Episodes

  • In this enlightening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, host Connie Durham delves into the transformative power of gratitude in marriage.

    Discover how cultivating thankfulness can strengthen your bond, prevent negativity, and encourage kindness in your relationship.

    Key Topics:

     

    The Power of Gratitude: Explore how gratitude can deepen your connection and keep love thriving.

     

     

    Reflecting on Blessings: Learn the importance of appreciating what you have, rather than focusing on what you want.

     

     

    Seeing the Good: Discover how to focus on the strengths and positives in your spouse.

     

     

    Acts of Kindness: Understand how small gestures can fill your "love bank" and create a ripple effect of positivity.

     

     

    Mindful Communication: Foster positive communication by letting go of negativity and learning your love languages.

     

     

    Daily Gratitude Rituals: Implement simple habits to express appreciation regularly and enhance your marriage.

     

     

    Connie shares personal anecdotes and practical tips, encouraging you to see the beauty in your spouse and your shared life. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that gratitude not only prevents negativity but also deepens the connection between partners.

    Join Connie in uncovering the best-kept secrets of happy, healthy marriages and gain insights into the unique communication styles that can transform your relationship.

    Subscribe now to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and share the joy of an extraordinary marriage with your friends... you never know who's needing this. 

     

    Often when life is frustrating us, we loose sight of what's good.  This causes the "Love Bank" to be emptied.   For 25 simple ways to refill that love bank... go to... https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/276000. 

    Print and choose the best 3 for you, and begin refilling that "LOVE BANK".

      

    For more resources and to connect with Connie, visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com.

    Connie Durham

    #theextraordinarymarriage #gratitude #marriagetips #connection #lovebank

  •  ✨ Join host Connie Durham and special guest Gina Stinson as they explore the profound power of words in shaping our relationships and personal well-being. As a pastor's wife and writer, Gina shares her journey of overcoming negative self-talk and the importance of grace deposits in our daily interactions.


    Key Takeaways:


    - Grace Deposits: Discover how making daily grace deposits can offset the occasional withdrawals when we fall short, enhancing forgiveness and understanding in your marriage.


    - Power of Words: Learn how the words we use with ourselves and others can either propel us forward or hold us back, and how to choose words that build and heal.


    - Humor and Faith: Explore how humor and a shared faith have contributed to Gina's extraordinary marriage, providing balance and perspective in life's challenges.


    - Communication Strategies: Gain practical tips for effective communication, including keeping the volume down, asking questions, and using the sandwich method to address issues constructively.


    - Personal Reflection: Understand the importance of pausing to reflect on our thoughts and feelings, and seeking God's guidance to overcome negative patterns.


    Connie and Gina emphasize the significance of creating a positive atmosphere in the home, where mutual respect and understanding thrive. Whether it's through gentle humor, thoughtful conversation, or intentional words of affirmation, this episode offers valuable insights for nurturing a loving and supportive marriage.


    Join us as we delve into real-life stories and actionable advice that will inspire you to cultivate an extraordinary marriage filled with grace, humor, and lasting connection.

    Don't miss out—subscribe now to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast and transform your relationship today!


    Connect with Gina Stinson: Visit www.ginastinson.com  to explore her writings and learn more about her journey.

    Connie's Free Starter Kit - https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2148403428 


    Connie Durham, The Relationship Transformer 
    www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast 


    #extraordinarymarriage #powerofwords #gracedeposits #communication #faithandhumor


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  • Recognizing and finding root causes of irritation, conflict, and disconnect in your marriage, are key in resolving them.

    Only then will you reset your life and find your joy again!

    Key Topics:

     

    Awareness: Recognize the issues that withdraw from your love bank and start making positive changes.

     

    Resolving Challenges: Learn to meet in the middle, communicate openly, and understand your spouse's needs.

     

    Practicing Patience: Adopt a loving tone, enjoy conversations, and prioritize quality time together.

     

    Personality Differences: Embrace and understand the unique traits that each partner brings to the marriage.

     

    Gaslighting Awareness: Identify and address gaslighting behaviors to promote a healthier relationship.

     

    Connie emphasizes the importance of applying the golden rule in marriage, treating your partner with the kindness and respect you desire. She also shares personal anecdotes and practical tips to help you reset your relationship and fill your love bank.

    Marriage is a journey that you can walk blindly through or makeup your mind and strive for what you want.  More love, support, and enjoyment for one another.  

