Episodes
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In this episode, I’m diving into how you can start to rewire those default thoughts that aren't serving you, the ones that are leaving you feeling drained or overwhelmed.
Why our minds cling to old, default thoughts and how to recognise when they’re holding you back.The first steps to identify unhelpful thought patterns without judgment or frustration.How to gently replace these thoughts with ones that serve you better using small, repeatable actions.Why repetition matters in rewiring your brain, and how to make this process feel sustainable.Practical examples of shifting mindset habits that have worked for me and others in our community.
Our minds rely on familiar thought patterns, often taking the path of least resistance to conserve energy. But what if those thoughts aren’t serving you well?
I guide you through recognising these thoughts and help you start creating new, supportive ones that will serve you better.
Your default thoughts are the ones your brain turns to automatically, with little effort. You’ve likely been thinking about them for years, whether they’re helpful or not.
Some of these thoughts can become more negative, full of comparison, judgement, or self doubt.
In this episode, you will learn:This episode is all about taking simple, manageable steps toward a lighter mental load.
Want to start lightening your mental load and reconnect with yourself? Download my free A Mother’s Mind Morning Musings guide — 10 simple prompts designed to help you create more space for yourself and feel more supported, in just 10 minutes a day.Become a part of my beautiful community of mums here.
Resources for you
Join the waitlist for A Mother’s Mind Membership for when the doors open again to access practical support, tools and a community designed for mums like you.
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In this episode, I talk about the importance of everyday kindness. Not just thinking kind thoughts but actually saying them out loud.
It’s easy to get caught up in busy life, but taking a moment to share a kind word can have such a big impact.
We’re so used to hearing opinions on how we parent, but what if we flipped that and made it normal to share kindness instead?
I share a couple of personal stories from a recent trip that reminded me just how much a kind word or gesture can impact someone deeply and how those simple moments can have a ripple effect on the world around us.In this episode, you will learn:
Why normalising everyday kindness can change not only someone else’s day but yours as wellHow to move from thinking kind thoughts to actually saying them out loudSimple ways to create more meaningful connections in your daily lifeIf you loved this episode and want to go further with managing your mental load as a mum, you can follow along on Instagram at @michelle.c.weeks or check out my A Mother's Mind membership
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In this episode, I’m diving into something that I know shows up for nearly every mum at some point - resentment.
Why feeling resentment (or frustration, or comparison) is completely normal and nothing to be ashamed of.My go to strategies that you can use too, to release those heavy feelings. How open conversations with your partner or support system can relieve the pressure and stop resentment from building up.
I’m getting real about what these last few weeks have been like for me and why feeling resentment isn’t a sign that anything’s gone wrong.
I talk through what resentment really is, why it shows up, and how to lighten the emotional load by giving it a space to exist without needing to fix or change everything.
In this episode, you’ll learn:Resources for you
Want to start lightening your mental load and reconnect with yourself? Download my free A Mother’s Mind Morning Musings guide — 10 simple prompts designed to help you create more space for yourself and feel more supported, in just 10 minutes a day.
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In this episode, I dive deep into why competition, especially in motherhood, is not serving you. Instead, I explore how collaboration can change your approach to motherhood and your home.
Competing to "do more" at home can just increase the stress, but this episode will show you why teamwork can help you feel supported and in sync with your family.
In this episode, you will learn:
Why competing with your partner or team causes burnout and resentment.
How to shift from a competitive to a collaborative mindset.
How to epress your needs without feeling like you’re in a tug-of-war.
How the simple phrase, “We’re on the same team,” can change your mindset in stressful moments.
The benefits of having a common goal for your family’s mental and emotional load.
I share my journey of seeing competitive thinking in my household. A simple shift to a collaborative mindset helped me feel more supported and less overwhelmed.
If you want to explore this approach further, you can join the waitlist for A Mother’s Mind Membership. This program helps you manage your mental load. It helps you build your support systems and teaches ways to feel more at ease in daily life. Find out more at michelleweeks.com.au/waitlist
Resources for you
Want to start lightening your mental load and reconnect with yourself? Download my free A Mother’s Mind Morning Musings guide — 10 simple prompts designed to help you create more space for yourself and feel more supported, in just 10 minutes a day. [Get your free guide here].
