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In this episode, I'm answering your dating questions live and giving you real answers, not fluff.
You'll find out what to do when life is beating you up but you still want to date, why a man spending big money on you might mean nothing at all, and what most women get wrong about the man who says all the right things and then disappears.
Walk away knowing how to make decisions about men without asking your girlfriends, the group chat, or the comment section what his behavior means.
If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE.
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Most women spend weeks, even months, trying to figure out if a man is worth their timeâdating him, running him by the group chat, hoping it turns into something. I don't do any of that. I know pretty quickly whether a man has even earned a phone call from me, and I never waste three to six months learning what I could have known in the first week.
In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework I use to evaluate a man from the moment he speaks to me. You'll find out why "do I like him?" is the wrong question to be asking, the difference between a man who's interested and a man who's actually investing, and how to spot the yellow flags most women wait months to catch.
Walk away able to trust yourself enough to know who qualifies for your timeâwithout the weeks of confusion, second-guessing, or asking everybody else what his behavior means.
If you're ready to learn how to evaluate your options without settling, get on the Curved to Cuffed wait list HERE.
Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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There's a difference between a man getting your number and a man actually pursuing you. I've learned how to inspire the men I want to pursue meâplanning the dates, investing, and showing up consistentlyâwithout ever forcing it or looking thirsty.
In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I make it easy for a man to pursue me when he already wants to. You'll find out why men feel pressure from you without you ever saying a word, the way good girls accidentally push men away while thinking they're being interested, and what most women confuse for a real connection that isn't one at all.
Walk away knowing how to create an experience a man can't stop thinking aboutâso the right man moves toward you instead of pulling back.
Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
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I've gotten to the point where I have no doubt that when I pick a place to go, I'm going to catch the attention of the kind of man I wantâand lately that's meant meeting a millionaire four to five weeks in a row.
In this episode, I'm sharing exactly how I get quality men to notice me the second I step into a room. You'll find out why you can feel invisible even when you're standing right there, what you're doing that quietly tells men to leave you alone, and the shift that takes you from waiting to be approached to being impossible to miss.
Walk away knowing how to be the woman who pulls the attention of the man she actually wantsânot just whoever happens to be thirsty that night.
If you're ready to build these skills with feedback week after week, thereâs still time to join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.
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You say you want a successful, ambitious provider. But have you ever really thought about how that man actually lives his life? Most women can't describe one real thing about their ideal man's dayâand that's the exact reason they never know where to find him.
In this episode, I'm teaching you how to stop guessing where the man you want hangs out and start knowing it.
u'll find out why "where do I go?" is the wrong first question, what you have to figure out about a man before any place will make sense, and how to spot where he already spends his free time.
Walk away able to pick a real spot this week where your kind of man actually isâinstead of getting dressed up and hoping you run into him.
If you're ready to stop guessing and learn exactly how to meet your ideal man, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.
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You know you want a man this summer. You say it, you feel it, your coochie is jumping for itâbut somehow you keep talking yourself right out of going after it. And the stories you're telling yourself sound so smart and so responsible that you actually believe them.
In this episode, I'm breaking down the five lies costing you your summer boyfriend. You'll find out why feeling "stuck" is rarely what's really going on, the truth about confidence that flips everything you've been told, and why the one lie most women won't say out loud is the reason all the others get to exist.
Walk away ready to stop blocking your own blessing and disqualifying yourself before a man even gets the chance to choose you.
If one of these lies has been costing you more than another dry summer, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.
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In this episode, I'm giving you a simple summer plan to have a commitment-ready boyfriend by Augustâexclusive or not.
You'll discover why "putting yourself out there" and "loving yourself" was never enough without a real system, the number that tells you whether your love life is actually moving or stuck, and why the men you want never seem to cross your path even when you're going outside and meeting people.
Walk away knowing exactly what to do daily and weekly so you stop disappearing for months every time dating gets hardâand start building toward the kind of fall where you're the one choosing who to cuff.
Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up!
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A lot of you are going to hit cuffing season with a dry and dusty dating life once again.
Because you keep doing nothing in the summer and expecting a man by the fallâŠit's like wanting a summer body without ever hitting the gym.
In this episode, I break down the three things keeping you stuck and headed for another manless winter. You'll find out why the men you actually want aren't showing up in your life, what you're doing that makes quality men lose interest even when the attraction is there, and why you keep quitting dating every time you get disappointed.
Walk away ready to turn this summer into the season you finally build a roster of quality menâso you're choosing who to cuff instead of wishing someone would choose you.
Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up!
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A few weeks ago, I walked away from a good man after dating him for over a year and a half.
In this episode, I'm breaking down what made me walk away from a man most women would have stayed with and why I don't regret it for a second.
You'll discover why looks and investment alone don't move me anymore, what happens when you try to adjust a man into generosity instead of requiring it from the start, and why you don't need a "good enough reason" to leave when something stops being in alignment with you.
Ready to stop staying with men just because they look good on paper and start trusting your decisions even when the room disagrees? Listen now.
Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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I used to be the woman who let a man decide whether my week was good or bad. My marriage taught me that.
When it ended, I couldn't get out of bed for weeks because I had outsourced my entire sense of safety to him.
That's when I had to ask a different question: âWhy am I making my peace depend on whether a man can be trusted at all?â
This episode walks you through the six steps that got me from that woman to the woman I am nowâthe one who dates without scanning men for proof they won't hurt me, who sleeps peaceful at night not stressed about what a man is doing, and who can walk away from anything that doesn't serve me.
Because when you trust yourself more than you trust any man, disappointment can't destroy you.
Work with me to stop being scared of a man hurting you and start building the kind of love life where it doesn't matter either way.
Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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If youâre a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating
âŠ.but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you.
Youâre the woman who is always making time
Youâre the woman who is there to provide emotional support,
Youâre the woman who is always keeping conversations going.
Youâre the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves.
Join me in this episode to hear the difference between âputting in too much effortâ and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results.
Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating worldâŠ
âŠAND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
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Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because youâre EASY.
All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now youâre his girlfriend.
And then you get big mad when you realized you invested monthsâŠsometimes years into a man who wasnât worth all that effort
Thereâs no wonder why youâre always so drained and disappointed with men
Listen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen.
Be prepared to reclaim your time!
HEREâS WHAT YOUâLL DISCOVER:
My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith.What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power.7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them.A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences.Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
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âThereâs not enough quality men out here for quality women.â
Thatâs the lie we tell ourselves when weâre not ready to do the work.
The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women
AND quality women arenât finding it hard to meet these men.
Why?
Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire
And that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together.
Itâs deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean.
Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men.
HEREâS WHAT YOUâLL DISCOVER:
What it really means to âwork on yourselfâ while dating. The difference between a decent woman and a quality womanA quality womanâs biggest super power that helps her navigate dating. The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality menWhy itâs important to embrace âmessinessâ on your dating journeyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
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You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone.
Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you.
I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life.
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Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of menâthe manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure onesâŠ
âŠand how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.
This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are.
If youâre a Woman of Faith struggling with âGood girlâ syndrome, tune into this episode for a masterclass on how to shed those limiting behaviors and attract the kind of relationship you deserve.
Interested in working with me 1:1? If youâre ready to drop the âgood girlâ act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.
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That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limboâŠafraid to fully commit to finding love.
If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourselfâŠyou're guaranteeing nothing changes.
In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's actually costing you, and how to start collecting evidence that love is possible for you exactly as you are right now.
I'll share actionable steps to move past this fear and build momentum in your love life, whether or not you ever work with me.
If you're ready to stop dating like you're trying not to get hurt and start showing up fully for love, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
Book a sales call HERE to speak with me.
OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:
Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard
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Out of all the men we dateâŠthereâs always this ONE that we really likeâŠbut we find it hard to have him.
