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Shop the Dad Tired store for best-selling gearIn this episode of Dad Tired, Jerrad sits down with Kaleb and Chris for an honest conversation about one of the most common tensions Christian parents face: What do I do when my kid doesnât want to go to church anymore?
Together, they talk through the difference between forcing empty religion and faithfully leading your home, why Sunday worship is about more than personal preference, and how our kids are formed by seeing real stories of redemption inside the body of Christ. This conversation is a call for dads to lead with conviction, compassion, and consistency as they disciple their families toward Jesus.
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______What does real friendship actually look like for men?
In this episode of Dad Tired, Jerrad is joined by Kaleb Allen and Chris Hilken for an honest conversation about brotherhood, grief, betrayal, loneliness, and the kind of friendship that goes far deeper than networking, convenience, or shared success.
Together, they talk about why so many men struggle to build meaningful friendships, how pain often becomes the soil where real brotherhood grows, and why true friends are the ones who stay when your life is messy, costly, or inconvenient.
This conversation is a reminder that men were not made to follow Jesus alone. We need brothers who know us, love us, challenge us, and are willing to âwaste timeâ with us for the sake of something eternal.
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In this episode of Dad Tired, Jerrad sits down with Dr. Kathy Koch, founder of Celebrate Kids, to talk about raising kids who feel fully known, deeply loved, and prepared for life.Dr. Kathy shares practical wisdom for Christian dads on speaking identity over their children, understanding different learning styles, building emotional intelligence, avoiding over-parenting, and helping kids grow into confident, faithful adults.
They also discuss why a fatherâs words carry so much weight, how dads can affirm more than performance or appearance, why reading to your kids matters, and how to parent children who think, learn, and process differently.
This conversation will encourage any dad who wants to lead his family spiritually, connect more deeply with his kids, and raise children who know who they are in Christ.
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Why dads need to speak identity over their kidsHow children become who we tell them they areUnderstanding your childâs unique learning styleThe danger of over-parentingHow to prepare kids for adulthoodThe difference between correction and criticismHelping your kids feel known and loved at homeKey reminder: If your kids donât feel known at home, theyâll look somewhere else to be known.
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__Hey guys, quick update from Jerrad.
As youâre listening to this, Iâm currently in Alaska with my son and a group of Dad Tired dads and sons for a father-son rite of passage trip.
This season is packed with Dad Tired events, including the Alaska trip, Family Camp, our family mission trip to Guatemala, the annual Dad Tired retreat, and upcoming one-day conferences. Because of that, the podcast schedule may look a little different over the next few weeks.
If an episode drops on a different day than usual â or if there isnât a new episode when you expected one â thanks for giving us some grace as we move through a full season of ministry.
The best way to stay up to date on upcoming trips, retreats, conferences, and schedule updates is to join the Dad Tired email list using the link in the episode description.
We love you guys, and weâll be back to our normal rhythm soon.
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Shop the Dad Tired store for best-selling gearWhen your soul feels anxious, restless, angry, or worn down, what do you do?
In this episode of Dad Tired, Pastor Kaleb points men back to one of the most overlooked gifts God has given us for caring for our souls: the Psalms. The Psalms give language to the deepest parts of us â our fear, sorrow, repentance, betrayal, joy, gratitude, and hope.
If youâve ever thought, âI donât even know whatâs going on inside of me,â this episode will help you see the Psalms as Godâs invitation to pray when you donât know how to pray.
Kaleb walks through how Jesus, the apostles, and the early church leaned on the Psalms in moments of suffering, anxiety, worship, and spiritual battle. Youâll be encouraged to stop treating the Psalms as ancient poetry only, and start using them as daily prayers for your soul.
In this episode, youâll learn:
How the Psalms help diagnose and shepherd your soul
Why Jesus prayed the Psalms in His suffering
How the early church used the Psalms in moments of fear and persecution
Why the Psalms give language to anxiety, repentance, grief, and worship
A simple practice for praying through the Psalms each weekWhether youâre anxious, tired, tempted, grateful, or grieving, the Psalms give you words to bring your whole heart before God.
