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It’s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, “ho, ho, NO!” It’s getting old, right? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zach—a personal trainer and 40-year-old single dad—learns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you.
Here are some of the strategies Connell shares with Zach. You’re about to learn:
6:41: How to Maximize Online-Dating Success with Minimal Effort (15 Minutes Daily!)
8:49: Why Being a Single Dad is a Feature, Not a Flaw—and How to Talk about it On Your Profile
14:35: Connell Crafts a Clever, Authentic “DILF” Prompt for Zach that Women Will Love
17:49: The 3 Photos Every Man MUST Have on his Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile
21:08: The Secret to Writing Funny Prompts that Make Her Message YOU First
23:18: Boosting your Profile: When, Why and How to Do It
27:07: From Matching to Texting to Getting the First Date, in 3 Simple Steps
30:04: How to use Video Clips to Skyrocket Your Matches
32:15: The 5 Big Profile Mistakes You Didn’t Know You Were Making
55:43: Hinge Hack: How to Write Poll Prompts to Triple Your Matches
1:01:17: How to Date Without Drinking Alcohol and Still Have Fun
Hit “play” now and start getting good matches on the apps.
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"Transparency fosters genuine connections and sets clear expectations." - Zach
"The focus on self-improvement paves the way for deeper connections and fulfilling relationships." - Zach -
Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.
With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:
1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let’s Vent)
5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety
10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman
12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone
14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women
18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet
20:45: The “Z Pattern”—a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact
22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every Time
Listen now and make this New Year’s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.
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http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"
What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett -
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Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack’s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack’s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.
Jack’s coaching session with Connell will show you:
6:41 – Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material
9:33 – 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates
13:25 – The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants
17:53 – Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You
24:19 – How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates
27:30 – The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy
41:03 – How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation
52:49 – Jack’s Aha Moment: Why He’s Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall
57:12 – The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible
1:01:18 – How to Give a “Power Compliment” that Get Women Swooning
1:04:18 – The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on Dates
Listen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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"Recognizing where you’re stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"
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Have you ever settled—in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becoming
a bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girl—his wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. “To attract a high-value woman,” he says, “you need to become a high-value man.”
Here’s what you’ll learn in Connell and Garrain’s powerful conversation:
3:50 How to Bounce Back from Rock Bottom
15:30 The 5 Books Every Man Should Read
21:33 Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Fake, Toxic “Alpha Males”
32:00 Why Playfulness Is a Man’s Secret Flirting Weapon—and How to Use It
39:42 The Biggest Dating Lesson Garrain Learned Before Meeting His Wife, Blair
40:44 A Flirting Move You Can Steal: How Garrain Used to Get Women to Approach HIM at Bars
52:07 How to Become the Charismatic Man Women Want to Date
58:45 The Jaw-Dropping Truth Bomb Garrain Told Blair on their First Date
60:03 Garrain’s 3-Step Formula for Never Settling Again
It’s time to stop settling and start thriving! Your dream relationship awaits. Listen now.
LEARN MORE ABOUT GARRAIN JONES’S INCREDIBLE STORY:
https://www.garrainjones.com/
TO APPLY TO HIS “ARTIST POWER” PROGRAM:
https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-program
READ GARRAIN’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR LIFE”:
https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
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Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You’re not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approaching—and charming—wonderful women.
Here are some highlights from Eric’s coaching session with Connell:
6:45—How to Talk with Women Authentically—Not Like Some Weird Pickup Artist
10:50—Connell’s Go-To Icebreaker for Approaching ANY Woman
11:30—The “Karaoke Opener,” Which Gives Shy Guys Instant Charismas
19:10—The Wrong Way to Approach Women (Never, Ever Say This!)29:00—How to Be Bold, Not Timid, in Your Approaches
31:23—The One Word That Instantly Sparks Attraction
39:30—What Women REALLY Find Creepy (It’s Not What You Think!)
