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In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, we tackle the nuanced experiences of bisexual people in same-gender relationships. Have you ever felt "not straight enough to be bi"? For many bi+ individuals, being in a queer-presenting or same-gender relationship often leads to being mistaken as gay or lesbian, resulting in unique challenges and privileges.
We unpack what it means to navigate the world as a bi person in a same-gender relationship, the dynamics of "gay-passing" privilege, and how these intersections shape identity, community, and visibility. We also explore how to embrace your bisexuality fully, foster meaningful connections, and address feelings of imposter syndrome within the LGBTQIA+ community.
Highlights include:
Navigating "gay-passing" privilege and the visibility struggle in same-gender relationshipsOvercoming internalised biphobia and toxic masculinity in forming same-sex platonic friendshipsDating in same-sex circles as a bisexual person—unique joys, challenges, and navigating spacesHow your partner can support your visibility and identityPlus, we dive into listener questions and comments, including a video submission on why it's important to clarify "gay-passing" relationships, and explore how to find pride in your unique place in the queer spectrum.
This is a can't-miss episode for anyone navigating identity, visibility, and community as a bisexual person in same-gender relationships.
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In this episode, Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer delve into the complexities of bisexuality in different-gender relationships. They tackle the challenges of societal perceptions, biphobia, and "straight-passing privilege." Through personal anecdotes and insights from the bi+ community, the hosts explore the need for visibility, validation, and joy in bisexual identities. Together, they confront myths, celebrate positive representations, and offer practical resources for bisexual individuals and their allies.
Key Points/HighlightsThe Myth of Straight-Passing Privilege: The misconception that bisexuals in different-gender relationships have an advantage is debunked with personal insights and research data.Reframing the Narrative: Shifting the focus from doom and gloom to joy and thriving in bi+ relationships.Community Insights: Contributions from the Give It To Me Bi Facebook group highlight real-life experiences and challenges.Partner Support: Navigating the journey of coming out in a relationship, with an emphasis on communication and allyship.The Role of Communication: How vulnerability and open dialogue can strengthen relationships and challenge stereotypes.Intersection with Mental Health: The impact of erasure and exclusion on bisexual individuals' mental health.Resources for Allies: Tools and information to help allies support their bisexual loved ones effectively.
Resources & LinksBooks Mentioned:
For the Love of Men by Liz PlankThe Will to Change by Bell HooksPodcasts Mentioned:
The Man Enough PodcastArticles and Videos:
Do Bisexuals Have Access to Straight Privilege? by Jamie Arpin-RicciPassing Bi: Bi+ People in "Straight-Facing" Relationships (YouTube)Helpful Resources:
How to Support Someone Who Has Recently Come Out as BisexualEnjoyed this episode? Don’t forget to:
Subscribe and Leave a Review on Spotify and Apple Podcasts to help more listeners find the show.Join the Conversation in our private Facebook group for exclusive updates and discussions.Visit Our Website for more resources: Give It To Me Bi.Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this World AIDS Day special, Chad and Steve deliver an open, heartfelt, and deeply informative conversation about HIV and AIDS. Steve shares his personal journey as a person living with HIV, exploring the importance of testing, treatment, and education. We dive into groundbreaking medical advancements, including the U=U (Undetectable Equals Untransmittable) campaign and PrEP, while also tackling stigma and the historical impact of the HIV/AIDS crisis on the LGBTQ+ community. This episode is packed with life-changing insights, resources, and a message of hope for ending the HIV epidemic.
