Episodes
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Roxie Roots and Elly Arrow discuss growing up in Germany on the cusp of the internet age and how family and peer attitudes as well as magazines, TV, and the visible presence of mega brothels shaped their perception of womanhood, sexuality, and the sex industry.
Links
BRAVO Magazine: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bravo_(magazine)
ICQ Chat: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ICQ
Omegele Video Chat: https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-56085499
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Merly à sbogÄrd, Sybil Jo, and Elly Arrow discuss how society lays the groundwork for sexual exploitation by bolstering narratives that excuse perpetrators and blame victims, a medical system that is often cruel to trauma victims and mothers, a ruthless class system that is uninterested in ending poverty and finally, deep harm denial around the sex trade.
Links
Obstetric violence in historical perspective: https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(22)01022-4/abstract
âGive Birth Like A Feministâ by Milli Hill: https://www.amazon.de/Give-Birth-Like-Feminist-Milli/dp/0008313105
âInvisible Womenâ by Caroline Criado Perez: https://carolinecriadoperez.com/book/invisible-women/
âSado-Ritual Societyâ theorized in âGyn/ecology: The Metaethics of Radical Feminismâ by Mary Daly: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1FIwZvpPD_lbHPZdFsdvuBs2QqBDET9zJ
âWhy Women Are Blamed For Everything: Exploring the Victim Blaming of Women Subjected to Violence and Traumaâ by Dr. Jess Taylor https://www.amazon.de/-/en/Why-Women-Are-Blamed-Everything/dp/0244498342
âSexy But Psycho: How the Patriarchy Uses Womenâs Trauma Against Themâ by Dr. Jess Taylor https://www.amazon.de/Sexy-But-Psycho-Patriarchy-Against/dp/1472135512
âDr. Jessica Taylor Talks About Stuffâ by Dr. Jess Taylor https://open.spotify.com/show/25t5CcOZuVUbLoabUB7nKq
âThe Wandering Womb Podcastâ by Dr. Jess Taylor & Jaime Shrive https://open.spotify.com/show/2iCwBa9uVW89VauUAQUUvZ
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Andrea Heinz and Mia Döring share their experiences speaking up publicly after being exploited in prostitution, what drives women to raise their voices despite fear of backlash, the weighing of that decision and its potential impact on the self and loved ones, and advice for those considering doing the same.
Links
Miaâs Twitter: https://x.com/MiaChristina_
Miaâs book âAny Girlâ: https://www.miadoring.com/any-girl
Miaâs TED Talk: https://t.co/iacBihIMyX
Andreaâs Twitter: https://x.com/heinzsight2020
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Host Elly Arrow speaks to Victoria Gugenheim, a world award-winning body painter, feminist, and womenâs rights activist, about her work focused on healing after sexual trauma, fighting purity & porn culture, desexualizing the female body, ending the policing of survivor activistsâ appearances and cultivating joy within the movement so that dealing with heavy subjects doesnât lead to burnout.
