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This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing. They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations can feel very feminine-energy-focused, AND how we can apply living tantrically to everyday life! This is a conversation for people who are new to the concepts of tantra, as well as people who have done 15 retreats. Get ready to get turned on by life!
Leola's story. Tantra and overcoming sexual shame. (3:51)
How to apply tantra to the real world: how can I be librated and expansive in this work environment and my home environment? (8:27)
What it means to be a Pleasure Priestess. (13:29)
What is shadow, and shadow work? Analyzing an old trigger of male-male play. (18:37)
What does sexual liberation mean when it comes to shadow work? (26:28)
Analyzing one of Vee’s triggers: Sex without condoms. (28:27)
Golden Shadow, and Elle’s integrated shadow. (33:28)
What’s in it for men? (38:07)
Eye Gazing: Tantra 101. What’s the point of this exercise? (42:36)
Vulnerability: “the cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” (46:19)
Sex magic: what is it? Manifesting through orgasm. (48:00)
Making your life juicier: the tantric principle that every moment is sacred. (53:25)
How to stay grounded at Hedonism Swing Breakers. (58:07)
Leola’s offerings and the final nugget: yoni and lingum gazing with your partner! (1:02:20)
Connect with Leola:
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Instagram: @talktantratome
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This week, the girls go deep on an often (in their experience) overlooked and underused play option: fingering! Pulling from listener polls, friends, research and their own experience, Elle and Vee share all the juicy details of every aspect of fingering that they could come up with. Did they miss anything?
Fingering: yay or nay?
Foreplay: Stimulating around the hole before insertion.
How many fingers at first?
Self-pleasure: Do you use fingers during masturbation?
The Technique: in and out vs in and using the come hither fingers?
Which fingers? Spiderman technique or pointer and middle?
Fingers as the main event vs as foreplay, and formative sexual experiences with fingering.
Squirting: the technique, and what makes it pleasurable.
Using fingering to orgasm after penetration.
Looking at potential partners’ fingers and nails. Using gloves, and lube with gloves.
Fingering an asshole: during doggy style, and prostate play.
Fingering poll results and final nuggets!
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What Is ISTA SSSex Level 1 Retreat? (00:00)
The Intensity of Emotional Processing. (07:25)
The Importance of Slowing Down. (13:38)
Elle’s Reasons for Going to ISTA. (21:07)
Masculine and Feminine. (27:00)
No Expectation of Tantra and Sexuality as a Sacred Experience. (28:55)
People Pleasing vs Listening to Your Body's Signals. (33:44)
Shadow Work: Elle’s Revelations Around Social Anxiety. (37:00)
Triggers as Gifts: Feminine Connection. (40:08)
How Elle will take her takeaways into her relationship with Her Partner Going Forward. (48:47)
Embodied Practices: Dancing into Femininity. (52:03)
Working through Feeling Disconnected at a Play Party. (55:00)
Tantric Latihan. (1:00:54)
Final nugget. (1:17:46)
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This week, the girls chat with Marz, who is the copilot of Top Floor, a curated members-only community for those embracing alternative relationship dynamics, kink, and sex-positive exploration. They give all the top tips from the Cunnilinguistics workshop Marz facilitated in which Vee was the demo model for cunnilingus, despite her aversion to exhibitionism!
