Episodes
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Guest time! Welcome Junie Moon to the show. She is a Global Love Mentor, author, speaker and a Certified Shadow Work Coach. Her superpower is helping people unpack their past and move onto a better future. Discussions of the movie Ghost, unpack and heal from the past, risk manager, hopelessness, space junk and dating research. This is not an episode to miss, men and women. It was a fun podcast. Like a couple of friends having coffee. Thanks Junie, Jersey Gurl!
Topics of:
Fend off the Saber cats
Long term relationships
Relationship blueprint exercise
Fear of rejection and not being wanted
Let’s therapize David!
It’s a new chapter
Do the work
Release the past
We are not taught to do relationships well
Wired to stay safe
Next level love
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In this episode of Divorce Devil, David and Rachel delve into the complexities of co-parenting and blended family dynamics. They discuss the challenges of introducing new partners into the parenting equation, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of open communication. The conversation highlights the need for respect and understanding among all family members, emphasizing that both parents and children must navigate their roles thoughtfully. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to take ownership of their situations and strive for better relationships within their blended families. It probably won’t be a very Brady Bunch this Christmas!!
Takeaways:
Co-parenting requires clear boundaries and agreements.
New partners can complicate parenting dynamics.
Communication is essential in blended families.
Respect must be earned, not given.
Disrespect from children can be a significant issue.
Self-care is crucial for parents in new relationships.
Finding common ground is vital for family harmony.
Taking ownership of your role in family dynamics is necessary.
It's important to address issues before they escalate.
Navigating blended families requires patience and understanding.
Sound Bites:
"You can't let the feral kids screw up your relationship."
"The two people in the relationship have to have agreement and boundaries."
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In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the complexities of co-parenting after divorce, sharing both positive experiences and challenges. With concentrating on 5 negative and 5 positive things that involve co-parenting, they emphasize the importance of communication, understanding children's perspectives, and maintaining boundaries. The conversation highlights the emotional struggles parents face and the need to prioritize children's well-being over personal grievances. Through personal anecdotes, they provide insights into effective co-parenting strategies and the significance of loving children more than harboring resentment towards an ex-partner.
Takeaways:
Co-parenting requires a shift in mindset from spouses to co-parents.
Effective communication is crucial for successful co-parenting.
Children's emotional well-being should be prioritized above all.
Recognizing signs of anxiety in children is essential.
Setting boundaries helps maintain a healthy co-parenting relationship.
It's normal to feel overwhelmed and exhausted as a parent.
Children can adapt well if parents work together positively.
Past experiences can inform better parenting strategies.
It's important to be aware of children's feelings and reactions.
Co-parenting can lead to stronger relationships with children.
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In this episode of Divorce Devil, hosts Rachel and David discuss the importance of self-reflection and the lessons learned from their experiences with divorce. They explore the complexities of relationships, the harsh realities of financial independence post-divorce, and the necessity of owning one's responsibilities. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-care, healing from past trauma, and embracing emotions during the divorce process. They also highlight the value of effort in relationships and the importance of recognizing one's role in the dynamics of a marriage. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to prioritize their happiness and personal growth.
Takeaways
Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth after divorce.
Navigating relationships can be complex, especially post-divorce.
Financial independence is essential for a successful recovery.
Owning your responsibilities is key to moving forward.
Self-care is not selfish; it's necessary for healing.
Past traumas can affect current relationships and must be addressed.
Emotions during divorce are valid and should be expressed.
Finding happiness is a journey that requires effort and self-awareness.
Effort in relationships is reciprocal and vital for connection.
Recognizing one's role in a relationship can lead to personal growth.
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Social media during divorce recovery. Rachel says be smart and I say don’t do it - take a break. It never turns out well, most of the time. So many people have an opinion on social media and divorce. I have heard of instances where social media can be used in a divorce proceeding. So, buyer beware! Discussions of clearing the trash, celebrity divorce posts, social media has a lot of negativity, rudeness and social media and call a friend all are a part of the podcast. You make the decision - what will you feel comfortable with? The ball is in your court.
