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  • In this episode, I sit down with Adam Brawer—a real estate agent who blends luxury listings with storytelling, spirituality, and self-work. Adam shares how his background in the entertainment industry shaped his approach to real estate, why he credits Dr. Joe Dispenza meditations with fueling his success, and how breathwork, gratitude, and plant medicine transformed both his mindset and relationships.

    We talk about the evolution of masculine and feminine energy in today’s culture, the lasting impact of the #MeToo movement, and what it means to run a business that’s deeply aligned with intuition and purpose.

    Adam’s story is a powerful reminder that success doesn’t require hustle—it requires self-belief.

    Chapters |
    00:00 Introduction to Adam Brower and His Unique Approach to Real Estate

    02:34 Reality TV and the Real Estate Industry

    05:11 Adam's Journey from Film to Real Estate

    08:04 The Impact of the Me Too Movement on the Film Industry

    10:54 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Energy in Today's Society

    23:22 The Double Standard of Reverence

    25:22 Navigating Modern Relationships

    26:38 Crisis and Transformation in Paris

    30:27 Pivoting to Real Estate

    33:23 Intuition and Success

    41:01 Spiritual Practices in Business

    49:52 The Journey of Self-Discovery

    52:00 The Unexpected Journey to Manifestation

    53:47 Exploring Plant Medicine and Its Impact

    01:04:09 The Role of Intention in Personal Growth

    01:08:38 Building a Successful Business Through Self-Work

    01:15:31 The Power of Self-Belief


    Guest Resources |
    https://adambrawerestates.com/
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    #RealEstateSuccess #SpiritualRealEstate #DrJoeDispenza #Breathwork #MasculineAndFeminine #PlantMedicine #AyahuascaHealing #SelfBelief #Manifestation #DailyRituals #ModernMasculinity #ConsciousBusiness #IntuitiveLeadership

  • In this episode of Monday Muse, I unpack the maddening experience of imposter syndrome—why brilliant, capable humans still feel like frauds, even when they’re killing it on paper.

    We explore the four core reasons this happens:

    A disconnect between who you are and who you think you have to beA nervous system wired for struggle instead of safetyRelying on intellect instead of inner wisdomOutsourcing self-worth to achievement and validation

    I’ll walk you through practical tools to stop performing and start being, so you can access more confidence, authenticity, and grounded presence—no more waiting to feel “ready.”

    If you’ve ever wondered, “Why do I feel like a fraud even when I’m doing great?”—this one’s for you.

    Chapters |
    00:00 Understanding Imposter Syndrome

    02:14 The Role of Performance vs. Authenticity

    04:23 Nervous System and Safety

    07:24 Intuition vs. Intellect

    09:41 Owning Your Worth

    12:05 Aligning with Inner Authority


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  • Ever wonder what it would be like to live in harmony with the earth, not just occasionally escape to it?


    In this episode of The Intuition Incubator, I sit down with two extraordinary guides and healers I met in Peru—keepers of ancient wisdom who walk the line between this world and the sacred. Together, we explore the heart of Inca philosophy: a worldview rooted in reciprocity, reverence for nature, and deep awareness.

    We talk about:
    🌿 How the Incas saw duality—not as a battle between good and evil—but as balance
    🌀 The power of questioning what you’ve been taught to believe
    🌄 What Incan architecture reveals about the soul of a civilization
    ✨ And why reclaiming feminine and masculine balance is key to healing today’s world

    This conversation is a reminder that the answers we seek are often encoded in the earth beneath our feet—and in the language of the soul we’ve forgotten how to speak.

    🎧 Listen in and reawaken something ancient within you.

