Episodes

  • In this episode, we welcome Catherine Brooks, a professor emeritus from the University of Fairbanks, Alaska, and author of the new book "Sirens." Dr. Alex and Catherine discuss her journey of writing the book, reflecting on how it has served as a healing process and a way to follow her heart. Catherine shares insights about the challenges of finding time to write and the importance of carving out space for creativity. This heartfelt conversation delves into the significance of living authentically and the transformative power of storytelling. Join us to explore Catherine's experiences and the inspiration behind her latest work.

    Timestamps

    [00:01:15] Following your heart in writing.

    [00:08:21] Writing as a healing tool.

    [00:12:26] Healing through writing.

    [00:17:08] Trauma and support systems.

    [00:20:19] Emotional suppression and its impact.

    [00:26:06] Painful past experiences and healing.

    [00:30:38] Diet soda addiction awareness.

    [00:38:37] What happened to you?

    [00:40:45] Following the call of sirens.

    [00:45:32] Trauma and alternative healing avenues.

    To connect with Catherine visit www.catherinebrooksalaska.com

    Order your copy of Sirens here.

    Follow Catherine on social channels: @catherinebrooksalaska

    To connect with Dr. Alex visit www.emergenthumans.co or email [email protected]

  • In this episode of the podcast, host Dr. Alex welcomes Sanja Ralevic, a mental resilience mentor and advocate for emotional intelligence and resilience in the corporate world. Sonja shares her unique perspective on navigating the complexities of business while emphasizing the importance of emotional self-regulation and intelligent personal energy management for sustainable success. They discuss the challenges of burnout, the need for a shift in traditional leadership styles, and how positive organizational development can foster a more inclusive and effective approach to leadership. Tune in to gain valuable insights that can help you thrive in today's fast-paced business landscape.

    Timestamps

    [00:02:04] Burnout recovery journey.

    [00:06:39] Emotional self-regulation for leaders.

    [00:09:30] Sustainable self-care practices.

    [00:12:16] Self-worth and energy management.

    [00:19:31] Energy drainers and chargers.

    [00:23:13] Intelligent energy management.

    [00:27:40] Resilience and sustainability in fitness.

    [00:30:27] Heart-focused breathing technique.

    [00:38:30] Living life for oneself.

    [00:43:10] Boundaries and self-empowerment.

    Sanja is the founder of HeartVista Performance, a mentor at Foresight and runs multiple resilience coaching programs for entrepreneurs and executives. As a trained biofeedback practitioner, Sanja combines technology and evidence-based practices, offering practical and actionable tools for achieving mental resilience and maximized performance.

    Connect with her by visiting www.heartvistaperformance.com

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  • In this episode, we reflect on the theme of gratitude following Thanksgiving in the U.S. Dr. Alex shares personal insights about the varying perspectives on gratitude, particularly from her step-sons aged 19 to 22, who seem to approach the concept with skepticism. She emphasizes the tendency for gratitude to become superficial, often reduced to mere phrases without genuine emotional connection. Drawing from her studies in a master's program in positive psychology, she highlights the significance of deeper emotional experiences, with a focus on self-compassion and its physiological benefits. Join us as we explore the true essence of gratitude and its impact on our lives.

    Timestamps

    [00:01:26] The health benefits of gratitude.

    [00:05:24] Toxic positivity and gratitude.

    [00:09:40] Gratitude and meaningful connections.

    [00:12:32] Overcoming burnout conversation.

    To connect with Dr. Alex send an email to [email protected]

  • In this episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming my dear friend Paulina Równy, a burnout coach originally from Poland, now living in Edinburgh. We shared our personal journeys of healing and self-discovery, particularly focusing on the theme of rewriting our stories of worthiness.

    Paulina opened up about her experience with burnout in the corporate world and how she took a year off to reflect and develop her practice. During this time, she faced significant identity challenges, which led to our collaboration on a program called "Rooted in Worth." This program aims to help individuals navigate their own struggles with self-worth and identity, drawing from our shared experiences and insights.

    We discussed the impact of familial relationships, particularly the dynamics with our mothers, and how these relationships shaped our perceptions of worthiness. Paulina shared her realization about the disempowering nature of being labeled as "lucky," while I reflected on my own experiences of being a peacekeeper in my family.

