Episodes
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In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success. Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it's so much work? ...And what are some hot experiences they've had along the way?
First Hedo experience: a big challenge. Going through a polyamorous breakup. (3:55)
Tools from both solo and couples therapy. People pleasing. No "taking one for the team". (8:42)
Safety Tool: No record-counting. Setting desires not goals. (12:30)
Safety Tool: Move at the pace of the slowest person. Playing separately vs. playing together. (15:34)
Safety Tool: limiting alcohol consumption to help manage emotions. (17:51)
Safety Tool: Only argue for two minutes. Keep the mindset that you're a team. (19:01)Spicy story: being a couple's first ENM experience. Enthusiastic consent. (20:01)
Spicy Story: Superslut's first double penetration (DP). (21:31)Stag and Vixen: what is it? Why a woman might not enjoy watching her partner with someone else. Finding your dynamic through trial and error. Why Hedonism is not the ideal place to figure out what works for you. (22:50)
Drinking and the lifestyle: how drinking affects your ability to respect boundaries and agreements. Getting sober to save your relationship. How stopping drinking can enrich your experience with your partner. Getting used to being at an all-inclusive resort without alcohol. Discovering we are braver than we thought. What do you do with your hands? (28:29)Why swing? Dressing sexy for your partner. Vaginal hook harnesses. (35:49)
Why be in the open lifestyle? Sense of community. "Hedo people are the best people." Icebreakers. (38:13)
Major takeaway: donât have a checklist. Release expectations. Thereâs always next time. (41:01)
Squirting and exhibitionism. (43:20)Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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In todayâs episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game.
First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ :
from Episode 057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life!
Then, The Builder:
from Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle and mentioned in multiple other episodes!
Fucking yourself in the ass as a way to warm yourself up and clean yourself out before a play night. (3:20)
Squirt juice facials with a side of hot sweaty squirty sex. (9:24)
Spitting on your partner and into their mouth. (16:01)
For men, the balance of being forward yet also needing to read the room correctly. (19:45)
Enthusiastic consent in straight play spaces versus opt-out consent in gay spaces. (22:42)
Prostate play and how to have a prostate orgasm. (25:10)
Leaking prostate juices and toys for prostate play: nJoy and anal hook discussed. (29:14)
Airtight: the benefits of each position. (38:26)
"Running a train". (44:19)
Experiences meeting people on ENM or swinger apps. (50:15)
Working through catfishing and making real connections on dating apps. (54:48)
Where do you meet dates, and what do you do dates with a unicorn or another couple? (59:59)
Full head mask during sex and latex fetish experience. (1:03:03)
Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat before and after Vee goes to Hedonism Swing Breakers: an under-45 swinger event at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. It's a weeklong takeover of the resort, full of nudity, orgies, theme parties and debauchery!
Vee articulates her intentions, and later they recap the week and their experiences of it - both there and from afar - and what their takeaways were!
This conversation includes:
Lingerie vs rave costumes at lifestyle theme parties. PLUS packing tips! (:45)
Setting Sexual intentions: butt stuff, Nuru, daytime orgies! (14:13)
HSB 2024 recap. (20:40)
Sexual intentions fulfilled? Additional intentions during the week. (21:59)
Day orgies recap aka DORGIES! Dorgy 1: Nuru and DP (double penetration). (23:00)
Dorgy 2: Nuru and getting out of your head to squirt. (28:00)
Slut Scouts: what it is, how to play, badges. (30:33)
âGardeningâ Badge: using gardening tools as sex toys because Elle is a freak ;) (33:01)
Water Sports Badge: golden showers. (34:11)
âSpelunkingâ aka âCavingâ Badge: pussy spreading with speculums (medical play). (36:38)
âGlobal Actionâ Badge: Eiffel Tower sex position, impact play spanking session, and shibari harness sex. Vee has an aha moment and becomes the initiator! (38:38)
Making a girl squirt, strapping girl on girl with strap ons. (44:13)
Major Takeaway: balancing friends and sex at HSB; Veeâs demisexuality confirmed! Building on relationships to have better sex. (48:32)
Pro Tips for Hedo! Learn from the girlsâ experience. (51:14)
balancing friends satellite friends and new people. (57:12)
Dealing with fomo: just like Burning Man, wherever you are is where youâre supposed to be. (59:35)
For more on Hedonism including FAQs and tips and tricks, check out:
014: HSB: Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights
015: Going Deep with Julia Lange: the Woman Behind Hedonism Swing BreakersWhere to find us, and how you can support us:
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In this week's episode, Elle and Vee chat about all things SNCTM, the private members club that the girls have always wanted a peek inside. They cover the club, but also go super deep with their guest on the deeper meaning behind impact play, his love and adoration of his burlesque champion wife, and their artistic partnership.