    Chapters |

    00:00 Exploring Inca Wisdom and Intuition

    04:09 The Inca Worldview and Nature's Respect

    09:21 Spirituality and the Concept of God in Inca Culture

    12:30 Language and Communication in Inca Society

    16:57 The Power of Words and Consciousness

    20:09 Personal Journeys: Healing and Spiritual Awakening

    26:43 Understanding the Non-Physical Realm

    30:20 The Nature of Good and Evil in Inca Beliefs

    33:48 The Impact of Personal Actions on Society

    36:29 Understanding Good and Bad: A Cultural Perspective

    38:14 Exploring Different Truths: Veritas, Ateleia, and Emuna

    40:15 The Connection Between Self and Nature

    43:37 Cultural Perspectives on Community and Individualism

    46:18 The Role of Ancient Wisdom in Modern Society

    49:17 The Journey to Love: Awareness, Forgiveness, and Gratitude

    54:01 Living in the Present: The Nature of Existence

    01:01:21 Inca Architecture and Nature's Influence

    01:03:57 Engineering Marvels of the Incas

    01:06:30 Theories on Inca Construction Techniques

    01:09:49 Cultural Myths and Legends of the Incas

    01:14:54 Energy, Masculine and Feminine Principles

    01:21:31 The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energy

    01:26:27 Belief in Oneself and Questioning Reality

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    #IncaWisdom #SacredBalance #AwakenedLeadership #IntuitionIncubator #DivineFeminine #DivineMasculine #NatureAsTeacher #AncientFuture #SpiritualLeadership #AndeanCosmology

  • Success without satisfaction? You’re not alone.

    In this Monday Muse, Abby Havermann dives into why external success often leaves us feeling disconnected and unfulfilled—even when we’ve “made it.” If you’ve ever thought, “Why doesn’t this feel the way I thought it would?”—this one’s for you.

    We explore:

    The emptiness behind traditional successHow to define authentic success for yourselfThe impact of unconscious motivation and people-pleasingWhy connection, purpose, and mindfulness matter more than hustleHow to align with your inner wisdom and feel truly fulfilled

    This episode is a reset button for high achievers who are ready to succeed on their own terms—without burnout, self-betrayal, or chasing approval.

    🎧 Tune in and start redefining what real success feels like.

    Chapters|

    00:00 The Paradox of Success

    00:37 Understanding the Unconscious Mind

    01:49 Defining Your Own Success

    04:07 Ego vs. Soul: The True Drivers of Success

    06:26 Embodying Success: The Importance of Presence

    08:15 The Mask of Success: Authenticity Matters

    08:38 Reconnecting with Your Why

    09:45 The Cost of Achievement: Connection vs. Loneliness

    12:11 Embodying Success: Practical Steps


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    #SuccessWithoutBurnout #AuthenticSuccess #Mindfulness #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalWellbeing #Motivation #InnerWisdom #Fulfillment #ConsciousLeadership #RedefiningSuccess #Intuition #TrueSuccess #LifePurpose #OverachieverHealing

  • Ever wondered why your intuition feels fuzzy—or like it’s gone missing altogether? In this episode, Abby Havermann sits down with Dr. Helane Wahbeh, Director of Research at the Institute of Noetic Sciences, to explore what actually blocks intuition from a scientific perspective.

    They dive into the concept of the noetic signature—your unique way of receiving inner wisdom—and how things like trauma, overthinking, and empathic overwhelm can cloud your intuitive clarity.

    Dr. Wahbeh shares groundbreaking research on mindfulness, PTSD, and the science of channeling, making the mystical more practical (and measurable). If you’ve ever questioned your inner voice or wondered whether you're actually intuitive… this one’s for you.

    Chapters |

    00:00 Exploring Inner Wisdom and Noetic Science

    06:52 Understanding the Noetic Signature

    14:06 The Science of Channeling and Its Challenges

    22:37 Mindfulness and PTSD: Transforming Relationships with Symptoms

    28:15 Channeling: A Spectrum of Experiences

    34:24 The Commonality of Channeling Experiences

    42:28 Understanding Empathy and Intuition

    50:50 The Power of Belief in Channeling

    53:52 Clearing Egoic Layers for Channeling

    01:00:45 Recognizing Channeling Experiences

    01:03:57 The Source of Channeling

    01:06:43 Discernment in Channeling

    01:11:59 Empowerment Through Self-Awareness

    01:17:23 Introduction to Intuition and Support

    01:17:23 Engagement and Community Building

    Guest Resources |

    Website: https://noetic.org/

    Book: The Science of Channeling

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    #intuition, #noeticsciences, #channeling, #mindfulness, #PTSD, #empath, #belief, #energy, #innerwisdom, #scientificinquiry

  • Feel stuck in your head? Overthinking everything? You’re not broken—your mind’s just doing its job.

