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  • How do we form our sense of self? In the movie Inside Out 2, we go deep inside the brain of a teenager to find out how self is constructed from memories, messages, and beliefs. As we follow the main character Riley into adolescence, we discover the importance of integrating both positive and negative experiences into our identity. Join us on this wild rollercoaster of emotional exploration!

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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    promotional pic by Disney

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  • We’ve been employed in many unique ways, from washing cars to working on a Hollywood movie set. Sometimes the path to a career can be full of unexpected turns, but each workplace can teach us something valuable to prepare us for the next step. We hope our stories of odd jobs — sometimes hilarious, sometimes grueling, and sometimes downright sketchy — will take the pressure off anyone who is still searching for their dream job.

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    Do you want to see us working as extras in a French music video? You'll have to see it to believe it! (Hint: David is a camera operator and Tara is the dancing silhouette on the right.) Head on over to the show notes page on our website: With U Projects to check it out.

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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  • Would you like to hear a dad joke? Dads and their corny jokes may be fun to tease, but we are thankful for fathers and their important role in our lives. Join us for memorable lessons learned from our own dads, ideas for fun father’s day celebrations, and a surprise tribute to David from our kids.

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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  • How is David surviving the Great Cicada Invasion of '24? While a horde of insects invading our home town, why is Tara far away in a Boise birth center? While we've been busy teaching and training in different states this week, we invite you to join us on a call as we check in with each other and compare our parenting responses to our daughter's epic Amtrak adventure.

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    Picture of actual cicadas in our back yard. Now imagine one million of them flying around your head. Fun fact: cicada noise levels have been measured at up to 105 decibels.

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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  • Have you ever wondered what is the right thing to say to someone who is going through a hard time? Do you struggle with the line between persistence and intrusion when trying to provide support? We've been there, and we treasure the lessons we've learned along the way. Listen in for some practical tips that will help you foster deeper, more caring relationships.

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  • An effort to discover David’s family roots led us to more than just a meal of pickled herring on farm in the Netherlands. We also gained a deeper appreciation for the profound impact of family history on personal identity, We explore the ways we can learn from patterns in our family history and build on the strengths of previous generations while also writing our own story.

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    Resources for researching your family history:

    Local libraries

    City courthouse records

    National archives

    Ancestry.com

    Ancestry DNA tests

    Familysearch.org

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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  • From aquatic frogs to a pet shop puppy, we've hosted a variety of household animals. Though we weren't always on the same page about pet ownership, we agree that animals have enriched our lives and enhanced our families. We reveal some research that shows the true health benefits of pet companionship, and share our personal stories of pets that left their paw prints on our hearts.

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    CDC article about health benefits of pets

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  • If you’ve experienced lost luggage, bad directions, or a misplaced passport, you know how easily a dream trip can go off the rails. But despite the potential for discomforts and disaster, we believe all travel is worth the risk. Getting outside your familiar neighborhood may challenge your relationships, expand your mind, and open the door to delightful discoveries. Listen up for our top tips for making the most of any travel experience, from family road trips to international adventures.

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    A few recommendations:

    Eating Europe — The Best Food Tours in Europe

    Taller Andaluz de Cocina — Spanish Cooking Class in Seville

    Paka — Alpaca socks

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  • What if reaching for the stars sounds a bit unreachable? What does it really mean to follow my dreams? How do I make a difference in the world when I’m just working a regular job? If any of these questions ring a bell for you or any new graduate in your life, we’ve got some encouraging words. We’ll break down the most common graduation day clichés to help you feel less overwhelmed and more grounded at this amazing time of transition.

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    Gratitude: The Short Film by Louie Schwartzberg

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  • With a crazy, truth-or-dare-like boldness, we asked our kids to ask us any question at all and promised we'd answer truthfully. We enjoyed a candid Q&A session that led to tears, laughter, and some surprising discoveries about what aquatic animals we'd like to be and why.

