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Today Pastor Brian joins me as we journey through his saying I do, figuring out how to be a better spouse and following Gods word. Pastor Brian lives in Fayetteville GA with his wife Codie and 5 children.
Hi I'm Connie Durham, the Host of this podcast and Brian is my pastor. May I say he's passionate, transparent, and also dedicated to his family and church. My mission is to cultivate connection & lasting love for an Extraordinary Marriage.
Often our past experiences color our future and we loose our way, in finding love that last. Our personalities conflict, hurt and crush the ones we love and we don't know how to change that.
Follow Brian's words and put God in the center of your marriage. Then go to my web page and get my Marriage Starter Kit Free. Take notes and list the first 3 things to work on.
If you keep doing the things you're doing... you'll keep getting the same thing you're getting. Ready for change? https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2148403428
Key Takeaways:
Marriage as an attack on selfishness: Discover how selflessness and serving each other can transform your relationship.
The foundation of God's word: Learn how biblical principles can guide and strengthen your marriage.
Communication is key: Practical advice on how to talk to each other, not at each other, and the importance of respectful dialogue.
Value and respect: The significance of valuing your spouse and showing respect through actions and words.
Intentional love: Understanding and catering to each other's love languages to foster a deeper connection.Brian also opens up about the challenges he faced growing up in a divorced family and how it shaped his approach to fatherhood and marriage. This episode is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and actionable advice to help you build a stronger, more loving relationship.
(00:00) Discover real life stories and a path to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters
(01:09) Connie Durham welcomes Brian Parrish to the extraordinary marriage
(02:14) Brian and Cody got married in 2010; it's been 13 years now
(03:27) Brian says the biggest need in a healthy marriage is communication
(04:30) Jeff and I had unrealistic expectations when we got married about communication
(06:21) Brian and Cody both come from divorced families. So how does that feel as a kid
(12:01) Brian and his wife were married nine days when their first child was born
(15:43) Tennessee Knox says marriage is an attack on selfishness
(21:06) That selfishness is so hard to fight. It's steady, it's constant
(21:21) Brian: Whenever we blow up, our partner has three choices
(22:58) I think how selfish we are when we first get married starts with selfishness
(30:20) In marriage, sometimes you get tired, and it's about what you do
(36:36) Brian: Where does respect come from? Value. I mean, you respect something based on its value
(39:45) Jeff: There are roles to marriage, and there are responsibilities
(46:34) By knowing your partner's love language, you can serve them
(49:01) Connie Durham: Brian, thank you so much for sharing today
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
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In today's episode, Navigating Love's Frustration, Jeff & Connie explore the emotional dynamics that either strengthen love or create division in marriage. Discover how predictable out of control emotions influence your relationship and learn practical strategies to overcome these challenges.
Go to www.theextraordinarymarriage.com - scroll down and find your Free Positive Attitude PDF... ready to download. (It's a button) We can not control the things around us... but we can control our own MIND. At least we can try. 😅 Thank you for listening.
The Relationship Transformer, Connie Durham
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In this episode, Connie Durham dives into "Three Mistakes Couples Make That Push Their Spouse Away." With over 40 years of marriage experience, Connie shares heartfelt stories, practical advice, and actionable steps to help you reconnect with your spouse and navigate through common marital conflicts.
Connie emphasizes the importance of understanding your spouse's personality, effective communication, and prioritizing each other. She also shares a personal story about a challenging day at one of her rental properties, illustrating how miscommunication and assumptions can lead to frustration and conflict.
Stay tuned until the end of the episode to download a free workbook on resolving conflict in your marriage. This episode is packed with insights and strategies to help you build a stronger, more loving relationship.
(00:00) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in Connie Durham's marriage advice
(00:55) Resolve conflict in your marriage with this workbook
(01:43) Three mistakes that couples make that push their spouse away
(03:50) My husband and I have six rental properties
(09:18) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in marriage
(12:12) Pay attention to your tone of voice and how you speak to your spouse
(17:57) Third mistake is not putting your spouse first. This is one that a lot of us make
(21:59) Understanding your spouse and understand your differences can help resolve conflict
(27:14) It's called communication secrets for an extraordinary marriage
(34:01) Communication secrets for marriage determine what you each want
(37:34) You get an introductory video and then you get a personal behavior assessment
(44:09) Communication secrets for an extraordinary marriage is free with a growth 40 coupon
(48:43) After 40 years of marriage, Connie Durham can help you improve your marriage
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
Get the exact tools you need to avoid them and reignite that “first met” passion and deep connection. Check on the next Online Workshop https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/CS-Marriage
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In this episode, Connie Durham dives deep into the root causes of conflict in marriage and how our predictable personalities play a role in recurring issues. Using relatable anecdotes and practical advice, Connie explores the importance of understanding different perspectives, levels of patience, and upbringing influences.
