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In todayâs new episode, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share them with you). From a painful childhood to a 10-year relationship with a narcissist, she wanted to figure out how to release shame, heal, and find her true self. No matter what your story is, you donât have to carry this baggage forever. After listening to Caraâs story, you might start to look at your life, your history, and your future differently.
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Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we're afraid we will "make waves" in the relationship.
We come from a place of fear and anxiety. "What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?" we think to ourselves.
So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer.
But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on. If this is you, this episode is for you.
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Have you ever wondered how you can move on from someone you never dated? Perhaps youâve been pining for them for months (or even years) . . . hoping theyâll finally notice you and see your value. This great question is one of 7 I answer in todayâs new episode, based on the comments you left me last week. I also dig into topics like:
âą Whatâs the best way to start a long-distance relationship? âą Whatâs your dating advice for people over 40? âą Why did they change their mind about being ready for a relationship? Donât miss these, and once youâre done, be sure to send an email to [email protected] with a question youâd like me to answer next time!
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What do you do when youâre a giving person but you feel like your kindness gets taken advantage of in relationships? Maybe you feel like youâre always the one trying and then your resentment builds up until one day you explode in anger.
In this video, I show you why we get trapped in the curse of people pleasing, how to set appropriate boundaries, and how to ask for what you need from someone youâre dating.
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The concept of "love languages" has been incredibly popular in recent years. But is there really only 5 ways to give and receive love? And how useful is the idea of love languages when trying to find a compatible partner for a relationship?
Join Matt, Stephen and Audrey for an explanation of the science around love languages, criticisms and challenges of the theory, and how you can apply them when dating.
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"How can you tell the difference between love bombing and genuine interest?"
This is just one question out of 10 that I answer in today's rapid-fire Q&A episode, which also includes answers to: "What Dating Advice Would You Give to Your 16-Year-Old Self?" "When Did You Last Cry?" "How Can I Get Over the Shame of Having Stayed Too Long in a Relationship?" "Is It Worth Reaching Back Out to an Ex Who May Have Changed?" ... and much more.
It was super fun to read and answer all your questions. Be sure to leave me a comment with any questions you might have for part 2! âșâș Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . â http://www.The3Relationships.com âșâș Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com -
If youâve ever wondered, âdo they actually like me?" then you donât want to miss this episodeâŠ
How do you know if someone genuinely has eyes for you, or if they're just like that with everyone they meet?
Taking the risk of putting yourself on the line could mean embarrassment, rejection, or make things super-awkward between you both later on.
You need to know when you have the green light. You need to be sure when itâs ok to flirt and test the waters.
In this clip then, I'll show you the 7 obvious signs someone REALLY likes you...
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Have you ever gotten intimate with someone who seemed to show ALL the signs of wanting more with you, only for them to go cold afterwards? Why does this happen? And is there anything you can do to protect yourself from this happening again?
In this episode, Matt and Audrey discuss why men can disappear after sex, how to judge whether to sleep with someone or not, and how not to get seduced by the wrong people.
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Is love enough to keep a relationship going?
You may have asked yourself this question when youâve faced a difficult breakup.
In todayâs episode, I go deep on this question, and talk about 7 compatibility tests that can help determine whether your relationship will last.
These are some of the most underrated qualities in a partner, and after watching, youâll never look at compatibility the same way again . . .
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Perhaps you've felt it after someone ghosted you following what you thought was a perfect dateâŠ
Or after pouring your heart and creativity into a project only to have it ripped to shreds by those you admire most ...
Rejection can come in many forms, but the gut punch feels the same as it shatters your ego.
Ultimately, the history of your rejection has been written, but the legacy of it is for you to decide The way you craft this legacy can result in some of the most meaningful wins of your life, and in this week's episode, you'll learn how to make that happen.
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We answered YOUR dating questions! Join me and my wife Audrey as we dive into fears of cheating, red flags on dating apps, confusing post-break up texts and more!
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When weâre stuck in a situationship with someone who doesnât know what they want, itâs incredibly frustrating. As soon as we like someone and hear the words âIâm not ready for a relationship right now,â it feels like weâre suddenly back to square one! If youâre tired of not knowing where you stand, youâve come to the right place. In this episode, I share 5 signs that can reveal if someone is ready for a relationship, plus a key question you can ask yourself and use anytime you feel stuck or confused. âșâș Order My New Book, "Love Life" at â http://www.LoveLifeBook.com âșâș FREE Video Training: âDating With Resultsâ â http://www.DatingWithResults.com âșâș Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights, and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . â http://www.The3Relationships.com
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Have you been with someone who wants attention, connection, spends time with you...but they'll never commit? And when you ask them why they keep in touch they say something like "I just can't let you go".
If you've been in this situation, listen to this message. It's ESSENTIAL listening to help you take back your life and make the most important decision you could make right now.
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Have you ever felt like you lost "The One" because of bad timing? They moved country, they weren't ready to commit, or they hadn't matured enough yet?
It's common to tell ourselves this is a case of "right person, wrong time". But that can make the pain of loss even worse. We despair that we've lost a great love and it's down to pure bad luck.
If you're struggling to get over someone like this, make sure to listen to this episode. Matt and Audrey talk about the myth of "right person wrong time" and the essential mindsets that can bring you back to confidence and optimism about moving on and finding love again.
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Most people want to avoid players in dating . . . yet why do so many end up in relationships (or situationships) with them?
Sadly, itâs all too common to get seduced into a roller coaster romance where we feel amazing chemistry but never know where we stand with someone.
Today Iâm giving you the best advice Iâve given on this topic through 7 clips that will help you avoid players and find the right person. If youâre ready to rewire your brain and start attracting someone who says âyesâ to a relationship, this is for you.
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It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didnât invest precious time in the wrong people.
It can be hard to read someoneâs intentions in the early stages.I canât make you a foolproof lie detector, and I canât guarantee youâll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent âdetector of intentionsâ so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with you.
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Matthew sits down to talk with Sabrina Zohar (sabrina.zohar) on unrealistic expectations in dating, healing old wounds, setting boundaries, choosing a happy relationship, and how insecurities affect who we date.
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So you just realized you actually like someone?
Hold up a second . . . When we fall for someone in the early stages of dating, itâs very easy to drop our standards and lose sight of our boundaries. We check our texts constantly. We cancel other plans for them. We agree to live on their schedule. This situation is especially dangerous for people who have a more anxious attachment style and tend to respond to relationship uncertainty by bending over backwards to keep someone happy. In todayâs new episode, I explore how different attachment styles respond in this situation, and how you can attract a healthy relationship where your standards and boundaries wonât be trampled.
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Thereâs a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that Iâve always loved. Itâs when Tom Cruiseâs character realizes: âThe little things... Thereâs nothing bigger, is there?â
Thatâs often true in attraction too.
So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results.As youâll hear in this episode, turning someoneâs head doesnât have to be complicated.
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