    ***Having trouble? It doesn't have to be that way. Get started with 80% off a private session with Connie and begin to uncover the challenges and find new solutions in your marriage.

    FRESH INSIGHTS Private Session with Connie 

    Value $150

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    Connie Durham, The Relationship Transformer www.theextraordinarymarriage.com 

  • Welcome to Season Two of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast! As the holiday season approaches, we delve into practical strategies to conquer holiday stress and enhance your marriage.

    Host Connie Durham shares her personal insights and five actionable steps to help you navigate financial pressures, family obligations, and time management during this bustling time of year. Key

    Takeaways:

    Plan Ahead: Begin holiday preparations early to ease financial strain and enjoy gift-giving without stress.

    Budget Wisely: Create a realistic budget, consider drawing names for gifts, and explore handmade options to keep costs down.

    Prioritize Family: Discuss and decide together what family events are most important, ensuring you leave space for rest and quality time with your spouse.

    Manage Time Effectively: Use a planner to track commitments and learn to say no when necessary to maintain balance.

    Enhance Connection: Foster a loving relationship by sharing responsibilities, leaving love notes, and expressing gratitude.

    Connie emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive outlook, appreciating time with loved ones, and making deposits in the "love bank" with thoughtful gestures.

    Discover how these small but impactful actions can strengthen your marriage and make the holiday season truly joyful. Join Connie each week as she helps you cultivate connection, understanding, and lasting love.

    Visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com for free gifts, including the Starter Kit, and to explore past episodes like "Mighty Mom Mastery." Don't forget to subscribe and share the podcast with friends to spread the joy of an extraordinary marriage.

    Marriage Starter Kit

    Helps you gain a new perspective. 

    Connie Durham

    #theextraordinarymarriage #holidaystress #marriagetips #familytime #lovebank

  • In this episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, Connie Durham and Tala Hershey explore the power of meaningful conversation in strengthening your marriage and supporting your child's speech development.

    If you're a married couple looking to deepen your connection and foster open communication, this episode is for you.

    Enhance Connection: Discover five practical strategies to engage in more fulfilling conversations with your spouse.

    Develop Better Speech: Learn effective techniques to support your child's speech development, ensuring they grow up with strong communication skills.

    Importance of Communication: Understand why developing a strong conversational bond with your spouse is crucial for a happy, healthy marriage.

    Join us as we share expert insights, real-life stories, and actionable tips that will transform the way you communicate with your loved ones.

    Tune in and take the first step towards an extraordinary marriage and a brighter future for your family. Don't miss out—subscribe now to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon!

    Connie Durham

    www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast 

    Tala Hershey

    #speechtherapy #childrensbooks #theextraordinarymarriage #parents #conversation

  • In this episode, Connie tackles the complexities of blended families. Combining households, navigating different parenting styles, and fostering unity can be challenging. But with Godly advice and years of experience, we offer practical strategies to help you create a harmonious blended family.

    Why Listen to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast? You Want A Happy Healthy Marriage!

    Godly Guidance: We integrate faith-based principles to provide you with time-honored wisdom.

    Expert Insights: Benefit from our years of experience and deep understanding of human needs and relationships.

    Practical Tips: Learn actionable steps that you can implement immediately to improve your relationship.

    Connie Durham www.theextraordinarymarriage.com 

    #theextraordinarymarriage #blendedfamilies #familyrelationships #parentingafterdivorce #parentingtips

    Don't miss an episode—subscribe now and take your marriage to extraordinary heights!

  • Join us on "The Extraordinary Marriage" as we explore how to overcome childhood trauma to build a positive and successful marriage. Together, we'll uncover the secrets to letting go of a troubled past and creating a future filled with love and harmony.

    Featuring expert insights and personal stories, this podcast is your guide to recognizing past challenges for a more hopeful future. Perfect for couples and women committed to transforming their relationships and finding lasting happiness.

    Sorry for the sound imbalance. Find better quality on my podcast page + free gifts.  www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast .

    Episode 57 Subscribe on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon

    Host Connie Durham & Jaci Finneman 

    Hey, I'm Connie! After over four decades of matrimonial bliss and motherhood experience under my belt, let me tell you - people are a fascinating mix of quirks and characteristics.

    Whether we like 'em or not is almost always determined by the way they make us feel about ourselves...and that goes double for marriage!

