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We're revisiting one of our most impactful episodes on the topic of triggers. Anyone who has experienced deep hurt knows how easily certain moments, places, or conversations can stir up painful memories. In the aftermath of infidelity, these triggers can be especially frequent and intense. While time can soften their grip, they have a way of resurfacing when least expected. Join us as we share how we faced and conquered the triggers that threatened to reopen old wounds in our marriage.
(Note: This episode is a replay of a previous release.)
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In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of control in marriage. Who should hold the reins in a healthy relationship? What happens when betrayal tips the balance? Using the backdrop of their own story of infidelity, they explore whether a temporary shift in control is necessary, how long it should last, and how to move forward to restore a healthy balance. Discover the freedom that comes with releasing control and building trust in this honest and practical conversation based on their own experience.
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In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss what it means to be a safe space for your spouse. Emotional safety is essential in marriage, allowing both partners to be vulnerable and open without fear. But what does this look like in practice? Listen in as they explore common barriers to safety; such as criticism, dismissing each other’s feelings, always needing to fix things, and defensiveness. Their discussion will unpack these behaviors and offer practical steps to become a source of love, acceptance, value, and respect for your spouse.
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Does your marriage feel hopeless? Rusty and Heather use their journey through the darkest days of their marriage to share a miraculous story of healing and restoration after infidelity. Speaking directly to couples feeling hopeless, they offer insight and encouragement for those wondering if it’s possible to find hope again. Whether you're navigating deep struggles or simply need a reminder that change is possible, this message of hope is for you.
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Disappointment can become a part of even the strongest marriages, usually rooted in unmet or unrealistic expectations. In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather explore how expectations can unintentionally turn into rigid responsibilities, creating tension and resentment between spouses. Listen as they unpack the importance of serving over obligation, the pitfalls of trying to "fix" your spouse, and how to adjust your expectations for a healthier, more fulfilling marriage.
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Every couple faces differences, but how do you navigate those challenges in a way that strengthens rather than weakens your relationship? Drawing from their own incompatibilities, Rusty and Heather share insights on how couples can embrace their differences, communicate better, and use their unique strengths to grow together. Whether you're feeling misunderstood or simply different, this episode will give you hope that incompatibility doesn’t have to be the end—it's an opportunity to grow deeper in love and connection.
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Feeling alone in marriage is something many couples experience, and betrayal only deepens that sense of isolation. In this episode, Rusty and Heather open up about their journey through infidelity and how it caused them to feel alone both individually and as a couple. They discuss some practical steps they took to break free from feeling alone, including rebuilding trust, working towards emotional and physical intimacy, and seeking guidance from others. Listen for insights on healing and finding hope, even when feeling alone seems overwhelming.
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What drives someone to risk everything—marriage, family, and self-worth—for an affair? Whether you are the betrayed, the betrayer, or supporting someone who’s been affected, you likely have unanswered questions. In this powerful episode, Heather bravely opens up about her early thoughts and emotions that led her down the dangerous path to infidelity. Join us as we re-examine this raw and candid account, providing insight into the mind of the unfaithful and offering hope for healing.
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Join Rusty and Heather in this special reprisal episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast. Discover the compelling narrative of their relationship—from high school sweethearts, through the devastating challenges of infidelity, to the transformative redemption that birthed a marriage ministry. Their candid storytelling offers hope and practical insights, inspiring couples to navigate their own journeys towards healing and renewed love.
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In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather offer encouragement and wisdom for those who feel like they're the only ones working on their marriage. The discussion reminds us that while we cannot fix our spouse, we can focus on becoming the person God wants us to be. Through serving, praying, and trusting that God is for your marriage, you can make a significant impact on your relationship. Tune in to find hope, strength, and practical steps to help you continue fighting for your marriage, even when it feels like you’re doing it alone.
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In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather share their incredible journey from a marriage in crisis to a ministry to other marriages. They reflect on their first experience at WinShape Marriage nearly 20 years ago, back it was still under construction and part of a dream to help broken marriages. Fast forward to 2011, after Heather’s confession of an affair, they returned to WinShape for a life-changing marriage intensive that helped save their relationship. Now, as part of the Marriage Collective, Rusty and Heather have come full circle with their latest trip to WinShape. Join them as they recount their powerful testimony of redemption and offer hope to couples in every season of marriage.
