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  • In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Valentin and Hwee Keng Maeder, the inspiring parents behind Singapore’s young kitefoiling champion, Max Maeder. I was incredibly curious to learn how Max — a world-class athlete with remarkable character, mental strength, discipline, and resilience — was raised to be not only successful but also grounded and confident. From the interviews I’ve watched and read, Max strikes me as an exceptional athlete and a genuinely great person, someone clearly brought up with strong values.

    His parents generously share their unique journey, revealing how they nurtured his independence, embraced failures as essential to growth, and created a safe space where their children could explore their passions without fear of judgement. With practical lessons on balancing personal expectations, resisting societal pressures, and fostering courage and authenticity, this conversation offers an inspiring glimpse into the values and insights that shaped Max and his siblings, providing guidance for parents everywhere striving to raise grounded, confident children.

    00:00 Introduction

    01:25 Get To Know The Maeders

    03:42 Nurturing Independence in Children

    08:05 Addressing Fear with Probability

    10:19 The Maeders' Unconventional Parenting Views

    12:59 Creating Safe Spaces at Home

    15:46 Parenting Through Different Stages

    18:40 Family Rituals That Strengthen Bonds

    20:14 Max’s Journey: Solo Travels at Age 11

    22:58 Guiding Children Through Failure

    26:36 The Myth of Perfect Parenting

    30:13 Breaking Generational Patterns

    35:13 The Maeder’s Approach on Discipline

    37:47 Navigating Conflict and Reconciliation

    38:43 Prioritising Yourself and Letting Go of Parental Expectations

    41:02 Going Against Societal Norms and Pressure

    45:09 Final Reflections and Key Takeaways

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  • Yip Pin Xiu, Singapore’s most decorated Paralympian, shares the untold story behind her journey - her unseen battles, silent strength, and unbreakable spirit. From navigating life with muscular dystrophy to becoming a world-record-holding gold medalist, Yip reflects on the personal sacrifices, moments of self-doubt, and the powerful support that fueled her resilience. She opens up about redefining success, challenging misconceptions about para-athletes, and her hopes for the future of Singaporean sports.

    This heartfelt conversation offers an intimate look into the life of a true champion who continues to defy limits and inspire a nation.

    00:00 Introduction

    02:09 Getting to Know Yip Pin Xiu

    03:05 Reflecting on Diagnosis and Childhood Resilience

    08:14 Discovering Strength and Overcoming Bullying

    13:06 The Journey to Olympic Gold

    15:38 Silent Battles and Unseen Challenges

    21:35 Facing Self-Doubt and Post-Olympic Realities

    25:27 Staying True Amidst the Spotlight

    28:02 Hopes for the Future of Singaporean Sports

    31:03 Challenging Misconceptions of Para-Athletes

    32:04 Redefining Success: Pin Xiu’s Perspective

    34:25 What Truly Fulfills Pin Xiu

    36:34 The True Meaning of Resilience

    38:03 The Billboard Question: A Message to the World

    38:51 Final Reflections and Key Takeaways

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  • In this fast-paced world, we’re constantly pushed to do more, achieve more, and optimise every moment of our lives. But what if true fulfillment comes not from doing it all, but from choosing what truly matters? In this episode, I sit down with Oliver Burkeman, author of Four Thousand Weeks and Meditations for Mortals, to explore how we can live meaningfully in a world obsessed with productivity.

    Oliver’s work challenges the cultural pressure to be endlessly efficient, encouraging us to embrace our limitations, face our mortality, and focus on what brings true purpose to our lives. We discuss practical ways to let go of the impossible pursuit of “doing it all” and instead prioritise depth, connection, and what truly counts.

    I first discovered Oliver’s work when Four Thousand Weeks came highly recommended by Adam Grant, and it changed the way I approach my own life. Today, I’m excited to share this conversation with you — a conversation about slowing down, letting go, and living fully amidst the noise. I hope it inspires you as much as it did me.