    Throughout our conversation, we emphasized the importance of acknowledging and embracing our emotions, rather than running from them. We also introduced the concept of our program, which is designed to guide participants through a journey of self-exploration and empowerment, using the metaphor of a tree to illustrate the layers of worthiness we will uncover together.

    As we prepare to launch "Rooted in Worth" in January, we invite listeners to join us for introductory sessions to learn more about the program and how it can support their personal growth. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of our journeys and the transformative power of understanding our worth.

    Get Updates on the Launch of Rooted In Worth and upcoming introductions: www.emergenthumans.co/rooted

    Reach out with questions or comments:

    Dr. Alex: [email protected]

    Paulina: [email protected]

  • In this episode, I share some exciting personal updates and invite you to reflect on your own life changes. After starting a master's program in positive psychology and reactivating my chiropractic license, I’m thrilled to return to practice part-time. This journey has been transformative, especially after experiencing burnout in my previous decade of practice.

    As I navigate these changes, I’ve decided to adjust the podcast's release schedule. Starting in November, I will be releasing two episodes a month instead of weekly. This shift allows me to focus on the quality of content I provide, ensuring that each episode is meaningful and valuable to you.

    I also discuss the importance of balancing commitments without feeling the need to drop everything for new pursuits. Instead of an all-or-nothing approach, I’m embracing a mindset that allows for flexibility and quality in my endeavors. I encourage you to consider where you might be focusing on quantity over quality in your own life and how you can create space for new opportunities without sacrificing what you already have.

    Additionally, I invite you to subscribe to my newsletter, the Soul Shift Chronicle (www.emergenthumans.co/subscribe), where I’ll share curated content, including highlights from past episodes and insights from my studies. I would love to hear your feedback on the podcast—what you enjoy, what you’d like to see more of, and how I can better serve you. Please shoot me an email at [email protected] and let me know what you'd like to see more of so that I can bring this show to life in the best way for you.

    Join me next week for a fantastic interview with my friend Paulina Równy, where we’ll discuss a collaborative project we’ve created together. Thank you for being part of this journey, and I look forward to connecting with you in the coming episodes!

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  • In this episode, Dr. Alex delves into her recent journey of starting a master's program in positive psychology, a field she has been passionate about for years. She shares insights from her studies, particularly focusing on the significance of positive emotions such as love, gratitude, and joy, and their impact on our overall well-being. Dr. Alex highlights the fascinating connection between the heart and emotions, explaining how the heart operates independently of the brain and has its own "heart brain."

    She challenges listeners to start to explore their own relationship to their emotions with three simple exercises they can try over the next week. These include:

    Removing significance from emotions by stating "I am noticing that I am feeling..." instead of "I am feeling..."

    Starting to create a Positivity Portfolio (coined by Dr. Barbara Fredrickson) this can include photos, memories, smells, music etc that elicit positive feelings for you.

    Write down Three Good Things (events) that occured that day.

    Listen to the full episode to explore the profound relationship between positive psychology and our emotional health!

    What method did you choose to try implementing this week? Send an email to [email protected] and let us know!

    00:00:34 - Interest in Positive Psychology

    00:00:56 - Positive Emotions and HeartMath

    00:01:17 - The Heart's Independent Response

    00:01:50 - Heart Development and Intelligence

    00:02:11 - Accessing a Range of Emotions

    00:02:22 - Society's Focus on Negative Emotions

    00:02:55 - Personal Mindfulness Practice

    00:03:16 - Building a Repertoire of Positive Feelings

    00:03:27 - Dr. Barbara Fredrickson's Broaden and Build Theory

    00:04:10 - Benefits of Positive Emotions

    00:04:22 - Starting Points for Positive Emotions

    00:04:42 - Activity 1: Noticing Your Feelings

    00:05:28 - Activity 2: Building a Positivity Portfolio

    00:08:03 - Activity 3: Three Good Things

    00:09:19 - Impact of Positive Practices

    00:09:30 - Connecting with Intuition and Heart Intelligence

    00:09:51 - Recap of Activities

  • In this episode, we welcome Lou O'Connell, a HeartMath practitioner and author, who shares her profound journey with adult ADHD and the impact of bereavement on her life. Lou opens up about her childhood experiences, including the loss of her brother at a young age and the passing of her mother when she was just 13. She also discusses the heart-wrenching loss of a partner due to an undiagnosed heart condition while serving in the British army. Through her story, Lou emphasizes the importance of being heart-centered and heart-focused, highlighting how these experiences have shaped her path towards healing and understanding. Join us for an inspiring conversation about resilience, grief, and finding one’s true self amidst life's challenges.