Discover how focusing on the good and beautiful aspects of your relationship can transform your marriage. Connie also introduces the concept of the compound effect, where small, consistent choices over time lead to significant benefits. Learn about the four predictable personality styles and how recognizing these traits in yourself and your spouse can help you navigate conflicts more effectively.
Don't miss out on the upcoming masterclass, "Three Mistakes That Push Your Spouse Away," and find out how to avoid these common pitfalls. Connie shares her wisdom from over 45 years of marriage and offers a free Fresh Insights session to help you move past misunderstandings and build a stronger connection with your spouse.
(00:00) One year, I was making their birthday cake and I needed an extra big one
(01:46) The extraordinary marriage podcast explores the causes and solutions to conflict in marriage
(05:56) Your past and your personalities determine how you see the world
(06:51) When we focus on what is good and beautiful, relationships go a lot better
(10:35) Communication money is one of the top two divorce accelerators
(12:11) There are four predictable personality styles and each one has its strengths and drawbacks
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
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Have you ever wondered what keeps the spark alive in a marriage? In this episode, Connie Durham delves into the nuances of attraction and how it evolves over time. From the body language and loving tones that first drew you to your spouse, to the everyday habits that might be causing friction now, Connie offers insights into maintaining and rekindling that initial connection.
Do you feel like your marriage could use a boost in romance, fun, and adventure? Or perhaps you seek more compassion, support, and strength? Discover real-life stories and practical advice to overcome the common pitfalls every marriage encounters.
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"10 Days to a Happier Healthier Marriage"
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Connie also shares a personal story about her first car and the lessons she learned about showing excitement and keeping a straight face—lessons that can be surprisingly relevant to marriage dynamics.
Explore four areas that might be causing trouble in your relationship and gain three powerful questions to ask yourself to reignite the attraction with your spouse. Are you ready to open the door to a more extraordinary marriage? Tune in and find out!
(00:00) Today, we are talking about those things that attracted you and your spouse
(03:53) What attracted you to your spouse? Are they fun loving
(07:08) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in a free webinar
(07:40) Connie Durham: Communication is the number one problem that couples have
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage? Join Connie for a free webinar on the three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away. Visit www.theextraordinarymarriage.com to register and start building a happier, healthier marriage today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
#Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast #Attraction #PersonalityStyles #ConnieDurham
It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
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It's not where you start, but where you finish. Connie Durham dives into the essence of creating harmony in your marriage, focusing on the choices you make today and tomorrow. Drawing inspiration from Albert Einstein's wisdom, Connie explores how to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters and foster a loving, supportive relationship.
Todays Gift - Why Couples Argue and Fight https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2147559250
In this episode, Connie shares ten actionable ways to find more harmony with your spouse. From turning on your positive attitude to showing appreciation, she provides practical advice to help you focus on the things you love about each other. Whether it's dealing with past baggage or learning to communicate effectively, this episode is packed with insights to strengthen your marriage.
(00:00) Check out why couples argue and fight in the notes
(01:05) Ten ways to find more harmony in your marriage with this podcast
(01:39) Make a list of the things you actually like about your spouse
(02:34) Couples don't get married until they're 27 and 29 these days
(03:22) I want you to think about your childhood. Remember the hardships the most
(04:49) If you're having challenges in your marriage, recognize it. Turn on your positive attitude
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage?
Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
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Have you ever been given a second chance? What did that mean to you?
Connie Durham dives into the profound impact of second chances on relationships in this heartfelt episode. Reflecting on personal experiences and drawing inspiration from two compelling movies, Connie explores how forgiveness and understanding can transform lives and marriages.
Could it be that simple misunderstandings and differences in how you and your spouse SEE life, are causing division? Love to chat!
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Honestly procrastination drains the energy out of me way too often, putting me in defense mode. I don't like it! Seems like everyday I am striving, trying, wishing, wanting to be proactive, accomplished, successful, and balanced.
Today, Connie dives deep into the power of habits and how they shape our lives and marriages. If you've ever struggled with feeling like you don't measure up, this episode is for you. Connie shares personal stories, practical advice, and actionable steps to help you move from feeling reactive to being proactive in your marriage and life.
