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  • This week, Ali & Erica are answering short-form listener questions, rapid fire style. We take turns asking each other things like: is it ever okay to be sexual in your dating app profile? Can you be friends with a past situationship? Is it better to be good on paper or have good chemistry? And are people ever actually bad texters, or do they just not like you that much? Plus many more!

    In Updates, Erica explores a new app designed to meet people in person while Ali winds down at work and hangs out with Skyline’s friends without him.

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 26.

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  • It’s our first time doing Ask A 40-Something Man, featuring Erica’s good friend and standup comedian Charles McBee. We asked our listeners: “What’s something you’ve always wanted to ask a man?” and y’all did not disappoint! Tune in for Charles’s thoughts things like: moving on after a breakup, how much men share with their friends, and whether you can tell your partner you don’t like their gifts.

    In Updates, Erica’s Don’t Tell Comedy set is live!! Thanks to all of you for the support. Ali navigates an emotional milestone with Skyline.

    Where to find Charles: On Instagram @charlesmcbee, on TikTok @charlesmcbee, at www.charlesmcbee.com.

    Timestamps: Charles joins us at around minute 31.

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  • Ali & Erica switch it up this week with a new episode format: discussing scenes from Sex And The City and how they apply to life today (complete with some voice acting!). We discuss lending money to friends, whether friends can be your true soulmates, & what to do if you hate going down.

    In Updates, Erica gets her Don’t Tell set back and works on selecting social clips. Meanwhile, Ali settles further into life with Skyline and confronts some things coming up from past relationships.

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 34.

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  • Erica & Ali could not HELP but let this interview with ShrinkChicks (aka Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT & Emmalee Bierly, LMFT) run a bit long because, y’all, it is incredible. The foursome starts off discussing how difficult it can be to find a therapist and offer some advice for navigating that journey. Then, we move into our most popular listener submission: boundaries and conflict. What is a boundary, anyway? How best to set one to invite closeness (because it turns out that’s what boundaries are for!)? Is there a right way to handle conflict in any type of relationship? And so much more.

    In Updates, Erica gets film back from a recent taping while Ali reunites with Skyline after 3 weeks apart.

    Where to find Jennifer & Emmalee: On Instagram @shrinkchicks, on TikTok @shrinkchicks, at www.shrinkchicks.com and on the ShrinkChicks Podcast.

    Timestamps: Jennifer & Emmalee join us at around minute 24.

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  • Erica & Ali are back answering your questions in a Hot Topics episode this week! We counsel a listener who is nervous about having sex for the first time. Then, a listener is struggling with a guy who’s chronically late and recently stood her up. Third, Erica gives advice on navigating a herpes disclosure in your relationship. And finally, a listener isn’t feeling cared for by the guy she’s dating.

    With Ali still traveling and Erica focused on work (check out last week’s episode for more on that!), the two discuss an article that a listener sent in about relationship dynamics. After listening, are you usually the bird or the hand?

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 32.

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  • We’re back with another debate team episode, where Ali & Erica debate topics submitted by our listeners! We’ve got four topics up for debate this week. Let us know where you stand! Marathon dates early in the game - yay or nay? Is it okay to be late for a date? Can you date someone you work with? And finally, should you go ring shopping with your partner before getting engaged?

    In Updates, Erica navigates next steps in her comedy career and opens up about her current focus. Meanwhile, Ali is back from Mexico City and came across a New York Times article about dating after 50.

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 38.

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  • Straight from your guest suggestions, we have Maddie Dragsbaek, host of the Emotionally Online podcast, in an amazing episode this week! Maddie has been opening up about her life online since before podcasts were a thing and this week is no exception. Our conversation focuses first on her bisexuality - what exploring that both privately and publicly has looked like, her advice for anyone thinking they might be bi, and her experience taking dating off the apps and into the real world. We then dive into dating as a fat woman - her tips for approaching dating online and if she sees a difference when dating women vs men.

