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Living in the Moment: "Are we truly living, or just thinking about life? Join me as I delve into the journey of staying present and finding joy in everyday moments.
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Self-improvement.
A testament often heralded but fraught with peril. Indeed, we should strive to work on ourselves, but the reflection of my soul once revealed a man I neither desired to be nor to present to the world.
Improving the frail, fearful, and broken shell I once was, projecting a façade of confidence unconsciously, was not the answer. No, that man needed to die. And die, he did.
In some cases, the situation is so dire that replacement, not repair, is the only viable option. Yet, this does not negate the principle that everything is redeemable; everyone is capable of change.
It doesn't require mastery to effect this transformation. It requires discovery.
The more VALUE you bring into the world, the less freedom you have to sabotage your life because your purpose becomes a lifeline for others. Picture this: a single drop of water falling into a still pond, creating ripples that extend far beyond its point of impact. Similarly, our actions and purpose send waves that touch lives we might never meet. This truth underscores a profound reality: as our influence grows, so does our responsibility. Our actions no longer affect just ourselves; they ripple out, impacting the lives of those who depend on our purpose, our vision, and our very being.
Meeting people is where life happens, I believe, in its purest form. At this point, I realize that just as I have been inspired and in awe of others, they, too, have been inspired and in awe of me. This mutual inspiration is the essence of human connection. We are only special in our unique ability and interest in the lives of those around us… which makes us part of something greater: purpose, legacy, movement. I am often inspired.
Yet, this dependency from others can morph into unhealthy codependency if not navigated with wisdom and discernment. Consider the overbearing parent who, in their desire to protect, stifles the growth and independence of their child. It is here that we must lead from the ROOT of autonomy. Autonomy does not imply isolation but rather a well-defined sense of self that establishes clear boundaries with everyone around us. Imagine a garden: each plant thrives best when given its own space to grow, with clear boundaries to prevent entanglement and allow each one to flourish. These boundaries are not barriers but bridges to healthier, more authentic relationships. They delineate where we end and others begin, fostering an environment where mutual respect and individual growth coexist.
This is where strong interdependence and accountability are forged. It is within this space of healthy boundaries and self-awareness that intimate life thrives. Think of a dance: two partners moving in harmony, each aware of their own steps yet perfectly in sync with the other. This thriving intimacy is not confined to romantic relationships but extends to all forms of human connection. It is the bedrock upon which trust is built and upon which transformation occurs.
For the believer, this autonomy is the ROOT of our purpose, the POWER of our being, the CONTROL of our intention, and the PLAYFULNESS found in the joy of being who we are without fear, shame, or regret. Our faith informs and enriches this autonomy, grounding it in a higher purpose and a deeper sense of belonging. Imagine a tree rooted deeply in rich soil: its stability and growth come from its roots, but it reaches out, providing shade, fruit, and shelter to the world around it.
This is the abundant life shared with others. It is a life marked by the freedom to be authentically ourselves while embracing the responsibility that comes with our influence. It is a life where joy is not a fleeting emotion but a deep-seated state of being, born out of the assurance of our place in the world and our impact on it. Picture a lighthouse standing firm on the shore: it is grounded and unwavering, providing guidance and safety to all who navigate the turbulent waters. -
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Conversations That Transform – Part 2: Finding Joy, Clarity, and Purpose in Every Word
Video Link: In this continuation of "Are You Listening?", Dr. James Tippins explores the remaining principles of how our conversations, inspired by the Word of God, can lead to transformation. Dive into the discussion as we uncover how our words can illuminate, guide, and bring peace. Learn how to nurture growth through intentional dialogue and imagine a life where every conversation is an opportunity for change. Join us for Part 2 of this enlightening series.
Podcast Notes (Part 2: Points 11-20):
Metaphor of Light:
Words as light that dispel darkness in others' lives.
Proof Texts: Matthew 5:14-15; Ephesians 5:8
Purpose in Every Word:
Every word should build up and give grace.
