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MPF Discussion with JJ Brun
Inside The Mind Of A Spy with JJ Brun
About JJ Brun
As a seasoned veteran of the Intelligence Branch of the Canadian Armed Forces, I served with distinction as an contact handler on the ground in Bosnia and Herzegovina. Years in the discrete world of human intelligence and counter human intelligence have driven my desire to understand human behaviour’s intricacies and pass on the complex notion of interpersonal communication.
Although retired from active duty, I realized much of what I learned could be utilized in the civilian world. Based on the Four Temperament (DISC) Model of Human Behaviour to better understand any maximize human dynamics, my exclusive training programs provide a comprehensive analysis of communication techniques, empowering individuals to enhance authentic relationships that promote trust, innovation, and productivity.
Inside The Mind Of A Spy
What does it take to succeed in the shadowy world of intelligence? In this gripping episode of My Perfect Failure, retired spy JJ Brun reveals the extraordinary path that led him to a career few dare to imagine.
As a boy, JJ never dreamed of becoming a spy. But a life-changing argument with his father set him on a journey that would take him from the barracks of the Royal 22nd Regiment to the high-pressure missions of the intelligence world. Along the way, JJ discovered how to turn failures into triumphs and mastered the art of reading and connecting with people—skills that defined his career.
Join us as JJ shares his experiences, from rigorous training in interrogation and evasion to the high stakes of being a contact handler in Bosnia. Through his stories, JJ reveals powerful lessons about trust, communication, and adaptability that anyone can apply to their own challenges.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
•How JJ’s entrepreneurial upbringing influenced his military success.
•The secret to building trust in even the most high-stakes environments.
•Why asking “I’m just curious” can transform any conversation.
•The importance of failure in shaping resilience and leadership.
•JJ’s unique framework for understanding human behaviour.
Don’t miss this captivating dive into the world of a spy—and the life lessons it holds for all of us!
Social Links To JJ
•Website https://theretiredspy.com/
•Free Resources - https://theretiredspy.com/free-resources/
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MPF Discussion with Reverend Theresa Contaxis
Harnessing the Winds of Change with Reverend Theresa Contaxis
About Theresa
Theresa Contaxis is an author, reverend, and lifelong learner. She recently published The Littlest Sailboat: A Journey of the Soul, an inspiring story about finding one’s place in the world through faith. Her spiritual journey began during a period of loneliness and depression while pregnant with her third child, leading her to attend the transformative EMMAUS retreat.
A mother of three, Theresa studied under spiritual mentors, including a nun, energy workers, and shamans, before becoming a Reverend at All Faiths Seminary International. Her writings reflect her spiritual growth and exploration of mysticism.
Theresa believes in the power of humor and hope in personal transformation, emphasizing that everyone, no matter their past, is inherently loved and connected to the Divine.
She holds degrees from the Hartt School of Music and the University of Hartford and previously worked in finance before dedicating herself to family and spirituality. Theresa lives in Tolland.
Harnessing the Winds of Change - Embracing Personal Transformation
In this episode, Reverend Theresa Contaxis shares how she turned life’s challenges into opportunities for profound growth. From overcoming a difficult childhood to discovering her purpose as a Reverend and author, Theresa’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience, faith, and love.
She discusses how practices like journaling, breathing, and setting intentions helped her align with her true self. Theresa also dives into the themes of her book, The Littlest Sailboat: A Journey of the Soul, encouraging us to release negative emotions and embrace a life of joy and purpose.
5 Key Takeaways:
Reading and journaling expand your perspective and deepen self-awareness.
Calm and joy signal alignment with love and spirituality.
Guilt is not your authentic self; forgiveness leads to freedom.
Good teachers are lifelong students.
True spirituality aligns you with who you really are.
Social Links to Theresa
Website: https://theresacontaxis.com/
Order: The Littlest Sailboat: A Journey of the Soul: https://www.amazon.co.uk/fmc/m/30000053/?almBrandId=QW1hem9uIEZyZXNo&ref_=UK_TRF_ALL_UFG_RTL_ONSIT_0504411
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MPF Discussion with Dave Mason
Failing Fast, Rising Higher with Dave Mason
About Dave
I got into writing because I believe a book can be life changing.
Through my novels, I try to help people live healthy, happy, spiritually connected, and fiscally responsible lives.
Whether it's getting a financial education through The Cash Machine, plugging into the ancient world of the Prophets though The Age of Prophecy Series, or figuring out your goals and direction through The Size of Your Dreams, I hope my books can deliver exactly what you're looking for.
Failing Fast, Rising Higher
Could failure be the secret ingredient to success? In this inspiring episode of My Perfect Failure, I chat with Dave Mason, a trailblazing author and entrepreneur whose mantra, “Hurry Up and Fail,” is a rallying cry for anyone held back by perfectionism or fear. Dave opens up about his journey from lawyer to author and shares the life-changing insights that shaped his creative and entrepreneurial pursuits.
Highlights from the Conversation:
1.Accidental Author, Intentional Impact: The story behind Dave’s unexpected leap into writing and how his novels are designed to change lives.
2.Hurry Up and Fail: The transformative philosophy that turned an online course into a powerful movement.
3.Lessons from the Prophets: How storytelling rooted in timeless wisdom teaches resilience and detachment.
4.Turning Setbacks into Launchpads: Why failures can be the ultimate test of character and creativity.