    [00:02:41] Bereavement and personal growth.

    [00:06:38] Post-traumatic growth concept.

    [00:10:25] Late diagnosed ADHD journey.

    [00:14:36] Self-compassion and ADHD diagnosis.

    [00:20:23] Identity shifts and personal growth.

    [00:22:09] Distraction techniques and healing journey.

    [00:25:56] Trusting your body’s guidance.

    [00:30:25] Women, ADHD, and entrepreneurship.

    [00:33:15] Rooted in Worth course.

    [00:40:10] Emotional regulation and ADHD.

    [00:44:09] Self-care and heart coherence.

    [00:46:35] Heart-centered living and regulation.

    [00:49:44] Women's guide to ADHD.

    About Lou: Lou O'Connell MBE, otherwise known as the Mental Wealth Mentor, is a decorated veteran with over 28 years' service in the British Army and received an MBE for her work with bereaved military families. As a qualified mental health professional, Lou supports diverse clients, including LGBTQ+ members, bereaved individuals and students with mental health conditions, empowering them to thrive and navigate life's challenges with resilience and creativity. Much to her initial surprise, Lou received a diagnosis of ADHD at the age of 45, leading her down a rabbit hole of research. Initially to find ways of helping herself, however, the more she learnt, the more she found she was helping others going through late diagnosis. This led to her completing additional training in ADHD coaching and offering her coaching services within this field.

    Connect with Lou:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lou.oconnell

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_mental_wealth_mentor/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lou-o-connell-mbe-b50b5057/

    To purchase Lou's Book-

    Amazon UK https://amzn.eu/d/cDxGWWQ

    Amazon US https://a.co/d/1XPULCf

    Amazon Canada https://a.co/d/b3eJJSR

    "It is the book I wish I'd had at the start of my journey towards a late diagnosis of ADHD. In the book, people will learn to:

    Explore the intricacies of ADHD, from diagnosis to coping mechanisms.Learn about the challenges in accessing a diagnosis and advocating for yourself within the healthcare system.Discover how female hormones affect ADHD symptoms and what helps mitigate these effects.Get practical tools and hacks for better memory and time management.Learn tips and techniques for emotional regulation and managing Rejection Sensitive Dysphora (RSD).Identify burnout in yourself and discover tips to avoid it by recognising and working with your strengths.Understand the challenges ADHD poses in relationships and find strategies to improve communication and reduce impulsivity.Learn about support systems at work and in higher education, including reasonable adjustments and government schemes.

    My hope in writing the book is that people feel empowered and equipped to manage your ADHD in a way that works for them. By the end of the book, they'll have practical strategies to enhance focus, productivity, and overall quality of life."

    To connect with Dr. Alex visit www.emergenthumans.co or email [email protected]

  • In this episode, Dr. Alex explores the transformative power of heart-focused living and the concept of coherence — the alignment of the heart, head, and nervous system. She discusses how most people operate under constant stress and emphasizes the importance of cultivating renewing emotions such as gratitude, love, compassion, joy, and appreciation to achieve coherence. Dr. Alex shares her personal journey over the last 220 days, during which she has intentionally worked on attaining coherence using a biofeedback device. She reflects on how this practice has influenced her work, and brought her back towards chiropractic after retiring three years ago. It also highlights the significance of addressing both emotional and physical aspects of healing. Tune in to discover how living and leading from the heart can create profound changes in your life and work.

    Time Stamps

    [00:00:23] Heart-focused living and coherence.

    [00:06:13] Walls vs. Boundaries in Healing.

    [00:10:16] Breaking free from limitations.

    [00:11:31] Inner guidance and emotional healing.

    [00:15:17] Boxes we exist in.

    To connect with Dr. Alex visit www.emergenthumans.co

    Or email [email protected]

  • In this episode of "Live and Lead with Heart," Dr. Alex invites listeners on a personal journey of healing and vulnerability. She shares insights from her recent experiences, highlighting the importance of being open to receiving feedback, praise, and criticism. Despite hosting over 260 episodes and connecting with a global audience, Dr. Alex reflects on her struggles with truly engaging with listeners and understanding their perspectives. This episode encourages self-discovery and growth, as Dr. Alex emphasizes the significance of building a deeper connection with both oneself and the audience. Tune in for an authentic conversation about breaking down barriers and embracing vulnerability.