    00:00 Introduction

    01:28 Getting to Know Oliver Burkeman

    02:16 Rethinking Productivity Through Oliver’s Perspective

    06:32 Navigating FOMO and Existential Overwhelm

    09:51 Embracing Limitations and Making Meaningful Choices

    14:10 Challenging Society’s Obsession with Optimization

    16:30 Oliver’s Advice on Managing Tasks and Priorities

    18:52 Exploring Meditations for Mortals

    21:14 Staying Grounded and Present in a Distracted World

    23:52 Understanding the Concept of Productivity Debt

    25:32 The Power of Keeping a 'Done List'

    26:43 Redefining Success Through Oliver’s Lens

    28:56 The Billboard Question: What Message Would Oliver Share with the World?

    31:19 Final Reflections and Key Takeaways

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  • In this episode, I sit down with Dr Anders Hansen, one of Sweden's top psychiatrists and the bestselling author of Mind-Body Method, to explore the intricate connection between the brain and physical health. We dive into his groundbreaking research, shedding light on the misunderstood nature of anxiety, and the vital role that physical activity plays in boosting mental well-being. Dr Anders debunks common exercise myths, reveals surprising brain discoveries, and shares simple lifestyle changes anyone can make to enhance their brain health.

    From managing stress to understanding how our storytelling brains shape reality, this conversation offers practical insights into maintaining optimal mental health in today’s fast-paced world. Prepare to walk away with actionable takeaways to improve your overall well-being.

    00:00 Introduction

    01:26 Diving into Dr Anders Hansen’s Research

    05:05 Common Misconceptions About Anxiety

    06:46 The Impact of Physical Activity on Mental Health

    09:41 Debunking Popular Exercise Myths

    10:48 How to Maintain Optimal Brain Health

    13:02 Surprising Discoveries of The Brain

    15:31 Simple Lifestyle Changes for Mental Well-being

    16:47 Managing Stress and Our Priorities

    19:17 The Brain’s Connection to Human Nature

    21:55 Our “Storytelling” Brain

    23:15 The Billboard Question

    23:54 Final Reflections and Key Takeaways

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  • Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse and sexual exploitation, which may be distressing for some listeners. Please take care while listening, and consider your well-being before proceeding.

    Today, I have the honour of sitting down with Cassie, a remarkable survivor of cybersex trafficking. Her story is not just a tale of resilience; it shines a light on the dark realities of online sexual exploitation that many of us would rather ignore. Cassie's journey began in the remote mountains of the Philippines, where dreams of a brighter future led her to the bustling city of Manila. Tragically, what awaited her there was a harrowing nightmare — one woven by the hands of someone she trusted, plunging her into a world of abuse and manipulation.

    Join me as we delve into Cassie's journey of recovery, hear her powerful voice, and learn about the vital work of International Justice Mission (IJM) in the fight against child exploitation. This episode will move you, inspire you, and call you to action, revealing the stark truths of cybersex trafficking that's prevalent today, and the courageous individuals who stand up against it.

    00:00 Understanding the Cause

    01:21 Meet Cassie

    08:25 Cassie’s Story: The Reality of Cybersex Trafficking

    13:54 The Silent Victims

    16:36 Cassie’s Healing Journey

    22:57 Reclaiming Her Power

    26:11 A Call to Action

    28:23 Looking Ahead: Hope for the Future

    30:35 Final Reflections

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  • Have you ever felt like you’re on autopilot, going through your daily routine without a sense of purpose or excitement? Many of us find ourselves trapped in roles or tasks that leave us feeling unfulfilled. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone - there’s a transformative journey waiting for you.

    In this episode, I chat with my coach, Joyce, about the incredible power of discovering our Zone of Genius. My experience with Joyce helped me gain clarity on how to spend my energy for maximum impact. It’s not just about feeling fulfilled; it’s about being more effective, impactful, and authentic in everything I do.

