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Dr. Holmes discusses promoting safety and independence for young adults on the autism spectrum.
Brody and Julie are OTRs with Springbrook Behavioral Health. They walk you through the skills needed for young adults on the spectrum to live as independently as possible, whether outside of the home or if they need to remain at home. Helping your young adult achieve autonomy, competence, and relatedness is key to a fulfilling life and mental health!
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Brody is a graduate of Evangel University, where he obtained his Bachelor's Degree in Psychology. From there, Brody attended Cox College, where he received his Master's in Occupational Therapy. Since becoming an Occupational Therapy practitioner, he has provided OT services in the fields of Home Healthcare, Inpatient Rehabilitation, and Behavioral Health. Brody currently works at Springbrook Behavioral Health, where he provides Occupational Therapy services to individuals 5-21 years old diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and occurring mental health diagnoses.
Julie is a graduate of DâYouville University, where she obtained her Bachelor's Degree in Human Occupation and minored in psychology. From there, she continued her education at DâYouville University, where she received her Master's in Occupational Therapy. Since becoming an Occupational Therapy practitioner, she has provided OT services in school-based pediatric inpatient/outpatient behavioral health and chemical dependency. Her main focus has been behavioral health, which she has been
in for nine years. Julie currently works at Springbrook Behavioral Health, where she provides Occupational Therapy services to individuals 5-21 years old diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder and co-occurring mental health diagnoses. She is also the clinical unit director for our adolescents, who are more independent.
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Join Dr. Stephanie Holmes podcasting from the 2023 Converge Autism Conference with conference speaker Dr. Richard Boles. Dr. Boles joins her for an in-depth discussion about how energy metabolism, when not working right, can lead to many disorders, including Autism.
About Dr. Boles
Dr. Richard G. Boles is a medical geneticist and a pediatrician who specializes in mitochondrial medicine, functional disease (including cyclic vomiting syndrome, other atypical forms of migraine, and chronic fatigue syndrome), and autism spectrum disorders. His expertise stems from decades of both clinical work and research at a major academic center, as well as from his most recent experience in cutting-edge biotechnology and genomics. He uses an innovative and integrative approach in both diagnosis and treatment to best serve his patients. Dr. Boles leads the NeuroGenomics program at NeurAbilities. Patients, physicians, and other healthcare providers can consult with Dr. Boles directly about reanalyzing previously done genetic testing results, advice for managing neurometabolic disorders, or obtain guidance on choosing and interpreting genetic testing. Neurogenomics can help to unravel the biological causes and contributions for many diseases and disorders, as well as provide vital information for changing clinical management, including:
Mitochondrial Disease and Dysfunction
Autistic Spectrum Disorders
Neurodevelopmental Disorders and Intellectual Disabilities
Chronic Pain, Fatigue, and Headache Disorders
Epilepsy/Seizures
Unexplained and Undiagnosed Disorders
And Much More
https://neurabilities.com/our-team/staff-bio-richard-boles-md/
https://www.neuroneeds.com/
https://neurabilities.com/our-team/staff-bio-richard-boles-md/
https://cnnh.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/NeuroGenomics-Boles-2018-web.pdf
Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may disagree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and are not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s). -
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Dr. Stephanie interviews Rosemarie Griffin about her workshop on joint attention.
Joint attention is an essential skill for clinicians, teachers, and parents to address for the autistic child/student.
Joint attention involves shared attention between at least two people on an object or even with both people knowing they are attending to the same entity. While this is focused on students, this information is also essential for couples to learn. -
While Dan participated in half of the new book, Uniquely Us, he did not read the chapter written by our other contributing authors in time for the book to reach the publisher by the due date. So, this next series will be Dan reacting to our new book, Uniquely Us!
Today, we discuss chapter 8 of the book written by Robin Tate, MA, MS, CAS. Dan, while ND himself, has not really studied and read very much about the spectrum. So, he reacts with questions and his interpretation of the chapter. Today, we start with a brief definition of Executive Function and talk about EF challenges vs. lack of execution. We discuss will and willpower and their role in EF. -
Today, Dr. Holmes and guest Meisha Marshall discuss NLP.