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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  • We choose some relationships in life, and some relationships choose us. If you have a sibling, you know what we’re talking about. As we grow up together, we live and learn, fight and hopefully forgive. We enjoyed a conversation with David’s brother Nathan about their shared family experiences, their age-gap challenges, and their evolving friendship.--

    See fun family photos of David & Nathan on our website at With U Podcast

    Please send feedback or show topic suggestions to us at [email protected]

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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  • Did you know we are each made up of trillions of microbial cells? And that our relationship with these unseen microorganisms may have a profound impact on our lifelong health? Our guest Toni Harman, is a filmmaker who produced the award-winning documentary Microbirth. She explores the science behind how our bodies interact with our environment, and emphasizes the importance of optimizing the microbiome from birth.

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    Toni Harman is a filmmaker, author, course creator and champion of the microbiome.

    Toni has produced and directed a number of internationally distributed documentary films including MICROBIRTH about the origins of the human microbiome.

    Toni’s extensive research for her film MICROBIRTH led to her co-authoring the books THE MICROBIRTH EFFECT and YOUR BABY’s MICROBIOME.

    Toni is also the founder of MICROBIOME COURSES, an online school offering CPD approved courses for health professionals and parents on the infant microbiome, now with over 40,000 registered students.

    For a free mini-course explaining the infant microbiome: https://microbirth.teachable.com/p/taster

    You can watch MICROBIRTH here: https://microbirth.teachable.com/p/microbirth

    You can also watch MICROBIRTH on Vimeo On Demand here: https://vimeo.com/ondemand/microbirthfilm

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    Links to some other things mentioned in the show:

    Lambic beer

    Book: “You Are What Your Grandparents Ate”

    National Human Genome Research Institute: definition of microbiome

    https://www.genome.gov/genetics-glossary/Microbiome

    Some facts Tara & David mention are from the Human Microbiome Project

    https://commonfund.nih.gov/hmp

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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  • What happens when the next steps in life don't come so easily? Russell Moore's expectations about growing a family were challenged when he and his wife experienced infertility. Though initially resistant to the idea of adoption, Dr. Moore's heart opened to welcome two sons adopted from Russia. He shares ways adoption is woven into Jesus' own family tree to reveal the expansive love of God and the concept of family beyond biological ties.

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    Russell Moore is Editor in Chief of Christianity Today.

    Moore is the author of several books, including Adopted for Life: The Priority of Adoption for Christian Families and Churches.

    An ordained Baptist minister, Moore served previously as President of the Southern Baptist Convention’s Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission and, before that, as the chief academic officer and dean of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, where he also taught theology and ethics.

    The Wall Street Journal has called Moore “vigorous, cheerful, and fiercely articulate.” He was named in 2017 to Politico Magazine’s list of top fifty influence-makers in Washington, and has been profiled by such publications as the New York Times, the Washington Post and the New Yorker.

    Moore was a Fellow at the University of Chicago’s Institute of Politics and currently serves on the board of the Becket Law and as a Senior Fellow with the Trinity Forum in Washington, D.C.

    A native Mississippian, he and his wife Maria are the parents of five sons. They live in Nashville, where he teaches the Bible regularly at their congregation, Immanuel Church.

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

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  • Hillary and Jonathan Wildt each felt led to the idea of adoption even before they found each other. After they were married, done with grad school, and feeling ready for parenthood, they worked to prepare their house, their hearts, and their extended family for the realities of adoption. The process led them to welcoming three biological siblings as their children. Now two years into their parenthood journey, they share the challenges they face, including attachment issues and managing expectations, but also the joy of certainty that they were meant to be together.

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    Resources Hillary & Jonathan found helpful:

    In On It by Elisabeth O’Toole (book used for family wine & cheese adoption book discussion)

    Parenting from the inside out

    The Whole Brain Child

    The Connected Child

    The Connected Parent

    Dancing with a Porcupine: Parenting wounded children without losing your self.

    Raising Human Beings

    The Raising Devon Blog

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

    transcription by Ryan Van Dyke

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  • In a story of love, loss, and letting go, Joy and Myah explore their experiences with adoption and their evolving relationship as mother and daughter. Joy candidly shares the rollercoaster ride of emotions through unexplained infertility and the new path to growing her family. Myah reflects on her complex feelings about her biological family and her quest for belonging. Together they express that every challenge has been worth it to bring them to where they are today.

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke

    transcribed by Ryan Van Dyke

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    see full transcript and more photos of Joy & Myah at withupodcast.com

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  • Family ties get twisty when another enters the family. Much has been said about the effects and needs of adopted kids and parents, but what about the rest of the family?

