Episodes

  • Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

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    00:00 How Dr. Kirk feels seen
    03:45 Acknowledging atrocities and war
    15:53 Is a life coach a substitute for a therapist?
    20:47 Jealousy and paranoia in a relationship without therapy
    30:15 Knowledge deficits in novice clinicians


    46:01 Love-bombing deep dive & conceptualizing love

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    November 22, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • [Rerun] We discuss a listener's complaints about their therapist.

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    April 22, 2019

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • Dr Kirk Honda talks about his mentor, Dr Paul David, dying by physician-assisted suicide. Afterwards, Kirk presents two archived interviews with Paul.

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    00:00 Who was Dr. Paul David
    09:27 Interview from 2016
    18:08 Empirical data that Dr. Paul was awesome
    22:13 Dr. Paul's history
    37:21 Starting at Antioch & seeing clients
    1:09:20 Starting the marriage and family therapy program
    1:21:01 What did Dr. Paul think of his legacy?
    1:39:24 Dr. Paul's advice for the new generation of therapists
    1:45:33 Dr. Kirk & Dr. Paul's history
    2:13:34 Work at Antioch and program chair
    2:26:47 Dr. Paul's diagnosis & physician assisted death
    2:53:30 How does it feel to know when you will die?
    2:57:27 Does Dr. Paul believe in an afterlife?
    3:01:02 Acknowledging death & did Dr. Paul tell his clients?
    3:08:18 How would Dr. Paul like to be remembered?




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    November 20, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Bob answer patron emails.

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    January 8, 2020

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • Rebeccasode! We talk about tough topics.

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    00:00 Feeling hopeless & exhausted
    27:09 Has Rebecca seen Sense8?
    30:46 TW: SA What are the consequences of being a victim of SA?
    43:02 What should you do when someone tells you something traumatic?


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    November 18, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

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    00:00 Projective identification
    10:04 How do we know if we're distorting or not?
    23:37 OPP 2022
    25:02 Is projection a bad thing?
    34:57 OPP 2022
    37:50 Raising awareness of OCD
    1:01:02 How did Dr. Kirk know a therapist wasn't a good fit?


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    November 15, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk presents his deep dive into Bowenian Therapy. What exactly is differentiation and triangulation? How did Murray Bowen come up with his theory? How is used to help families function better?

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    May 18, 2016

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

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    00:00 Insecurity & cheating
    22:12 What does Dr. Kirk think of Astoria, OR?
    23:22 Why haven't we had luck with a couples therapist?
    32:33 What is the cost of children diffusing family conflict?
    48:55 OPP 2022
    50:44 Why is alcoholism considered a disease?
    1:13:45 How can I share my addiction with my family?
    1:17:08 Do I drink because of trauma or because of alcoholism?
    1:30:52 Bob's frustration & How can I connect with others in AA?
    13719 Is addiction the opposite of connection?
    1:49:02 When Dr. Kirk quit smoking
    2:05:07 Bob's pep talk


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    November 13, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about marital conflict and Gottman's Four Horsemen.

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    April 20, 2018

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

    Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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  • Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

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    00:00 What is Dr. Kirk's model of supervision?
    02:07 How do I tell a friend that I have a life-threatening condition?
    08:43 Dependent personality spectrum
    12:18 Why do I want to cheat?
    20:35 OPP 2022
    21:30 Psychology "Hacks"
    28:03 Grey Rocking
    36:25 Mug-level OPP 2022
    37:50 Can I report a therapist friend?
    41:04 How do I accept an apology?
    46:26 What drives the dynamic of an over/underfunctioner relationship?
    55:02 How does pressure as a child star impact them?


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    November 11, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • Dr Kirk talks about online bullying and dealing with negative comments.

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    00:00 Intro
    01:56 Who Trolled Amber?
    07:36 Cancellation trauma
    24:17 Negative online feedback
    47:57 Online mob mentality & balancing feedback

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    November 8, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • [Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with coaching trainer Mike Bundrant about the difference between coaching and counseling.

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    November 20, 2017

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • Dr K (HealthyGamer) interviews Dr Kirk Honda about avoidant and schizoid personality disorder.

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    00:00 Introducing HealthyGamer
    06:11 Collaboration intro
    13:19 What is a personality disorder?
    15:51 What happens in avoidant personality disorder?
    27:17 Establishing trust and safety
    32:35 Common experiences of avoidant personality disorder
    1:05:18 Confronting bullies
    1:20:41 Schizoid personality disorder
    1:35:02 Prototypical HealthyGamer
    1:42:38 What does working with a PD look like?
    1:56:38 Whiteboard framework
    2:15:46 Post interview

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    November 6, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • [Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about therapist difficulties. (Intro)

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    December 7, 2016

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • Dr Kirk discovers he has dyslexia.

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    00:00 Dr. Kirk's dyslexia
    05:07 Reading slowly
    33:43 Visual & audio media
    53:11 International Dyslexia Association screener criteria
    1:10:19 Reading aloud
    1:19:42 AP English
    1:28:38 Final criterion
    1:35:06 Other realizations

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    November 4, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails.

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    00:00 What is online cheating?
    17:02 Compulsive porn use
    23:54 TW Sexual abuse
    26:33 What is The Ick
    49:46 Walkaway Wife Syndrome

    1:07:18 Is asking for a sexless relationship possible?
    1:15:05 Upcoming Election Day

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    November 1, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • [Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto analyze the main character in Nightcrawler regarding psychopathic and sadistic personality.

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    December 24, 2014

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • Dr Kirk and Humberto discuss the psychological model proposed in Inside Out 2.

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    00:00 Witnessing childhood
    10:06 Transitionary periods
    24:18 Stable personality points
    36:17 Anxiety vs. Fear
    1:03:01 Sense of self & schemas
    1:39:46 Rating & sequel possibilities


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    October 30, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • [Rerun] What do you do when you have feelings for your therapist? Falling in love? Wanting to be adopted? Dr. Kirk Honda answers a number of emails on this topic.

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    November 4, 2019

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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  • Kids or no kids? How do we decide? Dr Kirk interviews fellow therapist Jess Flynn about her decision to not have children. Jess Flynn can be found at: https://jess-flynn-therapy.clientsecure.me/

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    00:00 Introducing Jesamie & mortality
    09:32 Respectfully childless
    14:15 Jesamie's background
    27:26 Discussing children
    38:12 Religion & ego death
    1:11:47 Questioning whether to have children
    1:27:12 Considering your health
    1:34:10 What if I make the wrong choice?
    1:50:17 Working with children
    2:12:40 Jess Flynn the Therapist

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    October 28, 2024

    The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®

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