5.Building a Failure Toolkit: Tips like MVPs (Minimum Viable Products) and “Failure Playlists” to help you move forward with confidence.
Social Links to Dave
•Website: https://davemasonauthor.com/
•Order “Hurry Up and Fail: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Hurry-Up-Fail-Success-Failure-ebook/dp/B0CN5ZTS6W/ref=sr_1
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MPF Discussion with Tessa Arnold
Overcoming Grief to Build a Legacy with Tessa Arnold
About Tessa
Tessa Arnold, Co-Founder and COO of SnapBackEnergy, leverages her 12-year background in global banking to drive positive change. Following a transformative shift triggered by her late husband's passing, Tessa founded SnapBack Energy, delving into the mind-body connection. As an Ayurveda Health and Wellness Lifestyle Coach, she radiates support, using podcasts to spark conversations to explore neuroplasticity, Ayurveda, and holistic wellness. Tessa's mission is to empower listeners, sparking transformative conversations that shift perspectives and empower individuals to navigate life's challenges. Through her unique blend of entrepreneurship and holistic living, Tessa embodies impactful change, driving self-discovery and transformation.
"Overcoming Grief to Build a Legacy"
What happens when life turns your world upside down? For Tessa Arnold, the answer was resilience, intuition, and a leap of faith. From climbing the corporate ladder to founding SnapBackEnergy amidst immense personal loss, Tessa candidly discusses how she navigated grief and transformed adversity into an opportunity to build a legacy. This conversation will leave you inspired to tackle life’s hurdles with courage and purpose.
Takeaways:
1.Intuition is a powerful guide in decision-making.
2.Leaning into fear can lead to profound personal growth.
3.Failure lays the bricks for future success.
4.Patience is essential when nurturing a business.
5.True fulfilment requires questioning the meaning behind your busyness.
Social Links to Tessa
•SnapBackEnergy: https://snapbackenergy.com/pages/about-us
•Balane of You: https://balanceofyou.com/pages/coaching-1x1-ayurveda
•SnapBackEnergy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/snapbackenergy/#
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MPF Discussion with Maxim Gomberg
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AI: Your Next Best Teammate with Maxim Gomberg
About Maxim
Maxim Gomberg stands at the forefront of the AI revolution, bridging the gap between cutting-edge technology and practical business applications. As a visionary entrepreneur, university lecturer, and AI consultant, Maxim has made it his mission to demystify AI and Automations and make it accessible to all, regardless of technical background.
In a world where AI can seem intimidating, Maxim emerges as the beacon of clarity. His unique ability to translate complex AI concepts into actionable, no-code solutions has made him a highly sought-after speaker and workshop leader. Maxim's approach is not just about understanding AI – it's about harnessing its power to drive real business growth and innovation.
AI: Your Next Best Teammate”
Ever thought of AI as a colleague rather than a tool? Maxim Gomberg has. From selling his first website as a schoolboy to building businesses powered by AI, Maxim’s entrepreneurial journey is as fascinating as it is inspiring. In this episode, he reveals how AI became a pivotal part of his life after a career setback—and how it can transform yours, too.
Maxim’s down-to-earth approach to AI makes it accessible to everyone. He’s on a mission to prove that AI isn’t just for tech geniuses but for anyone looking to work smarter and faster. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a student, or someone curious about AI, this episode has something for you.
Top 5 Takeaways
1.Failure is a teacher Every stumble teaches you something. For Maxim, failure became the doorway to AI and innovation.
2.AI is What You Make It The better the questions, the better the results. Learn how to talk to AI like a pro.
3.Balance is Key Knowing when to use AI and when to rely on human skills is crucial for success.
4.Sales First, Solutions Second Solve problems people are already willing to pay for—then build the solution.
5.AI + Automation = Magic Startups can use AI and automation to create MVPs (Minimum Viable Products) quickly and efficiently.
Social Links to Maxim
Website: https://www.maximgomberg.com/
Email: Max@ms marketing.co.il
Maxim LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maximgomberg/
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MPF Discussion with Jor-El Caraballo
Redefining Black Male Masculinity with Jor-El Caraballo
About Jor-El
Jor-El Caraballo is a licensed therapist and cofounder of Viva, a multi-state mental health practice. Caraballo received a BA in psychology from the University of North Carolina at Wilmington and MA and Ed.M. degrees in psychological counseling from Teachers College, Columbia University. He has been featured as a mental health expert across many magazines and websites, including Mind Body Green, Men’s Health, Healthline, Insider, Self, and more, sharing advice and insight on self-care, interpersonal relationships, dealing with trauma, and more. He is the author of Self-Care for Black Men and The Shadow Work Journal.
Jor-El Caraballo's Self-Care for Black Men became a popular, instant seller. Leaning into that success, Caraballo’s audio meditation program MEDITATIONS FOR BLACK MEN is filled with unique insights and tools for Black men everywhere to prioritize mental health, empowering listeners to create a deeper connection with their mind, body, and spirit over the course of ten guided meditations.
Redefining Black Male Masculinity
What does it mean to be a Black man in 2024? On this episode of My Perfect Failure, Jor-El Caraballo shares his journey of redefining masculinity, growing up as a curious and empathetic “Why Kid” in South Carolina, and breaking free from societal stereotypes.