Daniel DâOttavio: his role in SNCTM, and his origin story with his wife, Lou Lou Dâvil, the creative director or SNCTM. (1:03)Monogamy and SNCTM: The choice to stay monogamous while working for a sex club, what your first sex club experience feels like, and learning about the consent culture. (5:27)
Erotic storytelling: How telling stories through erotic arts lead Daniel and his wife to SNCTM, and how her creative direction helped create a femme-empowered, luscious environment. (9:41)
What to expect at a SNCTM party: ambiance, service, clientele, privacy (including masks and NDAâs). (13:54)
Accountability and communication: How have these experiences affected Danielâs personal growth, and his relationship growth? (18:15)
Types of performances at SNCTM: aerial, kink, and theatrical erotic artistry. (20:52)
Kink workshops: Discovering kink and impact play, and evolving into an educator. (23:05)
Catharsis and therapeutic benefits of impact play: The deeper meaning behind kinks and fetishes. (25:01)
The importance of having spaces to explore sex, kink, fetish and fantasy. (31:36)
How has SNCTM evolved since ownership changed in 2019? Consent rules, NDAâs, masks, one-strike policy, single women. (33:30)
SNCTM: fever dreams and sexual fantasies, and the emphasis on having a female-empowered environment. (42:21)
Nuggets from being part of the lifestyle community. (45:30)
Websites:
SNCTM
CocoonInstagram:
@dottavio77
@snctmsociety
Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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Horny for Knowledge: Daytime Playtime Sober Play Party with Mini Workshops. (00:54)
What is a daytime sober play party like? Analyzing the space and vibe: lighting, highlighting hit me up, attire, number of people. (4:54)
What sobriety brings to a sex party. (7:21)
Lola Jean: Spicing up the typical consent speech, including an interactive exercise. (9:31)
Making eye contact at a sex party: it;s not necesssarily an invitation! (11:02)
Embodiment, setting intentions, and setting boundaries workshop: giving permission to others with your actions, and how to have initial conversations with new people about boundaries and STI status. (13:47)
Sarah Eve: sensation (sensory) play workshop, including tools, blindfolds, temperature play, breath and intensity. (20:28)
Does kink always have to be sexual? (26:22)
Penis sounding: Vee performs her first urethral sound! What is it, how do you do it, and what does it feel like? (33:10)
All the dirty details: Sensation play on the hitachi wand chair, blocking out voyeurs to get out of your head to orgasm. (44:15)
Cumming on top vs cumming on bottom. (49:54)
Sex club etiquette: is it ok to cum on chests at a public play party? (53:39)
Sex and technology: Apple vision proâs capabilities for personal porn, and its limitations. (57:52)
Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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In todayâs episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game!
Leia (@vibrantbyleia) from Episode 41: Transformational Experiences in ENM and Episode 42: Sexual Somatic Healing and Sasha Silver (@Sashasilverxo) from Episode 54: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix.With Leia, the way we played the game was by answering âDone It, Fantasy, No Thank youâ and with Sasha, we had to guess if the person who drew the card had done it or not.