    Finding our Zone of Genius is essential because it aligns your unique talents and passions with our everyday life. When we operate in this space, we experience greater joy and fulfillment while contributing to the world in a way that feels true to who we are, enhancing both our personal and professional lives.

    PS: I’m so excited to announce that I will be bringing Joyce all the way from San Francisco to conduct a transformational 3.5-hour workshop in Singapore this November. This is your chance to dive deeper, engage in powerful exercises, and uncover your own Zone of Genius alongside like-minded individuals.

    If you’re ready to embrace this journey of self-discovery, don’t miss out — sign up at the link below for the workshop today and take the first step toward a more fulfilling life ♄

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    00:00 Introduction

    01:38 Discovering Our Zone of Genius

    03:27 The Four Zones of Competence

    07:28 Operating in Your Zone of Genius

    08:46 Addressing Our Blind Spots and Distractions

    10:17 Upcoming Workshop: Closer with Joyce Chen

    12:51 Success Stories: Finding Your Zone of Genius

    17:09 Join Us in The Room

    18:20 The Importance of Unlocking Your Zone of Genius

    20:28 Final Reflections

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  • I had the joy of spending time with Ssonia Ong of Ong Squad during her visit to Singapore, where I was deeply moved by the strong bond she shares with her husband and 5 children, aged 2 to 14. Their close-knit family culture radiates warmth and genuine joy, and I was eager to discover the parenting principles that guide her.

    Ssonia’s story of reinvention is truly inspiring. When she was 38, she bravely pivoted from a fulfilling career as a child trauma counsellor to become a thriving content creator on TikTok, amassing over 17 million followers. It took immense courage to step into this new chapter, and her journey is a testament to the power of following your passions, no matter your age.

    In our conversation, she opens up about her parenting journey, the challenges and triumphs of balancing motherhood with a new career, and how she fosters a nurturing environment for her kids. Join me as I explore her incredible story and the belief that it’s never too late to chase your dreams. Ssonia’s insights will inspire anyone looking to make a meaningful change in their life.

    00:00 Introduction

    00:36 Get to know Ssonia Ong

    03:38 Content Creation During the Pandemic

    08:22 Transitioning to a Full-Time Content Creator

    10:33 Balancing Content Creation and Motherhood

    12:09 Finding Inspiration on TikTok

    13:05 Kevin’s Role in Ong Squad

    15:22 Embracing Imperfection as a Content Creator

    17:12 Creating Content with Positive Impact

    19:13 Protecting Children on Social Media

    23:21 Navigating Social Media Validation and Criticism

    26:05 Memorable Interactions with Followers

    27:18 Ssonia’s Content Creation Strategies

    28:53 Redefining Creativity and Taking Risks

    32:38 Navigating Motherhood with 5 Kids

    35:30 Prioritising Marriage Amidst Parenting

    39:14 Ssonia’s Advice for Young Parents

    41:13 The Key to Raising Healthy Kids

    42:12 Advice for Middle-Aged Dreamers

    44:13 Ssonia’s Biggest Lesson in Life

    44:49 Final Reflections

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  • Do you feel your mind could be sharper, more focused, or more agile? You're not alone. Many of us are searching for ways to enhance our brain health and unlock hidden capabilities. In this episode, I sit down with renowned neuroscientist Dr. Wendy Suzuki to explore how we can tap into the incredible power of our brains to improve our daily lives.

    Dr. Suzuki shares fascinating insights into neuroplasticity — the brain's ability to change and adapt — and offers practical strategies for boosting cognitive function, enhancing memory, and maintaining mental agility at any age. From the benefits of physical exercise and meditation to the impact of sleep and managing stress, this conversation is packed with actionable advice to help you unlock your brain's hidden potential and live a sharper, more focused life.

