Episodes
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Why do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners.
Youâll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or inconsistency, and how to break the cycle. Together, weâll uncover the deeper connection between self-worth and the types of partners we attractâand how healing our inner patterns can transform our love lives.
Weâll also dive into practical strategies for recognizing emotionally available partners and redefining what chemistry means in a way that aligns with your long-term goals for love. If youâre ready to move beyond the surface and attract a partner who shows up with kindness, consistency, and vulnerability, this episode is for you!
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How do you show genuine interest in someone without feeling like youâre giving away all your power? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the delicate balance between authenticity and maintaining confidence in dating. Youâll learn how to express your enthusiasm and stay true to your nature while setting healthy boundaries that keep you grounded and respected.
Weâll debunk the myths about âplaying hard to getâ and the idea that men only âlike to hunt,â offering practical strategies for communicating with clarity and strength. Whether youâre texting first, showing excitement, or navigating mixed signals, this episode is your guide to fostering real connection without compromising your self-worth.
If youâve ever second-guessed yourself or felt insecure when interest wasnât immediately reciprocated, this episode will empower you to stay confident, intentional, and in control.
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Conscious Relationships are about being a space for two people to grow together but what rate of growth is truly acceptable?
When someone says they want to change and become better but the change doesn't seem to be happening very quickly, how much time and space should we really give? What kinds of things should we tolerate and what other things are truly deal breakers?
This is such a confusing dynamic, especially when it's clouded by strong feelings for someone and a sincere desire to see the relationship go somewhere. It can be so easy to give a person way too many chances.
On the other hand, when we are too reactive and unwilling to be empathetic about someone's human limitations, it can be really easy to call out problems and leave a relationship that did have real potential had we been open to working on it.
This episode offers a clear guide to navigating these confusing dynamics and identifying true potential early on so you can invest your energy in a relationship that can truly become something great!
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It can be so confusing when the fire that had effortlessly pulled us together in the beginning starts to fade and the relationship no longer feels the same anymore.
When our partner no longer shows the attentiveness and affection that they did in the beginning and the love that made the relationship worth it in the first place feels like it's dying and no matter what we do, we can't seem to get it back.
At this point, we start to question the relationship and wonder why we're even in it. We imagine what might be available for us outside of the relationship and think that, with the right person, that spark may never fade.
But the fact is, the spark will always fade as our relationship outgrows the initial stages and to reclaim the depth and passion we want with our partner, we have to grow into a new phase together.
This episode serves as a guide for navigating these stages of growth together and building a love that can truly last. Happy listening <3
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If youâre feeling exhausted by the idea of starting over, navigating the dating pool, or investing in relationships only to face uncertainty or pain, youâre not alone.
In this episode, we explore how romantic setbacks can leave you questioning whether itâs worth it and offer practical insights on how to stay open to love without compromising your healing or peace of mind. Join me as we discuss strategies for overcoming emotional exhaustion, setting new relationship standards, and reigniting joy and vitality within yourself, regardless of relationship outcomes.
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In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive deep into the journey of healing after heartbreak. Whether youâre reeling from a recent breakup or still processing old wounds, this conversation offers insight into how to move through the pain and emerge even stronger. Shane Kohler explores the emotional process of letting go, the hidden growth opportunities within heartbreak, and the essential steps to build a more secure, empowered sense of self.
Youâll learn how heartbreak can become a catalyst for profound personal transformationâpushing you to cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, security, and resilience. Shane also shares strategies to stop seeking external validation, so you can create space for authentic love to enter your life. Tune in for a heart-centered, compassionate dialogue designed to help you heal, grow, and step into the next chapter with confidence.
If youâre ready to turn your pain into power, this episode is for you.
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In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, weâre diving deep into a topic that touches so many women on a personal levelâhealing the wounds created by the unhealthy masculine. Throughout history and personal experience, women have often been left carrying emotional scars from unhealthy masculine energy, whether it stems from family, romantic relationships, or societal conditioning.
While there are countless good men out there, these unhealed wounds can keep you stuck in patterns of mistrust, fear, or disconnection, making it hard to recognize and be open to healthy male energy when you encounter it. But healing is possible.