Plan B use in college and IUDs. (2:28)
Have you ever had a sugar daddy or sugar mommy and seeking.com discussed. (07:29)
Orgasm control, edging, cumming on demand. (12:50)
Impact play with a crop. (20:37)
Dominatrix Masterclass details shared. (22:13)
Been choked during sex, passing out, fingerprint marks, where pressure is applied and hand placement on the neck/chest. (28:06)
Using WHOREibe Life the game for tips on chaturbate. (36:05)
Massage with a happy ending and surprise rub and tug experience. (37:13)
Received foot worship and toe sucking and double dom experience shared. (43:23)
Sex dungeon experiences shared. (49:34)
Not being a voyeur creep in the sex cub and double standard of women watching others. (55:32)
Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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Listen in as Elle and Vee chat with Amy and Byron about Noetic, an exclusive elite VIP sex party which hosts unique, kinky, themed events in NYC, Miami, and Dubai. They cover everything from strap-ons to consent double standards and hot girls privilege.
What does Noetic mean? (0:44)What is the orientation of the attendees of these events? (4:04)
How does allowing women to have complimentary membership impact the dynamic and ambiance of the parties? (5:46)
What can one expect at Noetic event? (13:01)
What types of performances are there at Noetic? (21:32)
What is the importance of having a space to explore sexual desires? (24:02)
Fantasies: worship fantasy, massage fantasy, heteroflexible gang bang, pregnancy fantasy. (26:54)
What are the membership requirements and process? (33:17)
Consent: the double standard between men and women, and the different weight it holds in ENM vs monogamous dating. (37:51)
The difference between membership types: Basic, VIP and Prestige VIP. (44:21)
How does Noetic enforce and protect anonymity and discretion of its elite members? (46:27)
What is required of guests to attend an event or try Noetic before committing to a membership? (50:32)
How do Burning Man and ENM overlap? (57:57)
Using ENM and communication to grow. (59:14)
Learn more about Noetic Here.
Follow Noetic's Instagram.
Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop
Contact: [email protected]
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In this episode Vee and Elle had special guest Daniel Saynt on the show: founder and Chief Conspirator of NSFW, AKA New Society for Wellness, which is an NYC-based sex club and community.
They get into what makes NSFW different from other sex spaces, how they host workshops around sex education and communication, how they create safe space for all genders and sexual orientations, including bisexual and gay men, to feel welcomed and safe to explore their sexy sides⊠and way more!Bisexuality: Daniel shares his journey as a bi male, and the difference between bi men and women. (2:37)
Daniel shares what lead to the creation of NSFW, a sex positive community that is inclusive for all, especially bisexual and gay men with a focus on sex positivity education.(7:43)
Consent differences in straight sexual spaces with women and how itâs different in all male spaces where you give up consent as you walk in. (9:56)Rejection: Daniel shares tips on using your noâs, how to set your own boundaries, and how to deliver and receive rejection. (13:40)
The vibes when you arrive at NSFW. (17:32)
What makes an inviting sexual play space for a sex club and the evolution of NSFW spaces and events. (19:57)
Daniel descibes the new East Village location that is set to open March/April 2024. (24:24)
Does Daniel get to enjoy himself when he is at the club? (28:30)
Why does NSFW have an all black dress code? (31:44)
Cannabis: Daniel discusses cannabis strains he has created that are paired with various medicinal herbs to enhance sexual experience. (34:06)
Why the new East Village location will not serve alcohol; rather, it will have elixirs, tinctures and potions. (38:33)
Vee dives into the sexual awakening that occurs when around likeminded people with various levels of experiences and we dive into some Daniel fantasies, dom/sub, producing fantasies for other people (41:58)
The flow of the night at an NSFW party. (46:23)
NSFW memberships. (48:52)
NSFWâs own LOVER cryptocurrency, why itâs beneficial for them to use crypto for their sex community and simplifying purchasing and its use. (52:11)
NSFW legal and funding questions answered. (56:09)
Why did the Brooklyn location close? (58:04)Whatâs happening with NSFW?