    That's why I've made it my mission to find those niggly marriage problems pricking your happiness bubble – so together we can get rid of them and forge ahead on a path towards an even better life than before. It makes me a kind of Marriage Guru…with all the exciting remedies yet waiting to be discovered!

    Jaci Finneman Jaci's Gift - http://smpl.ro/MarriageMakeitRight 

    Jaci Finneman, Founder of Hello World and No-Problem Parenting™ is passionate about helping parents become confident leaders for their kids, find happiness in their day-to-day routine and bring peace back into their homes. Jaci is a Parent Coach, Parenting Strategist and a Leader. Her 30 years experience includes roles as a special needs para-professional (5 years), an In-Home Mental Health Practitioner and Program Coordinator for a mental health counseling agency (20 years)where Jaci led a successful, value-driven team and launched multiple new children’s mental health programs during her ten year. In 2013 Jaci started Hello World LLC, a company dedicated to and focused on teaching parents how to be the confident leader their kids crave them be! In 2019 Jaci created The No-Problem Parenting online-on demand parenting course and in 2021 launched The No-Problem Parenting Podcast. Jaci’s down to earth, authentic and relatable personality adds light, hope and clarity for her clients. “My coaching is parent-focused. Parents are their own child’s expert. I am here to empower them, to help them help their child.” – Jaci Finneman

  • Welcome to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, where we empower married couples with the insights and tools needed to create a thriving, fulfilling relationship.

    Our podcast is dedicated to helping you identify and overcome marital challenges so that you can focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and live your best life together.

    Key Topics We Cover: Childhood Impact: Explore how hurtful childhood experiences can affect children and shape their future relationships.

    Parental Traits: Discover ten essential parental traits that help raise strong, confident, and forward-thinking kids.

    Marital Challenges: Learn how to identify and address common marital issues effectively.

    Positive Focus: Techniques and strategies to focus on the positive aspects of your marriage, promoting happiness and connection.

    Why We're Different: Unlike other relationship podcasts, The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast goes beyond surface-level advice. We dig deep into the root causes of marital challenges, offering actionable insights and practical solutions tailored to your needs. Our unique approach helps you not only understand your relationship better but also equips you with the tools needed to nurture and grow it.

    Join us each week as we bring you expert interviews, real-life stories, and actionable tips to help you build an extraordinary marriage.

    Subscribe now and take the first step towards a stronger, more connected, and happier relationship.

    Tune In. Transform Your Marriage. Live Your Best Life Together. Subscribe Now www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast also on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon #theextraordinarymarriage #children #familylife #familyrelationships #marriageandfamily #positivevibes #poem #youbtube

    Host Connie Durham

  • This month we're talking about different... Parenting Styles Explore diverse parenting styles based on behavior & personality types.

    Whether you're a calm mediator or a spirited decision-maker, we provide insights on how to harmonize your approach to parenting and grow together as a couple.

    Love First Approach... Connie emphasizes the importance of loving first. Learn how to move past the irritations and focus on what truly works in your marriage.

    Discover the strategies that Connie has successfully applied, not only in raising her own children but also with her grandchildren.

    Gain Confidence... Every episode is designed to empower you with the confidence to master your unique skills.

    From communication tips to conflict resolution, you'll gain practical advice to apply in your daily life. Why Listen?

    What sets The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast apart is Connie's real-life experience and heartfelt advice. She shares time-tested methods and personal anecdotes that resonate with listeners, making complex issues relatable and manageable. Join Us... Tune in to transform your marriage into an extraordinary one. Gain the tools to not just survive but thrive in your relationship.

    Subscribe now and start your journey towards a more loving and harmonious marriage today. Listen on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com

    Talk to Connie and figure out where the disconnect is in your marriage.  Find the "FRESH INSIGHTS" Button on the top right corner of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast page.  www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast 

    Connie Durham

  • You always hear that introverts and extroverts are absolute opposites, but have you thought about how that effects your marriage?

    Each wanting exactly what the other, doesn't want. Are you thinking about that?

    Today we talk about living with your opposite and how to understand them better. Understanding will improve your relationship at least 50%.

    Would you like to figure out your differences and turn them into more support, romance, and intimacy?  Take a look...