Topics of:
Tinky Winky
No regrets
Worst roommate ever
People want you to fail
Don Henley - Dirty Laundry
People are bold
People do better
Keep some of you prayers and thought for yourself
No birthday party, no kid’s wedding and not coming to my funeral then delete!
They want you to ask them!
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Well, here it is again. The craziness of the Divorce Devil Podcast. We take off with starting with the notion of no control in your divorce or divorce recovery to road construction. Never a dull moment. You’ll be hard pressed to find a more ‘unique’ divorce recovery podcast. Topics of round-a-bouts, loss of control is like chaos, you get a pony, Tootsie Roll, and Narnia goat. Strap in because this show goes fast and all over the place. Take a listen
Discussions of:
Someone has to be an adult
Trying to get back to some normalcy
Control is an overrated word
Rebound
It’s ok to say no
You gotta be cruel to be kind
You can’t control what happens at the ex’s house
Don’t talk about you ex on the first date
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Well, it is another interesting podcast by the two of us. Owning your sh*t encompasses so much. We mainly came from the way of it’s ok not to be ok. You are going through some epic sh*t for the first time and how you react at first might not be the best reaction, but you learn over time and adjust accordingly. Our other point is everyone is not your friend and everyone doesn’t need to remain friends with you. If it is a struggle to keep some friends, maybe they need to go. Only you know for sure - and can act accordingly. Just two parts to owning your sh*t!
Topics discussed:
It’s ok to say
Object permanence
Time to cleanse your friend list
You want everybody to like you
Life is dynamic
Live by hope
Make it simple
Baby steps
Poke the bear?
I’m ok being the villain in your story
Am I watching Dexter?
Friends vs family
No f*cks button
Helping people you don’t know
Delete, delete
Do better
We always digress
Talking Heads
Call that friends that is no matter what
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Well, it happened again. We went off the rails again during a podcast. We realize the initial pain of divorce is sometimes so overwhelming and intense. Our own experiences play a part here. All we can do is present what we went through and hopefully some of you can identify with it and realize some of your thoughts, actions and/or feelings are completely normal. Discussions of taste the rainbow, joy and pain, the red flags, get help when you need it, emotional support person, the pain is the start of a new beginning, and don’t involve the kids all play a part of this episode. We firmly that even when discussing divorce recovery you have to laugh a bit and we took it to heart in this episode. Enjoy!
Other Topics:
Heal through it
Brush your teeth
Mr. T
Hard and direct
People pick sides
Norm!
Divorce Devil Loofahs
What can Brown do for you?
The world is not coming to an end
Joy and Pain
I come with pills
It’s ok to be sad, but no all the time
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Well, here it is - the New 5 Minute Subject Slam with Rachel and David. She doesn't know the subjects until I start the timer. Let's see how it goes!
Co-parenting
Boundaries
Practicing what you preach
We are real
Love when your kids leave, it's ok
Girls night out
Don't be petty
Bi-polar
Don't use the kids as pawns
They feel guilty
Try to make it work
Love them more that you hate your ex
Read my book
Love them in a way in healthy on both sides
Practicing self-care
Usb port, batteries
Schedule a massage
Start the new hobby
Eat some Italian food
Get a motorcycle
Scheduling your own appointment
Hike
Concert, get your nails done
Learning things you hate?
Learn your stuff
Hated to buy a new car
Buy 19 bottles of ketchup
Suck it up
Parent/teacher conferences
Hate the word hate
Hateration
Forgiveness?
AI generated forgiveness
Was never going to get an apology
Still giving no fucks
The phone works both ways
Boundaries
A learning process
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Closing up the three part series of the Divorce Recovery Survival Guide was fun as always. Getting a little off tract, like we do, we do understand that the third phase is actually where most of serious healing starts. Discussions of Stella getting her groove back, hoe phase, don’t sit in the silence, no is a complete sentence, ‘I’m done’ is a boundary, self-care, and doing it all by yourself are all touched upon in the episode. We just want you and everyone going through this phase - that all the things you are feeling are normal and we all have experienced it too. But, if you feel that you emotions are running away with you - seek out professional help. There is no shame in your game to do so. Enjoy…..
