Episodes
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Christian dating can be fun, honest, and full of surprises.
In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere brings back the single men and women’s panel for Part 2, where they play dating icebreakers, answer real questions, react to each other’s responses, and explore what actually helps Christian singles connect.
You’ll hear funny first impressions, honest thoughts on chemistry, what makes someone easy to talk to, and how men and women approach dating differently.
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Will They Be Blinded By Love or Blind-Sided by the Others' Answers?!
In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere hosts our first blind-dating panel, where single men and women answer honest questions about attraction, standards, communication, and what they’re really looking for before meeting face-to-face.
From funny first impressions to surprisingly honest reveals, this conversation opens up the dating questions Christian singles are often thinking but rarely ask out loud.
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What if your waiting season is revealing where your trust truly lies?
In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with worship leader Rita Springer for an honest conversation about singleness, surrender, longing, and refusing to settle.
Rita shares what it looks like to stay desperate for Jesus, not marriage, when the wait feels longer than expected. Together, she and Christian talk about unmet desires, the temptation to lower your standards, and how to trust God when the timeline still has not changed.
If you’ve ever wondered how to keep hoping without becoming desperate, this conversation will remind you that Jesus is not a backup plan. He is the prize.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What if men are not as hard to read as women think?
How can you tell if a man is interested? Why do some men seem emotionally guarded? What qualities should actually matter when you’re looking for a husband? And are some standards helping you discern wisely, while others may be keeping you stuck?
In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Jeff Bethke for an honest conversation about men when it comes to dating, attraction, and communication. Together, they unpack the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations, why men need to open up rather than hide behind “guarding their heart,” and how women can avoid overanalyzing mixed signals in dating.
Bethke shares a male perspective on the questions so many women are asking:If you’ve ever wondered, “Is he interested, or am I reading this wrong?” this episode is for you.
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Are you choosing from peace, or is loneliness choosing for you?
In this episode of the Dear Future Husband podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Ashley Hetherington for an honest conversation about singleness, dating, discernment, and becoming the woman God is forming you to be.
Together, they talk about why singleness is better than the wrong relationship, how to recognize the difference between a Christian guy and a truly godly man, and why faith talk is not the same as fruit. Ashley shares wisdom from her new book, The Sowing Season, helping women see this season not as a punishment or a pause, but as a time to sow, grow, heal, and prepare with purpose.
If you’ve ever felt like the last single friend, wondered if you’re being too picky, or been tempted to settle for an almost-godly guy, this conversation will encourage you to stop wasting your waiting and start trusting what God is growing in you.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What do single women really wish men understood about dating—but rarely get asked directly?
In Part 2 of our Single Women’s Panel, the conversation gets even more honest. This time, men get to call in and ask the questions they’re usually too scared, hesitant, or unsure to ask women face-to-face.
Christian is joined by three single women representing different seasons of life—in their 20s, 30s, and 40s—for a raw, thoughtful, and faith-filled conversation about dating, relationships, pursuit, communication, expectations, and what women are truly experiencing in today’s relationship culture.
From what makes a woman feel pursued to what men misunderstand about singleness, standards, emotional maturity, and readiness for marriage, these women share their real reflections with honesty, grace, and vulnerability.Special deal: Head to https://perelel.yt.link/XvgmlLV and use CHRISTIAN20 for 20% off your Perelel routine.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What are single women really thinking about dating, waiting, men, marriage, and the season they’re in?
In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with a panel of single women from different seasons of life — women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s — for an honest conversation about modern dating, singleness, frustration, hope, and what they’ve learned along the way.
They talk about the questions many women are carrying quietly:
Why does dating feel so complicated? What should women do with disappointment? How do you stay hopeful when waiting feels longer than expected?And what does it look like to trust God with your future while still being honest about your desires?This conversation is thoughtful, funny, vulnerable, and deeply encouraging for any woman navigating singleness, dating, or the tension between contentment and longing.
Whether you’re single, dating, waiting, healing, or simply trying to understand this season better, this episode will remind you that you’re not behind, you’re not forgotten, and your story is still being written.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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“What if the future you’re praying for is waiting on the decisions you keep avoiding?”
For the third time on Dear Future Husband, we sit down with Dr. Henry Cloud alongside Christian Bevere to talk about his new book, Your Desired Future — and talk honestly about the patterns, beliefs, and boundaries (or lack thereof) that quietly shape the direction of your life.
