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We're back and we're changing up the format to be a little shorter and sweeter to fit our schedules. We'll be diving into the latest bisexual news, events, clubs, and activities. As always, you can drop us a line at [email protected]... which we will definitely figure out the password to verysoon.
REFERENCES
Zoë Kravitz Says Catwoman Is 'Definitely' Bi https://www.papermag.com/zoe-kravitz-catwoman-bi-2656845879.html Catwoman is officially bisexual https://www.theverge.com/2015/2/27/8123489/catwoman-bisexual-dc-comics-lgbtq HBO Max's Peacemaker Just Confirmed This Superhero Is Bisexual https://www.out.com/television/2022/2/11/hbo-max-peacemaker-just-confirmed-superhero-bisexual Supreme Court rejects case of Christian group and bisexual lawyer https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/supreme-court-rejects-case-christian-group-bisexual-lawyer-n1292534 Ted Cruz’s Teenage Daughter Says She’s Bi, Disagrees With Him https://www.advocate.com/people/2022/1/07/ted-cruzs-teenage-daughter-says-shes-bi-disagrees-him Watch Miss Universe Australia Come Out as Bisexual on Television https://www.pride.com/comingout/2022/1/13/watch-miss-universe-australia-come-out-bisexual-television Olivia Benson's Son Comes Out as Bi in Sweet Law & Order: SVU Scene https://www.pride.com/tv/2022/1/19/olivia-bensons-son-comes-out-bi-sweet-law-order-svu-scene Luke Radford, 21, of the UK's biggest family breaks down on 22 Kids and Counting as he reveals how hard it was to come out as bisexual after hiding his true self since the age of 14 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10392093/Luke-Radford-21-cries-comes-bisexual-family-22-Kids-Counting.html The Voice Winner Sawyer Fredericks Comes Out as Bisexual https://www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/2022/2/07/voice-winner-sawyer-fredericks-comes-out-bisexual Former Gucci Mane Artist Lil Wop Comes Out as Bisexual https://hiphopdx.com/news/id.68062/title.former-gucci-mane-artist-lil-wop-comes-out-as-bisexual# Stephanie Beatriz addresses bisexual Encanto theories: ‘Queer kids have that kind of feeling’ https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2022/03/22/mirabel-encanto-stephanie-beatriz-disney-bisexual/ Bisexual athlete Ireen Wüst makes Olympics history with sixth gold medal https://www.metroweekly.com/2022/02/bisexual-athlete-ireen-wust-makes-olympics-history-with-fifth-gold-medal/ How a video game about unpacking gets the bisexual experience spot on https://i-d.vice.com/en_uk/article/7kbj54/unpacking-bisexual-video-game Meet Jonathan, the 190-year-old bisexual giant tortoise https://www.avclub.com/jonathan-bisexual-tortoise-oldest-living-land-animal-1848432673NYC HAPPENINGS
Spicy Laps with Spin Peaks Mon 8 PM in Prospect Park https://www.instagram.com/spinpeaksracing/?hl=en NightCAP, Tues at 7PM https://www.instagram.com/nightcap_brooklyn/?hl=en New queer bar Oddly Enough https://www.oddlyenoughbar.com/ Effort to open a new lesbian bar in Queens https://www.instagram.com/daveslesbianbar Cheer New York https://www.cheernewyork.org/ Brooklyn Community Pride Center & BiRequest Discussion Group lgbtbrooklyn.org Dyke beer, team hosts monthly events https://www.instagram.com/dykebeer/?hl=en--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hellogoodbis/message -
OVERVIEW With daylight hours dwindling, it’s the perfect time to curate your queer winter reading list and get ready to cuddle up with a good book as the temperature drops! Annie and Rose talk to creative nonfiction author, Audrey Jennifer Smith about the importance of queer representation in media and her favorite queer authors, short stories, and books. Anything we missed? Email us at [email protected] and let us know! REFERENCES Audrey Jennifer Smith online! https://mobile.twitter.com/lipstick_smitty Tough Titties - Audrey Jennifer Smith https://www.hippocampusmagazine.com/2018/01/tough-titties-by-audrey-jennifer-smith/ Kerry Howley http://kerryhowley.com/ To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780060935467 The Golden Compass - Phillip Pullman https://www.indiebound.org/book/9784105389048 A Separate Peace - John Knowles https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780743253970 The Diary of a Young Girl - Anne Frank https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780553296983 Learning Anne Frank is a Bisexual is a Gamechanger https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/learning-anne-frank-was-bisexual-is-a-game-changer/ Ramona Quimby series by Beverly Cleary https://www.indiebound.org/search/book?keys=ramona+quimby Judy B Jones series by Barbara Park https://www.indiebound.org/search/book?keys=junie+b+jones Fun Home - Alison Bechdel https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780618871711 On the Move - Oliver Sacks https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780804170932 I Might Regret This - Abbi Jacobson https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781538713273 Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe - Benjamin Alire Sáenz https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781442408937 A Cup of Water Under My Bed - Daisy Hernandez https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780807014486 Whip Smart - Melissa Febos https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780312561024 Abandon Me: Memoirs - Melissa Febos https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781632866585 Tin House Summer Writing Workshop https://tinhouse.com/workshop/summer-workshop/
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Happy Bi+ Visibility Day! It’s been more than a year since we started this project and we can’t believe how it’s grown. We talk about the history and importance of bisexual+ visibility and where we see the show going. We are also looking for a new theme song! Email is with thoughts, questions, and comments at [email protected].
