Episodes
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Some workers welcome gifts and tips, and some clients love giving them. But is it mandatory? And what’s the etiquette? Join me for a candid chat with Clark, an experienced Aussie client, as we explore the nuances of giving and receiving.
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Jenn and Tess from ‘It’s So Hard’ podcast join me to explore what we've all learned from sex work...as well as sharing their podcast origin story, and the story behind their long friendship. It's an epic chat not to be missed, as we uncover what sex workers can teach everyone about having great sex.
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Are you struggling with insecurity in the bedroom? Are you getting over a bad experience? Or perhaps you have a sexual secret that you need to get off your chest? Sex workers can be an amazing way to grow your confidence, feel better about yourself and learn more about lovemaking. But they’re not the only option. This episode, I’m speaking with Dr Sarah Ashton from SHIPS to explore why you might want to see a therapist before booking a sex worker.
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Here are The Satisfaction project, we love and recommend independent workers...but we also believe that different types of services suit different clients. If you’re considering exploring sex and intimacy with a pro, it’s worth looking at all the options. So today, escort Tash Murphy joins me again, this time for an in-depth exploration of hands-on sex work in all its glorious forms.
If you've ever wondered whether you'd be more at home in a brothel or a hotel room...if you're not sure whether to call an agency or strike up a conversation with a street-based worker...this is the episode for you! It's only the first instalment in the series, so stay tuned for further episodes! After all, there are many kinds of sex work out there...
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In December last year, I made a guest appearance on Somebody You Love, a wonderful podcast hosted by sex industry legend Jenna Love and Holly Hart. I talked with Jenna about common client mistakes, dealing with 'drop' after a session, and the dangers of the relationship escalator.
With their kind permission, I'm sharing our chat as a bonus episode. If you like what you hear, please head on over to Somebody You Love and subscribe to their podcast too - it's not to be missed!
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If you plan on having really good sex with escorts, both physical and emotional safety are essential. The booking process is designed to help create confidence for both your sex worker and yourself - but safety is a two-way street, and what you do and say matters too! This episode I’m chatting with Cameron Hart, escort and adult star, to explore the ways we make our sexual experiences safer - and what you can do to get that ‘safe, secure, satisfied’ vibe happening in your sessions.
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We all know that sex work is a tricky topic. Whether what we do for a living is allowed or prohibited where you live, there’s a lot of stigma. And we all want that to change. But if you’re a client, you may feel that your power to change things is pretty limited. In this episode, sex worker and advocate Holly Harte joins me to talk about practical sex work activism - everyday ways you can stand up for your favourite workers, and make everyone’s lives better.
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I know we usually talk about independent sex professionals, but today we’re going to bend the rules a little and talk about brothels. Let’s face it, brothels are a thing in many parts of the world, and they can be a good way to experiment with seeing hands-on sex workers if you’re not quite ready for the full independent experience, If you’ve wondered what it’s like to visit a brothel, or what the etiquette is, wonder no more…Sam from smutbuttons.com is here to demystify the experience.
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If there’s anything I’ve learned from my time in the sex industry, it’s that sexual attraction is diverse and sex workers come in all shapes and sizes! Unfortunately, society’s ‘fear of fat’ can cause stress, shame, and awkwardness for workers and clients alike. Jessie Sage joins us again in this episode to unpack fatphobia and to stand up for you, if you’re a fan of ‘fat’ too.
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When it comes to sex work sessions, dinner dates and overnights are the five-star option. But preparation is everything - or it could be a very awkward eight hours or more in the company of someone new! Escort Alice Grey is a dinner date and overnight expert. In this episode, she joins me to break down the essential ingredients of a successful longer booking.
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For a lot of folks, taking that first step to request a session with a sex worker is a REALLY big deal. And although sex work is just another type of work, there’s definitely some stuff you need to know, if you don’t want to be turned away. So this episode, I’m teaming up with sex worker and writer Jessie Sage to cover all the basic etiquette you need when you send that first email or text message.
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Thanks to shame, stereotypes and sex-negativity, sex and disability can be a tricky topic. This means that clients are sometimes afraid to ask, and workers sometimes worry they’re going to screw things up. Luckily, adult star Melinah Viking and sex educator on occupational therapist Tess Devèze are really good at talking about this stuff, and they’re joining us for a chat about disability and where it fits, when it comes to sex work.
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We often think of getting laid as trivial and recreational…but for many, it’s a very profound experience. This episode, I’m speaking with Artemisia de Vine, an erotic psyche specialist who teaches people the art of purposeful playdates. We’re going to unpack some of the ways the services of sex workers can help you learn, grow, and live a fulfilling life.
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Think you might be a little bit kinky? Perhaps more than a little? Spending time with an experienced pro can be a great way to explore your fantasies. This episode I’m speaking with pro domme Mistress Tokyo and fetish escort Sai Jaiden Lilith to demystify the process of arranging a paid session with a BDSM expert.
About our guests
Mistress Tokyo is a Dominatrix based in Sydney Australia who is recognised internationally as a kink educator and performer. She has more than two decade's experience in professional BDSM, with 14 years as an independent pro domme. Follow her on Twitter: @MistressTokyo.
Sai Jaiden Lillith is a Melbourne-based master, mistress, pro domme, fetish escort, and shibari artist. Alongside Mistress Penelope Dreadful, they run the well-known Domina Parties event across Australia. They also produce online fetish content. Follow them on Twitter: @JaidenLillith.
Enjoyed this episode? Please support our guests! You can donate via BeemIt - Mistress Tokyo's handle is @Gomulatex and Sai Jaiden Lillith's is @SJLEnt.Other resources:
Lillith's Web - BDSM-themed art and kink education via Sai's Patreon accountZCluster - Sai's goth-industrial music projectMistress Tokyo's videos - buy BDSM clips hereOZ Kink Fest - An annual Melbourne kink education eventWorking Out the Kinks with Mistress Tokyo - a 2.5-minute segment talking about BDSM, fantasy and fetish -
When it comes to escorts, a lot of clients worry about authenticity. Compliments, orgasms, mutual pleasure - what if it’s all an act? If you’re the kind of person who gets off on your date having a good time, these concerns might be getting in the way of your enjoyment too. Luckily, the wonderful Tash Murphy is joining me to talk about what’s authentic, what isn’t, and how to keep it real.
About our guest: Tash Murphy is an adult industry professional based in Melbourne. She has a background in adult retail, community health and advocacy, and currently works as an independent escort.
Enjoyed this episode? Please support Tash by donating via BeemIt - her handle is @tashmurphy_au.
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All around the world, sex workers are out there doing things their own way. How we do business depends on the law, our culture, and our personal preferences. This episode I’m chatting with Tank Smith, producer of the US-based Full service podcast, to compare notes on escorting in the USA and here in Australia.
About our guest: Tank Smith is a USA-based stand-up comedian and regular escort client. He’s the producer of the Full Service podcast, where he talks sex work and interviews industry professionals.
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When it comes to sex work, there are lots of misconceptions. One thing I’ve learned from the industry is that the more you know what it’s really like, the more outrageous these stereotypes are. To make sure you know what’s what, I’m calling on Jenna Love - Aussie escort, activist, and educator - to help me sort the fact from the fiction.
About our guest: Jenna Love is a full-service sex worker, content creator, activist and educator based in New South Wales, Australia. In her latest project, the Somebody You Love podcast, she teams up with Holly Harte for frank discussions about sex work and sex worker rights.
Enjoyed this episode? Please support Somebody You Love by subscribing to the Patreon.