We unpack how your habits, mindset, and emotional health determine your future. So, if you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or tired of repeating the same cycles, this episode will challenge and encourage you!
Dr. Cloud gives practical advice on:
why people stay stuckhow to stop sabotaging your futurethe connection between faith and responsibilityand how healthy relationships start long before marriageand MOREYour future isn’t found by accident — it’s built by the decisions you make today.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What if your waiting season is actually where God builds the foundation for the relationship you’ve been praying for?
In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with DeAngelo & Whitney Moss for a powerful conversation on waiting well, dating with purpose, and preparing for the marriage you actually want.
After waiting 12+ years to intentionally date, DeAngelo & Whitney share how God used singleness to shape their vision, character, and calling before bringing them together. They discuss becoming the spouse you desire, trusting God’s timing, and why preparation matters more than pressure.
They also reveal their brand-new app, The Dating Project, designed to help singles meet online in a more compatible, purpose-aligned way. This episode will challenge the way you think about dating, singleness, and God-led relationships.DEAL: Head to https://perelel.yt.link/5erhSyc and use CHRISTIAN20 for 20% off your Perelel routine.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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“Long-distance relationships never work”… unless they do. 👀
For the launch of Season 7, Christian and her husband, Arden, share the real story behind their long-distance relationship — what challenged them, what kept them connected, and why they’re actually grateful they dated from far away.
They open up about the habits, communication, and lessons they learned while dating across the country that helped shape their relationship and strengthen their foundation.
So, tune in if you’ve ever wondered whether long distance can actually last, how to build trust from miles away, or what makes some couples survive the distance while others don’t.
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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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Part 2 is here—and the conversation gets even more real. 🎙️
We’re back with the Single Guys Panel on Dear Future Husband—and this time, we’re answering YOUR voice memo questions… no edits, no filters.
We get into the questions everyone’s thinking, but few are asking:
Do men actually like Botox and “high maintenance” women? Why aren’t men approaching women anymore? And what are the absolute WORST dates they’ve ever been on?Nothing is sugarcoated. The guys react in real time, share personal experiences, and give brutally honest perspectives on modern dating, attraction, and what’s really going on behind the scenes.
If you want to understand how men think in today’s dating world… this is the episode you don’t skip. 👀
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What if the confusion you’ve felt in dating… actually makes sense?
In this episode, we’re doing something a little different. I sat down with three single Christian men in their 30s and asked them the questions we’ve all been wondering—the ones that keep us up at night, overthinking texts, mixed signals, and everything in between.
What are they really thinking while dating? What actually matters to them? And why does it sometimes feel so confusing?They didn’t hold back.
This conversation is honest, thoughtful, and full of perspective that might just shift the way you see dating—and men. If you’ve ever wished you could get inside a man’s mind and finally understand what’s going on… this episode is for you!
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Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What if everything you’ve been told about submission, dating, and gender roles… isn’t the full story?
In this powerful episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Pastor Darren Whitehead from Church of the City for an honest, biblical conversation that challenges assumptions and calls believers back to truth.
Together, they unpack what biblical submission really means—moving beyond cultural extremes and misunderstandings to rediscover God’s design for mutual honor, strength, and order in marriage. Is submission about silence and control, or is it something far deeper and more powerful?
They also dive into dating through a biblical lens, asking the hard questions many avoid:
How do you truly evaluate someone for marriage?Are you choosing based on feelings, or fruit?What does wisdom—not culture—say about compatibility?This conversation tackles the often controversial topic of gender roles in the Bible. What did Scripture actually intend? Where has the modern church gotten it right—or wrong? And how do we live this out in a way that reflects both truth and grace? Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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In a world of casual dating and mixed signals, etiquette might be the most underrated advantage.
In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I’m joined by Alison Chepernick from @ElevatedEtiquette to talk about the art of dating well. From how you present yourself on a first date to the subtle social skills that create genuine connection, Alison breaks down why etiquette is far more than knowing which fork to use—it’s about confidence, respect, and emotional intelligence.
We dive into how to maintain high standards without becoming rigid, the small behaviors that instantly elevate your presence, and the hidden life skills etiquette teaches us that make dating smoother, more intentional, and actually enjoyable. Alison also shares practical tips on navigating modern dating with grace, setting the tone for meaningful interactions, and showing up as your best self—without losing authenticity.
