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Sociologist and author, Dr. Nicole Bedera, joins Kendra and Rich to discuss her new book, On the Wrong Side: How Universities Protect Perpetrators and Betray Survivors of Sexual Violence. The book was released on October 1st, 2024, to critical and public acclaim, resonating with people across countless industries and landing in the Amazon Top 10 for higher education books.
Nicole has been featured on top podcasts such as Now What? with Brooke Shields, The Waves, and Faith and Feminism with Meghan Tschanz. Her work has also been featured in The New York Times, NPR, Time Magazine, and Teen Vogue!
More about Dr. Nicole Bedera
Buy the book here: https://tinyurl.com/wrongsidebook Nicoleâs Essay on survivors supporting Johnny Depp: https://tinyurl.com/survivorsjd Beyond Compliance, Nicoleâs consulting firm: https://www.beyond-compliance-consulting.comIf you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: â â â â [email protected]â â â â
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"Sic Transit Gloria⊠Glory Fades" was one of the breakout songs for Long Island band Brand New but it could just as easily be a description of their long running career. The dizzying heights the band had reached in the mid to late 2000âs all came crashing down in 2017 when allegations of grooming and sexual misconduct against singer Jesse Lacey were made public. In this episode Kendra and Rich dive into some of those allegations and how little the music landscape has changed since they came to light.
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Brand New Band Controversy & Jesse Lacey Allegations Explained (The Direct) Brand New Frontman Jesse Lacey Has Been Accused Of Sexual Misconduct With A Minor (UPROXX) Two Alleged Victims of Brand Newâs Jesse Lacey Detail Years of Sexual Exploitation of Minors (Pitchfork) Brand Newâs Jesse Lacey Issues Statement Following Sexual Misconduct Allegations (Pitchfork) Jesse Lacey Statement (Facebook) The Story of the Woman Who Accused Brand Newâs Jesse Lacey of Soliciting Child Pornography (Vulture)If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: â â â â â â â â â â [email protected]â â â â â â â â â
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Wilmer Valderrama became a household name in the early 2000's as the character Fez on That 70's Show. At the same time he became a tabloid mainstay for his relationships with teenage Lindsey Lohan, Mandy Moore, and Demi Lovato. In this episode Kendra and Rich break down Valderrama's history of dating very young artists and why the entertainment industry so often seems to turn a blind eye to this behavior.
CORRECTION: Tyga was 24 when he started hanging out with 16 year old Kylie Jenner, not 27.
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âThat â70s Showâ Star Wilmer Valderramaâs Gross Howard Stern Interview (Rolling Stone) Demi Lovato Called Out âGross Older Menâ Years After Dating A That 70s Show Star (stylecaster) Demi Lovato's '29' Stirs Talk of Wilmer Valderrama's Past Young Partners (Newsweek) Wilmer Valderrama Has A History Of Dating Much Younger Vulnerable Girls And Women (Little Things)If you have been on the receiving end of harm from someone: be it artist, venue owner, audience member, or someone else and would like to share your story on a future episode, please reach out to us at: â â â â â â â â â [email protected]â â â â â â â â
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"Brody" worked her way up to manager at a popular music venue in her city. During her time there, she witnessed a number of egregious and illegal activities perpetrated by the owner. When she became vocal about what she had experienced, she was fired. In this episode, we discuss how power dynamics play into harassment and abuse, and the positives of finally speaking out.
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Lou Pearlman is best known for two things, launching the careers of some of the biggest pop artists of the 1990âs and being the mastermind behind one of the largest ponzi schemes in the history of the United States. In this episode of subtext Kendra and Rich break down both sides of Lou Pearlman and talk about how someone who seemingly did so many positive things for popular music also drastically altered the lives of almost every person he came in contact with for the worse.
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Who Was Lou Pearlman? (People) Mad About The Boys (Vanity Fair) Lou Pearlman, Disgraced Backstreet Boys, âNSYNC Svengali, Dies at 62 (Billboard) Dirty Pop: The Boy Band Scam (Netflix, 2024)The Boy Band Con: The Lou Pearlman Story (YouTube Originals, 2019)
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Cydni spent ten years in a relationship with the singer of a popular band that became increasingly more abusive, both physically and mentally, before she removed herself from it in 2023. In this episode she talks about what caused her to ignore the red flags she noticed at the beginning of the relationship, the ways in which the abuse escalated, and what gave her the strength to overcome the abuse and end the relationship.