Connie Durham - Cultivating connection, understanding & lasting Love for an Extraordinary Marriage. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com
🎙 Episode Highlights
(00:00) Introduction: The impact of emotions on daily life and marriage
(02:45) Real-life stories and overcoming marriage pitfalls
(04:30) Connie shares her personal struggles with self-worth
(07:15) The importance of being proactive rather than reactive
(09:50) The story of the dead tree and the consequences of procrastination
(14:30) How habits shape our behavior and outcomes
(17:20) The role of environment and upbringing in forming habits
(20:15) Practical steps to develop positive habits in marriage
(25:00) The power of saying "yes" and "no" with intention
(30:10) Strategies for eliminating negative thoughts and fostering positive ones
(35:45) The seven steps to embrace a better life and marriage
(40:30) The significance of empathy, forgiveness, and joyfulness
(45:00) Connie's closing thoughts and call to action
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage?
Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
#Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast #Habits #Proactivity #SelfWorth #ConnieDurham
It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!
EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564
FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you
EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139
Let me help you move past the misunderstandings that are causing a disconnect in your marriage. https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session
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Connie and Lisa discuss the importance of getting to know your spouse in what they need, how they think, and how we should cut each other some slack!
Hi I'm Connie Durham and I just celebrated my 45th wedding anniversary in June!
Helping couples and families thrive is my #1 passion. I believe everyone can cultivate a better connection, understanding, and lasting love through the study of how we all THINK - ACT - and RESPOND differently. Your preferences in life are determined by past experiences and your God given personality style. FIND MORE AT: https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com
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Lisa Roers, from the Sunshine Café Podcast:
Podcast Host | Christian Encourager | Fasting Coach | Executive Coach | Motivation Multiplier
Graduating with honors, Lisa got her degrees in Business Management, Speech Communications, and International Business. She worked in the corporate world in sales and then as an Executive Coach for 26 years until her health took an unexpected turn. In 2017, Lisa was hit with an auto-immune disease which eventually escalated to the point where she was unable to walk!
After seeing more than 30 doctors in multiple specializations, without any concrete diagnosis or clear path for healing, Lisa leaned into her faith and embraced being her own self-advocate (with God), and has effectively reclaimed her complete health. Today, Lisa is symptom free and has turned her passions to coaching and encouraging others as they navigate their own journey. Lisa is a Certified Coach, Podcaster, a keynote speaker, a disciple of Jesus, a wife, a mom, and a professional musician. Find more about Lisa - https://www.lisaroers.com/
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It's Day 5 and everything starts with YOU. Remember the crazy cycle where rubbing each other wrong begins to go round and round and where it stops, nobody knows? What do you NOT know about your spouse that could be causing gaps in your communication? Getting an A+ in relationships......takes work. What's next?
Grab my FREE Extraordinary Marriage Starter Kit
Conversation Starts7 Powerful Practices All 5 Days of Honey Listen UpMasterclass - How to Shower your Spouse with Extraordinary Confidence & LoveGet on the right track and renew your connection with your spouse.
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Consider "Communication Secrets for Marriage"
- It will change how you see yourself and your spouse.
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Day 4 - It's not personal but it's important to every relationship. Connecting through conversation. Some need it and some can do without it. Find out why.
Grab my FREE Extraordinary Marriage Starter Kit
Conversation Starts7 Powerful Practices All 5 Days of Honey Listen UpMasterclass - How to Shower your Spouse with Extraordinary Confidence & LoveGet on the right track and renew your connection with your spouse.
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Day 3 - The battle is half won when you use this daily concept, bit it will be up to you to lead the way.
Grab my FREE Extraordinary Marriage Starter Kit
Conversation Starts7 Powerful Practices All 5 Days of Honey Listen UpMasterclass - How to Shower your Spouse with Extraordinary Confidence & LoveGet on the right track and renew your connection with your spouse.
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Day 2 - Assessing the Best Time, to talk. We're all on the run and rarely stop! Make note of today's message and put it to use.
Grab my FREE Extraordinary Marriage Starter Kit
Conversation Starts7 Powerful Practices All 5 Days of Honey Listen UpMasterclass - How to Shower your Spouse with Extraordinary Confidence & LoveGet on the right track and renew your connection with your spouse.
https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2148403428
https://theextraordinarymarriage.com
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Day 1 - Is he a talker or a listener? Getting your husband to listen is not going to happen overnight. It's a process and it begins... not where you think it will.