    I'm Connie Durham, The Relationship Transformer

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    Communication Secrets for Marriage OnDemand https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/solve-csm

    Check on the next Workshop khttps://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/CS-Marriage 

  •  Today Pastor Brian joins me as we journey through his saying I do, figuring out how to be a better spouse and following Gods word. Pastor Brian lives in Fayetteville GA with his wife Codie and 5 children.

    Hi I'm Connie Durham, the Host of this podcast and Brian is my pastor. May I say he's passionate, transparent, and also dedicated to his family and church. My mission is to cultivate connection & lasting love for an Extraordinary Marriage.

    Often our past experiences color our future and we loose our way, in finding love that last. Our personalities conflict, hurt and crush the ones we love and we don't know how to change that.

    Follow Brian's words and put God in the center of your marriage. Then go to my web page and get my Marriage Starter Kit Free. Take notes and list the first 3 things to work on.

    If you keep doing the things you're doing... you'll keep getting the same thing you're getting. Ready for change? https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2148403428 

     

    Key Takeaways:

     

     

    Marriage as an attack on selfishness: Discover how selflessness and serving each other can transform your relationship.

     

     

    The foundation of God's word: Learn how biblical principles can guide and strengthen your marriage.

     

     

    Communication is key: Practical advice on how to talk to each other, not at each other, and the importance of respectful dialogue.

     

     

    Value and respect: The significance of valuing your spouse and showing respect through actions and words.

     

     

    Intentional love: Understanding and catering to each other's love languages to foster a deeper connection.

     

     

    Brian also opens up about the challenges he faced growing up in a divorced family and how it shaped his approach to fatherhood and marriage. This episode is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and actionable advice to help you build a stronger, more loving relationship.

    (00:00) Discover real life stories and a path to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters

    (01:09) Connie Durham welcomes Brian Parrish to the extraordinary marriage

    (02:14) Brian and Cody got married in 2010; it's been 13 years now

    (03:27) Brian says the biggest need in a healthy marriage is communication

    (04:30) Jeff and I had unrealistic expectations when we got married about communication

    (06:21) Brian and Cody both come from divorced families. So how does that feel as a kid

    (12:01) Brian and his wife were married nine days when their first child was born

    (15:43) Tennessee Knox says marriage is an attack on selfishness

    (21:06) That selfishness is so hard to fight. It's steady, it's constant

    (21:21) Brian: Whenever we blow up, our partner has three choices

    (22:58) I think how selfish we are when we first get married starts with selfishness

    (30:20) In marriage, sometimes you get tired, and it's about what you do

    (36:36) Brian: Where does respect come from? Value. I mean, you respect something based on its value

    (39:45) Jeff: There are roles to marriage, and there are responsibilities

    (46:34) By knowing your partner's love language, you can serve them

    (49:01) Connie Durham: Brian, thank you so much for sharing today

    🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.

    Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.

    #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast #ConflictResolution #Understanding #ConnieDurham #BrianParrish

     

    It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!

    EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564 

    FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you

    EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139 

    Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session 

    Get the exact tools you need to avoid them and reignite that “first met” passion and deep connection. Check on the next Online Workshop https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/CS-Marriage 

     

     

  • Moms have a hard job. Focusing on the right things will bring you energy to navigate your very busy days.

    Here's my Marriage Starter Kit - It contains "How to Shower Your Spouse..." and many more freebies. Grab yours and cultivate that connection with your spouse... you've been dreaming of.

    https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2148403428 

    The Relationship Transformer, Connie Durham

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  • In today's episode, Navigating Love's Frustration, Jeff & Connie explore the emotional dynamics that either strengthen love or create division in marriage. Discover how predictable out of control emotions influence your relationship and learn practical strategies to overcome these challenges.

    Go to www.theextraordinarymarriage.com - scroll down and find your Free Positive Attitude PDF... ready to download.  (It's a button)  We can not control the things around us... but we can control our own MIND.  At least we can try. 😅  Thank you for listening.

    The Relationship Transformer, Connie Durham

     

  • In this episode, Connie Durham dives into "Three Mistakes Couples Make That Push Their Spouse Away." With over 40 years of marriage experience, Connie shares heartfelt stories, practical advice, and actionable steps to help you reconnect with your spouse and navigate through common marital conflicts.

    Connie emphasizes the importance of understanding your spouse's personality, effective communication, and prioritizing each other. She also shares a personal story about a challenging day at one of her rental properties, illustrating how miscommunication and assumptions can lead to frustration and conflict.