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For almost a quarter of a century, Warped Tour was the canât-miss festival of the year for teenage and young adult fans of punk rock and all its variations. In its later years, a slew of sexual assault allegations overshadowed the bands and camaraderie for which it initially stood. In this episode, Kendra and Rich break down the history of Warped Tour and how these accusations affected the tourâs legacy.
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Everything we know about the sexual harassment allegations against Front Porch Step (Alt Pressâ ) Warped Behavior: Sexual Violence On Tour (Medium) The Truth About Dahvie Vanity (tumblr) Warped Tour is over for good. Will the culture it created finally reckon with its demons? (Washington Post) Warped Tour to Hit the Road For Final Trek in 2018: Exclusive Interview With Founder Kevin Lyman (Billboard) US band Slaves deny Vans Warped Tour sexual assault accusations (BBC News) get sexual predators removed from the 2018 Vans Warped Tour lineup (change.org) The (Pseudo) Death of Warped Tour (The Kids Aren't Alright) Where the Girls Arenât (Rookie)-
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Part 2: Michelle details the brutal and public rape she experienced, as a minor, by the singer of a well-known rock band. She also discusses how her story has been falsely represented in books and interviews by members of that band, and what her path to healing has looked like since that time. This is the second half of a two part interview.
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Michelle Rhoades came of age in the early days of the highly influential Hollywood punk and glam rock scene. In this episode, she talks about growing up in Los Angeles and how a chance encounter with the future singer of a famous rock band led to a harrowing, life-altering experience. This is the first half of a two part interview.-
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In 2009, Chris Brown made headlines when he viciously beat artist and singer Rihanna during a domestic dispute. After a brief hiatus, Brown continued his career without seemingly any setbacks. Fifteen years after the initial incident, Rich and Kendra discuss other examples of Brown engaging in domestic abuse and violent outbursts and the accolades and praise has received for his music.
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Chris Brown Checks into Rehab for Anger Management, Will Stay Up to Three Months (Complex) Chris Brown: Timeline of violence towards women-
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For nine years, award winning producer Dr. Luke and pop songstress Kesha battled in court over her accusations that she was drugged, raped, emotionally abused, and body shamed by the producer. Kendra and Rich discuss numerous facets of the lawsuits, including the complexities of multi state suits, interpersonal ties to the music industry which may have skewed judgments, and the recent settlement.
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Kesha and Dr. Luke reach a settlement over rape and defamation claims (NPR) Pink has explained why she'll never work with Dr Luke again (Stylist) Kelly Clarkson claims she lost âmillionsâ after refusing co-writing credit alongside Dr. Luke (Global News) Sony reportedly ends partnership with Dr. Luke amid legal battle with Kesha (Global News) 'Women sit next to abusers at music industry parties' MPs warn (BBC News)-
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Nick Carter of the multi platinum selling boy band, The Backstreet Boys, has recently come under scrutiny for numerous allegations of sexual assault. We discuss the allegations, the girl and boy band industry of the 90s, and Fallen Idols, a documentary recently released about Nick and Aaron Carter.
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Nick Carter Sexual-Assault Allegations Get Louder (Vulture) Nick Carter sued by a third woman who accuses him of sexually assaulting her in her teens (LA Times) Nick Carter, Backstreet Boys star, sued for alleged 2003 sexual assault of 15-year-old (The Guardian) Nick Carter sex assault case: Singer, father to appeal to Nevada Supreme Court (Newsnation) Fallen Idols: Nick and Aaron Carter Documentary, 2024 (Max)-
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In 2017, dozens of women came forward to speak out against the abuse they faced from film mogul and heavyweight Harvey Weinstein. In April 2024, after an extensive appeals process, his New York conviction was overturned. Rich and Kendra discuss what this means for his future, the #metoo movement, and survivors nationwide.
