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  • If you're a man OR you have a husband or boyfriend looking for resources to heal a man and step into greater levels of freedom and healing in your/their mindsets and emotions, then check out Spencer's new men's program:
    https://www.spencer-robbins.com/

    To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by copying & pasting this link into your browser:
    https://www.yourheartfree.com/optin1718387116823

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more: https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch

    EPISODE DESCRIPTION

    Join us as we embark on a heartfelt journey of embracing change and letting go, reflecting on our recent decision to move to a new home on Maui. We open up about the emotional and financial aspects of leaving behind our beloved sanctuary, the first home we lovingly renovated and owned together. With a contingent offer accepted, we face the excitement and uncertainty of downsizing, all while grappling with the grief and attachment that comes with leaving a place that has meant so much to us. Through this transition, we share insights on focusing on what truly matters for our well-being and the lessons learned from life's unpredictable changes.


    Listen in as we discuss the importance of trusting God's timing and sovereignty, especially during moments of uncertainty that can feel like abandonment. We explore how finding delight in the Lord, regardless of fulfilled desires, helps maintain stability amidst life's challenges. Drawing parallels between our relationship with God and that of a parent and child, we emphasize the significance of steadfast faith and inner healing. By sharing personal experiences, we highlight how to nurture hope and joy through spiritual and emotional growth, even when life's desires remain unmet.


    We also touch on the healing power of intimacy with God and the need to release idols that hinder our spiritual journey. By prioritizing our relationship with Jesus and creating space for spiritual connection, we find fulfillment beyond logic or external sources. We offer practical tools for deepening your spiritual life, from setting aside dedicated time for reflection to practicing gratitude. Join us in this conversation about embracing change, trusting divine timing, and finding healing through a closer relationship with God.

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    (0:00:05) - Embracing Change and Letting Go
    (0:11:08) - Trusting God's Timing and Sovereignty
    (0:20:27) - Healing Through Intimacy With God
    (0:24:25) - Release of Idols for Intimacy
    (0:35:33) - Creating Space for Intimacy With God


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    (0:00:05) - Embracing Change and Letting Go
    Transitioning to a new home on Maui due to financial reasons and adapting to changes in the digital advertising landscape.

    (0:11:08) - Trusting God's Timing and Sovereignty
    Finding delight in God during uncertainty, trusting His wisdom, and maintaining hope and joy through spiritual and emotional growth.

    (0:20:27) - Healing Through Intimacy With God
    Maintaining faith in God while waiting for life changes, avoiding unrealistic expectations, finding security in Jesus, and nurturing intimacy during seasons of waiting.

    (0:24:25) - Release of Idols for Intimacy
    God at center, freedom in Christ, thankfulness, dangers of entitlement, blessings reflect God's generosity, detachment from material desires brings joy.

    (0:35:33) - Creating Space for Intimacy With God
    Prioritize spiritual connection with Jesus, create margin for reflection, surrender desires, and find joy in the present moment.

  • If you're a man OR you have a husband or boyfriend looking for resources to heal a man and step into greater levels of freedom and healing in your/their mindsets and emotions, then check out Spencer's new men's program:
    https://www.spencer-robbins.com/

    To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by copying & pasting this link into your browser:
    https://www.yourheartfree.com/optin1718387116823

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more: https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch

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    What if the hustle and bustle of daily life is keeping you from a deeper connection with God? Discover the transformative power of fasting as we explore its profound impact on our spiritual journey. We reflect on our experiences, emphasizing the importance of creating space in our crowded lives for intentional connection with God. This episode promises insights into how fasting can turn routine moments into opportunities for spiritual growth, drawing inspiration from the teachings of Isaiah 55 and the life of Jesus.
    Uncover the art of creating margin by subtracting distractions and focusing on meaningful connections.

    By letting go of habits like excessive TV watching and constant phone use, we share how we've been able to carve out more time for personal reflection and a deeper connection with God. Through personal stories, including a surprising real estate success, we illustrate how fasting not only calms the chaos but also opens the door to unexpected blessings and clarity. By embracing quiet and reducing distractions, we learn to be more present with ourselves and God.

    Explore the dynamics of discipline, intentionality, and the true essence of sacrifice. We delve into the balance between immediate temptations and long-term spiritual goals, emphasizing the significance of aligning our actions with our core identity. We also discuss the profound experience of spiritual awakening and the role of life coaching and support communities in this journey. As we conclude, we invite you to join our growing community, engage on social media, and share the blessings of this spiritual exploration with others. Your support means the world to us, and we're grateful for your continued engagement.

    EPISODE CHAPTERS

    (0:00:05) - Fasting and Connection With God
    (0:03:37) - Creating Margin Through Intentional Connection
    (0:11:26) - Discipline, Intentionality, and Identity
    (0:15:23) - Sacrifice, Intentionality, and Awakening
    (0:19:26) - Spreading the Message


    EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS

    (0:00:05) - Fasting and Connection With God
    Fasting as a way to connect with God amidst busy schedules, aligning with Isaiah 55 and Jesus' example.

    (0:03:37) - Creating Margin Through Intentional Connection
    Fasting can eliminate distractions, foster connection with oneself and God, and lead to unexpected blessings and clarity.

    (0:11:26) - Discipline, Intentionality, and Identity
    Discipline and intentionality protect desires and vision, with examples of saying no and sacrificing for spiritual growth.

    (0:15:23) - Sacrifice, Intentionality, and Awakening
    Coming out of dissociation and spiritual awakening, quieting down and focusing on God, distinguishing discipline from sacrifice, life coaching and support communities.

    (0:19:26) - Spreading the Message
    Share and connect on social media, gratitude for support, shorter format promised, stay tuned for engaging content.

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  • If you're a man OR you have a husband or boyfriend looking for resources to heal a man and step into greater levels of freedom and healing in your/their mindsets and emotions, then check out Spencer's new men's program:
    https://www.spencer-robbins.com/

    To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by copying & pasting this link into your browser:
    https://www.yourheartfree.com/optin1718387116823

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more: https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch

    What to expect in this episode!

