Episodes
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This episode is filled with candid and empowering discussions. From debunking societal norms on female desire to unraveling the mysteries of sexual compatibility, no question is off-limits.
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Welcome to our podcast where we dive into some of the most pressing and intriguing questions related to love, sex, and relationships. In this episode, we tackle some of the most common questions that people have when it comes to intimacy and pleasure.
Have you ever wondered why you can't seem to reach orgasm with your partner? Or maybe you're struggling with falling back in love with your first love even though you're married. How about the age-old question of why some partners won't go down on their significant other? And let's not forget about the issue of coming too fast, which can be frustrating and embarrassing for some.
Finally, we explore the phenomenon of getting turned on by people who aren't our partners, and the delicate issue of wanting to go to a sex club when your partner doesn't.
So, sit back, relax, and get ready for a fun and enlightening discussion on all things love, sex, and relationships!
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I'll be answering your questions and discussing how to talk to your partner about sex when you don't want it, the pros and cons of being a boss in your life and submissive sexually, and how to get rid of the shame and guilt you may feel after kinky sex.
Plus, we'll tackle how to "make" your partner more open-minded and spice things up, how to handle "regrets" after "settling down", and where to find a partner that will prioritize your pleasure. Come on in and let's get started!
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Every two weeks I love to bring you the answers to your questions:
Whether you're struggling with a sexless marriage, learning how to stimulate a circumcised versus an uncircumcised penis, introducing new toys to your bedroom, or dealing with body insecurity, I'm here to help.
Tune in as I provide frank and honest advice to get you back to enjoying a healthy and pleasurable sex life.
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Welcome to this episode of my podcast! In this episode, I am going to answer four questions that many of us have been asking:
Can men have sex for two hours?
What tips can femme doms and male subs use?
Is it okay to have a relationship with a second cousin?
Is it ok to cry during sex?
What if I have less experience than my partner?
How can we sustain erections naturally?
How can you navigate kink and non-monogamy with herpes?
So, don’t miss out on this episode and join me as I answer these questions and explore the possibilities of pleasure!
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Join me as I discuss the ins and outs of giving and receiving orgasms, how to identify and navigate romantic and platonic feelings, and when to know you're ready for an open relationship.
From tips on anal sex to understanding the normalcy of different levels of sexual activity, I'm here to provide guidance and advice on all your orgasmic questions.
Buckle up and get ready to explore the depths of sex, pleasure, and relationships in an open and honest way.
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Welcome to my podcast episode on sex and kinks! We're going to explore all the naughty bits you've been wanting to know more about.
Join me as I answer all the burning questions you've been too embarrassed to ask publicly: is there such a thing as being 'too horny'? How to explore kink without a partner? What's the difference between being attracted to someone and being transphobic? How do you share your preferences without insulting others? Is self-pleasure for women bad?
We'll also talk about traps, different types of sex, the power dynamics of attraction, and so much more! Don't miss out on this wild and informative episode!
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This episode dives into the tricky world of relationships, sex and desire. We explore the questions of:
- how to approach a situation when you're not turned on by your partner and don't feel the same level of desire.
- how to prioritize comfort over performance, and how to explore different implements of impact play.
- effects of porn on sexual performance and the importance of self-reflection and honest conversations with your partner.
Lastly, we look at the myth that dimples above the ass guarantee explosive orgasms - so don't be fooled!
Join us for an engaging conversation on sex, desire and relationships.
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We're back and looking to crack open the conversation around sex!
In this episode, I share where I've been over the past 6 months and what we will explore in Season 3!
Glad to be back and glad to have you along for the ride.
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Nicolle Hodges is a unique blend of philosopher, practitioner, and facilitator of deep human connections.
From interviewing men in bubble baths on what it means to be a man to curating events for women to experience BDSM as a healing modality to writing books on the female orgasm in Dr. Seuss style Nicolle is not your average woman. I call her a sexual superhero.
In this episode, we explore what is on the other side of sexual shame, the immense power of community, what eroticism actually is, the challenge with consent, and BDSM as an avenue for healing and connection.
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There is so much jampacked into this episode. You might want to take notes. Heather is a sex educator, therapist, and coach. In her work, she aims to start practical conversations while honouring the complexity of the world around them. Heather's also the person that I turn to when I need support. She is a brilliant mind, a beautiful human, and as straightforward, honest, and funny as they come.
In this episode, we discuss what Heather deals with in her private practice and how to go from a vanilla sex life to a kinky sex life.
We cover:
- Making a safe space for pleasure
- Discomfort does not equal a lack of safety
- Solo sexuality are you putting all the pressure on your partner?
- The value of emotional safety when exploring sex
- How to create a container of surrender where
your partner can just relax
And so much more. If you want to get more Heather in your life... and who doesn't you can follow her on Twitter @misshc and on Instagram @heymisshc.
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Have you ever been tied up or tied someone up? Or maybe just curious about it. This week we have expert tier, Anastasia shares about the world of Shibari.
Shibari is the act of tying up a person for aesthetic purposes— in a pretty or intricate pattern, typically by using some form of rope. And while shibari can be used for sexual pleasure, it's also used as a form of meditation, relaxation, and trust-building practice between two partners.