    00:00 Introduction

    01:16 Exploring Dr. Wendy Suzuki's Groundbreaking Work

    03:48 The Power of Mentorship in Shaping a Neuroscientist

    05:39 Demystifying Brain Plasticity

    11:34 Dr. Suzuki's Perspective on Brain Supplements

    12:35 How Stress Impacts the Brain

    16:53 The Magic of Breath Meditation

    21:22 Sleep's Vital Role in Brain Plasticity

    23:27 Harnessing the Protective Power of "Good Anxiety"

    27:48 Dr. Suzuki's Brain Health Advice for Parents

    33:16 The Crucial Importance of Brain Health

    34:50 Final Reflections and Key Takeaways

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  • In this special 10-minute episode, I chat with Janet Lansbury, a leading voice in respectful parenting, about the power of empathetic caregiving. We explore the crucial roles parents play in creating a nurturing environment, the art of observing and waiting to let children grow, and practical strategies for fostering strong parent-child and sibling relationships. Janet shares actionable tips to help you build deeper, more meaningful connections with your children and enrich your parenting journey. Join us for an inspiring and insightful conversation!

    00:00 Introduction

    01:00 Respectful Parenting: Our Roles as Parents

    02:26 Learning To Observe and Wait

    06:59 Cultivating a Nurturing Parent-Child Relationship

    08:18 Promoting Positive Sibling-Relationships

    09:50 Closing

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  • In this episode, I sit down with Sadhana Rai, whose transformative journey from a high-powered commercial disputes lawyer to a devoted pro bono advocate is both inspiring and heart-rending. Sadhana shares her early life experiences in a modest family, where the seeds of justice and advocacy were planted. Her story is a poignant reminder of the power of introspection and the courage it takes to pursue a path that truly feeds the soul, not just the status quo.

    Through the lens of some of her most challenging and impactful cases, Sadhana opens up about the realities of working with underprivileged clients who have altered her view of justice and humanity. Each case, each client, each story brings with it a heavy toll but also a profound lesson in resilience and empathy. Sadhana’s recounting of these experiences invites us to reflect on the deeper implications of inequality and our role in addressing it.

    This episode is not just a narrative of legal battles; it’s a call to awaken to the struggles and injustices around us. Sadhana challenges each of us to not only recognize our shared humanity but to act on it, fostering a society that values compassion and justice equally. Her journey and the lessons she imparts are a powerful testament to the impact one person can have when they choose to make a difference where it truly counts.

    00:00 Introduction 00:35 Get to Know Sadhana Rai 02:35 Sadhana’s Upbringing & Background 06:39 Leaving a Prestigious Job & Discovering Pro Bono Work 10:30 Navigating Challenges as a Female Lawyer 14:53 The Hardships in the Legal Profession 21:00 Diving into Criminal Law and Pro Bono Work 27:37 A Heartbreaking Dive into the Chin Swee Road Case 33:49 Going Above & Beyond as Community Lawyers 36:23 The Emotional Toll of Being a Lawyer 39:14 Behind the Story of an Abandoned Dog 42:44 A Fight for Innocence & the Reconciliation of a Family 45:12 Misconceptions of Pro Bono Lawyers 47:53 Sadhana’s Most Valuable Lessons 50:23 The Important Role We All Play 54:03 Final Reflections

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  • In this solo episode, I’m inviting you into a deeply personal and intimate space — one where we can reflect, grow, and have honest, heart-to-heart conversations. It’s a chance for us to connect on a more meaningful level, exploring the lessons life has been teaching me lately and how I’m finding my way through them.

    In this episode, I cover:

    ​⁠ ⁠Reflections and key takeaways from past episodes​⁠ ⁠Areas I’m currently focusing on to improve​⁠ ⁠Behind-the-scenes look at upcoming projects close to my heart​⁠ ⁠Finding clarity during seasons of uncertainty​⁠ ⁠The power of saying no to prioritize what truly matters​⁠ ⁠Two book recommendations that have shaped my journey

    This isn’t just an episode; it’s a personal conversation between us, grounded in reflection, growth, and the shared journey we’re all on. I hope it resonates with you, brings comfort or inspiration, and reminds you that we’re navigating life’s twists and turns together — one step at a time đŸ€