    Years ago, during a particularly rough patch in our marriage, Sammy and I realized that vulnerability was not a sign of weakness, but a gateway to deeper connection and healing. This episode is our invitation to you to explore vulnerability's transformative power in relationships and personal growth. We open up about the fears that often come with being vulnerable, like rejection and shame, especially when you hold a position of leadership. You'll hear how embracing vulnerability has enriched our marriage and business, and why we believe that finding security in God's love helps us take emotional risks without fear of judgment.

    Navigating the intricate dance of vulnerability and emotional expression can be challenging, particularly in a world that often favors transparency over depth. We discuss the barriers many face when trying to connect authentically, drawing on personal stories to highlight the need for safety and reciprocity. From friendships to dating and marriage, we touch on how different relationships handle vulnerability and the role of mutual understanding. With a nod to biblical stories that illustrate love's power to foster openness, we reflect on finding balance between sharing openly and guarding our hearts.

    Leadership and content creation add another layer of complexity to vulnerability, a theme we explore with humor and candor. Whether managing the nuances of public speaking or crafting engaging material, the balance between authenticity and personal boundaries is crucial. As we share insights from our journey, from building trust in covenant relationships to protecting our emotional well-being, we emphasize the importance of creating safe spaces for vulnerability. This episode isn't just about our experiences; it's about the universal quest for genuine connection and the courage it takes to be truly seen and understood.

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    (0:00:00) - Exploring the Power of Vulnerability


    (0:06:18) - Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships


    (0:17:31) - Navigating Vulnerability With Disarming Conversations


    (0:22:30) - Levels of Vulnerability in Relationships


    (0:37:21) - Building Covenant Relationships With Trust


    (0:40:32) - Protecting Vulnerability as a Leader


    (0:43:38) - Protecting Heart in Vulnerability


    (0:51:36) - Creating Safe Spaces for Vulnerability


    (0:58:14) - Responding With Love and Truth


    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ---------

    (0:00:00) - Exploring the Power of Vulnerability
    Vulnerability's transformative power in relationships and connection with God, overcoming fears and distinguishing between vulnerability and transparency.

    (0:06:18) - Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships
    Vulnerability, societal teachings, and the transformative power of love in sharing emotions in relationships.

    (0:17:31) - Navigating Vulnerability With Disarming Conversations
    Reciprocity, safety, and disarming language are important in acknowledging and validating emotional needs in relationships.

    (0:22:30) - Levels of Vulnerability in Relationships
    Vulnerability and emotional health in relationships, self-awareness, and owning emotions for deeper connections.

    (0:37:21) - Building Covenant Relationships With Trust
    Covenant relationships foster trust and security, empowering individuals to take risks and balance vulnerability and self-protection.

    (0:40:32) - Protecting Vulnerability as a Leader
    Vulnerability and leadership, safeguarding vulnerability, challenges of being a leader, and nurturing a secure environment.

    (0:43:38) - Protecting Heart in Vulnerability
    The challenges of being a content creator, finding balance between transparency and self-protection, and the importance of guarding one's heart.

    (0:51:36) - Creating Safe Spaces for Vulnerability
    Recognize and address different needs in relationships, emphasizing attachment and being a safe and supportive listener.

    (0:58:14) - Responding With Love and Truth
    Acknowledging emotions with empathy and compassion, inspired by Jesus' example, in informal and relatable conversation.

  • If you're a man OR you have a husband or boyfriend looking for resources to heal a man and step into greater levels of freedom and healing in your/their mindsets and emotions, then check out Spencer's new men's program:
    https://www.spencer-robbins.com/

    To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by copying & pasting this link into your browser:
    https://www.yourheartfree.com/optin1718387116823

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more: https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch

    Here is what you get to look forward to in this week's podcast:
    What if the key to true freedom lies not in overcoming adversity but in embracing it? Join us as we uncover the profound insights of Steve Petermeier, a celebrated spiritual mentor and coach, who helps individuals worldwide discover their identities and achieve liberation. We dive into the remarkable journey of personal growth, from the unpredictable moments of purchasing a home right before the 2008 housing crash to the transformative experience of embracing fatherhood. Steve and I discuss the power of genuine connections and how engaging meaningfully with others can heal past wounds and foster personal evolution.

    Listeners will be inspired by stories of resilience and transformation, like that of Paul, a vibrant 72-year-old who embodies openness and vulnerability as pathways to a joyful, expectation-free life. Through heartfelt reflections, we explore how life's challenges, such as addiction and self-worth struggles, catalyze personal growth. We also delve into the nuances of finding God amid unexpected challenges, illustrating the shift from fear-based perceptions to understanding divine goodness and support, even in times of struggle.

    The conversation deepens as we explore the essence of emotional and spiritual liberation. From breaking free from the perceived need for control to rediscovering intimacy with God, we examine the journey of men overcoming addiction, the importance of truthfulness, and how faith can transform lives. Through personal anecdotes and biblical insights, we underscore the significance of embracing uncertainty and maintaining a sense of adventure in both personal and professional spheres. Ultimately, this episode is a powerful reminder that all God truly desires is to be with us, inviting us to live fully alive and free.


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    (0:00:01) - Life Coaching and Spiritual Mentoring
    (0:04:44) - Journey of Transformation and Redemption
    (0:09:38) - Navigating Life's Transformative Challenges
    (0:15:57) - Finding God in Unexpected Challenges
    (0:21:33) - Embracing God's Love Amid Struggles
    (0:32:57) - Facing Truth for Transformation
    (0:39:25) - Learning to Trust God in Uncertainty
    (0:46:28) - Discovering Freedom From Control
    (0:55:50) - Rediscovering Intimacy With God


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    (0:00:01) - Life Coaching and Spiritual Mentoring
    Personal growth, fatherhood, and mentorship are discussed, along with overcoming struggles and the importance of genuine connections.

    (0:04:44) - Journey of Transformation and Redemption
    Listening to others' beliefs and experiences, we explore personal growth and transformation, inspired by openness and vulnerability.

    (0:09:38) - Navigating Life's Challenges
    Personal and professional growth, real estate business struggles, and adapting to changes in life and success.

