing. Whether youâre talking to her in person or messaging on your phone, just reach for one of these foolproof topics for instant banter. And you donât need to be naturally witty. These simple tips will work for any guy! Plus, youâll learn the Playful Pivot, a powerful technique that takes your banter to a masterful level.
Highlights of this Episode:
03:20: The 7 Best Banter Topics to Never Run Out of Things to Say
04:47: The Words Sheâs Dying to Hear from You
09:17: The âDesert Islandâ Question that Ignites Instant Attraction
11:44: The Storytelling Trick that Makes You Charismatic
16:47: The Topic That Sparks Playful, Engaging Conversations
17:35: The âWhat Ifâ Question that Makes You Different from Other Guys
19:45: The Playful PivotâHow to Master Flirty Banter and Become Irresistible
Get ready to attract women effortlessly with great banter. Listen now.
WANT TO TAKE YOUR FLIRTY BANTER TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL? BOOK A FREE
CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:
www.DatingTransformation.com -
You know you should make moves with womenâsay the flirtatious thing, go for the kiss. But what if you come off as creepy? So you hold back⊠and nothing happens. You feel stuck, right? Renowned dating coach for women Evan Marc Katz is here to get you unstuck! Having coached thousands of single women, Evan knows exactly what they want. And today, heâll tell you how to make the right moves to attract the ideal woman for you.
Youâre About to Learn:
02:15: What Women Really Want: Evan Breaks It Down
04:35: How Introverts Can Better Connect with Women
08:12: Feeling Shy on a Date? Try This!
15:58: How to Build Authentic Trust with a Woman You Just Met
16:15: How to Unlock Your âMasculine Edgeâ and Make MovesâWithout Being Creepy
27:55: The Right Way to Text Women (So They Actually Respond)
33:02: Forget Money and Looks: These Are the 3 Things Women Look For
43:35: The Mindset Shift You Need to Finally Succeed on the Apps
52:11: Evanâs Most Important Advice for Attracting Your Future Girlfriend
Hit play now and start making all the right dating moves.
LEARN HOW EVAN HELPS SMART, SUCCESSFUL WOMEN FIND A GREAT GUY:
https://www.evanmarckatz.com/
LISTEN TO EVANâS âLOVE Uâ PODCAST:
https://www.evanmarckatz.com/the-love-u-podcast
FOLLOW EVAN ON INSTAGRAM @ârealevanmarckatzFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, âDATING SUCKS BUT YOU DONâTâ? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE âFREE BOOKâ IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOUâLL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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Ever feel like datingâand lifeâis just a grind? This episode will change how you experience both so you can feel much more fulfilled. Dating coach Connell Barrett introduces the 3 Classes of Human Experience, a powerful self-improvement framework that Connell and his clients use to make dating fun. (What? Dating can be fun? Who knew!) And nothingâs more attractive to women than a guy who actually enjoys life.
Youâre About to Learn:
01:10: The Mindset Shift that Transformed Connellâs Entire Life
06:37: The 3 Classes of Human Experience: How to Go from Coping to Thriving
12:05: Why Your Love Life is Stuck in the âClass 2â Grindâand How to Escape
20:32: The Most Powerful Self-Improvement Shift You Can Achieve Today
29:01: The Key Move that Makes Talking to Women So Much Easier
36:55: The Simple Way to Change Your Whole Life, Not Just Your Love Life
Hit play and start livingâand datingâthe way you were meant to.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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âItâs Rom-Complicated!â returns, helping you find love by watching rom-com movies. This time, dating coach Connell Barrett shares love lessons from the 1989 Cameron Crowe classic âSay Anything.â Heâs joined by special guest Cristina Nava, a Hollywood producer who specializes in making rom-coms! (Her latest movie, the very funny âSay a Little Prayer,â is now streaming on Amazon Prime and Apple TV.) Can a quirky nice guy like Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack) really win over his dream girl, Diane Court (Ione Skye)? Or does it take a boombox, a trench coat, and a questionable lack of boundaries? Letâs break it down.
Connell and Cristina Discuss:
4:12: Why Women WANT to Date Nice Guys Like Lloyd Dobler
5:59: Why âSay a Little Prayerâ is a Great Date Movie
16:30: Cristina Reveals Her Real-Life Rom-Com Moment: Surprise Roses in Eighth Grade
24:53: The Rom-Commiesâthe Best, Worst, and Stalkiest Moments of âSay Anythingâ
31:22: The Best Dating Move from the Movie that Actually Works
36:35: The Worst Dating Advice in the FilmâAvoid This!