Join me as I guide you through a step-by-step exploration of how to begin healing these wounds. Weâll discuss how past experiences with unhealthy masculinity affect your current relationships, and Iâll share tools and insights on how to reclaim your sense of safety, trust, and worth. This is about stepping into a place of empowerment, where youâre able to recognize and attract the kind of love you truly deserve.
Donât miss this essential conversationâtune in and start your journey toward healing, wholeness, and conscious love.
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In this episode we explore the attributes that define a woman who is deeply attuned to her personal growth, emotional intelligence, and authentic self-expression.
Drawing from universal spiritual principles and practical experience, we outline the key characteristics that enable a woman to cultivate meaningful connections and embody true love. From self-awareness and vulnerability to emotional resilience and compassion, we discuss how these traits not only enhance her relationship with others but also deepen her relationship with herself.
Whether youâre single and seeking love or in a committed relationship, this episode serves as an empowering guide for women who want to elevate their consciousness and foster deeper, more fulfilling partnerships and men who are seeking a conscious partner.
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Let's dive deep into the essential qualities that define a conscious man.
In this episode, we explore the attributes that empower men to build authentic connections, embrace vulnerability, and foster healthy relationships.
We're clearly defining the qualities that not only enhance personal growth but also contribute to more fulfilling partnerships. Whether youâre a man looking to bring forth your highest self or a woman seeking a conscious partner, this episode is packed with insights to inspire deeper connection and growth.
Join in on this riveting discussion about what it means to truly embody conscious masculinity!
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In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional wounds that shape our need to be chosen in relationships. Whether itâs from childhood abandonment, rejection, or feeling unworthy, many of us carry unresolved pain that drives us to seek validation through being selected by a partner. This unconscious desire to be chosen often leads to unhealthy dynamics, where we sacrifice our needs or stay in unfulfilling relationships out of fear of rejection or being alone.
Weâll explore how these early wounds, often tied to mother or father wounds, create a cycle of approval-seeking behavior. Instead of choosing relationships based on mutual respect, growth, and shared values, we end up prioritizing external validation. This need to be chosen reinforces the idea that love is something earned, rather than something we consciously choose and co-create.
Through healing these core wounds and embracing self-worth, we can begin to reclaim our power in relationships. Weâll discuss how developing self-awareness and practicing self-love allows us to let go of the need for external approval and make intentional, conscious choices in love. By choosing from a place of wholeness and authenticity, we can attract healthier, more balanced relationships that nurture personal growth and connection.
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Most women say they want to experience a strong masculine presence from their man and most men say they want to experience the warm, gentle feminine presence from their woman, yet we struggle so much to receive this from each other.
In dating, many women feel that it's almost impossible to have men step up and bring the strength and security they seek from the masculine while men feel that women are too protective and guarded, limiting the warmth of the feminine.
In our long term relationships this dynamic becomes even worse. We get caught up in the doingness of life, the sexual polarity between us dies and resentment builds as we feel our deepest relational needs are not being met.
However, by simply understanding the core needs of the masculine and feminine and knowing how to meet them, we can inspired this presence from our partners and the people we date.
Men become more masculine when their core masculine needs are being met and the same is true for women. It's simply when this part of ourselves is not protected and validated that we lose touch with it and as we learn to do that for others, we invite them to do the same for us.
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Most of us want more from our lives and relationships. We want to experience more magic, passion, and vitality.
And while we are craving for more, we are often living in a state of mind and body that feels jaded, heavy, disconnected and alone.
The pain that we've experienced in the past paints a bleak picture of the future and while, on some level, we hope to have a life that reflects our dreams one day, filled with passionate love and deep connection, that vision often feels far away and we struggle to believe in it.
Yet miracles are possible and everything can change in an instant but first, we must create the space in our lives to allow them in.
This episode tells you exactly how to do that. Enjoy :)
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This episode invites you to explore the profound difference between love that is authentically expressed and the fear-based behaviors that often masquerade as love in relationships.
We dive deep into what genuine love looks likeâhow it nurtures, heals, and strengthens the bonds between partners. Conversely, we examine the manipulative tactics and survival strategies that arise from fear and insecurity, leading to power struggles and disconnection.