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Learn more about NSFW and apply here
Purchase NSFWâs Eden Direct Cannabis
Find Daniel @DanielSaynt on all social platforms
Contact [email protected]
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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with sensuality mentor and sensual shibari practitioner Jaqueline Michelle about ways to heal trauma and connect with yourself. They touch on everything from solo kink to conscious sex work and strip clubs, the stigma around stripping and finding what makes you feel sexy, relearning to tune into your body when you disassociate to healing trauma through movement and self love practices, and surrendering to your inner domme or sub.
Jaqueline Michelle's healing journey: from disassociation and being inorgasmic, to discovering tantra, meditation and yoga, to sensuality embodiment mentor. (2:52)Body awareness and healing. (8:53)
What is sensuality? (11:49)
Masculine vs feminine, embodiment tools and processing emotions, and shadow alchemy. (20:35)
Ways to move trauma through the body and out through sensual movement, writing, rope bondage, sensory play, and self pleasure practices. (25:19)
What does intuitive sensual movement or ecstatic dance do for someone? How does it benefit a practitioner? How can you be in your body and feel into your feelings? (27:18)
Finding your own version of sexy, and bringing tantric work into the strip club. (32:26)
Conscious stripping and femme-powered strip club Rosewood Theater in NYC. (37:35)
Overcoming the stigmas around being a stripper. (42:03)
Solo kink and channeling your inner domme and inner sub; self bondage and self pleasure practices. (43:28)
Overcoming disassociating: What advice do you have for women who struggle with sensual embodiment? Feeling your feelings deeply and sitting with discomfort to heal trauma. (47:05)
How can solo embodiment practices support your non monogamy journey? (51:12)
Sex and energy transfer: protecting yourself from absorbing your partners' energy. (55:37)
LINKS:
Work with Jaqueline Michelle
Instagram: @jaquemichWhere to find us, and how you can support us:
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In todayâs episode, Elle and Vee bring back guest Jess from Episode 37: Edging, to play the game WHOREible Life together!
This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!
When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you.1 Done it âwith story sharing
2 Fantasy â-with desire share
3 No thank you --and why not
Ass swallowing butt plug experience. (1:00)
Toy Review: Amovibe Pro+G Spot Flapping Vibrator with Kissing Function & Vibrating Tongue. (6:15)
NEW with GGD: New Episode series launch: Why WHOREible Life? (12:55)
First WL card: âTake a sip for every person you have peed on.â Thoughts are shared around the psychology of what brings on the kink of pee play. (15:19)
Second WL Card: âBeen Fistedâ and overcoming the idea of, âyeah right, a hand wonât fit in thereâ (24:34)
How to stay focused on your current partner(s) without getting distracted in a group play situation. (28:42)
No pressure to perform leading to organic sexual play. (33:53)
How Jess and Ace evolved into separate play. (36:12)
Vee shares her first fisting experience. (37:15)
Looser pussy with DVP and solving the triple penetration logistical problem. (42:50)
EXCITING NEW UPDATES WITH GGD: A website, merch shop, & Slutstakes. (45:54)
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In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Zachary Zane on everything from coming out as bisexual to overcoming shame, the importance of community and the nerdiness of polyamorous people.
Being âclosetedâ as a sex positive swinger. (3:42)
Pansexual vs bisexual. (7:12)
From sexually confused to "The Bisexual Mega Influencer." (13:13)Bisexual visibility/audibility. (18:46)
Untangling anal stigmas - can you be seen as masculine AND enjoy anal play? (23:44)
Common myths or misrepresentations of bisexuals. (27:28)
Overcoming sexual shame and coming out as bi. (34:05)
How to come into your own and overcome shame: finding your people, and identifying who or what is trying to shame you. (38:54)
Polyamory. (45:05)
The challenges of being biexual. (46:55)
Trans party Inferno. (49:43)
Sexy threesome story, MMF vs MFM, and having sex with people who are on the same page as you. (51:24)
How to channel your inner Boyslut! (1:01:54)
Links:
ZacharyZane.com
Zachary Zane on InstagramWhere to find us, and how you can support us:
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Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop
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In this episode, Elle and Vee reflect on their sexual highlights from 2023, and look forward to what they want to focus on in 2024, sexually and personally. But first, they recap and share takeaways from their 16-person NYC weekend.