Grab my FREE Extraordinary Marriage Starter Kit
Conversation Starters7 Powerful Practices All 5 Days of Honey Listen UpMasterclass - How to Shower your Spouse with Extraordinary Confidence & LoveGet on the right track and renew your connection with your spouse.
https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2148403428
https://theextraordinarymarriage.com
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Would you like to know how to keep your love life headed in the right direction?
Respect the differences between you and your spouse. This episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast dives deep into the importance of high standards in every aspect of life, especially in your marriage. Host Connie Durham shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to elevate your relationship by appreciating your partner's unique strengths and abilities.
Discover real-life stories and actionable steps to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters. Whether it's about setting high standards in your home, your children's education, or your relationship, Connie emphasizes the significance of maintaining and raising these standards for a fulfilling life.
Connie Durham - Cultivating connection, understanding & lasting love for an Extraordinary Marriage. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com
FREE Gift from Connie -
A Recipe for a Happy Healthy Marriage
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🎙 Episode Highlights
(00:00) Introduction: Respecting differences in marriage
(01:10) The importance of high standards in various aspects of life
(04:20) Personal stories: From refrigerators to Klondike bars
(10:15) The impact of lowered standards on society
(15:00) The role of unions, news, and organizations
(20:30) The Boy Scouts and the slow fade of standards
(25:45) How to raise your personal and marital standards
(30:20) Three steps to elevate your marriage
(35:00) The significance of respect in relationships
(40:10) Final thoughts: Treat others the way you want to be treated
(45:00) How to work with Connie for personal relationship coaching
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage?
Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
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Today, Connie sits down with the dynamic Erin Dimon, a fitness expert turned business consultant, to explore the intersections of marriage, personal growth, and fitness. 🌟
Erin shares the challenges of divorce, how we learn from it, and get it right the 2nd time around.
Host Connie Durham - Cultivating connection, understanding & lasting Love for an Extraordinary Marriage. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com
FREE Gift from Connie -
A Recipe for a Happy Healthy Marriage
https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/pl/2147728355
🎙 Episode Highlights
(00:00) What causes a divorce, and how do you avoid it
(00:53) Erin Dimon helps fitness professionals start and scale their online fitness businesses
(02:57) We have all kinds of people here on the extraordinary marriage
(03:41) Aaron, what caused your divorce and now you're remarried
(05:58) Erin, what kind of person did you marry?
(08:56) Jordan and I have been married for four years now
(11:07) What you're describing is literally, personality styles. Those are communication styles
(14:35) Jordan is the true visionary, and I'm more the team leader
(17:36) Jordan and I have one son, Jackson, who is 23 months old
(20:24) There are two things that make a difference in marriages, Erin says
(24:33) How does splitting parents affect kids when parents are getting along
(26:48) Saran says how to approach diet and fitness is all about how you approach it
(29:34) Have goals in your life. A lot of issues that I see with people are beating themselves up
(31:53) Aarondimond Fitness helps fitness professionals start and scale online businesses
(34:39) Connie Durham: I think podcasting is great for personal growth
Whether you're navigating the complexities of a blended family, seeking to improve your fitness, or looking for inspiration to strengthen your marriage, this episode offers invaluable insights.
Erin Dimond is the CEO and founder of Impact Fitness Coaching Academy. Her life mission is to make people believe in themselves. She grew up lower/middle class in a community where the average home value was 60K.
Everyone she knew worked paycheck to paycheck and barely got by. She vividly remembers meeting the first person who didn't hate their job when she was 24 years old which was a turning point for her mindset.
After doing the corporate soul-sucking cubicle grind for 3 years she got offered a job to work at a fitness studio. After receiving her first paycheck doing something that she was passionate about the rest was history. She turned her love for fitness into a 7 figure Online Fitness Coaching business and now she helps other fitness enthusiasts and professionals do the same.
To date, they've helped 3000+ health and fitness professionals start and scale Online coaching businesses through their Academy. Outside of business, she's a newish mom to a 2 year old.
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Unlock the Secrets to a Harmonious Marriage with Connie Durham!
Have you ever faced a sudden crisis, like a broken refrigerator, a car that won't start, or a storm causing chaos in your home? We rush to fix these problems, but why do we hesitate when it comes to fixing our most important relationship—our marriage?
In this insightful episode of The Extraordinary Marriage, Connie Durham dives deep into the three core reasons why couples struggle to see eye to eye. Drawing from her 40 years of marriage and extensive experience in human behavior, Connie offers practical advice and real-life stories to help you find harmony and rekindle the love in your marriage.