Links
Victoria Gugenheimâs Website and socials:
gugenheim.co.uk
thatvictoriag.substack.com
instagram.com/victoriagugenheim
x.com/quirkathon
facebook.com/GugenheimGlobal
Women Create: womencreate.co.uk
Painted Powerful: paintedpowerful.substack.com
Article in the Radical Notion: theradicalnotion.org/the-body-as-boundary-painted-powerful
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi on the âflow stateâ: cgu.edu/people/mihaly-csikszentmihalyi
TED talk about the "flow state": youtu.be/fXIeFJCqsPs?feature=shared
Maryam Namazie: maryamnamazie.com
Body Riot - Protest Against Mandatory Hijab: imago-images.com/search?suchtext=Topless+woman+activists+protest+Iranian+regime+in&imagepage=on&db=stock
Note: Despite being successful on social media, this was censored on both YouTube and X. facebook.com/share/p/T9vArH9ye5vET6bb/?mibextid=qi2Omg
Matriarchal/Matrilineal tribes who wear makeup:
Asante people of Ghana: mmstudies.com/matriarchies/akan
Mosuo women in makeup: images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c6b5514fb18201758b96c7f/1602524611344-H2A0ZK37VJHYNEVA4I8Y/DSCF2858.jpg
Historic examples of freer body culture for women:
Minoans of Crete: jstor.org/stable/jj.15136008?searchText=&searchUri=&ab_segments=&refreqid=&searchKey=
Minoan women in high positions of power, topless snake goddesses, topless women in Fresco Art: blog.thesyntopiahotel.gr/minoan-crete-the-women-rulers
On Bare Breasts in Ancient Greece - private parts and patriarchy: rogueclassicism.com/2012/09/20/on-bare-breasts-in-ancient-greece
Talk: Matriarchies as Egalitarian societies: youtu.be/_rHijP0C7WI?si=QEZXKwAgWDP-LDht
Free The Nipple: campaignsoftheworld.com/outdoor/free-the-nipple
Our episode on spy cam porn: âKorean Women Fighting Porn Cultureâ
FiLia: www.filia.org.uk
Andrea Dworkin âPornography: Men Possessing Womenâ: archive.org/details/PornographyMenPossessingWomenAndreaDworkinPdf
Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain: ex-muslim.org.uk
One Law For All: onelawforall.org
Trashing, the dark side of sisterhood: jofreeman.com/joreen/trashing.htm
The Tyranny of Structurelessness: jofreeman.com/joreen/tyranny.htm
Dancing in the Streets: A History of Collective Joy: psycnet.apa.org/record/2007-01368-000
Dancing in the Streets Book: amazon.com/Dancing-Streets-History-Collective-Joy/dp/0805057242
Kofra Womenâs Center, Munich: kofra.de/layout/index.htm
Vulva/Vagina Folklore: youtu.be/mYMWd467YT8?si=mZWL_GfpV-bFtW1x
How Sadness Survived - The History of Depression: www.amazon.com/How-Sadness-Survived-Evolutionary-Depression/dp/1846190134
Claudia Clare: claudiaclare.co.uk
The Thin Black Line: lubainahimid.com/portfolio/the-thin-black-line
Jennifer Packer: serpentinegalleries.org/whats-on/jennifer-packer
Orange is The New Black: netflix.com/de/title/70242311
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Hosts Andrea Heinz, Elly Arrow, and Michelle Abel return for a continued (part 2) conversation on language. In this episode, they cover colloquial terms for men who exploit women in prostitution, including âjohn,â âclient,â âsex buyer,â and moreâŠ
Links
To listen to Pt. 1 look for âWords Matter: Language and the Sex Industryâ
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This episode contains discussions of mental health, suicide and violence that may be disturbing to some listeners.
Our host Sabrinna speaks to Angela and Dottie about surviving prostitution in New Zealand, the factors that lead women into the trade, the coping strategies they develop, and the scars they live with after exiting. Their 3 experiences cover the period before, during, and after the transition from prohibition to so-called âfull decriminalizationâ laws, often touted as creating a reasonably safe and humane sex industry but really doing anything but.
Further Reading:
Germany + New Zealand - A Comparison in Prostitution Laws
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Our host Andrea Heinz interviews sexual recovery therapist Paul Lavergne, discussing the evolution of pornography, eroticized rage, compulsive sexuality, introspection, and course correction. Paul draws from personal experience and clinical practice.
Links
Paul Lavergneâs therapy practice TurningPoint4Me
Paul Lavergneâs YouTube channel
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All the information provided through Red Light Exposé is published in good faith and solely for general information and educational purposes. It is not in any way intended to serve as a substitute for professional advice. The views represented in this episode do not necessarily represent the views of other Red Light Exposé hosts or the group as a whole. Red Light Exposé makes no representations or warranties of any kind or in any form, whether express or implied, about the completeness, timeliness, reliability, availability, validity, suitability, and accuracy, or guarantee that there will be no losses, errors, and omissions with respect to the information, or content contained in any episode.