Slutcracker weekend recap. (3:05)
Takeaway: Finding quiet moments to recharge batteries. (6:27)
Hot takes on the NSFW soft opening. (11:40)
Hoes in Hoboken: Joy Edition. (17:26)
Highlight: Vee gives head from start to finish! (21:50)
Takeaway: The bonus of more intimate settings and smaller groups. (26:50)
2023 Sexual Highlights: Day orgies, sex swing, the freedom to throuple, MFMs and more male group play. (31:18)
Highlight: Sex doll Channing! (37:49)
Toy Highlights: double ended dildo, and the importance of getting to know a toy in private. (40:45)
Sexual intentions for 2024, including DP and more butt stuff. (43:03)
Intention: Maintaining body confidence while pregnant. (44:27)
Intention: Overcoming codependency. (47:40)
Intention: Communicating when you're triggered. (51:30)Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up after their separate slutty adventures. Elle gives all the naughty details of her trip to Nicaragua with a group of ENM friends, and Vee shares her sexy stories and takeaways from the Naughty Snowball, an annual sexy party thrown by Brandi and the DJ.
Through detailing their experiences, you get an inside look at all the ways in which Elle, Vee and their friends get intimate and playful one-on-one with their primary partners, and in group sex situations...some things might surprise you!
Elle and Mâs playful night: Hand jobs, VR porn and dildos. (3:52)Deep throating: to do it or not to do it? (10:09)
Pregnancy sexuality updates. (16:15)
Being drawn to your partner at parties. (18:47)
Vee recaps the Naughty Snowball party. (22:52)
Getting day orgies started: Whoâs in my mouth? (23:24)
Masturbating to get sex started. (29:23)
Choking and consent. (31:16)
Nicaragua: caving. (38:55)
Sex is the way we play as adults. The beauty of play. (47:35)
Sensory deprivation cave game: whoâs going down on me? (50:49)
Double sided dildo, and the need to play with new toys in a more intimate setting. (53:21)
What makes a sexy weekend successful: starting with group play, and doing fear/desires/boundaries. (57:05)
Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Femdom Sasha Silver. The girls talk about her journey from webcamming to dominatrix to self discovery to the psychology behind many kinks and fetishes. This conversation has so many good nuggets! We're excited for you take a deep dive with us!
Who is Sasha Silver and how she got into webcamming on Chaturbate, and online Sex Work. (1:38)
What is a cam girl? (4:30)
Sasha shares web cam tips that helped her success. (5:38)
What was on Sashaâs cam girl menu? (9:18)
What is a day of work like and what are the challenges? (11:10)
How did Sasha transition from webcam girl to Femdom? Uncovering her authentic self in the process. (12:36)
How do we women channel our confidence and assertiveness? (16:30)
What is an interaction like with clients? (18:26)
Small penis humiliation story, and the psychology and healing behind fetish and dom work. (20:52)
How does being a dom and embodying various different role plays change Sasha's personal desires and kink? (27:08)
Masculine and feminine energy and the misunderstanding of alpha males and beta males. (28:57)
Which requests does Sasha turn down and does she meet clients in person? (33:17)
How did Sasha learn to become a Femdom? (40:44)
Role-playing as a creative outlet and practicing instant forgiveness. (43:10)
What are the latest fetishes? Giantess fantasy, pregnancy, paraphilic infantilism (ageplay). (47:28)
What about domming women? (54:51)
What is financial domination? How does it work? Is there aftercare? What does it do for the sub? (56:17)
Sasha's transformation to be the woman she is today, letting go of shame (1:07:01)
Quick questions: What does she wear for sessions? Impact play tools during virtual sessions? (1:12:02)
You can find Sasha Silver on Twitter / X HEREWhere to find us, and how you can support us:
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In the episode you've all been waiting for ;), Elle and Vee dive deep into all things BUTT STUFF, including (drumroll please)... Vee's play by play of her first DP!