    Time Stamps:

    [00:02:30] Vulnerability and self-worth journey.

    [00:04:49] Inner transformational healing journeys.

    [00:10:02] Voicing our own greatness.

    [00:12:10] Vulnerability and mental health.

    To connect with Dr. Alex please send an email to [email protected]. She is the one who will read and respond, and would love to hear from you!

  • In this episode, host Dr. Alex welcomes Valerie Hope, an Art Math Certified coach and TEDx speaker, to the show. They dive into the journey of living and leading from the heart, exploring how Valerie's upbringing in a practical, logic-driven family influenced her initial perception of emotions. Valerie shares insights on the evolution of her understanding of emotional intelligence in the corporate world, discussing how feelings can transition from being seen as liabilities to valuable assets. Join Alexandra and Valerie for an inspiring conversation about the importance of heart-centered leadership and the transformative power of embracing our emotions.

    Timestamps

    [00:02:27] Heart opening through divorce.

    [00:04:37] Emotional expression in leadership.

    [00:09:55] Repressed anger and healing.

    [00:12:30] Assertiveness and emotional expression.

    [00:16:25] Finding power in self-expression.

    [00:21:37] Emotional guidance scale explained.

    [00:25:43] Heart-centered emotional ownership.

    [00:29:51] Quick coherence technique for emotions.

    [00:32:45] Heart-focused breathing technique.

    [00:35:48] Power of positive thinking.

    [00:40:58] Vibrational energy in leadership.

    [00:44:28] Trauma and operational coherence.

    [00:46:05] Heart-centered paths and connections.

    To Connect with Valerie visit www.valeriehope.com

  • In this episode, Alex welcomes Diane Allen, an international speaker, violinist, and author with expertise in the flow state. Diane shares her insights on achieving peak performance through her three-step flow strategy system, designed to help individuals tap into their genius and find joy in their work. The conversation dives into their shared experiences with the violin, exploring how both Alex and Diane have navigated their musical journeys, including the challenges of traditional training and the liberation found in improvisation. Listeners can expect an engaging discussion about the importance of embracing one's unique talents and the transformative power of being in the flow.

    Timestamps

    [00:00:41] Flow state and creativity.

    [00:04:58] The sandwich generation experience.

    [00:10:09] Creative expression without constraints.

    [00:12:47] Identity and personal growth.

    [00:18:25] Flow state and self-expression.

    [00:22:32] Flow state indicators.

    [00:25:48] Flow state and career success.

    [00:29:54] Juggling a soccer ball.

    [00:34:58] Self-actualization through personal challenges.

    [00:39:41] Sharing experiences through storytelling.

    [00:46:01] Selfless syndrome and caregiving.

    [00:50:10] Heart space and group flow.

    [00:52:53] Introvert's guide to leadership.

    [00:56:34] Creative side and musicality.

    International speaker, violinist, and author Diane Allen, is a global authority on the flow state. She is known for her experiential Keynotes, Training, and Coaching programs that go Beyond Engagement™, featuring her three-step Flow Strategy™ system, which empowers people to get into their flow state, be in their genius, and love what they do.

    Free Gift:

    Flow Essentials: Tools to Unlock Your Best Self (Guide + Videos)

    https://tinyurl.com/flowstategift

    Diane’s Book:

    Flow: Unlock Your Genius, Love What You Do

    https://www.amazon.com/Flow-Unlock-Your-Genius-Love/dp/1737855623/

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  • In this episode, Dr. Alex explores the importance of bodily awareness and emotional recognition. She reflects on her personal journey with anxiety, revealing how she has become more attuned to the physical sensations associated with it, such as tight shoulders and chest discomfort. Dr. Alex discusses the role of tools like the Oura ring in monitoring stress levels and emphasizes the need for self-check-ins to understand and manage emotions better. The episode encourages listeners to consider their own body awareness and offers insights into developing a deeper connection with their emotions.