Key Points/Highlights:World AIDS Day Themes: Discussion of the global theme "Take the Rights Path" and Australia's "It Starts With Me," highlighting rights-based approaches to ending the HIV epidemic.U=U Explained: Steve shares his experience of achieving an undetectable viral load through antiretroviral treatment, emphasising that undetectable equals untransmittable.HIV Testing Advocacy: The importance of regular testing, with a shoutout to free, at-home HIV test kits available at hivtest.au.Breaking Stigma: Tackling misconceptions and societal judgment faced by people living with HIV, especially in the bi+ community.PrEP and Prevention: An introduction to pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP), its effectiveness, and how it empowers individuals to prevent HIV transmission.Personal Stories: Steve opens up about his diagnosis journey, sharing how community support and modern medicine transformed his outlook on life.Historical Context: Reflecting on the devastating impact of the HIV/AIDS crisis and the resilience of the queer community.
Resources & Links:HIV Self-Testing Kits: hivtest.auPrEP Access Now: pan.org.auBiSHH Study: bishhstudy.comDocumentary: How to Survive a Plague (2012)Bi Positive Advocacy Network: [email protected]Enjoyed this episode? Share your thoughts! Leave a comment on Spotify, write a review on Apple Podcasts, or join the conversation in our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook group.
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In this episode, 10 Surprising Truths About Bisexuality and Bi Clapbacks, we're unpacking the realities of being bi—the unexpected, the challenging, and the joyful. We’re taking a deep dive into the truths of bisexuality, from the misconceptions to the moments of pride that make it all worthwhile.
But we’re not stopping there. We’re also equipping you with the ultimate clapbacks for those tired stereotypes that bi folks hear all too often. Whether it’s the classic "Isn’t bisexuality transphobic?" or "Why do you have to tell everybody?", we've got the perfect responses to help you handle them with confidence and humour.
We’re exploring topics like:
The surprising truths about being bi that most people don’t talk about.How biphobia shows up, even in queer spaces, and how we deal with it.Our favourite clapbacks to common misconceptions about bisexuality.Whether you’re bi, questioning, or just want to learn more, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and the tools you need to navigate bisexuality with pride.
Resources & Links:
BISHH Study: The first community-led and conducted online national survey to ask bi+ people in Australia about their sexual health, relationships, wellbeing, and more. The survey is anonymous, takes about 30-45 minutes, and is open to anyone under the bi+ umbrella.How to Support Someone Who's Just Come Out as Bisexual - A helpful guide for friends, family, and allies.Join our community on Facebook and connect with other bi+ folks!Subscribe to our Newsletter to stay updated on all things Give It To Me Bi.More from Give It To Me Bi:
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In this special follow-up to our AMA episode, we're diving into your questions about bisexuality. We had so many fantastic questions from our community that we decided to split our AMA into two parts—this one is all about bisexuality, identity, and everything in between.
We’re tackling questions like:
How do you stay visible as a bisexual person in a heteronormative world?What’s it like to come out as bi after identifying as gay?How do you express your attraction to other genders in a monogamous relationship?Whether you're questioning, out and proud, or just curious, this episode covers a wide range of topics, from personal insights to practical advice. Plus, we explore how bisexuality intersects with masculinity, relationships, and the different ways people can experience attraction.
If you’ve ever felt caught between labels or struggled with how to stay true to your identity, this episode is for you.
Resources & Links:
BISHH Study: The first community-led and conducted online national survey to ask bi+ people in Australia about their sexual health, relationships, wellbeing, and more. The survey is anonymous, takes about 30-45 minutes, and is open to anyone under the bi+ umbrella.How to Support Someone Who's Just Come Out as Bisexual - A helpful guide for friends, family, and allies.Join our community on Facebook and connect with other bi+ folks!Subscribe to our Newsletter to stay updated on all things Give It To Me Bi.More from Give It To Me Bi:
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In Episode 10, we take on a question that’s been floating around for ages: “Where are all the bi men?”
We dive deep into the unique challenges that bi men face, from societal expectations to internalised fears. We’re talking about everything—how masculinity and patriarchal norms have shaped our understanding of bisexuality, the stigma within both queer and straight communities, and the mental health impacts of staying closeted.