This episode is a journey toward understanding how to cultivate relationships based on true connection, trust, and mutual respect, moving beyond the patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional turmoil. Tune in to discover how to transform your relationships by embracing the true nature of love.
And thanks for listening.
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If you've experienced patterns of unfulfilling love in your life, this episode will offer you some important insight.
When we are looking for love, we are often tuning into subtle cues that reflect our past pain. Believe it or not, this is often what generates our attraction to people.
Sometimes, we are not seeking fulfilling love but rather we are seeking someone with whom we can play out these past patterns, someone who will create in us the familiar feelings of loss or longing that we've known throughout our lives.
Unconsciously, we associate these feelings with love and when we meet someone who doesn't create these feelings in us, the resulting experience is a lack of attraction or interest.
In this episode, I'm explaining the subconscious dynamics of how this operates and sharing practical steps you can take to heal this.
Thanks for listening, lots of love,
Shane
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If you've been feeling like there aren't a lot of commitment-ready men out there, I hear you.
Men crave connection and they want commitment just as much as women do but they have a very different process of getting there.
While women have often been encouraged to seek relationship and commitment from a very young age, men have often been encouraged to do the exact opposite and when they've expressed their sensitivity and need for love it's often been regarded as weakness and met with ridicule.
Still, the raw need for connection lives within every man and when a woman can create a safe space for him to express this vulnerable need, he will often fall in love and commit to her for life.
In this episode, I'm sharing how to do that.
I hope you enjoy it, and thanks for listening.
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Understanding polarity is a profound conversation that gives us insight into attraction, sexuality, intimacy, and how relationships can develop in healthy ways and also toxic ways.
The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is at the core of how we relate with each other, it drives our attractions, it informs our highest actions and also our lowest impulses.
I hope you enjoy this episode and that it helps you understand how to attract the ideal partnership you're seeking, deepen the intimacy in your existing relationship, and foster the highest good for all your relationships.
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Click here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love Feminine power is an uncomfortable thing in our world. Women are afraid to use it because of the intense backlash they get when they do and men are afraid to experience it because it shines a light on their unconscious insecurities. Yet, conscious love can only be experienced in a relationship where the feminine power is expressed and honored by both partners. This means there is healing that needs to happen for both men and women. This episode will reveal the journey to healing for all people and show women how to embody more of their feminine power and men to heal in the presence of it.
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Connection is a fundamental human need and we are in a crisis of it! Most of us struggle to feel deeply connected and most of our relationships are surface level and don't meet our deepest needs.
In dating, we struggle to bridge the gap and feel genuinely connected to the people we date and many of us in long term relationships feel completely disconnected from our partners.
We struggle to feel seen, heard, understood and truly known by the people we love most, by the people we need to be most connected to.
This episode will give you clear guidance on how to bridge the gap and make deeper connections in the dating world and beyond.
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What is a conscious relationship and what makes it different from any other relationship?
Today is Fatima and I's four year wedding anniversary, going on 8 years together, and we've learned a lot about this topic through our various adventures and challenges!
In this episode, I'm sharing our story of creating and sustaining the conscious love we have today. The good, the bad and the ugly!
Whether you are single or in a relationship, your journey to conscious love starts right now! There is never a time when you are not creating it and this episode is going to give you the clearest representation of that journey that I've ever recorded.
I had a lot of fun putting this one together and I hope you can share some laughs and some feels as you hear the story.
Much Love <3
Shane
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Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love Most of us don't realize how much power we actually have to move a relationship in the direction we want it to go! When a relationship isn't meeting our needs, many of us are likely to play manipulative games, withhold love, fawn and pander, some of us even going so far as to lie, cheat, or end the relationship altogether simply because we don't know how to communicate in a way that will motivate our partner to step up for us. Whether you're getting to know someone new or with your partner of many years, if you're not practicing clear, direct, and powerful communication with them, you're inviting resentment, disconnection, and a lack of intimacy to grow between you. By using simple communication tools we can open up a new world of connection in the relationships that mean the most to us or the new relationships we're building and in this episode, I'm sharing how to approach these conversations in a way that leads to the results we all crave from our love lives. This is a powerful conversation about creating true depth and intimacy with those we love or those we hope to love in the near future. Enjoy :)
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