    In this episode of The Intuition Incubator, Abby Havermann breaks down the root causes of overthinking and why it feels so hard to stop the mental spiral. She explains how the brain’s fear-based wiring is designed to “solve” problems that don’t always exist—and how that leads to anxiety, analysis paralysis, and emotional burnout.

    You’ll learn:
    ✔️ Why your thoughts feel so real (but often aren’t)
    ✔️ How to stop identifying with every thought that crosses your mind
    ✔️ Tools to ground yourself in the body and reclaim peace
    ✔️ The secret to rewiring your attention and settling your nervous system

    If you’re tired of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like your brain won’t shut up—this is for you.

    Chapters
    00:00 Understanding Overthinking

    02:53 The Nature of the Mind

    05:47 The Problems with Overthinking

    11:58 Strategies to Combat Overthinking


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    #overthinking #howtostopoverthinking #anxietysupport #mindsetshift #mentalhealthtools #nervoussystemregulation #groundingtechniques #selfawareness #abigailhavermann #intuitionincubator #thoughtwork #innerpeace #mindfulnesspractice #emotionalresilience #selfregulation #innercalm #personaldevelopmentpodcast

  • Struggling to manifest what you want—no matter how hard you try? It might not be your mindset... it could be your emotions.

    In this inspiring episode of The Intuition Incubator, I sit down with Andy Dooley—manifestation coach, spiritual teacher, and emotional alignment expert—to explore how emotional energy, intuition, and vibrational frequency are the true forces behind manifestation success.

    We dive into:

    The power of intuitive manifestationWhy positive emotion is more powerful than positive thinkingHow to shift your vibration when you feel stuck or blockedWhy your emotional guidance system is your greatest superpowerHow conscious creation ties into the collective awakeningPractical tools to raise your frequency and align with your desires

    Whether you're calling in love, money, purpose, or peace—this episode offers the law of attraction tools and mindset shifts to help you manifest from a place of authenticity and power.

    Chapters |

    00:00 Introduction to Manifestation and Intuition

    03:12 The Power of Intuition in Manifestation

    06:02 Emotions and Their Role in Manifestation

    08:53 The Importance of Gratitude and State of Being

    11:55 Bridging the Gap: Transition Stories

    14:55 Focus: The Key to Manifestation

    18:06 Navigating Beliefs and Internal Drama

    20:49 Creating a Positive Energy Shift

    24:10 The Ripple Effect of Collective Consciousness

    32:06 Raising Collective Vibration Through Presence

    34:04 Choosing Bliss Over Bitching

    35:54 The Power of Focus and Alignment

    41:58 Transforming Conditions Through Inner Change

    45:30 Healing the World by Healing Ourselves

    48:02 The Sacred Journey of Human Emotions

    50:20 Manifesting Change and Taking Responsibility

    53:13 Intuition as a Link to Higher Self

    57:20 Embracing the Great Awakening


    Guest Resources |

    andydooley.com

    eBook: Five Mistakes Manifestors Make Trying to Manifest Success…And How to Fix Them!

    Manifestor’s Cafe
    Free Quiz https://andydooleymanifest.scoreapp.com/

    tut.com

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    #Manifestation #LawOfAttraction #EmotionalAlignment #Intuition #AndyDooley #IntuitionIncubator #VibrationalFrequency #SpiritualGrowth #EnergyHealing #EmotionalHealing #ManifestationCoach #HowToManifest #RaiseYourVibration #MindsetShift #ConsciousLiving

  • Ever replayed a moment in your head and cringed? That comment you made... the thing you didn’t say… the way you showed up (or didn’t)? In this Monday Muse, Abby dives into the messy, very human habit of self-doubt and the sneaky ways our inner critic keeps us disconnected from who we actually are.

    Through breath work, mindfulness, and some truth bombs, she explores how shame and comparison steal our energy—and how to get it back. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to stop outsourcing your power, reconnect to your authenticity, and remember the you that’s always been there underneath the noise.

    ✨ This one’s for anyone tired of being at war with themselves.

    🎧 Listen in to reclaim your self-trust, self-worth, and sacred weirdness.

    Chapters

    00:00 The Inner Critic: Understanding Self-Doubt

    03:09 Forgetting Our Power: The Ego's Role

    05:55 The Nature of Shame and Self-Identity

    09:11 The Comparison Trap: Finding Authenticity

    13:04 What does it mean to remember yourself?