You’ll hear personal stories, the ups and downs of being out, and some heartfelt advice for anyone struggling to accept their own bi identity. We also celebrate our recent partnership with Star Observer! This episode has something for everyone, whether you're out, questioning, or just curious.
Resources & Links:
The Elixir Effect: Book Launch
Chad will be MC’ing the launch of The Elixir Effect, a story about identity, masculinity, and family. Join us for this exclusive event to meet the author, Peter Matthews, hear excerpts, and get a signed copy.
📅 Wednesday, 6 Nov, 5:50 pm - 8 pm AEDT📍 Pullman Sydney Hyde Park, Darlinghurst, AustraliaRegister Here
Facebook Group
Join our community on Facebook, share your experiences, and stay connected with other bi+ folks and allies.
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How to Support Someone Who’s Just Come Out as Bisexual
We know coming out is a big deal, so we’ve put together this guide for allies who want to offer meaningful support.
Read the Guide
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Chad and Steve dive headfirst into all of your burning questions and nothing’s off-limits!! From heartfelt insights into coming out, to the complexities of bi+ relationships–we’ve got stories about personal growth, awkward moments, and how we make sense of being bi+ in today’s world.
You’ll hear candid reflections on identity, practical advice for navigating relationships, and maybe a few confessions from our younger years. Whether you’re figuring it all out or feeling comfortable in your identity, there’s something here for everyone.
Plus, we couldn't resist sharing some music recommendations—tunes that have been our vibe lately (check out the playlists below!).
Spotify Playlists:
Cunty Chappel Roan Summer: Listen HereNancy Myers Kitchen Mix: Listen HereBimlow - Jessica Bellef: Listen HereAdditional Resources:
BISHH Study: Participate HereGITMB Website: Explore HereHow to Support Someone Who's Just Come Out as Bisexual: Read the GuideHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Curious about pegging but unsure where to start? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on everything you’ve ever wanted to know about pegging—from the practical, to the taboo, to the emotional. Whether you're new to the concept or an experienced enthusiast, our experts break down the myths, provide useful tips for first-timers, and dive into the personal and social dynamics that make pegging a unique and powerful experience.
You’ll hear from Steve and Britt as they share insights from their pegging workshops, discuss how to introduce pegging into your relationship, and why it has nothing to do with gender or sexuality. Plus, we tackle the often-avoided subject of douching, discuss consent, and offer some expert advice on how to make your experience safe, fun, and shame-free.
Resources & Links:
"TGA: Don't Ban Poppers!" – Steve’s Change.org petition"‘It’s a war on bottoms’: poppers may soon be banned in Australia pending a TGA decision" – Steve in Star Observer RE Poppers Ban"The Australian Government Wants to Ban Poppers" – Steve in VICE RE Poppers Ban"Should amyl be banned? The TGA wants you to have your say" – triple j HackPoppers infoSteve’s favourite pegging song 🎶More from Give It To Me Bi:
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Hey everyone! In this episode, we (Chad and Steve) dive into the topic of coming out as bisexual. We talk about the different ways people experience coming out, how it's evolving into more of an "inviting in" process for some, and the unique challenges that bi people face compared to our gay and lesbian siblings.
We share stories of personal growth, community support, and the cultural shifts happening around bisexuality. Plus, we give you the inside scoop on the Buy Rainbow event we're co-hosting and discuss how visibility for the bi community is changing, both online and offline. Hope you enjoy!
Highlights
The shift from "coming out" to "inviting in"Personal stories about our own coming out journeysUnique challenges bisexual individuals face compared to their gay and lesbian counterparts.The role of community support in embracing and celebrating bisexual identities.Steve may or may not have sent an 'interesting' picture to the wrong personConnect with Us:
Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community supportStay Connected:
Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community funHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Join us in this enlightening episode as we chat with Professor Christy Newman, a leading researcher from UNSW. We delve into the groundbreaking Bisexual+ Sexual Health and HIV (BISHH Study) that's opening new avenues for understanding. Christy shares insights on how research can shape real-world change and dives deep into the dynamics of bi+ relationships. From dating tips to partner support, and exploring bisexuality in monogamous relationships, we cover it all.
