Episodes
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Listen, I know its been a minute but this episode was TOO good to leave in my drafts from a few months ago. Have you wanted to know the secrets of mindblowing anal sex, surrender and what it means to call in more connectedness during penetration? Tune into this 15 min riff on everything NOT practical you need to know to create the most delicious anal sex of your life.
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Listen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover.
If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
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Don't listen to this if you don't want to know what could happen at a kinky birthday party! Meg and I sit down for a slightly chaotic and engaging chat about a juicy event I hosted for Meg's kinky birthday. Meg shared their favourite and sexiest moments from the party, what it was like to be spanked, teased and worshipped and you may or may not find out what big role honey plays into all of this. If you have ever been curious what could be possible at this type of event, tune in. We discuss how consent, communication, preparation and intention can set a really good foundation for yummy and delicious experiences! Do I drop some bombs about cake sitting fetishes, my Domme work and all the kinky contraptions I have in my house... ? I don't know you'll have to find out you curious little cat.
Meg Froehler is a Métis, queer, gender fluid, photographer who specializes in creating safe spaces for her subjects to discover self empowerment and to witness themselves in a new light. They love to work in the realms of kink, sexual health, queer weddings and motherhood. You can find them on Instagram @meg.froehler and they are open to inquiries at [email protected]
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If you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear some incredible experiences of folks who shared how medication affected their libido in positive or negative ways. This is a great podcast to learn a little more about the intricacy and layers that contribute to your libido and what you can do to feel more balanced in the game of mental health, medications, desire and sexual wellness advocacy.
If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
*Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating.
The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. Anything said should NOT be taken as a replacement for medical, clinical, professional advice, diagnosis, or medical intervention. If you take any action or inaction as a result of any of the content you consume on this Podcast, this is based solely on your decision, and Azaria Menezes and her guests cannot be held liable for any of the consequences of such action or inaction.
This podcast represents the opinions of Azaria Menezes and also the opinions of her guests on the show and my guests do not necessarily reflect any agency or organization or company that they work for. -
I was triggered hard during sex, and I wanted to share (after processing) how I navigate a trauma response showing up in my own personal sex life. I've done tons of work on my sexuality - and there are always new ways my body integrates things on deeper levels. Some things I share out of this experience are: understanding what my body needs and how it helps me process triggers or big emotions during sex, shame and guilt associated with sex and feelings during sex, the fear of getting triggered happening again and what we did to navigate that time to have sex. I also shared how the intimacy I created with my body helped me process things much quicker, the complexity of limiting sexual experiences of the past and the most important thing to practice mastery in when it comes to integrating big feelings + hard experiences.
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
An update on the Italy trip, why I didn't really miss anyone at home and what it means to take space away from the hustle and bustle. In this episode I share about my struggle of slowing down, what it means to learn enjoying time with myself and the way I honor my identity outside of being a mother and a wife. I also share all the ways you can practice taking space in your relationship, what it means to seek sacred and inspiring experiences in your life and how you can support your relationship to feel spacious.
I also share how this all intersects into motherhood, relationships + identity. If you've been craving a bestie catch up with me, grab your giant tea mug and tune in!
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
Drop into this episode where I share the beginnings on how Ry and I met. When I tell you I spent the majority of the first year of our relationship crying you might not believe me. I share about how we went from disliking each other to having a hot secret office romance all the way to what I wore on our first time together and how the tools we used at the beginning of our relationship still support us to feel amazing today. If you told me I would go from primarily being in relationships with women to being married to Ry years ago, I would have bet money on myself the story would never ever come true. Never say never. Tune into all the intimacy and a peak in to all the lessons I went through to let this beautiful love into my heart! xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
Have you ever wondered WHAT you can do about different levels of desire? How to actually navigate those times when you're feeling low/high desire and your partner is feeling the opposite? In this episode you'll learn How to communicate effectively about this, what to do to navigate the challenging lows, what some of the things are that actually contribute to low desire. Theres also an art to understanding your desire, you'll leave this episode understanding how you can find out what turns you on sexually and non sexually and knowing how you can shift to the sex you actually want with one simple trick. xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
For all of you baddies who want to create amazing aftercare for yourselves or the lover/s in your life. If youre wondering if you even need to know about aftercare or need it in your life, the answer is always YES. In this episode I dive into what the whole point of aftercare is, how we can make it fun and how it can really benefit us with in any relationships. This includes dating, long term relationships, non -monogamous relationships and monogamous relationships. If you want to know the deets on how to communicate your needs, process big feelings post sex or learn how to create a beautiful aftercare ritual; you won't wanna miss this. Aftercare is a staple of integrating our sexual experiences and I'll share with you exactly how to make your erotic experiences a little richer. Will I share some of the things I do as aftercare? You might have to tune in and find out you curious cat.
xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
In this episode I'll share with you not only 5 core tips on how to increase the pleasure factor during your midnight sex adventures.
I also share my most recent experience, how to navigate not being in the mood for it and ways you can tap into your intuition and discern between routine and desire. Midnight sex is underrated and I know that after this episode, you'll be calling some of this midnight delight into your life. xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
If you drop this one thing, I can almost guarantee you'll have more fun in your sex life. There is a place and a time for it though..