What is cunnilinguistics? (3:14)
Normalizing Different Vulvas: Vee works on her pussy insecurities. (6:20)
What to expect from a Friday night at Top Floor as part of their Signature Weekend. (13:25)
Doing it Scared: Going Deep on Vee’s “immersion therapy” to get comfortable with her pussy and exhibitionism. (18:12)
What are some pointers for honing in and receiving in a play party environment? (22:03)
Rimming: licking the vagina hole. Communicating what you do and don’t like. (25:44)
The scientific reason to embrace receiving. (29:49)
Tips for getting out of your head while receiving. (35:09)
Communication tips while receiving at a play party. (40:30)
Pro tips: communication and safety. (43:32)
Pussy licking tips: give them an "oral flight"! Tongue techniques and rhythm. (51:31)
Fingering while performing oral: how many fingers, and nail hygiene (length and cleanliness). (54:59)
Safety: using gloves to finger and condoms during head? (57:42)
Top Floor highlights and naughty stories! (59:48)
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Navigating the Lifestyle: Starting out as a Manicorn (00:00)
Hot Wifing vs. Cuckolding (4:54)
The Role of the Third: Enhancing Couples' Experiences & Feelings of Loneliness (6:44)
Lessons Learned: Mistakes as a Single Guy (10:32)
Transitioning to a Couple: Finding Balance in the Lifestyle (15:35)
Is it easier to make connections with a hot chick on your arm now? (17:57 )
Age is just a number! Cougar’s and Silver Foxes Who Know What They Want (22:13)
Boundaries: Sleep Overs and Romantic Dating (23:05)
Gangbang Group Operation Detailed and Casual Encounters on Craigslist(29:59)
Gang Bang Psychology: Why Participate(40:00)
Being Selective with Cream Pies and More (42:47)
Navigating Swinger Events as a Couple (45:49 )
Tips for Single Guys in Swinging (49:34)
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This week, the girls don't hold back in this uncensored chat about ejaculating in the vagina and the ass! From the drip to the taboo nature to the benefits of being fluid bonded with a partner, listen in for some x-rated and deep reflections on cream pies.
Elle’s “perfect porn pussy” and toilet paper mishaps. (00:40)
Cream Pies: Vee and Elle’s first times and experience level with it. (5:18)
Dripping semen: a sexy naughty reminder of a hot scene or a gross gush in the middle of the workday? (9:15)
Fucking on your period, and cream pies mixing with period blood. (11:12)
Mess on our own terms: do you prefer cumming inside or outside the pussy? (17:23)
What we like about cream pies. (20:04)
Getting the cum out after sex. (23:43)
Eating cream pies out of pussies. (29:43)
Friends’ stories: hot wife, sloppy seconds. (32:21)
Anal cream pies. (38:12)
Friends’ stories: cream pie before a first date. (41:58)
Friends’ stories: hot positions. (44:41)
Considerations before having sex without a condom. (46:28)
Friends’ stories: taking a new partner’s cum, dirty talk. (50:17)
Pussy aftercare: recommendations from Dr. Sexy! Elle is a holistic health practitioner with her own practice, and gives advice for keeping your vaginal microbiome balanced and healthy pre- and post- play time. (54:55)
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Cleo’s story: tantric certification; somatic approach to sex love and relationship coaching. (0:40)
Somatic Embodiment Practices: How do we uncover our blockages through somatic work? The felt sense. Can you do this work in couples too? (4:19)
Erotic Blueprints: Sexual, Sensual, Energetic, Kinky, Shapeshifter; and how erotic blueprints can change throughout life and depending on the partner. (9:49)
Light and shadow sides of the blueprints, and the challenges of a monogamous relationship. (16:46)
Do tantra and non-monogamy go hand in hand? Creating a safe container with a partner. (20:07)
Why work with men? (25:17)
Masculine vs Feminine Energy: what comes naturally to masculine vs feminine, and how we can allow each other to be soft. (31:56)
Getting vulnerable: The cock-heart connection, and allowing yourself to let go in front of witnesses. (36:28)
Being in your Masculine vs Feminine: the culture of toxic masculinity creating fear to step into the masculine energy. (44:04)
The intersection of tantra and BDSM. What is conscious kink? (49:46)
Final nuggets! (55:36)
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In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on their December adventures, focusing on their experiences with friends and breastmilk, parenthood, BDSM and spreading assholes. Welcome to the ride!
Chapters
Cancun, three Babies and A Hotel room. (00:00)
What That Breast Milk Do? A Gameshow of Breast Milk Play. (4:20)
Navigating Parenthood and Intimacy. (14:55)
Fear of Missing out: Vee’s FOMO evolution and Connecting in Relationships. (20:30)
New Experience at SNCTM Replay: Ball Gag, Sobriety and Exhibitionism. (31:13)
First Date Fister: Vee gets fisted on a first date. (44:01)
D/S Scenes: feeling vulnerable when spreading your ass. (52:01)
Empowerment Through Saying No vs Feeling Guilt. (55:54)
See our Instagram story for polls from this episode! If it is after release day, you can still join in on the conversation. See highlight "Polls".