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In this week’s episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the challenging topic of conflict, arguing, and fighting within marriage. Drawing from their own experiences with unhealthy conflict resolution, Heather opens up about the dangers of always needing to be right, while Rusty shares how damaging it can be to accept blame and avoid confrontation. Together, they explore the pitfalls of these patterns and provide practical strategies for handling conflict in healthier, more productive ways. Tune in to discover how you can keep disagreements from escalating into unhealthy fights and move toward a more peaceful marriage.
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Rusty and Heather Bryant expose the enemy's relentless pursuit of marriages. Drawing from their personal experience with Heather's infidelity and the restoration that followed, they shine a light on the common lies the enemy uses to destroy marriages. Join them as they uncover the enemy's deception and share practical ways to safeguard your marriage against these attacks.
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Rusty and Heather open up about their journey in the 13 years since Heather's confession of unfaithfulness on August 23, 2011. Having recently passed another anniversary, they reflect on the reasons they initially chose to stay together and how God has honored their decision over the years. With their second and last child now off to college, they also explore how different their lives could have been had they made other choices. Listen and allow their story of redemption, commitment, and the power of faith in the midst of adversity bring hope to your marriage.
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In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a new chapter of their marriage—empty nesting, or as they affectionately call it, their "second honeymoon." As their youngest son heads to college this week, Rusty and Heather share the intentional steps they've taken to prepare for this season, including staying connected and rediscovering their shared passions and purpose. They also open up about the challenges they anticipate, from adjusting to the quietness of an empty house to redefining new expectations surrounding intimacy.
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In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather address a question from a listener struggling with triggers while in a church setting related to past infidelity. Despite years of healing, the listener and her husband find themselves reliving painful memories whenever their pastor preaches on adultery. Rusty and Heather draw from their own journey through infidelity and share how to find peace and hope amidst recurring emotional wounds.
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In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant answer a Summer Shorts question from a listener in Oklahoma. They discuss practical ways couples can grow closer to God individually and together. Their candid conversation reveals how their individual and collective spiritual lives have changed post infidelity. Drawing from that personal experience, Rusty and Heather share the importance of individual spiritual growth as the foundation for growing spiritually as a couple. They offer thoughts on balancing shared spiritual practices, while supporting each other's unique spiritual journeys.
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This week a listener from Kansas asks about the complexities of celebrating a big anniversary milestone after their marriage has been marred by infidelity. Having just celebrated 28 years of marriage, Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of celebrating restoration and redemption. They share personal stories of anniversaries following their own journey through infidelity, and how their celebrations are much different now.
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In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a listener's question from the United Kingdom regarding the impact of Heather's cancer diagnosis on their journey of reconciliation. Heather was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2016, just five years after their marriage crisis.
This episode explores how the health crisis was challenging, but also served as a catalyst for reaffirming their commitment to one another. Rusty and Heather share their personal experiences, discussing the growth that came from facing such a significant life event together. Listen in on how adversity can strengthen bonds, the importance of teamwork during tough times, and how shared struggles can lead to deeper understanding and connection. Whatever challenge you are facing, your commitment to each other can flourish even in the face of adversity. Tune in for an episode filled with hope, resilience, and practical advice for maintaining a strong marriage through life's trials.
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The Story of Heather's Cancer Journey
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In this week's Summer Shorts episode, Rusty and Heather tackle two interconnected listener questions about post-affair communication challenges. They discuss the balance between healing from betrayal and moving forward in your marriage after infidelity.
They address a betrayed spouse's anxiety about discussing the affair, fearing it may cause guilt for their partner. They also examine the struggle of an unfaithful spouse dealing with frequent, painful reminders of their past actions.Drawing from their personal experiences, Rusty and Heather offer practical advice on:
Creating a safe space for open, honest communicationSetting healthy boundaries for affair-related discussionsManaging emotions and triggers during conversationsBalancing the need for healing with the desire to move forwardFostering empathy and understanding between partnersThis episode provides valuable guidance for couples navigating the complex journey of rebuilding trust and intimacy after infidelity, emphasizing the importance of patience, compassion, and even professional support in the healing process.
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