    00:00 Welcome & Introduction

    01:45 Catching Up with Rachel

    03:11 Reflections on Key Insights from Past Episodes

    12:01 Current Focus: What I’m Working on Improving

    15:06 Behind the Scenes: Updates on Ongoing Projects

    18:37 Navigating Uncertainty: Encouragement for Those Feeling Stuck

    21:00 Book Recommendations & Personal Reflections

    31:17 Closing Thoughts & Farewell

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  • In this episode, I sit down with Valeria Lipovetsky, a woman whose journey from the world of modeling to the heights of entrepreneurship is nothing short of inspiring. I first met Valeria two years ago at a personal growth retreat in Ibiza, and since then, I’ve been deeply moved by her relentless drive, her commitment to self-improvement, and her ability to gracefully navigate the many roles she plays—as a mother, wife, entrepreneur, and content creator.

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    Together, we explore the pivotal moments that shaped Valeria’s life, from her upbringing to her career in modeling, and her bold transition into the entrepreneurial world. Valeria opens up about the challenges she faced in starting her first business, Verie. We dive into her YouTube career, where she shares how she stays true to herself amidst the pressures of public life, and what it takes to maintain authenticity in a digital age.

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    Valeria also offers invaluable insights into balancing work with marriage, revealing the key factors that have helped her and her husband, Gary, thrive both personally and professionally. We discuss the complexities of motherhood, the ever-present tension between ambition and contentment, and how she confronts self-doubt while striving for growth.

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    This episode is a deep dive into the life of a woman who is constantly evolving, learning, and pushing the boundaries of what’s possible. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur, a creative at heart, or someone seeking inspiration in your personal life, Valeria’s story will leave you with valuable lessons on how to define and pursue your own path to success.

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    00:00 Introduction

    00:43 Meet Valeria Lipovetsky: A Journey of Growth

    04:43 Influences and Lessons from Valeria’s Upbringing

    09:52 Insights from a Modelling Career

    12:21 From Content Creator to Entrepreneur: Valeria’s Evolution

    15:38 Building a YouTube Empire

    17:13 Staying Authentic in the Spotlight

    19:17 Closing a Meaningful Chapter with Verie

    22:34 The Reality of Pursuing Passion in Business

    25:37 Valeria’s Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

    27:36 Redefining Success: Valeria’s Perspective

    28:39 Navigating Business and Marriage with Your Spouse

    32:30 Resolving Conflict in Marriage

    37:01 The Complexities of Motherhood

    43:13 Confronting Self-Doubt

    46:35 Balancing Ambition and Contentment

    48:44 Valeria’s Biggest Life Lessons

    51:11 Timeless Fashion Advice

    52:47 Final Reflections

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  • In this episode, I sit down with Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, the dynamic couple behind Empowered Couples University, to explore the real challenges that every relationship faces. With over 802,000 couples served, Jocelyn and Aaron share their personal journey from navigating their own differences to becoming sought-after relationship coaches. They reveal the key skills that every couple needs but often weren't taught — how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and maintain connection amidst life’s chaos.

    We dive into their insights on love, partnership, and the everyday rituals that have kept their marriage strong. Whether you’re struggling with recurring arguments, balancing busy schedules, or simply looking to deepen your connection, this conversation offers practical, heartfelt advice that every couple can relate to. Tune in for an episode that’s as inspiring as it is real, and discover how to take your relationship from surviving to thriving.

    00:00 Introduction

    00:26 Get to Know The Freemans

    02:11 Common Relationship Challenges

    05:36 Practical Reconciliation Tools

    08:02 Is Love Enough?