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In this episode, I’m diving into a question I hear from so many mums.
Who am I now that I’m a mum?
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering where your pre-motherhood self went, or feeling lost in this new version of you, trust me, you’re not alone.
This is a shift we all go through. The transition into motherhood impacts everything from our identity to our emotions and relationships.
I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately, and so I’m sharing some of the most impactful strategies that have helped me (and so many of the mums I work with) navigate this huge shift in identity.
In this episode, you will learn:
How you can reconnect with yourself after becoming a mum, and why it’s normal that your identity has changed.How to start creating space to check in with yourself, even if it’s just for 5 minutes each day. Your brain already knows a lot more than you think, you just need a bit of space to listen to what’s there.How to use self-awareness to understand what’s going on in your mind and figure out what you need right now.One of the most powerful strategies I use with my clients, even if you feel like you don’t have a spare second in your day.How to lean on your core values when you feel lost. Even though motherhood shifts your identity, your core values will always be there to ground you, no matter what stage of motherhood you’re in.Motherhood changes you, but it’s not about returning to who you were before. It’s about figuring out who you are now and embracing that shift, even when it feels messy or confusing.
If this resonates with you, know that it’s ok. I’ve coached so many mums through this exact transition, and I’m right there with you in my own journey too.
Download my free A Mother’s Mind Morning Musings: 10 simple prompts designed to help you create more space for yourself and feel more supported, in just 10 minutes a day. Get your free guide here
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This episode is all about getting clear on your expectations and actually communicating them, which can completely change how you relate to the people around you.
Have you ever felt frustrated or let down by someone in your life? Maybe you expected something from them, but they didn’t come through, and it felt personal.
I’m talking about this because, more often than not, these feelings stem from unspoken or unclear expectations.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to articulate what you truly expect from others to reduce misunderstandings and frustration.How to address situations where expectations haven’t been met (and how to do it without resentment).How to communicate your needs clearly and effectively to avoid disappointment and build stronger relationships.You’ve got this. Communication can be tricky, but once you nail it, the relief you’ll feel in your relationships is huge.
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Changing the way you talk to yourself can feel daunting, but the rewards are huge.
If you've ever caught yourself being your own worst critic, this episode is here to guide you towards a more supportive and compassionate inner voice. We all know that speaking kindly to ourselves is important. We've been told to “give ourselves grace” and “be kind” for years, but the reality is… it feels so foreign, especially if your default is to be hard on yourself.
Why speaking kindly to yourself matters more than you think.What the long term benefits are of creating the habit of positive self talk.How being your own worst critic can affect your day to day life and overall wellbeing.What steps you can take to help you start speaking to yourself with kindness - even if it feels uncomfortable at first
But it works.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
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Welcome back, you wonderful human!
If you’ve ever felt bogged down by the endless to dos and responsibilities of motherhood, thinking it’s just simpler to handle it all on your own, this episode is for you.
I’m talking about the belief of “it’s just easier if I do it myself” and how this thinking is holding you back from embracing shared responsibilities.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why this mindset might seem true in the short term but can lead to long term overwhelm and exhaustion.The impact of shouldering everything yourself on your daily life, from sleep disturbances to snapping at loved ones.Strategies for sustainable sharing of the mental load, helping you, your partner, and your family develop the necessary skills to manage life's demands together.I can’t wait for you to join me in this episode.
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This episode is all about communication. It is a skill that we can practice and get better at. This episode focuses on how and when communication can be the most effective for you and your family.
There is a reason it is one of the core pillars of A Mother’s Mind Membership.
When we use our communication with our family effectively, the impact it can have on all the habits and daily routines in your household is incredible.
Put simply, creating an effective communication landscape means more successful sharing of information, to lighten your mental load.