Proof Texts: Ephesians 4:29; Proverbs 18:4
Overcoming Negativity:
Using words to counteract negative narratives and spread positivity.
Proof Texts: Philippians 4:8; Romans 12:2
Example of Jesus:
Jesus' transformative conversations as a model for us.
Proof Texts: John 4:13-14; John 8:12
Inviting Others In:
Creating a tapestry of understanding and support through shared conversations.
Proof Texts: Romans 15:7; 1 Thessalonians 5:14
The Role of Listening:
Effective conversations start with truly hearing others.
Proof Texts: James 1:19; Proverbs 18:13
Cultural Engagement:
Thoughtful engagement with culture reflecting Christ’s love.
Proof Texts: 1 Corinthians 9:22; Colossians 4:5-6
Creative Purpose in Life:
Sharing ideas and dreams to inspire and motivate each other.
Proof Texts: 1 Peter 4:10; Ephesians 2:10
Nurturing Growth:
Nurturing relationships through consistent, loving conversations.
Proof Texts: Galatians 6:2; Hebrews 3:13
Imagine Your Life:
Envisioning a life where every conversation transforms and brings joy, clarity, and purpose.
Proof Texts: Ephesians 4:15; Proverbs 12:25 -
Video Link: In this episode of "Are You Listening?" Dr. James Tippins delves into the transformative power of conversations grounded in the Word of God. Join us as we explore the first ten principles of how hearing and speaking the truth of Christ can bring joy, clarity, and purpose into our lives and the lives of those around us. Discover how our words can be vessels of grace, build community, and foster healing. Don't miss this insightful discussion that will inspire you to use your conversations for positive change.
Podcast Notes (Part 1: Points 1-10):
The Power of the Word:
The transformative nature of God's Word, likened to a seed that changes everything around it.
Proof Texts: Isaiah 55:11; Hebrews 4:12
Transformation through Hearing:
Faith comes from hearing the Word of Christ, renewing our hearts and minds.
Proof Texts: Romans 10:17; James 1:22
Speaking Life:
Our words, empowered by Christ, have the power to build up and encourage.
Proof Texts: Proverbs 18:21; Ephesians 4:29
Conversations that Matter:
Speaking with intention and love opens doors to transformation.
Proof Texts: Colossians 4:6; Proverbs 15:4
The Ripple Effect:
Words create ripples of influence far beyond the initial conversation.
Proof Texts: Galatians 6:9; Matthew 5:16
Empowerment through Truth:
Grounded in Christ's truth, our words offer strength and guidance.
Proof Texts: John 8:32; 2 Timothy 1:7
Building Community:
Early Church's devotion to fellowship and teaching as a model for us.
Proof Texts: Acts 2:42; Hebrews 10:24-25
Healing through Words:
Gracious words bring healing and sweetness to the soul.
Proof Texts: Proverbs 16:24; Proverbs 12:18
Creating Space for New Conversations:
Intentional spaces for discussions on Church, Christian living, and culture.
Proof Texts: Colossians 3:16; 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Living Out Our Faith:
Conversations as opportunities to live out and share our faith.
Proof Texts: James 2:17; 1 Peter 3:15 -
GraceTruth Church focuses on authenticity and intimacy, encouraging individuals to be themselves without fear of judgment. Emphasizing the importance of knowing our purpose in Christ, the church fosters a supportive community.
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In the last decade, and more so in the last three years, I've embarked on a path of deep exploration and bold exposition in areas often left uncharted or merely skimmed over by the broader Christian community. I make no apologies for this pursuit. It's a deliberate, intentional dive into the complexities and nuances of living a life rooted in Christ—a path not chosen lightly, but with a fervent desire to understand, to grow, and to challenge not only myself but also those who walk this journey with me.