    (0:15:57) - Finding God in Unexpected Challenges
    Surrender, humility, and God's goodness in the face of challenges and suffering, and navigating complex relationships with God and our earthly fathers.

    (0:21:33) - Embracing God's Love Amid Struggles
    Divine love and grace are always present, even in times of failure and sin, and can be experienced through imagination and emotional connection.

    (0:32:57) - Facing Truth for Transformation
    Men seeking freedom from porn addiction find truth and vulnerability key to personal and spiritual growth.

    (0:39:25) - Learning to Trust God in Uncertainty
    Transformation, self-discovery, identity, faith, trust, and letting go of control for a fulfilling life.

    (0:46:28) - Discovering Freedom From Control
    Marketing can reduce people to numbers, but faith and surrender can lead to a fulfilling life.

    (0:55:50) - Rediscovering Intimacy With God
    Ministry struggles, seeking validation and proving worth, burnout, performance-based faith, returning to first love, finding contentment in God's desire to be with us.

  • If you're a man OR you have a husband or boyfriend looking for resources to heal a man and step into greater levels of freedom and healing in your/their mindsets and emotions, then check out Spencer's new men's program:
    https://www.spencer-robbins.com/

    To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by copying & pasting this link into your browser:
    https://www.yourheartfree.com/optin1718387116823

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more:
    https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch


    Navigating the intricacies of relationships has been a journey of growth and understanding for us. Initially, the contrast between Spencer's love for stability and my craving for spontaneity seemed insurmountable. Yet, it was through embracing these differences that we discovered a deeper connection. Join us as we recount personal stories from our marriage, showcasing how embracing each other's passions enriched our lives, and why identical interests aren't a prerequisite for meaningful connections.

    As we transitioned from the honeymoon phase to a more mature relationship, challenges inevitably arose. From balancing Spencer's focus on a stable future with my desire for adventure, to addressing unmet needs and differing priorities, our marriage has seen its fair share of struggles. Through open communication and mutual understanding, we've tackled issues of humor, attraction, and perceived rejection, navigating the complex journey of aligning our individual identities within our partnership. Our experiences underscore the importance of independence and self-fulfillment, allowing us to appreciate personal growth within the marriage.

    Marriage, for us, has been a vehicle for personal growth rather than just fulfilling personal preferences. We've learned the value of supporting each other's desires while maintaining our independence, fostering a connected yet secure partnership. By tackling personal triggers and emotions, we emphasize the importance of character and resilience in sustaining relationships. Our episode encourages listeners to explore their own triggers and embrace a higher power to meet their needs, fostering love and connection in their relationships.

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    (0:00:00) - Navigating Differences in Relationships


    (0:12:55) - Navigating Challenges in Marriage


    (0:20:54) - Navigating Growth and Unity in Marriage


    (0:30:07) - Navigating Relationships Through Growth and Connection


    (0:36:42) - Supporting Free Content Through Sharing


    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ---------

    (0:00:00) - Navigating Differences in Relationships
    Relationship dynamics, embracing differences, and misconceptions about compatibility in genuine connections.

    (0:12:55) - Navigating Challenges in Marriage
    Evolution of a relationship from infatuation to married life, navigating differences, challenges, and struggles with identity within the marriage.

    (0:20:54) - Navigating Growth and Unity in Marriage
    Independence, communication, and mutual understanding are crucial for a fulfilling marriage, as discussed through personal experiences and parental triggers.

    (0:30:07) - Navigating Relationships Through Growth and Connection
    Embracing love and openness in relationships for personal growth, character, and resilience, relying on a higher power.

    (0:36:42) - Supporting Free Content Through Sharing
    Support free content by sharing on social media, join Alive and Free Collective, and new program for men.

  • If you're a man OR you have a husband or boyfriend looking for resources to heal a man and step into greater levels of freedom and healing in your/their mindsets and emotions, then email [email protected]. We are about a week away from releasing our first men's coaching/community support offering.

    When I found myself drowning in self-doubt and shame, I never imagined that embracing my vulnerabilities would become my greatest strength. Join us in this heartfelt episode as we unpack the journey towards healthy masculinity and self-love, guided by the redemptive power of the cross. We challenge the toxic cultural narratives that trap men in cycles of shame and control, advocating instead for a path of self-acceptance and genuine healing.

    Our conversation navigates the intricate dynamics of strength and vulnerability within relationships, particularly focusing on men who feel overshadowed by strong women. Reflecting on personal experiences and spiritual teachings, we explore how true strength is revealed through humility, mutual respect, and making space for each other's growth. This episode is especially resonant for those raised in evangelical or Baptist traditions, where teachings on self-denial often conflict with a balanced sense of masculinity.

    In our final segment, we turn our attention to the transformative power of self-love and authenticity. Sharing candid stories of overcoming trauma and the pitfalls of seeking external validation, we highlight the importance of setting healthy boundaries and embracing self-compassion. We emphasize that true healing begins with unconditional love, leading to deeper connections and spiritual growth. Tune in as we celebrate the qualities of a healthy masculine presence and the journey towards emotional and spiritual well-being.

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    (0:00:00) - Healthy Masculinity and Self-Love
    (0:04:24) - Embracing Healthy Masculinity and Vulnerability
    (0:17:04) - Navigating Self-Love and Authenticity
    (0:21:37) - Embracing Self-Compassion and Growth
    (0:30:08) - Navigating Unconditional Love and Healing
    (0:38:40) - Navigating Masculinity and Addiction Recovery
    (0:47:26) - Investing in Healthy Masculinity
    (0:51:09) - Parenting With Self-Compassion and Empathy
    (1:00:37) - Seeking Help and Validation in Masculinity


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    (0:00:00) - Healthy Masculinity and Self-Love
    Overcoming personal struggles, healthy masculinity, and self-acceptance through a Christian lens in a culture of toxic masculinity.

    (0:04:24) - Embracing Healthy Masculinity and Vulnerability
    Exploring masculinity and strength in relationships, including struggles with insecurity and the concept of true strength.

    (0:17:04) - Navigating Self-Love and Authenticity
    Self-love, faith, healthy boundaries, connection, doubt, vulnerability, resilience, and authenticity on the journey towards self-acceptance.