    But first, Erica is fresh off of her (accidental) fourth date with Tony and comes to a decision about their future. Meanwhile, Ali recounts how she has managed anxieties around communication and scheduling in the early stages with Skyline. Plus we recap your responses to our anniversary poll!

    Where to find Maddie: On Instagram @maddiedragsbaek, on TikTok @maddiedragsbaek, and the Emotionally Online podcast.

    Timestamps: Maddie joins us at around minute 35.

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  • Erica & Ali have so many updates to share this week that we did an episode full of them (plus a lot of girl talk in between)! Erica is fresh off her third date with Tony Soprano and is on the fence about a fourth (until she accidentally pushes herself off). The gals get into a great discussion about the frustration of someone being “good on paper” and how to know when to cut something off. Meanwhile, Ali celebrates two milestones with Skyline - 3 months of dating that happens to coincide with a tough day for her, plus 3 (not so) little words. If you liked this style episode, you’ll love our Patreon! Join at www.patreon.com/findingmrheight.

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  • Psychotherapist Charisse Cooke is back on the pod this week and Erica & Ali could have talked to her for hours! Our conversation focuses on attachment theory, answering listener questions such as how to self soothe an anxious attachment, best strategies for navigating an anxious/avoidant dynamic, and why avoidant attachment gets such a bad rap.

    In Updates, Ali reflects on project management in a relationship while Erica plans her third date with Tony Soprano.

    Where to find Charisse: On Instagram @charissecooke, on TikTok @charissecookeofficial, and grab her book at www.charissecooke.com.

    Timestamps: Charisse joins us at around minute 26.

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  • We hear about cheating a lot, but it’s rarely from the perspective of the person who does the cheating. This week, standup comedian Chloe Radcliffe opens up about her pattern of cheating (which she wrote a solo show about!). We dive into her thoughts on the origins of cheating, what she’s learned from her pattern and is applying in her new relationship, and so much more culminating in a round of rapid-fire Debate Team!

    In Updates, Erica has an adorable second date with Tony where they get deeper on values and life goals. Meanwhile, Ali is back from a weekend away with Skyline’s friends.

    Where to find Chloe: On Instagram @chloebadcliffe, on TikTok @chloebadcliffe, at www.chloeradcliffe.com.

    Check out all of Chloe's upcoming shows at www.choleradcliffe.com.

    Timestamps: Chloe joins us at around minute 22.

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  • We had so much fun talking about our past beliefs the other week that we’re bringing it back for a series including your submissions! We discuss submissions such as “your person will complete you,” “trying hard isn’t cool,” and “you should share many common hobbies with your partner.” Let us know if you like this series and submit more of your past beliefs for future episodes!

    But first, Erica has an exciting first date with (new nickname alert) Tony Soprano and Ali has a heck of weekend with old friends, volleyball wins, and a fun day with Skyline. We also chat about NYC’s dating scene vs other cities, emotional hangovers, and a new spot to meet men in LA.

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 34.

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  • Ali & Erica are joined this week by Kelly, a listener who wrote in to share her story about dating with depression & anxiety. Kelly shares her journey towards getting diagnosed, how depression impacted her dating, & what growing in her first serious relationship has been like. It’s a powerful, relatable story that we can’t wait to share.

    But first, Erica has a long-awaited update on Comic Con while Ali reflects on more Skyline learnings.

    Timestamps: Kelly joins us at around minute 35.

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  • We asked for your submissions about dating philosophies or “rules” you used to believe, but don’t anymore, and WOW did you deliver! So much so that we’ll be continuing this topic in future episodes. We’re starting this week with things that Ali & Erica used to believe, but don’t anymore, such as: when you know you know, men should ask women out for the second date, don’t save phone numbers until you’re official, and more.

    In Updates, Erica is back from her travels and has learned something veryyyy interesting about her photos organization methods. Meanwhile, Ali opens up about the anxieties of relaxing into a new relationship.