39:33: The Secret to Lloydâs Confidence (Itâs NOT His Looks)
49:27: What Hasnât Aged Well: Boomboxes and Boundary Issues
1:14:26: The Filmâs Biggest Love Lesson that Women Want You to Know
WATCH âSAY A LITTLE PRAYERâ ON AMAZON PRIME
https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/0OSRUJ1FSZXHSCDGXFZ23PMPUL/ref
FOLLOW THE MOVIE AND CRISTIONA ON INSTAGRAM
@âSayalittleprayerfilm
@âIamcristinanava
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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So, you finally get a first date with a smart, attractive woman⊠only for her to say, âno thanksâ to a second. Itâs discouraging. Letâs fix that! After last weekâs special 4-part Valentineâs Day series on meeting and attracting women IRL, you donât want to put in all that effort only to hit a first-date roadblock. Connell and his girlfriend, Jess, break down what made their first date a fun, flirty successâand what you can do to get a LOT more second dates. (Originally aired in November.)
In this episode, Connell and Jess discuss:
3:20: The Profile Photos that Made Her Swipe Right
13:05: The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date
18:20: Jessâs Top First-Date Tip
29:00: What to Talk About So You Never Run Out of Things to Say
30:48: How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned
34:15: Jess Called this First Kiss Move âSuaveââYou Need to Know It!
37:18: How to Ask Women Out for a Second Date
39:21: Her Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make
45:00: Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic âAlpha MalesâSick of hearing âLetâs just be friendsâ?
Learn how to get more second dates, starting now.
BOOK A CONSULTATION CALL TODAY & GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS BESTSELLING DATING GUIDE!
Frustrated with dating? Ready to find an amazing girlfriend? Book a FREE call with Connell to see if his coaching is right for you. If you book your call today, youâll get a free copy of his No. 1 Amazon bestselling book, âDating Sucks but You Donât.â Spots are limited, and this deal expires todayâdonât miss out. Use this link to book your free call now to see if coaching is right for you.
www.datingtransformation.com -
Do women send you mixed signalsâand you have no clue what they mean? Get ready for the raw, unfiltered truth about what women really want, from straight- talking dating expert Sabrina Zohar. A social media sensation with over 2 million followers, Sabrina reveals why ânice guysâ lose out, the texting mistakes that get you ghosted, and how to finally land dates with great women on the apps.
Sabrina Will Tell You:
13:33: How to Stop Taking Rejection Personally and Bounce Back Stronger
20:15: The One Texting Mistake that Makes Girls Lose Interest
22:48: How to Message Women the Right Way and Stop Getting Ghosted
31:27: The Profile Photos and Prompts that Get You Matches
33:57: The One Photo You Should NEVER Put on Hinge or Bumble
37:47: Why Women Swipe Leftâand How to Get them Swiping Right
44:12: The Approach Fail that Gets You Rejected Every Time
49:36: The WORST Gym Pickup Line Everâand What to Say Instead
Sabrinaâs no-B.S. advice will help you start winning at dating. Listen now!
LEARN MORE ABOUT SABRINA ZOHAR:
http://www.sabrinazohar.com
FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM:
@âTheSabrinaZoharShow
LISTEN TO HER PODCAST, âTHE SABRINA ZOHAR SHOWâ
http://www.sabrinazohar.com/podcast
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, âDATING SUCKS BUT YOU DONâTâ? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE âFREE BOOKâ IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOUâLL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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Itâs Valentineâs Weekendâget ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Manâthe rare guy who can confidently approach women without weird pickup lines. Youâll hear ACTUAL AUDIO of Connell meeting and flirting with bright, beautiful women, for an inside look at how simple and powerful it is when you approach with authenticity. Plus, youâll get great openers for 10 situations, and also learn the 5 biggest approaching mistakes to avoid.