What is NLP?
Is it something people of faith should be concerned about?
What drew Meisha to NLP?
What are the tools that NLP offers?
Can NLP be helpful for those on the spectrum?
More on Autism and NLP
https://anlp.org/blog/using-nlp-to-help-high-functioning-autistic-children-explore-change-
Bio of Guest:
Meisha is a Marriage Coach dedicated to helping adult children of divorced parents disrupt the cycle of divorce. Her mission is to assist clients in better understanding what's really behind their challenging marital interactions, and what to do about them. Meisha's ultimate goal is to keep more families together. She achieves this by helping couples build healthier love, effective communication, mutual support, and stability.
How to find Meisha: [email protected]
Public Email: [email protected]
Business Number: (470) 444-4583
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Today, Stephanie talks with Brittany Browne about her recent diagnosis. Many topics are covered, but a key point is the vulnerability that can occur for undiagnosed women on the spectrum.
Bio:
Brittany Browne is a licensed massage therapist and contestant in the 2024 Mrs. Georgia America Pageant. Brittanyâs mission on this platform is to elevate the conversation around neurodiversity, with a particular emphasis on understanding and advocating for women with autism. Her journey from acquiring a Masterâs degree in International Affairs at Georgia Tech to embracing holistic healing practices, including somatic and psychedelic therapy, offers a unique lens through which she views and addresses the complexities of the human mind and body. As a late-diagnosed autistic woman, Brittany leverages her personal experiences to foster deep connections and offer empathy in her therapeutic work, making her an invaluable asset to the neurodiverse community. Outside of her professional and advocacy work, she indulges in hobbies like sand volleyball, creative arts, and violin, reflecting her commitment to a balanced and enriching lifestyle. -
Usually, in this spot is Dan and Just the Guys!
Listeners requested a discussion of later-in-life diagnosed women on the spectrum and a discussion of the spectrum's similarities and differences. Stephanie and her daughter Sydney host this special edition of Just the Girls! -
Today, Dr. Stephanie will bring an autism Q&A with Dave Glick.
Dave is a neurodivergent clinician and an autism advocate.
Dave Glick is the founder and director of Triad Psych, P.C., and has been working in the combined fields of behavioral health, special education, and disability services since 1993. Originally trained at Boston University, he has worked as a special education teacher, behavior analyst/specialist, clinical director, disability consultant, and advocate. He holds a master's in both education and social work and is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Dave founded Triad Psych, p.c. in 2003 to provide valuable resources to the special needs community.
David is also a coach!
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On a recent road trip, we were listening to the Bible Project's Sermon on the Mount Series.
This episode: Episode 10, March 4, 2024, Bible Project Sermon on the Mount Series: How is Anger the Same as Murder? Spoiler alert- when Contempt enters the picture. What does the Bible say about Contempt?
https://bibleproject.com/podcast/how-anger-same-murder/
Short animated clip: Anger, Wrath, Contempt: When is Anger the Same as Murder
https://bibleproject.com/explore/video/matthew-521-22-murder-and-contempt/
When does the Bible equate anger to murder? When does anger cross into criticism and contempt? What is the difference in giving a complaint when there is hurt and harm and criticism?
Gottman offers some antidotes to the 4 Horsemen:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-the-antidotes/
To Criticism: A Gentle Start-Up with How Something Makes You FEEL vs. Commentary on the person
Contempt: Build a Culture of Appreciation; Wilder would call this gratitude and Joy Building
Defensiveness: Set aside your intentions and explanations- take responsibility for the hurt/harm caused, even if only partial
Stonewalling: Psychological Self-Soothing: Self Care- take a break, work through your issues, come back to the discussion/argument
Quote from Gottman Institute: "Another way that we explain this is our discovery of the 5:1 âmagic ratioâ of positive to negative interactions that a relationship must have to succeed. If you have five or more positive interactions for every one negative interaction, then youâre making regular deposits into your emotional bank account, which keeps your relationship in the green."
Other clinicians or counselors have called this "keep short accounts".