    09:20 The Love Account Check-In

    11:10 Repair in Relationships

    13:42 Tools for Effective Communication

    17:58 Identifying Your Relationship Needle Movers

    19:58 Navigating Parenthood Together

    26:02 Staying Connected with Your Partner

    28:00 The Freemans’ Healthy Marriage Rituals

    32:28 Weathering Life’s Storms Together

    35:09 Encouraging a Resistant Partner

    38:11 Final Thoughts

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  • In this personal and inspiring episode, I sit down with Janice Koh, a renowned Singaporean actress, to explore her courageous journey through tongue cancer. At the beginning of 2022, Janice's life was upended by a persistent ulcer that was diagnosed as cancer. Facing multiple surgeries and losing a significant part of her tongue, Janice had to redefine her identity and cope with the loss of her voice—an actor's most cherished tool.


    Janice candidly shares her emotional turmoil and the resilience required to navigate such life-altering changes. She reflects on finding strength in vulnerability, discovering new sources of joy, and living mindfully in the face of uncertainty. Janice delves into finding inner peace amidst chaos and the significance of suffering in personal growth. She shares her reflections on the preciousness of time, the gift of presence, and the journey of letting go of old identities to embrace new possibilities.


    Join me as Janice takes us on a journey of rebirth and renewal, offering a testament to the power of the human spirit. Her story is a reminder that even in our darkest moments, there is always hope and the potential for a new beginning. 


    Whether you are facing your own struggles or seeking inspiration, Janice's journey will leave you moved, uplifted, and deeply inspired by the lessons she has learned and the wisdom she imparts.


    00:00 Introduction
    00:26 Get To Know Janice Koh
    02:00 Receiving a Cancer Diagnosis
    07:34 Discovering Inner Strength
    09:30 Understanding Her Diagnosis
    13:08 The Habits That Grounded Her 
    16:03 How Cancer Transformed Janice’s Life
    18:45 Redefining Herself as an Actress
    26:59 The Power of Asking for Help
    29:29 Experiencing a Rebirth
    31:04 Her Relationship with Her Children
    33:13 Advice to Her Younger Self
    34:42 Balancing Faith and Doubt
    35:57 Redefining Success
    37:51 Embracing the Present Moment
    39:08 Welcoming a New Chapter
    41:12 Closing Reflections


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  • As a parent myself, I'm always seeking ways to expand my knowledge and create a nurturing environment for Ollie and Keira. The Montessori approach has been particularly intriguing to me because of its emphasis on fostering independence, curiosity, and respect in children. By providing tools for success, encouraging their abilities, and giving them space to develop independently, the Montessori way offers a powerful alternative to conventional parenting. It helps children develop critical thinking, self-discipline, and a love for learning while maintaining a respectful and collaborative parent-child relationship.

    In this episode, experienced Montessori educators and advocates Simone Davies and Junnifa Uzodike share invaluable insights on integrating Montessori principles into the daily lives of school-aged children. We explore key differences between Montessori and traditional parenting, debunk common misconceptions, and offer practical tips for cultivating respect and handling tantrums with grace.

    Discover how to balance nurturing and spoiling, create meaningful connections, and bring joy into modern parenting. Simone and Junnifa also discuss the importance of co-regulation, unlearning traditional parenting practices, and adjusting to the Montessori approach.

    Join us as we uncover how the Montessori way can help support our child's unique potential, develop critical thinking skills, and foster a respectful and collaborative relationship between parent and child.

    00:00 Introduction

    00:30 Get to know Junnifa Uzodike and Simone Davies

    03:21 Montessori Parenting vs. Traditional Parenting

    07:40 Misconceptions of Montessori Parenting

    09:52 Cultivating Respect at Home

    13:20 Handling Tantrums and Meltdowns

    16:58 Spoiling vs. Nurturing Your Children

    21:59 Navigating Values and Principles

    26:18 Creating Connection and Joy as Modern Parents

    29:18 Co-Regulation Tips with Toddlers

    32:00 Unlearning Traditional Parenting

    33:00 Adjusting to Montessori Parenting

    36:40 Advice for Modern Parents

    38:16 Final Thoughts

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  • Have you ever found yourself wanting to make a change in your life or career, yet feeling inexplicably stuck? You're not alone. The gap between knowing what we need to do and actually doing it is a common struggle that many face. In this episode with our in-house guest expert Joyce, we dive deep into this challenge and uncover why it's so hard to get “unstuck.”