Here’s what you learn:
How establishing open channels of communication can prevent resentment and create an environment for long term cooperation within your family.How and when to communicate effectively so that you feel heard, valued and seen. How structured communication strategies can help distribute responsibilities and reduce your mental load.How curiosity, partnership and understanding eachothers’ communication styles can significantly improve your well being as a mum.Because you deserve to soak up all those little moments with your little ones.
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In this episode, I help you realign and get back on track when life feels a bit out of sorts. Whether it's a rough day or a tricky phase, this episode has a set of questions to help spark curiosity so that you can recalibrate.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How you can overcome the all or nothing thinking when it comes to being ‘on’ or ‘off’ track.How to recognise when you are going through these moments.What you can do to alleviate the pressure of getting back ‘on’ track.How to incorporate positivity into your days when you are going through it.How to significantly regain your focusThis episode is full of simple yet impactful strategies to help you get back on track, one question at a time!
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In this episode, I share a personal reflection on navigating the complexities of motherhood and work, due to some unexpected challenges. Despite actively preparing for this time, sickness and changes to my children’s routines really prompted me to take a break from work.
This episode is really about the importance of adjusting plans and being kind to yourself in the process.
In light of all the unforeseen challenges, this week has really reinforced the value of mindset practices and support systems.
In this episode, you'll discover:
How to adapt and show kindness to yourself when life throws unexpected challenges your wayWhat practical steps you can take to reassess your commitments to align with your current needs, making sure you don't deplete your energy.Why is self kindness so important for your overall wellbeing, and how can it help you cope during tough times.
How I love to support you:
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In this episode, I talk about the importance of giving yourself permission to focus on one area of improvement at a time.
By streamlining your focus and allowing other aspects of your life to be in 'maintenance mode,' you can avoid the overwhelm of trying to change everything at once.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Why it’s important to normalise the chaos of motherhoodHow you can overcome the overwhelm that comes from trying to perfect every area of life simultaneously.The importance of allowing some areas of life to remain in 'maintenance mode' while focusing your energy on just one aspect that you choose to improve.How to identify and prioritise where to direct your efforts without spreading yourself too thin.How to give yourself permission to focus and the ripple effects this can have in other areas of your life.If you're feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of motherhood and life’s demands, this episode will help you simplify your focus, leading to greater fulfilment and balance.
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In this episode, I offer a fresh perspective on seeking support in motherhood. One that encourages you to seek support before you find yourself at the end of your tether.
It’s about proactively accessing help in your life, not just out of necessity when you need it.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
How seeking help proactively, not just when overwhelmed, can help you better manage your mental load.What strategies you can use to identify when and how to ask for support before you are struggling.How shifting your perspective on help can lead to profound personal and professional growth.This conversation is really important because I have personally experienced so much growth in it, and I see my clients experience so much growth in it, too.
If you often ask for help only when it becomes absolutely necessary, I hope this episode inspires you to reshape your approach and seek support before you reach that point.
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In this episode, I talk about just how much is possible and available to you when you stop telling yourself that it's not.
Here’s what you’ll learn by listening in:
How you can identify the mental barriers that keep you from realising your potential and ways to break them down.What strategies you can use to expand your thinking and explore new opportunities, especially those you previously thought were unreachable.How your mindset can transform your perceived reality, offering new paths and solutions.Steps to apply new understandings in your life so that you can enhance your personal and professional growth.If you’ve ever felt restricted by your own thoughts or doubted your capabilities, listen to this episode so that you can question those limits and consider what more is possible.
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In this episode, I’m talking about how you may be expending your mental energy and its impact on your day. If you've ever felt like you're just mentally exhausted all the time, this episode is for you.
Sometimes, we waste so much of our mental and emotional energy on things that don’t matter (or do in the moment, but if you were to zoom out, you would recognise that they actually don’t matter).
In this episode, you'll discover:
How to identify where your mental energy is going and how it might by contributing to your mental fatigue.How you can do a "brain audit" to gain awareness and control over your thoughts and feelings.How to shift your mental energy towards things that truly impact your life, creating feelings of lightness and focus.How to zoom out and evaluate what truly matters in the long run, helping you to let go of the day-to-day worries.This is your sign, to tune in, and do a little bit of a mental load audit. Grab your cup of tea, find a comfy spot, and let's make today a little lighter!