2 min short clip to explain Gottman's 4 Horsemen that are predicted to kill your relationship: Contempt, Criticism, Defensiveness & Stonewalling
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1o30Ps-_8is
Find out more about your NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage and resources at:
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Join Dr. Holmes as she interviews Robin Tate, a life coach and NeuroDiverse Couples' coach. Today, we discuss Neurodiversity and strategies for executive functioning.
We talk about the chapter in which she contributed to our new book.
Find out more here:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
Robin describes a little about herself:
I am a professionally trained teacher and coach passionate about providing my clients with the best experience. As well as training, I have an in-depth understanding of the impacts of living with an Asperger's Profile and/or ADHD in a neurotypical world. My approach to coaching is client-centered and strength-based. I join with clients to work through obstacles and meet self-determined goals. For Neurodivergent adults, challenges are often rooted in neurological differences, which impact communication, executive function, and/or sensory regulation. As an experienced educator, I also understand learning disabilities, learning styles, accommodations, and a toolbox of strategies.
Coaching and education services complement a variety of other professional services. When needed, I easily collaborate with other professionals and family members.
I meet with clients via online video calls (worldwide). I also meet with clients in person, as agreed to be necessary and safe on a case-by-case basis.
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While Dan usually joins me, I am solo today with Rev. Iris Knapp as we talk about abuse in the neurodiverse marriage. We cover Leslie Vernick's signs of repentance and why apologizing is difficult for people on the spectrum.
About our Guest, Rev. Iris Knapp
Womenâs Life & Discernment Coach
Iris has over 50 years of ministry experience and is now a Life Coach. She was raised Jewish and came to know Jesus as Messiah in 1969 during the âJesus Freakâ revival.
She is certified with Light University, AIFC Australian Institute of Family Counseling, Ministerial Licensed with IAOG International Assemblies of God Fellowship, and ND Training with the International Association of ND Christian Couples. She has personal family ties to the autism spectrum. Her passion is to see women fulfill their potential in their God-given calling, and her heart is to lead women through restoration, growth, and purpose so that they can be all that God has created them to be.
Iris has contributed to a chapter of the book Uniquely Us. Follow the launch and how to order it at:
https://www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com/uniquelyus
Want to work with Iris or join a group:
https://coachingwithiris.com/
The article we mentioned about apologies is:
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Dan Holmes, the Just the Guys host today with Perry, Jeremy, and Greg, discusses learning to get things with executive functioning differences. Sometimes, it is now or never!
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I met Kelley Ryals at the AACC conference during her poster presentation on Autism and Trauma. I wanted to have her as a guest to discuss when it is autism & trauma and when trauma is misdiagnosed as autism.
Kelley's bio in her own words:
Her focus is on helping you navigate the difficult times in life. Her biggest joy is watching an individual become happier, healthier, and more productive. She is 58 years old, a mother of five, and a grandmother of 2. She is pursuing a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and supervision with Liberty University to see as many well-trained therapists as possible.
My training and specialties are listed below.
Autism Specialist, EMDR, Depression, ADHD, Anxiety, Autism and ADHD testing, Couples, Children, Play therapy, Foster Adoptive issues trained in TBRI. IFS Level 1 trained, Level 2 Sand Tray Therapy, Level 2 Gottman trained, member of EMDRIA , the ACA and the AACC. Free Trauma and Grief groups are offered.
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Today, Stephanie and Barb talk about Shame, Blame, & Trauma. The key point is that all of us deal with shame at some point in our life, but not dealing with shame will ultimately lead to the death of something.
About Barbara Grant:
Barbara Grant, CAS, NCC, is a Certified Autism Specialist (IBCCES) and certified Neurodiverse Couples Coach (AANE) and has completed her Master's in MFT (Marriage and Family Therapy.) She has been trained through the International Association of ND Christian Marriage. She has been coaching and offering Biblical counseling since
2005, working with individuals, couples, and groups. Her current coaching practice focuses on neurodiverse couples, individuals, and families and offers support groups for
neurotypicals. Barbara enjoys people! She herself is neurotypical; her first marriage (of 20 years) was to a neurodiverse partner, and she had a neurodiverse adult child from that marriage.
