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  • Got your head on a swivel.

    — (1:27) How major the Bermuda Overlays are — (4:23) No Diddy and creepy 3w2s— (8:16) Why do people hate Teal Swan so much? / BHE Suicide Hotline— (16:46) DG’s metallurgy analogy for how a wing transforms a fix— (23:22) Are the attachment wings harder to see?— (25:47) What if 9w8 is the most common 9?— (29:36) Gut is king / 8 chaos vs 1 order— (43:52) Bermuda hiddenness and discovering their particular specificities — (52:32) The sensitivity of the human nervous system is the starting point— (55:01) Bermudas ‘going fuzzy’ is a wide cast net as a platform to show up in

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  • Psychedelic 7 frustration with Ikram.

    — (4:00) The overwhelming depths of 7 disappointment and self-hatred / giving yourself what you didn’t get in childhood— (9:50) The psychic aural fixation of 7 — (13:35) Frustration as the engine to go out into the world / constant bust-boom cycle— (17:03) 7s walking a tight wire with lines to competency and reactive types on either side— (20:10) 7 is fighting for creative imagination / the addiction to movement— (25:25) 4 vs 7 frustration — (31:08) The unconditional positive self-regard of 7 has a shadow of deep self-hatred— (36:33) Releasing importance and savoring the moment takes the edge off endless disappointment / offering something at 5— (48:55) The imaginative aesthetic of 7 in the head center / scam harder— (56:12) Patience with slow movies— (1:01:54) 7s have to become the nipple

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  • Continuing our series on frustration and type 4.

    — (2:23) 3w2 interpersonal availability / we’re reacting to 3w2 not bashing it— (9:17) Aesthetic preferences for 4 as an expression of hidden personal selfhood— (14:40) 4 staying in the realm where things can only be seen in the dark— (18:12) The role of 4 for the collective heart in giving voice to personal brokenness and hell— (21:48) Rejection types setting the scene before getting personal— (25:21) The vast differences of Bermuda overlays — (29:45) To lead with frustration risks pain and disappointment— (33:45) What shame really means / why people start thinking they’re a 4 / beauty and art in 4ness— (45:55) 3 upholding beauty more functionally than 4 can— (49:42) Imageyness of 4w3 vs 4w5— (54:58) 4w3 is the fussy aesthete— (1:03:10) The role of 2 in collective generosity

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  • it’s the spice of life.

    — (1:25) Frustration is the aesthetic of each center— (6:10) Frustration as the basis of human suffering and expression of personality — (7:56) Bermuda Overlays and frustration as personalized flavor / rejection as the elemental substrate of each center— (14:25) Frustration doesn’t give up on their needs but unwilling to work with how to get its needs met / the knot of not having— (16:58) Rejection cut off vs frustration in relationships— (24:13) Everyone’s shitting on the thing they most want— (31:57) Rejection and attachment both have a self-erasing quality / ‘attachment as exposition, frustration as rising action, rejection as conclusion’— (39:27) The social engagement of the world is low on frustration / you’re not a person if you don’t hate something— (42:16) 2 vs 4 love is not the same / frustration is essential to seeing someone’s personhood— (52:57) Attachment-rejection vs attachment-frustration strategies— (55:13) To be aesthetic means prioritizing your preferences over maintaining connection / 4 seeing people as aesthetic holograms— (1:00:50) Universal bread people attraction vs personal specific attraction

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  • Alejohndra are back with tales of their Egypt trip.

    — (1:25) John and Alexandra recap their retreat to Egypt— (9:05) What about the aliens? / the construction of the pyramids had to be an exercise in presence and intention — (16:23) The femininity of Egypt— (21:04) Egypt peaked early and then fell off hard— (31:06) Special John the mystical guide / the inner quality of the group— (37:50) The descent down into the deep chambers — (45:22) The acoustics of the pyramids— (52:55) A sacred culture that honors the divine and human animal nature— (58:48) Egypt activates something in you that values the sacred— (1:13:05) Hexad conversion therapy

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  • In this episode of WILTBY Josh interviews Louis.

    — (4:50) Josh processing his 2-wing and meeting Louis at the zone / the team love vs team truth confrontation— (11:45) 3w2 facilitating and orchestrating connection vs 3w4 distant excellence— (16:35) The philosophy of truth vs love in psychotherapy— (20:49) Carl Rogers unconditional positive regard— (29:30) What Josh finds annoying about 4 skepticism of love and connection— (33:39) Louis’ identification with predator swag — (42:24) 3w2 vs 3w4 in a team scenario / team vs self orientation — (48:31) How Josh realized he had a 2-wing / Louis’ social mode of separateness and why he became a therapist— (57:41) Differences in processing negativity and aesthetic frustration— (1:09:51) The 3w2 tenet of always having something to appreciate about anything — (1:24:08) The ideal ego fantasy for 3w2 vs 3w4

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  • We watched Poor things right before recording our impressions and thoughts. Call the nota4 hotline at (323) 696-0647.