Jor-El reveals how discovering psychology in high school set him on a path to helping others and why his book, Meditations for Black Men, serves as a transformative tool for self-exploration and healing. From his influences like Eckhart Tolle to the trailblazing work of Bell Hooks, Jor-El explains how embracing self-awareness and challenging norms can create space for Black men to thrive emotionally and spiritually.
A must-listen episode for anyone passionate about authenticity, resilience, and self-discovery.
5 Takeaways:
1.Explore Without Judgment: The journey inward is where the most power lies.
2.Redefine Masculinity: Black men can embrace vulnerability and emotional depth.
3.Tools for Growth: Meditations for Black Men offers practical steps for mindfulness.
4.Influences Matter: Leaders like Bell Hooks inspire change and self-acceptance.
5.Self-Care is Revolutionary: Prioritizing wellness is an act of empowerment.
Social Links to Jor-El
Order: MEDITATIONS FOR BLACK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Meditations-Black-Men-Guided-Self-care/dp/1668119943/ref=sr_1_1?
Viva: https://vivamentalhealth.com/meet-the-co-founders/
Instagram: @jorelcaraballo: https://www.instagram.com/jorelcaraballo/
Facebook: @jorel.caraballo: https://www.facebook.com/jorel.caraballo/
X: @JorElCaraballo: https://x.com/jorelcaraballo
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MPF Discussion with Dr Victoria Shaw
Rewire Your Reality: The Power of Intuition with Dr Victoria Shaw
About Dr. Victoria Shaw
Dr. Victoria Shaw is a psychologist turned intuitive counselor, blending her academic expertise with profound spiritual insight to guide others on their journeys of self-discovery and growth. With a PhD in Cognitive Psychology from Princeton University and postdoctoral training at Columbia University, Victoria seemed to have it all on paper but felt unfulfilled until she awakened to her intuition.
Through her own healing and transformation, she developed powerful intuitive abilities that she now uses to help clients uncover their soul’s wisdom, heal from past wounds, and connect with their true selves. A licensed counsellor, energy healer, and author of four books, Victoria is passionate about empowering others to embrace their inner light and live with greater clarity, purpose, and joy.
Rewire Your Reality: The Power of Intuition
Have you ever felt a gut feeling or a sudden insight? That's your intuition at work! In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Victoria Shaw, a fascinating woman who has turned her life around by trusting her intuition.
Victoria shares her inspiring story of leaving a successful academic career to pursue her passion for helping others. We delve into the world of intuition, exploring how it works, how to recognize it, and why it's crucial to trust it.
Key Takeaways:
•The Science of Intuition: Learn about the neurological basis of intuition.
•Overcoming Fear and Doubt: Discover how to silence the mind and listen to your heart.
•Practical Tips for Everyday Life: Implement actionable strategies to enhance your intuitive abilities.
•The Transformative Power of Intuition: Witness firsthand how intuition can lead to profound personal and professional growth.
•The Power of Intuition: Discover how intuition can guide you towards a more fulfilling life.
•From Academia to Intuition: Learn about Victoria's unexpected career shift and the profound impact of her intuition.
•Tapping into Your Inner Compass: Explore practical tips for recognizing and trusting your intuition.
Connect with Dr. Victoria Shaw
Website: https://victoriashawintuitive.com/
Victoria’s TV Show: https://victoriashawintuitive.com/living-in-alignment/
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MPF Discussion with Lewis Crompton
The Accidental Trader with Lewis Crompton
About Lewis
Lewis Crompton is on a mission to help 1 million families live with less stress and more fun through financial education and empowerment. He became financially free by trading financial markets, starting over 10 years ago, taught by Robert Kiyosaki’s Rich Dad Poor Dad, and then headhunted to teach for them. Lewis is a leading voice in the industry, championing safe, systematic and profitable trading techniques. He created and developed the STARTrading Method which empowers you to trade in under 30 mins per day, generating exceptional monthly returns.
In this enlightening episode of My Perfect Failure, I sit down with Lewis Compton, the founder of StarTrading and a sought-after trading educator, to explore his unique journey from church life to the trading world. Originally guided by a love for teaching and helping others, Lewis stumbled into trading almost by accident. Through dedication, a few “magic beans,” and an unbreakable commitment to personal growth, he’s now on a mission to empower others to find financial freedom.
Lewis opens up about his early years and how he felt like an outsider, finding solace in his community and faith. It was this sense of community that he carried into his trading business, determined to create a supportive environment where people could learn and thrive. In this episode, Lewis shares the life lessons and mindset shifts that transformed him from a church-based mentor to a global trading coach.
Tune in to discover:
•How Lewis discovered trading “by accident” and quickly became one of the top educators.
•The importance of building a community in business, whether it’s faith-based or finance-focused.
•Why Lewis believes in the power of mentorship and a shared mission.
•His philosophy on “magic beans” and how they can help anyone grow in life and business.
•The ultimate freedom that comes from learning to invest in yourself and live life on your terms.
Takeaways:
1.Success often requires bold life changes; stepping outside comfort zones can lead to new paths.
2.Building a community, in business or personal life, can bring support and purpose.
3.True financial freedom is about choice, not just wealth.
4.Investing time, energy, and money in oneself pays lifelong dividends.
5.Mentorship and mindset are crucial to navigating the challenges of any new career.