She brings a lifetime of experience, compassion, and understanding to all her clients and is becoming a significant voice in the growing dialog about how to best support and strengthen neurodiverse relationships.
NT SUPPORT GROUPS (2 kinds):
1. Strength for saying in the Marriage
2. Healthy Separation/ Divorce
Advantages of group therapy:
⢠Safe, confidential Zoom group (8 max)
⢠âSolution-focusedâ therapy model
⢠Incubator for change and growth
⢠Supports movement through stages of change
⢠Cross-sharing, learning from others
⢠Healing experience to share and be validated
⢠Multiple prayer partners - friendships
⢠Goal setting and homework
⢠Best value for time/money
HOW TO WORK WITH BARBARA:
ďˇ Free 25 min Consultation
ďˇ online coaching agreement and intake questionnaire
ďˇ 90 min intake session
ďˇ Goal setting
ďˇ ongoing 55 min sessions (weekly, bi-monthly, etc.)
ďˇ HOMEWORK (customized for each client)
ďˇ Option of support group (better value for time/money spent)
ďˇ Req. a free consult: www.HopeForCouples.net
Barbara's website: https://bg-hc.com/
Resources:
Where to Learn more about Interpersonal Neurobiology & Christianity
â Attachment (your 3 NDCC podcasts with Dr. Gill - share these episode links)
â âAttachment to Godâ podcasts (various shows)
â Tim Fletcher (Healing Complex Trauma website resources: https://www.timfletcher.ca/,
YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeaEF2gpMi_hkXvrhAVwltg)
â Jim Wilder (your NDCC Enemy Mode podcast - share episode link, Life Model Works
website resources: https://lifemodelworks.org/, book: Escaping Enemy Mode)
â Curt Thompson (Book: The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About
Ourselves, âNeuroFaithâ podcast, âBeing Knownâ YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/BeingKnownPodcast)
â Geoff & Cyd Holsclaw (discussions of trauma, neurobiology, and healing attachment in
their âEmbodied Faithâ YouTube channel:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoTshjA7gm4rKtxPuMelx8DqrT7Rzs0UT)
Links to specific things I mention:
Spectrum Magazine: At the Intersection of Autism and Trauma (2018)
https://www.spectrumnews.org/features/deep-dive/intersection-autism-trauma/
Tim Fletcher Understanding Trauma
Results of Shame
Part 1
https://www.youtube.com/live/-fTAJiocAYk?si=0dvVsHcmTJnilqkE
Part 2
https://www.youtube.com/live/jfhQ_3kQ2GM?si=LebFr40ME1vb2xbq
Shame: Curt Thompson- Being Known YouTube playlist (S2, Ep 1-11)
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLHwplwueDVOFXIFbjJQ1STzUCnMUXHGNP&si=TE6H5
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âSIFT Bâ concept, discussed by Curt Thompson in Being Known YouTube podcast (S2 Ep1)
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tXXUs-
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In June, we talked about what we have learned on our road trips about ourselves, each other, our faith, and our relationship with God. We got some requests about actually handling or navigating the traveling as a neurodiverse couple and family. To see why Stephanie sticks out her tongue at Dan, you will have to see the YouTube video.
In this podcast, we discuss:
Accommodating each other, seeing the marriage/family as a system, and sharing the mental load. Breaking down the steps of planning, having a vacation, and returning home from vacation. -
Today, Dr. Stephanie Holmes speaks with Pastor Craig Johnson of Lakewood Church about creating inclusion for kids, teens, and adults with needs and differences. Their core value is "We never ever turn away a child no matter the need!" Find out about your church or organization that can be trained and host a Champions. Club. Dr. Stephanie reads an excerpt from her daughter's chapter in their new book about her church experience; you can get that book at https://amzn.to/46W7LgN
About our Guest: Pastor Craig Johnson
Craig is currently the Associate Pastor at Lakewood Church with Joel Osteen and Co-founder of the Champions Foundation and Champions Club Developmental Centers for Special Needs, with over 110 centers in 23 countries across the world. Craig is currently serving on the US Congressionally Mandated âInteragency Autism Coordinating Committeeâ in Washington, DC. This committee was formulated by the Presidential signing of the Autism Cares Act. This committee gives advice and recommendations to Congress and the President regarding Federal activities related to autism spectrum disorder. He is the author of the book âLead Verticallyâ Inspire People to Volunteer and Build Great Teams That Last, âChampionâ How One Boy's Miraculous Journey Through Autism Is Changing the World, and âUnrehearsed Destinyâ Itâs Intermission, Your Second Act Is Coming.â Craig & His wife Samantha co-wrote the childrenâs book âYou Are Extraordinary.â His greatest honor is husband to his wife of 33 years, Samantha, and father to Cory, Courtney, and Connor. -
This week is Juneteenth!