    Seven adopted siblings joined Jana’s family after she turned 16. This big life transition opened her heart and grew her compassion. But Jana also learned a lot about effects of adoption on the whole family system. Her own unaddressed needs and struggles led her to finding better tools and interventions to keep adoptive and foster families connected and healthy.

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    Dr. Jana Hunsley is the Executive Director of Project 1025 LLC, an organization devoted to equipping and supporting adoptive and foster families, where she offers consulting, training, coaching, and counseling for families and professionals. She is also co-founder of Camp Together, a nonprofit offering therapeutic family camps for families impacted by trauma. Jana received her doctorate in experimental psychology from the Karyn Purvis Institute of Child Development at Texas Christian University where her research focused on understanding and meeting the needs of every member of adoptive and foster families through post-adoption supportive services. Over the years, Jana has worked in various clinical settings as a therapist with children and youth who have experienced trauma, including residential treatment, institutional care, schools, child welfare, and juvenile detention. Jana credits her passion for this work to her siblings who were adopted when she was a teenager.

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    Project 1025: Services and Resources to Create Connected Foster and Adoptive Families

    Connected Family Series: An online, self-paced post-adoption family intervention aimed at seeing and meeting the needs of all members of adoptive families.

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    Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    Transcribed by Ryan Van Dyke

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  • It’s Leap Day! Since February has an extra day this year, we present a bonus episode: a review of the movie Leap Year (2010) starring Amy Adams. Guess which of your hosts will get extra sappy and which will get practical as we follow this rom-com story set in Dublin, Ireland. On a quest for a Leap Day marriage proposal we will cover it all from Celtic traditions, to travel disasters and relational misunderstandings. Does it all lead to a happy ending? Watch the movie to find out and then join us on the podcast to sort through the hilarity and mishaps to find the gold at the end of the rainbow.

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    More about the movie: Leap Year (2010)

    View movie trailer here.

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    Wedding toast from the movie:

    May you never steal, lie, or cheat, but if you must steal, then steal away my sorrows, and if you must lie, lie with me all the nights of my life, and if you must cheat, then please cheat death because I couldn't live a day without you. Cheers!

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    music by Oleskii Kaplunskyi from Pixabay

    produced by Zach Van Dyke

    transcription by Ryan Van Dyke

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  • When Gabriela was inspired to volunteer, she never imagined herself serving behind bars. But when God prompted her heart, she ventured outside her comfort zone and into prison. Now, after 20 years of prison ministry, she shares her passion for responsibility, grace, forgiveness, reconciliation, and God’s love for all.

    Gabriela Kabatova lives in Prague, Czech Republic.

    Gabriela served as a member of the Salvation Army volunteer team for prison visits (2006-10), and she is the founder and director of Prison Fellowship Czech Republic (2010-present).

    produced by Zach Van Dyke

    transcription by Ryan Van Dyke

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    See the song "Srdce za zdí" (Heart Behind the Wall). Thesong is a testimony to how children experience the imprisonment of their parents.---

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  • February 14, St. Valentine’s, is a day focused on the celebration of love. Shops are full of flowers, candy, cards, and heart-shaped everything. Restaurants roll out special menus and candlelight for romantic meals. What could possibly be bad about any of that? We don’t want to rain on anyone’s Valentine’s parade, but our feelings about the Hallmark holiday might surprise you.---

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    cover art photoshop assistance from Ryan Van Dyke & Zach Van Dyke

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  • It's a nearly impossible task for parents to stay on top of the ways their children are using technology. How do you limit screen time? What's the right age for a social media account? Why do YouTubers have so much influence? If all of this seems overwhelming, you're not alone. And it's not too late to try some new ways of navigating the question of kids & technology.

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    We'd love to hear your feedback! Please email us at [email protected]

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    A few helpful resources:

    Family Media Plan from American Academy of Pediatrics

    Livingstone, S., & Blum-Ross, A. (2020). Parenting for a digital future: How hopes and fears about technology shape children's lives. Oxford University Press, USA.

    Chapman, G., & Pellicane, A. (2020). Screen kids: 5 relational skills every child needs in a tech-driven world. Moody Publishers.

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