46:20—3 Playful Ways to Start Conversations that Lead to Numbers
52:01—The Word Every Woman Wants to Hear when You First Meet Her
1:03:08—Learn the “Push-Pull,” the Flirting Move to Keep You Out of the Friend Zone
1:09:02—How to Text Her and Get Dates (and Not Get Ghosted)
1:12:17—The 2 Kinds of Photos You Need on Your Dating Profile to Get Good Matches
1:20:00—Why Women LOVE “Interview Mode”… When You Do it Connell’s Way
Are you ready to get out of your head in bars and get into some flirty conversations? Hit play and take one step closer to finding your dream girlfriend.
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Does your life lack excitement and passion? Do you worry that women find you boring—or worse, dull? A passionless life can sabotage your dating success, leaving women to gravitate to men with more exciting stories to tell. (Picture your date saying, “Wait, your only hobby is playing video games? Cool, cool... well, I should go now.” Yikes.) Women crave men who live with passion and purpose. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell sits down with bestselling author John R. Miles, host of the top-rated “Passion Struck” podcast, to explore how finding your passions can transform your love life and bring you more fulfillment as a man.
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
2:30 The Life-Changing Power of Facing Your Fear
12:05 Why Self-Doubt is Your True Enemy—and How to Build Self-Worth
17:32 How to Get Unstuck and Start Living a Passionate Life
20:21 The Secret to Turning Powerful New Behaviors into Daily Habits
21:03 How to Talk to Women with Passion on Dates—and Why They Love It
28:15 How John’s Improv Comedy Experience Helped Him Defeat Fear
33:53 The Healing Power of Gratitude: Lessons from Losing a Loved One
40:47 How to Show a Woman You’re Dating that She Truly Matters
42:22 The Right Way to Talk to Women About Your Career
46:52 A Fun Improv Game You Can Play to Get Women Laughing
Listen now and take your love life from dull to dynamic—because you want to talk to women about much more than Minecraft.
TO LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHN AND HIS COACHING:
www.johnrmiles.com/
TO GET JOHN’S BESTSELLING BOOK ‘PASSION STRUCK’:
https://www.amazon.com/Passion-Struck-Powerful-Principles-Intentional-
ebook/dp/B0CGS248NR/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1707604358&sr=1-1
TO LISTEN TO JOHN’S TOP-RATED PODCAST:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-struck-with-john-r-miles/id1553279283
TO HIRE JOHN AS A KEYNOTE SPEAKER:
www.harrywalker.com/speakers/john-r-miles
WATCH JOHN’S INSPIRING YOUTUBE CHANNEL:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oW7cQNjZTEA
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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"Treat every practice like a race; overcome the fear of the starting line through preparation." - John R. Miles
"Convey your self-value and power with confidence; it's the superpower that strengthens every relationship." - John R. Miles -
Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you’re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You’ve heard it before: “I didn’t feel a connection, but we can be friends.” Frustrating, right? Let’s change that! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell—who’s been on over 1,000 first dates—shares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.
Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will teach you:
4:20: What to Text Her Before the Date to Get Her Excited to Meet You (No More Flaking!)
11:05 - How to Tell Charismatic Stories that Make Her Hang On Every Word
20:07 - The One Compliment that Always Keeps You Out of the Friend Zone (and Makes Her Smile)
25:25 – Connell’s 3 Steps to Emotionally Connect with Any Woman, Even If You Seem to Have Little in Common
30:12 - The WRONG Way to Touch Her on a Date (Don’t Do This!) and the RIGHT Way
36:12 - How to Make Her Feel Special and Safe
38:22 - How and When to Go for the First Kiss and Never Get Rejected
44:09 - Bonus Tip! Connell’s Favorite First-Date Game: “5 Questions,” to Get Her Laughing and Loving Every Minute with You
Stop hearing “Let’s just be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go out again.” Listen now to unlock the confidence and strategies that will make sparks fly on your next date!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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How do you talk to women and create true attraction? What’s the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these confounding questions. The bestselling author of “The Noble Art of Seduction,” Kezia has helped more than 100,000 men get great dating results. How? By telling it like it is about what works with women. “Guys don’t want to hear bulls*it,” she tells host and fellow dating coach Connell Barrett. “They want to hear the raw truth that gets results.”