This exploration is not a rebellion against the foundations of our faith but a quest to deepen our roots in the rich soil of Christ's teachings. As I delve into themes of authenticity in faith, the interplay between our spiritual beliefs and societal engagement, and the freedom found in Christ's sovereignty, my aim is to bring these conversations to the forefront of our collective consciousness. It's through engaging with these challenging topics that we, as a faith community, can grow to be more mindful, more authentic, and more impactful in our walk with Christ.
Together, let us question, seek, and explore the vast dimensions of what it means to be in Christ. Let this not be a journey marked by fear of stepping into the unknown, but rather by the courage to face it head-on, guided by the truth of the Gospel. As we engage in this way, let us inspire one another toward a deeper, more vibrant understanding and practice of our faith.
Exploring the Concept of Authenticity in Faith
Being true to oneself stands as a cornerstone of worship and service, echoing the scriptural call for a heart that is sincere and undivided before God. This authenticity is not merely a personal ideal but a biblical imperative that underpins genuine joy and fulfillment in life. In the pursuit of living authentically, individuals are encouraged to shed pretenses and embrace their true selves in the presence of God, fostering a deeper connection with the divine. Romans 12:9 underscores this by urging, "Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good," highlighting the importance of sincerity and truth in one’s faith journey.
Non-Theological Engagement
The dialogue extends beyond the traditional confines of theology, scripture, or Christ, venturing into realms that, while seemingly secular, deeply resonate with a Christian worldview. This approach underscores the interconnectedness of faith with all life aspects, affirming the relevance of Christian principles in addressing a broad spectrum of topics from daily challenges to global issues. Acts 17:28 illustrates this interconnectedness: "In him we live and move and have our being," reminding us that God’s presence and influence permeate every aspect of our existence.
The Church and Cultural Engagement
A critical examination of the church's role vis-à-vis the wider world reveals a pressing need for leaders and congregations alike to step beyond the familiar territory of "Christian life." This venture involves not just a passive observation but an active, informed engagement with cultural and societal dynamics. Such a stance demands a robust critique of the church's current engagement strategies, urging a shift towards a more Jesus-centric understanding and interaction with the world. Romans 12:2 challenges the church to this transformative engagement: "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."
Freedom and Sovereignty in Christ
The recognition of divine sovereignty serves as a liberating force, granting believers the freedom to explore and express their faith across various domains of life. This freedom, rooted in an understanding of God's ultimate authority and purpose, encourages a bold and fearless engagement with the world, unshackled by the constraints of fear or conformity. -
I Ain't Scared of No Post
We live in a world where the essence of who we truly are is often buried under the heavy weight of societal norms and expectations. It's a world that demands conformity, often at the expense of our individuality and the unique light we each carry within us. But today, I stand before you to challenge this status quo, to call into question the narratives we've been handed down, and to assert a profound truth that might seem audacious to some. A year ago I posted a short note to myself where some of these ideas were just being born.
For too long, we've been told that to focus on ourselves, to prioritize our growth and our happiness, is somehow selfish or wrong. To this, I say it's time we call out this falsehood for what it is. It's time we take a good, hard look at ourselves—not through the lens of what culture dictates, but through the understanding of who we are at our core.
My journey has been one of navigating through life without the compass of free intuition. You know the saying, "Don't trust the heart." Well, I've lived it. And in the absence of this trust, fear became my guide, my motivator, and, unexpectedly, my teacher. I learned a long time ago that perfect love casts out fear, and if I'm unable to see this, I'm still navigating through life with a blindfold on, regardless of what I believe I know.
Now, with a clearer vision than ever before, I've come to understand something crucial: If you don't love yourself, you're unable to fully embrace the love of others, let alone the love of the divine. And how can you possibly offer genuine love to those around you?
I choose life. Life chose me. I'm alive, and for the first time, I understand why.
It's with this newfound clarity and purpose that I invite you to join me in exploring how we can turn our fears into fuel. This isn't just a metaphorical concept; it's a practical, tangible strategy for personal development and for instigating real change in our lives and in the world around us.
