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So today we are talking about Dom Vulnerability and how it is actually quite Domly to be vulnerable. ReverendTodd takes a turn in the hot seat on this one. Since he posted a writing recently that was a very blunt and personal writing on the personal struggle within as he steps into PolyAmory territory. We think you’ll enjoy this show and look forward to hearing from you.
Honorable Mention and Shout-Out to Page-Turner of https://poly.land
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We're back to recording once again. It has definitely been awhile since we have recorded and released. This episode is title Changes, as the podcast is going through some changes. We will be updating all of our artwork shortly. Thanks for listening!!
What we talk about can be applied in all aspects of your life. We look forward to bringing you our podcast once again and hope you take the challenge we throw out near the end of the podcast.
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We jump into the topic of cannasexuality in this Episode with Ashley Manta. The CannaSexual® sex educator, coach, writer. Prioritizing consent and advocating for pleasure.
She has been featured on numerous networks and podcasts. The goto person for all your cannasexual needs.
When you goto her website and mention use the discount code - "Ascension" you can get 15% off her online coaching education program that lasts 16 weeks long.
Get in touch with Ashley on:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ashleymanta/
Twitter - https://twitter.com/ashleymanta
Instagram - https://www.facebook.com/ashleymanta/
Website - http://www.ashleymanta.com
Shout outs, mentions and links in this episode:
Janelle Marie Pierce of theSTDproject - Link to Episode 21
Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg of American Sex Pod
Thongria of Spectrum Boutique
Nina Hartley of Ninaland
Ways to Reach Us at The Ascension Show
Voicemail - 734 328-2323
Email – [email protected]
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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We had an awesome time talking with Kevin Patterson on this episode. Author of Love's not Color Blind, who is involved with Poly Role Models as well.
We discussed issues related to racism in poly and other alternative lifestyles. What can be done to help people of color feel more comfortable at events. And how awkward it can feel in a crowd when you’re the only person of color.
This is an episode to help open a person’s mind, to some of the difficulties people of color face in this lifestyle.
Get your copy of the book - http://amzn.to/2DzaC0y - Love's Not Color Blind
Kevin Patterson’s Links from the show:
Blog - http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/polyrolemodels/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/
Twitter - https://twitter.com/PolyRoleModels
Ascension Show Links:
Email – [email protected]
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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The BDSM lifestyle is ever changing and moving as it applies to individuals within their chosen dynamic. So the three of us discuss the good, the bad and the ugly with new styles we see and old styles we have lived through. Is there anything missing in the lifestyle choices today? Was it better when it was more exclusive rather than inclusive? Whats the difference? All kinds of questions asked and discussed in this episode.
We love to hear comments so please feel free to email us and let us know what you think. [email protected]
Show links:
https://www.katekinsey.com/communication-and-terminology.html
http://www.devianceanddesire.com/2016/03/old-school-versus-new-school/
http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/missyoldguard.htm
https://thekinkyworldofvile.wordpress.com/2013/07/24/is-old-guard-real/
Show Voicemail - 1 (734) 328-2323
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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This week we brought on Jaeleen Bennis, a sensual domina, professional bodyworker, and the creator of Bondassage®. We discuss a more sensual side of playing in the world of kink. A way that helps increase connection, desire, satisfaction and intimacy within a relationship no matter what that relationship may be.
Once you’ve experienced Bondassage, you’ll never forget. Discover what you’ve been missing.
Ways to find more information on Bondassage:
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, FetLife, LinkedIn, Bondassage, Bondassage For Couples,
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From discussion to ranting and back to discussion on labels. Are they important? What value does a label really have? Is there another way outside of creating neat little boxes to put people in? These are some of the questions we discuss on the show today.
Ways to Reach Us
Voicemail – 734 328-2323
Email – [email protected]
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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We discuss hypnosis with Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy35 on Fetlife) and how it can be used in erotic settings.
Mark Wiseman is the author of 2 books
- Mind Play: Guide to Erotic Hypnosis - http://amzn.to/2BDKW5G
- The Mind Play Study Guide - http://amzn.to/2BEo7Pa
He is also active and travels a lot to erotic hypnosis conventions and teaches around the country.