New Years Eve: Vee does DP (double pentration)! (2:23)Butt plugs: tails and inflatable butt plugs - the pros and cons and what to watch out for! Douching, and butt plugs falling out. (12:45)
Lubes: types of lube (silicone vs water based), coconut oil and lube shooters. What Elle learned from the Reddit thread Ask Gay Bros. (26:01)
Rimjobs aka rimming. (30:41)
Nail hygiene and the snag test. (32:12)
First Experiences: how bad ones scar us; experimenting and opening our minds to butt stuff. (34:00)
Anal training. (36:01)
Diet: psyllium husk, fiber, acacia, water! (38:18)
First time receiving anal vs first time enjoying it; synesthesia and seeing visions during orgasms and anal. (42:40)
Pegging: communication and should you stimulate the person being pegged? (48:45)
Positions: comparing anal on top, missionary, and doggy style. (53:24)
Golden Rule of Ass Play: no cross-contamination, and cleanliness - gloves, peeing, and washing after. (54:35)
âItâs gay for a guy to like butt stuff.â (1:00:00)
âMy asshole doesnât look like a porn asshole.â (1:02:04)
Set and setting: going into butt play with the right headspace. (1:03:32)
Check out www.futuremethod.com for Dr. Evan Goldstein's products.Where to find us, and how you can support us:
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Happy New Year! Elle and Vee usher in 2024 by reflecting on some of the never-before-released clips from some of the most popular episodes of 2023.
Nipples through shirts: Free the nipple? What are the ethics of letting your nipples show through your shirt in public? What about wearing a shirt with fake nipples built in? (2:34)
(Hear the full conversation in Episode 041)
DVAAP: What's the best position to make triple penetration (DVP and anal) work? The importance of set and setting for DVP and DP. (9:11)
(Hear the full conversation in Episode 012)
Pregnant Sex: What's the difference in having sex with a pregnant woman? Updates on how is Elle feeling in her second trimester. (17:07)
(Hear the full conversation in Episode 039)Blow up sex dolls and bunkbed sex: Elle shares dirty details from her trip to Tulum, including getting a sex doll airtight and the challenges of having sex on bunkbeds. (23:34)
âSlut hacksâ for getting turned on: switching the ambience, and using your wand. (34:49)
(Hear the full conversation in Episode 003)Healing Trauma Through Yoni Massage: how energy is stored in the body and how we can heal it through somatic sexual practices. (37:24)
FRIES: an acronym for all the aspects that need to be present to create true enthusiastic consent. Revoking consent, and feeling pressured to play. (42:49)
(Hear the full conversation in Episode 045)
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Wrapping up 2023! Podcast stats revealed! THANK YOU to our listeners! We appreciate you spending time with us each week and for sharing this podcast with others!
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Julia Lange, the brains behind a sexy vacation week called Hedonism Swing Breakers (HSB) that happens every year in March at resort Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica! Then, they answer all your questions submitted on social media about Hedo.