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In this episode, I talk about the often overlooked abundance in our lives. I discuss the mindset of longing and the comparison of wanting more. It’s all about the idea that you already have what you want.
As mums, we can regularly be pulled into the whirlwind of comparison, wanting what we don't have, wishing for a different time, things to pass, the past to come again, talking about time and opportunities and life in the way of hoping and wishing for something different.
This pulls us away from enjoying and really soaking in the present moment.In this episode, you'll discover:
How you can recognise and appreciate what you already have, shifting your focus from longing to gratitude and appreciating the now.How to stop comparing your life to othersStrategies you can use to create and develop a grateful mindset that appreciates the present and what you already have.How to recognise the success and achievements you may not have appreciated yet.
I encourage you to listen and then reflect on how much you already have. Each time you feel lacking or in comparison mode, I want you to remember how you already have what you want in your life, and use that perspective shift to choose nourishment and joyful gratitude.
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In this episode, I talk about understanding and actively managing your mental capacity to alleviate your mental load.
Here’s what you’ll learn,
How to understand your capacity with your everyday mental load.How overcapacity can lead to emotional overflow.The importance of actively engaging with your capacity rather than passively experiencing its limits.Strategies to assess and adjust to handle life's demands effectively.If you've ever felt overwhelmed or at the brink of your mental capacity, this episode provides not only understanding but actionable steps to regain control and enjoy life's moments fully.
Doors are open for A Mother’s Mind Membership. But you haven’t got long - we start July 22nd, 2024. Don't miss out. CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE
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In this bonus episode of "A Mother's Mind," I share a personal story of overcoming a particularly challenging day. I talk about the emotional upheaval that can come with motherhood and how to navigate it.
In this episode, you'll learn:
The importance of acknowledging and processing feelings of overwhelm instead of suppressing them.How to build and use a toolkit of strategies to navigate through challenging moments effectively.How open communication in your relationships is so important for managing emotional and difficult moments.The importance of giving yourself permission to fully experience, feel and express your emotions.If you're grappling with managing your emotions and maintaining mental clarity during motherhood's demanding moments, this episode is for you!!
Join A Mother’s Mind Membership for more support and community. But you haven’t got long - we start July 22nd, 2024. Don't miss out. CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of having courageous conversations, especially when it feels uncomfortable. These may be tough, but necessary. You know the ones—they linger at the back of your mind, feel too big to tackle, but are so important for true connection and clarity in your relationships.
In this episode, you'll discover:
Why embracing discomfort can lead to growth and better understanding between loved ones.How to move through moments of frustration, approach difficult conversations with courage and work towards resolution.How engaging in these discussions can lighten your mental load, resolve underlying tensions and create a more supportive environment.Enjoy!
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Doors are closing soon for A Mother’s Mind Membership. Here’s the details! In 10 weeks, you will be showing up in motherhood without the mental exhaustion.
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In this special episode, I welcome my very first guest, Katrina Driessen, to the metaphorical couch.
Katrina is a mum of two and a real estate specialist in Hobart. She has worked with me 1:1 and has gone through my A Mother’s Mind Membership. We talk about her mindset transformation and mental load management.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
Three pivotal moments that led her to seek support, including recognising the need for change in her daily life and the courage it took to ask for help.How Katrina's participation in the Mother's Mind Membership and one-to-one coaching sessions with Michelle helped her develop essential skills for managing her mental load and improving her mindset.What specific strategies made a significant impact on her life and how they have positively influenced her relationships with her children and husband.The broader effects of working on her mindset, including improved sleep, reduced stress, and a stronger sense of self-worth.Katrina offers insights and advice for other mothers who might be struggling with their mental load, emphasising the importance of seeking support and investing in personal growth.
Connect with Katrina:
If you're in the Hobart area and need assistance with real estate, you can find Katrina on Instagram at @katrinaatmixpropertygroup or contact on 0418 495 293.
A Mothers Mind Membership is now open for you to join. Here are the details.
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