Episodes
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Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”. As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo.
This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the culture must do about it.
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Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”. As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo.
This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the culture must do about it.
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📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast
Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4
Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s
YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen
🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI
Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.
➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman
IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman
http://www.dearblackgaymen.com
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This epsiode Jai The Gentleman does a deep dive into the dating pool: why can't we find a man.
Team DBGM gets emails, DMs, mentions/tags from listeners wondering why the dating pool hasn't yielded a relationship. Jai is going through some similar woes, but has finally uncovered that it might not be the dating pool; it's actuall him.
New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS
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🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI
Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.
➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman
IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman
http://www.dearblackgaymen.com
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This episode Jai The Gentleman dives deep into a challenge a lot of Black gay men (and people) in the dating pool deal with: why can't he just do what I want him to?
Jai unpacks how a celebration for a friend's new job turned into an internal dialogue that, he says, has held him back from a relationship.
New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS
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📲Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast
Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4
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YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen
🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI
Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.
➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman
IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman
http://www.dearblackgaymen.com
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In this episode, Jai The Gentleman discusses a recent break-up he went through. The topic came up on a previous episode of Dear Black Gay Men where Jai talked through sexual incompatibility.
Today, Jai goes a little deeper on some lessons that he uncovered after a couple months distance. The big question is, should Jai go back. Screenshot this episode, share it to your IG and let us know what you think.
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📲Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast
Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4
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🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI
Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.
➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman
IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman
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Judge me later, but I was at a sex club the other week. Guy walks up to me and said the weirdest things in an effort to avoid saying what he actually wanted to share.
New uploads Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays on YouTube: youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
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📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast
Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4
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YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen
🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI
Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward.
➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman
IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
The guy at the gym and why he could never
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
Why I need a man, and exactly what kind of man he needs to be.
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
Why "wyd" is never wyd.
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
How I stumbled into interviewing my #1 dream guest and why my vision just got a whole lot bigger.
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
The "what's your type" question and why a date was so surprised by my answer.
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
How I gave two dudes d*ck they didn't deserve and taught me a very valuable lesson about dating.
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
This virgin who slid in my DMs, why that would have never worked, and the root of what's killing our dating lives.
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
Why the dating pool is trash and what exactly you can do about it.
Conversation with Dwayne: https://youtube.com/live/hR-O0g_1nyc?feature=share
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
How I stood a guy up twice and why we don't put enough effort into finding value in dating.
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Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen
This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:
What does it mean to be "low key" and why the gworls secretly hate being bottoms.
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Strong Bottoms: https://youtube.com/live/1N1izj92yC4?feature=share
Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman
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Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281
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When's the last time you listened to the music they were playing during an entanglement? It's trying to tell you something.
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Question for the comments: do you wait to have sex or let it happen whenever the vibe is right
Screenshot this episode. Tag @DearBlackGayMen in your story.
Watch on YT: https://youtu.be/tXwT3Am06DM
New uploads WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS
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Question for the comments: how do you define "submissive"?
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Question for the comments: what's your most dominant trait?
Screenshot this episode, add it to your story and tag me in your answer.
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