    (0:21:37) - Embracing Self-Compassion and Growth
    Emotional and spiritual health, integrity in relationships, and genuine intention foster deeper connections.

    (0:30:08) - Navigating Unconditional Love and Healing
    Breaking free from self-destructive behaviors through unconditional love, challenging shame, and fostering genuine healing and change.

    (0:38:40) - Navigating Masculinity and Addiction Recovery
    Overcoming addiction involves addressing behaviors, emotional wounds, accountability, support systems, inner child healing, and healthy masculinity.

    (0:47:26) - Investing in Healthy Masculinity
    Masculinity and father figures are crucial for men, who often seek validation and guidance through mentors and coaches for personal and professional growth.

    (0:51:09) - Parenting With Self-Compassion and Empathy
    Leadership, mentorship, physical outlets, fatherhood, balancing discipline and understanding, and learning from overreacting to a child's behavior.

    (1:00:37) - Seeking Help and Validation in Masculinity
    Masculinity, validation, and personal growth are explored through seeking help and taking intentional action.

  • To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE.

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.

    Join us as we explore the profound journey of navigating life's uncertainties and trusting in God. This episode delves into the challenge of discerning God's voice amidst the fear of making wrong decisions and uprooting your life on impulse. We discuss the struggle between staying hopeful and the temptation to make things happen prematurely, drawing parallels with personal experiences and biblical narratives. We'll also touch on the emotional and mental shifts that come with motherhood, highlighting how these changes can impact one's spiritual journey.

    Through heartfelt conversations, we share insights on maintaining joy, hope, and trust in God, even when dreams and desires are delayed or redirected. Listen in as we discuss the importance of placing hope in Jesus rather than outcomes, and how to avoid falling into disappointment or hopelessness. Whether you're facing unmet expectations or waiting for answers, this episode offers encouragement and practical advice for staying connected to God's peace and presence in the midst of the unknown.

  • To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE.

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.

    How do you keep the spark alive in your marriage when you're completely exhausted by the demands of parenting, careers, and life itself? Join us as we share our personal journey of navigating emotional depletion and maintaining a thriving marriage. Drawing from years of counseling, coaching, and continuous learning, we discuss the importance of having a vision for your marriage and intentionally investing in your relationship amidst the chaos. With heartfelt reflections and real-life examples, we explore how to keep your connection strong, even when overwhelmed by responsibilities.

    Do you ever feel like your partner is to blame for your unhappiness? We delve deep into the concept of contempt in relationships and how it often stems from a desire to avoid feeling powerless. Learn how true love and vulnerability can break this destructive cycle and transform behavior. We'll share insights on how unconditional love can endure even when one partner feels disconnected, and the difference between true vulnerability and manipulation. By communicating without expectations, you can foster a more honest and loving relationship.

    Feeling stuck, sad, or disconnected in your marriage? Discover the importance of intentional daily acts of love and mutual effort in rebuilding connection. We'll highlight the necessity of addressing feelings of inadequacy and seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling. Explore the power of relentless prayer, creating boundaries, and maintaining faith even when one spouse isn't willing to grow. Through our personal experiences and the tools that have helped us maintain intimacy, we hope to bless and support your journey towards a loving and fulfilling marriage. Don't forget to check out our Alive and Free Collective for comprehensive courses and community support.


    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS ---------

    (0:00:05) - Navigating Depletion in Marriage
    (0:09:22) - The Deception in Marriage
    (0:17:35) - Building Connection and Love in Marriage
    (0:24:09) - Rebuilding Connection and Love in Marriage
    (0:37:16) - Restoring Marriage Through Prayer and Boundaries
    (0:44:50) - Nurturing Connection in Marriage


    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ---------

    (0:00:05) - Navigating Depletion in Marriage
    Navigating complexities of marriage while parenting and working, investing in connection and having a vision for a strong relationship.

    (0:09:22) - The Deception in Marriage
    Contempt in relationships stems from blaming others to avoid feeling powerless, but true love and vulnerability can break this cycle.

    (0:17:35) - Building Connection and Love in Marriage
    Proactive steps for emotional and spiritual health, mentorship, avoiding unrealistic expectations in relationships, and nurturing a connection with God.

    (0:24:09) - Rebuilding Connection and Love in Marriage
    Intentional daily acts of love, mutual effort, addressing inadequacy, seeking professional help, and prioritizing connection in marriage.

    (0:37:16) - Restoring Marriage Through Prayer and Boundaries
    Relentless prayer, boundaries, finding identity in Christ, addressing triggers, and seeking support for struggling marriages.

    (0:44:50) - Nurturing Connection in Marriage
    Nature's beauty in marriage, finding balance, staying connected through highs and lows, sharing personal journey and tools, expressing gratitude, and supporting our community.

  • To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE.

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.

    In this episode, we discuss the profound qualities of compassionate coaching that goes beyond surface-level fixes and addresses the root causes of behavior, while sharing heartfelt appreciation for the impact of learning from others’ experiences.

    Join us as we unravel the complex emotions tied to healing and unconditional love. Hear about the challenges of overcoming false beliefs and the hesitation to seek help due to a sense of self-sufficiency rooted in faith. We draw parallels between investing in professional guidance and financial coaching, emphasizing the wisdom of humility and surrender in pursuing personal growth. Witness how discomfort and pain can drive significant breakthroughs, and learn about the meticulous process of finding the right mentor or coach who offers more than just reflective listening.

    In our discussion on the coaching industry, we highlight the ethical standards necessary for effective coaching and contrast it with traditional therapy. Discover Coach Launch, our program designed to equip coaches with essential tools for genuine transformation, and learn about the importance of addressing deep-seated issues rather than just symptoms. We also touch on inner child work and integrating spiritual elements into the healing process, introducing the Alive and Free Collective as an affordable resource for continuous personal development. Don't miss this episode if you're ready to elevate your coaching journey and find holistic growth.