Together, let's discover twelve ways to harness this powerful force, transforming our fears from shadows that haunt us into lights that guide our way. This journey is not about dismissing fear, but about understanding its role, embracing it, and ultimately, learning how to use it as a catalyst for growth, creativity, and transformation.
So, let's dive deep into the complexities of human psychology, societal conditioning, and the transformative power of fear. It's a journey that promises to be as challenging as it is rewarding, but I assure you, it's one worth taking. Together, we can turn fear into a fuel for our development and the betterment of our world. Let's embark on this journey, not just as individuals, but as a community committed to change.
1. Recognize Fear as a Signpost, Not a Roadblock. Fear is not the enemy; it's a guide. It signals areas of our lives that require attention, growth, or change. Acknowledging fear as a signpost empowers us to confront our anxieties head-on, turning obstacles into opportunities for growth.
2. Embrace Vulnerability as Strength. Vulnerability is often mistaken for weakness, yet it's the foundation of courage and change. By embracing our fears and vulnerabilities, we open ourselves to genuine connection with others and our own authentic selves, catalyzing personal and communal transformation.
3. Reclaim Your Narrative. Society scripts narratives that dictate who we should be, often miring us in fear of nonconformity. Reclaiming your narrative means acknowledging your fears and then writing your own story—one that resonates with your inner truth and aspirations.
4. Practice Mindful Awareness. Mindfulness teaches us to observe our fears without judgment, allowing us to detach from their paralyzing grip and respond with intention rather than react out of instinct.
5. Leverage Fear as a Motivational Force. Fear can be a powerful motivator, propelling us toward our goals with urgency and... -
A poem of me: A Rose.
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“When we perceive a man, we perceive him as a whole. His physical body, his intellect, his personality – it’s all tied into who he is as a person. So, while his body may be aging, he’s growing more independent, successful, and mature. Therefore, he's still attractive – perhaps even more so. It doesn’t matter that he’s got some wrinkles, because his body is healthily aligned with his being.”
Grace, the woman who wrote this about men observes the antithesis in the world concerning women. I'm not here to debate it, it is true. Period. I'll talk in future publishing about this.
While some people would argue that women are not seen differently, it doesn't negate that it is true for many and a lack of privilege presented a different worldview. To argue against another person's experience is foolish. We don't get to speak for all who share commonality with us.
I look to start a conversation that would begin "When we perceive a [wo]man, we perceive him her as a whole."
While there are many men who would readily vow to perceive women as her whole, we must not be naive and pretend that our culture does not, as a collective, see women in this way. The loud, bold, open, and exposed reality of how some men view women is violent and subtle. The violent side of things, the hate, the ridicule, the objectification, the lack of empathy, the blind-sided workload, and the emotional and physical abuse are easy to spot. The subtle side is often more demeaning and unconsciously active. This is true, even for our sisters in this world. Subtle defines what is often unnoticeable. And what is unnoticeable can often be deadly. The death of agency, death of liberty, death of identity, and death of self-worth are just a few outcomes of unseen misogyny and sexism. I hope to explain the identity-crippling, painful, and isolating abuses and the emotional terror they cause in future writings.
Seeing something and how it affects others can't be unseen. Once you see certain things, especially systemic and cultural hatred of half the population, you can't put that back in the bottle and be considered human. We don't know who can and cannot see women in a true sense as human beings, persons, and equals. For the men who do, it is obvious that we do not control the dominant voice and it appears to me, that we aren't even on the airwaves.
For over twenty years I have been preparing to speak to this issue. I'm not speaking for women or even to women. No, mainly I am speaking about how many view women and how men who see and know the truth should be partners in this journey to right centuries of wrongs.
It is wrong.
That is not up for discussion.
Grace asks her readers to "Think of the most beautiful woman you know."