REFERENCES
Bisexual Podcasts Huffpost LGBT History Month: Bisexual History video panel ‘Celebrate Bisexuality Day’ Exists Because of These Three LGBT Activists Bivisibilityday.com Brooklyn Community Pride Center Our Opinions are Correct Benjamin Alire Sáenz Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe Black Lives Matter Ex-Florida gubernatorial candidate Andrew Gillum says he identifies as bisexual Javicia Leslie Says It Feels 'Powerful' to Be the First Black Batwoman Marvel Just Revealed This Iconic X-Men Character Is BisexualMarvel Just Revealed This Iconic X-Men Character Is Bisexual Almost half of Britons don’t want their children to learn it’s OK to be gay, disturbing study finds Love, Simon author Becky Albertalli forced to come out as bisexual after weathering criticism for telling queer stories William Shakespeare was undeniably bisexual, researchers claim Rugby star Levi Davis comes out as bisexual: ‘I want people to feel they can be who they are’ Disney Announced Its First Bisexual Lead In A TV Show And I'm Cuffing My Jeans In Excitement Confirm your voter registration: https://www.usa.gov/confirm-voter-registration Mail-in Ballot States with early voting Become a poll worker --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hellogoodbis/message -
Bisexuals are more at risk for mental health problems than our straight, lesbian, and gay peers. Whatever your baseline was before the pandemic, it’s probable that your struggles are feeling a bit worse. In this episode, Annie and Rose spoke with Dr. Mimi Hoang, a nationally-recognized, bi-affirming psychologist, educator, author, and grassroots activist specializing in the LGBTQ+ and Asian Pacific Islander (API) communities. Dr. Mimi tells us about how to deal with isolation during quarantine, finding a therapist, and supporting those experiencing racial trauma.
REFERENCES
Dr. Mimi Hoang http://drmimihoang.com/index.html https://www.facebook.com/DrMimiHoang/ https://www.instagram.com/drmimihoang/
Los Angeles Bi Task Force https://labitaskforce.org/
Fluid at UCLA https://www.facebook.com/fluiducla/
BiNet USA http://www.binetusa.org/
Ambi on Meetup https://www.meetup.com/pro/ambi
Ambi https://www.ambi.org/
Los Angeles Bi Taskforce https://labitaskforce.org/
2013 White House Bisexual Community Roundtable.https://www.glaad.org/blog/white-house-holds-bisexual-leaders-roundtable
An Empirical Study into the Relationship between Bisexual Identity Congruence, Internalized Biphobia and Infidelity among Bisexual Women https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299716.2011.545285
Robin Ochs, the definition of bisexuality https://robynochs.com/bisexual/
Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781573227889
Bi On Life http://www.drmimihoang.com/events-resources.html
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Sometimes our worst critiques come from within, but you’re not alone in this experience! Annie and Rose discuss what internalized biphobia is, why we internalize toxic shame, the ways we have personally experienced it, and how identifying those thoughts is the first step to learning to love your beautiful bi self.
CAVEAT: wow the world is so much more of the world is on fire since we recorded this in April!
Timestamps
BiLights 44:00
Listener Mail 46:23
Bising Star 47:40
AdBice 49:00
References
Dr. Lauren Costine’s article on Internalized Phobias https://drlaurencostine.com/internalized-phobia/
Queer: a Graphic History by Meg-John Barker, Julia Scheele https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781785780714
Think Before You Speak PSAs (Rose was incorrect, this is not Ellen!) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNWh2BgA_Cg
That little girl and her affirmations https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-W727P7oJHU
TikTok Bisexuals (to get you warmed up) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oq-t6J5iCkI
Playing with Butler and Foucault: Bisexuality and Queer Theory, April S Callis https://doi.org/10.1080/15299710903316513
Auli'i Cravalho, Star of Disney's 'Moana,' Comes Out as Bisexual
https://www.out.com/celebs/2020/4/09/aulii-cravalho-star-disneys-moana-comes-bisexual
Marcelo Hernandez Castillo
https://www.marcelohernandezcastillo.com/ https://twitter.com/marcelo_H_
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Black Queer Folx, Organizations, and Advocates You Should Follow
Resources Marquise Mentioned
Thank you, Marquise!