Ways to Reach Us
Email – [email protected]
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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We talked with Jenelle Marie Pierce - the Founder & Executive Director of The STD Project, a Spokesperson for PositiveSingles.com, an STD Expert for Answers.com, an eater of jello, and a lover of snow. She is also proof an STI is not a deal-breaker or the end of your world; rather, it is merely an unexpected curve-ball in this interesting game we call life.Have a certified Care Advisor from STD Test Express answer your questions - US only1-877-549-8588https://twitter.com/TheSTDProjecthttps://www.thestdproject.com/https://www.facebook.com/thestdproject/Ways to Reach Us at The Ascension ShowEmail – [email protected] on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnReblPatreon Support - https://www.patreon.com/ascensionshowThe Show Website - https://theascensionshow.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/Twitter - https://twitter.com/AscensionShow
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ReverendTodd, -Tbone- and NrthnRebl brings you a kink fetish episode this week talking about the joys of anal play.
Ways to Reach Us
Email – [email protected]
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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This week we talk about what its like being an alternative lifestyle club owner, host or event planner. It isn't all sunshine and roses, regardless of what people may think. Why do people do it? Legal headaches that can arise and more.
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Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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Join -Tbone-, NrthnRebl and ReverendTodd as they discuss all things related to Oral Sex.
Ways to Reach Us
Email – [email protected]
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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Cam workers are transforming the porn industry and give women a chance to be in charge and make their own money in an industry where their effort and work has often been exploited by men. We brought on SilentMary to talk about her experience with Camming and being a sex worker.
Show Notes Links -
http://theconversation.com/webcamming-the-sex-work-revolution-that-no-one-is-willing-to-talk-about-69834
Ways to Reach Us
Skype Voicemail – (734) 328-2323
Email – [email protected]
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
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This week on our Fetish focused episode we talk about Erotic Spanking, is it main stream or taboo, some history on spanking and delve into the morality of it as well. Episode is filled with our usual banter and off-topic trails.
Ways to Reach Us
Skype Voicemail – (734) 328-2323
Email – [email protected]
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
Patreon Support - https://www.patreon.com/ascensionshow
The Show Website - https://theascensionshow.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/
Twitter - https://twitter.com/AscensionShow
Show Notes Links:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_spanking
http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/medical_examiner/2014/09/spanking_is_a_sex_act_which_is_why_it_should_not_be_used_for_punishing_children.html
http://www.therooster.com/blog/behind-ultra-kinky-christian-movement-tells-husbands-spank-their-naughty-wives
https://theestablishment.co/spanking-is-essential-to-my-mental-health-63d1ce706de1
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Power exchange refers to a relationship of mutual consent in which one person gives their submission in exchange for another person giving their dominance. The exchange is the power that is always inherent in dominance & submission where in which the s-type loses some degree of authority to the D-type in exchange for the D-type taking some degree of responsibility for the s-type.All BDSM interactions between a Dom and sub normally involve some sort of power exchange. The sub consensually gives up some power to the Dom. This is different than the dynamic between a Top and Bottom.Sacred sexuality is the combining of sexual energy and sexual acts with spirituality. In my research it can be in the form of tantra or within the context of other pagan notions. In Tantric teachings, the word sacred refers to the ‘spirit’ and sexuality refers to the ‘body.’ Sacred sex is the exchange of sexual energy that goes beyond the physical sensations of pleasure and genital orgasms.LinksSkype Voicemail – (734) 328-2323Email – [email protected] on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnReblPatreon Support - https://www.patreon.com/ascensionshowThe Show Website - https://theascensionshow.com/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/Twitter - https://twitter.com/AscensionShowGuest Notes –My wife and I co-host the internet radio show Erotic Awakening - http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast/ , an exploration of all things erotic.Beyond The LoveTogether with @dansarani and significant other @spclkaye we are putting together a one of a kind 3 day event focused on polyamorous relationships called Beyond The Love - http://beyondthelove.org/ .Power eXchange SummitI am happy to be one of the co-directors of the amazing Power eXchange Summit. It is a celebration of all power exchange relationships. Presenters who actually live what they teach; entertainment; social spaces; more!Power Exchange Summit - http://www.powerexchangesummit.org/Living M/sMy wife and I are the authors of a couple of books Living M/s: A book for Masters and slaves and their relationships and Sex, Stories, and Power ExchangePresentingWe are also fortunate to be able to travel and do a variety of presentations, for BDSM/Ds and Sacred Sexuality groups.and...@dansarani and I are the founders of the sacred sexuality group, Path of the Qadishti and, along with the beautiful @spclkaye run the Scarlet Sanctuary events in Ohio locations.We are proud to have been the 2010 Great Lakes Master & slave.Finally, I am also the administrator of Open Sangha, a gathering for Buddhist and people interested in Buddhism.