Topics include:
You’ve signed the papers and been screwed
Jack in the Box Parent
Listen to my own advice
Get it phase
Don’t ignore the red flags or negatives
Divorce wrecks
Don’t go changing
Two separate households
Sitting in silence
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Well, here it is - the meat and potatoes of the middle of your divorce journey. We love doing these multiple part episodes. We tend to have something for everyone! Plus, without much preparation and after over 180 shows, our OJT advice, tips, trick and methods are flowing throughout the show. Discussions of legal separation, divorce permits, ride the clutch, you have a purpose, don’t rule out therapy and self-doubt are all in this episode. Stay tuned for Part 3 on the next podcast. We have some surprises in store!
Additional topics:
The rabbit hole
Dr. Seuss words of wisdom
The ‘why’ question
Cry in the shower
Grudges in your DNA
Sybil Squirrel
The blame game
Your past can affect you
Grief and depression
Most of the crap here is normal
Court dates
It becomes really real
Quickies are good too!
Everyone needs to learn on a stick!
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Well, here it is - what to do when the divorce is fresh or hasn’t even started yet. Even though we are not professional therapist, we have a list of things, looking back, we wished we would have know about and/or done. We would ask for forgiveness with the crazy start -but that is just part of the show. That’s the way it starts sometimes! Discussions of a divorce song, sex on the beach, 30 seconds plank, divorce word as a weapon, tools in your belt, left foot stomp, half of 20 is not fifty, David’s divorced friends, and embrace whatever you are feeling. As usual, the podcast is fresh, raw and in your face and this episode did not disappoint! Enjoy!
Topics of:
Don’t go back for the last dip in the pool
Pay attention
Consequences for your actions
Most of the time, it ain’t about the money
Be cordial
Stop the pettiness
Try all the sugar cereals…
Own your sh*t
Don’t use the kids as pawns
Giving no f*cks
Collateral damage
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Believe it or not, this is the first show we have dedicated to boundaries. We all have been there. Not enough at first then maybe too much in the end. It is definitely problematic when healing. Discussions of your truths, accepting my sh*t wholeheartedly,
Everybody is not your friend, they know my blood type, and start with the walls up all are broached in this episode. Listen closely, you may have some stake in this podcast.
Topics of:
Cinderblocks
Bouncy house of boundaries
What the f*ck boundary
Childhood sh*t
We are not experts
Don’t kick the tire with you toe
Over communication
Smiling in your face
Fun dad
Amicable divorces
Categorize people
Hey Tim!
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This is a continuation from the last podcast of forgiveness, contentment and happy. This is final prize - accepting your new reality. I know it is hard to fathom that for some people. Discussions of not letting the past define you, pay attention to your past, see you next Tuesday, don’t be afraid to ask for help, we only have one life. There off-the-cuff topics turn out pretty good. Thinking fast on our feet! Enjoy.
Topics of:
Accepting your reality over time
What is you divorce story
Geppetto
Baskets in parking spaces
Disenfranchised
Men don’t want to fee emotions
Compartmentalizing
Stop eating with your mouth open
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How do we start? Talking about the complex relationship between forgiveness, contentment and happy was a tough one. We still agree that forgiveness still have a not giving a f*ck component. Discussions of waiting for someone’s sorry, forgetting time is a thing, Soul Train, See you next Tuesday, communication, heal in hell, grudges take a lot of work and happy is the goal. We were slightly more confused more than we started with at the end. Check it out!
Topics of;
Grudge in the bloodline
If Colorado had a beach
Happy in steps
Object permanence
Bobby and Ceci
White girl down
Bust a move
Peace, Love and Soul
Mustang convertible
ADHD
I forgive me
What portion of contentment is settling?
Soulfully sorry
The Jersey Shore
Does forgiveness give you contentment?
Future eBooks on Healing on website soon!