Black Trans-Led Organizations GLITS https://www.glitsinc.org/about Black Trans Femme in the Arts Collective https://www.instagram.com/btfacollective/ The Okra Project https://www.theokraproject.com/ The Black Trans Travel Fund https://www.blacktranstravelfund.com/ Marsha P. Johnson Institute https://marshap.org/ Transforming (if someone has a link, please share) Destination Tomorrow https://destinationtomorrow.org/ Black Trans Media https://blacktransmedia.wixsite.com/blacktransmedia Black Trans TV https://www.blacktranstv.com/ For the Gworls https://www.instagram.com/forthegworls Brooklyn Ghost Project https://brooklynghostproject.com/about-us Trans inclusive https://www.transinclusivegroup.org/ Stealth bros company https://www.stealthbrosco.com/Black Queer Content
The Femme Queen Chronicles https://fqchronicles.com/ Edens garden https://www.instagram.com/edensgardentv Pose https://www.fxnetworks.com/shows/pose Disclosure: Translives on screen http://www.disclosurethemovie.com/aboutThose who you heard on the podcast
Marquise Vilson Balenciaga @marquisevilson Jacq @Soovertherainbow Robyn Banks @ayorobynbanks @TheBlackBisexual Adonis BC @BlameslessQueerIconMore Black Queer Folx, Orgs, Advocates
Laverne Cox @lavernecox George M Johnson @iamgmjohnson Ericka Hart M.Ed. @hartericka Gabrielle Noel @GabAlexa Shove @FatGirlHasMoxi Samar Rodrigues, PhD @Dr_simplicity Ashlee Marie Preston @Ashleemariepreston Paula Akpan @Paulaskpan Amari @Amari_jay Vanessa Newman @Fiveboi Amber Hikes @dapper_stemme Annika Hasteen-Izora @Annika.Izora Autumn @Speakingofsex Jimanekia Jimanekia The National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC) @Nbjconthemove @Ukblackpride Trae Higgs @issatrae Bob/ Caldwell Tidicue @Bobthedragqueen Miss Pappermint @Peppermint247 Janelle Monae @Janellemonae Tangina Stone @Stoneblu Brian Michael Smith @The_BrianMichael Megan Pamela Ruth Madison @Meganprmadison J. R. Yussuf @jryussuf Cicely Belle Blain @cicelybelle_xo George Lee @theconsciouslee Oliver Charles Christian @oliver.charles.christian Lexx Brown James @lexxsexdoc Nala Simone Toussaint @nalasimonet Ash Stephens https://transgenderlawcenter.org/about/staff-and-board/ash-stephens Erica Chidi @ericachidi Jayla Roxx @whoisjaylarox Latavia Goldson @fantasiaroyalegaga @hotmessbian Isis @gahdess_isis Zaya Wade @zayawade Shea Diamond @iamsheadiamond J MASE III @jmaseiii Rachel Ricketts @iamrachelricketts Black Queer Nation @blackqueernation Black Queer Power @blackqueerpowerWe love you. Stay healthy. Stay in touch: [email protected], @hellogoodbis on Instagram
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Hello Good Bi's full statement:
The bisexual community would be nowhere without our Black leaders, who since the inception of the LGBT rights movement have fought for our justice and equality, to live and love in peace. The police, who for their entire existence, have murdered Black people without consequence, protect and serve only themselves and white supremacy as an institution. The system that puts police in a position to murder Black people is not broken. It was intentionally designed to reinforce white supremacist power structures, and it must be dismantled. Additionally, Black transgender people face disproportionate rates of fatal violence, which often go unnoticed by media and unprosecuted by law enforcement. We want to be extremely clear: Black lives matter, Black trans lives matter.
Because identity, trauma, and grief are often discussed on this show, and because we so often advocate for communication as a healthy method for expressing emotions, we wanted to open our airwaves to Black members of the LBGTQ community, to say what you need to say in this moment. If you have something to say to us and/or the bisexual community that listens to this show, send an MP3 or wav audio file to [email protected].
Stay strong and safe.
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There’s nothing hotter than talking about research and data! Annie and Rose get steamy and talk about how attraction is measured, how it’s funded, and why it matters. Spoiler alert: the data that exists about bisexual people might impact you more than you think. Did we miss something or you want to compliment us? Write to us at [email protected] or on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.
*Note: this episode was recorded before the stay at home orders.
Timestamps
Measuring Sexual Attraction 3:37 - 9:23
Bisexuality in Animals 9:23 - 16:19
What It Matters 16:19 - 30:20
Funding 30:20 - 34:33
Media Coverage 36:40 - 37:30
Resources 37:30 - 43:53
Bilights 44:04 - 54:19
Bising Stars 54:19 -56:20
Call for Adbice 56:20References
Conceptualizing and measuring perceptions of sexual attractiveness: Are there differences across gender and sexual orientation? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886914007077#!
