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What happens when you break up when you are also in business together?
Can you keep running it together? What can go wrong? Does it ever go right? If you have been watching Ted Lasso, you will be familiar with the character Rebecca who in the divorce takes over her husband’s beloved football team - “the only thing he ever loved”- and sets about trying to destroy it. In the same way that custody battles can be devastating, a contest over an enterprise you have built from scratch feels very personal, can be bitter, and when not handled well can needlessly destroy assets. Does this sound familiar? Hear more from the experts in this wide ranging live podcast recording!
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What happens to the family home when you separate? Who has to move out? Can it be sold out from under you? What if you live in a trust owned house or a rental? We discuss these and other burning questions that keep people up at night. Advice on practical ways to resolve these issues, amicably or through the Courts.
And Shelley tells us what advice she would give herself if she could go back to the early days of her separation..."Chill Shelley, it will all be ok."
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When is it safe to put your house in a trust? That's a question that went all the way to the Supreme Court this year... and spoiler alert, the answer is that the only way to put the family home out of reach of your beloved is to be upfront about it (and contract out). What was the crux of the case? What have we learned about section 44? And what should lawyers be advising their clients? Find out what it's like to take a case to the Supreme Court, why you'd clone a hard drive, and what Taylor Swift has to do with it all in this episode of Divorce Cafe!
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Does it sound too judgey to say this interview was full of surprises? Kicked out of Morrinsville High School as a teenager, Judge de Jong had a winding path to law, but once he got there has made it his life's work to fight (and innovate) for better outcomes for the victims of family violence. He talks about: lawyers who irritate judges, about setting up the ground breaking, wrap-around Family Violence Court, and his top tips for lawyers and self represented litigants.
Do judges ever get thank yous? What really annoys him about how Judges are represented in the media? What is it like to be appealed? And what would he do in the Family Court if he had a magic wand?
Judge de Jong shares his tips for lawyers (and people) going to the Family Court.
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What happens when a couple separate while living overseas, and only one wants to return home? If you no longer agree on where to live...what happens to the children?
We were lucky enough to speak with Alex Ashmore one of Auckland’s leading experts on Hague Convention cases - fresh from the biennial Hague Convention Convention. Listen for a master class on the how to (and how not to) of Hague Convention work, what you need to know if you are a parent wanting to relocate overseas, and how to write a short letter (lawyers, listen up).
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Why aren't we judging our relationship property laws by how well they protect children? Champion of children's rights, much loved family law lecturer and family law reformer Professor Mark Henaghan gives us a master class on the laws that exist to protect children caught up in relationship property disputes, their effectiveness, and what we could be doing to improve outcomes for children.
More information about MarkWatch the episode here.
Read the article here.
Interesting Reading:
Borrin Foundation / University of Otago research into the impact of relationship property divisions
Article from Law Foundation 2022, Adversarialism in the Family Court: ethics and practice, Dr Emily Henderson, Gemma Coutts and Professor Mark Henaghan
UN Convention on the Rights of the Child
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Highly successful mediator and ex Family Court Judge Tony Lendrum gives his top tips for a successful mediation, explains why mediation can save you money, and shares his insights from years of successful mediations. If you are going to mediate, or are thinking about whether you should, listen to this.
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Navigating a contracting out agreement conversation is never easy.
Knowing why we have them and what different arrangements can be put in place can make it a better and less stressful experience.
This episode - with our resident expert on tricky prenups and complicated relationships - deals with why you would have a contracting out agreement, when you don't need one, and why it is so important to do a thorough job of it. A fair and well thought out agreement is better for you AND for the health of your relationship.
Tune in for the "what, why and how" of contracting out agreements, and hear us ask the big question ...can you get a "prenup" without losing the "nup"?
Here's more information about Amanda.
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In this episode we talk to our hero Vivienne Crawshaw (King's Counsel) about her epic battle in the case of McQueen v Penn - at the time the highest maintenance award ever made in New Zealand - a game changer amongst other things because it made legal fees a legitimate part of a spousal maintenance claim.
Vivienne gives a master class in spousal maintenance, why court room etiquette matters, and what it takes to be a great lawyer.
Divorce Cafe aims to demystify, detangle and (hopefully) detox the legal process that follows a separation or divorce in New Zealand with the experts in the relationship property area.
Lawyers and friends Taina Henderson and Shelley Funnell have tapped into their network and bring you smart and funny interviews with top lawyers and experts about their biggest cases, the law, and what you need to know to get through a separation in NZ.
Watch here: Divorce Cafe: Spousal Maintenance - financial support after a separation - YouTube
Read the article: Beginner's Guide to Spousal Maintenance
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This episode delves into when you can do your own relationship property division, when you should not, and how to set yourself up for success. Veteran Family Court lawyer Stuart Henderson talks about the benefits of negotiating your own agreement, what not to do, and the upside of your ex picking ‘the best lawyer in town’.
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