How did Hedonism II and Hedonism Swing Breakers come about? How did it become a family business? How nudity levels the playing field. (9:31)How can ethical non-monogamy (ENM) enrich your relationship? (17:41)
All about HSB (Hedonism Swing Breakers) - How many guests are there? What's the difference between typical weeks and HSB? Are throuples allowed? (19:37)
What types of people and age groups go to Hedonism II in Jamaica? (22:10)What are the rules at Hedo? What does Hedo do to keep it safe for guests? (25:23)
Tips for newbies! "What should I pack?" (44:19) "Is there anything I should know about the resort?" (47:07) "Which excursions should I go on?" (49:48) "Should I go see the shows?" (51:50) "Is there anything I should know about the Jamaican airport?" (52:12) "How do I get from the airport to Hedonism?" (54:38) Where do Elle and Vee get their sexy rave theme outfits (costumes)? (58:17) How does Hedo compare to other lifestyle resorts? (63:43) Rapid fire questions! DP (double penetration), anonymous sex, sexual numbers, roses and thorns of the trip, how did you accomplish a desire you set for yourself. (1:08:31)
How the workshops and theme nights help you explore different sides of yourself. (28:19)
Permanent residency at Hedonism II Resort. (34:43)
What do the Jamaicans and staff think of Hedonism guests? (35:36)
How has being in the lifestyle affected your relationship with yourself and with your partner? (40:12)
Social Media Question Answered:To here Elle's and Vee's recap of the 2023 event experience, Check out EPISODE 14
To check out Hedonism Swing Breakers March 16 â 23, 2024 Event, click here
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The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including:
Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or turn someone down in the moment at a sex party? How circumstances, headspace and how well you know the person comes into play: private play parties, organized play parties, lifestyle resorts, etc. (10:45)The do's and don'ts of rejection. Rejecting over text, ghosting, and being clear and respectful. (16:24)
Vee gets rejected over text, and how to deal with being rejected. (22:45)
Couples and rejection: just because your partner plays with someone does not mean you will play with them or their partner. (24:58)
How to reject someone during group sex when youâre not into one of the people. (27:43)
Being approached vs approaching: The gender norms in pursuing, and how we subconsciously consider feelings differently between men and women. (34:41)
Turning down couples with different boundaries. (37:49)
Common Excuses: âI have my period.â (39:38 42:08)
Common Excuses: âIâm polysaturated.â What is polysaturated, using it as a way to turn someone down, and how to deal with polysaturation. (44:35)
The concept of âvetoâ. (46:59)
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In this episode, Elle and Vee have one of their most important conversations to date: all things vaginal health. Elle is a medical professional - a nutritional therapist and holistic medical professional with a Doctor of Pharmacy degree, so Vee uses this opportunity to pick her brain about how to prevent the most common of vaginal issues, including:
Chronic yeast infections and BV (bacterial vaginosis): natural solutions, vaginal PH balance and probiotics. What specific probiotic strains should we look for when buying probiotics? (7:01)Yeast infections: how do antibiotics affect our vaginas? Medications vs boric acid. How do condoms, lubes and sperm affect our PH levels? (13:20)
Online medical solutions: WISP (@hellowisp), and finding the right resources online. (20:21)
Can our body be trying to tell us something? Irregular PAP smears, precancerous cells and LEEP procedures. (22:21)
How does our diet affect our vaginas? Sugar, antibiotics, muscle testing and getting yeast infections in foreign countries, plus coconut oil has anti fungal benefits! (26:21)
UTIs: peeing protocol, the right cranberry supplements, the right things to wash with, and why Elle doesnât recommend douching. (33:36)
Vagina upkeep: how to keep your vagina healthy on lifestyle vacations, at sex parties etc. What do Elle and Vee have on hand during, and what to use beforehand and afterwards. (42:21)
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Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend. After the 2022 edition, the girls debriefed their weekend, including:
How to throw a great sex party! Valuing comfort: whatâs on the checklist when setting up as a host? (2:42 )The girls share their intentions, and what they learned from implementing them, including communicating your desires in the moment, and acting on your sexual feelings. (8:33 )
Elle shares a fun, sexy moment and the girls talk about the benefits of private versus public play. (10:20 )
Vee shares a story about a foursome, and how that experience helped her exercise her intention of acting on it when you feel sexual, and how âbreaking the sealâ of sexuality gets you in the mood for more sex. (14:45 )
BDSM and Spanking: Elle gives the play by play of a BDSM impact play scene, Vee talks about what she gets out of being the sub in an impact scene (spanking), and how BDSM can help you go deeper. (19:10 )
Observing the difference in your energy when youâre at a party solo versus with your partner. (27:45 )
Prioritizing time with your partner at parties. (29:19 )
How to break the ice and force yourself to socialize with everyone at a party! (32:55 )
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