You want raw truth? You got it! Kezia and Connell discuss:
(2:35) How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients
(10:40) How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”
(13:12) “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive
(16:45) What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic
(18:05) How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You
(24:05) The Right Way to Talk About Your Career… and the Wrong Way
(25:45) The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women
(28:51) Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them
(32:35) How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase You
Are you ready to confidently approach women and attract your dream girlfriend? Listen now!
Featured Guest
Kezia Noble, The World’s Leading Female Dating and Attraction Expert
TO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA’S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMS
www.kezia-noble.com/
VISIT KEZIA’S YOUTUBE CHANNEL
http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert
GET KEZIA’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “THE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN”http://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHING
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
FOR FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH
http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30
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"There were 2 things that I noticed pretty quickly, the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change." - Kezia Noble
"It's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question, it's about your interesting responses." - Kezia Noble -
Do you see women you’d love to talk to, but you’re just not sure what to say—and you’re afraid you’ll get rejected? You’re not alone. Matt, 25, was battling “approach anxiety.” He wasn’t sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops. Well, his struggles are over! In this episode of the How to Get A Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett pulls back the curtain and shares a 1-1 coaching session he did with his client Matt. Armed with practical tips he calls “outside the box,” a newly confident Matt immediately went out and got two phone numbers from women he approached.
Here are some highlights from the coaching session with Connell that led to Matt’s breakthrough:
5:45 Matt Talks about his Struggles Talking to Women He Sees In Bars
8:31 Connell Identifies the “Invisible Wall” that Stops Matt from Approaching
14:21 Matt Has a Major Shift About His Fear of Rejection
17:15 Why Approaching Large Groups Helps Create MORE Attraction with Women
20:32 Connell Shares “the Biggest Secret” to Confidently Approaching
23:36 Connell Tells Matt What to Say when Talking to Tall Women
26:01 Why Authenticity and Vulnerability is So Effective in Dating
37:20 How to Be Playful with Women, and Not Boring
42:30 Connell Shares His Simple Texting Framework
46:37 A Simple Move that Keeps Guys from Getting Ghosted
53:28 Matt learns the RIGHT Way to Confirm a Date, and the WRONG Way
58:21 The Hinge Prompt that’s CRUSHING for Connell and His Clients
After their session, Matt went out and got two phone number from two cute girls—the kinds of women he’d been too anxious to approach. Do you want the same kind of success? Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Do women confuse you? Would you like to get better at connecting on and off the apps, but you struggle to read women? In today’s episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest: Instagram influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar, host of the wildly popular dating podcast We Met At Acme. Once a single woman herself, Lindsey is here to help you read women on dates, on the apps, and when you want to approach.
In their fun, lively conversation, Connell and Lindsey discuss:
(8:47) How Connell Went from Paralyzing Approach Anxiety to Confidently Meeting Women IRL
(13:37) How to Compliment Women with Authentic Charm, and Zero Creepiness
(20:00) How Lindsey’s Podcast, We Met At Acme, Helps Millennials Improve their Love Lives
(24:00) Why A Woman You Like Suddenly Goes Quiet
(29:50) How to Tell if She’s into You
(36:07) Why Women are Drawn to Vulnerable, Authentic Men
(48:07) How to Flirt with Women without Being Weird
(52:29) First Date Topics to Talk About…and NOT to Talk About
(53:33) The Charming Way Women Want You to Approach Them
(56:52) Why Humor is More Attractive than Good Looks
(59:36) Women HATE HATE HATE When Guys Do THIS!
(1:01:44) Lindsey’s Top 4 Dating Tips You Need to Know
Are you ready to stop being confused by women, and start understanding how to read and connect with them? Listen now!
READ LINDSEY’S SUBSTACK
https://wemetatacme.substack.com/
CHECK OUT HER BINGE-WORTHY DATING PODCAST
We Met At Acme
GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY’S LIVE SHOWS
http://www.wemetatacme.com
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO TALK ABOUT 1-1 COACHING
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH
http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30 -
In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, “No More Nice Guy,” is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man” and Brene Brown’s “Daring Greatly.”