    15:17 Embracing Our Unique Journey

    17:55 The Importance of Authentic Expression

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    #selfdoubt #innercritic #authenticity #mindfulness #selfawareness #breathwork #comparisontrap #emotionalhealing #intuition #nervoussystemregulation #rememberwhoyouare #shamehealing

  • In this episode, Wyatt shares his journey from teenage anxiety and self-doubt to emotional healing and inner peace through mindfulness and meditation. He opens up about the challenges of transitioning to college and how shifting his mindset helped him overcome the victim mentality and reclaim his power. Together, we explore how intuition, self-worth, and emotional regulation play a key role in navigating life’s ups and downs—especially for young adults and parents. If you're on a path of personal growth, battling anxiety, or looking for practical tools to shift your mindset, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and empowered.

    00:00 Navigating Teenage Turmoil

    03:04 The Power of Internal Change

    05:52 The Seed of Mindfulness

    08:46 The Journey of Self-Discovery

    11:44 Manifesting New Connections

    14:54 Creating Your Reality

    17:46 Understanding Victimhood

    24:52 Transforming Victimhood into Empowerment

    27:37 Understanding Worthiness and Self-Value

    32:11 Intuition and Decision-Making

    37:08 The Journey of Parenting and Self-Forgiveness

    41:47 Balancing the Mystical and the Practical


    Guest Resources:

    Wyatt’s email - [email protected]


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    #mentalhealth #anxiety #socialanxiety #parenting #personalgrowth #mindfulness #meditation #intuition #empowerment #teenageanxiety

  • Ever feel paranoid that everyone’s watching you or judging your every move? In this episode, Abby breaks down the root of that everyday paranoia—the self-consciousness that makes us believe we’re under a spotlight when really, most people are focused on themselves. She shares personal stories and powerful insights on how to shift from fear and self-doubt to growth, self-acceptance, and modeling authentic courage—especially for our kids.

    👉 If you struggle with overthinking, paranoia, or people-pleasing, this episode is for you.

    Chapters

    00:00 The Paranoid Mindset: Feeling Watched

    02:31 What If You Shifted Your Focus?

    03:43 Here's how you ARE being watched

    05:34 Change Doesn't Happen Overnight

    08:55 Modeling Behavior: The Impact of Our Actions

    13:04 Embracing Imperfection: The Journey of Self-Discovery

    #paranoia #paranoid #selfdoubt #selfconscious #growthmindset #parentingwisdom #authenticity


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  • The content of this episode is for educational and informational purposes only. We are not promoting or encouraging the use of any illegal substances. The discussion reflects personal experiences and opinions, and is not intended as medical, therapeutic, or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified professional before making decisions regarding your health, safety, or participation in any ceremonial or plant medicine work. Use discretion and respect local laws and cultural traditions.

    Jo Ann Moore shares her incredible journey of transformation that began at the age of 75 when she first tried psychedelics. Raised in a rigid religious environment, Jo Ann's life took a dramatic turn after experiencing ayahuasca and later Bufo Alvarius, leading her to profound spiritual awakenings, a new love, and a mission to help others. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of inner exploration, healing trauma, and embracing life's possibilities at any age.


    Chapters |

    00:00 Introduction to Joanne's Journey

    03:25 Breaking Free from Rigid Beliefs

    06:25 The Transformative Power of Psychedelics

    09:19 Discovering Bufo Alvarius

    12:13 Experiencing Spiritual Awakening

    15:21 The Role of Ceremony in Healing

    18:02 Unlocking Hidden Abilities

    21:15 A New Love Story at 80

    24:06 Finding Love Through Past Lives

    32:24 Unexpected Connections: A Chance Encounter

    38:09 Reinventing Life: Love and New Beginnings

    40:20 Healing Through Bufo: A Journey of Transformation

    48:10 Embracing Death: A New Perspective

    54:13 The Power Within: Finding Your True Self


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    #psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #medicine #health #spirituality #lovestory #love #transformation #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing

  • In this episode, I’ll break down how unclear no’s and guilt-driven yes’s drain your energy, erode your relationships, and cause self-betrayal. You'll learn how to recognize when you're betraying yourself, how to set healthy boundaries with clarity and kindness, and how to make empowered choices that leave you feeling energized and connected — not exhausted and resentful.