    Time Stamps:

    00:00:35 - Question on Body Awareness

    00:01:07 - Personal Experience with Anxiety

    00:02:20 - Importance of Emotional Awareness

    00:03:14 - Guided Body Scan Exercise

    00:05:30 - Breathing and Heart Connection

    00:06:24 - Setting Intentions and Gratitude

    00:08:05 - Daily Practice and Benefits

    00:09:31 - Living and Leading from the Heart

    00:10:33 - Personal Progress and Oura Ring Insights

    00:11:16 - Newsletter and Substack Invitation

    Mentioned in this episode:

    Subscribe to the Soul Shift Chronicles here.Check out Dr. Alex's Substack-Getting to The Heart of It
  • Tune in to this episode where host Alex delves into the power of intuition with HeartMath practitioner, Andrea Bezak-White. Together, they explore the journey of listening to one's inner voice amidst the chaos of everyday life. Discover how Andrea's experiences since 2016 have shaped her connection to intuition and learn valuable insights on following your heart's calling. Join the conversation on embracing intuition and letting go of control in this insightful episode.

    Timestamps:

    [00:03:25] Journey towards listening to intuition.

    [00:06:25] Following intuition and healing.

    [00:08:40] Trusting and following intuition.

    [00:15:32] Gut instinct vs. intuition.

    [00:17:55] Intuition and decision-making.

    [00:20:44] Tapping into feminine energy.

    [00:28:13] Panning for gold.

    [00:29:03] Purging emotional baggage.

    [00:35:42] Childhood conditioning and emotions.

    [00:37:07] Training ourselves in new perspectives.

    [00:42:22] Cultivating relationship to intuition.

    [00:45:36] A nonlinear path.

    About Andrea: Heart Math Certified Trainer, co creator of Mentorship through Menopause Call, a place for women to connect through conversation, Yoga teacher specifically guiding Yoga Nidra.. Passionalte about personal growth, health and wellness. Loves to explore the forest barefoot and embraces cold plunging. She's on this path dancing between learning ,unlearning, remembering and participating with life. To connect with Andrea email [email protected]

    To view the full show notes visit www.emergenthumans.co/blog

  • In this episode, I delve into the concept of leadership and what it truly means to be a leader. This topic was inspired by a recent conversation with a client who was grappling with the traditional, often patriarchal, notions of leadership. Many of us have a stereotypical image of a leader as an assertive, authoritative figure, often embodied by a white male CEO in a power suit. This can make those of us who don't fit that mold feel inadequate or pressured to be someone we're not.

    I shared personal stories to illustrate the difference between forcing oneself into a leadership role versus naturally embodying leadership qualities. In high school, I aggressively pursued the role of soccer team captain, which led to a less authentic and more competitive approach. In contrast, years later, I was unexpectedly voted for a Leadership and Entrepreneurship Award in chiropractic school, a recognition that came naturally without me striving for it.

    The key takeaway is that true leadership comes from being authentic and connected to our inner strengths and genius. It's about showing up as our true selves rather than conforming to external expectations of what a leader should be. I encourage listeners to reflect on their own leadership roles and identify where they might be forcing themselves to fit a certain image, and instead, find ways to lead authentically.

    I also introduced the Women's Leadership Lab, a new initiative launching in September. This hybrid between a mastermind and a membership aims to help women discover and embrace their authentic leadership styles. For more details, listeners can visit emergenthumans.co/links.

    I hope this episode inspires you to rethink your approach to leadership and find ease in being your true self in any leadership role you undertake. Join me next week for more insights and a special announcement for our podcast listeners.

    Timestamps:

    00:00:13 - Traditional Perceptions of Leadership

    00:00:35 - Resisting Traditional Leadership Roles

    00:00:55 - Redefining Leadership

    00:01:07 - Stereotypical Leadership Image

    00:01:28 - Authentic Leadership vs. Forced Leadership

    00:01:39 - Personal Reflection on Leadership

    00:01:59 - Everyone as a Leader

    00:02:10 - High School Soccer Captain Experience

    00:02:42 - Reflecting on Forced Leadership

    00:03:04 - Authentic Leadership in Chiropractic School

    00:03:25 - Unexpected Leadership Recognition

    00:03:57 - Natural Leadership vs. Forced Leadership

    00:04:18 - Bridging Authenticity and Leadership

    00:04:50 - Self-Reflection on Leadership Roles

    00:05:11 - Women and Leadership Challenges

    00:05:31 - Definition of True Leadership

    00:05:53 - Inner Strengths and Authentic Leadership

    00:06:24 - Authentic Leadership in Practice

    00:06:46 - Self-Examination of Leadership

    00:07:07 - Personal Leadership Challenges

    00:07:28 - Owning Your Leadership Style

    To learn more about the Women's Leadership Lab mentioned in this episode visit www.emergenthumans.co/links

  • In this episode, I delve into the importance of tuning into our emotions and connecting with our hearts. I share my personal journey of realizing how disconnected I was from my feelings and how this disconnection manifested as anxiety and physical symptoms like heartburn. I discuss my recent commitment to a 30-day challenge inspired by HeartMath research, where I spend 30 minutes each day focusing on my emotional landscape.