If you’ve ever wondered how to balance confidence with kindness, keep your standards high while staying open, and create dates that feel effortless and memorable, this conversation is for you.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What if the way you handle money right now is preparing — or disqualifying — you for the marriage you’re praying for?
In this episode of Dear Future Husband, I sit down with Rachel Cruze from Ramsey Solutions to talk directly to single women about stewarding your finances with wisdom and intention, plus "investing" in your future marriage.
We discuss:
•Why your single season is the best time to build wealth
•Money red flags in dating
•How debt affects future marriage
•Why married couples should share money
•And more
If you want a strong, unified marriage one day, it starts with how you steward what God has already placed in your hands.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What if singleness and marriage were never meant to be opposing seasons — but invitations to the same deeper goal?
In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Lisa Harper shares her personal story of not choosing singleness — and discovering that Jesus meets us fully in the life we didn’t plan. Together, we explore the tension between longing for marriage and learning contentment, and unpack what Paul the Apostle truly meant when he wrote that singleness is a gift.
Lisa opens up about grief, growth, unmet expectations, and the steady faithfulness of Christ. We look at the full context of 1 Corinthians 7, gently challenge cultural narratives, and reframe what it means to walk closely with Jesus in every season.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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"I never thought I could love again… until I did."
In this tender and honest episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Courtney Pray Duke shares what it’s like to open your heart after you were certain it was closed forever. After losing her first husband, love felt impossible — even unimaginable. The grief was heavy. The future felt rewritten. And the idea of loving another man felt both distant and complicated.
Courtney vulnerably walks through the emotions no one prepares you for — the guilt, the fear, the questions, and the quiet hope that slowly returns. She talks about honoring her late husband while stepping into a new relationship, learning that moving forward doesn’t mean moving on, and discovering that the heart can expand in ways we never expect.
If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll never love like that again,” this conversation is a reminder that healing doesn’t erase your past — it makes room for a future. And sometimes, love finds you when you least expect it.Find "And She Got Back Up" here: https://amzn.to/3OnNigq
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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Valentine’s Day can make singleness feel louder than usual. But what if this season isn’t about waiting — it’s about preparation?
In this special episode, I share 3 ways to intentionally prepare for marriage as a single woman who desires a godly relationship. We talk mindset shifts, dating with clarity, emotional readiness, and becoming the woman you’re asking God to bless.
You’ll also hear a live Q&A where I answer honest questions about dating, standards, and how to stay hopeful.
This conversation was recorded during our first-ever live taping at a Galentine’s celebration — a room full of women choosing growth in their single season.
Because you’re not just single.
You’re in preparation.Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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What do you do when following Jesus puts tension in your closest relationships, especially with your family?
In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Sazan Hendrix to talk honestly about navigating faith, love, and obedience when the people you love most are not on the same page. Raised in a Middle Eastern Kurdish family, Sazan shares how unexpectedly falling in love with a Christian boy changed her life forever.
We touch on topics such as:
How do you honor your parents when they do not share your beliefs?How do you walk in obedience without hardening your heart or burning bridges?The cost of choosing faith and the pain of misunderstanding, and the slow, faithful work of God in redeeming relationships.This episode is for anyone navigating love across different backgrounds, carrying the weight of family expectations, or praying for God’s hand over their future marriage. It is a reminder that when you trust God with your love story, He is able to honor your faith, redeem what feels fractured, and write a story that is far more beautiful than you could plan on your own.
Pray while you wait with Future Husband, Present Prayers and trust God with your love story with the Dear Future Husband Prayer Journal. Discover both at www.christianbevere.com.
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Women carry a powerful key to connection—but most have no idea they even have it.
In this powerful episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with bestselling author and relationship expert Dr. Emerson Eggerichs to unpack how men and women are uniquely wired by God—and how misunderstanding those differences can quietly sabotage our relationships.
In this episode, we explore:
1. Why conflict so often goes wrong between men and women
2. How our natural wiring shapes the way we give and receive love
3. The hidden cycle that fuels misunderstanding and emotional distance
4. The often-overlooked power women carry for deep connection—a power many don’t even realize they have
This conversation brings biblical truth, practical wisdom, and eye-opening insight that will challenge the way you see relationships, communication, and your own influence within them. Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this episode will help you navigate relationships with greater clarity, grace, and purpose.
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