Why the Census Needs to Ask People About Their LGBTQ Identity https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/d75gpj/why-the-census-needs-to-ask-people-about-their-lgbtq-identity
Queering the Census https://www.thetaskforce.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Guide-to-the-2020-Census-An-Introduction.pdf
Accessing the US census from abroad using a US VPN https://protonvpn.com/
Eva Bloom (What’s My Body Doing) bi-weekly newsletter for $3 a month https://www.patreon.com/WhatsMyBodyDoing
Journal of Bisexuality https://www.tandfonline.com/toc/wjbi20/current
Genetics and Bisexuality, Nature https://serval.unil.ch/resource/serval:BIB_2EEA1639DF3B.P001/REF.pdf
Homosexual Activity Among Animals Stirs Debate, National Geographic https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/2004/07/homosexual-animals-debate/
Bisexual Species: Unorthodox Sex in the Animal Kingdom, Scientific American https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/bisexual-species/
https://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/bisexual
The American Institute of Bisexuality http://www.americaninstituteofbisexuality.org/
BiNet USA http://www.binetusa.org/
Bisexual.org https://bisexual.org/
Bisexual Resource Center (BRC) https://biresource.org/
Bi Visibility Day http://www.bivisibilityday.com/
The Unicorn Scale: The Bold Type https://bi.org/en/articles/the-unicorn-scale-the-bold-type
‘Love is Blind’ star Carlton Morton sparks suicide fears after bisexuality backlash https://thegrio.com/2020/03/05/love-is-blind-carlton-morton-instagram/
National Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255
Zoe Kravitz Is a Hot Bisexual Mess in “High Fidelity” — and That’s Revolutionary https://www.autostraddle.com/zoe-kravtiz-is-a-hot-bisexual-mess-in-high-fidelity-and-thats-revolutionary/
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Proper. Is an afropunk band from Brooklyn, NY. Annie and Rose are joined by frontman, Erik Garlington, to talk about his experiences growing up a bisexual, black, atheist in the bible belt and how it’s shaped his music.
Caveat! We recorded this before the pandemic. So please note, we are all social distancing and not encouraging folks to go out to venues etc. We ARE encouraging you to support Proper. and other local, queer, BIPOC artists however you can (like, follows, buying merch, donations).
Follow Proper. on all the things!
Likerealproper.com https://open.spotify.com/artist/07fRiLziB7HEpoJippeKdK https://twitter.com/likerealproper https://www.youtube.com/c/Properlikerealproper https://www.instagram.com/likerealproper/ https://www.facebook.com/likerealproperErik's Shoutouts:
Mint Green https://mintgreenma.bandcamp.com/ Alfred. https://classicalfredosauce.bandcamp.com/ Cloudwalker https://www.facebook.com/Cloudwalker-Music-Group-314958550437/ Party Fridge https://partyfridge.bandcamp.com/releases--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hellogoodbis/message -
Are you super confused by Super Tuesday? We've got your back. We review the LGBTQ rights voting history of US Presidential hopefuls, how you can research candidates, and getting involved Email us [email protected] or follow us on Instagram at @HelloGoodBis.
Here's Every 2020 Democrat's History on LGBTQ Rights https://splinternews.com/heres-every-2020-democrats-history-on-lgbtq-rights-1833721959 Rep. Gabbard apologizes, again, for past anti-gay views https://www.aol.com/article/news/2019/01/17/rep-gabbard-apologizes-again-for-past-anti-gay-views/23645741/?guccounter=1 Tracking administration / candidates https://www.glaad.org/tap/donald-trump https://www.plannedparenthoodaction.org/congressional-scorecard https://www.hrc.org/resources/congressional-scorecard https://www.aclu.org/scorecard/ Candidates’ voting record here: https://justfacts.votesmart.org/ or https://ballotpedia.org/ Current Congress person https://www.govtrack.us/ Opinions / actions https://www.ontheissues.org/ Campaigns’ financial records: https://www.fec.gov/data/ Local issues: https://www.vote411.org/ballot or https://www.ballotready.org/ LGBT political news: https://www.lgbtqnation.com/ Register to vote https://vote.gov/ 1 in 5 LGBTQ adults isn’t registered to vote https://www.marketwatch.com/story/1-in-5-lgbtq-adults-isnt-registered-to-vote-despite-high-2020-stakes-2019-10-11 Tennessee allows adoption agencies to ban gay & lesbian parents https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/01/tennessee-passes-bill-allow-adoption-agencies-ban-gay-lesbian-parents/ Changes to LGBTQ-related web content under the Trump Administration https://sunlightfoundation.com/2019/11/21/new-web-integrity-project-report-documents-changes-to-lgbtq-related-web-content-under-the-trump-administration/ House Democrats call for ICE to release transgender detainees https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/01/house-democrats-call-ice-release-transgender-detainees-inhumane-facilities/ A Trump advisor on conversion therapy https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2020/01/trump-advisor-told-lesbian-teen-considering-suicide-get-conversion-therapy/ Evelyn Mantilla https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evelyn_Mantilla Vaneet Mehta https://www.instagram.com/nintendomad888/--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hellogoodbis/message -
It's Valentine's Day and love is in the air-- and on the air waves! We got together with Rob and Alex, co-hosts and creators of a podcast we love. If you haven't listened to Two Bi Guys, what are you waiting for? Actually, finish this episode first and then go binge their first season. We talk about bisexuality, podcasting, and asked the guys listener questions. Want to submit questions for future guests? Follow us on @HelloGoodBis on Instagram to hear the latest or email us at [email protected] to tell us what you think of the episode!
SPOILER ALERT
50:06 - 52:00 Rose spoils Atypical
REFERENCES
Two Bi Guys
- Website https://www.twobiguys.com/
- Instagram https://www.instagram.com/twobiguys/
- Twitterhttps://twitter.com/twobiguys
Bi Request NYC http://www.birequest.org/
Slutever episode about bisexual men https://video.vice.com/en_us/video/bisexual-men-1-774/5c0a974ebe407728f37431ce
They Both Die at the End by Adam Silvera https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780062457806
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Looking for the perfect song to subtly hint to your crush that you’ve caught feelings takes on an added challenge when you don’t know any queer tunes! Rose and Annie toiled all night working on the perfect mix just for you. In this episode, we talk about why bisexual representation in music matters and some of our favorite bisexual musicians and songs. Did we miss anything vital? Send us a tune to [email protected] or on Instagram to @HelloGoodBis.
