Episodes
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Picture this: One hot afternoon, my kids and I were playing outside when an argument erupted, causing one of my sons to storm inside in a fit of rage. Have you been there before too? It can be so hard trying to remain calm while managing HUGE emotions, and keeping your child from doing any real harm.
But, we were able to get through this with one silly game, and two ice pops. Tune in to this personal episode about the effect of transitions, sibling rivalry, and regulating anger. Here’s the thing: Even meltdowns are an opportunity for creating connection, and I’ll let you in on how I did it.
And if this sounds all too familiar and you’re desperately seeking change within your family, schedule a Breakthrough Call to see if my Chaos to Connection program would be a good fit for your family. We’ll talk through all things raising sensitive kids together and I’ll point you in the right direction. Click the link below to hop on my schedule!
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Recently, a thoughtful listener sent in a question about their child being unkind to a friend. Seeing kids be mean to their friends can be incredibly triggering, stirring up fears about their ability to maintain friendships in the future or even worries about them being alone. But it’s important to remember that kids are still learning. They might not have enough life experience to predict how someone will react without trying it out.
You see, sometimes kids will say things like "I hate you" out of curiosity rather than anger, just to see what happens. Instead of shaming them, or telling them not to do it again, we can instead ground ourselves in a developmental perspective. We can get curious about why a child said those words and ask questions to understand their experience.
Because here’s the thing: when we validate our highly sensitive child’s experience and emotions, they feel much more comfortable to continue talking about these experiences in the future. There is always room for compassion! And, don’t forget to check out my brand new resource: “10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know” (linked below), if you want to get even more inside the brain of your highly sensitive child.
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Have you ever taken your kids on a fun outing, only to face meltdowns once you get home? In this episode, I share my personal experience with this all-too-common scenario amongst highly sensitive children.
Recently, I took my 3 kids to an off-Broadway production of The Lion King. We had an amazing time, but on the car ride home, traffic hit, and chaos ensued. It was frustrating and triggering, especially after such a fun day. This experience reminded me that even the best outings can be stressful for our highly sensitive kids. They often hold it together during the excitement but release all their pent-up emotions once it's over.
Tune in as I share a couple of tips to make your outings feel more successful and enjoyable for everyone. Plus, I introduce a new free resource: "10 Things Your Highly Sensitive Child Needs You to Know." This guide is a game-changer, helping you understand and support your highly sensitive child like never before. Click the link below to download your free copy right away!
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Feeling dread when it’s after school pick-up time? If you’re a parent of a highly sensitive child, you know exactly what I mean. The meltdowns, snarky responses, and tears can feel inevitable. It’s because, as their safe attachment figure, your child feels secure enough to let out all their pent-up emotions from the day once they see you.
I recently shared an Instagram reel about this very struggle, and it hit home for so many parents. Highly sensitive kids often get stuck in a dysregulation cycle, where they’re overwhelmed and end up releasing all those big emotions right after school.
In this episode, you’ll hear 3 tips that are tried and true for preparing for and managing school pickup with your highly sensitive child. These strategies can make this transition smoother for both you and your child, turning after-school dread into a more manageable part of your day. And if you feel your struggles are reaching new levels, let’s connect! Book a free breakthrough call below and we will discuss what’s working and what’s not in your parenting journey.
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Shilpa was an overwhelmed mom of 4 kids under 5 who had tried everything — even quitting her job — to fix what wasn’t working in parenting (especially with her highly sensitive oldest child). From negative self-talk to beginning to dread each morning, Shilpa felt she had exhausted all her options, and she began to desperately seek change.
In this week's episode, I interview Shilpa about her family’s experience in my Chaos to Connection program. Hear her share how her home now actually feels peaceful, and she’s happy about how she’s parenting for the first time ever.
Shilpa’s story will help you realize you are not alone. If Shilpa’s story resonates with you and you are tired of the daily struggle, let’s talk! Click the link below and schedule a free Zoom session with me where we’ll talk about what’s working in your parenting & what might not be, and how Chaos to Connection might be a good fit for your family.
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In this episode, we dive deep into three shame-inducing thoughts that many parents of highly sensitive children experience. Drawing from my program and countless conversations with parents, I share the common worries and fears expressed by those seeking support.
It’s true, many of us didn't have our emotional needs met as children, leaving us unsure of how to help our own kids regulate their emotions. This can lead to feelings of loneliness and the misconception that we're the only ones struggling with these dark thoughts. I discuss the three main thoughts I frequently hear during initial calls with prospective clients and how these thoughts often make parents feel like they're held hostage by their child's emotions.
You see, here’s the thing: this does not have to be your reality. This episode will show you that you are not alone. I've been there too, and I know that resilience and healthy communication skills can transform your family dynamics. And if you are struggling and this sounds like you - book a free call. We will come up with a plan of action together so you feel better able to handle any thoughts coming your way.
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In this Parenting Reflections episode, I share a candid account of my family's recent trip to Disney World. With three highly sensitive kids in tow, we made extra efforts to ensure their comfort and enjoyment. From splurging on Genie+ to booking separate rooms for better sleep, every decision was made with their needs in mind.
