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WE DIDNT HAVE A FIGHT! haha
We've had a sort of intentional break from the podcast and we're back..Chiara has some BIG news, Lorna had a BIG reaction to the news and all was ok again! Welcome back to some wonderful friend therapy. ❤️ -
The good, the bad and the beautiful of hormones...lots of pms chat. Lots of chat on how the fuck do we see this undulation of all the feels as a good thing. Chiara talks about trying to recover from HA and dishes out a lot of advice she isn't following. 🤣 Oh and menstrual blood is good for your plants!!!
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The highs and lows of having multiple children, how they sit it, the mothering struggles and our goals and aims. As well as chat about seeing things from the perspective of our families of origin.
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Soooo. The context for this one is that we asked YOU the listeners if there was something you wanted to chat about and lots of the questions were about when shit gets real. Tantrums etc. How to handle them. And Chiara wanted to come in and give ALL the practical help. And Lorna gently and wisely reminded Chiara that actually this probably should be a chat about motherhood intuition and trusting yourself. Which Chiara had a wobbly at. 😂 This is a wholesome and empowering chat. ❤️
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What the heck is vulnerability in motherhood. Should we be vulnerable, how? The difference between vulnerability and volatility. The topics that make Chiara uncomfortable: sex, sadness and the fear of getting it all wrong. Lorna's uncomfortable topics: sharing joy and happiness....
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Chiara came to this episode feeling a bit ouchy, called out by a book she has been reading that speaks into the current health situation Chiara has got into....which seems to be the result of self sabotage. What the actual fuck....
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What the heck is reparenting for us? Why do we need it? How the fuck do we get there?? Some childhood trauma chat, some releasing our parents chat and so much more as always
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Soul cpd.
The most delicious conversation about why we're trying to figure out our shit, what that means for us and friendships. We discuss the two sticking points each of us has (hint, Lorna wants all the answers and Chiara wants to know she's getting it right). And a lovely sprinkling of spirituality from two different perspectives.
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Inspired by the fact that Chiara had a rough time that weekend with Anna at a classmates party we debrief and discuss kids parties. Love em? Hate em? Adult parties? Social anxieties. Makeup. Dressing up. Pressures on parents to have kids with big social groups. And finally doing what works for you....is that narcissism??? As always covering a LOT of stuff!!!
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The most important subject of what are you drinking! Why? Because as we discovered it is the thing that gives mother's life, coping tools, a numbing moment and energy when you're broken. This was a lovely wholesome and deep chat..standard for us. An hour on tea!
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Wowsers this is an episode where we cover at lot!
- we begin by talking again about suffering because we wanted to continue some thoughts we'd both been having about it.
- we talk about and define what the emotional load is for us.
- how we are leaders
- what we want that to look like.
- chiara's meltdown last weekend
- rational and irrational behaviours and thoughts from our kids
- being regulators...
Sooooooo much more.
This felt like a super useful, profound and uplifting conversation in the end.
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Ooof we deep dive into some uncomfortable topics this week..the suffering of motherhood. The mental load. Jealousy. Social media pressures...marriage. I *think* we ended on a positive note. But if you need some validation this week of how much you give of yourself and how BIG a deal that is, this is the episode for you.
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Urgh. Sleep..bedtimes...the post dinner evening routine...fuck..it's not easy is it. Another open and honest one from us this week about how hard this is.
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This week we talk about the worries, stresses and insecurities we have around the school holidays. Reminders of how to get back to being emotionally regulated ourselves (hint - don't forget to breathe and do the basics!) And about lowering expectations and the *shoulds*
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Well, we thought we'd done illness in a wholesome useful way...and then shit hit the fan in our houses...and it's been this way for weeks now...we are Mothers of many who are sick sick sick in this episode. Sick and tired of being sick and all the bloody revelations that came and smacked us in the face during our illness.
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So...part 1 of our illness chat is an honest and pretty wholesome conversation about handling our kids being sick, when we're sick, how to cope with attendance at school, the system and more...
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How do Lorna and Chiara feel about money, how it keeps us in a box. The money responsibility split in a marriage, having THOSE conversations and debt and money shame. As well as a chat about Christmas, how Chiara does it with lowered expectations and why they don't do father Christmas
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In this episode we talk about being in survival mode as a mother, both in the fourth trimester and now too. How survival mode is a real thing and sometimes how that's all we've got. As well as talking about wanting to thrive. We discuss our the dark places we went to especially after our first girls were born...and some tools we have...
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Not another mummy podcast 😂 Lorna and Chiara, both mother's of 4 are creating a new type of podcast. An honest, taboo topics, let's talk about the real shit, kind of pocast. Where we go DEEP into the detail of life with many children...this episode is an introduction to who we are, and what are plans and intentions for this podcast are. We hope you love it. Chiara and Lorna x