References and show notes were too long to fit in this description! Here you go: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nR-cJTQKK-DHHap4Abn5nD8gs2TnEEks6BzZdm22obw/
TIMESTAMPS
BiSexual Artists 21:00
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Bilights 1:02:46
Bi History 1:15:45
Bising Stars 1:18:46
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We’ll miss saying "20-bi-teen," but we're excited to embrace the New Year! Lots of folks like to set resolutions, but do they work? How can you make them more effective? What about making a queer resolution? Rose and Annie dive into the internet and each other’s minds to help you select and set your goals (Uhm, keeping them is on you…).
Did we miss something? Wanna share your resolution? Email us at [email protected] or follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.
REFERENCES
History of New Years Resolutions https://www.history.com/news/the-history-of-new-years-resolutions Some Stats on Effectiveness of Resolutions https://www.inc.com/peter-economy/10-top-new-years-resolutions-for-success-happiness-in-2019.html Yup, people vote the most during the presidential election https://www.fairvote.org/voter_turnout#voter_turnout_101 Our coming out episode is #3 called The Good The Bi and the Ugly https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/The-Good--The-Bi--The-Ugly-Coming-Out-e4so7t Sober Pride Resources https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/7xgevd/how-to-party-at-pride-if-youre-sober https://myslutbox.com/out-proud-sober-how-to-have-fun-at-pride-without-liquor/ Straight Edge https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straight_edge Our episode about finding someone to love is #10 called Dating Bi-os https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/Dating-Bi-os-e9ad2k When Brooklyn Was Queer (the book Annie forgot the name of) https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781250169914 Clementine Morrigan, physical consent https://www.instagram.com/clementinemorrigan Figure skater Amber Glenn comes out as bisexual/pansexual: ‘I don’t want to hide who I am’ ’https://www.outsports.com/2019/12/17/21024753/amber-glenn-figure-skating-bisexual-pansexual-olympics-texas-team-usa Former MMA Fighter Jason Ellis: Let Bi Men Like Me Into the Community https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2019/12/10/former-mma-fighter-jason-ellis-let-bi-men-me-community Saying Bi, Bi, Bi to a Decade of Increased Bi+ Visibility https://www.hrc.org/blog/saying-bi-bi-bi-to-a-decade-of-increased-bi-visibility Vaping ads often target bisexual women of color, study finds https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/vaping-ads-often-target-bisexual-women-of-color-study-finds-130533558.html Quit Like a Woman, Holly Whitaker https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781984825056 The UK has elected the ‘gayest parliament in the world’: 8% say they’re gay or bisexual https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/the-uk-ha-elected-the-gayest-parliament-in-the-world-8-say-theyre-gay-or-bisexual What you need to know about the Olivia Nicole Duffin TikTok biphobia drama https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a30292626/olivia-nicole-duffin-tik-tok-biphobia-ex-boyfriend-liam-casey/ Julie d’Aubigny https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julie_d%27Aubigny Two Bi Guys https://www.twobiguys.com/ Jen Winston http://instagram.com/jenerousTIME STAMPS
Our Resolutions 00:49
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How to Set Resolutions 9:13
History of Resolutions 12:08
Uh, Do Resolutions Work? 14:55
How to Keep On Track 15:49
Queer Resolutions 19:11
Listener Mail 39:56
Bilights (Bisexual News) 41:18
Bi History 46:04
Adbice 50:18 -
Believe it or not, but Rose and Annie definitely don’t know everything there is to know about sex. To be honest, sometimes they’re not even sure what sex is, so we called in the expert. Eva Bloom, a pleasure positive sex educator, youtuber, host of Sex Ed, and bisexual who just got her Masters in SEXTING comes on to talk to us about obtaining consent in a digital world, ettiquette of responding to nudes, what to do when your sex drive doesn’t match your partner’s and SO MUCH MORE.
TIMESTAMPS
Interview with Eva Bloom of @WhatsMyBodyDoing 00 - 32:32
Bilights 32:32
Bising Stars 40:40
Adbice 43:20
REFERENCES
Eva’s Channels &References
Patreon https://www.patreon.com/WhatsMyBodyDoing
Youtube http://youtube.com/whatsmybodydoing
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatsmybodydoing
Twitter https://twitter.com/whatsmybodydoin?