    Whether you struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, or feeling guilty when you say no, this episode will give you practical tools to reclaim your energy and act in alignment with your true self.

    00:00 The Consequences of Half-Hearted Decisions
    02:23 The Importance of Integrity in Choices
    05:41 Going All In: Embracing Your Decisions
    08:19 Navigating Guilt and Resentment in Choices

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  • In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nick Brüss to explore the deep, transformative potential of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and psychedelic integration work. We talk about what it really means to connect with the younger parts of ourselves—the ones we’ve exiled, ignored, or tried to outgrow—and why healing doesn’t come from thinking our way out of pain, but from being present with it.

    Nick shares powerful insights on how intellectualizing can block true healing, the role intuition plays in both therapy and psychedelic experiences, and what integration actually looks like after expanded states of consciousness. We also dive into the neuroscience behind parts work, how to recognize when you're blended with a part, and what happens when those exiled parts finally feel seen.

    Highlights include:
    – The surprising role of intuition in clinical work
    – What “integration” means and why it’s non-negotiable after any breakthrough
    – Why over-intellectualizing your trauma might be your #1 block
    – How psychedelic therapy complements IFS for deeper transformation
    – Simple practices for identifying and unblending from younger parts
    – What true self-awareness feels like—not just what it looks like

    This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck in their head, disconnected from their body, or unsure how to turn an insight into lasting change.


    Key Highlights |

    00:00 Introduction to Dr. Nick Brüss and His Work
    02:53 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy
    05:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery
    09:01 Understanding Parts and Their Roles
    12:03 Curiosity and Self-Exploration in Therapy
    14:58 The Connection Between Parts and Intuition
    17:59 Navigating Emotions and Parts in Relationships
    20:59 Recognizing and Engaging with Younger Parts
    24:05 The Role of Somatic Awareness in Therapy
    26:32 Transitioning from Psychotherapy to Coaching
    26:32 The Importance of Attention in Self-Discovery
    29:10 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy
    31:52 The Importance of Feeling Over Intellectualizing
    34:47 Childhood Experiences and Their Impact
    39:40 Avoidance and Numbing Mechanisms
    43:33 Connecting with Our Inner Parts
    46:49 Transforming Relationships Through Self-Awareness
    51:59 Personal Growth and New Beginnings
    56:06 The Power of Psychedelics in Healing
    56:35 Integration: The Key to Lasting Change
    57:50 Understanding the Process of Growth
    58:54 The Journey of Self-Discovery
    01:01:29 Navigating Patterns and Habits
    01:05:25 The Role of Psychedelics in Therapy
    01:07:10 Mechanisms of Psychedelics: How They Work
    01:12:02 The Importance of Integration Post-Experience
    01:13:25 FDA and the Future of Psychedelic Therapy
    01:20:11 The Healing Potential of Psychedelics
    01:23:04 Openness and Connection in Healing
    01:24:14 The Practice of Freedom and Self-Connection

    Guest Resources |

    @drnickbruss

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-bruss/

    apracticeoffreedom.com

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    #psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #therapy #medicine #health #internalfamilysystems #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing #integration #ptsd

  • Struggling to let go of guilt? In this episode of Monday Muse, I dive into the power of self-forgiveness—why it’s essential for your mental and physical health, how it affects your relationships, and why it has to come before forgiving others. If you're ready to stop carrying the weight of past mistakes and start moving forward with clarity, compassion, and confidence, this one's for you.

    00:00 The Struggle of Self-Forgiveness

    04:24 First Forgiveness, Then Gratitude, Then Love

    05:49 Self-Forgiveness Is The Only Forgiveness Needed

    14:05 Find Your Saboteurs with this free offer

    14:34 Steps to Forgive Yourself


    👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!):
    https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries

    WORK WITH ME:

    👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage

    👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast

    👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking

    #SelfForgiveness #EmotionalIntelligence #Healing #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Resilience #Forgiveness #MondayMuse

  • Abby and Joel Schafer delve into the depths of Toltec shamanism, exploring its principles, practices, and the transformative power of dreams. Joel shares his personal journey into shamanism, the significance of recapitulation, and how understanding death can lead to a more meaningful life. They discuss the deceptions present in the world, the importance of intuition, and the necessity of self-love in personal empowerment. The dialogue emphasizes the interconnectedness of all experiences and the potential for growth through challenges.