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Shop the Dad Tired store for best-selling gearSometimes the only way to see God do what only He can do is to stop trying to control the outcome. In this episode, Jerrad reflects on Elijahâs showdown with the prophets of Baal and the bold moment when Elijah poured water over the altar before asking God to send fire. For dads who feel the pull to manage, manipulate, or quietly âshuffle the deck,â this is an invitation to real surrender. What would it look like to give God the wet wood and trust Him to be the fire?
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Shop the Dad Tired store for best-selling gearIn this episode, Jerrad sits down with David Thomas, executive director of Daystar Counseling Ministries and co-author of Capable, for a practical and deeply encouraging conversation on raising resilient kids.
David explains why our goal as parents should not simply be to raise happy or confident children, but capable ones. He and Jerrad talk about the temptation to rescue our kids from hard things, how anxiety often shows up differently in boys, why chores and discomfort matter, and how kids build competence by practicing coping, problem-solving, and flexibility.
They also talk honestly about dads doing their own healing work, how unhealed pain can spill onto our families, and why strong families begin with men who are willing to name what is going on in their own hearts.
If youâre a dad who wants to raise kids who can handle real life with courage, resilience, and dependence on Jesus, this conversation is for you.
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Shop the Dad Tired store for best-selling gearIn this devotional episode of Dad Tired, Jerrad walks through the story of Abraham and Sarah in Genesis 18, where Abraham welcomes the Lord into his home with reverence, urgency, and hospitality.
Abraham creates an environment where God is honored and welcomed, but whatâs striking is that God comes to speak directly to Sarah. As husbands, dads, and men, this passage invites us to ask a simple but powerful question: are we creating homes where the presence of God is welcomed?
This episode will challenge you to think about the spiritual atmosphere of your home, and what it could look like to intentionally make space for worship, Scripture, prayer, and the Holy Spirit in everyday family life.
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Shop the Dad Tired store for best-selling gearWhat if the life youâve built to survive is keeping you from the life God actually made you for?
In this episode, Jerrad sits down with songwriter, worship leader, recording artist, and author John Mark McMillan, best known for writing âHow He Loves.â Together, they talk about identity, family, creativity, contemplation, and what it looks like to peel back the layers of survival to rediscover the person God created you to be.
John Mark shares about nearly quitting music, moving toward writing, raising teenagers, finding beauty in ordinary family life, and learning to create from a place of honesty instead of performance. The conversation also explores how distraction, phones, addiction, and the noise of modern life are shaping our souls, and how the church might become one of the last places where people can truly be present together.
This is a deep, honest conversation for any man who feels tired, distracted, unsure of who he is, or hungry for a more meaningful life with God and his family.
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What if your job, your parenting, your neighborhood, and your ordinary Monday morning all mattered deeply to God?
In this episode, Jerrad sits down with returning guest Jordan Raynor for a wide-ranging conversation about work, calling, the Holy Spirit, fatherhood, and the lies that keep Christian men exhausted.
Jordan unpacks why work existed before sin, how our daily jobs can be worship, and why the Holy Spirit empowers us not just for salvation, but for the good works God has prepared for us. The conversation also moves into evangelism, neighborhood faithfulness, the kindness of God, and the freedom that comes from realizing God doesnât need us. He wants us.
This episode is for the dad who feels tired, scattered, overcommitted, or unsure if his everyday life really matters to God.
In this episode, we talk about:
Why your work matters to God
How to see ordinary tasks as worship
The lies and half-truths many Christians believe
Why the Holy Spirit empowers us for good works
How to talk to your kids about deep theology
Why saying no can be an act of faithfulness
The difference between a tired body and a weary soul
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Who or what gets your best attention, your best thinking, and your best mood?
In todayâs Dad Tired Daily episode, Jerrad shares a convicting moment from a normal drive to school with his kids. After dropping them off, he realized he had not said a single word to them the entire drive. Not because he was angry. Not because he didnât love them. But because his mind was consumed with work, stress, responsibilities, and the long list of things he needed to get done.