"I doubt you’re thinking about her boobs or butt. You’re probably thinking about her vibe, her energy, how she makes you feel when you’re around her, how she is healthily aligned with her being. She doesn’t try hard because she doesn’t have to. She is firm, grounded, strong. She is emotional, sensitive, compassionate. She is everything that makes a woman and more. She is not the sum of her parts. She is not a trend. She is a gestalt."
Society, culture, and everything that makes these things tick is responsible. So, because we comprise society, we are responsible for changing it.
My next book publishing will be the title of this essay, and if permitted, will reveal my life-long passion for this issue, my journey to seeing things as they are, and that the spiritual side of life and love demands such attention, reform, and relegation of both the bold and silent bias against our sisters.
In this speaking, our sisters do not need men to defend them, fight for them, or stand in their place. This is part of the problem. They have the agency and ability to do so. They need partnership as human beings to overcome a long-standing hatred that is so common it's nearly invisible.
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Laugh at yourself. Be creative. Just a thought.
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Stains keep me up at night.
It's true. I have a tendency to obsess over stains on rugs, clothes, bedding, or anywhere else. There's a wine stain on our butcherblock countertop that only I can see. I've spent the last nine years trying to discover new ways of eradicating it. One day, I'll strip, sand, and refinish the whole lot; that will do it.
Most of the time, a stain is something to remove or clean. But in a positive sense, we can call a stain a mark.
Everyone thinks about making a "mark" on the world. And some of us leave negative marks or stains. So, let's just say that a mark is positive and a stain is negative depending on the outcome and most of all, the perspective.
The mind inside of me is always thinking. And today, I realized I'm not much for personal legacy but I am always, even from childhood, considering my impact on the world around me.
I reevaluated some goals recently that some of you may have seen on YouTube. Check it out if want a peek inside my insanity.
Today I have put some action to these goals with other thoughts.
THREE M's of leaving a MARK
MOVE
MEET
MOTIVATE
These three things are not an all-inclusive set of actions that will give me what I want, but they are MY WAY of organizing my life. And for those who know me, you understand this came to me in a nanosecond. I am a living, breathing alliteration factory.
MOVE
This means that I want to enter this phase of my life actively. So, I am going to rekindle my passions for martial arts, biking, strength training, shooting sports, calisthenics, and swimming. I find that when I engage my body my mind seems to be alive and focused. That is why I nearly always take calls and walk. I've recently added a "pedal" under my desk.
Not only is moving good for the body and mind, but it is also good for establishing good connections for creativity, spiritual growth, and prayer. There is something to be said about doing that keeps our mind free to truly be in the moment. A short read of the New Testament letters reveals this practice often.
MEET
I've never been a stranger to strangers. I love meeting new people and lately have been more isolated than not. So, part of the life I desire to live requires being actively involved, to a degree, with others.
This part requires me to prioritize and put FIRST things FIRST.
So, in the relationship portion of "meet" I put my marriage as the top priority over every other relationship. This is key. If my marriage falls cold, everything follows.
Second, my children. All five of them and soon-to-be two grandkids, and the two sons-in-law are a major priority. And while they are not the top, they are as important and often require more time than my wife and I have for each other. But that's OK. We enjoy the adult side of parenting together.
Then comes my relatives, spiritual family, my community, those who depend on me in advocacy, and anyone else that comes along as my neighbor. I have an obligation to them, but never at the cost of the first two. I will write more about these relationships in time.
MOTIVATE
I have little time for leisure. I've tried it. It doesn't suit me at all. I honestly do not care for doing "nothing" and find it causes me stress. Yes, I take time out and I love being alone to write, think, and enjoy some of my more creative interests. But I need to be actively working toward a goal most of the time.
So, motivation includes me, and those around me, toward a goal or desire. I find that most people are stagnant because they are not encouraged, guided, shepherded, and loved. It's amazing to me that so many religious people are bitter, lonely, and hard to be around when they claim to have ultimate 'joy'.
I think it's more important to encourage and motivate other people in life beyond all other interactions or investments available. Time together is always time for encouragement.