    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS ---------

    (0:00:00) - Qualities of a Good Coach
    (0:12:15) - Breaking Free From Surviving to Thriving
    (0:25:37) - Choosing the Right Mentor or Coach
    (0:31:18) - Navigating the Coaching Industry
    (0:35:49) - Avoiding Coaching Mishaps and Finding Support
    (0:42:34) - Mastering Coaching With Coach Launch


    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ---------

    (0:00:00) - Qualities of a Good Coach
    Overcoming dyslexia through brain exercises and trauma healing, investing in leadership and coaching, and the importance of safe and effective coaching.

    (0:12:15) - Breaking Free From Surviving to Thriving
    Overcoming false beliefs, seeking professional help, and embracing discomfort and humility for personal growth.

    (0:25:37) - Choosing the Right Mentor or Coach
    Choosing a mentor involves referrals, guidance, and confronting personal issues within a growth-minded community.

    (0:31:18) - Navigating the Coaching Industry
    Coaching empowers personal growth, but lacks regulation. Coach Launch trains coaches to address root causes and provide comprehensive support.

    (0:35:49) - Avoiding Coaching Mishaps and Finding Support
    Personal biases in coaching, finding the right therapeutic approach, integrating spirituality, and seeking ongoing personal development through the Alive and Free Collective.

    (0:42:34) - Mastering Coaching With Coach Launch
    Coach Launch equips you with tools for coaching business, including methods, boundaries, LLC formation, tax documentation, and client management.

  • To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE.

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.

    What if your current relationship struggles are deeply rooted in past experiences of rejection and abandonment? Join us as we uncover the profound impact of childhood wounds on our adult lives. Through deeply personal stories, we shed light on how unmet expectations and feelings of being left out by friends can trigger recurring rejection and how recognizing these triggers can be the first step towards healing. We even touch on the sensitive topic of porn addiction, revealing its significant effect on relationships and self-worth.

    Ever wondered why childhood abandonment leaves such a lasting mark on our relationships? We'll share personal anecdotes of feeling abandoned during critical childhood moments and discuss how this unresolved pain shapes our expectations and behaviors today. By turning these emotional triggers into opportunities for growth, you can build stronger, healthier connections. Additionally, we highlight a fascinating aspect of human behavior—how some individuals in ministry might use kindness as a shield against rejection.

    After having a baby, the dynamics of attachment can become more complex. We explore the oscillation between anxious and avoidant behaviors that new parents may experience, and the necessity of reevaluating attachment wounds for greater security. We emphasize the importance of radical ownership over one's rejection wounds and the powerful role of God's unconditional love in this healing journey. Join us as we discuss how to foster meaningful connections grounded in personal worth and compassion for others' broken attachments.


    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS ---------

    (0:00:00) - Understanding Rejection Wounds and Abandonment
    (0:03:30) - Healing Childhood Abandonment Through Relationships
    (0:16:35) - Navigating Attachment After Having a Baby
    (0:22:04) - Healing Rejection Wounds and Ownership
    (0:30:52) - Navigating Values in Relationships
    (0:35:44) - Taking Ownership in Healing Attachment
    (0:39:37) - Healing Past Wounds and Inner Child


    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ---------

    (0:00:00) - Understanding Rejection Wounds and Abandonment
    Personal experiences with rejection and abandonment, unmet expectations in relationships, and the impact of porn addiction on connections.

    (0:03:30) - Healing Childhood Abandonment Through Relationships
    Childhood abandonment and emotional wounds impact adult relationships, leading to unrealistic standards and control mechanisms.

    (0:16:35) - Navigating Attachment After Having a Baby
    Disorganized attachment can impact relationships, especially after becoming a parent, leading to oscillating behaviors and a need for healing.

    (0:22:04) - Healing Rejection Wounds and Ownership
    Healing from rejection and abandonment, taking ownership of emotions, creating security in relationships, and finding worth and truth in oneself.

    (0:30:52) - Navigating Values in Relationships
    Honest communication, mutual values, porn addiction, self-worth, rejection wounds, and God's unconditional love in personal relationships.

    (0:35:44) - Taking Ownership in Healing Attachment
    Taking ownership of rejection wounds, healing attachment systems, and building meaningful connections through vulnerability and compassion.

    (0:39:37) - Healing Past Wounds and Inner Child
    Self-awareness and emotional health are crucial in relationships, as we must heal our own wounds and avoid placing expectations on others.

  • To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE.

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.

    Have you ever wondered if saving sex for marriage is worth the wait? This episode confronts the normalization of premarital sex and contrasts it with the values of purity and intimacy within marriage, particularly among 20-somethings and 30-somethings. Through interviews and societal debates, we explore the idea of "test driving" a relationship before committing and examine the emotional and spiritual impact of these choices. Hear personal stories that underscore the importance of valuing oneself and one's partner by embracing purity and unshared intimacy.

    Maintaining purity in today's world is no small feat. Through a heartfelt anecdote about a friend's well-meaning offer to teach about sex, we navigate the pressures and challenges of upholding personal values.

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    (0:00:20) - Sex Before Marriage
    (0:13:21) - Navigating Boundaries and Purity in Relationships
    (0:22:44) - Understanding Shame, Forgiveness, and Attachment
    (0:30:26) - Boundaries and Sexuality in Relationships
    (0:39:00) - Releasing Shame and Finding Forgiveness
    (0:45:18) - Building Character Through Boundaries
    (0:58:35) - Embracing Holiness in Marriage


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    (0:00:20) - Sex Before Marriage
    Examining the normalization of premarital sex, valuing purity and intimacy in marriage, and the importance of saving oneself for a future partner.

    (0:13:21) - Navigating Boundaries and Purity in Relationships
    Personal values and boundaries surrounding premarital sex, societal pressures, and emotional impact of not honoring one's values.

    (0:22:44) - Understanding Shame, Forgiveness, and Attachment
    Understanding unconditional love and forgiveness, valuing sexual purity, and the impact of spiritual connections on emotional well-being.

    (0:30:26) - Boundaries and Sexuality in Relationships
    Love, boundaries, and heart change are crucial for fulfilling relationships, while casual sex undermines trust and intimacy.

    (0:39:00) - Releasing Shame and Finding Forgiveness
    Intimacy's impact on relationships, getting to know someone beyond physical intimacy, risks of unintended pregnancies and STDs, and God's forgiveness and renewal.