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Sorry for the two week hiatus. Rachel was vacationing and I was down right lazy! But we are back with another electrified session. Friendships - before, during, and after your divorce…. What a such complicated subject. We discussed topics of tour or tour, no stake in the game - judge away, trifecta - friends before, during and after, unrealistic expectations, quality over quantity, levels of friends, keep the givers and toss the takers, and the phone works both ways.
Discussions of:
Ride and die friends
Set the boundaries
Friends for a season
Be a friend despite you differences
No friends, no drama
Having the tools to get through the storm is important
Effort to change your path
You choose what parts the give and receive
Show me the money
At any moment you are replaceable
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Well, here it is! The final installment of the Divorce Storm. And with all its collateral damage. Your life is definitely changed - what you probably perceive as no for the better. But, this is your time to finally realize you have to embrace this time and the efforts of the storm showing you the path to your new positive reality. There may be smaller storms along the way, but the biggie is over. Learn from that experience and let it be your barometer along your new journey.
Discussions of:
Divorce recovery can start at any stage
Time to be selfish
Reflect on how to prepare for the next storm
The storm is over
See the bigger picture
Divorce coffee talk
Being your own advocate
Self-care
I’m from Jersey
Bumrush the existing host
Rebuilding your new life
Tear the sandbags down
Be flexible and able to adjust
Find your new happy
Big thumbs texting, text to your own number first
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Well, here it is! Part two of the series. In this podcast, we discuss the challenges and unpredictability of going through a divorce. Using the metaphor of a storm to describe the emotional turmoil and chaos that can occur during the process. Watch out for the calm eye, it sometimes sends a false sense of security of the process.
Discussions of:
ABBA
Category 1-5 divorces
Bring the dogs in
It’s raining DM’s
Weather Girls
Fight or flight
Red flags
Storm surge
Try to look further down the road
Realistic expectations
Divorce sad playlist
Fight like Rock in your eye of the storm
Turn the mic on!
Victim status
Storm in your own personal space
In a chaotic state
Healing from music
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Here we go with another series. We actually love doing this. Part one of the three part series of the Divorce Storm - getting your sandbags ready. With all the three stages of divorce being important, this one is significant - it can lay the foundation for your recovery later. But, you are not ‘married’ to it. You can still recover with missteps in this stage. It’s never too late to make a course correction. Enjoy.
Discussions of;
The word today
Act one
Sandbags made of cotton
Getting my dicks in a row
Realistic expectations
Lipton tea bags
Tea bagging vs sand bagging
Signs of the storm is coming
Had to hate him to leave
Conflict of interest
Kramer vs Kramer
Egyptian sheets
See my kids everyday
Roller Coaster ride
Be less angry
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In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel interview therapist Dawn Wiggins, a licensed marriage and family therapist who shares her holistic approach to helping people recover from divorce. They discuss topics such as childhood trauma, the importance of failure in the recovery process, loneliness, and the role of grace in healing. Dawn explains the concept of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and how it can help unlock and heal traumatic memories. They also explore the victim triangle and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Dawn also discusses the importance of taking responsibility for one's own life and transforming negativity into positivity. She emphasizes the power of mindset and the law of attraction in attracting high vibe experiences. The conversation then shifts to the topic of guilt and how it can be appropriate in certain situations but often stems from victim consciousness. The hosts bring up one of their favorite topics - narcissism and Dawn stresses in realizing the importance of understanding one's own role in relationships. They explore the concept of healing and finding a sense of purpose in life. Gotta get Dawn back for a part two! She also has a podcast too!
Discussions of:
Hit with an anvil
Setting healthy boundaries
The voice within
REM sleep
OPP, STOP, AND OMD?
David doesn’t journal
Grace
Looks like a vagina
We all get second chances
Stole a pack of gum
Do your own EMDR
It’s ok to serial date
Truly anything is possible
Listen to your loneliness
Realize there was a perception that you were never good enough
Protect your nuts
Law of attraction
Everything Dawn Wiggins
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