    — (2:40) Overview of Poor Things and its ode to the head center— (8:40) The surgeon is a 5— (13:22) 6 reactivity leveling the playing field with negativity— (16:30) hexad vs attachment response to suffering in the world— (23:45) The artifice of polite adulthood as a hindrance to growth— (30:52) The necessity of conveying complex ideas and orientation through symbol— (36:31) Bella developed so quickly because of her hunger for experiences like a child who views enjoyment as a necessity — (49:34) Social hexad vs attachment orientation with parents and formative attachment figures— (56:35) Bermuda adjacent hexad types seeming more hexad by pushing off attachment

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

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  • They don’t want you to know.

    — (3:10) Nines are everyone’s least favorite mud cattle— (6:38) Sixes are annoying cult maintainers— (11:13) Sevens are the slutty surprise suicide

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Josh Brolin, Frank Herbert, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

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  • A must-watch for every 9 and 9-fixer. Watch Dogville and then come back to this.

    — (8:42) Why we’re talking about Dogville / Plot overview— (19:53) The hope of attachment vs the leverage of rejection— (24:30) How things went from bad to worse— (30:04) The arrogance of 9— (37:32) Grace confronted by the Dogville principle— (47:14) Grace representing the unprotected innocence of the body center— (53:00) The 8 tenet of first protecting your self and life force— (1:03:39) Why Dogville is a must watch for 9s and 9-fixers

    Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Toni Morrison, Osho, and The 145 Bermuda Overlay and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

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  • Live from Harlem tunneling thru the catacombs of the heart.Watch here: https://youtu.be/tnkHm0LCX_c

    — (2:18) Alright.. the heart center live— (6:45) The value of shame / heart-2nd impresisons— (13:15) Josh’s core 3 image and sensitivity to self-abandonment — (16:07) Decoupling emotion from the feeling of the heart center— (20:40) Shame shame shame— (30:05) The developmental view of the centers / the moment to moment self vs the fixed self— (35:25) “I’m this type of person now” / your identity is what you pay attention to and care about— (43:37) 3 image adaptability vs 4 image rigidity / the freedom and fluidity of identity— (55:12) The social instinct bridging to the heart center — (1:00:27) The passion and creativity of identity

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  • New insights emerging on having your heart center last.

    — (4:22) Alexandra’s new insights about heart-last and image being a cultivated sense of identity — (12:27) Being a social-blind image type / reinforcing who you are to yourself— (16:28) Painting your self-portrait and updating how things reflect on you — (23:18) Aesthetic of personality and unearthing an ocean of values— (26:08) What does neglecting the heart center cost you?— (33:02) Heart last and 4 fix reflex to wince away from being seen— (39:00) Heart lasts underestimate how what they’re doing will cause them to feel shame— (44:33) Events of the world as heart-last phenomenons— (56:20) Heart last and what’s valuable about me

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  • We’re back at it looking at reactive harmonics.

    — (3:22) Reactive vs frustration / harmonics is how we resolve a situation— (7:16) ‘Hopeful’ better describes what positive outlook is up to / reactive aims to uncover where the other is located under duress — (9:51) Katt Williams and 6 exposing the worst case scenario — (12:34) 4/6/8 testing to see if you can hang with negative realness— (19:54) Reactive types are provoking the authenticity of each center— (26:09) 4 vs 8 purging poison and creating space— (32:35) The audacity of hope for positive types— (40:35) Do we need a better name for reactive?— (48:56) 6 is the most psycho reactive type / Katt and reactive 6 comics— (1:03:39) M6GA

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  • Looking back on 2023 with libations. Happy new year you filthy animals.

    — (2:20) Our impressions of BHE year IV / shifts in the business of the enneagram— (8:31) Why interest in the enneagram is taking a dip — (14:27) Do people know about BHE or nah— (20:06) Enneagram reddit thinks Naranjo is the truth— (27:31) Highlights of 2023 episodes / the zones and the 7— (38:39) Social pain and the attachment support groups— (43:00) Frustration underlines the suffering of the personality— (49:41) Plans for 2024— (59:20) Love is in the air / beauty to scary ratio— (1:01:52) The return of trump— (1:13:25) Igbo spirituality market days

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  • Chatting the enneagram in the movies.

    — (2:48) Non-romantic sexual instinct in Suspiria / sx-middle teases / Twin Peaks’ weird sp/sx— (10:32) Holy Mountain and Enter the Void as sexual instinct movies— (14:39) Paul Thomas Anderson and attachment stories— (16:38) How rare sexual is in the stacking / most movies are sp/so / Ari Aster makes deranged sp/so movies— (21:08) Get Out and Parasite as so/sp / what social type movies focus on / 10 reasons why Wes Anderson sucks— (32:52) Passages sx/so 6 attachment madness— (44:39) The Assistant sp/so bermuda hell— (49:23) 8 directors / Possessor and hexad with attachment fixes / Tyler Perry’s a 2 director— (56:47) 5 directors / Kubrick as so/sx— (1:03:53) sp/so body gore, zombies, and romance— (1:06:57) sx/sp romance flicks

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  • Od’s with us this week to dive into the interesting world of astrocartography.