    (0:45:18) - Building Character Through Boundaries
    Childhood trauma, unhealthy validation-seeking, self-control, integrity, building strong relationships, boundaries around sexuality, accountability to true identity in Christ.

    (0:58:35) - Embracing Holiness in Marriage
    Marriage and faith bring joy, intimacy, and freedom, leading to transformation and forgiveness, as seen in a former OnlyFans top earner's story.

  • To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE.

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.

    How do you keep faith alive when your dreams seem to be falling apart? This episode tackles that very question as we respond to a listener's heartfelt plea for guidance after facing health crises, failed businesses, and career dissatisfaction post-marriage. We share personal stories that highlight the importance of maintaining hope, caring for your heart, and fostering connection amidst ongoing adversity. By providing practical tools and encouragement, we aim to show that healing and reconnection are not only possible but within reach for everyone feeling stuck and hopeless.

    Ever wonder about the balance between striving for your dreams and surrendering to a higher plan? Our discussion sheds light on this tension with biblical insights, focusing on the story of Abraham and Sarah. We'll explore the consequences of taking matters into our own hands versus trusting in God's timing, emphasizing the necessity of resting in His promises. We illustrate how placing hope in Jesus, rather than in the fulfillment of our desires, can lead to a more profound sense of peace and fulfillment, even when the journey feels impossible.

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    (0:00:05) - Navigating Pain and Restoring Hope
    (0:12:06) - Trusting God's Promises Through Surrender
    (0:18:24) - Deepening Trust Through Intimacy and Healing
    (0:29:50) - Learning to Thrive in Relationships
    (0:36:57) - Navigating Financial and Relational Healing
    (0:44:19) - Growth Through Financial and Relational Hardship
    (0:53:35) - Financial Wisdom and Relationship Priorities
    (0:57:16) - Prioritizing Intimacy in Marriage


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    (0:00:05) - Navigating Pain and Restoring Hope
    A couple shares their journey of facing challenges in marriage, emphasizing hope, self-care, and faith amidst adversity.

    (0:12:06) - Trusting God's Promises Through Surrender
    Exploring the tension between striving for dreams and surrendering to God's will, using biblical parallels to illuminate the journey of faith and trust.

    (0:18:24) - Deepening Trust Through Intimacy and Healing
    Faith, vulnerability, and emotional healing are explored, emphasizing genuine connection with God and the role of safe relationships in addressing childhood traumas.

    (0:29:50) - Learning to Thrive in Relationships
    Material wealth and social media portrayal can lead to emptiness; finding true satisfaction through God, overcoming envy, and supporting each other in marriage.

    (0:36:57) - Navigating Financial and Relational Healing
    Navigating personal and professional challenges through faith, self-reflection, and bold decision-making, with guidance from leadership and reliance on divine guidance.

    (0:44:19) - Growth Through Financial and Relational Hardship
    Honesty, self-love, and trust in God's guidance lead to personal and financial growth during challenging times.

    (0:53:35) - Financial Wisdom and Relationship Priorities
    Investing in relationship through financial and emotional support, seeking external counsel, and prioritizing quality time together.

    (0:57:16) - Prioritizing Intimacy in Marriage
    Understanding masculine needs, healing wounds, prioritizing marriage, and embracing vulnerability for personal growth and strong relationships.

  • To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE.

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.

    Ever felt like running away during an argument with your partner? Imagine if those moments could become opportunities for deeper connection and personal growth instead.

    This episode unpacks the art of navigating conflict in relationships, from understanding emotional triggers to approaching disagreements with empathy and ownership. We explore the pitfalls of suppressing emotions and the harm caused by dumping pain onto others, highlighting the vital role of self-awareness and emotional intelligence, especially within marriage.

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    (0:00:01) - Navigating Conflict in Relationships
    (0:13:55) - Navigating Conflict Resolution and Emotional Regulation
    (0:17:17) - Navigating Trauma Responses in Relationships
    (0:31:12) - Cultivating Love Through Conflict
    (0:39:55) - Navigating Conflict With Love and Humility
    (0:47:35) - Confrontation and Building True Connection
    (0:53:29) - Navigating Conflict and Personal Growth


    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS ---------

    (0:00:01) - Navigating Conflict in Relationships
    Master the art of conflict and confrontation with self-awareness, empathy, and ownership for deeper connections and healing in marriage.

    (0:13:55) - Navigating Conflict Resolution and Emotional Regulation
    Humility and emotional regulation are key to resolving conflicts, understanding patterns and triggers, and approaching conflicts with love and connection.

    (0:17:17) - Navigating Trauma Responses in Relationships
    Emotional triggers and defense mechanisms in relationships, influenced by past trauma, can lead to intense reactions and avoidance behaviors.

    (0:31:12) - Cultivating Love Through Conflict
    Marriage involves love, growth, and communication, and should reflect God's love and prioritize each other without punishment.

    (0:39:55) - Navigating Conflict With Love and Humility
    Handling emotional triggers and conflict in relationships through spiritual guidance and personal responsibility leads to deeper intimacy and true commitment.

    (0:47:35) - Confrontation and Building True Connection
    Learning to handle conflict with emotional intelligence and maturity through honest communication and mutual respect.

    (0:53:29) - Navigating Conflict and Personal Growth
    Self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and adaptability are crucial for healthy relationships and setting boundaries in friendships.

  • To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE.

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more.

    So for this episode, we received a question from our friend Kristina asking how to step into revival and seeing the kingdom manifested on earth in the midst of being a busy mom.

    But this is an amazing question and it reminded us of how difficult it has been in our lives to figure out the same thing.

    It’s easy to feel shame about not praying for people and sharing the message of Jesus. It’s easy to stoop into apathy.

    But how can we embrace revival without it becoming just another performance? Especially in busy or apathetic/complacent seasons?

    We discuss this AND we share some recent miracle testimonials we experienced while praying for people in our city.

    Join the conversation today!