Sex Ed School https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFrqObEvDOwkfkcik9TOYgBh4RlhIXj-_
Want, Will, Won’t List http://old.mojoupgrade.com/
Sending nudes with invisible ink - check our instagram, we’ll post soon
Sex Positive Families https://www.instagram.com/sexpositive_families
Sex Positive Families Reading List https://sexpositivefamilies.com/sex-positive-families-reading-list/
Nadine Thornhill, Save Sex Ed https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFrqObEvDOwkxd09MEgeleRJW-k73nEtI
Stevie Boebi https://www.youtube.com/user/SassiBoB
What’s Wrong With Molly Margaret https://www.instagram.com/whatswrongwithmollymargaret/
The Dildorks Podcast https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/
Give $3 a month to get the sex research letter https://www.patreon.com/join/WhatsMyBodyDoing/signup?ru=%2Fjoin%2FWhatsMyBodyDoing%2Fcheckout%3Frid%3D1881643%26
Andrew Gurza, Disability & Sex http://www.andrewgurza.com/
Bilights & Other References
Lex Dating App https://www.vogue.com/article/lex-queer-dating-app
Human Rights Campaign’s Municipal Equality Index https://www.hrc.org/mei
Lots of animals are bisexual https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/19/gay-animals-bisexual-same-sex-behaviour-evolution-yale-school-forestry-environmental-studies/
Bisexual people who are out to their partners may have worse sex https://www.insider.com/bisexual-people-out-to-their-straight-partners-have-worse-sex-2019-11
Bisexuality & Race on Dating Apps https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2019-11/uoia-rei111419.php
Kathleen Hanna http://www.kathleenhanna.com/
Le Tigre’s Feminist Sweepstakes https://open.spotify.com/album/0sba5xAGgB7VP3X6BSzIOg?si=ATE-6UcZRMyXFf1G7YiC_w
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Have you ever Googled “how to do sex?” If the answer is yes, have we got a podcast for you! In this episode, Rose and Annie explore getting consent, having pleasurable sex, and the public school system that failed to teach them how to do either. Together, they discuss what constitutes sex and share some explicit sex acts you can do with your partner (and how to make sure everyone's consenting). Want to tell us about the sex acts we missed (but in a totally non-pervy way)? Email us at [email protected] or slide into our DMs over on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.
TIMESTAMPS
Consent 17:30
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Sex Education 25:00
EXPLICIT SEX ACTIONS 38:10
Protection and STI Testing 1:12:15
Bilights (Bisexual News) 1:20:23
Bising Stars 1:24:47
Adbice 1:28:27 -
There comes a time in every bisexual’s life when you’ll ask yourself: what do I normally do with my hands and are they always this sweaty? This my friends is called a crush. Join Annie and Rose as they talk about all things attraction, flirtation, and dating! From matching online to meeting IRL, saying “I love you” to ending things--we answer some of the questions you had about how to pursue the one you want. Did we get anything wrong? Let us know by emailing us at [email protected] and follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.
RESOURCES
A Smart Girl’s Guide to Boys https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Boys/dp/1584853689 Stevie Boebi, “How to Compliment Girls” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByGp5e6RVoc Old Guard apps: Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, Hinge, Match Queer Apps: Grindr, Her, Scruff, Chappy About angel shots: https://www.businessinsider.com/angel-shots-help-women-on-bad-dates-2017-1 Dear Therapist: I’m Afraid My Boyfriend’s Sexuality Will End Our Relationship https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/11/im-worried-my-boyfriend-is-gay/601231/ Regan Gascoigne, son of football legend Paul Gascoigne, just came out as bisexual https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/04/regan-gascoigne-paul-gascoine-bisexual-coming-out-football/ Ad appearing to attack Democratic City-County Council candidate draws ire on social media https://www.indystar.com/story/news/politics/elections/2019/10/28/election-2019-ad-appears-to-attack-lgbtq-council-candidate/2485034001/ Director Desiree Akhavan Is Flipping the Script on Coming-Out Stories https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/j538gy/desiree-akhavan-the-bisexual-interview Kori Michele, Let’s Talk About Bisexuality https://korimichele.myportfolio.com/lets-talk-about-bisexualityTIMESTAMPS
How do I approach someone IRL? 28:06
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Knowing when they aren’t interested 32:04
How to spot a queer in the wild / How to show off that i’m queer 35:00
Connecting online 37:35
Taking it offline 45:11
Ending a date 51:31
Rejecting someone and getting rejected 1:00:31
What if everything works out? 1:09:31
Weekly Bilights (bisexual news) 1:12:38
Bising Stars (queer people we like) 1:17:09
Call for AdBice 1:19:55 -
TV and movies surround us from a young age, shaping our understanding of the world and our expectations of others. Annie and Rose explore their first exposure to bisexual characters, the history of bisexuality on the bi screen, why representation matters, and what TV and movies get right (er… more often wrong). Tell us who we missed by writing to [email protected] and follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.