    Timestamps: Topic Talk joins us at around minute 43.

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  • We’re debuting a new segment on the pod this week…Debate Team! Ali & Erica will each be assigned a side of a debate and debate each other. This week, we’re starting with “should you live together before getting engaged?” and “can you be friends with an ex?” It gets especially fun when we have to argue for the side we don’t actually agree with!

    But first, it’s a BIG week of updates on the pod. Ali recaps her long-awaited reunion with Skyline - did she follow through on her hard commit to DTR??

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 42.

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  • Erica & Ali welcome feminist dating coach and debut author Lily Womble to the pod this week! We chat about bringing more joy into your dating life, how to narrow down your search to what Lily calls essences-based preferences, and how to reframe your mindset when you feel like you’re “too much.” Order Lily’s book, Thank You More Please, out June 11th!

    In Updates, we have a special Patreon teaser that Ali recorded with Talia Koren (@ Dating.intentionally) while Erica was on vacation. You’ll hear some tea that never aired on the main pod as Ali awaits Skyline’s return to NYC.

    Where to find Lily: On Instagram @datebrazen, on TikTok @datebrazen, at www.datebrazen.com and on The Date Brazen Podcast.

    Timestamps: Lily joins us at around minute 31.

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  • It’s a slightly new Hot Topics format, with both listener questions and a couple AITA situations. First, Ali & Erica debate if a man is the a-hole for not helping his wife carry things in from the car and whether a women is the a-hole for not giving up her comfy coffee shop chair. Then, we answer two listener questions: one listener who is concerned about her date’s grooming choices and one who is worried about potential dating prospects in her smaller city.

    In Updates, a psychic reading prompts Erica’s family to try to set her up while Ali continues to await Skyline’s return.

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  • We asked for feedback and you delivered!! This week, Ali & Erica are going through the biggest takeaways and themes from our podcast survey and previewing what’s to come for the future of the pod. We dig deep on our own opportunities for growth, taking into account both what the listeners shared as well as our own reflections. It’s a vulnerable conversation that we can’t wait for you to hear!

    In Updates, Ali looks forward to Skyline’s (early) return and Erica officially declares the opening of Ruthless Summer.

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 20.

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  • Back by popular demand, Therapy Jeff (aka Jeff Guenther, LPC) is on the pod answering your burning questions. We dive into topics such as: what does it mean if I attract emotionally available people? How to approach pre-marital counseling? What does it mean to “settle” and how do I know if I am? As always, Jeff’s advice is on point with some laughs along the way.

    But first, Erica’s car repair flirtation continues (on the phone!!) and Ali has an excellent third date with Skyline before he leaves town.

    Where to find Jeff: On Instagram @therapyjeff, on TikTok @therapyjeff and on his website www.therapyjeff.com. Looking for the therapist-finding resource Jeff mentions? Check out www.therapyden.com.

    Timestamps: Jeff joins us at around minute 42.

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  • Erica & Ali are getting deep this week, going through all sorts of questions you can use to connect on first dates, in early dating, or even when already in a relationship. We’re answering our favorite ones plus listing a few you probably shouldn’t ask. Let’s start having some more interesting conversations!

    In Updates, Erica meets a new man (or is it an automated text system?) and Ali makes a decision about one of her second dates this week.

    Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 39.

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  • Erica & Ali are diving into the apps with dating coach & app expert Erika Ettin of @alittlenudge. We talk about whether it really matters what opener you send (hint: YES), how to deal with dating app burnout, and why Erika recommends dating NATO (not attached to outcome).

    But first, Erica is back from a rejuvenating Bachelorette weekend while Ali had quite the week of first dates (with 2 new nicknames!).

    Where to find Erika: On Instagram @alittlenudge, on TikTok @alittlenudge, at www.alittlenudge.com.

    Timestamps: Erika joins us at around minute 22.

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