That moment led to a deeper question: are the people God has called us to love getting our best, or just our leftovers?
The Bible tells us in Proverbs 4:23 to guard our hearts, and Jeremiah 17:9 reminds us that the heart is deceitful. We may say we value our family, our faith, and our calling, but our attention, mood, calendar, and thoughts often tell the truth.
This episode is a simple, honest challenge to pay attention to what is getting the best of you.
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Who gets my best attention?
Who gets my best thinking?
Who gets my best mood?
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Jerrad sits down with Tim Timmons for one of the most honest conversations weâve had on the podcast.
Tim shares about living with stage 4 cancer for over 25 years, the exhaustion of trying to âwork for God,â and how heâs learning to simply wake up each day and join Jesus.
Together, they talk about:
Contentment vs surrenderParenting and repairThe pressure Christian men carryLiving sober-minded in a distracted worldWhy the Kingdom of God threatens our own kingdomsThis episode feels like sitting across the table from a wise friend whoâs been through some things.
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In this episode, Jerrad reflects on Jesusâ words in Matthew 5 and what it really means to take sin seriously.
After nearly two years off social media, he shares how removing constant digital input transformed his mind, reduced temptation, and brought a level of peace he didnât know he was missing.
This isnât about rules.
Itâs about freedom.If something in your life is pulling you away from who God is calling you to be, maybe the answer isnât managing it betterâŠ
Maybe itâs removing it altogether.
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Most men donât hate work because theyâre lazy.
They hate work because theyâre misaligned.In this conversation with Ken Coleman, we talk about why so many men feel stuck, how to find clarity in your calling, and what it looks like to pursue meaningful work without sacrificing your family.
If youâve been feeling confused, burned out, or unsure of your next stepâthis episode will help you take one.
Clarity â Confidence â Courage.
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In todayâs Dad Tired Daily, Pastor Kaleb Allen wraps up a powerful 3-part series by walking through John 4âthe story of the woman at the well.Jesus challenges more than just her past⊠He challenges our perspective, our prejudices, and our purpose.
While the disciples are focused on physical food, Jesus reveals something deeper:
âMy food is to do the will of Him who sent me.âWhat if the reason your soul feels tired⊠isnât because youâre doing too muchâ
but because youâre not doing what you were made for?This episode is a wake-up call for men who feel stuck, bored, or spiritually dry.
In this episode:
Why we quietly write people offâand how Jesus doesnâtThe hidden âprejudiceâ that can live in a believerâs heartWhat Jesus meant by being nourished through missionWhy comfort and ease are leaving so many men emptyHow to rediscover purpose through the work God has given youKey takeaway:
Your soul was never meant to live on comfortâit was meant to come alive on mission.Lift your eyes. The harvest is right in front of you.
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This one starts funny⊠and gets real fast.
In this conversation with Tim Hawkins, we talk about why so many men feel stuckâeven when life looks good on the outside.
We get into burnout, chasing affirmation, marriage struggles, and what it actually looks like to heal.
If something feels off⊠this might be why.
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How many times do we go back to the same thing⊠hoping it will finally satisfy?
In this devotional from Pastor Kaleb Allen (John 4), we look at the âfive husbandsâ idea and ask a hard question:
What are you still chasing?
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You donât need more stuff.
You need more clarity.
In this episode, Joshua Becker and I talk about minimalism, contentment, and why so many men feel overwhelmed right now.
We get into the connection between your possessions and your peace⊠and how simplifying your life can actually help you become a better husband, dad, and disciple of Jesus.
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Jesus didnât avoid SamariaâHe walked straight into it.
In this devotional from John 4, weâre reminded that:
We often ignore the very people Jesus would pursueWe carry the gift of living waterAnd weâve been sent on mission, whether we realize it or notSimple. Direct. But itâll challenge the way you move through your day.
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Most men donât reject Jesusâthey reshape Him.
In this conversation with Kyle Idleman, we unpack what it really means to follow Jesus as Messiah and King, not just Savior.
If your faith feels shallow, comfortable, or disconnected from real life⊠this might be why.
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