SPOILERS
Sex and the City | 5:39 - 12:03, 19:40 - 20:18
Dr. Who | 14:10 - 17:40
Grey’s Anatomy | 36:14 - 36:56
Madame Secretary | 37:56 - 38:20
Buffy the Vampire Slayer | 38:28 - 40:25
Broad City | 40:31 - 43:58
I Might Regret This - Abbi Jacobson | 42:25 - 43:05
Insecure | 44:00 - 46:00
A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila | 46:00 - 47:15
The OC | 47:15 - 48:40
Brooklyn 99 | 48:53 - 49:09
The Good Wife | 49:09 - 49:37
House of Cards | 49:37 - 49:49
Insatiable | 49:49 - 50:27
The Politician | 50:27 - 50:53
Crazy Ex Girlfriend | 50:53 - 52:05
Game of Thrones | 52:05 - 52:15
Killing Eve | 52:15 - 52:43
The Bisexual | 52:43 - 53:16
Big Mouth | 53:16 - 53:25
True Blood | 53:25 - 53: 45
House | 53:25 - 54:00
Bones | 54:00 54:28
Orange is the New Black | 54:28 54:46
Friends | 54:46 - 55:12
How I Met Your Mother | 55:12 - 55:30
The Good Place | 55:30 - 55:28
Chilling Adventures of Sabrina the Teenage Witch | 55:28 - 55:43
Sakura Cardcaptors | 55:43 - 55:59}
Family Guy | 55:59 - 56:09
Bob’s Burgers | 56:09 - 56:48
Thor: Ragnorok & The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo | 57:57- 58:00
Atomic Blonde | 58:00 - 58:45
Rocky Horror | 58:45 - 58:53
500 Days of Summer | 58:53 - 58:57
Scott Pilgrim vs. the World | 58:57 - 59:04
Chasing Amy | 59:04 - 1:00:25
Cabaret 1:00:25 - 1:00:55
The Comedian | 1:01:04
Jennifer’s Body 1:01:04 - 1:03:35RESOURCES
Jenny Bick’s twitter for you to get at her https://twitter.com/JennyBicks
Podcast About Matthew Shepard
GLBTQ Archive History of Bisexuality of Cinema http://www.glbtqarchive.com/arts/bisex_film_A.pdf
This podacast helped form Rose’s opinion of Jennifer’s Body https://anchor.fm/girls-guts--giallo/episodes/Jennifers-Body-2009-e5148r/a-ankm3mTIMESTAMPS
Our First Times & Why Representation Matters 5:00
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Brief History of Bisexuality in Cinema 26:56
Traps & Troupes 30:13
Examples of Bisexual 36:14
Rampant Speculation of Bi Characters 1:03:40
Bi-lights (Bi news) 1:06:17
Bi-sing Stars (Queer people we like) 1:10:34
AdBice (Advice) 1:15:32 -
Join Rose and Annie as we hop in the TARDIS, take the DeLorean up to 88, and spin our time turners to take a look back at bisexual throughout history and the evolution of bisexuality in general. Want to tell us what we got right, wrong, should talk about next? Email us at [email protected] or leave us a voice message anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message.
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REFERENCES
International Pronouns Day https://pronounsday.org/ https://www.bustle.com/articles/40282-a-brief-history-of-bisexuality-from-ancient-greece-and-the-kinsey-scale-to-lindsay-lohan https://www.theguardian.com/music/2010/oct/11/two-spirit-people-north-america https://radicalbi.files.wordpress.com/2012/12/bisexuality-in-psychoanalytic-theory.pdf https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/historical-report-diversity-of-sexual-orientation.php https://www.cnn.com/2015/06/19/us/lgbt-rights-milestones-fast-facts/index.html https://thestonewallinnnyc.com/ https://www.them.us/story/brenda-howard http://www.glbtqarchive.com/ssh/bisex_movements_S.pdf Donny The Punk’s obituary http://www.columbia.edu/cu/gables/hiv/mem/donaldson.html More examples of bisexuals in the LGBTQ equality movement https://bi.org/en/articles/the-bisexual-warriors-of-the-gay-movement Bisexual Chic https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psychology-yesterday/201308/bisexual-chic-0 Bisexual Men & HIV in 1980s http://www.binetusa.org/bihealth.html Bisexual Women & Radical Feminism https://books.google.com/books?id=XS_SnVPixE8C&pg=PA82&lpg=PA82&dq=%22bisexual+feminism%22&source=bl&ots=n32nIC-3XC&sig=h7jkH9Tq2dtkR0gs9Q7hmvNMzZ4&hl=en&sa=X&ei=zrdsUIKQLeWC0QHKqYHwAQ&ved=0CDAQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q&f=false SCOTUS Hears Two Cases on Workplace Discrimination Based on Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity https://constitutioncenter.org/blog/supreme-court-hears-two-major-cases-today-on-title-vii-and-discrimination LGBTQ Townhall https://www.cnn.com/2019/10/01/politics/bernie-sanders-cnn-lgbtq-town-hall/index.html Securing LGBTQ+ Rights and Equality, Elizabeth Warren’s plan https://elizabethwarren.com/plans/lgbtq-equality RuPaul’s Drag Race: Scaredy Kat was ‘terrified’ because he’s not gay https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/e076a58f-862a-4c2b-b803-4a25b5dcb1e5 Big Mouth Pansexuality vs Bisexuality Episode Stumbles Over Itself https://www.advocate.com/television/2019/10/07/big-mouth-pansexuality-vs-bisexuality-episode-stumbles-over-itself Fans Think the Lyrics to Harry Styles' New Song "Lights Up" Mean He's Part of the LGBTQ+ Community https://www.seventeen.com/celebrity/music/a29441076/harry-styles-lights-out-lyrics-meaning/ Amid 'Kill the Gays' bill uproar, Ugandan LGBTQ activist is killed https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/amid-kill-gays-bill-uproar-ugandan-lgbtq-activist-killed-n1067336 Lily Singh https://people.com/tv/youtuber-lilly-singh-comes-out-bisexual/ BiRCH https://biresource.org/research-spotlight-bisexual-research-collaborative-on-health-birch/==========
TIMESTAMPS
Pronoun Day 4:06
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Early Bisexuality and Psychology 6:49
Bisexuals in LGBTQ History 26:04
Bilights (Bisexual News) 46:49
Bising Stars (Queer People We Like) 56:30
Call for Adbice (Advice Please) 1:00:45 -
It’s Mental Health Awareness Week! Join Annie and Rose while they share statistics about the mental health struggles bisexuals face, the methods they use to triage and maintain mental health, tips for finding and talking to a mental health professional, and their personal experiences with mental illness and binge drinking. Want to tell us what we got right, wrong, should talk about next? Email us at [email protected] or leave us a voice message anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message.