We wanna hear from him daily
We wanna see him all the time.
And we freak out when heâs being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away.
Some of us donât realize that the ONE we likeâŠis the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction.
Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lot of problems in our lifeâŠwe still strongly desire him.
In this episode, I take time to coach a Queen who is addicted to dating a man who is tall, dark and dysfunctionalâŠand we explore why this is a thing for her and what exactly she should do about it.
HEREâS WHAT YOUâLL DISCOVER: .
The lies we tell ourselves when we are addicted to men who are not good for us. The root causes of our addictions and why we stay stuck in the cycle. How feeling chemistry with a man can also be a sign of dysfunctional addiction. Why itâs not always easy for us to be interested in other men who are able to offer us healthy forms of companionship. The truth about why we love to be controlled and dominated and why we confuse it with âAlphaâ energy. How I lost my voice in my own marriage due to my own relationship addictionsFEATURED ON THE SHOW
BOOK: Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll ChangeBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
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We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before.
We can buy our own propertyâŠwe can go to school for whateverâŠwe can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports.
We can even go to war if we want to.
And even with all of these modern freedomsâŠwe still have societal chains that keep us in bondageâŠ
âŠthat keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do.
And this directly impacts our ability to have deep, authentic dating experiences and abundant, expansive love lives.
In todayâs episode, I expose how Women of Faith have allowed the âGood Girl Complexâ to keep them small in their love lives. We are trading our personal freedom to be slaves to our comfort zone and for people pleasing and male approval. And itâs destroying the way we live and love because of fear and shame.
HEREâS WHAT YOUâLL DISCOVER: .
What it means to âfall in loveâ and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating. How Caresha (Young Miami) chose her own romantic path, but is still triggered by it. The real reason why âgood girlsâ police other womenâs life choices concerning her body, sex and dating practices. The truth of how following male relationship gurus really condition you to stay under male domination and control.Why men will praise you for being âwife materialâ, but never try to make you their wife.Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
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Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they havenât been attracting quality men.
Funny thing isâŠwhen I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessionsâŠsumma the ladies donât really have much evidence to support their beliefs.
Theyâre truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men.
Maybe it isâŠmaybe it isnât.
In todayâs episode, weâre gonna have a conversation about your ability to attract quality men. Together weâre gonna uncover whether you have a real issue attracting them or if itâs simply a delusion.
HEREâS WHAT YOUâLL DISCOVER: .
The real reason why you believe you arenât able to attract high-quality menThe truth bomb I drop that is confusing at first, but provides true clarity on why you may or may have not been able to attract quality men. The bare bones explanation of what a quality man is and the traits they usually possess. Several professional âdiagnosesâ that may be contributing to why you find it hard to meet, attract and build romantic relationships with quality menExamples of practical actions my clients have taken (and you can too) to expand their capacity to attract quality men almost immediatelyFEATURED ON THE SHOW
Date With Cents Episode #2: What is a Quality ManBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:
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Becoming the sun in your love life changes everything.
Most women are floating through datingâŠ
Responding to texts because they feel like they have to.
Going exclusive because he brought it up.
Feeling overwhelmed because men want their time.
Saying yes when they really want to say no.
Thatâs not power.
Thatâs the sunken place.
In todayâs episode, I break down what it actually means to become the âSUNâ in your love life solar system â and why most women are unconsciously living at the mercy of men, time, and outside opinions.
Itâs time to take your throne.
HEREâS WHAT YOUâLL DISCOVER:
· How women are conditioned to be people pleasers, nice girls, and validation seekers in dating
· The powerful solar system analogy that will completely shift how you view your love life
· How to stop letting menâs actions cause knee-jerk emotional reactions
· What it really looks like to take 100% responsibility for your love life
· How to generate your own energy instead of claiming youâre too tired to date
· Why time doesnât control you â you control time
The simple but life-changing question that helps you reclaim your power:
**What do I desire?**
Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.
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