Connie Durham The Relationship Transformer www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast
EPS 36 Show Notes for the free worksheet.
🌟 Episode Highlights
(00:00) Introduction: The urgency of fixing what's broken in our lives
(02:35) Connie shares a free workshop: Three reasons why couples have trouble seeing eye to eye
(05:00) The impact of past hurts, family differences, and wrong choices on your marriage
(10:20) Real-life story: From Prince Charming to everyday turmoil
(15:45) The importance of understanding different personality styles
(20:30) Emotional outbursts and their hidden causes
(25:15) How frustration and anger manifest in different ways
(30:00) The significance of communication and mutual appreciation
(35:10) Self-assessment: Rate your relationship on key aspects
(40:25) The baggage we bring into marriage and its impact
(45:50) The four personality styles and how they affect your relationship
(50:35) The role of sarcasm, poor listening, and the "turtle effect" in marital stress
(55:00) The journey from recognizing problems to resolving them
(60:15) The importance of setting realistic expectations
(65:00) Connie's personal journey and her passion for helping couples
(70:30) How to get a fresh insight into your marriage challenges
(75:00) Closing thoughts: The power of positive thinking and taking action
🌟 Ready to transform your marriage?
Join Connie for a free 40-minute Fresh Insights session to uncover the challenges in your marriage and find actionable solutions. Visit https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/fresh-insights-free-session to schedule your session today.
Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.
#Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #Communication #Love #theextraordinarymarriage #Podcast #HarmonyInMarriage #MarriageHelp #ConnieDurham
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Football, Fatherhood, and real family conversation. Join Connie as she sits down with her sons, Jeremy and Josh, for an intimate and lively discussion on the values, memories, and lessons learned from their father.
In this episode, we explore the challenges and joys of being a dad, the impact of father figures, and the essential role fathers play in shaping their children's lives. From the camaraderie of Georgia football to the crucial life skills passed down from father to son, this conversation is a heartfelt tribute to fatherhood.
(00:00) Discover real life stories and a path to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters
(01:28) Welcome to Georgia football and fatherhood podcast with Jeremy and Josh
(06:01) As far as things I picked up from our dad, um
(07:02) What are three things that y'all have learned from your dad
(09:42) Josh: Treat other people well no matter how they're treating you
(11:26) You learned how to work on cars from your dad, right
(13:28) Sometimes hard memories stick with us better than wonderful memories, Jeremy says
(18:24) What kind of problems do kids have when they have no father
(23:16) If you don't have a mom and a dad in your household, problems arise
(24:36) Why do some dads dip out? It's because it's hard
(26:26) Jeremy: Why do men sometimes not step up to the plate
(28:14) What are the responsibility of fathers in the household today
(34:28) What do men need from their family besides love and support
(37:59) Josh: You earn respect by being a good father and instilling values
(42:26) Everybody has a superpower, something that they're really good at
(46:38) Connie Durham: Thank you guys for being on the extraordinary marriage podcast
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In this heartfelt episode of "The Extraordinary Marriage," Jeff & Connie explore the unique challenges and valuable lessons learned from a life shaped by the love, structure, and the discipline of a military upbringing. 💂♂️
(00:00) It seems like it works out fine. Come closer. No, we're the same height
(01:12) Today we're looking at Jeff's life growing up in the military (03:24) Jeff: My dad was a marine. He joined the marines in 1953
(07:35) My dad went to Vietnam in 67 and 1967 and came home in 69
(08:52) So often we forget about the reality of the military
(09:35) With your dad gone. How did that affect you and your brothers
(11:20) Your dad was deployed a lot, and how did that affect your parents
(14:23) As a military kid, you had to move a lot
(19:25) Your dad was deployed to Vietnam and your mom worked at a church
(25:05) High standards, high values, reaching for something more make a difference in marriage
(31:41) Connie Durham: Some military families don't get the attention they need
(04:15) Jeff shares insights into his father's role as a Master Gunnery Sergeant in the Marines
(09:30) The silent burden of a family during deployment and the strength found in unity (
14:50) The influence of frequent relocations on friendships and adapting to change
(19:20) The resilience and support within the family dynamic during a parent's absence
(24:05) Strategies for reintegration and maintaining a strong marriage post-deployment
(29:00) Connie offers practical advice for raising standards and respect in marriage
(33:45) A special message of gratitude to military families and first responders
(36:50) Anticipation for future episodes tackling common marital challenges
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