Episodes
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Waxing poetic about all things relationship-related has been the highlight of our collective week for nearly two years. But Phil's got a fancy new job and Jenna's launching a new book and Diane's sick of trying to wrangle the crew... so we decided to take a little break. It's not you, it's us. And it's not forever, we practically promise. Feel free to revisit your favorite past episodes as often as you'd like until we can get the HMTOP train back on the tracks. Until then, thanks for tuning in. Sincerely. Your time is precious and choosing to spend it with us means everything.
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If you find yourself worried about the future of today's youth, Jenna's oldest daughter might just change your mind. Wise, witty, warm, and way more mature than her 20 years, Sophie shares a uniquely Gen Z take on mating, marriage and more. If you don't know what it means to be "left on opened" or you wonder what the next generation thinks of til-death-do-us-part, you won't want to miss this one.
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All couples fight. Only some of them do it successfully and actually move forward happily afterward. What sets the ones who can brush off a spat apart from the grudge-holders? Turns out, there's a seven-minute exercise research shows can make you both happier overall--and not just in the minutes after you bicker. This is one episode you don't want to miss.
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Summer brings with it some pros...like having more time with the kids, and some cons...like having more time with the kids! Here are some new and old ways to make the most of summer and stay sane.
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After years or decades of putting our little people first, one day they'll be off on their own... leaving many of us struggling to find a new purpose and wondering how to reconnect with that person we married. This week we share our top tips for tackling the mother of all marital transitions so you can live your best life.
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Apparently millennials are even more narcissistic than we ever thought: to wit, enter the weekend marriage, a supposed trend where couples exist separately during the week (sometimes in the same house, but preparing their own meals and coming and going as they please) and then live like a unit on the weekends. Is this mad drive to preserve independence a sign of healthy boundary setting--or is it a self-absorbed way of avoiding the sacrifice and compromise inherent to marriage? As you'd imagine, we have lots of thoughts. (Note: This week's catch-up intro is longer than most; the day's topic starts around the 26-minute mark. Sorry, Carol! Spoiler: Jenna cries. Again.)
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How do you show your dude your appreciation on the daddy of all Hallmark holidays? Tune in for some ideas (and one hilariously major misunderatanding among the hosts).
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Sometimes we have to wonder who the heck is coming up with some of the "relationship wisdom" on the internet. From talking about what's making you miserable to reminiscing about how great your love lives used to be, bad advice abounds out there. Don't worry. We're here to set the record straight.
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Pareting, spending, snorinng, social media use, thermostat settings, division of household labor, the direction the toilet paper comes off the roll: there are untold things married couples strive to have (and keep) in alignment. So what happens if your respective beliefs aroud one of life's biggest issues--religion and faith--aren't in sync--or fall out of it? As always, we have some thoughts.
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Almost everyone has a default reaction when they're frustrated or annoyed. Some people slam doors (ahem), others shut down, and still others start plotting immediate revenge against the perceived perpetrator. Knowing your own (and your partner's) knee-jerk reaction to discord can pave the way for swifter, smoother resolution. Really.
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Popular marriage folklore (and at least one classic movie) would have you believe that droves of couples start to feel restless, bored, or downright miserable right around the marital seven-year mark. But is that old seven year itch a documented, scientific thing? And if so, is there anything we can do to to prevent it? Tune in for a rock-solid plan for protecting your relationship from this infamous speed bump.
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A Harvard-trained psychologist has identified nine key phrases that are virtually guaranteed to make your marriage happier than most. (Spoiler: "I'm sorry" may be on there. #SorryNotSorry) Tune in for a crash course in epic couple communication.
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Some people believe marital issues should be the exclusive domain of husband and wife; others feel that having a sound ear to bend can help you work through issues swiftly and successfully. Tune in to find out which camp the HMTOP crew is in.
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Let's face it: some people have glasses that are half-empty; others' cups are routinely overflowing. We're not saying everyone needs to morph into Pollyanna in order to be happy in life, but changing your mindset can absolutely change your marriage. We're positive you're going to love this episode. (Do you see what we did there?)
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Is Phil's "care less" approach to marriage backfiring out there? This week, we tackle apathetic partners; the ones who never initiate or follow through with plans, seem indifferent to your needs and are reactive rather than proactive. It's a great time (really)!
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Over time, bad habits can creep into the best of relationships. Are you guilty of any these potentially harmful behaviors? Tune in for the HMTOP take on compatibility, patience and realistic relationship expectations.
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We're not saying talking to your spouse is a bad idea, ever. But should you go in there probing for problems? One expert apparently things you should--by asking your partner questions like, "If you could change two things about me, what would they be?" and "Is your love for me growing stronger?" Team HMTOP vehemently disagrees--but fear not. We've got alternative talking points for you that can and will help you feel closer.
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Not until you graduate. Not until you both have jobs. Not until you're earning XYZ a year. Not until you have XYZ in the bank. Once upon a time, finding a mate and starting a family were noble life goals; now they seem to have taken a far back seat to chasing the almighty dollar. This week, team HMTOP talks life, love, careers, and kids - and how they all fit into the grand plan.
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Everyone's heard about make-up sex, and some folks (namely, men) are all for it. But is it always the best way to recover from a spat? According to experts, it depends. Here's how to make sure you're using make-up sex properly--and for the mutual best benefit. (Don't worry guys, you'll still get to have it!)
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There are lots of reasons folks may be less than excited to sign up for couples counseling: dealing with uncomfortable feelings, digging up your ugly skeletons, and sobbing in front of a stranger come quickly to mind. But certain experts say there are actually seven myths (read: they're not true!) that keep people from seeking professional marital help. Turn in for our take.
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