Flexibility was key as we embarked on each day, knowing that plans might need to shift or a child might require a break. I discuss the steps we took to anticipate and manage potential meltdowns, from recognizing triggers to providing downtime when needed.
Listen in as I recount the highs and lows of our Disney adventure, including sibling squabbles, thrilling new rides, and the heart-wrenching loss of a beloved stuffed animal. And don't forget to check out my previous episode on vacationing with kids for more tips and insights!
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Ever wondered if rough and tumble play is right for your highly sensitive child? In this episode, we dive into why it's not only okay but also crucial for their growth and development. I share four ways rough and tumble play can benefit highly sensitive children, from building resilience to fostering social skills.
But safety first! Of course it is important to monitor play sessions, ensuring boundaries are respected, and promptly addressing any injuries. With the right supervision, rough and tumble play can offer invaluable opportunities for physical, emotional, and social growth.
Tune in to hear practical tips on setting up your home environment to encourage this type of play, including choosing age-appropriate toys and creating safe spaces for exploration. Don't miss this episode on why rough and tumble play is an essential part of childhood, especially for highly sensitive children.
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Did you ever realize that your child's high sensitivity might be a mirror reflecting your own? In this episode, I take you on a personal journey back to my own childhood, where I grappled with being highly sensitive, often feeling overwhelmed by emotions and retreating to my room to cry when things felt too intense.
I share the shame and isolation I felt growing up, feeling too much and too deeply, and how these experiences initially left me confused and easily hurt. It wasn't until I became a parent to a highly sensitive child that I began to truly understand and appreciate the depth of my own feelings.
In this episode, we'll explore how recognizing your own sensitivity can illuminate your parenting path and deepen your connection with your child. Here’s the thing: it’s important to recognize sensitivity not as a burden, but as a superpower. I’ll let you in on a secret – when we recognize sensitivity as a superpower, we can pay more attention to how we respond to big feelings, which equals a more nurturing and supportive family environment.
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Have you ever been in the middle of a store when your child suddenly has a meltdown? It's tough, right? In today's episode, I share a personal story about my own son's public meltdown and how I managed to navigate that situation.
You see, there’s a difference between a child giving you a hard time, and having a hard time. The shame and anger you may feel during a public meltdown are valid, but what if we could shift those feelings all together, and instead think ahead to handling the meltdown more efficiently?
For this, I’ll provide three practical strategies to help you prepare for and handle public meltdowns. And listen further for a chance to win a sensory kit of your choice from Young, Wild & Friedman!
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Do you feel like all the parenting responsibilities just automatically end up on your plate? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive into my own journey as the 'default parent,' a role I slipped into almost without noticing when we had our first child. As I stayed home and stepped away from my career, I found myself managing everything from night feedings to daily outings, never having a moment to myself.
I quickly became overwhelmed and exhausted with the weight of parenting on my shoulders. I even felt resentful towards my husband. But, this one realization allowed me to recognize that it wasn’t either of our faults, and there was a way to shift the dynamic.
Here’s the thing: You can continue silently bearing the weight of parenting for both partners. Or, you can begin to shift and make lasting changes. Addressing the default parent syndrome earlier can transform your relationship with your partner, and enhance family life for everyone involved. Tune in to learn how to start this essential conversation and take steps towards a balanced parenting partnership.
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Have you ever considered therapy for your highly sensitive child, hoping it might be the key to managing their meltdowns and aggressive behaviors at home? If so, this episode offers a different point of view along with 5 reasons that may change your mind.
As a former play therapist and owner of a private practice, I've worked with many highly sensitive children who behaved picture perfect during sessions. And yet, the stories I'd hear from their parents painted a very different picture, one filled with emotional outbursts and challenges. This led me to a crucial realization about therapy and highly sensitive children.
Here’s the bottom line: traditional child therapy might not be the best approach for highly sensitive kids. Why? It all comes down to the parent-child relationship. Tune in to this week’s episode to hear my opinion on the best route of intervention, and why being your child’s safe figure can help set your child up for long-term success.
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Have you ever dreamed of taking a trip alone, stepping away from the daily grind of parenting to just breathe and be yourself? If the idea sounds like a distant fantasy, this episode is for you. Last weekend, I took a life-changing solo trip across the country—yes, just me, no kids, no parenting responsibilities—and it was nothing short of magical.
In today’s episode, I dive into why taking time for yourself isn't just a luxury—it’s essential. We'll explore 3 crucial benefits of having a solo break for yourself as a parent. It’s true the rejuvenation that comes from taking that break from parenting duties gives you space to recharge and reconnect.
And most importantly - you’ll hear why reconnecting with yourself as an individual and a whole person can be life-altering. Because let’s face it: parenting is hard, and parenting highly sensitive children can feel challenging. But the enormity of parenting does not have to feel overbearing. This episode could be your sign that adventure is waiting, and it can be transformative!