It feels most appropriate to discuss autism and special needs from the perspective of people of color. We welcome back Dr. Mary for this discussion.
Today, our guest is a pediatrician and mom who will give us great insight into this perspective through lived and professional experience.
About Dr. Mary Jones:
I am a physician and PCCI-trained life and leadership coach.
I believe there is greatness in each of us, and Iâm passionate about equipping and empowering women to reach their fullest potential.
Throughout my life and career, I have had the privilege of working to empower and equip women and girls to be their best selves.
Each day, I have the privilege of spending time coaching amazing women who are reaching goals and fulfilling a compelling vision for their lives.
My vision is to see women living out their purpose and effecting change in their own spheres of influence.
Dr. Mary has contributed to a chapter in our newest book on this very topic! Follow the countdown of Uniquely US at www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com
Contact her at:
https://maryjonescoaching.coachsolutions.cc/
[email protected]
Article Dr. Mary mentioned:
https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/145/Supplement_1/S35/11550/Disparities-in-Service-Use-Among-Children-With?searchresult=1?autologincheck=redirected -
You asked for it!
We are answering listener requests. In 2022, the original JTG crew did a show on processing a later-in-life diagnosis. Several listeners asked that other men and women be on to process their later-in-life diagnoses.
Don't worryâthe original JTG crew will be back!
This Special Edition looks at Greg, Brian, and Kevin's later-in-life Autism Identification.
Check out Brian's book
Intentional Marriage
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Today's guest has been on the podcast before when we discussed predictive error coding and the autistic brain; Dr. Peter Vermeulen
Peter is the founder, director, CEO, lecturer, consultant, website developer, and secretary. Occasionally, Peter even cleans the office of Autism in Context, the senior Autism lecturer and consultant for Autisme Centraal, and the Chief Editor of âSterk in Autisme!â, a bimonthly magazine of Autisme Centraal. Autisme Centraal is responsible for autism awareness campaigns and âautism friendliness' support activities throughout Europe. He is a Member of the Editorial Board of âTijdschrift voor Orthopedagogiek, Kinderpsychiatrie en Klinische Psychologieâ (Journal of Special Education, Child Psychiatry and Clinical Psychology of the University of Leuven, Belgium) (currently Chief Editor of that Journal), a reviewer for Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders; Journal of Intellectual Disability â Diagnosis and Treatment.
When Peter is not presenting, writing, driving or flying around for his job, he can usually be found on one of his 4 bicycles, trying to imitate Tour de France winners, hereby being oblivious to his age and physical state. When tired from cycling, he can be found at home with his wife and their dog (which actually is more a Gremlin than a dog). Or he is playing with his grandchild. Because the Gremlin loves the beach, Peter often spends his weekends at the seaside, savoring seafood and enjoying a good beer as a descendant of a brewing family.
www.petervermeulen.be
Our other podcast with Dr. Peter on predictive error coding is found here: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/predictive-coding-dr-vermeulen--50520574
Disclaimer:
When we have guests on the ASR podcast, they are recognized for their expertise in autism as advocates, self-advocates, clinicians, parents, or other professionals in the field. They may or may not be part of the faith community; having a guest on the broader topic of autism does not reflect complete agreement with the guest, just as many guests may not agree with our faith perspective. Guests are chosen by topic for the chosen podcast discussion and not necessarily in full agreement with all beliefs of the chosen guest(s). - Se mer