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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with the founder and "co-pilot" of Top Floor, "an upscale play party and community free of pretense" in Manhattan.
“No Takers”: What does this ethos mean? What does Top Floor look for in their guests?
Premium Upscale Vibe = Premium Pricing? The community of volunteering and serving the vibe of the party.
Guiding Principles of Top Floor.
Friday night mixer/workshop.
History of Top Floor and what you can expect.
BDSM and Equipment available: what’s an orgasm tower?!
How do you inhabit the lifestyle? How do you experience the parties?
Serenity Room: what is it? Why is it needed at a party like this?
How the curation of the party is in service of creating moments of "flow".
What does this space mean to you in your personal growth journey? Overcoming shame.
Nuggets: compersion, first time pegging.
Mandatory STI Testing for the party, and privacy policies.
Website: Top Floor - apply to become a member here.
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In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their friends' holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had!
Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23)Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22)
Rope 101: Vee uses her beginner rope tying skills on Elle! Finding something to do with your hands during the party, and unlocking your inner domme. Reverse Tension; Square Knot Single Column Tie; attaching rope to rope. (11:55)
Edging scene while being bound. (18:40)
Fisting tips: Vee uses her takeaways from a recent fisting workshop to get wrist-deep with M, two nights in a row. (20:23)
Elle: year of the pussy! Double ended dildo strap-on play. Why Elle loves reverse cowgirl. (29:38)
Anonymity in a large orgy: at small orgies it feels like there's a spotlight on certain scenes. (40:14)
Sexy white elephant gifts: nipple clamps, penis pumps, ejaculating dildo, sexy art, bed straps. (44:11)
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In this episode of Girls Gone Deep, Vee and Elle welcome Amber Grubenmann, a dating coach and host of the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. (Fun fact: Vee’s dating coach!) Get ready for practical tools, thought-provoking questions, and memorable metaphors to help you master effective, high-quality, confident, and time-saving dating—so you can get what you want.
Chapters:Introduction to Amber Grubenmann (00:00)
Vee's Journey with Dating Coaching: Issues with Overthinking and Dating Anxiety (3:15)
Building Confidence for Dating: The Most Common Unintentional Intentions That Leads to Dating Anxiety (8:31)
Understanding Connection Dynamics: Relationships Bringing Out Different Feelings (12:47)
The 10% Guy Concept: Emotional Connected Less Of The Time Yet It Feels So Amazing And The Other 90% You Feel Hurt/Anxious. Does this have a place in non-monogamy? (17:26)
Community and Friends Support in Dating: Buffer Independence (24:09)
The Importance of Self-Validation in Relationships and Building a Foundation Beyond Dating (28:01)
The Five Elements of Thriving Relationships: The Solution to Pickiness and When To End A Connection (31:42)
Mindset Shifts For Letting Go Of A Relationship: Courage (38.18)
What Does A 2-Date Relationship Or The 3 Month Or 6 Month Connection Have In Common? The Seed Planting Metaphor For Relationship Growth (42:30)
When You Are Heading In The Wrong Direction With Your Connection
Balancing Fun with Going Deep: Is Small Talk Important? (51:48)
Date Ideas Depends on You: Lower Stimulation Dates Vs Activity (57:24)
Optimizing Dating Profiles: Common Mistakes And How To Start Amazing Conversations. Hear Elle’sand Vee’s! (01:02:19)
Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways (01:16:03)
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In this episode, the girls catch up after New Year's Eve: Elle's was intimate with a handful of friends checking things off their fuckit lists, and Vee's was more community-based at a big party in New York City. Part audio smut, part deep chats, the girls give all the details from the orgies to the reflections afterwards.