    We delve into the ‘knowing-doing gap’ and the emotional immune system, uncovering why we often resist change despite our best intentions. Joyce walks us through the immunity map, revealing how hidden commitments and limiting beliefs hold us back.

    With practical strategies and personal examples, Joyce offers insights to help you bridge the gap between wanting change and making it happen. Whether you’re aiming for a career shift, better relationships, or personal growth, this episode provides the tools to move from desire to action.

    Join us for an inspiring conversation on mastering the art of willing change.

    00:00 Introduction

    00:57 The Human Struggle with Change

    02:18 The ‘Knowing-Doing Gap’

    04:05 Understanding Our Emotional Immune System

    05:18 Wanting Change vs. Making Change

    08:18 The Immunity Map

    25:53 Cultivating Courage for Change

    27:37 Joyce’s Advice on Making Change

    28:18 Final Thoughts

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  • In this engaging episode, I sit down with financial guru and content creator Vivian Tu, known as "Your Rich BFF," to explore her inspiring journey from a hardworking immigrant family to Wall Street and ultimately to her role as a financial influencer. Vivian shares pivotal moments, such as leaving her high-paying job at JP Morgan to pursue content creation, and discusses the profound impact of her mentor on her financial habits and career trajectory. She offers insights into why financial literacy is often neglected, especially among women, and provides strategies to bridge this gap.

    Vivian delves into common financial mistakes, how the pandemic reshaped her views on financial security and practical tips for maximizing earnings and overcoming the fear of investing. She also explains her belief in equity rather than equality in relationships, offering advice on how couples can strive for equity to ensure a healthy partnership.

    Tune in to gain valuable financial wisdom and be inspired by Vivian's journey and insights. Whether you're starting your financial journey or looking to deepen your knowledge, this episode offers practical advice and thought-provoking discussions that will resonate with and inspire everyone.

    00:00 Introduction

    00:16 Get to Know Vivian Tu

    01:01 Vivian Tu’s Upbringing

    03:18 The Start of Vivian Tu’s Journey

    08:08 3 Important Financial Lessons

    11:36 Breaking Gender Stereotypes in Financial Literacy

    13:12 The Most Common Financial Mistake

    14:25 How To Start Investing

    17:43 Overcome Your Fear of Investing

    19:18 Budgeting for Investing

    21:23 The Brag Book

    23:05 How To Ask for a Raise

    25:50 Mindset Shift for Women

    27:59 Equity vs Equality in Relationships

    31:06 Financial Tips for a Healthy Relationship

    34:21 Vivian Tu’s Perception of True Richness

    37:13 The ‘STRIP’ Method

    39:21 RICH AF: Vivian Tu’s NYT Best Seller Book

    41:56 Vivian Tu’s Purpose as Your Rich BFF

    42:54 Talk to Your Friends About Money

    45:17 Final Thoughts

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  • In this episode, I sit down with an extraordinary guest, Whye Kee, whose life story is a powerful testament to the human capacity for change, redemption, and the pursuit of new dreams. From his turbulent upbringing and experiences as a gang leader to his transformative journey in prison, Whye Kee’s path has been anything but ordinary.

    We delve into his early years, exploring the challenges he faced growing up amidst loan shark harassment and violence. Whye Kee shares candidly about his descent into gang life, the allure it held, and the identity he forged as a leader. Yet, it was in the darkest moments of imprisonment and his father's death that he began to question his choices and seek a different path. Discover how Whye Kee found solace and purpose in pottery, a craft that not only rekindled his childhood dreams but also paved the way for his redemption.

    This episode is a moving reminder that no matter how far one strays, redemption is possible. Whye Kee’s journey from gang leader to respected artist and mentor will leave us deeply moved and inspired to believe in the power of change.