    Stay tuned until the end of the episode to download a free workbook on resolving conflict in your marriage. This episode is packed with insights and strategies to help you build a stronger, more loving relationship.

    (00:00) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in Connie Durham's marriage advice

    (00:55) Resolve conflict in your marriage with this workbook

    (01:43) Three mistakes that couples make that push their spouse away

    (03:50) My husband and I have six rental properties

    (09:18) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in marriage

    (12:12) Pay attention to your tone of voice and how you speak to your spouse

    (17:57) Third mistake is not putting your spouse first. This is one that a lot of us make

    (21:59) Understanding your spouse and understand your differences can help resolve conflict

    (27:14) It's called communication secrets for an extraordinary marriage

    (34:01) Communication secrets for marriage determine what you each want

    (37:34) You get an introductory video and then you get a personal behavior assessment

    (44:09) Communication secrets for an extraordinary marriage is free with a growth 40 coupon

    (48:43) After 40 years of marriage, Connie Durham can help you improve your marriage

    🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.

    Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.

    #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast #ConflictResolution #Understanding #ConnieDurham

     

    It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!

    EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564 

    FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you

    EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139 

    Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session 

    Get the exact tools you need to avoid them and reignite that “first met” passion and deep connection. Check on the next Online Workshop https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/CS-Marriage 

  •  In this episode, Connie Durham dives deep into the root causes of conflict in marriage and how our predictable personalities play a role in recurring issues. Using relatable anecdotes and practical advice, Connie explores the importance of understanding different perspectives, levels of patience, and upbringing influences.

    Discover how focusing on the good and beautiful aspects of your relationship can transform your marriage. Connie also introduces the concept of the compound effect, where small, consistent choices over time lead to significant benefits. Learn about the four predictable personality styles and how recognizing these traits in yourself and your spouse can help you navigate conflicts more effectively.

    Don't miss out on the upcoming masterclass, "Three Mistakes That Push Your Spouse Away," and find out how to avoid these common pitfalls. Connie shares her wisdom from over 45 years of marriage and offers a free Fresh Insights session to help you move past misunderstandings and build a stronger connection with your spouse.

    (00:00) One year, I was making their birthday cake and I needed an extra big one

    (01:46) The extraordinary marriage podcast explores the causes and solutions to conflict in marriage

    (05:56) Your past and your personalities determine how you see the world

    (06:51) When we focus on what is good and beautiful, relationships go a lot better

    (10:35) Communication money is one of the top two divorce accelerators

    (12:11) There are four predictable personality styles and each one has its strengths and drawbacks

    🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.

    Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.

    #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #ConflictResolution #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast #PersonalityStyles #Communication #ConnieDurham

    It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!

    EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564

    FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you

    EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139

    Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session

  •    Have you ever wondered what keeps the spark alive in a marriage? In this episode, Connie Durham delves into the nuances of attraction and how it evolves over time. From the body language and loving tones that first drew you to your spouse, to the everyday habits that might be causing friction now, Connie offers insights into maintaining and rekindling that initial connection.

    Do you feel like your marriage could use a boost in romance, fun, and adventure? Or perhaps you seek more compassion, support, and strength? Discover real-life stories and practical advice to overcome the common pitfalls every marriage encounters.

    START HERE - 

    "10 Days to a Happier Healthier Marriage"

    https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/ten-days-to-a-happier-marriage 

     

    Connie also shares a personal story about her first car and the lessons she learned about showing excitement and keeping a straight face—lessons that can be surprisingly relevant to marriage dynamics.

    Explore four areas that might be causing trouble in your relationship and gain three powerful questions to ask yourself to reignite the attraction with your spouse. Are you ready to open the door to a more extraordinary marriage? Tune in and find out!

    (00:00) Today, we are talking about those things that attracted you and your spouse

    (03:53) What attracted you to your spouse? Are they fun loving

    (07:08) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in a free webinar

    (07:40) Connie Durham: Communication is the number one problem that couples have

    🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free webinar on the three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away. Visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com to register and start building a happier, healthier marriage today.

    Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.

    #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast #Attraction #PersonalityStyles #ConnieDurham

     

    It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!

    EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564 

    FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you

    EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139 

    Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session 

     

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    It's not where you start, but where you finish. Connie Durham dives into the essence of creating harmony in your marriage, focusing on the choices you make today and tomorrow. Drawing inspiration from Albert Einstein's wisdom, Connie explores how to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters and foster a loving, supportive relationship.