    Chapters:
    00:00 Introduction to Toltec Shamanism

    02:33 The Journey of a Shaman

    05:03 Understanding the Dreaming Arts

    07:29 The Nature of Consciousness and Death

    10:11 Breaking Free from Materialism

    12:35 The Mirror of Self-Reflection

    15:14 Navigating Challenges and Triggers

    17:37 The Two Minds: Natural vs. Foreign

    20:04 Integrating Spirituality with Daily Life

    22:40 Exploring the Lower Chakras

    25:17 The Importance of Shadow Work

    28:07 Understanding Impeccability vs. Discipline

    29:46 The Epidemic of Self-Judgment

    31:08 The Complexity of Self-Deception

    32:04 Waking Up to Deceptions

    34:12 The Nature of Reality and Control

    35:51 The Role of Fear and Courage

    39:05 Embracing Death as an Advisor

    41:32 The Beauty and Terror of Existence

    43:47 The Challenge of Transformation

    47:11 Intuition and the Power of Feeling

    50:11 The Journey of Self-Discovery


    Guest Resources:

    https://youtube.com/@sunwolf1111
    https://www.facebook.com/joel.schafer.56
    https://www.instagram.com/joel.schafer
    https://x.com/joelschafer2


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    #Toltecshamanism #personalempowerment #dreaming #recapitulation #consciousness #self-love #spiritualgrowth #intuition #death #perception

  • How often do we think we’re being logical… when really, we’re just emotionally hijacked? Feeling exhausted and alone all the time isn't good for anyone's health. Learn how to regulate your emotions and choose serenity first, in this episode of the Monday Muse.

    You’ll learn:
    🧠 Why emotional overload disrupts your ability to make wise decisions
    🧘‍♀️ How serenity (not more control) is the secret to reclaiming your power
    🔄 How emotional patterns mimic addiction and what to do about it
    🫀 Why your relationships, health, and choices are all impacted by your emotional state
    🧭 Simple, practical tools to shift into self-awareness and grow from your experiences

    00:00 What to do when you’re emotionally hijacked
    01:20 When I lost my mind step-parenting
    02:57: We are addicted to our emotions
    03:50:The slogan that will change your life
    05:38: The Benefits of This Practice
    07:26: An Exercise to Practice for Yourself

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    👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage

    👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast

    👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking

    #emotionalintelligence #emotionalregulation #serenity #decisionmaking #neuroscience #addiction #relationships #selfawareness #clarity #personalgrowth #serenitynow

  • In this episode of The Intuition Incubator, I sit down with Steven Twohig—a master of shadow-informed depth work—to explore why we keep living out the same patterns on repeat (ugh, right?). We unpack how childhood experiences and internal constructs quietly drive our choices, our relationships, and even how we see the world.

    Steven brings a grounded, no-fluff approach to shadow work, sharing practical ways to meet the parts of ourselves we’ve been avoiding—and why doing so is the key to actual, lasting transformation. We talk needs, perceptions, healing, and the hard stuff, all with the goal of helping you reconnect with your intuition and live from the inside out. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a loop you can’t quite name, this one’s for you.

    Chapters |

    00:00 What you'll learn in this podcast

    01:56 Stephen's Journey and the Concept of Sacred Fears

    04:39 Are You Manifesting Your Own Struggles?

    07:32 The Velocity of Change and Re-evaluation

    11:05 Childhood Experiences and Ancestral Trauma

    17:00 The Role of Relationships in Reinforcing Patterns

    23:10 Turning Within: The Path to Change

    29:45 Understanding Personal Responsibility in Relationships

    34:29 Cognitive Loops and Shadow Work

    42:45 The Four Rules of Shadow Work

    48:39 The Nature of Shadow and Intuition

    53:28 Embracing Our Creative Power

    Guest Resources |
    Steve's Book - Turning Within: Reclaiming Your Soul From Shadow
    https://www.amazon.com/Turning-Within-Reclaiming-Your-Shadow/dp/B0D4C6SPYK

    https://www.instagram.com/steventwohig/?hl=en

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/steventwohig/

    https://masteringchange.com/

    https://www.evolvingmindproject.org/

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    #patterns #relationships #inner child #shadow work #personal growth #emotional healing #self-awareness #intuition #cognitive biases #depth work

  • What if generosity was your greatest leadership tool? In this episode, I chat with Shannon Cassidy, founder and CEO of Bridge Between, about how generosity can transform leadership and workplace culture—not in some fluffy way, but in real, practical, game-changing ways.