Connect with Lewis
Website: www.startradingnow.com
Instagram: @with-lewiscrompton
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MPF Discussion with Alan Rhode
Building Success Through Setbacks with Alan Rhode
About Alan
Alan was born in Genoa, a chilled out town on the north-west coast of Italy. He spent many years working as a lawyer in the more hectic Milan, before moving to London in 2015. After three failed e-commerce start-ups Alan founded tax and legal consultancy, Taxmen, which as it flourished allowed him time to write. Although Alan did not embark on writing his book until his 40s, he reminds himself he is in good company with very established authors such as Umberto Eco, Isabella Allende and William Golding also starting later in life. Alan is an accomplished speaker who regularly presents and delivers workshops. When he has a spare moment, which is rare, between running his business, writing and spending time with his young family, Alan enjoys watching vintage movies and playing tennis. He juggles a lot but manages it without stress. The word ‘stress’ does not belong in Alan’s living dictionary as he considers life to be too precious. Alan is currently working on his second book after the completion of his first book, The Eagle and the Cockerel.
From lawyer to entrepreneur to published author, Alan Rhode’s career path is anything but linear. On this episode of My Perfect Failure, Alan explains why he sees setbacks as crucial steps toward growth. He opens up about his transition from law, the lessons he learned as a rookie entrepreneur, and why ambition always trumps fear for him. Alan’s belief that “you have to be brave to inspire” rings through his journey. Tune in to hear how he built his company Taxmen and carved out time to write The Eagle and the Cockerel — and why he’s determined to live a life full of diverse experiences and passions.
Key Insights:
•How ambition outshines the fear of failure.
•We discuss Alan’s book “The Eagle and the Cockerel.”
•The value of starting late and pursuing big dreams.
•How setbacks shape a resilient, adaptable mindset.
•The power of daydreaming and creating multiple passions.
•Strategies to turn lessons learned into lasting success.
Social Links to Alan
Alan’s website: http://alan-rhode.com/
Order your copy of: The Eagle and the Cockerel:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Eagle-Cockerel-thrilling-political-treachery/dp/1916797415/ref=pd_ci_mcx_mh_mcx_views_0_image?pd_rd_w
Subscribe to Alan’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@ALANRHODE-gl8vd
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MPF Discussion with Sharon K. Gillenwater
Bootstrapping To $25 Million with Sharon K. Gillenwater
About Sharon
Sharon K. Gillenwater is a tech founder who built, scaled, and sold Boardroom Insiders for $25 million in 2022. She shares her journey in her book, Scaling With Soul: How I Built & Sold a $25 Million Tech Company Without Being an A**hole, aiming to make entrepreneurial success accessible to all. Sharon
grew up in a working-class family, became the first in her family to earn a
college degree, and found her passion for tech and business in San Francisco.In 2008, she founded Boardroom Insiders to address a need she identified among her clients, evolving her consulting work into an executive profile database and SaaS platform. Sharon’s leadership grew the company to a point of acquisition, achieving a $25 million exit. She now consults as a SaaS advisor, mentors aspiring entrepreneurs, and speaks professionally on her experiences. Sharon lives in San Francisco with her husband and pets, and she enjoys travel and strategy games.
In this episode of My Perfect
Failure, Sharon Gillenwater shares her remarkable journey from startup
culture in 1990s San Francisco to a $25 million exit with her company, Boardroom
Insiders. A true entrepreneur, Sharon started her career at small, nimble
companies where she discovered the thrill of making an impact. This ignited her
passion for entrepreneurship and shaped her belief in the power of
bootstrapping.We explore Sharon’s experiences with venture capital, the benefits of bootstrapping, and her decision to prioritize customers over funding rounds. Sharon's transparency on her $25 million exit will inspire anyone curious about self-funded growth. Her insights into cultivating “raving fans” and navigating a sale process offer a real-world look at building and selling a company from the ground up.
Key Takeaways:
1. The Power of Bootstrapping: Why Sharon chose to bypass VC funding to keep control of her company and stay customer-focused.
2. Lessons from a $25 Million Exit: Sharon breaks down the reality behind her viral TikTok video on the financial outcome of her exit.
3. Crafting an Exit Strategy: Insight into creating a plan that fits your goals, whether it’s selling, going lifestyle, or selling to employees.
4. Finding Focus and Resilience: Tips for staying grounded and resilient as an
entrepreneur, especially when scaling up.
5. Demystifying Entrepreneurship: Sharon’s advice on navigating startup jargon and prioritizing what truly matters.Social Links to Sharon
Website:
https://www.sharonkgillenwater.com/
Order Scaling with Soul:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Scaling-Soul-Million-Company-Without/dp/1964377021/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1KMY6N0Q8DPHL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD4ba8Fngv0XYJXjXwEHI0g
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sharonkgillenwater
Course Recommendation Discussed during discussion
Section : https://www.sectionschool.com/
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MPF Discussion with Gary & Cathy Scarpello
Can You Feel It: Music, Healing, and Unity with Gary & Cathy Scarpello
In this thought-provoking episode of My Perfect Failure, I sit down with Gary and Cathy Scarpello, the creative duo behind the powerful record "Can You Feel It." Gary shares his musical journey, from growing up in a home filled with music to recording alongside legends like Stevie Wonder. Cathy opens up about the magical role music has played in her life and how it has helped her navigate difficult times. Together, we discuss the impact of their song, which calls for positivity and unity in a world facing deep divisions. Whether you're a music lover or simply searching for inspiration, this episode will leave you feeling uplifted and motivated to make a difference.