Elle’s New Years Eve gang bang! (1:39)
Being used vs being worshipped when being fucked. (5:25)
Tuning out the orgy: how to zone in. (11:50)
Elle’s evolving desire from pre- to post-pregnancy. (14:25)
Stay tuned- GGD community coming in 2025! (21:45)
Volunteering at sex parties, and how to approach someone you’re interested in. (22:50)
Impact play to leave marks: using new implements (lollipop stick, dragon tail whip, evil stick, long-tail flogger). (26:44)
Why impact play? The benefits of massage and erotic touch, vibrational spanking, and cathartic impact play that leads to “crygasms”. (32:41)
Power Play Scene: 3 dommes. (37:29)
Domming takeaways. (42:05)
Sexy Scenes from Elle’s New Years Eve. Double stacking and dirty talk. (43:46)
Group sex participation: adding to the scene even if you’re not having sex. (45:55)
2025 intentions: “the year of the pussy” and scissoring, dating, shibari and impact play and increased pain tolerance. (47:44)
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In this conversation, Dr. Marie Thouin PhD and author of What Is Compersion?, discusses the concept of compersion, which is the joy one feels for others' happiness, particularly in the context of non-monogamous relationships. The discussion explores the spectrum of emotions from jealousy to compersion, the importance of self-worth and agency, and the factors that can foster or hinder the experience of compersion.
Chapters
Introduction to Compersion and The Origins of Her Book What Is Compersion? (00:00)
Defining Compersion: A Dive into the 3 parts. (5:02)
The Spectrum of Emotions: Jealousy to Compersion. (8:22)
Navigating Compersion: The Belief that Compersion Should be the Ultimate Goal in ENM: Toxic Positivity vs. Authenticity. (9:24)
Is Compersion Necessary for a Healthy Non-Monogamous Relationship? (12:21)
The 6 Pillars to Cultivating Compersion: Is Compersion like a Muscle that Anyone Can Train? (15:15)
The 1st Pillar:
Choosing Non-Monogamy From a Place of Values and Integrity. (15:15)
If A Partner Is Doing Polyamory For Their Partner And Didn’t Necessarily Choose It, Can They Achieve Compersion? (17: 28)
The 2nd Pillar:
Building Security Within One Self: Financial, Emotional, and Spiritual Autonomy. (20:45)
Building Inner Security in Self. (22:43)
Are Some People More Compersive than Others? (27:27)
The 3rd Pillar:
Security in the Relationship. (32:30)
If You Are Practicing Non-Hierarchical Polyamory or Solo Polyamory, How You Can Create Security? (32:22)
The 4th Pillar:
Positive Metamour Relationships: your partner’s partner (Very Important). (39:13)
What If Your Partner Does Not Want You to Meet Their Metamors? (46:36)
What If the Metamour Does Not Want to Meet You? (49:04)
Growth Edges: Embracing Good Pain. (51:13)
The 5th Pillar:
Perception of Benefits from your partner’s Other Relationships. (54:36)
The 6th Pillar:
Community Belonging: The Role of Support in Non-Monogamy. (57:46)
Cuckolding and Erotic Compersion: Is the Feeling Self-Centered or Other-Centered? (01:04:50)
Final Thoughts: Don’t Pressure Yourself to Feel Compersion. (01:08:50)
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In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up, and Vee recounts her sexcapades diving back into the BDSM scene! From being tied up and flogged on a second date to power play in Mexico City on vacation, she gives all the dirty details of her recent scenes. Then the girls discuss Elle's experience with Flintts Mints to cure her dry mouth, and tapping into your inner dominant or submissive side through different modes, including primal play. Get ready for some smut with a side of depth!
Vee seeks out Vacation Sex in Mexico City. (0:37)
Power Play scene and being a "good girl". (4:59)
Flintts Mints: Elle discusses which strengths are best for every situation. (20:13)
Bondage and Impact play scene, including spanking, flogging, and sensory deprivation. (23:58)
Primal Play: Vee and J go to a workshop to unlock their base instincts. (33:58)
Finding your D/S Persona: trying different modes to unlock your inner Dominant or Submissive. (40:25)Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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Welcome to the In Bed With Alexa x GGD crossover episode!
In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) hosts her first threesome on the podcast with Vee and Elle, hosts of the Girls Gone Deep podcast, besties and lovers. They dive into their ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journeys, recounting experiences at Hedonism and the play party where Vee and Alexa first met. Vee and Elle share how they met and their adventures in double penetration and double vaginal penetration. They provide tips for those wanting to try non-monogamy, discussing how to advocate for your pleasure and ask for what you want. Vee and Elle also talk about the vibrant non-monogamous community they have built together. Tune in for an open and enlightening conversation about pleasure, connection, and community in the world of ENM.