Highlights of the Episode:
03:25: The Night Connell Went from a Panic Attack to Approaching and Attracting Kelly
10:45: How to Become a Confident, Authentic 1 Percent Man
14:05: What to Say to a Group of Women at a Bar to Spark Interest
15:28: What to Say to a Cute Girl at Your Gym to Be Charming, Not Creepy
17:50: What to Say at a Grocery Store to Make Her Laugh
21:00: What to Say in the Elevator to Have a Great Conversation
25:20: The All-Purpose Opener that Works with Women Anywhere
28:33: The 5 Biggest Approaching Fails and How to Fix Them
50:00: EXCLUSIVE! For the First Time Ever, Connell Shares Actual Audio of Him Approaching Women and Getting Numbers and Dates
1:31:27: The One Action to Take Today to Get a Great Girlfriend in 90 Days or Less
Your journey to meeting and attracting wonderful women starts today. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, âDATING SUCKS BUT YOU DONâTâ? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE âFREE BOOKâ IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOUâLL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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Youâre talking to a woman you likeânow what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap to keep the conversation flowing, spark attraction, and smoothly get her number. Plus, discover the 7 biggest conversation fails that kill attraction (and how to fix them). And youâll learn the right way to meet women at the gym, without being âthat guy.â
Youâre About to Learn:
2:47: The 3-Step Roadmap to Keep Conversations Flowing and Get the Date
5:37: What to Talk About First After You Approach
8:15: The Magic Word that Makes You More Interesting to Her
12:30: The Exact Way to Ask Her Out
21:51: How to Get Her Phone Number
27:07: The BIG Mistake that Will Get You Ghosted
28:45: The 7 Conversation Fails that Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them
47:10: Why Women Ghost Youâand the Simple Move to Fix It
56:54: How to Meet and Charm Women at Your Gym
Listen now to have flirty conversations with women you meet IRLâso you can get dates!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, âDATING SUCKS BUT YOU DONâTâ? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE âFREE BOOKâ IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOUâLL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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You see a woman youâd love to talk to, but your brain locks up. You overthink what to say, and the moment is goneâso is she. In part 2 of this special 4-part series on meeting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his foolproof Natural Approaching Methodâa simple, tested way to start authentic conversations and almost always get a positive response. And it works 90% of the time, whether youâre at a bar, coffee shop, or the gym.
What Youâll Learn:
3:40: How to Confidently Break the Ice with a 90% Success Rate
6:08: Always Know What to Say with the Natural Approaching Method
15:33: How to Compliment Women with Charmâand What to Avoid
25:51: The Perfect Icebreaker? Just Ask This One Question
35:00: How to Make Your Openers Fun, Flirty, and Effortless
47:48: The Power of Direct ApproachingâWhen and How to Use It
51:27: What to Say When You Approach, Day or Night
1:02:06: The Mindset Shift that Makes Starting Conversations Easy
1:10:01: Your 24-Hour ChallengeâAre You Ready to Take Action?
Listen now and start confidently approaching womenâwith charm, authenticity, and real results!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, âDATING SUCKS BUT YOU DONâTâ? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE âFREE BOOKâ IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOUâLL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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Youâre tired of the apps, and youâd love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentineâs Day here, itâs time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach Connell Barrett presents a special 4-part series to teach you how to meet women IRL the right wayânot with weird âapproach tacticsâ but with authentic confidence. In Part 1, Connell reveals the 5 mental blocks keeping you stuck and shares the 5 breakthroughs that will help you meet and flirt with wonderful womenâanywhere, anytime.
Episode Highlights:
4:25: Why âApproachingâ Feels So Hard and Scary
13:37: Mental Block #1: âIâm Not Enoughâ and Why This is Total B.S.
16:34: Mental Block #2: âShe Doesnât Want Me to Bother Herâ and What Women Really Think
17:18: Mental Block #3: âI Might Creep Her Outâ and How This Kills Your Confidence
19:45: Mental Block #4: âI Donât Know What to Sayâ and the Simple Move to Fix This
21:16: Mental Block #5: âWhat If I Get Rejected?â and the Win-Lose Mindset That Hurts You
25:33: Breakthrough #1: âI Am Enoughâ and the Truth About Attraction
31:45: Breakthrough #2: âShe Wants Me to Talk to HerââWhat Women Truly Want
38:37: Breakthrough #3: âTalking to Women Is Attractiveâ and the âAha!â Shift You Need
50:12: Breakthrough #4: âI Donât Need the Perfect LineââHow to Know What to Say
1:02:02: Breakthrough #5: âI Cannot Loseââthe Win-Win Mindset that Makes You Confident
Listen now and start confidently meeting women in real life!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, âDATING SUCKS BUT YOU DONâTâ? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE âFREE BOOKâ IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOUâLL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openersâtested and proven to get responses. Youâll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman ⊠and gets him replies 81% of the time!