About Gary
Gary Scarpello is a seasoned musician with a rich career spanning various genres like folk, rock, blues, country, and jazz. Starting out as a guitar teacher, he performed across the Philly tri-state area as a solo act, in duos, and with bands. His performances have taken place in coffeehouses, colleges, clubs, and more, with features on WHYY and WMMR radio stations.
Gary co-produced and mixed the album Swords Into Plowshares: Songs of Freedom and Struggle with Pete Seeger and Tom Paxton. He also worked as an assistant engineer at Alpha Studios, collaborating with Stevie Wonder, Harold Melvin, and Al Martino.
His past bands include A.O.K. and Moonrise, with Moonrise opening for Essra Mohawk and scheduled to open for Mississippi Fred McDowell. A.O.K. headlined prominent venues like Ambler Cabaret and Empire Rock Club. He’s also been a volunteer at the Philadelphia Folk Festival and served as a college radio DJ.
About Cathy
I work in healing. I have been a massage therapist and Reiki Master/Teacher for 32 years. Music has always been a saving grace for me, what carried me through troubled times and celebrated the joys and victories. I love to sing.
Key Takeaways:
Music’s profound role in helping us overcome personal challenges.
How "Can You Feel It" became a message of unity after January 6th.
How music can shift our mindset and encourage positive change.
The origins and deeper meaning behind "Can You Feel It."
The emotional strength that music can bring to individuals and communities.
Gary & Cathy Social links
Cathy’s Website: https://www.garyscarpellomusic.com/
Listen to “can You Feel it”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LpmqxLaNEDY
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MPF Discussion with Dr. Leslie Becker Phelps
Self-Awareness: Love's Hidden Superpower with Dr. Leslie Becker Phelps
About Dr. Leslie Becker Phelps
Dr. Leslie Becker-Phelps is a highly regarded psychologist, therapist, speaker, and author, whose work focuses on helping individuals understand their inner selves to achieve emotional and psychological well-being. She has pioneered the concept of compassionate self-awareness, which integrates self-awareness, self-acceptance, and self-compassion to foster healing and growth.
Dr. Becker-Phelps is a medical staff member at RWJ University Hospital Somerset and a medical reviewer for EveryDay Health. She is the bestselling author of three self-help books, including Insecure in Love and The Insecure in Love Workbook, which offer insights on attachment styles and building secure relationships. Additionally, she is a prolific writer for Psychology Today, where she pens the "Making Change" blog, as well as contributing to WebMD.
Her work spans across multiple platforms, including individual and couples therapy, writing, public speaking, and her popular YouTube channel, w
Join us on this compelling episode of My Perfect Failure as Dr. Leslie Becker Phelps, psychologist and author, explores the vital role self-awareness plays in relationships. In her groundbreaking work, The Insecure in Love Workbook, Dr. Becker Phelps provides a roadmap to help individuals understand their emotional patterns, build compassion for themselves, and foster deeper, more authentic connections with others.
Through personal stories and expert insights, Dr. Becker Phelps discusses how early childhood experiences shape our sense of self and the ways we communicate and connect with loved ones. She shares her unique techniques, like the "STEAM" method, to guide listeners toward a more compassionate and empathetic way of being, both with themselves and others.
This episode is packed with practical advice for anyone seeking healthier, more meaningful relationships.
Key Takeaways:
1. Why understanding our early attachments is crucial to developing healthy relationships.
2. The path to self-acceptance through compassionate self-awareness.
3. The STEAM method for overcoming emotional challenges in relationships.
4. The power of empathy and mentalising to enhance connection.
5. How self-awareness unlocks the potential for growth and healing in love and life.
Links to Dr. Leslie Becker Phelps
Dr. Leslie Becker Phelps website: https://www.drbecker-phelps.com/
Order: Insecure In Love Workbook: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Insecure-Love-Workbook-Step-Step/dp/B0CZZ6TTGC/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3AGVGIXNL4ED0&dib
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MPF Discussion with Malumir R Logan
People-Centered Leadership in Action with Malumir R Logan
About Malumir R Logan
Meet Malumir R. Logan—an inspiring trailblazer committed to reshaping the narrative for those who have been historically excluded. As a trauma-informed, anti-oppressive leader and systems thinker, Malumir’s approach is rooted in empathy and empowerment. A creative soul, she expresses herself through non-fiction writing, poetry, and short stories while also guiding others through her practice as a Tarot Creatrix and Reiki Master. Her lived experiences, including navigating the complexities of race, neurodivergence, and disability, fuel her passion for inspiring expansive possibilities for others. Malumir’s unique blend of leadership, spirituality, and creativity makes her a powerful voice for change and inclusion.
People-Centered Leadership in Action
Meet Malumir R. Logan—an inspiring trailblazer committed to reshaping the narrative for those who have been historically excluded. As a trauma-informed, anti-oppressive leader and systems thinker, Malumir’s approach is rooted in empathy and empowerment. A creative soul, she expresses herself through non-fiction writing, poetry, and short stories while also guiding others through her practice as a Tarot Creatrix and Reiki Master. Her lived experiences, including navigating the complexities of race, neurodivergence, and disability, fuel her passion for inspiring expansive possibilities for others. Malumir’s unique blend of leadership, spirituality, and creativity makes her a powerful voice for change and inclusion.