In this week's episode, Anastasia share's the different sides of shibari and what it can provide for people. From an act of self-care to full body suspension whatever piques your interest it's in this episode.
Learn what type of communication is necessary if you're the tier or the model, explore what trust looks like, the art of aftercare and untying, and understand the types of rope to use. We cover all the bases.
You can follow Anastasia @voudouropes and you can access her course here, and check her out on youtube here.
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Are you curious about what happens behind the dungeon door? Do you want the inside scoop on what the life of a Dominatrix is really like?
This week Lady Pim generously shares the ins, outs, and nuances of being a professional pleasure/pain/fantasy collaborator and provider.
If you've ever wondered...
What does a dominatrix do when she's having a rough day and doesn't want to go to work?
What does a great day at work look like?
How do you vet clients?
How do you navigate between personal relationships and work?
What does safety look like?
We get into it all this week! So enjoy and get ready to use your safe word ~ kidding.
Lady Pim is a Professional Dominatrix at The Ritual Chamber, Toronto. You can book a session at https://theritualchamber.ca/lady-pim.
And you can follow her fire socials:
@theladypim1 on Twitter@theladypim on Instagram
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If you're curious about kink and what it takes to create a really healthy power exchange relationship..... Kathleen tells all from her early mistakes and missteps to her current D/s dynamic.
In this episode, you will learn how to spot red flags from far away, how to avoid the most common pitfalls submissives make, how to set boundaries with your Dom, how to find other play partners to join you and your partner, how to deal with people who kink shame you and so much more.
Kathleen has taught extensively in the fields of sexuality studies and health policy at Western University, Queen’s University, University of Toronto, and Trent University. And we were so thrilled to have her as a guest!If you want to take our relationship to the next level come hang out with me on Instagram @drdewit
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Carlyle Jansen is a sex therapist (RP) and the founder of Good For Her, a sexuality shop and workshop centre in Toronto. She is the author of Sex Yourself, a book on self-pleasure for cis-women, and Anal Sex Basics, a guide to anal pleasure for folks of all genders. And so much more...
In this episode, Carlyle shares how she went from being terrified of a penis to becoming both an anchor and beacon of sex positivity in Toronto and North America.
If you're curious about having "sex worth wanting" and the steps to create it, what a Feminist Porn Award is and how to start an International Porn Festival, to a sex toy shop hires employees, to wondering if sex is a skill or a natural gift this is the episode for you.
You can find her and her store at goodforher.com or carlylejansen.com.
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Have you ever met someone that appears to have lived several lives in one lifetime? Shirley Rivers is one of those magical people.
In this rollercoaster of an episode, Shirley shares the highs and lows of her personal journey and how she used that to propel her professional success. From a Gynecologic Teaching Associate to a Midwife to providing training to private medical providers, medical schools,
VA Hospitals, universities, and rape centers around the world.
This week we cover:
What it takes to learn how to orgasm after 38 years of marriage?
How to advocate for your sexual health?
The dangers of toxic sexuality.
The most interesting lunch hour of my entire life!
For more information, Shirley can be reached at [email protected].
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Have you been unhappy with your vagina? Or has your vagina ever been unhappy with you? Don't worry, it's OK. Adrienne is the Yoni Nutritionist! A Certified Holistic Nutritionist and Sex Educator with a passion for women’s health.
In this week's episode, we talk about the importance of nutrition and holistic lifestyle practices to maintain their vaginal health and help them manage and eliminate symptoms of chronic vaginal infections.
We take on disclosing to partners, shame and advocating for your own sexual health.
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Have you been silenced by just a look? Were you taught to speak up for yourselves in all areas except sex? Did your parents shield you from sex?
In this episode join me as I talk with Shelley Dee about how, as a Catholic daughter to Indian-Goan parents, she's navigated her sexual journey with lots of twists, turns and laughs along the way.
Shelley's Podcast "Just Out Of Curiosity with Shelley Dee" is coming May 2022.
And if you want to transform your relationship with sex the Sex Life Unleashed Academy is open for enrollment in June. You can join the waitlist at www.sexlifeunleashed.com/waitlist. -
Thanks for joining me for Season 1. I couldn't have done it without you! Through 15 episodes I've learned and grown a lot and I hope you have too.
Taking a break to focus on two passion projects:
The free masterclass "A Great Sex Life has Very Little to do with Sex: 4 Myths That Are Sabotaging Your Sex Life (and what to do instead)" that you can sign up for here.
And launching the Sex Life Unleashed Academy 12 week online program that you can sign up for here.
Look for Season 2 to be coming back late March.
Until we meet again, remember the more we understand about ourselves and each other, the less we have to fear, the more love is here. So here's to happy days and living a sex life unleashed! -
You may be stuck.... Like millions of other people.
But you don't have to stay stuck!
In this episode I do a deep dive into the benefits you can personally reap from working on your sex life beyond just better sex.
I distilled the most common life-altering changes that clients consistently experience in their life.
I share how working on your sex life actually sends ripples throughout your entire life. Being a more confident, authentic, and happy person can dramatically alter how you interact with the world around you.
The waitlist for the sex life unleashed academy is now open.
If you want to transform your sex life in 12 weeks and want to be the first to know about the program click on the link sexlifeunleashed.com/waitlist - Montre plus