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We are talking about water sports in its many forms this episode. It’s a fetish, more common in the dominant/submissive role-play scene, involving urine in some form or fashion. We delve into the conversation in our usual educationally bantering fun way.
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Email – [email protected]
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ReverendTodd, -Tbone- and Nrthnrebl bring Page Turner on the show to discuss Polyamory Relationships.
Page Turner is the author of 2 books on polyamory:
1. A Geek's Guide to Unicorn Ranching (https://www.amazon.com/Geeks-Guide-Unicorn-Ranching…
2. Poly Land (https://www.amazon.com/Poly-Land-Brutally-Adventure…
as well as the founder of the popular daily polyamory website Poly.Land https://poly.land and a relationship coach in the poly and kink communities.
Her third book, Dealing with Difficult Metamours, is coming out in the spring.
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Fisting is a sexual activity that involves inserting a hand into the vagina or rectum. Once insertion is complete, the fingers are either clenched into a fist or kept straight. Fisting may be performed without a partner, but it is most often a partnered activity.
Safe fisting requires patience, practice, communication, and, yes, plenty of lube. "No matter your gender or the hole you're fisting, be sure to go slower than you think you need to, and use more lube than you think you need"
Show notes reference Links:
http://www.refinery29.com/what-is-fisting
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Today we talk about ethics and protocols in the BDSM lifestyle and how they apply in the world around us. GoddessManda joins us for this one as a lifestyle educator and Domme.
Protocol in Public
Protocol in Private
What are Ethics
Ethics and the world around us
How do we define protocols for ourselves
Reference link used for show notes:
https://slexi.wordpress.com/2012/03/04/protocol-and-behaviour-with-in-ds-relationships/
Links –
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Email – [email protected]
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Our Guests on the show today are Illiana and Wild Dracos
Bondage is the practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. Rope, cuffs, bondage tape, self-adhering bandage, or other physical restraints may be used for this purpose.
Shibari is a whole entire subject on it’s own.
Safety is a huge factor in all forms of bondage. The top must be prepared for emergencies and have a plan to release the bottom quickly.
The bottom should prepare themselves both mentally and physically.
Historical
Bondage is also presented in erotic and mainstream literary forms, including cartoons and magazines, and depicted in erotic art, such as some of the works of Gustave Doré and John Everett Millais. The mythical Andromeda was a popular subject for bondage in art by painters including Rembrandt's Andromeda Chained to the Rocks (1630), Théodore Chassériau (1840), Edward Poynter (1869) and Gustave Doré (1869).
A popular motif in the days of silent film and into the 1930’s were “damsels in distress” with the actress often bound on railroad tracks or in other forms.
Depictions of bondage in art may be erotic, in which case they follow a heteronormative model and tend to depict a young woman in danger and fear. Bizarre was a fetish and bondage magazine published between 1946–1959 by bondage artist John Willie. It included drawings and photographs using professional bondage models in bondage or sadomasochistic scenes. Sweet Gwendoline was the main female character in his works, published largely in the 1950s and 60's, and possibly the most famous bondage icon after Bettie Page.
Bondage in mainstream media became more and more normalized (if depicted on the lighter bondage side).
By the 1990s, references to bondage could be found in mainstream prime-time television series such as Buffy the Vampire Slayer, where equipment such as handcuffs or collars and concepts such as the safeword were included as a matter of course
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