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Harvey Weinstein timeline: How the scandal has unfolded (BBC News) Harvey Weinsteinâs rape conviction is overturned by New Yorkâs top court (AP News) Anita Hill discusses overturn of Weinstein's rape conviction and what it means for #MeToo (PBS News Hour) 'We've come too far': Weinstein's overturned rape conviction won't stop #MeToo movement, advocates say (NBC News)-
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In 2010 Cara Kizer reported that she was drugged and raped by two members of the NY Philharmonic Orchestra. In this episode of subtext we look at the aftermath of those accusations and what the ensuing ten years looked like for Kizer including how the orchestra itself handled her coming forward.
Read the Vulture article: https://www.vulture.com/article/new-york-philharmonic-players-not-performing-sexual-misconduct.html
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Hip hop artist Nur-D joins us from the Twin Cities to discuss his zero-tolerance policy regarding playing bills with rapists/abusers and his refusal to play at venues which allow them on their stages. He shares his negative experiences with one of the major venues in Minneapolis and how his career continues to advance without their support.
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In July of 2023, Justin Sane, a.k.a Justin Geever, frontman of the political punk band Anti-Flag, was accused of rape and assault by multiple women. As a result, the band broke up and dissolved their record label, A-F Records. Kendra and Rich share updates on the case including litigation and Geeverâs recent plans to flee the country.
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Visit the Punk Rock Therapist: https://www.thepunkrocktherapist.org
Read the Make the Music Industry Safe Report: â https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com/make-music-safer.pdf
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Anti-Flagâs Justin Sane âPlans to Flee U.S.,â Rape Accuser Claims (Rolling Stone) The Punk-Rock Predator (Rolling Stone) Anti-Flagâs Ex-Members Say âF-ck Youâ to âVery Sickâ Justin Sane Amid Sexual Assault Accusations (Rolling Stone) Anti-Flagâs Justin Sane Sued for Sexual Assault (Rolling Stone)-
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Over the course of Danny Elfmanâs decades plus career he has worked with the biggest names in the entertainment industry and also had sexual assault and harassment accusations levied against him. In this episode, Kendra and Rich break down these allegations and how they tie into the bigger conversation of grooming and how high profile entertainers use their status to pressure victims into staying silent.
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Read the Make the Music Industry Safe Report: https://www.thisisenoughpodcast.com/make-music-safer.pdf
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â Danny Elfman calls newest sexual assault claims a âdisinformation campaignâ (LA Timesâ ) â Danny Elfman: New Sexual Abuse Allegations Are âMeritlessâ and âAbsurdâ (â Rolling Stoneâ â ) Oscar-nominated composer Danny Elfman accused of sexual assault by second woman (The Guardianâ )-
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Emily Wolfe was in the midst of a tour when she found out that a member of her team sexually assaulted someone. Emily discusses how her decision to let this person go impacted her life and informed her art, and how important it is that live shows are a place where people can feel safe.
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Emily's new album, The Blowback, is available on streaming platforms and for purchase on her website.
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Emily Wolfeâs website: https://www.emilywolfemusic.com/
Emily Wolfe on Bandcamp: https://emilywolfemusic.bandcamp.com
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Kendra and Rich discuss the recent allegations and subsequent lawsuit against Sean "Diddyâ Combs, his extensive musical career, and the history of assault accusations that have been levied against him, as far back as the early 90âs.
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A Brief Look at Diddyâs History of Controversies and Allegations (Rolling Stone) A look at the allegations against Sean "Diddy" Combs (NPR) Sean 'Diddy' Combs accused of gang rape and sex trafficking in new lawsuit (NBC News)-
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Karen Barth Mensies is a litigation attorney who represents survivors of sexual abuse and harassment. Shawn Vincent works alongside Karen as a litigation consultant. The two have been working tirelessly on a myriad of high profile sexual assault allegation cases and fighting to extend statutes of limitations nationwide.
Karen and Shawn discuss the statute of limitations, the importance of survivors coming together to form a network, how the music industry enables predators all the way up the food chain, and Karenâs involvement with The Punk Rock Therapist.
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Visit KBM Law to learn more about the legal work Karen and Shawn are doing for survivors: https://kbmlaw.com
Visit The Punk Rock Therapist to learn more about the support they are providing for survivors: https://www.thepunkrocktherapist.org
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