    Throughout the episode, I reflect on my childhood experiences that led me to intellectualize rather than feel my emotions. I talk about the various coping mechanisms I developed, such as overachieving and avoiding conflict, and how these have shaped my adult life. By intentionally connecting with my heart and emotions, I've started to uncover deep-seated habits and childhood wounds.

    I encourage listeners to join me in this 30-day challenge, suggesting practical steps like reading a list of emotions daily and paying attention to bodily sensations. I emphasize that connecting with our hearts is a muscle that needs to be developed and that doing so can lead to profound changes in our stress levels, relationships, and overall well-being.

    I invite listeners to reach out and share their experiences as we support each other in this journey of emotional exploration and heart connection.

    Key Timestamps

    00:00:35 - Heart's Role in Emotions

    00:00:55 - Childhood Lessons on Emotions

    00:01:15 - Intellectualizing Emotions

    00:01:46 - Anxiety and Physical Symptoms

    00:02:08 - Coping Mechanisms

    00:02:30 - Awareness and Emotional Work

    00:04:29 - Benefits of Emotional Awareness

    00:05:02 - Personal Commitment to 30-Day Challenge

    00:05:33 - Techniques for Emotional Connection

    00:06:05 - Discovering Inner Warrior

    00:06:27 - Childhood Coping Mechanisms

    00:07:09 - Overachieving and Proving Worth

    00:08:01 - Peacemaker and Conflict Avoidance

    00:08:46 - Nurturing the Inner Child

    00:09:28 - Befriending Inner Parts

    00:10:00 - Developing a Relationship with Emotions

    00:11:04 - Daily Emotional Check-In

    00:12:06 - Heart Connection and Intuition

    00:12:48 - Relationship to Money

    Inspired to join me on a 30 day challenge of connecting to your emotions everyday? There's nothing official for this. Let's just encourage each other. Connect with me in one of the options below and let me know you're taking it on with me!

    With love,

    Alex.

    Connect with me

    [email protected] Instagram
  • Today's episode delves into the concept of emotional vanity, exploring how it relates to our sense of self and true essence. Dr. Alex discusses the idea of over-identity with our perceived worth and the impact of societal influences on our self-perception. By connecting to the heart, we can cut through these false identities. The focus shifts to desire vanity, a form of emotional vanity that affects how we seek approval and communicate. This thought-provoking discussion prompts deep introspection and personal growth.

    00:00:23 - Understanding Emotional Vanity

    00:00:55 - The Core Self vs. Shell Identities

    00:01:17 - Connecting to the Heart

    00:01:29 - Introduction to Desire Vanity

    00:02:00 - The Role of Desire in Our Lives

    00:02:31 - Consumerism and Ego Identities

    00:03:03 - Entitlement Vanity and Its Consequences

    00:03:14 - Balancing Desires with Heart's Intuition

    00:03:56 - Personal Reflections on Desire Vanity

    00:05:00 - Anxiety and Physical Manifestations

    00:06:06 - Setting Up a New Office Space

    00:06:47 - Heart's Desire vs. Societal Expectations

    00:07:29 - Reflections on Past Business and Burnout

    00:08:00 - Emotional Impact of Business Failure

    00:08:42 - Reading from Overcoming Emotional Chaos

    00:09:06 - Hurt and Desire Vanity

    00:10:00 - Heart's Intelligence and Connection to God

    00:10:54 - Ego Hurt and Healing

    00:12:18 - Vanity and Emotional Pain

    00:13:01 - Guilt, Regret, and Moving Forward

    00:14:14 - Personal Journey of Guilt and Shame

    00:15:06 - Physical Manifestations of Emotional Pain

    00:16:17 - Compassion as a Key to Healing

    00:17:10 - Self-Compassion Practice

    Download the Self Compassion Practice: www.emergenthumans.co/links

  • Exploring the transition from physical to emotional healing, hosts Alex and guest Catalina Milan share their journeys of moving from traditional massage therapy to inner world work focused on the heart. Catalina emphasizes the importance of somatic healing and recognizing emotional pain in the body, while both guests highlight the power of working with the mind and heart. Join the conversation on leading and living from the heart in this insightful episode.