Highlights:
The groundbreaking BISHH Study and how you can participateHow research insights transform into real-world changesNavigating bi+ relationships: dating, partner support, and moreResources:
BISHH Study ParticipationBisexuality Book by Julia Shaw | AmazonBisexual Men Exist by Vaneet MehtaProfessor Christy Newman's ProfileGallup Poll - 'LGBTQ+ Identification in U.S. Now at 7.6%'Will & Harper TrailerConnect with Us:
Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community supportStay Connected:
Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community funHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, we’re tackling one of the biggest challenges bisexual folks face—those pesky myths and stereotypes. Whether it’s the tired accusation of “confusion,” the hypersexualisation, or the constant assumptions about monogamy, we’re here to break it all down.
We’ve both faced these myths in our own lives, and we know how damaging they can be. So, we’re sharing personal stories, using a bit of humour, and offering practical, empowering ways to respond when these stereotypes come up.
If you’ve ever struggled with how to answer someone who just doesn’t get it—or if you’ve heard one too many myths yourself—this episode is for you. Let’s dive in, debunk these myths together, and show the world what it really means to be bi.
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In this episode, Chad and Steve are joined by their first guest, Amber Loomis (they/them), the driving force behind the Sydney Bi+ Network (SBN). Amber shares their journey in community organising, highlighting how SBN became a vital space for Bi+ visibility and connection. The trio dives into the challenges of running a community organisation, touching on burnout, resource limitations, and the importance of values-driven leadership. They also discuss the power of creating spaces where Bi+ people feel seen, supported, and celebrated.
Join them for an inspiring conversation about the impact of grassroots advocacy and the role of love and community in sustaining long-term organising efforts.
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Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community supportStay Connected:
Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community funHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, Chad and Steve explore the topic of bisexual visibility and how it has evolved across generations. They discuss personal experiences and reflect on data from the latest Gallup polls, revealing a significant increase in bisexual identification among Gen Z compared to previous generations. The hosts share insights on the challenges bisexual men face in coming out and the disparities in visibility between bisexual men and women. They also touch on the importance of counting bisexual individuals for funding and resources, and how The Mummy played a role in Steve's bisexual awakening (I mean, same).
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Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community funHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, Chad and Steve dive into the crucial topic of activism and advocacy within the Bi+ community. They share personal stories about how advocacy has shaped their lives and discuss the importance of being visible advocates. The episode also honours key historical and contemporary Bi+ activists, such as Brenda Howard and Sylvia Rivera, while exploring the future of Bi+ advocacy in the digital age. The hosts emphasise the significance of connecting with others, both online and offline, to create meaningful change.
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Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community funHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In our inaugural episode of Give It To Me Bi, hosts Chad and Steve dive into the heart of Pride and what it means for the Bi+ community. We discuss the rich history of Pride, from its roots in the Stonewall Riots to the pivotal role of bisexual activist Brenda Howard. Join us as we explore the challenges and triumphs of the Bi+ community, share personal stories, and celebrate the importance of visibility. Whether you're Bi+, an ally, or simply curious, this episode offers a candid and insightful look at what Pride means to us all.
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Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community supportStay Connected:
Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community funHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Welcome to Give It To Me Bi, the podcast that dives deep into the rich and complex experiences of the Bi+ community—creating a space where Bi+ individuals and allies can explore identity, history, and advocacy. Expect candid conversations, expert interviews, and personal stories that aim to challenge stereotypes and celebrate the diversity within the Bi+ community. Whether you're Bi+, questioning, or an ally, this podcast is your go-to resource for thoughtful, engaging, and humorous discussions on what it means to live and thrive as a Bi+ individual in today's world.
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