Key Takeaways:
The Power of Purpose: Learn how Malumir's unwavering commitment to her purpose has fueled her career and leadership.The Art of People-Centered Leadership: Discover the transformative impact of creating a psychologically safe environment where everyone feels valued and respected.The Importance of Resilience: Understand how Malumir's ability to overcome adversity has shaped her character and leadership style.The Role of Mindfulness and Self-Care: Learn the importance of self-care and mindfulness practices for leaders to maintain their well-being and effectiveness.Connect with Malumir
Malumir: https://acornandburdock.ca/
Malumir LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/malumir-r-logan/
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MPF Discussion with Dr. Lori Baker-Schena
Master Your Career Destiny with Dr. Lori Baker-Schena
About Dr. Lori Baker-Schena
Dr. Lori Baker-Schena, MBA, EdD, CEO and founder of Baker Schena Communications, is a leadership coach and professional speaker who works with C-Suite executives, academic institutions, entrepreneurs, small businesses and large corporations to strengthen their management and team-building skills. Her goal is to help clients achieve high levels of excellence, productivity and profitability by reclaiming their passion and expertise.
Dr. Baker-Schena brings to her clients 35 years as a healthcare public relations and marketing consultant, and 25 years as a tenured university professor teaching public relations and journalism. She received her bachelor’s degree and MBA from California State University, Northridge, and her doctorate in organizational leadership from the University of La Verne in Southern California.
Ready to stop waiting for the "perfect moment" and take control of your career? This episode is your wake-up call.
In this episode of My Perfect Failure, we dive deep into the inspiring career journey of
Dr. Lori Baker-Schena, a motivational speaker and leadership expert. Lori takes us on a reflective journey where she reveals how her "North Star" — a combination of passion, joy, and positive impact — has guided her throughout life and career decisions. She shares how embracing her strengths and tuning out detractors allowed her to shape her destiny and thrive, doubling her income in the process.
At 29, Lori made the bold move to become a medical writer, and in doing so, found a career that aligned with her mission to help others. Lori’s advice on finding joy every day and living with intentionality will inspire listeners to re-evaluate their own paths, whether in career or life. Her experiences highlight the importance of courage, confidence, and the willingness to embrace failure as a stepping stone, not a setback.
Lori also explains how asking the right questions, like “What’s the worst thing that could happen?” can push us to make transformative life changes. This episode is filled with insights on navigating career choices, understanding your strengths, and overcoming fear and procrastination.
Key Takeaways:
1. Define Your North Star: Align your career with your passions and strengths to find fulfilment.
2. Embrace Failure: View failure as a learning opportunity, not something to fear.
3. Tune Out Detractors: Focus on your goals without being swayed by negative voices.
4. Take Control: Life isn't a rehearsal—act with intention and confidence.
Connect with LoriWebsite: Work with Lori: https://www.loribakerschena.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/loribakerschena/
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MPF Discussion with Peter Grainger
Hedge Funds to Coffee Beans with CafePod Co-Founder Peter Grainger
About Peter
Peter Grainger is the Co-Founder of CaféPod, pioneers of Nespresso® compatible pods. Born and raised in Cape Town, South Africa, Peter moved to Dublin in his twenties and later settled in London. After working in hospitality and the financial sector at companies like Investec, Citigroup, and GLG Partners, Peter began to question his career during the 2008 financial crisis. This led him to travel through South and Central America, where he found inspiration for a new venture. In 2010, Peter teamed up with Brent Hadfield and Simon McWilliams to launch CaféPod, becoming the first UK brand to offer Nespresso-compatible pods. Today, CaféPod offers a range of products, including ground coffee and whole beans, empowering people to make great coffee at home.
From Hedge Funds to Coffee Beans – The Journey of Peter Grainger
In this fascinating episode of My Perfect Failure, Paul sits down with Peter Grainger, the visionary founder of Café Pod, to explore his incredible journey from the world of hedge funds to pioneering a new coffee culture in the UK. Peter opens up about his early life in South Africa, his move to Dublin, and how his high-stakes career in finance eventually led him to co-found CaféPod.Peter shares the pivotal moments in his career, from receiving life-changing advice at a hedge fund to taking a seven-month break to find his true passion. The spark of CaféPod was ignited at a wedding in Cape Town, and Peter reveals how the business came to life, thanks to relentless determination and the ability to see coffee from a fresh, consumer-focused perspective.
Tune in to learn how Café Pod grew from an idea to an incredible coffee brand, and what it takes to succeed in the unpredictable world of entrepreneurship.
4 Key Takeaways:
1. Life-changing advice can come at unexpected moments—listen to your inner voice and act on it.
2. Taking time out to reflect can ignite your next big idea and provide clarity.
3. The best ideas don’t fade—if they persist, they’re worth pursuing.
4. Entrepreneurship is a mindset—you need to embrace ambiguity and become a problem-solver.
5. Approaching an industry from a consumer’s perspective can give you a unique advantage.
6. Success in entrepreneurship depends on passion, adaptability, and a deep understanding of people
Social Links to Peter & CafePod
CafePod website: www.cafepod.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/cafepod
Facebook: www.facebook.com/cafepod
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/cafepod-ltd
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MPF Discussion with Patricia Walsh Chadwick
Wall Street: My Path To Freedom with Patricia Walsh Chadwick
About Patricia
Patricia Walsh Chadwick was born in Cambridge, Massachusetts, in 1948. She received her BA in Economics from Boston University and had a successful 30-year career in the investment business, culminating as a Global Partner at Invesco. Today, she sits on a number of corporate boards and blogs on economic, social, and political issues. Her pro-bono activities include mentoring young women in high school and college and providing strategic planning advice to not-for-profit organizations. In 2016, she co-founded Anchor Health Initiative, a healthcare company devoted to the needs of the LGBTQ community in Connecticut and serves as the firm’s pro-bono CEO. She is the author of a previous memoir, Little Sister. A mother to twins, a daughter and a son, she lives in Connecticut with her husband John.