    00:00 Introduction

    00:52 Whye Kee’s Upbringing

    03:50 Joining a Gang

    12:01 Becoming a Gang Leader

    17:04 Life Being Detained Without Trial

    20:08 Life After Prison

    27:22 The Hardest Wake Up Call

    31:52 Discovering Pottery

    34:02 Turning Points

    39:26 Becoming an Assenter for Mr. Tharman

    43:05 Serving the Underprivileged Youth

    50:02 Honing His Craft

    59:36 Transformative Power of Pottery

    01:02:50 Whye Kee’s Unique Perception of Redemption

    01:05:05 Internal Battles

    01:07:13 Advice to His Younger Self

    01:07:49 Final Thoughts

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  • This week, I am excited to have Dr. Robert Waldinger, the director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, join us for an enlightening conversation. This episode is packed with wisdom and insights from the world’s longest-running study on happiness.

    Discover the key factors that contribute to a fulfilling life and how happiness evolves over time. Dr. Waldinger also discusses the importance of quality relationships, balancing career and personal life, and the principles of intentional living. We also delve into generational patterns of happiness, the wisdom of older participants, and the power of mindfulness.

    Whether you're seeking to improve your personal relationships, find more satisfaction in your work, or understand the science of happiness, this episode provides valuable guidance for living a happier, more intentional life.

    00:00 Introduction

    01:05 Get to Know Dr. Robert Waldinger

    01:55 Understanding the Harvard Study of Adult Development

    03:09 Key Factors for a Fulfilling Life

    04:50 The Evolution of Happiness Over Time

    08:04 Quality vs. Quantity in Relationships

    09:58 Balancing Career Ambitions with Personal Relationships

    11:27 Practicing Intentional Living

    12:59 Generational Patterns of Happiness

    16:28 Lessons from Older Participants

    17:28 Advice for Building Strong Relationships

    20:14 The Power of Mindfulness

    23:00 Technology's Impact on Relationships

    24:27 The Importance of Purpose in Life

    26:10 Dr. Robert Waldinger’s Passion for Research

    28:28 Final Thoughts

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  • In this special episode, join me for an exclusive live recording featuring the esteemed Sara Jane Ho, internationally renowned etiquette expert and host of Netflix's "Mind Your Manners." Recorded during our recent CLOSER event in Singapore, Sara Jane shares her fascinating journey from founding an etiquette school in Beijing to becoming a global authority on modern manners.

    We dive into a range of topics, from the most unusual etiquette practices she's encountered to the essential role etiquette plays in today's fast-paced digital world. Sara Jane's unique approach combines tradition with contemporary relevance, offering practical insights that are both enlightening and entertaining.

    Highlights include:

    - Surprising etiquette practices from around the world

    - Sara's most memorable success stories and testimonials

    - Behind the scenes of "Mind Your Manners"

    - The critical link between etiquette and emotional intelligence

    - Light-hearted discussions on bedroom etiquette and Feng Shui

    Whether you're an etiquette enthusiast or simply curious about enhancing your social skills, this episode promises to be an unforgettable journey into the world of modern etiquette.

    Tune in and discover how mastering manners can transform your personal and professional life.

    00:00 Introduction

    01:17 Unusual Etiquette Practices

    03:39 The Start of Sara Jane's Journey

    06:44 Sara Jane's Most Memorable Success Stories

    10:43 Inside Her Netflix Show 'Mind Your Manners'

    17:03 The Relevance of Etiquette Today

    22:09 The Link Between Etiquette and Emotional Intelligence

    23:41 Breaking Up Over Text: Sara Jane's Perspective

    28:38 Knowing Your Worth: Don’t Settle for Less

    30:58 Bedroom Etiquette: Tips and Insights

    32:26 Feng Shui: Self-Fulfilling Prophecy or Practical Wisdom?

    37:22 Q&A with Sara Jane

    49:10 Final Thoughts

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