How Vee and Elle met: Temptations lifestyle resort. (3:16)How Vee and Elle started the podcast. (7:23)
Fucking older partners, and why women who advocate for their pleasure are sexy. (11:04)
Penis sounding at a daytime orgy. (15:10)
ENM journeys: how Elle got into the consensually non monogamous lifestyle. (22:33)
Shame and the importance of community. (29:11)
What are you curious about that you learned about through the lifestyle? DVP. (34:27)
Faking Orgasms? How to get reconnected when you’re in your head. (36:58)
Tips for play parties: what to do when you’re not the main part of the scene, and how to achieve orgasm with lots of people around. (43:22)
DP: first time stories. (45:30)
Anal: training and prepping. (51:28)
Elle’s and Vee’s advice for new people discovering ENM. (54:01)
Would you rather? (1:01:02)Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends.
“A glimpse into a lifestyle party,” and one of the challenges of bringing a third to a party. (1:46)
What’s the point of having themes? (5:35)
Sobriety: the challenges and benefits of staying sober for an entire lifestyle weekend. (9:10)
Sobriety and sexuality. (18:02)
Highlight: DP with strap ons? FFF threesome and goal-oriented fucking. (21:57)
Face-sitting: the benefits of being distracted/focused when you’re getting action both up top and down bottom. (26:46)
Highlight: Fivesome and creampie. (29:41)
Fuckit List item: DVP, and Elle’s tips for success. (32:06)
Breakthrough: Getting out of your head, and cumming in front of a group. (38:28)
Sybian vs Fuck Machine. (41:37)
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Elle and Vee catch up just the two of them for their 100th episode! They reflect on how much they've changed since beginning the podcast, and fill each other in on their latest sexcapades, learning moments and takeaways.
Putting Talk Into Action: Vee doing the work, Elle’s intentions to be a better student, gratitude for the guests. (1:10)
Elle’s tight pussy post-birth: how Vee and Elle have changed since the beginning of the podcast. (6:04)
The importance of taking care of yourself to have good sex! Desire level post-birth: how lack of sleep for new parents affects sex drive. (11:48)
Alcohol: letting go of alcohol allowed Vee to listen to her body’s signals. (16:33)
How to Be the Love You Seek check ins: Elle uses tools from Dr. Nicole LaPera’s book. (18:27)
Vee gets embodied: checking in with yourself - inside and outside of the bedroom. (20:03)
First date orgasms! Getting eaten out by a guy with a beard, and learning to let go with a new partner. (21:55)
Oral with a timer; giving your partner NRE (new relationship energy) no matter how long youve been together. (28:03)
Elle’s vacation sex: cock ring + connection + tipsiness + weed = anal sex! (34:51)
Balls hitting the ass during sex: yay or nay? (37:09)
Putting mens’ toys and condoms on for them. (42:15)
Setting intentions: cock cage, yoni massage, and tantra retreat. (44:10)
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In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with a psychotherapist who they refer to as Wonder Woman on this episode for the sake of anonymity. With specializations in sex therapy and ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, the girls pick her brain on everything from desire discrepancy to the most common issues within couples, from what a ketamine-assisted psychotherapy session actually looks like to neuroplasticity.
Psychotherapy vs. Psychoanalysis: what is the difference? (1:58)
Top reasons couples seek sex therapy counseling: both gay and cis-het couples, and individuals. (5:15)
Spontaneous desire vs responsive desire: a dive into libido differences and desire discrepancy. (6:25)
Is there a way to get spontaneous desire back? Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity. (13:33)
The Dual Control Model (Sexual Brakes and Accelerators): a concept from Emily Nagoski’s book Come As You Are and her 2nd book Come Together. (20:57)
Kink and shame: how to bring you kinky desires up to your partner and working through internalized shame. (26:12)
Kink as shadows: how roleplaying can help one work through shame with reframing and control. (30:02)
Kink isn’t always about processing something. Heteroflexible male-male play as a “taboo kink”. (31:27)
Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy: how to use it properly, and how it’s being done irresponsibly. (35:17)
How neuroplasticity works in the brain using the snow track analogy by Michael Pollan, author of the book How to Change Your Mind. (47:24)
Ketamine Assisted Couples Psychotherapy. (53:02)
Final Nugget: Keeping the idea of play and pleasure at the forefront. (53:57)
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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with paid companion Adele Bardot in a conversation which went somewhere they didn't necessarily expect it to go. And that's what this theme of going deep is all about: relinquishing control and sometimes talking about really intense stuff like the authentic self.