In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Glover—author of “The Dating Essentials for Men”—will discuss:
(5:03) How Connell’s Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever
(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women
(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why “Nice Guy Syndrome” Is Hurting Your Love Life
(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life
(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem
(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.
(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little “Caveman” in the Guy She Dates
(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole
(50:22) Dr. Glover’s Formula to Be a Man of “Loving Dominance”
(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You
(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women
(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Woman’s Phone Number
(1:09:45) Dr. Glover’s Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend Zone
Are you ready to stop being “Mr. Nice Guy” and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!
TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVER’S COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, “DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN”
http://www.drglover.com
FOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/X
http://www.twitter.com/dr_r_glover
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Odds are, you see women you’d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don’t know what to say, and you don’t want to seem creepy. It’s frustrating… but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrett—who has approached thousands of women in his 12 years as a dating coach—shares a new way to confidently meet women IRL. His Authentic Approach Technique will teach you exactly what to say to women, so you can get numbers and dates and find an incredible girlfriend. And you’ll talk to women with charm and authenticity, NOT with sketchy pickup tricks.
In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:
(2:35) The 3 Simple Ways to Approach Women Almost Anywhere
(6:30) Why Women Hate Scripted “PUA” Tactics
(7:15) Why Connell’s Authentic Approach Technique is Basically Rejection-Proof
(8:05) The Night Connell Got 3 Numbers from 3 Wonderful Women
(11:50) The Approaching Mistake that Gets You In Your Head
(12:50) How to Meet Women Using a Power Compliment
(16:42) The Mindset Shift that Destroys Approach Anxiety
(19:42) How to Meet Women by Asking the Perfect Question
(22:30) A Great Approach Opener to Use at the Gym
(27:53) How to Meet Women with A Funny, Flirty Icebreaker
(36:30) How to Be Authentically Attractive, NOT Creepy
(41:15) How Connell’s Client Taylor Approached and Made Out with a Woman in Under 10 Minutes
(43:49) Your Approach Mission for this Episode
Are you ready to confidently meet women and get numbers and dates? Listen now!
Quotes
"Be the charming, authentic man who confidently sparks conversations anywhere. Your natural charm will have her telling her friends." - Connell Barnett
"Use a genuine compliment, relevant question, or unique observation to initiate conversations." - Connell Barnett
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you’ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you’ll do all of this with authentic charm—no weird pickup tricks needed.
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:
(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps
(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send
(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love
(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies
(12:57) The BIG Mistake You’re Making in the Apps
(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages
(15:30) How to Write the “Opposites Attract” Opener
(17:58) How to Write the “Compliment + Nickname” Opener
(20:56) How to Write the “Pop Quiz” Opener
(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love
(29:58) Connell’s 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates
(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy
(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out
(40:32) Why Connell’s New “Surprisingly Sexy” Opener Works with ANY Woman
(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this Episode
Are you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!
Quotes
"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett
"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You’re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You’re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.
In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:
(4:58) The “Aha!” Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication
(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone
(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication
(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say
(18:30) The “80-20 Rule” to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics
(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use
(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment
(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)
(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend
(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates… and the WRONG Way
(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal
(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid
(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say
Are you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
Quotes
"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirting—it simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett
"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett -
Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let’s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy—Radical Authenticity—to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!
In this episode, Connell will tell you:
(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men
(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women
(10:30) How Connell “Stole” His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros
(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss
(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women
(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence
(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connell’s Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone
(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him
(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell
(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity
(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity
(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today
(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, “Dating Sucks but You Don’t”
Quotes
"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett
"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Quotes
"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett
"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm
04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework
07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks
10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth
16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context
17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment
21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women
22:11 - Outro -
Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Quotes
"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett
"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers
03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions
09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights
10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits
15:37 - Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters
17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats
24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener
28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions
30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro -
Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
Quotes
"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett
"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations
03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection
05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating
08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney
13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success
15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women
17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial
22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities
23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time
27:07 - Outro -
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend -
Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend - Se mer