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Our host Elly Arrow interviews Yeonhwa Gong about the reality of prostitution in South Korea. They also touch on exploitation and misogyny in the KPop/KDrama entertainment industry, spycam porn (aka "molka"), extreme beauty culture, womenâs protest movements including the 4B movement and the right-wing backlash.
Links
Yeonhwa Gongâs Twitter
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Our hosts Sabrinna and Elly Arrow interview Ed (aka Crayon Murders) who is an expert on the allegations of human trafficking against Andrew Tate and his brother Tristan, currently unfolding before Romanian courts, with further cases pending. We discuss the details of the allegations, the misinformation campaign around them, and how sex work ideology - as well as Conservative tradwife ideals - helped groom the alleged victims. We also touch on the influence of the Tates on boys and young men, the outpouring of support for the brothers by right-wing influencers, and what we can do about this horrible social trajectory thatâs underway as a result.
Links
Crayon Murders Twitter
Crayon Murders YouTube
MilkBarTV YouTube
Research on sex buyersâ willingness to report in Germany, Netherlands, UK, Europe
Gang tattoos in the prostitution context
Quotes by German sex buyers witnessing trafficking
Fundraiser for legal cases of UK alleged victims
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Our host Andrea Heinz interviews Neil Getzlow, an outspoken former sex buyer trying to get the message out that prostitution stems from and leads to nothing but dysfunction.
Links
Neil Getzlowâs website
Neil Getzlowâs podcast âUnmaskedâ
Neil Getzlowâs book âUnmaskedâ
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Our hosts Andrea Heinz and Elly Arrow go into the nitty-gritty of established methods to make prostitution safer (panic buttons, cameras, "client lists", appeasement strategies, etc), how they routinely fail and at times even pose their own risks. Part 2 to last weekâs episode.
Links
German sex buyers faking their information during Covid-19
CEASE Canada
German sex buyer successfully sues woman for not giving him an orgasm
Safety advice for women in prostitution in Germany, in Italy, in New Zealand
Child sexual exploitation survivor Cyntoia Brown granted clemency after 15 years in prison for killing abuser in self-defense
Women get higher sentences for homicide of their partners despite many cases of self-defense, example of Helen Naslund
Elly Arrow reacting to sauna club brothel âParadiseâ TV report
700 shell companies, most of them brothels, laundering money in Canada
Study on femicide in the German prostitution industry
Elly Arrowâs additional analysis of German prostitution femicides
Melissa Farleyâs paper âBad for the Body, Bad for the Heartâ
Prostitution homicide rates in the U.S., in the U.K.
Linda MacDonald & Jean Sarson works on Non-State Torture
Elly Arrowâs YouTube video on Legal Torture in Prostitution
German prostitution survivor organization âNetzwerk Ellaâ founded by scholar, PhD student, writer & survivor activist Huschke Mau
The Equality Model approach to prostitution that we support
Comparing Germany & New Zealand's prostitution policy
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All the information provided through Red Light Exposé is published in good faith and solely for general information and educational purposes. It is not in any way intended to serve as a substitute for professional advice. The views represented in this episode do not necessarily represent the views of other Red Light Exposé hosts or the group as a whole. Red Light Exposé makes no representations or warranties of any kind or in any form, whether express or implied, about the completeness, timeliness, reliability, availability, validity, suitability, and accuracy, or guarantee that there will be no losses, errors, and omissions with respect to the information, or content contained in any episode.
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Our hosts Andrea Heinz and Elly Arrow lay out why prostitution legalization fails to stop men from committing robbery, rape, and murder and doesn't shield women from chronic dissociation, trauma and harm.