Youâre about to learn:
05:30: Connellâs Lowest Online-Dating Moment
06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 NightsâAll from the Apps!
09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write⊠when Her Bio is Empty
12:52: Flirty Opener #9: âŠwhen She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: âŠwhen Sheâs into Partying and Socializing
16:25: Flirty Opener #7: âŠwhen She Has a Dog in Her Photos
19:09: Flirty Opener #6: ⊠when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)
23:30: Flirty Opener #5: âŠwhen Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic
30:01: Flirty Opener #4: âŠwhen Sheâs Really into Travel
33:40: Flirty Opener #3: âŠwhen Sheâs an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: âŠwhen Sheâs Highly Career-driven
40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the Time
Listen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back⊠and get dates!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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You want a bright, beautiful girlfriend, right? But youâre not sure how to connect with women. And maybe the girls youâre attracted to keep picking other guys over you. Not anymore! Because youâre about to learn the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 7 most powerful attractors that make women say, âI want him!â From confident flirting to texts she canât resist, youâre about to go from Peter Parker to Spider-Man⊠no radioactive arachnid required! Plus, you donât need all 7 superpowersâjust unlocking one or two can change everything.
Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers Youâre About to Learn:
9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere
15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive
21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self
34:14: Unshakable Confidence so âRejectionâ Canât Hurt You
40:03: Top-Tier Texting so Youâll Go from âUnreadâ to Setting Up Dates
51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Feel Flirty and Sexy
59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material
Every dating superpower is here and learnable. Whatâs yours? Which one will you master? Listen now.
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http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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Do you ever feel like youâre just not what women want? Like youâre not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? Itâs frustrating. The good news? You can fix itâfast! In this special live coaching episode of âHow to Get a Girlfriend,â dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)
Youâre about to learn:
2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)
5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self
23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief thatâs Hurting Your Dating Life
38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good
52:17: Nickâs Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women
1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic You
Listen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attractionâand how you can get better results fast. Youâll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird âpickupâ moves.
Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:
2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Attract the Right Woman
4:00: Why Women Prefer Meeting Men in Real Life, and How to Make It Happen
7:58: How Her Client Approached a Woman in the Daytime and Turned it into a Deep Connection
15:30: Why Many Women Want Men to Talk to Them IRL, Not on the Apps
21:03: The Game-Changing Move that Instantly Improves Your Love Life
23:45: Hayleyâs Top Tips for How to Read Women
36:33 The #1 Approach Mistake Men Makeâand How to Fix It
50:27: How Hayley Changes Menâs Lives with In-Person Coaching
Listen now and let Connell and Hayley show you how to attract your dream girlfriend!
TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HAYLEY OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HER: http://www.hayleyquinn.com/
CHECK OUT HER TED TALK THAT HAS 3 MILLION VIEWS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUayKnHWWM
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, âDATING SUCKS BUT YOU DONâTâ? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE âFREE BOOKâ IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOUâLL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her⊠but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of âHow to Get a Girlfriend,â dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master this skillâlive on air. Plus,
hear how Jason conquered crippling approach anxiety and dated an L.A. Lakers Cheerleader! Connell shares actionable strategies to help Jason (and you!) connect with women. No cheesy âpickup artistâ tricks. Just authentic confidence that works.
Youâre about to learn:
8:40: The #1 Shift to Overcome Social Anxiety and Build Dating Momentum
10:30: How Jason Walked Up to a Woman and Made Out with Her in Minutes (with Connellâs In-Person Help)
18:38: 3 Proven Anti-Flaking Techniques to Keep Her Interested
23:35: The 3-Text Rule that Gets Women Replying and Asking YOU Out2
9:23: The Risk-Taking Strategy that Makes You Instantly More Attractive
41:47: The One Thing She Secretly Hopes Youâll Do When You Approach Her
47:53: What to Write when She Doesnât Reply to Your Text
52:57: The Right Way to Ask Her Out and Not Get Flaked On
This episode is like getting a personal coaching session with Connellâfor free. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELLâS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, âDATING SUCKS BUT YOU DONâTâ? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE âFREE BOOKâ IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOUâLL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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