    Timestamps:

    [00:03:16] HeartMath for personal resilience.

    [00:06:27] Inner work and self-reliance.

    [00:08:38] Learning to slow down.

    [00:12:23] Physical manifestations of emotional pain.

    [00:19:03] Digestive health and SIBO.

    [00:20:23] Digestive issues and emotional trauma.

    [00:26:53] Heart and gut connection.

    [00:29:11] Accessing intuition for true health.

    [00:31:49] Following your inner knowingness.

    Connect with Catalina:

    www.mindbodysoulsynergy.com

    Connect with Alex:

    www.emergenthumans.co

  • Exploring the theme of feeling like an imposter and not truly believing in oneself, this episode delves into the disconnect between how we present ourselves to the world and how we feel internally. Dr. Alex shares a personal epiphany about never feeling "enough" and the impact it has had on her achievements. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on what truly drives them and consider the role of self-belief in their accomplishments.

    00:00:30 - Feeling Like an Imposter

    00:01:02 - Epiphany on Self-Worth

    00:01:22 - Achievements Driven by Lack

    00:02:03 - Cyclical Self-Doubt

    00:02:35 - Starting a New Business

    00:03:06 - Core Belief of Not Being Enough

    00:03:27 - Self-Sabotage Patterns

    00:03:48 - Upper Limit Problem

    00:03:59 - Attitude Breathing Technique

    00:04:20 - Breathing Confidence

    00:04:52 - Soccer Memory for Confidence

    00:06:06 - Finding Your Confidence Memory

    00:07:00 - Rebuilding Neural Pathways

    00:07:32 - Aligning Inner and Outer Self

    00:07:53 - Resources and Conclusion

    Connect with Dr. Alex

    Email: [email protected]

    Resources to get started: emergenthumans.co/links

  • In this episode of Live and Lead with Heart, Dr. Alex delves into the impactful book "The Big Leap" by Gay Hendricks. We explore the concept of an upper limit problem and how our subconscious minds can hinder us from breaking through to our full potential. Dr. Alex shares insights on integrating heart-centered approaches to personal growth and highlights the book's discussion on illness or accidents as a pattern to pay attention to. Tune in to learn how to overcome self-imposed limits and embrace transformative change.

    00:00:23 - The Concept of Upper Limit Problem

    00:00:54 - Integrating Heart into Personal Growth

    00:01:25 - Illness and Accidents as Subconscious Barriers

    00:02:09 - Personal Experience with Illness

    00:03:33 - Reflecting on the Cause of Illness

    00:04:14 - Processing Deep Emotions

    00:04:45 - Physical Reactions to Emotional Stress

    00:05:07 - Awareness of Avoidance Patterns

    00:05:39 - Heart-Focused Breathing Technique

    00:06:10 - Achieving Coherence for Better Decision Making

    00:06:42 - Recognizing Patterns of Self-Sabotage

    00:07:14 - Overcoming Anxiety and Fear of Change

    00:07:57 - Taking Action Despite Fear

    00:08:28 - Connecting with Your Heart for Guidance

    00:09:10 - Practical Steps to Avoid Self-Sabotage

  • In this episode, Dr. Alex shares a personal story about encountering a herd of caribou on a challenging road trip, highlighting the balance between allowing things to happen naturally versus trying to force outcomes. The narrative prompts reflection on areas in life where you may be pushing too hard instead of going with the flow.

    00:00:00 - Introduction to Allowing vs. Forcing

    00:00:12 - Personal Shift and Awareness

    00:00:23 - Connecting with the Heart

    00:00:34 - Story: 4th of July in Eagle, Alaska

    00:01:37 - Reflection on Forcing Outcomes

    00:01:57 - Inner Work and Somatic Exercises

    00:02:30 - The Cathartic Cry

    00:03:23 - Forcing vs. Allowing in Weight Loss

    00:04:05 - Emotional Weight and Stress

    00:04:26 - Inquiry into Forcing Outcomes

    00:04:48 - Heart-Centered Breathing Exercise

    00:05:10 - Identifying Areas of Force

    00:05:56 - Overachiever Mentality

    00:06:50 - Invitation to Reflect and Let Go

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