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Human Rights Campaign, Health Disparities Among Bisexual People https://assets2.hrc.org/files/assets/resources/HRC-BiHealthBrief.pdf?_ga=2.53224940.598958789.1570762481-844289680.1566911533 Lack of support among LGBTQ people who lose a partner https://www.lgbthealtheducation.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Suicide-Risk-and-Prevention-for-LGBTQ-Patients-Brief.pdf Homeslessness among LGBTQ population https://biresource.org/caring-for-bisexual-homeless-youth/ NYC’s Mental Health First Aid Training https://www1.nyc.gov/site/doh/health/health-topics/mental-health-first-aid.page UC Davis list of LGBTQ hotlines https://lgbtqia.ucdavis.edu/support/hotlines Gay and Lesbian National Hotline 1-888-843-4564 Mon–Fri, 4 pm–12 am EST Trevor Suicide Prevention Hotline 1-800-850-8078 National Runaway Hotline 1-800-231-6946 Bisexuality-Aware Professional Directory https://www.bizone.org/bap/baplist.php?category=Therapists https://www.pridecounseling.com Psychology.com use their sexuality filter National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) https://www.nami.org/find-support/lgbtq A Teenager Killed Himself After Being Outed as Bisexual. His Family Wants Justice. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/30/us/channing-smith-suicide-bisexual-tennessee.html Jeffrey Gibson https://www.jeffreygibson.net/ Nobody Promised You Tomorrow: Art 50 Years After Stonewall https://www.brooklynmuseum.org/exhibitions/stonewall Monstrous Regiment Publishing https://www.monstrous-regiment.com/
SHOW NOTES=======
TIMESTAMPSHot stats 1:31
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Annie’s personal mental health triage 13:44
Reddit user’s tips for mental health maintenance 19:52
Talking to someone who is struggling 23:23
Where to seek help (hotlines and resources) 29:50
Finding and vetting a therapist 31:30
How to approach therapy 39:30
Rose stops drinking (on sobriety) 47:25
Listener shoutouts 57:50
Weekly Bilights (Bisexual News) 58:29 B
ising Stars: Queer People We Like 1:01:45
Call for Adbice 1:04:54 -
Have you ever wondered what it's like to date a bisexual person? We sure did, so we invited our significant others to talk about what it's like, how they learned we're bi, what their communities think, and to share advice for folks learning their partner is bisexual. Send us your questions and comments to [email protected] or leave us a voice memo https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message
Shownotes
Test Buddies podcast (with Annie and Dylan) https://testbuddies.myportfolio.com/ This Checklist will Determine your “Straight Number” https://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/how-straight-are-you-you-get-one-point-for-each-o How gay are you? https://www.buzzfeed.com/tomphillips/how-gay-are-you What is “hang loose?” https://media.giphy.com/media/ceK5e0DXc7Zh6/giphy.gif Terminology Episode, where we mention other scales/tests https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/BiLingual-e51od7 Bisexuality Week (I can’t find documentation that it’s month) https://www.glaad.org/biweek2019 Bivisibility Day http://www.bivisibilityday.com/ Ryan Russel’s coming out letter https://www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/id/27484719/no-distractions-nfl-veteran-opens-sexuality Bella Thorn’s biphobic boyfriend https://www.latintimes.com/bella-thornes-italian-boyfriend-would-welcome-third-party-bedroom-439977 Mae Martin https://www.maemartin.net/ The Bisexual Chair, Ma Matiazi & Israel Walker https://www.facebook.com/israel.walker.90475/posts/191655611831394 Blake Moran on Madam Secretary http://greginhollywood.com/blake-moran-comes-out-as-bisexual-to-his-boss-in-touching-scene-on-madam-secretary-144815 Lil’ Nas X https://pitchfork.com/news/lil-nas-x-comes-out-as-gay/ Allyship episode https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/BiStanders-e58gp2Timestamps
Sexuality Quizzes 4:15
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Q&A: Dating a bisexual person 10:30
Bisexual Visibility Month & Day 37:30
Weekly Blights (bisexual news) 39:35
Bising Stars 43:55
Call for Adbice 50:15 - もっと表示する