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Ever noticed your highly sensitive child getting jealous when it’s a sibling’s birthday? You’re not alone - it’s tough to see them struggle during what should be a fun family celebration.
In this podcast episode, we get personal about sibling jealousy, especially around birthdays. We’ll explore why these feelings aren't actually about selfishness, but rather deep, complex emotions, and I’ll share 3 practical strategies that have worked in my own family to help manage these big feelings.
Here’s the thing: Your highly sensitive child is actually craving connection in these jealous moments -- and once you understand that & have strategies that center connection, you'll be able to both support your child in these tough moments and also teach valuable skills for handling big emotions in the future.
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Kelsey and Cody were desperate for help with their four-year-old daughter and two-year-old twin boys. After their daughter dealt with medical issues at a young age, their twins were welcomed during the pandemic and their home quickly felt overwhelming and chaotic.
In this Friday’s episode, I interview Kelsey and Cody about their family’s experience in my Chaos to Connection program. They both share their experiences beginning the program and seeing immediate changes in their family system, and finding connection with their children that they felt they lost a long time ago.
Kelsey and Cody’s story will inspire you and show you that you are not alone. As a family with a history of medical trauma and multiple kids all at young ages, their story provides hope that things can get better, and change is waiting to happen. And if you relate to the struggle in their story - let’s talk! Click the link below to schedule a free 45-minute Zoom session with me where we will talk about your current parenting issues and if this program could be a good fit for your entire family.
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Ever noticed how it can be really difficult for your highly sensitive child to hear the word “no”? If you are nodding along, you are not alone! In this podcast episode, we tackle this parenting challenge by talking about the 3 things you can do to help your highly sensitive child accept “no” as an answer.
Highly sensitive children often struggle hearing “no” because it brings disappointment. This is a tough and uncomfortable emotion! But here’s the thing: by creating a structured boundary around the word “no”, you can break free from the cycle of meltdowns and arguments following a “no” response.
It is possible to stop feeling as if you are always walking on eggshells, attempting to protect your child from the word “no” and the emotions it brings. Following these 3 alternatives can help transform those challenging moments into opportunities for growth and connection.
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Ever wonder why your highly sensitive child loses it over seemingly trivial things? You are not alone. In this podcast episode, we get to the bottom of your child’s meltdowns, and what you can do to avoid frustration and help yourself and your child regulate when feeling tough emotions.
Picture this: your kids spend the night at Grandma and Grandpa’s, only to return and have a simple swing session turn into a full-blown meltdown. Hear the full story AND a practical solution to a problem that might be taking over your home.
Because, here’s the thing: meltdowns exist when your child tries to hold in their big emotions, and they reach a point of not being able to hold it in any longer. You CAN change this - discover a way to reassure your highly sensitive child without dismissing their emotions as excessive or “too much”, but instead as welcome and a natural part of their experience.
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Ever found your highly sensitive child in tears over a small mistake, convinced they've ruined everything? It's a tough spot, right? In this podcast episode, we're diving deep into perfectionism in highly sensitive kids. Picture this: your child ripping up their artwork because they believe they've made an irreparable mistake. Sound familiar?
Listen as we explore three invaluable strategies for responding to these moments with grace and understanding. You will learn how to validate your child's feelings of perfectionism while also guiding them toward a healthier perspective on mistakes and imperfections.
Here’s the thing: highly sensitive children are even more prone to experiencing feelings of wanting to be “perfect.” Through this episode you can learn how to acknowledge your child’s desire for perfection without letting it overshadow their self-worth. You’ll hear tips for fostering resilience and self-compassion, allowing you to navigate perfectionism with confidence.
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If you've ever found yourself losing your temper with your children, then this podcast episode is exactly what you need. We've all been there, right? Moments where frustration boils over, and we end up yelling at our kids because they simply won't cooperate, like refusing to go to sleep at bedtime.
But here’s the good news: in this episode you’ll hear how I experienced losing my cool with my daughter last week, and how I was able to gather myself after; all because of one simple but powerful tool. And the even better news, it’s more simple than you would think!
What’s important to understand is that anger is a normal and valid emotion. Our nervous systems should not always be regulated - but rather, they should be able to regulate again after an intense emotion. This tool will not only teach you how to bring your nervous system back to its norm, but to handle future anger with compassion, and foster a healthy relationship with your highly sensitive child along the way.
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If you're grappling with your child's anxiety and feeling lost in how to support them, this podcast episode is a must-listen. It's tough knowing how to handle our children's worries, especially when we feel like we're supposed to fix everything, right?!
Wrong. Most of us feel as if we need to immediately fix feelings of anxiety, but in actuality, we are perpetuating and invalidating those emotions. In this week’s episode, hear a refreshing perspective on dealing with childhood anxiety: instead of rushing to eliminate it, we're encouraged to validate and understand it.
Let’s take a deep dive into the importance of acknowledging and accepting a child's anxiety as a natural part of life. By creating a safe space where their feelings are validated, you can help your highly sensitive child build resilience and learn healthy coping mechanisms that last a lifetime.
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