    We dig into how being generous with your feedback, your presence, and your curiosity can create deeper connection and more effective teams. If you're ready to lead with heart and results, this conversation is your permission slip.

    00:00 Introduction to Generosity in Leadership
    02:42 Shannon's Journey to Entrepreneurship
    05:35 The Importance of Bridging Gaps
    08:27 Understanding Strengths and Weaknesses
    11:42 The Role of Generosity in Personal and Professional Growth
    14:28 Exploring the Concept of Return on Generosity
    17:29 Practical Applications of Generosity in Leadership
    20:28 Feedback as a Generous Act
    23:31 The Impact of Generosity on Workplace Culture
    29:49 Navigating Career Transitions
    31:40 The Power of Generosity
    32:40 Mindfulness and Response
    38:56 Grounding in Gratitude
    44:31 Curiosity as a Tool for Connection

    Guest Resources |
    www.bridgebetween.com
    https://www.youtube.com/@ShannonCassidybb

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    #generosity #leadership #generousleadership #coaching #workplaceculture #selfdiscovery #feedback #kindness #curiosity #gratitude #personalgrowth #returnongenerosity #intuitionincubator

  • What happens when your success stops feeling like success? When the title, the recognition, the open doors... no longer match what your inner knowing is whispering (or screaming)?


    In this episode, I talk with Matthew Ellsworth, Executive Director of the Association of Washington Public Hospital Districts. He’s worn a lot of hats — political advisor, campaign strategist, nonprofit board member, credit union leader — and yet, the thread that runs through it all is curiosity.

    We talk about what it really means to lead — especially from the second seat — and how hard it can be to pivot when you’ve invested years (or decades) in an identity that no longer fits.


    We also get into:
    💡 How to lead through intuition (not ego)
    ⚡ Why energy management is more powerful than time management
    🌱 What stress, joy, and service have in common
    🚪 And the myth of “loyalty” in the workplace


    If you’ve ever been afraid to take the leap, question the path you’re on, or step into a new version of yourself — this one’s for you.

    🧠✨ Because leadership isn’t just about what you do. It’s about who you are when no one’s watching.

    🔗 Resources & Links
    🔹 Learn more about Matthew: www.linkedin.com/in/matthewgellsworth

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  • In this episode, learn how an NFL star turned into a Broadway legend and mastered both worlds with authenticity and determination. Bo goes where few dare, discussing the importance of our predatory nature, the transformative power of storytelling, and the value (think $$) of trusting one's intuition. Bo provides practical tips for effective storytelling and encourages listeners to embrace their unique paths and struggles.

    You'll hear:

    Why we should embrace our predator tendencies rather than repel themHow being more of YOU is what the world needsWhy you should be paid well for your servicesTips on how to bring compelling storytelling in to grow your business

    How can you bring more of YOU to the world?


    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction to Bo Eason's Journey

    01:39 The Player vs. Fan Mentality

    04:13 Trusting Your Intuition

    06:53 Authenticity in Storytelling

    09:24 The Nature of Humans as Predators

    12:11 Engaging with Instincts and Fear

    21:44 Trust Your Animalistic Instinct

    21:45 Bo Takes A Pulse on The Culture Every Day

    23:33 Understanding Your Value

    27:19 What Authenticity In Leadership Really Is

    30:41 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Insecurity

    33:16 How Bo Helps People Get Out of Their Own Way

    43:30 Engaging Through Storytelling

    🔗 Resources & Links
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/boeasonofficial

    https://www.facebook.com/boeasonofficial/

    https://www.instagram.com/boeason21/

    https://www.youtube.com/user/mrboeason
    http://BoEason.com

    Text GUIDE to number 323-310-5504 to get your free Story Guide

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