Episode Title: Wall Street: My Path To Freedom
In this episode of “My Perfect Failure,” Patricia Walsh Chadwick opens up about her unique and challenging upbringing in a religious community that was excommunicated from the church. Patricia’s story is one of resilience, as she navigated life without parental guidance, learned to thrive in a new society, and built a successful career on Wall Street.
Patricia shares how she hid her background during her early career, the pivotal role of her typing skills, and her journey from a receptionist to a statistician and beyond. She also discusses her new book, “Breaking Glass – Tales from the Witch of Wall Street,” and the significance of mentorship in her life.
Tune in to hear Patricia’s inspiring story of transformation, the cultural adjustments she made, and her advice on finding and valuing good mentors.
Key Takeaways
1. Resilience and Adaptability: Patricia’s journey from a restrictive community to Wall Street highlights the importance of resilience and adaptability in overcoming life’s challenges.
2. The Power of Mentorship: Patricia emphasizes the crucial role mentors played in her career and personal growth, underscoring the value of seeking guidance and learning from others.
3. Cultural Adaptation: Patricia’s experience of adjusting to a new society and learning to blend in showcases the importance of cultural adaptation and continuous learning.
4. Career Pivot: Patricia’s strategic career pivot, leveraging her typing skills to enter the corporate world, demonstrates the significance of transferable skills and seizing opportunities.
Social Links to Patricia
Website: https://www.patriciachadwick.com/.
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patriciachadwick1/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/patriciawalshchadwick/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@patriciachadwick6951
Order: “Breaking Glass – Tales from the Witch of Wall Street,” https://www.amazon.co.uk/Breaking-Glass-Tales-Witch-Street/dp/B0D67F543Q/ref=sr_1_2?crid=YVD0IUVHKJEL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.0NhG_E8ldb4zuFXNYJAlt_F9Goo2TnKOIpBALYewzWk
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MPF Discussion with BB Alston
Twitter Contest Changed Everything with BB Alston
About BB Alston
B. B. Alston lives in Lexington, SC. His debut middle grade novel, Amari and the Night Brothers, has been published in 27 countries and is an international bestseller, including a Sunday Times bestseller. In the United States, the book has spent more than 30 weeks on the New York Times Bestseller List. In 2021, the book was named the Overall Winner of the Barnes & Noble Children’s and YA Book Awards. A major motion picture is currently being developed by Universal, starring Marsai Martin. Amari and the Great Game is his second novel. When not writing, he can be found eating too many sweets and exploring country roads to see where they lead.
In this episode of My Perfect Failure, I sit down with the incredible BB Alston, a storyteller whose journey from rejection to recognition is nothing short of inspiring. BB shares his childhood love for reading and how writing stories for fun blossomed into a lifelong passion. Despite years of rejection, he never gave up on his dream. In a twist of fate, a Twitter contest changed everything for BB—leading to a book deal, movie rights, and international recognition for his Amari series.
BB opens up about how his characters, especially Amari, reflect his own life experiences and struggles with resilience, fantasy, and self-belief. He discusses how the magic of storytelling helped him overcome self-doubt and how it can inspire others to keep chasing their dreams. Whether you're an aspiring writer, a lover of fantasy, or someone in need of motivation, this episode has something for everyone!
Tune in to hear BB’s journey of perseverance, how he turned rejection into triumph, and the advice he offers for anyone who’s ever felt like giving up.
Key Takeaways:
Don’t give up after rejection—success can be just around the corner.Fantasy allows us to escape but also reflect on our own realities.Persistence in creative work can lead to life-changing moments.The story of Amari mirrors BB’s real-life struggles and triumphs.Keep swinging, no matter how tough life gets; you never know when things will change.BB's surreal experiences, from signing with an agent to discussing his book with Don CheadleBB also reveals his 3 dream dinner guests! Don't miss this inspiring episode packed with actionable advice and a powerful message of perseverance.
Social Links To BB Alston
BB’s Website: https://www.bbalston.com/
Order BB Alston’s books. The Amari series: https://www.bbalston.com/
Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bb_alston/
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MPF Discussion with Bryan Clayton
Bootstrapping A Lawn Empire with Bryan Clayton
About Bryan
Bryan Clayton is an entrepreneur, author, and speaker who has built a successful career by focusing on hard work, perseverance, and innovation. He is the co-founder and CEO of GreenPal, an online platform that connects homeowners with local lawn care professionals. Under Bryan's leadership, GreenPal has grown into a multi-million-dollar company with over 200,000 active users and has been featured in publications like Forbes, Inc. and Entrepreneur. Prior to starting GreenPal, Bryan founded Peachtree Inc., a landscaping company that he grew to become one of the largest in the state of Tennessee, with over $10 million in annual revenue. Peachtree was eventually acquired by LUSA Holdings, a national company. Bryan has also been recognized for his leadership and entrepreneurial spirit by organizations like the Nashville Business Journal, which named him one of its "40 under 40" honorees. Bryan's entrepreneurial journey is a testament to the power of hard work, determination, and a willingness to take risks. He is passionate about helping others achieve their own success and is always looking for ways to give back to his community.
