Episodes
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As fun as kinky sex can be, it can also be incredibly intense and leave us with some physical and psychological repurcussions. Aftercare is all about minimizing the potentially negative reactions we may have. While it is a predominantly kink-centric practice, anyone engaging in any sexual activity can benefit from proper aftercare, so this episode is for everyone!
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The third and final installment of my interview series on the trans experience with my special guest. This week we discuss how to be a better ally and how to respond to trasnphobia. Happy Pride!
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A continuation of last week's interview on the trans experience. This week we break down some common myths and misconceptions. My guest also discusses her frustration with the no-win situation of navigating being a trans woman in a cis-het society that seems to think she's never doing it right.
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An interview with a special guest about her experience as a tran woman. Part 1 covers how she came to the conclusion she was trans and her experience with her religious family. She also talks about being the "token trans friend" in some friend groups and briefly touches on disclosure in dating.
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Biological backgrounf of how sex organs become differentiated in the embryonic stages and comparing how male and female organs are formed differently. Moving on to discuss the clitoris and vaginal canal, different types of orgasms, and different types of stimulation.
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Some common abuse tactics that can be hard to recognize before it feels like it's too late. Discussed: gaslighting, love bombing, and control &isolation. What they look like individually, as well as how they are used together to maniuplate someone into staying in an abusive relationship.
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The sequel to last week's discussion on herpes. Hear about dating with herpes, disclosure and the personal experiences of my guest!
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Join me as a I chat with my friend who has herpes. In this episode we dive into some mythbusting, stigma, and some of the medical side of dealing with herpes. Tune in next week to hear more about disclosure and dating with herpes.
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Further discussin how shame can play a huge part in stifling our sexuality and the harm it can lead to, even when we don't realize it.
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A dive into the important difference between shame and guilt. This episode looks at examples of shame, why it doesn't work, and some examples of what we can do to move past shame.
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A reading of my most recently published paper on monogamy and non-monogamy. This paper can be found in the Canadian Journal of Family and Youth. It explores why monogamy is considered the default relationship and some alternative dynamics.
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A discussion around some relationship makers and deal breakers sent in by listeners, why these might be placed in these categories and a special shout out to my older brother and his new wife!
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What is perception? Why are we so quick to judge other people? How do people judge us? Tune in to find out why we judge others, and why others perceptions of us shouldn't matter as much as they do
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An exploration of what burnout is, some contributing factors, possible outcomes and how to prevent burnout. Added is a discussion on how to recognize burnout in others and the best course of action to assist them.
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This week's episode is your sign to start edging out of your comfort zone. It includes some research, recent personal examples, and encouragement for you!
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What to look for, what to do, how to get tested and treated and why you shouldn't feel ashamed when it comes to sexually transmitted infections.
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So often we get caught up in cursing ourselves for our past or getting caught up in the hustle of achieving our ideal future that we forget to acknowledge everything we have already achieved. Today's episode is about taking those moments to celebrate progress and cherish our current lives.
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A lot of us have some sort of trauma from past relationships, whether that be cheating, crossing boundaries, abuse, etc. So how do we stop projecting these things onto new relationships and work passed triggers? That's what I explore in today's episode.
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I asked other members of the LGBTQIA+ communities what Pride Month means to them and why it's so important. This is what they had to say. (I will not be posting an episode on January 5, but encourage everyone to find podcasts done by Indigenous creators.)
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A brief examination of some big points in history that helped us get to the point where we are now at. This episode largely focuses on gay men and drag, but acknowledges it is only a small look at some of the expansive history of these communities.
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