    --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS ---------

    (0:00:01) - Navigating Revival and Identity in Christianity
    (0:09:24) - Challenging Theology and Experiencing God
    (0:15:01) - Miracles and Testimonies in Everyday Life
    (0:26:15) - Embracing Miracles in Daily Life
    (0:31:23) - Navigating Church Hurt and Spiritual Integrity
    (0:37:39) - Cultivating Family Revival and Connection
    (0:41:23) - Stirring Faith Through Testimonies
    (0:54:24) - Surrendering to God's Greater Plan


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    (0:00:01) - Navigating Revival and Identity in Christianity
    The hosts share their experiences from ministry school, discussing revival, spiritual practices, and authenticity in their faith journey.

    (0:09:24) - Challenging Theology and Experiencing God
    Overcoming burnout and reconnecting with ministry, experiencing God's power and dealing with unanswered prayers.

    (0:15:01) - Miracles and Testimonies in Everyday Life
    Miracles affirm Jesus' divine authority, emphasizing the power of God's kingdom and the importance of being open to His guidance.

    (0:26:15) - Embracing Miracles in Daily Life
    Openness to divine opportunities, transformative power of prayer, and trusting in God's power to work through us.

    (0:31:23) - Navigating Church Hurt and Spiritual Integrity
    Balancing miracles and emotional health in church, transformative experiences, disillusionment with ministry, need for holistic faith.

    (0:37:39) - Cultivating Family Revival and Connection
    True revival starts in the family through emotional health, strong relationships, and connection with God.

    (0:41:23) - Stirring Faith Through Testimonies
    Challenges of maintaining spiritual fullness and seeking community, accepting each season's purpose, and consuming faith-building content.

    (0:54:24) - Surrendering to God's Greater Plan
    Spiritual intimacy, clinging to traditions, and trusting in God's guidance are discussed through personal stories and parallels to the Israelites' journey.

  • Check out our new emotional health membership for women called The Alive & Free Collective. It has monthly coaching with Sammi and Spencer, Monthly calls with experts and Q&A, access to all emotional health courses and a vault of over 50 trainings from experts, an exclusive fb community, and all for $47/mo. https://www.yourheartfree.com/aliveandfreecollective for more info!

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch to learn more....

    Description: We've been getting so many questions on instagram and through our email from you guys asking about Sammi, life updates, how she's navigating motherhood, how she's staying connected to herself and God in the midst of huge transition....

    So...

    I (Spencer) wanted to spend this podcast episode just asking Sammi those questions as well as some vulnerable questions of my own...

    It ended up being a really cool episode!

    Sammi shared how it has been super difficult to stay connected to herself and God in this season and what she's doing in those little margin moments to connect.

    She shares her journal process that she's used for the last 10 years.

    If you are facing any difficult or challenging circumstances in this season and you want to experience a rich connection with your heart and with the heart of God, check out this episode!

    Thanks for listening.

    Also, check your email for updates on our newest emotional health resource for women: The Alive & Free Collective.

  • Check out our new emotional health membership for women called The Alive & Free Collective. It has monthly coaching with Sammi and Spencer, Monthly calls with experts and Q&A, access to all emotional health courses and a vault of over 50 trainings from experts, an exclusive fb community, and all for $47/mo. https://www.yourheartfree.com/aliveandfreecollective for more info!

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch to learn more.

    Ever feel completely out of control?

    Trying hard to hold onto something? Praying for specific outcomes to God? Frustrated because you feel very little certainty?

    How do you get to a place of surrender when you feel those things?

    Sammi and I have an honest dialogue about considering moving, changing businesses, changing life directions and we end up having a deep chat about surrender and trusting God with what's next.

    If you haven't felt clarity in your life or you have struggled with surrender, take the time to listen to this week's episode.

    please check out our courses at www.aliveandfreeconsulting.com

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    (0:00:01) - Navigating Life and Relationships With Authenticity
    (0:05:09) - Navigating Surrender and Decision Making
    (0:16:54) - Trusting in God for Home Transition
    (0:23:28) - Longing for Security and Surrender
    (0:36:38) - Journey of Surrender and Healing
    (0:50:22) - Leave a Review for Impactful Episodes


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    (0:00:01) - Navigating Life and Relationships With Authenticity
    Personal growth, marriage, and spirituality are explored through candid discussions on control, provision, and trusting God's timing.

    (0:05:09) - Navigating Surrender and Decision Making
    Balance between waiting on spiritual guidance and taking decisive action, trusting in divine timing and valuing connection over direction.

    (0:16:54) - Trusting in God for Home Transition
    Internal struggle with self-worth, trusting in a higher power, financial recovery, and holding material possessions lightly.

    (0:23:28) - Longing for Security and Surrender
    Personal struggle between home ownership and spiritual surrender, entrepreneurship and social media metrics, and creating authentic content aligned with personal values.

    (0:36:38) - Journey of Surrender and Healing
    Encounter with Jesus at the well, living water, nurturing next generation, relinquishing control, healing fears through God's love.

    (0:50:22) - Leave a Review for Impactful Episodes
    Reflect on our discussions, leave a review, share with a friend, and find additional resources for healing and aiding others.

  • Check out our new emotional health membership for women called The Alive & Free Collective. It has monthly coaching with Sammi and Spencer, Monthly calls with experts and Q&A, access to all emotional health courses and a vault of over 50 trainings from experts, an exclusive fb community, and all for $47/mo. https://www.yourheartfree.com/aliveandfreecollective for more info!

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch to learn more.

    This is an episode of the Alive & Free podcast that we just absolutely loved, although we might have had just a bit of a vulnerability-hangover afterwards.

    We all have seasons or circumstances in our lives that drain our capacity for anything else.

    But how can we still own our pain, not blame our loved ones, and fight for deep connection?

    In this episode, We take you through the trials and triumphs of raising our son, Wilder, and the toll it takes on sleep, sanity, and our relationship. Parenting is far from perfect, and we're here to share our journey through the sleep-deprived nights and the joyous moments that make it all worth it. More importantly, we open up about how we've managed to stay connected, even when it feels like everything is falling apart.