Links
Andrea Heinz & Kathy King's book: "When Men Buy Sex, Who Pays"
Statistics about sex buyers in Germany
Statistics about women in prostitution in Germany
Safety advice for women in prostitution in Germany, in Italy, in New Zealand
Femicide in the German prostitution industry
German sex buyer quotes revealing a violent environment
Women in prostitution taking HIV-PrEP
German prostitution survivor Huschke Mau's blog
Comparing Germany & New Zealand's prostitution policy
The reality of open prostitution in communities like Holbeck, Leeds, UK
Andrea Heinz's paper: "A Mule for the Patriarchy: Waking Up to the Harm of Prostitution to Wives and Families"
Woman in legal German brothel (later busted for trafficking) says she's happy she can say no sometimes when she couldn't previously
German retired police detective gives insight into the criminal nature of the industry
"The Myth of the Safe and Privileged High-Class Hooker"
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Disclaimer:All the information provided through Red Light Exposé is published in good faith and solely for general information and educational purposes. It is not in any way intended to serve as a substitute for professional advice. The views represented in this episode do not necessarily represent the views of other Red Light Exposé hosts or the group as a whole. Red Light Exposé makes no representations or warranties of any kind or in any form, whether express or implied, about the completeness, timeliness, reliability, availability, validity, suitability, and accuracy, or guarantee that there will be no losses, errors, and omissions with respect to the information, or content contained in any episode.
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Our hosts Savannah Severn, Merly à sbogÄrd and Sybil Jo discuss the reality behind the glamorous veneer often put on "sugar dating" and why everyone involved is so invested in pretending that it's not prostitution (when it clearly is).Links:Forbes article about "sugar relationships".
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Our hosts Andrea Heinz, Michelle Abel and Elly Arrow discuss the language we use in regards to the sex industry. Where did common terms come from, what about the myriad slurs and what might be language to use instead if we seek to highlight power differentials, exploitation and emphasize dignity for exploited people?
Links:
â Andrea's book "Why Men Buy Sex"
Robert Jay Lifton's writing on cults
Children referred to as "sex workers" by governments, lobby groups, NGO
Maggie McNeill calling exploited children "underage wh0res"
Bettina Flitner's photo series of sex buyers in Germany
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All the information provided through Red Light Exposé is published in good faith and solely for general information and educational purposes. It is not in any way intended to serve as a substitute for professional advice. The views represented in this episode do not necessarily represent the views of other Red Light Exposé hosts or the group as a whole. Red Light Exposé makes no representations or warranties of any kind or in any form, whether express or implied, about the completeness, timeliness, reliability, availability, validity, suitability, and accuracy, or guarantee that there will be no losses, errors, and omissions with respect to the information, or content contained in any episode.
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Porn researcher Dr. Gail Dines joins our hosts Elly Arrow and Roxie Roots, who is a survivor of the porn industry,â to talk about the impact of modern internet porn on young people and sexual culture, the reality of recruitment into the industry and treatment of women on set, the mechanism behind OnlyFans and what the future may hold in regards to AI porn.
Linksâ Dr. Gail Dines Website
Dr. Gail Dines NGO "Culture Reframed"
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Disclaimer:All the information provided through Red Light Exposé is published in good faith and solely for general information and educational purposes. It is not in any way intended to serve as a substitute for professional advice. The views represented in this episode do not necessarily represent the views of other Red Light Exposé hosts or the group as a whole. Red Light Exposé makes no representations or warranties of any kind or in any form, whether express or implied, about the completeness, timeliness, reliability, availability, validity, suitability, and accuracy, or guarantee that there will be no losses, errors, and omissions with respect to the information, or content contained in any episode.
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Casandra Diamond joins our host Andrea Heinz to share her journey through the commercial sex industry and how it led her to fight the licensing of brothels and successfully push for Equality Model legislation in Canada.
Links
Casandra's Ted Talk
Casandra's NGO BridgeNorth
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