In this episode I drop some gems on how you can make your sex life + the rest of your life a little easier by taking inventory of this 1 thing. We all need these simple reminders, but often times we don't think too deeply about them. So of course as the Pussy Fairy, Im here to remind you, myself and everyone who tunes into this podcast to ditch this one thing so we can all get back to what we are really here for: More Pleasure!
xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
After a week off I'm back and with a real special conversation around ancestral healing with Mina Aidoo. Tune into this conversation that sparked so many aha moment's and brings the real honest truth about how sometimes we need to go deeper in our healing through ancestral healing, the sexual healing journey as a whole and of course motherhood. Come and catch the vibe with us!
" Hi I'm Mina, I am a Healer, Embodiment Coach, Artist, poet & trained professional dancer / choreographer.
My story involves turning down a West End World Tour to find myself spiritually, drinking plant medicine, shaving my head, learning all about sacred sexuality, healing my mother wound, releasing a book of poetry and so much more.And my book ‘Inky Black Woman’ went to Number one on the Amazon African Literature Chart. I now teach Women & Femmes how to access the hidden power of their bodies so that they can heal trauma, reconnect to their sexuality & sensuality, reclaim their wildest desires and fully step into their pleasure and purpose."
Mina offers 1-1 Sessions, Groups and workshops. Click here to follow her on Instagram or find Mina's Link tree here
xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
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Start your day feeling like the confident bad bitch you are. Need a little pick me up and feeling low on confidence? Need to remember your power and who the fuck you are? These Affirmations will get you back in your groove baby.
8 minutes of high-dose empowerment coming your way. This is all you need to spark that fire back up!
xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples and shared about it on Instagram live. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course.
This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other!
https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easyxo The Pussy Fairy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
Do you like edging? Edging alone vs. partnered, what are the best things about it and what are the things that aren't that great? I sit down with my friend Anna + my partner Ry to talk about our experiences edging and offer 4 hot tips on how YOU can make your edging experience soo much more fun! We also get into airplane sex and thoughts on edging with toys vs. fingers. Whether you have tried edging before and consider yourself a pro or if you have no idea what I'm on about you're in for a treat.
xo The Pussy Fairy
If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
The stories around fantasy's can be varied, but in this episode I share why I love them so much and why they can be such a powerful way of connecting in your relationships. What do they show us? How can we make them fee more expansive? Do we have to live them out? How can we use them to our advantage? Drop into this episode and leave feeling inspired - its a quickie that will definitely have you curious about your next sexual brain adventure!
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If you've ever wanted to hear stories about my sex life after having a baby here you have it! I was invited on the Parent Tell podcast and I'm pretty sure my most awkward post-baby sex story lives on that podcast and now I'm letting you hear it. Kaila and I talk about all the ups and down's that come with the changes of kids + small babies in particular.
Parent Tell shared: "Azaria highlights the importance of honouring your body's wants and needs, whatever they may be, while getting creative with what it means to be intimate with your partner. Because yes, since you've become a parent you are short on time, patience, energy, you name it. But that doesn't mean that your love life should suck." - True dat.
Whether you just gave birth, are about to, have a small child or even curious about all my funny stories.... tune in. I promise you.. you'll leave with a lot of gems some that will change the way you view sex after having a baby, some that will definitely make the journey easier and some that will inspire you to feel empowered and bad ass!
Be sure to follow the podcast on Instagram of Parent Tell ! You can also find the episode here on their platform https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-parent-tell-74761269/episode/the-roller-coaster-that-is-sex-85652264/
xo The Pussy Fairy
If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
This is one of the biggest questions I get - "How do I talk to my partner about my desires" and also "How do I convey a feeling that I want". In this episode I'll share with you a really simple way to look at this, something that will really change the way you approach the conversations you have around desires and fantasy's. I go over things like: What happens when we share our desires and our partners don't get the hint. How to even talk about your deepest fantasy and wants, what gets in the way of communicating this and is it really about the technique? Tune in this this practical episode to understand the ins and out's of sex + communication.
xo The Pussy Fairy
If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! -
If you've ever been curious how to tap into deep surrender in the bedroom, this practical episode will give you the tips! I share: What happens in the mind-body connection when it comes to surrender? Whats the damm thing that stops us from surrendering?
The one big thing you need to know about surrender and receiving, and the one pre-curser to surrender. I share some juicy journal questions and share my easy go2 personal favs to drop into my body during/before lovemaking you don't wanna miss.
xo The Pussy Fairy
If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
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OMG, the sex coach isn't having sex wtf? What our most recent dry spell looked like and how you can get out of yours.
This episode was as long awaited as the sex we weren't having! I go over : What happens when you have a dry spell and what causes them? How can you have bad ass intimacy with out sex? The sex or nothing phenomenon I see so often among couples and how to transition from no sex - sex. Ya'll know I like to get personal, so I shared my recent experience and the things we did before to ground, connect and create a safer space for re-entry (see what I did there) . This episode is one you don't wanna miss.
Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those fuzzy socks, or tackle that laundry pile and tune in for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea.
xo The Pussy Fairy
Search for these episodes about the sexual seasons I mentioned in this episode: "The best kept secret about your libido" "Why periods of low libido are important"
If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes! - Montre plus