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After three years I am restarting this conversation. I hope to get all of you back in the saddle of having a good convo. Take care to watch for my newsletters starting in the next few months. Every Friday-- about some neat and new ideas on living life well for the Glory of Christ.
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I think we need to talk.
Here are some thoughts relating to the future.
I am sure many will have questions, but most of all, I hope everyone has ears to hear and to listen. -
The forest for the trees type thingy... ok.
I am particular about being specific. I am also verbose. Writing helps to manage and mature both issues.
I have often prided myself on being myopic in certain disciplines, even dogmatic about important things. We should be, honestly, when it comes to our convictions, our health, our families, etc. But we are not to throw out the rest of the truth (an er, people in our lives) in the name of being focused.
I think myopic and focused are neighbors, but they can also be enemies.
While focus and confidence in our ideas are paramount, these are worthless if we become blind to other people in the process. Sometimes we think we are certain in our understanding of things but our unwillingness to engage with alternative ideas without being triggered reveals a deeper problem. Namely, that our passions are mostly emotionalism rather than sound and reasoned beliefs.
We have to be willing, able, and desirous of learning and discovering not only what other people think and feel, but why. This is central to the human experience and for the spiritual people reading this, it's taught and expounded upon in the Christian scriptures. Part of caring is patience. Part of patience is listening. Part of listening is turning off our instant response arsenal and just existing in the presence of often dumb ideas.
As long as we consider people's ideas dumb, we are not seeing them as peers who are also experiencing life as we are. We quickly forget that everyone is on the journey but we are each in our own place. Loving kindness starts and finishes with true affection, which patiently traverses with the goal of like-mindedness. Bullying and terrorism are not successful methods of change. Our culture needs to learn that quickly. Right behavior and facts don't make a community. Patience in diversity with understanding do.
Eventually, we will all find our own place and people. Until then, keep striving to be a part of a community that is known for the truth of how they love each other, not the truth of their dogma. The latter is a lonely and eternally fruitless place. Remember, there is a context in every thought and conversation. Find it, grow in it, understand it, and help others grow too.
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Love is a term that many people use without meaning or purpose and sometimes it is assigned the wrong definition. God is love and His love toward His elect is a decisive action unto their eternal life, redemption, forgiveness, etc. I want to encourage you to think on this Love of God this year... this day... right now.
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There is never a day when I don't have some sense of a spiritual struggle. Even in the best of days, the enemy is at work, my flesh enjoys the ride, and the Spirit within is at war. Thankfully, I don't have to come to rest in my struggle in order to be assured and secure in Christ; he's done that work in my place. But there are many things that I have noticed cause a worse struggle within, namely, some of the things I put into my mind at times...
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There is no room for a "close" gospel, and according to Paul in Galatians, any iteration of the gospel that is not pure on both sides is a false gospel. Therefore, those who hold as their hope these nuanced gospels are to be understood as having not been converted as they do not have the truth.
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The bible and the brethren are essential "legs" of the Christian's life. Without ONE of these, there is no real or tangible way that any believer will be healthy and growing. Think about this for a minute, and remember, these thoughts are for your perusal, for your thinking... are you listening?
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Evangelism is the PURPOSE of most religious groups in the world. The Christian faith surely should be actively involved in reaching God's lost sheep with the gospel of grace. But the methods employed most of the time are not necessarily good or effective. What does Scripture say? This brief thought is just to jar our minds and get us thinking as we look to the future of this topic. We can either trust God's word or we can't. That is the simple truth of evangelism.
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Reading books is something I LOVE. And for the longest time, I hated reading anything but Scripture... or comic books as a kid. (And the season read through of encyclopedia sets). OK, I have always loved to read, but only what I loved to read. To the point. I get questions related to what books Christians should be reading nearly every week. So, my thoughts, in brief, is that we should be reading the Bible more than anything else. If I spend an hour reading other material (even about Scripture), I should be reading the bible three times longer.
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