    — (10:12) What is astrocartography and how’d we get into this?— (16:08) Moving to significant areas on your astro map— (21:17) How to create your astrocartography map / what the circles on the map mean— (25:25) John’s lines confirm his love affair with Egypt— (29:04) DG’s meetings with dark men and misadventures in Africa— (34:02) Alexandra’s lines and the birthplace of her love— (38:12) And reconnecting with her spanish roots— (44:57) How far away is too far from a line?— (49:00) What it means when your sun line goes through a place— (57:03) How to look at this with your LocalSpace map— (1:05:20) What your mercury line goeing through somewhere means

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  • Continuing where we left off with Ikram and the Objective Personality Social Types. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.

    — (6:16) The sp/so framing of the social roles concept makes it smaller / does social roles have any implications for the sexual instinct?— (8:40) Emeka vs John sx/sp with responsibility vs specialization— (11:43) Flex masculine identity vs Friends feminine identity— (18:23) Specialization and responsibility minimize personhood in lieu of what i’m doing— (20:40) Responsibility-specialization tidal waves— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:35) Sexaul display as a Social Role 1 and 4— (50:48) What you need to integrate for each social role

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, The Stockholm Trifix, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • We’re talking about the Objective Personality Social Types this week with Ikram. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.

    — (7:55) *Gasp* John is taking responsibility / intro to OPS social roles— (14:18) What does flex mean?— (20:03) Flex vs friends— (27:39) Friend saviors get their flex through connections with people / Flex alienates friends— (31:44) Distribution of social roles / Jesus is a #1?— (34:01) What is responsibility vs specialization — (40:01) How specialization last shows in Emeka— (43:38) Your social role is the position you take in a social dynamic— (45:36) Flex last for Ikram / Flex last doesn’t mean a lack of drive or ambition— (56:32) What’s specialization?— (1:04:20) #2 flexes by making things happen for everyone— (1:08:31) #4 friends have flex by not having flex— (1:12:48) How your social role contrasts with your enneagram type

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Cesar Millan, Tabatha Coffee, and Jada Pinket Smith. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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  • Live from Brooklyn backrooms answering your questions.Watch here: https://youtu.be/WlHQcWEglks

    — (2:32) How important is trifix order?— (12:10) What feels like boring chores to the sexual instinct?— (17:31) How DG experiences his lines of connection as a 9 with no attachment fixes— (25:26) What cakes would each of us bake?— (30:13) How to rizz up the 3-7 stem?— (36:56) What are the holy ideas and higher centers?— (45:10) Insights from the baaaack roooommms - attachment is the seed for object relations— (52:39) Is so/sx what is represented on all the memes on extraversion?

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Tom Waits, Snobby vs Peopley, and Tabatha Coffee. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

  • The wet heart types. Live pod this weekend. Be on the lookout for details.

    — (4:35) Assertive hexad types being out of touch with their shame— (6:26) Shame is not a great word for what the heart types are experiencing / identity needing to feel special— (12:57) Heart types needing to reinforcing pictures to feel a felt sense of specialness— (15:17) Confusing heart type shame with feeling ashamed / shame is the emotion of being out of alignment with value— (25:30) 4 and 4-fix shame— (34:37) Denigration and disgust is the 4 fix reaction to shame— (42:41) 3 and 3-fix shame / being a 3 is like climbing up a downward escalator — (46:10) 3 vs 4 fix compliments and value recognition— (58:32) 2 and 2 fix shame— (1:02:14) 2s supply their own validation— (1:09:07) 2 reaction to shame is to go straight to moral rage and indignation

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Katie Porter, Snobby vs Peopley, and Iyanla. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

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    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

  • The fuming and stewing gut types.

    — (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she’s in the mood— (9:05) David is very angry at the sun— (16:49) And the plague of bread people— (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem— (30:30) Emeka’s rage is the fuel that keeps the car running people over— (34:25) 8 vs 1 fix anger and boundaries / the games begin once the 8 lets you in— (42:41) 4s and 8s are drama queen inversions of each other— (45:59) The cutting denigrating rage of 1s— (50:02) 1s think they know the one best way to do everything

    To sign up for John’s 2024 Egypt Trip visit:https://www.egyptretreats.com/

    DAA — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Snobby vs Peopley, Reactive types, and 7w6 vs 6w7. Join to watch typing classes: https://www.enneagrammer.com/daa

    Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram readings and content at her new website https://www.saturnruled9.com

    Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

    Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble:https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

    Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here:https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray

    Help us buy new equipment here:venmo - @bighormonehttps://paypal.me/bighormone

    Call the Loveline with your comments at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email [email protected] or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message