Elle and Vee invite you to think of this convo as an insight into how sex work and companionship can be truly great opportunities to dive deeper and seek answers to those questions of, "Who am I?" and "What is my purpose?" and "What brings me joy and lights me up?" and "How can I seek more of that?"
Getting into paid companionship. (1:49)What does paid companionship entail? (4:56)
Sugaring: finding a sugar daddy on Seeking.com, and discovering the pros and cons. (7:50)
How our childhood informs where we end up. (11:19)
Authentic self: asking yourself who you are, not just in the roles you play but your core self. (15:31)
2024: a year of change. Discussing impermanence and grace through turmoil. (21:42)
Seeking joy and developing your hobbies lead to being able to hold a conversation with anyone and fit in anywhere. (25:37)
Greater connections with your partners once you have a greater connection to yourself. (27:55)
Applying self work to paid companionship. (31:12)
Memorable experiences with clients! (37:11)
What types of bookings might an escort receive? (40:18)
Vetting or questions for new clients? (45:22)
What do you wish you knew before getting into sex work? (47:12)
Ikigai: the Japanese concept of living your life's purpose. (48:57)
Links:
Website: theadelebardot.com
Instagram: @itsadelebardotX: @theadelebardot
HBO sex show Vee referenced: This Is Life With Lisa Ling
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Guys Gone Deep! In this thought provoking conversation, Justin Gottlieb, a sexual freedom coach, discusses his evolution from the corporate world to the world of tantra. He emphasizes how Tantra is often misunderstood and the need to redefine Tantra beyond stereotypes. His take on unlocking sexual freedom is refreshing and he encourages everyone to live fully by embracing and accepting all aspects of life, the good, the bad and the ugly.
So, how can we achieve this? Take a listen…
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From Corporate Suit To Tantra World, Beyond The Typical Tantra Spiritual Stereotypes. (00:00)
Justin’s Definition Of Tantra: Different From Sanskrit, Accepting Our Sexuality and Embracing Our Human Experience. (06:14)
Personal Journey into Discovering Tantra: Tantra Massages And Spiritual Awakening. (09:24)
More Than Tantra: What is a Sexual Freedom Coach? (14:04)
Story Share: A Tantra Massage Detailed, Withholding Orgasm and Male Orgasm Without Ejaculation. (16:50)
Why Justin Doesn't Subscribe To Semen Retention As A Must For Tantric Men. (20:46)
The Distinction Between Self Pleasure And Masturbation. (24:01)
Justin Coaches Vee On Resisting Edging. (27:02)
Story Share: Justin Details being a demo for a tantra massage in front of a 40 person training. The Power of Vulnerability and Emotional Release. (28:27)
What is a Men’s Group or Men’s Circle? (33:28)
How can you create Safe Spaces in groups and in Relationships to be vulnerable? (38:10)
What is it like at a Tantra Love Retreat? (44:13)
What is The Sacred Slut Experience? Exploring Boundaries and Desires in a Supportive Environment. (49:24)
The Evolution of Miami Velvet, Justin’s Swinger Sex Club Rescue Detailed, Incorporating Tantric Principles, Community Education, Expansive Experiences. (55:25)
Fantasy Vs. Desire. (01:06:37)
The Intersection of BDSM and Tantra: is there a difference between Subspace and Surrender? (01:09:15)
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Schedule Your Free 15 Minute call with Justin here
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Tantra, Sexual Freedom, Spirituality, Authenticity, Personal Growth, Sexuality, Coaching, Relationships, Self-Acceptance, Empowerment, vulnerability, emotional release, men's groups, safe spaces, tantra retreats, pleasure, intimacy, healing, boundaries, swinger clubs, community education, personal development, fantasies, healing, BDSM
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