    Todays Gift - Why Couples Argue and Fight https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2147559250 

    In this episode, Connie shares ten actionable ways to find more harmony with your spouse. From turning on your positive attitude to showing appreciation, she provides practical advice to help you focus on the things you love about each other. Whether it's dealing with past baggage or learning to communicate effectively, this episode is packed with insights to strengthen your marriage.

    (00:00) Check out why couples argue and fight in the notes

    (01:05) Ten ways to find more harmony in your marriage with this podcast

    (01:39) Make a list of the things you actually like about your spouse

    (02:34) Couples don't get married until they're 27 and 29 these days

    (03:22) I want you to think about your childhood. Remember the hardships the most

    (04:49) If you're having challenges in your marriage, recognize it. Turn on your positive attitude

    🌟 Ready to transform your marriage?

    Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.

    Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.

    #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast #Harmony #PositiveAttitude #ConnieDurham

    It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!

    EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564

    FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you

    EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139

    Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session

  • Have you ever been given a second chance?  What did that mean to you?

    Connie Durham dives into the profound impact of second chances on relationships in this heartfelt episode. Reflecting on personal experiences and drawing inspiration from two compelling movies, Connie explores how forgiveness and understanding can transform lives and marriages.

    Could it be that simple misunderstandings and differences in how you and your spouse SEE life, are causing division? Love to chat!

    Fresh Insights Session - Check Availibility

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  • Honestly procrastination drains the energy out of me way too often, putting me in defense mode. I don't like it! Seems like everyday I am striving, trying, wishing, wanting to be proactive, accomplished, successful, and balanced.

    Today, Connie dives deep into the power of habits and how they shape our lives and marriages. If you've ever struggled with feeling like you don't measure up, this episode is for you. Connie shares personal stories, practical advice, and actionable steps to help you move from feeling reactive to being proactive in your marriage and life.

    Connie Durham - Cultivating connection, understanding & lasting Love for an Extraordinary Marriage.  www.theextraordinarymarriage.com 

     

    🎙 Episode Highlights

    (00:00) Introduction: The impact of emotions on daily life and marriage

    (02:45) Real-life stories and overcoming marriage pitfalls

    (04:30) Connie shares her personal struggles with self-worth

    (07:15) The importance of being proactive rather than reactive

    (09:50) The story of the dead tree and the consequences of procrastination

    (14:30) How habits shape our behavior and outcomes

    (17:20) The role of environment and upbringing in forming habits

    (20:15) Practical steps to develop positive habits in marriage

    (25:00) The power of saying "yes" and "no" with intention

    (30:10) Strategies for eliminating negative thoughts and fostering positive ones

    (35:45) The seven steps to embrace a better life and marriage

    (40:30) The significance of empathy, forgiveness, and joyfulness

    (45:00) Connie's closing thoughts and call to action

     

    🌟 Ready to transform your marriage?

    Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit  https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.

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  • Connie and Lisa discuss the importance of getting to know your spouse in what they need, how they think, and how we should cut each other some slack!

    Hi I'm Connie Durham and I just celebrated my 45th wedding anniversary in June!

    Helping couples and families thrive is my #1 passion.  I believe everyone can cultivate a better connection, understanding, and lasting love through the study of how we all THINK - ACT - and RESPOND differently.  Your preferences in life are determined by past experiences and your God given personality style.  FIND MORE AT:  https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com 

     

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    Lisa Roers, from the Sunshine Café Podcast:

    Podcast Host | Christian Encourager | Fasting Coach | Executive Coach | Motivation Multiplier

    Graduating with honors, Lisa got her degrees in Business Management, Speech Communications, and International Business. She worked in the corporate world in sales and then as an Executive Coach for 26 years until her health took an unexpected turn. In 2017, Lisa was hit with an auto-immune disease which eventually escalated to the point where she was unable to walk!

    After seeing more than 30 doctors in multiple specializations, without any concrete diagnosis or clear path for healing, Lisa leaned into her faith and embraced being her own self-advocate (with God), and has effectively reclaimed her complete health. Today, Lisa is symptom free and has turned her passions to coaching and encouraging others as they navigate their own journey. Lisa is a Certified Coach, Podcaster, a keynote speaker, a disciple of Jesus, a wife, a mom, and a professional musician. Find more about Lisa - https://www.lisaroers.com/