    Listen in as we tackle the intimate aspects of postpartum life, including the changes in our sexual dynamics after Wilder's arrival. We get candid about the challenges of maintaining intimacy, Spencer's past struggles with lust, and how we've navigated our desires and needs in the midst of newfound parenthood. It's a conversation that sheds light on the emotional complexities of a relationship in transition, and how we've found fulfillment and connection beyond just the physical.

    This is an episode for both men and women. If you don't get actionable steps and help from this episode, at the very least, you will feel understood at deep levels of your painful and difficult seasons.

    For info on our inner healing course for men and women, you can find more details at https://www.yourheartfree.com/comealivecourse/

    For info on our life coaching and business school, go to https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/go


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    (0:00:01) - Navigating Parenthood
    (0:12:34) - Navigating Postpartum Intimacy Challenges
    (0:24:44) - Navigating Pain, Compassion, and Selflessness
    (0:36:10) - Navigating Challenges in Marriage and Motherhood
    (0:48:11) - Navigating Hard Times Together


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    (0:00:01) - Navigating Parenthood
    Our honest reflection on marriage, parenthood, and raising a high-needs baby, including struggles and triumphs, personal growth, and spiritual walk.

    (0:12:34) - Navigating Postpartum Intimacy Challenges
    Postpartum challenges, managing sexual needs, and enduring pain and growth in different seasons of our relationship.

    (0:24:44) - Navigating Pain, Compassion, and Selflessness
    Validating personal pain in relationships, self-compassion, and spirituality's role in healing and connection.

    (0:36:10) - Navigating Challenges in Marriage and Motherhood
    Balancing family, work, and marriage while relying on non-family child care can impact attachment, boundaries, and intimacy.

    (0:48:11) - Navigating Hard Times Together
    Compassionate commiseration, self-care through spirituality, and embracing vulnerability for healing during tough times.

  • Check out our new emotional health membership for women called The Alive & Free Collective. It has monthly coaching with Sammi and Spencer, Monthly calls with experts and Q&A, access to all emotional health courses and a vault of over 50 trainings from experts, an exclusive fb community, and all for $47/mo. https://www.yourheartfree.com/aliveandfreecollective for more info!

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch to learn more.

    Join us for a heartwarming conversation with Sam Cabra, a pastor from Reunion Church, as we explore the depths of our spiritual journeys and the quest for authenticity in our relationship with God.

    In this episode, you'll discover the transformative power of personal encounters with the divine, moving you beyond intellectual understanding into the realm of experiential faith. We tackle the challenging task of reconciling the images of God from the Old Testament with the loving figure of Jesus, and engage with touching stories of healing, miracles, and the pursuit of a deeper connection with our Creator.

    Our dialogue with Pastor Cabra offers profound insights into the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding our faith and decisions, and how embracing the concept of God as 'Abba, Father' can enrich our spiritual lives. Hear about moments that defy logic and challenge the balance between faith and reason, inspiring a renewed openness to the charismatic gifts of the Spirit.

    This conversation is an invitation to reflect on the humility and growth that come from our personal experiences with God, and how they can navigate us through trauma, skepticism, and towards a genuine embrace of His presence. Wrapping up, we contemplate the delicate dance between taking action and patiently waiting on God's timing.

    The heart and the Holy Spirit emerge as central guides in this journey, leading us to trust in the wisdom within us. As you join us on this episode, we trust you'll be inspired to recognize the joy that stems from a true, loving connection with God, and to appreciate the balance between self-reliance and divine surrender. Don't miss the opportunity to have your heart stirred towards a deeper, more authentic faith.

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    (0:00:01) - Navigating Relationship With God and Authenticity

    (0:10:43) - Encountering God's Healing Presence

    (0:15:49) - Encountering Miracles and Spiritual Growth

    (0:28:11) - Deep Dive Into Spiritual Growth

    (0:39:44) - Fatherhood and the Holy Spirit

    (0:43:48) - Trusting Your Heart in Faith

    (0:48:14) - Trusting in God and Self

    (0:57:56) - Gratitude for Podcast Support

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    (0:00:01) - Navigating Relationship With God and Authenticity Experiencing God's presence, reconciling Old Testament image with Jesus, creating space for personal encounter to understand His goodness.

    (0:10:43) - Encountering God's Healing Presence Spiritual experiences can heal trauma, bypass conventional communication, and challenge traditional religious expectations.

    (0:15:49) - Encountering Miracles and Spiritual Growth Divine intervention, humility, skepticism, and healing through prayer and ministry are explored through transformative experiences. (0:28:11) - Deep Dive Into Spiritual Growth Jesus's actions reflect God's nature, offering choices and challenging individuals to let go of pride and find fulfillment in their soul and love.

    (0:39:44) - Fatherhood and the Holy Spirit The Holy Spirit helps us see God as a loving father, transforming our beliefs and behaviors through encountering His love.

    (0:43:48) - Trusting Your Heart in Faith God's word, heart's deepness, old vs. new covenants, trusting our hearts, Holy Spirit's guidance, genuine desires for joy and love.

    (0:48:14) - Trusting in God and Self Trusting God in decision-making, balancing action and waiting, and staying connected to Him through life's challenges.

    (0:57:56) - Gratitude for Podcast Support Nature's discussions on language, culture, and perception, and the importance of ratings and reviews for our work.

    To learn more about what Sam is doing in church or in his ministry school:

    Reunion Church: www.reunionhawaii.com

    Kingdom Living ministry school: www.kingdomlivingoahu.com

  • Check out our new emotional health membership for women called The Alive & Free Collective. It has monthly coaching with Sammi and Spencer, Monthly calls with experts and Q&A, access to all emotional health courses and a vault of over 50 trainings from experts, an exclusive fb community, and all for $47/mo. https://www.yourheartfree.com/aliveandfreecollective for more info!

    To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to https://www.thecoachlaunch.com/watch to learn more.

    If you've been a christian long enough and attended church for long enough, the chances are high that you have been hurt by a person or a leader...

    So what do you do with that?

    And what is a healthy way to go about church community?

    Should we just attend and serve? Is it wrong to "church shop"? Should we just honor leaders no matter what?

    We get very vulnerable with our process in this episode as well as build a case for how we believe church community should be done.

    Hope you enjoy the episode!