In this captivating episode of "My Perfect Failure," we dive into the entrepreneurial journey of Bryan Clayton, who turned a teenage lawn mowing gig into an 8-figure empire. Bryan shares his rollercoaster ride from pushing lawnmowers to pushing code, revealing how he bootstrapped his way to success in the landscaping industry and beyond.
Listen in as Bryan discusses:
· The power of parental influence in shaping his business acumen
· How he scaled his lawn care business to 115 employees and 8-figure revenue
· His transition from traditional landscaping to tech, creating the "Uber for lawn care"
· The importance of continuous personal growth and "leveling up" as a founder
· Why bootstrapping can be more valuable than seeking investment
5 Key Takeaways:
1. Entrepreneurship is about maintaining enthusiasm through failures
2. Pursue industries with consistent demand for long-term success
3. Founder capability "choke points" can plateau business growth
4. Shift focus from product obsession to marketing as you gain experience
5. Self-directed learning is a powerful tool for entrepreneurial growth
Social Links to Bryan
Website: https://www.yourgreenpal.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bryanmclayton/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bryan-clayton-a96b33214
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MPF Discussion with Eric Cogorno
Golf's Hidden Success Formula with Eric Cogorno
About Eric
In 2017, Eric Cogorno took to YouTube, sharing insights from over 20,000 in-person golf lessons. His clear, simplified teaching style has attracted nearly 400,000 followers and millions of views worldwide. Eric's mission is to make top-tier golf instruction accessible to everyone, aiming to create the largest and best online golf school.
Born in Lehigh Valley, PA, Eric became a scratch golfer by 15 and played through high school and at Lehigh University. He has been featured on Forbes.com and was voted a Golf Digest Best in State Teacher.
Eric transformed his golf teaching business from earning $80K/year with in-person lessons to a multimillion-dollar brand. He now enjoys the freedom to work on his own terms, splitting time between Pennsylvania and Florida.
In this episode of "My Perfect Failure," I’m joined by Eric Cogorno, a renowned golf coach and successful YouTuber. Eric takes us on a journey through the world of golf, sharing his insights on what it takes to excel both on the course and in life. From his admiration for Tiger Woods to his disciplined approach to growing his YouTube channel, Eric’s story is one of passion, persistence, and the power of self-belief.
We discuss everything from the importance of great coaching, inspired by legends like Bill Belichick and Tom Brady, to the life-changing impact of setting clear goals, as taught by Jim Rohn. Eric’s approach to personal and professional growth is filled with actionable insights that can help anyone looking to elevate their game.
Key Takeaways:
The Power of a Coach: Great coaching can make all the difference in achieving peak performance, just as it did for athletes like Tom Brady.Consistency is King: Building success, whether in golf or business, requires consistent effort and the willingness to make small, continuous improvements.Visualize Your Success: Daily visualization and goal setting can transform your mindset and help you achieve financial and personal growth.Know Your Audience: In any business, understanding and delivering what your audience wants is key to long-term success.New Goals, New Actions: To reach new heights, you must be willing to take new actions and adapt to the challenges that come with growth.Tune in to learn how Eric’s philosophy can help you unlock your potential, whether you’re on the golf course or charting your path to success.
Links to Eric:
Eric’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/EricCogornoGolf
Cogorno Golf Website: https://cogornogolf.com/
Eric’s: Lessons I’ve Learned: YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HRg-OmVjfXo
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MPF Discussion with Karen Docherty
Connecting Worlds, Healing Souls with Karen Docherty
About Karen
Since the discovery of her abilities, Karen has worked tirelessly to bring the word of Spirit to those who need it most. From the UK to the USA, from Asia to Australia, clients from all over the world meet with Karen to receive readings, enrol in mentorships and share a space for discussions on the power of Spirit. A woman with spirit and a breath of fresh air, Karen offers a contemporary approach to psychic work and mediumship based on traditional principles. Filled with love and compassion, she stands as one of the most reputable and skilled mediums in modern times.
In this episode of My Perfect Failure, Karen Docherty opens up about her incredible journey into mediumship. From sensing something special as a child to fully stepping into her role as a medium in her twenties, Karen reveals how this path brought her a deep sense of belonging.
She shares the importance of developing confidence as a medium and the profound
responsibility she feels in supporting her clients. Karen also breaks down the difference between mediumship and our sixth sense, and how "Soul Guidance" can help us navigate life's changes with greater ease and abundance.
Tune in to hear Karen’s insights on the healing power of the spirit, the importance of breath work, and how trusting in a higher power can unlock your true potential.
Key Takeaways:
A Childhood Gift: Learn how Karen's mediumship abilities manifested in her childhood and how she came to embrace them.Healing Through Connection: Discover the healing power of mediumship and how it can help individuals connect with loved ones on the other side.Mentoring the Next Generation: Understand the importance of mentorship in developing mediumship skills and passing on this knowledge to others.The Power of the Sixth Sense: Explore the difference between mediumship and our sixth sense, and how both can be used for personal growth and connection.Soul Guidance and Self-Discovery: Discover how mediumship can lead to self-discovery and personal transformation.Social Links To Karen
Website: https://www.karenpsychic.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.co m/karendochertyspiritmedium/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karen-docherty-4a1922224/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mediumkarendocherty
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